646 thoughts on “Serge Benhayon – A True Role Model”

1. We are love, and are here to reflect being love, as the Gods we all are.

2. Reading about your relationship with Serge Benhayon is making me wonder my part of responsibility as a role model. I have been observing the behaviour of the young staff members in their 20s and 30s at my work place and feeling like an old person, like there was no way I would be able to effectively communicate with them, and in my honesty, I was coming to a place of like I don’t care about them enough to even start a conversation. I can feel how I was judging them according to my own scale of decency, and how I want them to be different and basically I have an investment in the outcome if I was to reflect something to them, but the question now is what exactly am I reflecting?

3. Serge Benhayon has inspired many people to be role models to others, role models in how to be with people without the judgement, without the projection, with patience & understanding. It is very needed in society and more and more of us are learning to be this way.

   1. And Serge Benhayon keeps on inspiring more and more people with the way he lives, how he moves, and how he is with people…such an incredibly amazing being.

4. Serge Benhayon has so much integrity that we can all learn a valuable lesson from simply being with all that he has so lovingly made available.

   1. Serge Benhayon has integrity from beyond, he takes integrity to a whole new dimension, so beautiful, and needed.

5. “a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving.” Serge Benhayon does not judge anyone for the choices they make, he feels the truth of the essence of all.

6. What you are describing here James to me is true love
   “Serge he has been there; he has never once minced his words or dumbed them down for me. He has given them to me straight and it was always exactly what I needed to hear… without fail.”
   It is the love that he holds us in that speaks to us and resonates in our bodies, we then have a choice to heed the words or not, that is our free will. There are no words that I can use to describe that we have the free will to listen or not, it is never judged and we are never less than the absolute love Serge Benhayon knows us all to be.

7. There are incredible people in this world – we can either discount them or learn and be deeply inspired by them and allow that to bring absolute magic to our lives. This is one such incredible man – that you discount at your own loss.

   1. Absolutely Meg, ‘ This is one such incredible man – that you discount at your own loss.’

8. Serge sure, just like we too can be as the true roles are needed especially as people are starting more and more to question how we have been taught life to be.

9. ‘He has given them to me straight and it was always exactly what I needed to hear… without fail.’ Now this is love. Another person knowing you are amazing and never speaking to you as if you are any less. For some this is too much to handle because it asks us to be our amazing selves and drop all the mistrust, fear, investment in what isn’t love. But when you do embrace it, it’s amazing.

   1. I agree Karin it sure is amazing when you embrace it when someone is pulling you up and reminding you of the love you are, I find it interesting how for me whenever it has been done whilst it may not initially be what I want to hear my body goes yes and it makes sense yet for a bystander they may think that was a harsh comment.

   2. Serge Benhayon presents the truth, some may find this challenging; presenting the truth is also being love with the person.

10. Yes this needs to be celebrated, as it serves to step out of the comfort and truly get ourselves out of the imprisonment that is our reality. The teachings of Universal Medicine show that there is a true way out – by our own will power.

    1. There sure is a way out of the mess and imprisonment we are in and as you say Danna it is from within us and nothing outside of us will ever do it for us or bring us anything we could not already connect to within.

11. Only a few who are willing to stand in truth right in the opposite current. Those who are I deeply admire for their absolute strenght and willingness to seek truth over comfort (lies). One of these people is Serge Benhayon, in his commitment to absoluteness and love for humanity he stands there tall, like you said not for himself but for us all. Now we need to applaus for that, for only very very few would take that place.

    1. Totally agree Danna – not many would take that place because there is such a backlash against being shown what love is – and not the make believe love that many seek or hope for. What Serge Benhayon presents is bound to receive retaliation on a huge scale because all our choices to seek comfort in whatever varied form that takes, are so prevalent in all aspects of society and life. Even those battling against him cannot, underneath all the lies, deny there is a man who lives the love that we all are, who loves us to the bone, more than we ever love ourselves right now, and is standing up for us so that we can realise we too are love.

       1. Yes Karin, and from this retaliation only greater illusion exists, that eventually needs to be exposed for what it is and detached from. Until love is love again.

    2. Indeed Danna, It is ‘his commitment to absoluteness and love for humanity’ which is second to none and inspiring, showing us all that we too can live in this way and not be affected by what we see. Rather to embrace the love we are and live that, as the only true and real change is within, the outer is then simply a manifestation of this.

    3. Serge’s love for humanity is absolute, it is true, it is like nothing I have seen before, it is like a God walking amongst us.

12. Serge Benhayon is a true role model, someone who lives and breathes an immense love for humanity, equally so. In his presence we are reflected that the love we feel from him is also the love that dwells deep within us, he is not special as one above us, but as one equal with us..

    1. Indeed Jill it is the equality Serge lives with and presents which makes him stand out among other presenters as he offers us the space to be equals and never puts himself as better than anyone else.

    2. The immense love, the equal-ness, and the humility, are just some of the magnificent qualities that are reflected to us by Serge Benhayon.

13. “I have never once felt an ounce of judgment from Serge. This is remarkable in itself” – absolutely yes, and testament to the inordinate amount of observation Serge holds for people through holding that same amount of observing of himself. When there is observation there is understanding and when there is understanding, judgment falls short in any appeal whatsoever or action.

    1. Judgment cannot exist when we are truly observing and understanding life and its movements. The more I allow myself to see what is going on and why, the less reactionary I am to live and the more I see mine and everyone else’s part to play, so there are no innocent bystanders.

       1. Serge never judges, which is incredible. Judgements can be very small and sneaky, Serge remains observing and simply holding us in love, who we are in truth.

14. Every step Serge Benhayon takes invites us to walk with him, in equality, in love and in return to our true way of being.

    1. It sure does Matilda and the more we walk with Serge the more we see we too are the same.

15. What I love about Serge is his ability to say it straight, cut though any rubbish, deliver something you may not want to hear all with an absolute enormous amount of love.
    Oh how we/all of us/the world are truly blessed.

    1. We sure are truly blessed to have someone who is not afraid to say the words we need to hear. Serge holds us in love and the rest is up to us. To give anyone this opportunity is the best gift we could ever give.

16. I have read these words many times over in other writings about Serge Benhayon “Everything Serge presents he has lived”, and I always ponder how is it that Serge lives what he says? This man is Worldly he plays it BIG. He connects to the all to know the all. Connecting to the all he responds in a way that is developing the all. He writes books to leave behind and presents truth. There is something about writing your truth. It brings your body alive and expression out for all to see because we need to be seen for who we truly are — we are more than just human beings on earth — we originate from a source that is not from this plane of life.

    1. Very true Rik, we need to play BIG, as ‘we are more than just human beings on earth’, to play the game of being less is merely an excuse to not be in the fullness of the love that we are and claim our origins, otherwise we make life purely about bettering the human existence, which has only taken us further away from the love we are from.

17. We sure are Elizabeth, blessed in more ways than we can fathom.

18. Serge Benhayon is 100% loving never judging and always accepting of where we are at, he is definitely a true role model.

    1. Serge sure is a true role model for us all, no matter what our age, gender, nationality is and has paved the way for how we can and naturally are with each other, just have gotten lost along the way.

19. Serge Benhayon is for me an inspiration to live with and the real role model to observe and live up to. But not in the way that I feel he is more than I am, but in a way, I do feel to be completely equal to him and can live like him too. It is only a matter of choice to choose for a life of healing instead of staying with the choice I made before which is to live a life of harming.

    1. Very true Nico, a true role model like Serge presents and lives the equality with all so no one is lesser and offers us the support and reflection to live the equalness and grandness that we too are. If no one was reflecting who we were we would stay lost, it just takes one person like Serge has done to start to reawaken humanity up to the love we all equally are.

20. I agree with you James, Serge Benhayon should be celebrated instead of being defamed because people do not like the clarity and transparency he brings to us all.

    1. It is an interesting point Nico that someone who is the epitome of love gets defamed in the media and attacked. It goes to show how much we resist the love we are, as when we allow it, naturally we celebrate and appreciate others who are, or have chosen to live their life based on love.

       1. True James, it is the love that is equally in us we resist the most when Serge Benhayon unconditionally is presenting that.

       2. It makes no sense we resist that which we are from and are by essence. Serge Benhayon shows us we do not need to resist it anymore and can live the love we are in full.

21. Serge Benhayon has inspired me also to be more responsible in the way I live. I’m so much more aware that all of my actions and thoughts and the way in which I express has a ripple effect that then affects everyone. There is a huge responsibility in that and this man lives it. He is indeed a true and loving role model and one that I will be forever inspired by.

    1. That is great Heather and true for many of us, one of the things here with the responsibility is that we also are not perfect as Serge keeps reminding us and so we will make mistakes, but it is how quickly we recover and come back to the love we are that matters, as then everyone else gets to see what is possible and how they too can be living.

22. As a young girl I looked for role models and what I found were singers who spotlighted because of their abilities or physical appearance. They were special to me because they were different but always left me with a feeling of emptiness inside. If they had it all, what about me? Who I was then? I couldn’t find a true reflection in anyone. Today I understand that all I received were images but nothing that emanated from within. In fact, some of them went down the path of alcohol, drugs till the end of their lives. So, what kind of model do I really was following?

    At age 28 I met Serge Benhayon who left me with a very different feeling within. The steadiness and lightness of his movements, the playfulness and depth of his expression made me stop and see a loving man who was not afraid to show his tenderness. I could see me for the very first time, for the very precious, delicate and beautiful woman I am. A true Role Model for me who reflects to all Humanity how amazing we all really are.

    1. I do recognise that too Inma, that the role models that are on offer to us are more so to keep us trapped into the same illusion altogether rather then to get us of of it, like for instance Serge Benhayon is living for us.

    2. That is gorgeous Inma, that you know can see and appreciate and adore ‘the very precious, delicate and beautiful woman’ that you are. It is one of the greatest gifts we can give another; to allow them to see the true depths of love and beauty that they are.

23. Its true what you say James. I have seen many a long line of people at events to speak to Serge during breaks and there is never a rush to get through everyone and everyone is given the time and space they need. Every conversation is a deeply held connection. Its beautiful to see.

    1. It is beautiful to see and is remarkable how no one is ever left needing or wanting more. The more we bring this quality to everyone we meet through every interaction slowly just like Serge has done with many of us we will start to rebuild our trust back with humanity rather than thinking we need to withdraw and not be fully open with others fearing reactions that may come our way.

24. Those who know Serge Benhayon know the truth of who he is and what he stands for in life and will not be swayed by sections of the media, who try and convince otherwise. Once can simply see the way the stories circulate and recycle themselves without any truth and also saying things in a way that invites assumptions. But none of this is true. The real story with Serge Benhayon is all there in the public for anyone to access, but as yet those in the media prefer their recycled versions that are not true.

    1. I agree Jennifer, ‘Those who know Serge Benhayon know the truth of who he is and what he stands for in life’. He is transparent and open for all to see and has absolutely nothing to hide, nothing hidden in the closet, no dark secrets. It is this openness which is not common that makes Serge stand out and also for people wanting to keep things hidden away, it makes them uncomfortable because it exposes the choices we have and continue to make. So we can either be inspired by Serge or try to bring him down.

    2. And unwavering Serge Benhayon continues his work, with a view so far beyond the circulation and re-circulation of gossip and conjecture – his steadiness, consistency and love for humanity are unshakable.

25. I completely agree that Serge is a role model in every sense of the word – you only have to look at the way he has handled so much media attack and defamation – with constant integrity, understanding and never with any malice, hate or judgement or even resentment or frustration – and that’s just one small part of what makes him a truly amazing human being.

    1. I agree Meg, there are not many people I know who would have been able to handle such an attack, as you say ‘with constant integrity, understanding and never with any malice, hate or judgement or even resentment or frustration’. He has set the standard for how we can all be and how important it is that we never hold any judgement over anyone however extreme their behaviour may be.

26. Most role models as you mentioned James are successful in one area of life, one topic or subject but what is the quality of the rest of their lives? We look up to those at the ‘top of their game’ so to speak but they don’t stay at that top 24/7. Serge Benhayon on the other hand doesn’t have a peak or a top of his game, it’s all one and the same life to him.

    1. Very true Leigh, the more we see everything as one life we see that no matter how great or successful we may be in one area if it is not the same in all areas then something is missing. It could be said we are only as good as our lowest point.

27. Our role models of today generally are championed because of the success they have achieved one way or another. However, what we do not take into account enough is the quality of the success that we are championing. Generally, many have achieved certain feats or goals in one aspect of their lives that appear to be extraordinary but is the quality of life they live one of true fulfilment, of true settlement, of honouring themselves and others equally, of true decency and integrity through and through, and how they live is then a reflection of this? Serge Benhayon is a role model in many ways of how a true role model offers inspiration to all equally to be and live the full potential of who we are, so that we too can be role models for all those who yet have not realise the greatness they are is also waiting to be lived.

