Alcohol, Schoolies & Universal Medicine: Something worth Talking About

by Luke Yokota, High School Student, Gold Coast, Australia

I’ve been around the work (Universal Medicine) now for about 4 years. During that time I have seen many changes in myself and others. I might add that when I started I was only 14 years old. You might say that because of my age it was only natural that I was changing and developing as a young man… and whilst that may be true, I still find it interesting to reflect on the ways I have changed, and wonder how different it would be if I didn’t have the inspiration of Universal Medicine and my fellow students.

I would say that through attending the workshops and courses I have been given many opportunities to assess my choices in a much more responsible manner. For example, during my final year in schooling we had many guest speakers come into the school to give talks on how to be safe at ‘schoolies’ – such as the Red frogs (Christian aid organisation), St John’s ambulance service and Queensland Police.

And of course, being in close connection with ‘schoolies’, the topic of alcohol and how to keep safe whilst drinking was high priority. Here were some of the suggestions the speaker from St John’s ambulance service had to share with us:

  • Have a designated driver.
  • Hide your keys from your intoxicated mate so he wouldn’t be able to drive.
  • Park your intoxicated mate in so they can’t move their car.
  • Get one of your attractive female friends to ask to borrow the keys to your intoxicated mate’s car.

But I think they left out one 100% sure-fire way to make sure no-one intoxicated came to or caused any harm.

LEAVE THE BOOZE OUT!

I was surprised that this didn’t even come up as a suggestion, even though it was a room full of teenagers (mostly underage) who were about to go to ‘schoolies’… I would have thought that at least it would come up in passing. Wouldn’t it have been amazing for a room full of teenagers to hear from authority figures – such as the QLD Police or the St John’s ambulance service – that Not Drinking was an option as well?

You may say that not drinking is an assumed option… but is it really?

Ever since I started high school I’ve heard nothing but the glorification of ‘schoolies’: the getting wasted, the one-night stands with complete strangers and the all night partying. Imagine all that pressure to do all those things, from all your friends, for over 5 years in high school. How could you possibly think that not to drink was even an option when there had been so much hype beforehand?

“Hey man, we are gonna get so wasted at ‘schoolies’”.

There never really seemed to be any choice to me – just an assumption that we must partake in this activity, almost like a compulsory rite of passage. So I ask, can ‘not drinking’ really be an assumed option when no one has ever said it?

I researched a few points from the Australian Institution of Criminology in relation to alcohol violence.

According to the National Drug Strategy Household Survey (NDSHS), in 2007 approximately:

  • 1 in 4 Australians were victims of alcohol-related verbal abuse.
  • 13 percent were made to feel fearful by someone under the influence of alcohol.
  • 4.5 percent of Australians aged 14 years or older had been physically abused by someone under the influence of alcohol (AIHW 2008).
  • One-third (30%) of assault charges are likely to be attributable to alcohol.
  • Almost half (44%) of all intimate partner homicides, and the majority (87%) of intimate partner homicides involving Indigenous people, are alcohol related.

So why didn’t any of the guest presenters speak about ‘Not Drinking’? Surely this would have been the most effective method on minimising harm done at ‘schoolies’.

Universal Medicine, on the other hand, has allowed me to grow up seeing that:

  • To be loving and tender is ok, (it’s beyond ‘ok’; it should be normal).
  • Women deserve to be treated with love and respect, not as the lesser gender.
  • It is wise to implement measures to take care of myself, such as being in bed by 9, eating out of respect for the body, and making more effort to create harmonious relationships with everyone I meet.

The point that I wish to express here is, that if Serge Benhayon can present in such a way as to inspire an 18 year old boy so that he would much rather create deep meaningful relationships with everyone he meets, and treat himself and others with respect, rather than destroying himself with drugs and alcohol, then Universal Medicine is definitely something worth talking about.

Reference:
Australian Institution of Criminology: http://www.aic.gov.au/publications/current%20series/rip/1-10/04.html

299 thoughts on “Alcohol, Schoolies & Universal Medicine: Something worth Talking About

  1. Thanks Luke for highlighting these statistics on alcohol, these are shocking stats and should be sending alarm bells through the community about how we can educate and protect especially the younger generation to not fall into the trap of drinking and seeing it as something ‘normal’ and the only way to enjoy your friends company.

  2. It’s sad that what you talk about Luke is so ‘special’ and ‘abnormal’. Shows how settled we are as a society at the normalisation of drinking poison for a good time! But how can we be having a good time if drinking alcohol immediately makes us something we are not? Disconnection in a bottle and it’s how we socialise – we need to make a new normal.

    1. I see many young students, part-taking in the studies of ‘The Way of The Livingness’ making a new normal and it is magnificent to feel their power, self-confidence and presence.

  3. What a blessing to have found Universal Medicine as you were going through those changes in life, that you had such a strong positive influence asking you to simply be yourself.