    1. Very well said Carola, true success is achieved in all areas of our lives and cannot be isolated to any one area otherwise we have the highs and lows which have no true settlement. When we can bring our all to every area of our lives we know that what we do completes, with nothing lacking and so the settlement comes. Serge Benhayon is a great role model for this as his focus remains the same regardless of what he is doing, everything matters and everything we do affects everything we do. So the way we are in one moment directly affects the way we are in the next.

28. ‘Everything Serge presents he has lived.’ Very true James, Serge Benhayon is so inspiring because of the strength of his livingness, he doesn’t talk at you with knowledge, he walks his talk and when he presents you can feel how solid and unwavering is his commitment to truth and love.

    1. I completely agree Anna. It is interesting how so often most of us speak with knowledge about how we want or wish things to be rather than actually living what we know 1st and then speaking with the authority of the lived experience. As you say Serges ‘solid and unwavering is his commitment to truth and love’ is something that is evident to all and very inspiring.

29. It feels like we’ve been championing and celebrating wrong kinds of role models all along. It’s not about being perfect, but what I can feel is how we’ve wanted to be met by someone who we can completely trust – someone who unconditionally loves like God does, but having that hanging almost as a condition for us to say yes whilst actually given up on that possibility which can actually serve as an alibi. Saying yes to what is truly true is part of taking responsibility.

    1. I agree Fumiyo and love how you say ‘Saying yes to what is truly true is part of taking responsibility.’ So often we can think of responsibility as a role or a doing but it is simply saying yes and then being obedient to the love, without needing any picture or it to look any way.

30. Very true Richard, Serge Benhayon shows us what is possible for us all to live, and the more we live the truth and love we know the more enriching life becomes for all.

31. We are all role models in one way or another so the question is what role are you modelling? One that heals or one that harms? One that evolves, inspires and serves all or one that serves another purpose?

    1. Serge Benhayon is a true and loving role model. I have observed him closely since 2004 and been inspired and empowered to embrace a way of living such that I myself have now become a true and loving role model. It is incumbent on each of us to be aware of what we are reflecting and the power of that.

    2. That is a great question Nicola and one worth pondering on. Even when we think no one is watching us someone usually is and so in every moment we can either inspire another to return to living the love they are or to simply continue on with the struggle with no other seeming way possible.

32. “Serge has not held back with what has needed to be said, even if at times it has been tricky and I would say difficult.” This is a tribute. Think how hard it is a lot of the time to speak and hold your truth giving it your all everytime and all the time. Serge Benhayon does — a true role model for many centuries to come till the end of time as we know it.

    1. ‘Serge Benhayon…a true role model for many centuries to come till the end of time as we know it.’ He shows us and has shown us that we can live the love we are without any need to hold back or try to fit in rather just be the the fullness of the love we are in every moment. So rather than trying to fit in with the world around us, Serge has shown us how we can can reverse this and make love the normal, not something we try to bring into life and better it.

33. There are two kinds of role models. We choose them discerningly. On the one hand, those that invite you to be more. On the other hand, those that invite others to be like them.

    1. Simple but true Eduardo, it is subtle but a massive difference. I find those that invite you to be more, are saying you too are the same just like me rather than getting you to look up to them and adore them. So one brings connection and the other confirms separation.

34. ‘The media hungers for exposing stories but in this instance have missed out on the greatest story of them all – a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving.’ Whilst this isn’t the sensationalism they usually go for, this is a story that needs to be told. However, Serge Benhayon’s actions and words will continue to inspire many for many centuries to come whether the media jump on board or not because when the truth is felt, this is all that is needed – it doesn’t need a newspaper journalist to confirm it for you.

    1. Very true Michelle, Serge Benhayon will be studied for years to come and when people are ready for the truth, as has always been the case, they will find it. We all know truth within and so do not need anyone or the media to confirm it to us.

       1. I was observing a biology lesson in school yesterday and the students were learning about smoking statistics. It was interesting that when the government banned cigarette advertising, percentages of the population who smoked started to fall – a no-brainer, yes. However, for all those of us who have ever smoked, myself included, we don’t really need the government to tell us smoking is bad for our health, we experience this at the first puff! Yes – it may take a little nudge to confirm what we already know to be true and for some of us that nudge needs to be over a longer period, but at the end of the day, we can’t deny the truth once we really allow ourselves to honestly feel it, but we won’t honestly feel it until we are ready to deal with the inevitable changes to our lifestyle that this feeling will precipitate.

       2. I agree Michelle well said, ‘we can’t deny the truth once we really allow ourselves to honestly feel it but as you say, it is only when we are ready to take responsibility and deal with what is before us, that we will fully implement and live the love we know.

35. Thank you James, for expressing what we truly feel is allowing ourselves to be heard. To be who you are and all that you are feeling is the most warm and loving feeling. That is why it is so important that we surrender to who we are and what we are feeling everyday.

    1. It sure is the most warm and loving feeling the more and more we surrender to who we are. Nothing I have found outside of myself or from another comes close to this feeling. Although when we come from this place and share with another we take things to another level.

36. Perhaps the most inspiring thing about Serge Benhayon is the fact that he is never ever doing anything for the exclusive benefit of himself at the expense of any other. It is an example of true leadership and utter humbleness with everything and everyone. Utterly amazing to say the least.

    1. It sure is amazing and deeply inspiring how everything Serge does is for the benefit of all. He never puts anyone down rather appreciates us no matter what – truly remarkable and shows how we can all live when we choose love 1st and foremost in our lives.

37. We all yearn for true role models. Yet with what’s on offer we don’t have much of an option and what society accepts as role models has a lot to be desired.

    1. Very true Nikki, however now there are more and more role models to be inspired by. The Girl to Women festival is a great example of how young girls and boys can be cherished and honoured for who they are and not think they need to be anything different for anyone.

       1. The best (and true) role models are the ones who allow and support you to feel your awesomeness just as you are.

       2. Very true Nikki, just being held, appreciated and fully accepted for being ourselves is so very confirming and one of the greatest gifts we can give another.

       3. We all know how if feels to be confirmed for who we are, to not be held in what we are not, but seen for the depth and truth of who we really are. Is this what we too offer others?

       4. We sure do by simply living and being the love that we are. Just as Serge has been for us, so too can we be for others.

38. ” Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.” getting self out of the way is something I am learning in relationship to family, that if I have an agenda I a simply serving myself and not the divine plan, Serge’s level of love and equality for humanity is absolutely amazing and inspiring, but also one we can each attain to if self is out of the way.

    1. So very true Jill, as you have shared the key is getting our self out of the way and not making life all about me and what I can get, rather making life about humanity and being all the love that we are, so we can reflect back to others and show them they too are equally divine.

39. I don’t remember longing for a role model as a child as I didn’t even know that word but maybe I did because I longed to meet someone I could truly connect to and I was looking for true love, as on a certain level I knew that everything that was presented to me as love was not true. My first experience of TRUE love (which is an energetic quality) was when I met Serge Benhayon and from that day my life, health, well-being, relationships – everything has transformed in the most wonderful and joyous way.

    1. I had a similar experience Nicola. I always longed for true love and connection with others, but did not find it until I met Serge Benhayon. Yes I had some great relationships, which from the outside looked deeply loving like with my family for example, but it always felt there was more and far deeper that we could go. Something I now feel I have with my parents and brother more than I ever did growing up, and this is largely thanks to Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine for inspiring us all to be and bring more of the love we are, not only to ourselves but also to all others. The more we deepen our love with ourselves, the more we then share of our true selves with others and it becomes less and less about what I can get out of this situation and more about what can I bring.

       1. It is simple mathematics isn’t it – we can’t share something we are not living or don’t have or have so buried deep we are disconnected to!

       2. Agreed completely – science and mathematics combined.

       3. Equally, we can’t not share something that is overflowing.

40. In the past I often gave my power away to people I thought were my ‘role models’ in healing and were never asked to do so.

    I first met Serge Benhayon in 2014, a person who treats everyone as his equal but also shares real wisdom that is non imposing or tarnished with cultural side effects.

    I love this ‘Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self’ – couldn’t be more truer than this.

    1. I love that you have felt the same thing Shushila, knowing that Serge is simply showing us what is possible when we choose love and commit to it in full, helps bring back a trust in humanity and a knowingness of where we are from. We can no longer say we have not been shown a reflection of the love we are and so have a responsibility to also reflect it back to others, so they too will no longer be lost as we once were.

41. “Everything Serge presents he has lived.” The role model Serge presents is for each and everyone of us to be who we truly are.

    1. By being fully open with us, even about his flaws, Serge shows us we are all the same in human bodies and so we are never going to be perfect. By showing us this equality Serge removes any notion of being gifted or special rather shows us it is simply about the way we choose to live and that we all have the same propensity to live the love we are know deep within.

42. A true role model does not impose, but simply offers a reflection of that which of truth and aligned to the constant pull of evolution and Serge Benhayon is definitely that and more, always reflecting us a way that is simple and joyful when we live from an open heart.

43. Serge is the greatest listener – He does not just listen he is deeply connected, knows who he is and therefore knows that what he offers is from this deep connection – a connection that is based on all as One.

    1. That is a very good point Rik, ‘Serge is the greatest listener’ and it is one of the reasons we all love him because he allows us to be and does not judge us, no matter what we may be saying or however many times we have kept making the same ill choices, he remains the same, the rock of the ages – forever unwavering.

44. I can relate, I too yearned for a true role model, somebody who I would be able to share with discuss life. I have found this role model in somebody who is inspired by Serge, a woman who has taught me more about life than blood related family, teachers, lecturers or friends. Somebody who wakes up in the morning ready to be of service to humanity, that is the kind of role model that we should all have in our lives.

45. Yes you are one of thousands James, but all equally precious.

    1. Thank you Simon, as are you. It takes away the notion that it is any one person rather all of us working together.

46. Being met with openness and acceptance allows people the space to actually be who they are and not their protective ‘go-to’ alter-ego that usually runs the show.

    1. Very well said, Serge Behayon is a great example of someone who gives people this space without demanding or needing anything from you and so naturally being offered this space we get to see things more clearly. And Serge is not alone for we can all do this and it is one of the greatest gifts we can give another.

47. I always found it amazing people like Serge who didn’t follow a traditional path and have successs in doing something of their own accord – I’ve felt that I held those with more job security as the most “correct” forms of jobs but love seeing those who lead with something different.

    1. I know what you mean, we are taught that security is everything yet the only true solace I have found is within the inner heart, the moment I get attached to something on the outer and put that 1st I lose myself and erode the sense of love in my body. Yet when I keep love at the forefront in everything I do and focus on this quality the everything else gets taken care of. The security issue then does not arise because by taking care of myself I am also taking care of everyone else. Whereas when I focus on security it is all about me usually at the expense of everyone else.

48. ‘Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.’ You highlight a great point with this statement James, Serge Benhayon is equal to everyone he never wants you to put him on a pedestal in anyway, he is a man who shows us there is a different way to live that is more loving and true.

    1. Well said Anna, it is the equality and humblesness which Serge Benhayon lives by and presents with that makes it all so real, practical and simple – almost too simple for the mind to fathom or comprehend at times. He is extraordinary yet completely ordinary and by being so shows us all that we too are capable of living a life based on love and that we do not need to have all the emotional ups and downs of life and the hurts that go with them.

49. Who we choose as role model speaks volumes about us.

    1. It sure does and there is no better role model than Serge Benhayon, who lives and walks his talk. No parade just pure love for humanity.

50. The Love that is felt within The Student to The Way of The Livingness for Serge Benhayon is fully complete and as a man who’s Love is off the charts it is astounding to say the least.

    1. It sure is and the moment we also see everybody as the love they are 1st and foremost then everything changes. No longer do we see purely the physical being and what comes out of peoples mouths as them, rather see everybody as vessels of love just not always ones choosing to express from this essence. So then nothing is taken personally, after all, we know deep down that love would never put anyone down so feel the game that is going on and being played.

       1. Yes we either play with the fire of the Soul, as you say – “He isn’t looking over your shoulder seeing how long the line is, but rather is focussed and gives his full undivided attention and presence to the person he is talking with.” This is truely being Soul-full and this means the game is up for any thing less than being connected to the Soul. When connected to the Soul one can only deliver “living lovingly” as normal.

51. To have a true role model, one who lives what he teaches with is love truth integrity in every way is rare in our society, and Serge is such a man. I feel honoured to know, love and experience the great amount of love he holds for all equally, and to be on earth at this time in earths history, is indeed a privilege.

    1. It sure is a privilege – even so I know I have taken Serge and all he represents for granted. The more I appreciate what he represents the more I also see and confirm it within myself. And so in turn can share it with others.

52. ‘Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self’. – A true role model where transparency, honesty, love and continuity in the way Serge Benhayon lives both professionally and in his personal life is available for our observation – a beautiful gift to humanity confirming everyday that there is another way to live.

    1. Serge Benhayon has shown us how we can live a one-life where we are the same love in every situation no matter who we are with. And then by focusing on this quality naturally it deepens and so we are then in turn more love with every one and so on.

53. Serge Benhayon is definitely a true role model, but we all are modeling one thing or another. We recognise truth in what he represents and many are very inspired by that, so the question then is what is the rest of us representing? What Serge lives is what we could also but have not chosen for a very very long time. We are already that, and we are simply being asked to consider stopping ‘not being that’.

    1. I agree Fumiyo what are we modelling and reflecting back to everyone else. I find people are watching us all of the time just like we watch other people. And we are either confirming the diviness we come from or we are confirming the suffering – theres no inbetween fence.

54. I feel very grateful that I have a role model like Serge Benhayon. Every time I hear Serge present on stage, I always think, damn that makes sense, or I knew that. Every time I am met by his warmth I know that I can be that warm too when I am feeling good but what astounds me is that it is some 13 years since I first met Serge and he is still the same solid consistent presence in my life. This man has always been a rock and a person you can trust and be supported by.

    1. I totally agree Sarah, it is the consistency Serge presents with and lives by which backs up everything he says. When he presents even though there may be a few hundred in the room, or even listening to a recording it is like he is speaking directly to me, in a way that I have not experienced with many other people.

55. Serge Benhayon is a constant source that inspires anyone and everyone to be more and offers a true reflection to how life could look like if we go for it. It seems to me the world is divided between those that allow that inspiration in and grow with it in spaciousness and those that approach such invitation to be more with supreme arrogance and only get inspired to get denser and denser and then reject evolution. We all feel equally what is on offer. Yet, behind that fact each of us has the right to go one way or the other. In one case, you can deeply appreciate what Serge offers and call him a true role model or in the other you can choose to blame others for your decision to be less and denser.
    Choices…

    1. Choices indeed and which ever choice(s) we make then support us to make more of the same choices. However when I do not choose love my body screams at me and so ai have to try to suppress it by food, tv, distractions etc.. yet when I choose love I am supported and feel at least content if not joyful.

56. We have been offered a reflection from heaven by Serge Benhayon, the quality of his movements and surrender to what is divine is what we are all to do once we let go of creation and that which keeps us trapped in the illusion of what is not.

    1. It is great to have Serge as a reflection of who we are in truth as someone who does not shy away from this fact and will not stop until every one of us knows this fact in full.

    2. I remember watching serge move through the crowd once, the ease in his body was so obvious. I cannot wait to live a life without the constant anxiousness and exhaustion that I cast upon myself, and watching Serge and a few other inspirational people really makes it easy for me to accept the fact that one day I too will live like that.

57. A true role model should be consistent and consider all facets of their life as equal. Too many people of today focus on only certain areas of their life and make those a success at the expense of and compromising the quality of other parts of their lives. This does beg the question, if someone is successful in one part of their life but the rest of their life is a train wreck are they really that successful?

    1. It is a great point as what do we really judge as success. How can we say we excel at work yet have a chaotic family life? Surely if this is the case it cannot truly be successful at work. After all we cannot simply put a hat on to be a person at work amd take it off and be another person at home as everything we do affects the quality of being we present in every moment.

58. James a beautiful sharing, and from my own experience Serge Benhayon has never judged me, and whenever I have asked a question I have always been met with love, never any judgment or criticism, just an acceptance of where I am at, at that time. It has made me realise how much easier parenting would be if we treated children in the same way, with love, no judgment or criticism just a sharing of wisdom that deep down we know is true.

    1. We can extrapolate everything Serge Benhayon has presented to us to pretty much any and every area of our lives. And as you say the results would be so different – we just have to start with one area and build on that.

59. True role models are few and far between. Serge Benhayon is not only an incredible one, but as a result there are many hundreds, if not thousands more who have been deeply inspired by him over the past 17 years.

    1. I agree Jenny, it is a real joy to see how many people have truly turned their lives around and are now also role models just like Serge Benhayon has been for us.

60. When we see someone living in a way that is as inspiring as the life of Serge Benhayon we have a choice: to be inspired and make changes in our lives, or to react and resist inspiration. Interestingly my body chooses the former very naturally so and my mind with all its set behaviours and beliefs is more at ease with the no change, dig your heels in second option. As I develop a more complete relationship with life, guided and supported by my body’s responses rather than solely the isolated intellect of my mind, it becomes obvious and simple to let myself be inspired to change.

    1. It is fascinating how we have been so easily programmed to settle to keeping things the same and not changing even though we know and can feel the depths of love that we are. It is like we have an inbuilt mechanism inside us that says I’m ok where I am because I know this – yet we also know love so just need to override this mechanism and then its love all the way!

61. Thank you James, you make so many clear and powerful points which I wholeheartedly agree with from my own experiences with Serge Benhayon. I have talked to Serge about private matters a few times and he has never rushed it and always given his fullness to every moment with me – exactly as you have written, even with a queue waiting. It’s also a valid point about how difficult that can actually be to do ourselves because we have our own agendas and switch off from the other person, unable as Serge does to bring our all – yet I am very inspired to be like that myself! Serge is a very inspiring person in so many ways. Thank you for sharing your appreciation.

    1. Serge truly is a role model for all, it is his sheer and utter normaleness with no put on which makes him very special. I have not seen anyone who cannot relate to what he is presenting and there are not many if any other teachers I can think the same of.

62. I have also experienced what you describe here James from Serge Benhayon – telling it to me straight but without an ounce of judgment. Just this one thing alone is remarkable and very rare in human life and something I treasure very much and have found very inspiring.

    1. I agree Andrew it is very inspiring to be told it straight, what you need to hear but without any judgment or need for you to change. It is like Serge gives you the space to be you and come to the realisations yourself. By not trying to change you, or needing you to change in a certain time or condemning you in any way is one of the best gifts we can give anyone.

63. Serge is gorgeous is every way. I feel blessed to have him in my life and blessed that he walks on this planet. He is a role model for what is possible as a human being.

64. I remember growing up and looking out into the world for role models. I ended up taking parts from many people to fit with what I needed. Some were true while others were from somewhere else but no one gave me the full picture. Serge Benhayon delivers the ‘full’ consistently and we are seeing many others doing the same, how you may ask? From the teachings of The Way of The Livingness. You can call something all the names you want but when it comes down to it this is a way of living that has not only stood the test of time but rings true at every turn.

    1. And that is the key Ray, with Serge Benhayon what you see is what you get in its entirety, yet without and never claiming to be perfect. It is his absolute commitment to people which shines through.

       1. You can really see how we are all like this, like Serge Benhayon lives. I remember this from young, I remember seeing this in my home town, in the cities, in places I’ve worked and the only difference is that it was never consistent, never constant and at times almost fleeting. Serge Benhayon backs it up, day after day, year after year and person after person. There is no on and off, private or public about him, it’s all on show for all to see if they choose. This is one of the biggest things I take from how he is, the consistency and so no matter what is going on the way he lives, the quality of care he has in each moment holds true.

       2. I agree Ray and for me and many others this consistency has enabled me to trust Serge Benhayon and what he is presenting. So I am not having thoughts, is this true or not, but rather how can I and can I incorporate this into my life, I can see it works but how far am I willing to go with it? Do I want to settle for a better life or do I, like Serge, want to go all the way and say only truth will do? I know I have done both and it is a constant choice but the more I say yes to truth and only to truth the more I also build consistency myself and then so more other people get to feel this me as well, and that is what it is all about; reflecting back to other people we are far more than purely what the eyes can see.

       3. Ah true inspiration through reflection, now I’d love to see that, “and that is what it is all about” We are not looking for others to be a certain way or to sing to a certain tune we are leading the way through the way we live, an ever deepening quality that goes out and never looks back.

       4. Inspiration through the way we live – it seems almost too simple to comprehend but is what has worked for me. Serge Benhayon’s consistency over the years has worn down any notion or thought that it is a put on or anything like this. If it was in any way it would not have lasted the test of time and just like Serge has done for us this is one of the greatest gifts we can give to another – the reflection of who they truly are.

       5. This is very true and when doubt hits you or questions are asked at times, it is the consistency of what has been shown to you that stands tall. When you can see and feel something like this in every way and at every point how can you question it?; you can’t. The only question will come from those that blind themselves through their choices. So in effect, it has nothing to do with Serge Benhayon or the person they are referring to but more a reflection for them to have a look at their blind spot.

       6. And Ray you are a great example of leading by the way you live in the community in Ballina – so you get to see your reflection every day!! 🙂

65. I feel what you have shared is spot-on James, as Serge Benhayon is so simple in his everyday approach to everything he does. What Serge Benhayon presents he lives, so much so that I can feel without reservation the fact that his life simply is normal. So normal that the rest of us have lost our way and by Serge Benhayon’s simple reflection we all have the choice to return to this normal way of living. The Livingness holds everyone in an equality that also feel normal and this, The Livingness is the simplest way to live by being with yourself or being connected to our inner-heart in all we do to the best of our ability.

    1. It is this ‘normality’ that is so deeply touching because we all know it deep within. It is also one of the stumbling blocks because it is almost too simple to fathom to live The Livingness – we have been so conditioned to think that life is a struggle when we find things simple we question can they be true rather than simply embracing all that is and has always been on offer.

       1. So true James, embrace and make the next step one of acceptance of the Love we all are and move into the energetic Truth of who we are.

       2. Acceptance is huge and something I know I do not do enough of. The more I come back to knowing that everything is within and stop the incessant searching outside of myself the more I surrender to the love that I am, as we all are, and the more I accept this the more I take it with me in every step.

       3. Spot on, every ‘step’ is like a stone that needs turning to see if we have an image that is hidden the ideals that we are lesser than the True role model we are.

       4. It is fascinating how easily images and ideals can creep in. The key is catching them and then we can let them go. Otherwise I find my focus goes from being everywhere slowly narrowing down to a point and essentially becoming all about me and what I want and what I can get.

       5. So True James and when it becomes all about ourselves we are in comparison with others instead of feeling the equality we all live in. So it is up to each of us to feel how normal it is to express when holding everyone as our equal.

       6. The more we hold everyone as equals the more we can be inspired by the choices they have made and so appreciate those around us rather than trying to compete or out do one another.

       7. Spot on competition is a killer, and sometimes it is that internal battle of wanting to be more, instead of the innate knowing we are all equal.

       8. I find that I always have that internal battle of wanting to be more going on as soon as I let go of simply being myself and honouring what I am feeling. After all when we are trying to be something for others we can never live up to it because it is a false picture that will always be out of reach. Whereas when we bring all that we are then irrespective of what is looks like we all get to be and feel the love we are which is more magnificent than any picture or anything physical could ever be.

       9. From our starting point of being at-least gentle, and then to be self-loving on our journey to Love there are many hurdles that we have to “honour” that are from our previous incarnations, which need to be dis-mantled so we can evolve back to True Love. Could it be possible that as we all get ahead on our True journey, and life becomes tumultuous that we loose sight of the greatness we all are? And as expression is a great leveller, as previously stated, we can ‘turn that stone’ as we learn to Truly express in a way that serves where we are all at!

       10. I agree Greg it can be all too easy to ‘lose sight of the greatness we all are’. I find the moment that I do, almost any self destructive behaviour is possible, as I tend to get some pretty crazy thoughts. Yet the moment I connect back to and feel the grandness that I and we all come from, suddenly life makes sense and everything is put into perspective. No longer am I simply a blind bystander, I now see I have a responsibility to live the truth I know, so I can be the beacon for other fellow beings who have simply lost sight of the light they are from.

       11. The thing is with crazy thoughts they are a dead give-away as they are definitely not coming from our essence!

       12. Very true Greg – when we stop to actually consider them we can see the ludicrousness of them. Yet when we go with them they can almost become real and so we can get a completely warped sense of reality and different version of events.

66. Inspirational re read of your sharing James! Thank you for taking the time also to reply to the many comments made above I have learnt much from all.

    1. Thank you Roslyn, I too have found it extremely revealing and building to read through and reply to the comments people have been making on the blog- each one is an expansion on what has been shared and takes it to another level and are a joy to read.

67. You have said it so clearly James: the media by focusing on the mistruths about Serge Benhayon that they have been fed are absolutely missing out “on the greatest story of them all”, a story, if it were to be told has the potential to turn around the lives of millions of people. So what scares the journalists off from telling this story? Maybe 1) it will not make them any money and 2) they may just realise that their lives are sorely in need of change. But the world needs true role models so it is our job to let them know that Serge Benhayon is exactly that, unwaveringly so.