  4. Luke what an opportunity to attend Universal Medicine while you were a teenager, and really interesting how the lectures you had at school didn’t actually say leave the booze out, to choose not to drink when everyone wants to experiment with it takes someone who cares deeply for themselves. Beautiful to read how inspired you have been through Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine.

    1. Through Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine, teens and adults alike are given the opportunity to come back to their true selves.

  5. “So I ask, can ‘not drinking’ really be an assumed option when no one has ever said it?” Good question Luke and I like it that you as a teenager put your finger on this topic as it seems through my own experience as a teenager that most of them are loosing their connection to their body to feel what is good for them and what not. I have lost myself completely and I would have made a different choice if I would have met Serge Benhayon at that time.

  6. Luke you are an inspiring young man, a true role model for both young and old…thank you for sharing (and educating) us all.

  7. Solutions are never the true answer. We will only have the true answer if it comes from a place which is different in consciousness that the problem itself. Trying to find a way to amend safety from alcohol cannot come from the same place that alcohol consumption is taken to be normal.

  8. I find it hugely sad that this is the accepted normal for teenagers – I myself was this way and didn’t know there was another way. What a beautiful reflection you offer Luke.

  9. Brilliantly exposed Luke: the degree in which society accepts and promotes the drinking of alcohol to school pupils, when those ‘responsible officers’ could so easily have offered another option ‘Don’t start drinking’ and given them a presentation on the consequences of alcohol abuse using the statistics you’ve shared with us.

  10. Luke, I feel your love and care for both yourself and others here. You show us all what is possible. And how crazy is it that not drinking is not even suggested, it just shows how steeped in drink culture we are, such that we aim to minimise the harm without looking at the cause (alcohol).

  11. “I would say that through attending the workshops and courses I have been given many opportunities to assess my choices in a much more responsible manner.” I have witnessed this evidence in so many young adults and teens attending to Universal Medicine events. It seems that they are given a true foundation and are able to access a deeper connection with themselves and the responsibility they are embracing is awe inspiring.

  12. “I would say that through attending the workshops and courses I have been given many opportunities to assess my choices in a much more responsible manner.” This opportunity is a most magnificent blessing offered to all and it is most wonderful to see how many young people are embracing this responsibility, naturally through the teachings offered at Universal Medicine.

  13. The message ‘don’t drink and drive’ is exposed in this blog. What we need instead are the messages and role models that say ‘don’t drink alcohol’, ‘love yourself’ .

  14. Someone close to me died on their eighteenth birthday, a consequence of being the front seat passenger, in a car driven by someone who was under the influence of alcohol, as were all passengers. The devastation caused to families is still felt today. And yet drinking alcohol is an accepted feature in most families. True education begins in the home and parents our first role models and teachers. Thankfully, more families are choosing to not drink alcohol at all, not for car safety, but health related reasons.

  15. Sometimes it seems when talking about prevention we are so focused on providing ways to reduce harm we leave out the obvious!

  16. ‘The point that I wish to express here is, that if Serge Benhayon can present in such a way as to inspire an 18 year old boy so that he would much rather create deep meaningful relationships with everyone he meets, and treat himself and others with respect, rather than destroying himself with drugs and alcohol, then Universal Medicine is definitely something worth talking about.’ Awesome Luke, and really needed today.

  17. Does it show that we have given up on offering healthier choices to young people because not having booze didn’t even come up as a choice, or is it that those offering the advice don’t think to suggest this because they couldn’t imagine that themselves and don’t see it as realistic. Either way, our normalising of alcohol and stigmatising of a sober life is a sad reflection of our level of care and role modelling we offer. Perhaps if more adults demonstrated how normal and fun life is without alcohol, more teens would be less inclined to wear drunkenness as such a badge of honour.

  18. Leave the booze out has not been an option because the people talking about ‘drinking in moderation’ and other such measures are drinkers themselves and don’t want to take the responsibility of being role models to others and especially the younger generation.

  19. Luke you have nailed it with this blog, and in its simplicity, you have also exposed the ridiculous choices that we can sometimes make thinking that that it is the only option. But if we were to open our eyes, and truly look with a willingness to see, we would see that those choices are simply an awful distraction, conjured up to keep us away from the awareness of the amazing beings that we are. Your blog has hit home with me, in the sense of feeling the devastation of our youth and how it does seem like there is only one choice which is to follow the masses and go to ‘schoolies’ and get ‘wasted’…With someone like you standing strong and confident in your choice to respect yourself and those around you, this at least gives every other teenager a reflection and a reminder that there is another way. Thank you so much Luke for all that you bring, not just to your generation but to us all!

  20. It takes someone to be a role model to inspire another to do likewise. The question is what kind of role model do we want for young people – one who drinks and trashes themselves, sleeps around and has little to no respect for themselves and others? Or one who deeply cares for himself and his fellow human beings, who is there to light the way by bringing depth to relationships, and reminding everyone of an olde way of being that is so beautiful to re-connect with? Thank you Luke for presenting the latter!

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