    1. For me I feel that people do not generally want to be open and see quite how many loveless choices they have made in their lives and so are afraid of actually facing up to this fact. Yet love does not hold any judgement rather the more we go ok I messed up the more it embraces us. So yes with journalists the same goes for them. I also feel that a lot of us are caught in levels of comfort and so do not want to rock the boat – ie. if I say too much maybe I will get fired and lose my job etc.. what then. So we go down the negative track rather than seeing what would happen if I truly lived and expressed the love that I know within is on offer – what would happen then?

68. I have felt just the same, “This is remarkable in itself. For someone to tirelessly listen to all my ‘head talk’ yet be there fully with a loving tender presence, seemingly without any effort, is unheard of in everyday life…”, I often react when someone talking from the head or making decisions complicated and difficult… but I’ve never had Serge do that to me or seen him react with others. This quality inspires me greatly…. and how he holds people with so much love should be written about.

    1. Wow! Aimee I agree, what would life be like without all that head talk? I am working on this point daily and it is not as easy as it sounds, the idle chatter in my head at times needs to be extricated. .

       1. The key Greg as you have said is that ‘what Serge Benhayon presents he lives’. So then it is deeply felt. It is a bit like a doctor who smokes telling you not to smoke, it does not work. Whereas when you actually fully live what you are saying it makes a lot more sense to the other person and can be deeply felt.

69. This is beautiful to read James of your love and appreciation for Serge Benhayon and how he has graced thousands of people’s lives with his true love and care for humanity. Serge Benhayon is a man who truly walks his talk and his lived ways is deeply inspiring and supportive for us all – a true role model in every sense of the word.

    1. It is a great lesson for us all – walk your talk otherwise it changes nothing and people switch off. Live it in full and no words are needed because people feel it and this is what helps to re-ignite the flame within in full. For it is always there within us all just often has been hidden we forget we have it.

70. It is true James that the media have missed out on the biggest news scoop – that we have a human being of such integrity and lived love walking amongst us and whose teachings are so freely accessible to all is a truly remarkable story and one that should definitely be celebrated and shared.

    1. Looking back at history so many of the great teachers were not embraced when they were alive and it was only after their deaths that the masses really opened up to their teachings. The same may be so for Serge Benhayon but he is with us now so it is not, nor ever too late to truly embrace what is on offer and right before us.

71. It’s funny, I read these words from James and I still see how I try and fit them into my life. Like when someone does something and you copy it, in your own way of course. What is a true role model about and then how do we truly become or live as a role model. As I said our current method is to take something we see or like or appreciate in someone else and use it in our lives, in how we are but it seems this still comes from parts and not looking at everything.
    Serge Benhayon is how he is from the dedication he has to his every move and this dedication also isn’t how we usually see it. Dedication is seen as a task, something you concentrate on and usually it’s used in relation to making something better or similar. But this dedication is to true feelings, to love, to everything and so when we see a person like Serge dedicated you can see it in the usual way. You see it in every way, how he moves, the relationships and the enormous depth of relationship with everyone he knows and comes in contact with. It’s not to get around to everyone and make sure you are liked dedication, but more from the dedication to feeling energy that becomes exactly what you need to hear at exactly the right time, every time. From moving in every way with every thing gives you the space and time to be with everyone, now that’s a true role model.

    1. Well said Ray, I know what you mean how we try to take things we like and then fit them into our lives rather than looking at the whole and then changing the way we live. It is like we can only say yes to or accept a small amount but not the whole. And because everything is everything it means we cannot just address one area of our lives we have to address all areas of our lives.

72. Serge Benhayon is the most genuine, loving and caring man I have ever meet. The way he is and treats everyone is without a shadow of a doubt equal and no different to the way he is with his family. So transparent that you totally know what he is sharing is true because every word he speaks he lives. For someone to say otherwise they have not meet or spent anytime with Serge, simple.

    1. Well said Natalie, the fact that Serge Benhayon genuinely treats everybody as equals is one of the standout qualities that people who have had the pleasure of meeting him can feel. He does not put anyone or himself above anyone else and is there in full to support and assist when needed.

    2. Beautifully said Natalie, and for those of us who have not yet met Serge Benhayon to judge or label him in any way is misguided. We live in a world of false reporting (consider the current exposure and discussions about ‘fake news’), and therefore need to become more discerning and responsible about how and what we read, absorb and regurgitate as fact.

       1. So often things are masqueraded as facts when they are far from the truth. Something which Serge Benhayon presents is that we can all feel and discern energy and the more we do this the more we can read and feel whether or not what we are being told or presented with is truth or not.

73. Thank you James for a great sharing, one that I have experienced for myself also with Serge. We are so blessed to be living on this earth at these times of great light being shed amongst us, of who we are, where we come from and why we are all here, all of this is reflected to us by the way Serge lives his life, showing all that we too can be.

    1. And that is the key to what Serge Benhayon presents, it is that he is simply showing us ‘all that we too can be’. We just need to make the choices to make love our foundation and then live from there. Becasue we have all lived lives up to this point we are carrying past hurts, patterns and behaviours with us and so it takes time to let them go but the more we come back to love as our guide and marker the more fuller life becomes and the purposeful our days become.

74. A great reminder how fortunate we are to live in this world at this time. Even though the world is such a mess there is great hope too when we have a new religion such as “The Way of The Livingness “as presented by Serge Benhsayon that looks at the equality and Brotherhood of man. We are Love and come from Love! Thank you James.

    1. The world is in a mess but then it is great because things are starting to come out and be exposed and people can no longer get away with what they once used to. For too long we have effectively suffered in silence – sure what is coming up may not be pleasant but it is far better for it to be exposed than to stay hidden away, and thank God for Universal Medicine for showing us the way forth.

75. It is a sad truth but it is a fact that true role models are extremely rare in our world today. I feel very blessed to be able to say that I have found one in Serge Benhayon and as you say James, “Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.”

    1. The fact that Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us is what stands so true for me. So many people or presenters put themselves above others as being more gifted etc.. yet Serge constantly reminds us all that we are the same, just simply have made different choices and so anytime we choose to we can also make the same choices to live a life based on love.

76. It is so true James that today’s society is saturated with images and pictures from ‘role models’ that do not represent who they actually are or the real quality of life that they live. Yet we often follow these false images to shape who we are and as a result we develop a false sense of who we are. Even when we read what is behind these images, or the quality of life lived by these role models is revealed we override our sense of knowing and continue to follow this image as it is comfortable and convenient. In other words it is less confronting for us as we are not being asked to be more of who we are, or called to stand firm in the truth of knowing who we are regardless if we ‘fit in’ with those around us or not. Meeting Serge Benhayon has been and is eternally inspiring, as from the first moment I knew that I was so much more than what I had been choosing to live and I also knew that this connection to my knowing within was what I was searching for.

    1. We so easily get taken by the lifestyle and the images people put out yet seldom choose to see what is going on behind the scenes. However, when we look at Hollywood for example we are seeing more and more of what is going on behind the scenes being exposed and that, for example, the celebrity lifestyle is not all that it is cracked up to be yet so many of us desire or have desired it. People used to say to me consistency etc.. was boring ie. no all night drink or drug induced parties but why would you want to do that when you then have to pay for it the next day and probably longer – why would anyone logically want to do that to their bodies? and then what quality are you offering people? I have learnt that there is far more joy in living a loving consistent life than having the so called highs as they are always followed by a low and I have found they are not really ‘highs’ after all!

77. I had never looked for a role model in my life. I had never considered anybody as such until I met Serge Benhayon. He is THE role model. We are so absolutely fortunate to know him and to have the chance to receive his teachings in person. This possibility will not exist for future generations. Yet, our testimonies will be there for them to feel into the divines qualities of the being that is walking the Earth under the name of Serge.

    1. I never found a role model who I actually fully was inspired to be like. I was always looking to others for a way to be or a group to fit into but none were complete and everywhere I turned, whilst there was elements of truth, there were always major inconsistencies and things I did not agree with. Serge Benhayon has been the one of the few people in this world who has consistently offered me love and support without ever judging me. Also throughout the years I have known him he has not wavered etc.. nor has he tried to be perfect in any way – he is a true role model and one that will be known for the rest of time.

78. I think it’s difficult to put into words just how much Serge Benhayon gives to the world – from the presentations he gives that actually change your whole world overnight, to the amount of time and support Serge gives everyone he meets. He is truly remarkable, and no words I could say can do this man justice.

    1. I agree Meg – no words will ever suffice or even comprehend quite what Serge Benhayon is offering and has offered the world. We only need to look at the student body to see the vast life changing choices people have made and where they are today compared to when they first met Serge. As you say, he is truly remarkable, and he constantly reminds us all that we are also the same, which shows his true humbleness.

79. ” Serge, without fail, has time for everyone. He never rushes a moment with a person” So true. In one sense Serge Benhayon is the busiest man I know with presentations, book-writing and so many projects and daily emails, which he answers within 24 hours, sleeping for maybe four hours a night, yet he always has time for every person who wants to see him and ask questions, making it seem as if he has all the time in the world. – which of course he has – because he makes space, not time.

    1. It is amazing when we start to consider life as space rather than time – immediately my body lets go of a tension or pressure to get things done. Yet when I truly let go of time I get far more done than I can have thought possible. What I find is I just do what is there to be done and do not have all the silly distracting thoughts! Serge Benhayon presents it soo simply the mind cannot even fathom it!

80. What stands out about Serge Benhayon is his absolute dedication to living in a way that ensures he is very with everyone he meets; all of us can do this, but it take a way of living that considers everyone and not just ourselves and this is what Serge models for all he meets, and in doing so he inspires others to also live in a more loving and full way in their lives.

    1. What I find amazing is the reflection Serge Benhayon offers me. I know we are essentially the same yet simply choose to make different choices. Serge has shown me and all of us over the years that no matter what has happened nothing will affect the way he is with himself or with us. Serge has shown that making life about people and not himself is the key. I know that as soon as I make my life or a situation purely about me then I get completely caught up in it.

81. I loved what you have shared James about Serge, it is so true and the experience of many, many people, what Serge presents he lives in full, in his presence you can feel the love emanating from his being and you are held in this divine love, truly met. He is not special for the love that he holds, we all hold and can have access to if we so choose.

    1. We sure do Jill and that is what is so confirming about Serge as he re-awakens within us what we already know and is already there we just have been choosing not to access it. Knowing this and knowing there is no perfection is one of the greatest gifts we can give another and is something I am eternally thankful for.

82. I agree as well, it is amazing how insidious judgements we make of others and ourselves are and can be. Yet all they serve is to further separate us from each other rather than loving embrace the other and by doing so, without any words, reminding them of the love they are equally so.

83. What a beaut testament to the love the Serge Benhayon not only is but offers us all. It is outstanding what he offers us all – especially the no judgement one. I get caught up on that on (quite) a few occasions and he and his family are such an inspiration as to how you can live without judgement.

    1. The no judgement one is huge and is very rare in the world these days. To be around someone who simply allows you to be no matter what, is extremely freeing.

84. I love that you share that there is nothing inherently special about Serge Benhayon, and that we all have access to how he chooses to live. It’s true, we do, but do we choose it? Serge is brave enough to go there, but it doesn’t mean he has super powers. He chooses truth above everything else, and sometimes the truth is bloody painful but he doesn’t hold back, he stays steady and deals with it as it comes. It’s inspiring!

    1. It is great how Serge shares extremely humbly so that there is nothing special about himself and that we are all the same just not making the same choices. Serge shows us what we can live like if we so choose to and that is truly inspiring. He also knows we will all choose it one day and it is up to us when that day is so there is no judgement on us.

85. ‘He isn’t looking over your shoulder seeing how long the line is…’ This is so beautifully said, because this is absolutely true. Serge Benhayon does always have a number of people waiting to talk to him and no matter what, those people always get attended to, even if not immediately due to time constraints. He offers himself equally to all and you NEVER feel he is rushing the conversation or pushing you out the door.

86. It will be a long time before the media actually tell the true story about Universal Medicine and Serge Benhayon. But they will eventually catch up to what will then be millions of people around the world that know. How inspiring Serge Benhayon really is, how he lives his life, his dedication and commitment to people, and his capacity to be non imposing in any way at all and how this will inspire many other people to live in a way that reflects the same. The groundswell will be the story, the people will be the story and the media, for the most part will be sitting back and asking…”what, when and how did this all happen?”

    1. Indeed Jennifer and the question is how much deeper into despair does the world and humanity have to get before as a whole we start to truly seek the truth and so truly seek to change our ill ways?

87. “Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.” Serge Benhayon has opened my eyes and my heart to the true meaning of love.

88. Serge Benhayon is a true role model and can show us how consistency is key. James you are spot on – there is such a need for this consistency as a way of inspiring people that it is possible to live in a way based on responsibility and love. Serge Benhayon is a world teacher and has never held back from being so. He has inspired thousands to make simple and practical choices that are possible to live right now. Nothing he shares is owned – it is for everyone. That is true brotherhood.

    1. I agree, consistency is the key that wins anyone and everyone over. So often we see people do things but they do not last, they hit a point and then things fall apart – I feel for me this happens because there is usually an underlying drive, some sort of unsustainable put on. Whereas with Serge Benhayon, he lives with a very strong purpose and commitment to life and to humanity and so there is no plateau, no pea, rather a consistent deepening of the love that he is. By using love as a starting point of who we are – there is no trying just being. Whereas when we try to get to love we have a drive and an end picture which is why, at least I feel has been the case for me, that I have been so inconsistent in my life.

89. Serge Benhayon’s unwavering commitment to serving humanity and offering a truth and love that can be embraced and lived is admirable in the face of media vilification. It takes a great man to live with, and through the stories and lies spread, and continue to be loving with all who he meets without question or judgment. A true role model indeed.

    1. What shows is that Serge is not doing it for himself but rather for all of us, for all of humanity. Otherwise he would have retreated away.

90. ‘When I have gone astray from honouring and truly caring for myself…I have never once felt an ounce of judgment from Serge.’ I have shared this experience – in actual fact I have never felt more accepted for being just the way I am than by Serge.

    1. Me too Michael. The understanding, love and support I have received from Serge has been immense.

91. “Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.” He represents and lives true equalness and with this challenges the normalized standard quo and asks everybody to step up into full responsibility and live from that truth.

92. Serge Benhayon is a true role model as he does not live a role or has created an image of himself how he wants to be seen, he is just himself and lives himself in full in absolute integrity 24/7. This is by definition a true role model, someone who inspires others to be themselves.

93. I starting attending Universal Medicine courses in 2013 – around the time all the nasty media attention started and the lies began to be spread. This did not turn me off Serge Benhayon or what he presented. There was no way I could believe what the media was saying when I was standing in front of this man and feeling the dedication, love and truth he offered humanity in every step.

94. Great point about actually being there when people are talking to you. I know I have trailed off many times; I do it with my own partner let alone with strangers! Looking over their shoulder and thinking about all the other things I could be doing. As you say James, I’ve never come across this habit with Serge Benhayon. He is there 100% and one of the best listeners I know. Never does it feel like he wants to be anywhere else, because there is nowhere else to be, he is with himself in every moment and there is nothing to escape from. Now, that’s a true role model.

95. Absolutely Serge Benhayon is a true role model because of his ‘unreserved dedication to humanity’ rather than to self which is profoundly inspiring and deeply felt by all who meet him. Serge simply presents and lives a true way of being that he is constantly refining with no perfection and complete absence of judgement or need for others to ‘get it’. To be held in this love is truly amazing and many have turned their lives around with his consistent support but he remains humbly unwavering in his commitment to all.

96. James, I agree completely with what you have said about Serge Benhayon. If I had been asked 10 years ago if someone could live like this, I wouldn’t have thought it possible. Yet here is a man who lives an ordinary life doing extraordinary things and showing us all what is possible with commitment and dedication.

97. Thank you James you have summed up Serge’s way of being so well, we are so blessed to be here with him, on earth at this time,. He is our true role model, Heaven sent.

98. “Serge always has a queue of people wanting help or support with something. Serge Benhayon, without fail, has time for everyone. He never rushes a moment with a person.” What you say here is true James. It’s extraordinary to have the undivided attention of someone particularly when there can be many waiting to see them but with Serge never is there a lessening of that time and attention as he values each and every person equally and offers what is required at the time, no more and no less.

    1. I agree Deborah the way Serge holds everyone equally in love is extraordinary to feel and see, to witness this on a consistent basis inspires us to also bring this level of love to others in our own lives as well.

99. Serge Benhayon has and continues to be a source of inspiration to hundreds of people. Over the years I have noticed more and more people, myself included, using the way Serge and his family live as models for their own lives. As a result some remarkable changes have occurred as often testified through the various student blogs. I am extremely grateful to have such supportive influences in my life.

100. Serge Benhayon is our leading light showing us the way that we can all live with joy love and harmony, in total acceptance and equalness with each other, if we so choose to connect to our inner heart, and live from its love in fullness, as he has done.

101. There are so many gold points you make here James. In a world where is it not only not supported but championed to express the opposite there are people now choosing to connect to their love (that is within everyone and everyone has that same access) through the inspiration of a man who is unwavering in that connection and shares it for all simply to remind us of who we are and what we can very simply connect to too.

     1. Thank you Leigh, it is quite simply amazing what Serge Benhayon has stood up and claimed and how many people he has inspired to start to choose love and live in a more loving way with themselves and everybody else. Whilst the world is set up to make us look outside of ourselves for answers, Serge Benhayon has presented we have all the answers within we just have to choose to access them. Whilst it may sound simple and it is, what gets in the way is all our past choices and layers of protection we have amassed. The more we let go of these the more consistent our access to love can become and the rest is history. I know for sure my life would be very different, pretty much a complete mess, without Serge Benhayon presenting nothing but love to me.

102. I totally agree with all you share here James about Serge Benhayon being a true role model for all. Every choice Serge Benhayon makes in his life is all to serve humanity in the highest way possible, he is incredibly consistent with everyone he meets, offering true love and support equally to everyone. For the Media to miss the opportunity to write the truth about Serge Benhayon for others to be inspired by clearly says to me the Media is more focussed on drama and sensationalist stories rather than showing the world there is a different and more true way to be.

     1. I agree Anna, it is what is so inspiring about Serge Benhayon is the way he literally has a purpose to everything he does, the way we walks, moves, talks to people, etc.. nothing is left to chance. It shows how totally dedicated Serge Benhayon is to us all. It also shows us that we too can do the same we just have to choose to be totally dedicated and committed to love with the purpose of showing love to everybody else, ie. having no personal gain, goal or picture of how things should or could be in anyway.

103. Thanks again James for putting into words so clearly and lovingly the fact that we are so fortunate to know Serge Benhayon !

104. Serge Benhayon is true Divinity in expression as a human being, there is no doubt that there is God and that God is with us all equally so all of the time when we feel the enormous Love, devotion and depth of humbleness Serge shares with everyone and not a single person less.

     1. I agree Joshua, and it is one of the truly inspiring things about Serge Benhayon, he reminds us all that God is with us no matter what.

        1. Not only reminds us that it is there, he shows us by way of inspiration a quality of life we can all lead that actually brings all that divinity inside us out to be shared and lived with everyone in the world equally so.

105. Super to re-read James. Many, many thousands more are also living true role models no perfection asked for in the same way that Serge Benhayon is a role model simply because what he reflects is absolute divine truth that can be felt. We are drawn to him like a pin to a magnet, because like attracts like – we are all true Sons of God and we can all be role models, supporting all our brothers in their awakening…. and an incredible time to walk this earth.

     1. Thank you jacqmcfadden04, indeed we all have the potential to be role models just like Serge Benhayon showing that we can live in a truly loving way.

106. Beautifully expressed James, Serge is a man who is extremely humble in all he does, his life is very much a service for humanity, and he never tires of questions. I have always been answered with the deepest love, because I know he knows my essence, he is not judgmental of my choices. Serge encourages us all to live from the quality he knows us to be.

     1. I fully agree Sally, the way Serge Benhayon is with everyone is quite incredible – it is as if he has all the time in the world for every single one of us. Truly inspiring.

107. Beautifully said James. “a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving”. Serge Benhayon is a divine role model for us all, not to achieve anything or to gain recognition but to know ourselves and everyone else for who we truly are, as powerful and inspiring Sons of God.

     1. Thank you Mary and well said, ‘Serge Benhayon is a divine role model for us all, not to achieve anything or to gain recognition but to know ourselves and everyone else for who we truly are, as powerful and inspiring Sons of God’. We are all the ones, no one is more special than anyone else, this is something we can all remember as it means we do not need to compete or be at odds with anyone rather see that we are all on the path of return back to our truly loving self’s.

108. What a beautiful blog James. We are so fortunate to have Serge Benhayon as our role model. Whenever I get a little lost in my emotions I always stop and observe Serge. This gives me inspiration and helps me get back on track. To have so much equal love for everyone is amazing and to listen and truly be present with another when they speak without judgement is a true role model for all to have.

     1. Thank you Lindell, I have found the same that by observing the way Serge Benhayon is with himself and others we can learn so much. The ease of which he moves is quite extraordinary. He does so much yet never seems rushed.

        1. I’ve noticed that to James. ‘He does so much yet never seems rushed’ Serge Benhayon has time for everyone and everything and he never tires. I have never seen Serge Benhayon look tired or even yawn. I’ve never seen him grumpy or sulky. He is a constant that never changes.

        2. Indeed lindellparlour, Serge Benhayon is incredibly consistent with the way he is but not in a boring way as I used to think of consistency as being! Why would you want to be anything but love 24/7? I used to think it was some far out there ideal but Serge and others have shown that it is a real possibility, without seeking any sort of perfection just simply living as lovingly as possible.

109. I remember in school when we had to do activities around ‘role models’ – they were often famous people who had won awards, had plenty of money and lots of power, In reflection I now know that these people had sold out to the acknowledgement and recognition the world gave them. They had separated from the ‘Amazing’ Human Beings they were. Serge Benhayon is modelling living who he truly is, the essence of the love he began from and still is. This essence is alive within us. In his livingness he is showing the way it can be and not because he is seeking followers, rewards or recognition but because it is the truth and he loves and values himself. This is a true role model.

     1. Beautifully said ch1956, Serge Benhayon is a true role model. It is relatively easy to succeed in life and make lots of money but at what cost? If we do not do it with love, how many people along the way do we harm? How is our family life? Generally most people who make lots of money almost become narrow minded about it and lots of things go to the wayside. They are then almost looked up to, at least with envy, with others wanting what they have. We get caught in seeing the material gain and do not see the path of destruction that they have left behind them. We can be hugely successful and make lots of money living lovingly, as long as love is at the forefront, there are just not that many people in the world currently living this way who we can look up to and say yes, I want to be like them, Serge though is one of them.

110. You are right James, Serge Benhayon is a true role model, and we should celebrate it! What he brings to earth is heaven and our way back home, no one can deny that. He is like a great father of all, he has the most integrity and patience , something I could not even know that was possible ! I absolutely understand the statement about ‘ not looking over the shoulder , to see the line.. It is incredible how Serge Benhayon dedicates his life to let people feel met and them true selves again – I mean no one ever has offered me that before – and by this connection -‘ I found myself again – now I am able to bring that same connection and meeting to other peoples life – just like Serge had in mine !

     1. Thank you Danna, I love how you say, Serge ‘is like a great father of all’. He is like a second dad to me. Since I have met and have gotten to know him he has always been there in full support of me. I know he does this for many others as well and it is always lovely to hear this. And yes we should indeed celebrate Serge Benhayon for everything he brings and stands for, celebrate him knowing that we too are the same.

111. Well said James and a great testimony for Serge Benhayon. I too have never found a greater role model for myself – Serge walks his talk and is always all that he is in every breath he takes. In the 7 years that I have known him he has been consistent with his level of love and integrity for all, quite amazing.

     1. Thank you Shelleyjones44, what is equally inspiring is seeing quite how many people have transformed their lives as a result of having Serge Benhayon as a role model. It is quite extraordinary the difference 1 man can make when he chooses to live nothing but love.

112. What an awesome testament to the true role model that Serge Benhayon is, and not a role model that is exclusive to one particular group or social class, gender or profession, but a role model for everyone, and a true role model that inspires us also to be a true role model for others.

     1. Well said Angela, Serge Benhayon is a ‘a role model for everyone’, ‘ true role model that inspires us also to be a true role model for others’. Serge does not hold himself above anyone, nor does he hold himself as gifted rather he holds us all as equals, constantly showing us that we too can live the same way and are from the same loving source, no different, the same, we have all just made different choices.

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114. Serge Benhayon is indeed a true role model, sharing all of himself without putting up a certain picture, he shows a way of life that is without any boundaries, always open. And sharing with us what is needed in that moment. Couldn’t have wished for a better role model.

     1. Me too Benkt, Serge Benhayon is the best role model I could ever have dreamt of meeting.

115. If only one lesson was taken like this one ‘Serge [Benhayon], without fail, has time for everyone. He never rushes a moment with a person’ and studied for a lifetime what would it loo like. For all of us to actually stay truly present with each other, who would our conversations be, each touch, each look – this is the remarkable & amazingly extraordinary ordinary of Serge Benhayon, every living cell is dedicated to truly connecting with & loving and caring for people. This is amazing.

     1. I fully agree Lee, the way Serge Benhayon is with people is amazing. The way Serge is is so simple yet seemingly so hard because of everything that we allow ourselves to get caught up in. I have not once found Serge to be in a rush or not have enough time for me, even when he is about to present on stage people often get up and ask questions but he is always there and never dismissive in any way. It truly shows how much Serge lives his life towards connecting, loving and caring for people.

116. I agree with you James, Serge Benhayon is the real deal – his level of love, commitment, integrity is just amazing.

117. It is quite incredible to see how many people have quite literally turned their lives around, and opened up again to love all as a result of one man Serge Benhayon.

118. What occurred to me reading your blog James is that the defamatory media frenzy gained no real long lasting traction. Don’t get me wrong, I am not trivialising what took place…but all the journalists could do is roll out the same story, milking the same lies, serving up a “same same” re-hashing that looks very sad when you place the stories side by side.
     The reason for this inability to gain a hold is the way Serge lives, his absolute steadiness and sense of presence and the care that he brings to all he does. He has no “chinks” and hypocrisies for people to target, nor little dark secrets waiting to emerge. He is a man as open as the sun on a clear day. I have never met a person so consistent, and certainly never one so consistent in love.

     1. Me either Rachel, ‘I have never met a person so consistent, and certainly never one so consistent in love.’ It is what stands out and is so inspiring for me, Serge Benhayon is like a rock, albeit a very loving one, always there no matter what consistently reflecting back a loving way to be with myself and others. He has shown me that it is possible to live this way and not simply something we can dream of in some distant reality but we can actually have everything we have ever dreamt of now. And that is the case for me, more and more so I realise quite how blessed I am as I could not possibly ask for more, yet more comes and comes the more I allow love to be and deepen in my life.

119. James what you express about Serge Benhayon is so true to my experience too. He is an amazing Human being and a truly great example to us all. I have learned so much from attending Universal Medicine events and presentations and the way I view life now is so different to how it was 8 years ago when I started as a Student of The Livingness.

     1. It is quite incredible Roslyn to look back and see where we each were prior to meeting Serge Benhayon, I know for me I was not in a pretty state, I dread to think where I would be now as I was living in a very dysfunctional reckless way desperately trying to find someway to get through life unscathed.

120. What I love, amongst many things, about Serge Benhayon is that he always has time for you and as you say James, when he is with you, he is there 100%. I have found at times that part of me doesn’t like the answer to the question I have asked him but I always know that what he has shared is what I needed to hear and that the rest is up to me – it is my choice as to whether I listen, or not, and there is never any judgment or critique from Serge as to how I respond. He is an amazing man, but a very humble one, whose greatest love is humanity, and the wisdom that he shares is wisdom for all not just a selected few. He is a true man of the world, and yes, a “True Role Model”.

     1. Well said Ingrid, something I love about Serge Benhayon as well is how I can think of something I would like some clarification on or help with and then even before asking him the question I have the answer myself. Or if i still ask the question he helps me come to the answer myself rather then telling me to do this or that. It is so empowering this way and has helped me develop and trust in my feelings. He is a ‘True Role Model’, constantly asking us to be more and never putting himself above anyone.

     2. Yes Ingrid and is that not the greatest example of integrity and love – to deliver truth lovingly to someone and not just what they’re wanting to hear in order to make them feel better.

121. There are many people in my life who have momentarily inspired me in a particular area however Serge Benhayon is one who has inspired me in every part of my life continuously – other than that being super impressive – it is deeply, deeply appreciated.

     1. I fully agree Samantha, Serge Benhayon is a constant inspiration for the way we can all live. I agree with so many people we can isolate different aspects or areas of their lives and want to emulate them but there are very few people who live love in every aspect of their lives, Serge is definitely one of those people and I am truly blessed to know him.

     2. ‘Momentarily inspired me’ – great words Samantha. I to have felt the same in the past and yet I have never been able to achieve what these momentarily role models have. It’s possible that their achievements are not supported by a foundation that can help all of humanity, they are mainly self enlightened – only have self interest. Whereas Serge is not about self he is all about humanity and he never does anything that humanity can not benefit from.

122. I love the simple way how you describe Serge Benhayon James. As I know him myself since 2009 it is exactly this simplicity, easiness and humbleness which Serge is living in each moment that inspired me deeply. And not to mention his endless love and clarity and his joy – dear reader lets find out for yourself how you would describe him!

     1. Thank you esteraltmiks, it is lovely to continue to read the many differing yet similar ways Serge Benhayon continues to deeply inspire each and everyone of us to be more loving with ourselves and others. It is Serge’s consistency which wins most people over, it is no act, or put on, rather a way of living which Serge has proven works beyond all doubt.

123. So true James, The greatest story of them all is this story about a loving and very supportive man, who meets each and every one of us equally. I have never met anyone like Serge Benhayon. A story to be told indeed.

124. Serge Benhayon is indeed a true role model James…the level of love and integrity he holds himself is offered for everyone unreservedly so, and shows each one of us we the potential to be and do exactly the same…very inspiring – he has totally raised the bar of what a role model should be!

     1. ‘Serge Benhayon…shows each one of us we the potential to be and do exactly the same’. Indeed Paula and that is one of the amazing qualities Serge has. He never, at least in my experience, has put himself as more than any other rather is continually showing us that we are all equal.

     2. Yes Paula – a role model unlike any other – not encouraging us to be like him but inspiring us to be the fullness of ourselves.

125. Your observations of Serge Benhayon are true of my own James. Serge has showed us how we can be our own true expression without holding our protective wall up to the world. He has showed us that there is no need to be like another, just to stand in our own true lightness of being, fun, serious, outspoken, gentle, loving and all the things that this includes.

     1. And wow Amanda life is so much simpler and less exhausting when we stop trying to fit in and be like everybody else. Trying to constantly compete and compare with others leads to exhaustion as we never feel content within ourselves. Like you something Serge Benhayon has showed me is that by simply being me and living in a loving way I feel content within myself and so do not have the constant urge to prove myself as I know I am already enough.

     2. To know that we do not have “to be like another” but simply to be everything that we already are, has been a life changing realisation for me and I know for many others as well. Serge Benhayon does not tell anyone what to do, but lovingly and without expectations presents what is possible, then the choice is up to us.

126. That is true James, Serge is a man who walks his talk. His level of service to humanity is something to be inspired by, not lied about. I for one and truly inspired.

     1. Serge Benhayon sure does ‘walk his talk’, more so than pretty much anyone else I know. It is inspiring the way he presents, as it is always with us never at us. Quite remarkable to continually be able to present this way on such wide ranging and varying topics, seemingly with ease making it all relevant and applicable to everyone in the audience.

        1. And he does all of this so naturally without and need for accolades. Extraordinary ordinary sums it up well.

        2. Yes James I totally agree it is extraordinary how Serge Benhayon presents and as you say it is never at you but with you. The way he brings everyone in the room together and makes sure everyone is following what he is presenting is so loving and beautiful. How Serge presents and can cover such a wide range of topics with so much depth, clarity and precision is truly remarkable. You can sit there for 10 minutes and it feels like what has been presented has covered and hour yet only in the small amount of time.

        3. I agree Natalie and something I love is how somehow everything is so relevant to me when I go to a presentation, even though there may be another couple of hundred people in the room. It is quite amazing how he can cover such a massive array of topics yet break them down into really simple understandable bite size chunks.

127. “Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.” This is so simple and so true and a great reminder to us all that we are what we choose. Thank you James.

     1. What a great point you make elainearthey. Serge Benahyon is no different to any of us, he has simply chosen to serve humanity and not self. I am for one very grateful that he has chosen this path and to present a different way of life for anyone to live if they so choose to. For having such an awesome role model my life has changed for the better.

128. Thank you James, I agree and love what you have said here. Serge Benhayon is an inspiration, a rock for us all, and complete love. He is to be celebrated in full! And completely learnt from. Yes I am also learning to be in my fullness and power as a woman, and Universal Medicine is supporting me with that. By living the principles that Universal Medicine present, incredible changes can be made to our lives and our selves.

     1. 100% absolutely agree ariannekasi! Serge Benhayon is a living example of what it is to live in a quality that is always about love and service – a true inspiration and role model for us all.

        1. Serge Benhayon is the epitome of a true role model, he is there for everyone equally, supporting everyone no matter what. A truly loving living and breathing example of how we can live our full potential.

     2. Well said ariannekasi. Serge Benhayon is most definitely a solid point of truth, love and wisdom for us all. I can truthfully say that if is was not for him and his unwavering love and holding I would not have been inspired to change my own life in a truer more loving and fuller way than I have. I have turned my life around and I am only one of thousands.

129. Growing up I feel like we all yearn for true role models and look at everyone around us seeking to find that lovely way of living. But instead we pick up on those battling with emotional problems, those struggling with psychological problems, those people addicted to foods, alcohol, drugs. It is a very alarming and full on world with the many different behaviours that come with it so to hear your experience with Serge Benhayon and to know your experience from my own relationship with universal medicine, the healing modalities that they offer as well as my experience with Serge himself gives rise to that fact that yes there are TRUE role models out there! And it is a true powerful experience to learn, grown, watch, uncover, discover, see, witness how these role models act, behave, speak, express and walk with absolute love. It is mighty magnificent.

130. Serge Benhayon is a true role model. It is disgusting the way the media have portrayed Serge, printing absolute lies. What Serge reflects is true love, honesty, wisdom and the beautiful thing is that he makes it so accessible and presents simple tools so we too can all live this way. If the media got a grip, they might realise that there is much to learn from this wise man and perhaps the world would be a better place if they presented the truth rather than lies.

     1. HI donna. I agree that it is significantly alarming what the media have done to denigrate Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine. The FACT that he/they offer another way of being and living that is truly inspiring for so many should be testament to the reality of Serge walking the talk so to speak with what he teaches. For one to teach about the beauty and the magnificence of life, and then for those that are listening to then choose a different way of living and experience the joy and magnificence as well, you would think that this is the new way forward. I know that there are ‘gurus’ out there that claim to do all kinds of things but when you have living, breathing examples of grace, harmony and exquisite love where people are making choices that are seeing them come out of being herion addicts, anorxic, self harmers then you have to stop and say ‘hang on’ there is seriously something to what Serge Benhayon is teaching!

131. James I can really feel the depth of love here. Having someone love you completely and unconditionally with out ever wanting any thing from you. Someone who has your back even when what you need is the tough love talk with not an ounce of judgement, is the warmest, safest feeling in the world. Serge Benhayon is that source of inspiration and a solid role model for us all.

     1. Indeed Donna, Serge Benhayon, no matter what, is there with unconditional love. He has helped me regain my trust in humanity. He is an incredible man yet so normal!

132. Absolutely astonishing isn’t it James. I have been apart of that line you speak of waiting my turn to talk to Serge Benhayon, knowing his wisdom and insight. I have noticed how present he is with every single person and how present he is, continuously within every single moment. I know he has shared with me many times that when we build our presence within our body it is truly powerful. And to stand in front of a man that is truly deeply present is deeply reassuring and very non judgmental.
     This is so very hard to do at times and serge us defiantly an inspiration and true role model.

133. Yes, James, Serge Benhayon is a true role model by the way he lives. Your writing is a great sharing with the world how you feel about Serge. I love him for who he is and what he brings to each and everyone in this world: without holding back, letting us feel where we are from, and where we are going back to: Divine beings.

134. I agree James, we can all do it but too few of us are willing to stand up and do so. So yes if someone makes this choice and makes it continuously so – this truly needs to be celebrated as it is a great inspiration for all.

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136. Visiting your blog for the second time James and I am inspired to keep learning from this amazing “Role Model”.

137. Serge Benhayon is really an incredible guy, he has supported me above and beyond and as a result I am now living a life that is truly joyful, I’m physically healthier but more than anything what I treasure the most is that he has given me back to me. What do I mean by this? Well, he has supported me to let go of all the pain I was carrying and living under the weight of to reconnect to the true essence of myself and live expressing that every day. I have the greatest gift of all back – myself. All of my relationships have improved and…the list goes on and on. This isn’t a ra-ra story either, it’s all true and very practical, and occurred over almost 3 short years. For me the transformation has been extraordinary, from misery to joy. Thank you James for writing because I feel the same about this extraordinary-ordinary man who is also my role model.

     1. Thank you for sharing Melinda, I love reading how Serge Benhayon has inspired other people to quite literally turn their lives around. From misery to joy – now that’s something we would all love to read more about!

138. During this life so it happened that I met many spiritual teachers, gurus, from local guys to world leading “giants”. I always felt at ease talking to them, being equal. But this equality was coming from knowing that they are not perfect, they do have their faults and obsessions. Majority of them were arrogant and liked to be treated as supreme beings.
     When I first met Serge six years ago the difference in his presence struck me. I felt his love, simplicity, understanding and grace. And mutual respect. It was a different quality in him and in our equality – that we are equal Sons of God.

139. Thank you James for sharing your relationship with Serge Benhayon, which clearly from the responses you have received, resonates widely with others. ‘… a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving.’. These words perfectly sum up my opinion of and relationship with Serge Benhayon.

     1. Thanks Helen, I love reading everyone’s responses – it goes to show just how deeply loving and caring Serge Benhayon is with everyone he meets and the quality of relationships that we all develop with him as a result.

140. Shirley-Ann one of the greatest gifts Serge Benhayon has also given me is that he “has shown me how to be much more honest, truthful and wise for myself”. So instead of needing to rely on him, or anyone else, I know that I also have access to everything I need to know, it means taking more responsibility but is worth it!

141. It is this very simple way of staying present, that is the key for anything in life. There is the whole Universe to be felt in any given moment. In the way my partner comes home, in a cloud passing by, in a flower opening in the morning sun…

142. I have found the same Brendan, “if he can do it, so can I”. It is inspiring with the level of integrity Serge Benhayon lives. I find it hard to fully comprehend the level of love, dedication and integrity Serge lives with. The more I bring into my life the more I can feel how much more I can be living it!

143. It’s true that there are many role models in the world who when you delve past the outer veneer aren’t so inspiring after all.. Nobody’s perfect but Serge Benhayon has shown me a level of consistent and real love that is very rare in our world. The reflection he offers us all is priceless.

     1. Fiona55, I agree, the “consistent and real love” that Serge Benhanyon shows everyone, which says we can also live this way, we just have to make the consistent, loving choices.

144. This is such a gem James, every word is priceless. Serge Benhayon is a true role model and someone who is consistent and lives everything he presents, there is no ‘put on’ with Serge and he hides nothing.

     1. Thank you harryjwhite, it is a joy to appreciate all that Serge Benhayon is and delivers to us. He is quite a seemingly extraordinary man yet shows us that we are all the same, just have not been making the same loving choices, choices which we can make if we choose to.

145. Thank you again James for this beautiful blog on a true role model.
     Indeed – Serge Benhayon listens to a lot of head talk – I’m certainly in that bunch – but he also sees beyond that and meets the true us – what’s really underneath.
     I am constantly inspired by how he lives and his constant commitment to people.

     1. I agree hvmorden, the way Serge Benhayon “sees beyond that and meets the true us” is extremely inspiring, he never loses his cool, or gets frustrated even though he knows we have all the answers, we just are choosing to not connect to them. This shows the immense level of understanding Serge has for all us.

        1. Indeed – and his extraordinary patience as we take our time to choose to be our true selves. In a way it only inspired me even more so to keep choosing love because I know I will be absolutely supported to do so.

        2. I agree and have found the same hvmorden – it is extremely supportive when someone holds you in absolute love and by doing so gives you the space to make your own choices, with no judgement what so ever.

146. Well said James. I agree with all you have said and I too am amazed at the level of love Serge has for others.

     1. It always amazes me how much love Serge Benhayon holds me in, often more love then I am actually holding myself in. Something I have found to be true is that I can only love another if I am loving myself. It takes responsibility of how we are treating ourselves to a much deeper and more important level. There is no on or off switch with people, we are either being love with everyone or not, even if we do not want to accept it!

147. Serge Benhayon seems to be able to hold your hand without actually holding your hand. Not in a helping way, but in a way that says yes, you are this and can be this too, just choose it.

     1. That is a great analogy Matthew, that “Serge Benhayon seems to be able to hold your hand without actually holding your hand”. He is there in full asking us to be all of who we are, but instead of giving us all the answers he allows us to come to them ourselves, so we get to learn the lesson. It is quite amazing how Serge does it and the patience, well, understanding, he holds us all in is huge.

148. This is awesome James as you express so clearly what so many of us have felt, that Serge Benhayon is a man of such truth, integrity and love, treating all equally. He inspires all to live their truest self and that is testament to the amazingness of the man. I feel equally blessed to have his consistent presence in my life. Thank you James and thank you Serge Benhayon for all that you are.

     1. Well said Jade: “Serge Benhayon is a man of such truth, integrity and love, treating all equally”. I could not agree more!

149. ‘I have never once felt an ounce of judgment from Serge’ – that in itself is remarkable. I have been attending Universal Medicine courses for about 8 years now and I know that if I chose to live with the same consistency that Serge Benhayon does, I would be in a different place to where I am today. Serge knows that too, however, as you say James, there is no judgement. When I have asked for help, along with thousands of other Universal Medicine students, Serge has always been there for me, with the same amount of love that he shows every single person, whether they are ‘known’ to him or not. That’s something to write about …..

     1. Having no judgment is quite amazing, the level and depth of understanding Serge has for us all is quite incredible. Even when we repeat old patterns, ask the same questions, demand answers Serge simply stands there with love and presents the truth to us no matter what. A true inspiration, one which we can all aspire to be more like.

150. True James, Serge Benhayon is ‘A man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving’. This is as you say the greatest story of all.

     1. It is indeed the greatest story of all, one which will be told over and over again and inspire many people to return back to living a loving, natural way.

151. Nice one James a beautiful and loving testament to a beautiful and loving man. His consistency is equal to none and his support is unwavering. Having the ability to truly be with someone when they tare talking to you is something that I am far more conscious of these days and I am so much better at telling if someone is not really there if I’m talking to them. This is only one out of million things that has improved in my life since knowing Serge Benhayon.

     1. Awesome kevmchardy, Serge Benhayon truly is a “beautiful and loving man”. What is so inspiring is how he has given so many people the opportunity to say yes I can be like that and open up again to being the love that we are, but just have been too afraid to show it in case we get hurt or rejected. The strength I have now found by deepening the love with myself and consequently with humanity is huge, far more than I could ever have thought possible.

152. “I have never once felt an ounce of judgment from Serge” – me either James! Even when I said to him ‘My body likes what you’re saying but my head… it wants to make you wrong, and not believe you’… and another time at a retreat when he asked us all what reservations we had about him and Universal Medicine – he wasn’t judgemental of anyone as we all shared the things we had been skeptical about – He didn’t even flinch as we all expressed our doubts about him. He is so solid in who he he is – completely unwavering.

     1. I know Brooker, it is amazing that no matter what question you ask Serge Benhayon, or how many times you ask it – he is still there extremely loving so offering a reflection of love.

153. Ouch James so clear and revealing – I too know those conversations that I stand in – wanting to be elsewhere or back in my comfortable life. Serge always has had time for me and as you say is like that with everyone equally – knowing that his love is equal with all – he is truly inspiring.

     1. It is a big ouch Lee, I even find myself in conversations looking over someone shoulders, having things in the distance catch my eye – all the time not giving the person I am talking with my full attention and presence. Learning to be fully present with people when I am talking with them is something I am building more and more, the more I am present with myself with what I am doing the more I can be present with others.

        1. Great point James, Learning to be present when someone is talking is also something that I am working on. I am constantly inspired by Serge Benahyon and his level of presence and ability, to truly listen when I talk and in that there is such a healing as a lot of the times being listened to with that level of stillness allows the full understanding of something I haven’t been clear about before.

154. I completely agree with all you have said James. I have been attending Universal Medicine events for some years now and the more I have to do with Serge Benhayon, the more I am coming to really appreciate just how consistently Serge lives his life across all domains, with integrity and responsibility for himself and all of us equally.

     1. Me too Helen, I have also found that the more consistent I am with my life, the more loving I can be with everyone else equally. Consistency is one of the keys to living a truly loving life, and the more consistent I am with the way I am living I have found that then there are less of the emotional highs and lows.

        1. I find this too James, consistency is the key. On the days that I commit to loving myself consistently I am this with all others too. Life is so less exhausting without all the highs and lows.

155. ” Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.” So true James and he is so inspiring.

156. The ability for him to hold you as all that you are even when you can’t do that yourself is amazing and something to be inspired by.

     1. It sure is amazing and inspiring Ben.

157. What a wonderful article to read James, and it is a sad fact that because it is not sensationalist, not bringing someone down, not attacking or exposing, the Truth about Serge Benhayon is not considered news worthy; a crazy world we live in that oh so needs these ‘good’ news stories, role models of truth, love and integrity.

     1. I agree Zoe, as Kate said above, the real story of Serge Benhayon should be told in the newspapers, whilst it is not sensationalist people are looking for answers about what is going on. I spent my teenage years looking for the truth but all I found was people with fragmented parts but never the whole that is until I met Serge Benhayon.

158. This is the Serge Benhayon I want to be reading about in the papers! This is the absolute truth. And James I agree Serge Benhayon is… ‘a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving’. Absolutely.

     1. I agree Kate, this is the story that should be in the papers, the true story of Serge Benhayon told by those who know him.

159. James, you have described Serge Benhayon to a ‘t’. I have never met anyone, man or woman, who is living a life which is so full of truth and integrity and with such a love of humanity. I agree with you, when Serge is talking with you, no matter how long the queue of those wishing to talk with him, he gives you completely undivided attention, listens intently, and never with any judgment, no matter how unlovingly I have been living. I realise he knows that I will get it when I am ready to completely understand – he is the epitome of patience. I feel so honoured to regard Serge as a wonderful friend, as he is to so many people.

     1. So beautifully expressed Beverley, it is also a joy to read and hear how Serge is with everyone, the same deeply loving and caring man with everyone he meets. Quite unbelievable but true, a true inspiration for us all.

160. Beautifully said James, I stand with every word. To have a living example of what it means to truly love humanity, as we have in Serge Benhayon, is nothing short of heaven sent. The joy that inspiration brings in the knowing it is not an isolated event or gift, is beyond measure.

161. I so agree James. “Serge Benhayon is no different to any of us: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.” How amazing the world would be if we all applied even the smallest amount of the love and consistency that Serge does.

     1. Hear hear Sue with more of humanity living the love which Serge lives and expresses, the world would be truly beautiful.

        1. I agree Sue and Judy and slowly more and more people are “living the love which Serge lives and expresses”. Seeing the changes in people, including myself is a real testament to the power we all have by making more loving choices which encompass everyone, and are not purely aimed at bettering our own individual lives.

162. I agree James, we are very blessed with Serge Benhayon in our lives. He is committed to humanity and a true role model who is living love.

163. A true role model of our times, Serge Behayon has been a true inspiration for thousands of people from all over the world including myself. Yet, Serge is just an ordinary and humble man, no greater or lesser than any one of us, and that is why we can so easily relate. That said, there is one thing that makes him stand out: he has simply chosen a truer and fuller level of expression, one that serves humanity, not self.

     1. I agree Jacqueline – Serge Behayons humbleness is extraordinary – he never puts himself above anyone rather asks us all to step up and be our full glorious selves. Serge does not claim to bring to us what we don’t know rather he re-ignites what we all already know and so is extremely relate able to everyone who is listening – he may be presenting to hundreds yet it can feel like he is just talking to me.

        1. Yes James, I have had this experience too – On my very first course, feeling very shy and not knowing what to expect, Serge was presenting to hundreds of people in the room, and yet at times it felt like he was talking just to me, which felt like he knew what I needed to hear that very day – extraordinary really – but then love has no boundaries!

164. I can only agree full-heartedly with all you have written James, as it is my personal experience too, very consistently so, for the past 8 years. Serge Benhayon is a true role model, not by what he shares, but by how he lives, which is the only way it could be.

     1. I fully agree Caroline: “Serge Benhayon is a true role model, not by what he shares, but by how he lives”.

165. Serge is an extraordinary man, yet nothing about him makes himself more than another. His consistent acceptance, warmth and love are immeasurable and so deeply inspiring.

166. I agree James I have not met a man nor woman in the 56 years of my life that is able to meet me the way Serge Benhayon does with his undivided attention and presence…it feels like he has all the time in the world for you…and this is a man with an extremely busy work schedule….he is like this every single time I am with him and I have observed he is like this with ALL others as well.

     1. It is great to observe Serge Benhayon, just like you have done Mary-Louise. To see how he has “all the time in the world for you” yet has a super busy work schedule is quite phenomenal. Science should study the way Serge lives as there is much the world could learn. I know from the snippets I have adopted into my life that have made an enormous difference.

167. I agree James, Serge Benhayon is a great role model for those wanting to live in this world with care, respect, and ever growing love for ourselves and others, with the purpose to live truthfully. Isn’t that what we all want deep down inside?

     1. It sure is what we all want deep down inside, Lisa. No matter what exterior we put up, we are all deeply loving at heart.

168. I agree with you James – I have been looking for a true role model too, someone who makes sense and lives what he/she talks. Serge Benhayon is for sure the role model I was looking for, the way he lives deeply inspires me in every way.

     1. I love it Lieke – Serge Benhayon “makes sense and lives what he talks” and is extremely loving! There are not many people in the world that can fully say that about with no doubts what so ever.

169. Beautifully expressed James, thank you. Indeed “the sheer amount of love Serge Benhayon holds for each and every one of us” should be celebrated!

     1. I agree Rioko and James, the steady love that Serge Benhayon has shown me and the community at large has taught me so much about what love actually is.

170. Thank you James for what you have shared here. Once again my eyes well up when I feel all that Serge Benhayon does for humanity, not for self gain, just for his enormous love of people.

171. Serge Benhayon is a true role model, with so much love, integrity , respect, honor and care. He is the real deal and I am very grateful to have him in my life. Thank you James, for this awesome blog.

172. Beautiful testament James, I agree with you wholeheartedly. Serge to me feels like a perfect role model.
     Its such a shame there are people out there that can’t see that.

173. Thank you for sharing this James. Serge Benhayon is a true inspiration and role model. I too have known Serge for a number of years now and there is no aspect of his life that is left wanting or that he is trying to cover up. Everything he shares or presents, he has lived. There is no preaching. Thank you Serge Benhayon for being a true shining light.

     1. Great point Lee, everything Serge Benhayon presents he has lived and that is quite extraordinary.

174. Awesome James, I know the feeling of having a hidden agenda when in a conversation and can remember many times when I have ‘switched’ off when talking with someone. It’s getting a lot better now as I realise it more and more and don’t need things from others as much. Its quite incredible how Serge Benhayon is with everyone… It’s exactly how you have described it, completely there and present with the person, not wanting to go home or anything. Beautiful and inspiring to take note of

     1. Thank you for confirming the way Serge Benhayon is with everyone and what is great is how it has helped you look at the way you are with others – now that’s a true role model living in a way others can learn from without doing anything ‘different’ or ‘seemingly special’, just living normally.

175. I couldn’t agree more James, Serge has always treated me as he has treated you, he is a true role model and a true servant of humanity.

176. James what a wonderful testament to Serge Benhayon and I totally agree with you. My experience of Serge is that he has always been (as you have expressed ) there for me in times of need giving all his attention to each of us and honouring whatever is happening for each person, a Loving Gift. Thank You.

     1. As you said Roslyn, Serge Benhayon, since I have known him has always been there for me no matter what, and I know the same is the case for others. What is remarkable is how he is simply there, as you said, “honouring whatever is happening for each person”. Serge offers us the space to see where we are at, and essentially to make a clear different choice and then we naturally comeback to ourselves – so he never needs to tell us what to do!

177. Beautiful article

178. I totally agree with everything you have said James, especially about the media mission out on the story of the century! I would become a journalist just to write a story about Serge Benhayon and all the amazing work he has and is doing. And I would title it ‘A man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving’. But of course I need copy right approval from you James for the title :).

     1. Awesome Madeline – you have full copy right approval for the title! I am looking forward to reading your writings!

     2. I could write a book on Serge Benhayon too Madeline, but I’m not sure my title would be as grand as yours! James is totally correct in his article, Serge Benhayon is a true role model and he is unlike anyone I have ever met, very special indeed. All this, and he doesn’t put himself on a pedestal or make himself any more than any one else, and this is what is so lovely about him, I feel totally at ease and honoured when in his presence.

        1. Me too sandrahenden, “I feel totally at ease and honoured when in his presence”. There are not many people I can truly say that about all of the time.

179. James thankyou for so clearly sharing the truth about Serge Benhayon. I have been one of those person in the waiting line and the person being supported by Serge. Never once did I feel rushed, Serge always lovingly gave me his full attention and shared a wisdom with me that empowered me to take the next step in what was needed. He is the most amazing and lovingly supportive person I have the honour of knowing.

     1. Lovely to read Sharon, Serge Benhayon sure is a truly amazing being, not that he is special or gifted more than anyone of us, but rather he has made the commitment that no matter what, he is going to stand in the depths of the love he is without any reservation or hesitation, showing us all that we too can do the same as we are the same.

180. ​It is something​ most of us struggle with and what makes Serge Benhayon stand out, as he is able to do this consistently and live it. I have the experience that when I let others in, it is the love I am, meeting the love in others. So it is about already connecting to love and recognising it in others. Then how can we not let it in as it is energy giving and not draining? Perhaps this is the difference between perceiving being consistently open and giving to be hard, rather than finding it to be a natural part of who we are.

     1. I know where you are coming from Simon, it is the consistency we struggle with and for me as well the inconsistency is the exhausting part. The more I love the love on full that I am with everyone equally the less drained and exhausted I feel.

181. Delivering people what they need to hear instead of what people want to hear is something that the media could learn from Serge Benhayon, but then again the media would have to actually listen to whats going on not just make it up

     1. That made me laugh Jaime. There is such a difference between saying what people want to hear versus delivering what they actually need to hear. It can be subtle but one either confirms or expands us and the other just keeps us where we are.

182. Beautiful James- the media really has missed out on the most incredible story that is Serge Benhayon. I agree wholeheartedly with all you have shared, it is wonderful to read this and more deeply appreciate the love Serge brings to every interaction.

     1. So true Leonne, the more you read, the more you start to really appreciate what Serge Benhayon has presented to you and how it has changed your life to be the most playfulness, vital and light it has ever been lived.

     2. Thank you Leonne, and there are no where near enough words to fully appreciate ‘love Serge brings to every interaction’.

183. It is truly remarkable James just how consistently attentive and understanding Serge is to ALL. So often we make more effort in some of our relationships than we do in others based on as you say, what are we going to get out of it. But what if we were all just equally attentive and respectful to everyone?

     1. That’s a great question Andrew, I know the more I am equally loving with everyone, the more I can bring home and be the love I am, more so with those I live with and am closest to. It makes sense when we look at it this way so we can constantly deepen and expand the love we are, rather than trying to be love in one area and not to the same level in another.

184. Beautiful James, you graciously capture what a true role model is, one who is true and real in all areas of their live, who walks their talk, lives the wisdom they know and is consistent without fail. That describes Serge Benhayon, and it’s quite something to know this is possible in our world. I know he’s inspired me and many others to be more.

     1. Well said Monica – indeed a true role model is “one who is true and real in all areas of their live, who walks their talk”, Serge Benhayon constantly shows we are all the same and does not hold himself above or as better or greater than anyone of us.

185. Serge Benhayon (SB) presents topics that are universally applicable to all people equally. I agree with you James, that’s my kind of true role model too.

     1. And not only applicable to all people equally, also saying too, are the same equally, regardless of anything and everything that may have happened to us or we have done in the past.

186. Agree James, all the role we models we seem to have these days and that inspire are usually based on a level of doing, achieving, one’s ability, beating or outperforming another, their famousness or celebrity status. For me, a true model is one who lives the wisdom and world that’s inside them and then shares this with others. This is what Serge Benhayon is – a true role model of our times who inspires countless others back to their own great innate wisdom to change the way we as human beings live.

     1. I agree Zofia, and love how you say: “This is what Serge Benhayon is – a true role model of our times who inspires countless others back to their own great innate wisdom to change the way we as human beings live.” Serge honours us and respects us for who we are, where ever we are at with our evolution and our choices and never judges us.

187. I could not agree more James – beautifully expressed!
     The expansion of love here is just beautiful; as Serge has inspired so many, I can also feel the love emanating from you and those that have replied to your blog, and I am sure that this in turn inspires many family members, friends and work colleagues.
     The real story of Serge Benhayon is being written and recorded – by us all right now.

     1. Well said Rob and I agree it is beautiful to feel the expansion of love here.

188. Great blog James, I too have felt the same about Serge Benhayon and the way in which he has spoken with me – always 100% present, never rushed, and always unwavering in his love and support. The truest role model I have ever met!

189. I agree with you James, the media has definitely missed the real story that is here to be told about Serge Benhayon.

     1. The media have missed the real story about Serge Benhayon, but it is being told here on this blog site with all the comments and with all the blogs being written.

190. I totally agree with everything you have written about Serge Benhayon, James. The true power of love he has for humanity is in his every move and comes shining through in every-way and always. A true role model and inspiration to all.

     1. I agree Deidre – it is Serge Benhayons love for humanity, for each and every one of us which shines through, he is not a role model for what he does or any achievement rather for who he is and the way he lives, quite phenomenal how so many people have transformed their lives as a result of meeting Serge and taking responsibility for their own lifes.

191. Hello James and you are speaking for thousands of people in what you are saying here. The dedication to the moment from Serge Benhayon is one of the many that I see support him and now support me. Serge Benhayon continues to lead the way in this and goes from strength to strength or deeper and deeper within this dedication and love for himself and others. In a world that leads us to think many things it is great to have people showing and shining a way to live that brings more care and love to each other in any moment. Thank you James for speaking about this worthwhile topic.

     1. Hello Ray, no words can do justice for the inspiration and role model Serge Benhayon has been for me – I have been able to quite literally turn my life around from being lost, given up with life and essentially getting through the day to now being far more committed and enjoying life without any need for drugs or alcohol which were a common theme before I met Serge – I now no longer need to distract myself or check out from what is going on, rather I now embrace life.

192. Thank you, James, for celebrating.
     And this party, that you’re inviting us to, really rocks!
     To celebrate Serge Benhayon means to celebrate myself and the beauty I bring to the world and to be inspired to evolve this further down the path.

193. James, well said. Serge Benhayon is an amazing role model, a truly inspirational man who is always real with no put on ‘airs & graces’. In the ten years that I have known him he has consistently been loving to all, full of fun, always presenting exactly what I need to hear, and 100% committed to humanity. Through this consistent dedication to humanity I have observed him, and everyone who chooses to connect to the innate wisdom in themselves, grow in vitality too. This is indeed a headline story waiting to be told.

     1. Well said Anne, it is through Serge Benhayons consistency where so many of us have been able to build our trust back with people, truly inspiring and showing us all what is possible.

     2. It is a heart felt pleasure just to read your beautiful words Anne and to know the truth in them.

194. So true James – the media have missed out on the greatest story of all.

195. Serge Benhayon walks his talk, the voice of the inner heart within us all. Nothing special but everything Divine. A true role model indeed James.

     1. Indeed Diane, “Nothing special but everything Divine”. Serge Benhayon lives the way we all can and so leads the way forth for all of us to see. Divine indeed just as we all are.

196. James you speak so clearly and lovingly about a man who is your role model and friend. I can feel the tenderness of your words meeting my heart and my heart is rejoicing with love.

197. James whilst reading your article I whole heartedly agreed with every word that you said about Serge Benhayon. I was one of the people that queued after my last workshop to tell him how incredible he was and how grateful I was to him. But what I and thousands of others are actually getting to feel for ourselves is that Serge Benhayon is no different to anyone else, it’s just that he has made different choices to most. And as we, ourselves make more and more loving choices we too get to feel that life is actually naturally very joyous and that the love that we have been looking for our entire lives is actually inside us. Astounding !

     1. Well said Alexis – and that is what is so great about Serge Benhayon because he never puts himself above any of us rather just knows he has made more loving choices, choices which we can all make just have not chosen to.

198. Thank you James. Serge Benhayon is certainly a true role model for all. His love and support is unwavering and holds all as equal.

199. Absolutely beautiful James, I agree with you 110 percent.
     I have known Serge Benhayon for over 15 years and consider him a very dear and close friend who is always there for me, no matter what or when, he is truly astounding in the love he has for all humanity equally so and this is felt simply by looking at him.
     A true inspiration and role model for all, I know our children are blessed to have him in their lives.

     1. Nicole, we sure are all truly blessed to have Serge Benhayon in our lives.

200. I second that Brendan – so tenderly expressed, you are also inspiring Brendan.

201. Great blog. It is amazing when Serge Benhayon has those lines of people and he will see everyone. He is so dedicated to everyone… it’s very beautiful to see another person being that way, and inspiring others to be that dedicated to people. Imagine a world where every person was dedicated to every other person? Wow that would be something!

202. Hi James

     Thank you for this awesome blog. I can feel your inspiration and I feel the same way. Serge has such consistency and care it’s like nothing I have ever felt in another person.

     ‘When we are talking with another person are we actually truly there for them, or do we have a hidden agenda underneath, an agenda that wants something for us and if we don’t get this, we switch off and aren’t interested?’

     This is an awesome question and one we can all take into our lives and ponder upon.
     I feel that the more connected I am with myself the less distracted or ‘needy’ I am when speaking with another person and therefore the more I am there for them. This develops true relationships.

     1. Hi Kathryn,
        It is an awesome question and I agree with you. I often catch myself out when I am talking with someone – it’s as if I can get distracted by small things going on around me instead of staying fully present and connected listening to the other person. I know when someone gets distracted when I am talking to them I get frustrated and so why should it be any different. Something like you I have found is that the more consistent I am with the way I am living the more focus and presence I then have with my relationships and interactions with others.

203. Reading the comments on this blog from many men is truly inspirational and it’s obvious that all of these men have made changes in their life to evolve into being true role models them self. Awesome!

204. A beautiful testimonial. Serge Benhayon is so consistent. He is a true example to all of us and truly inspirational. It’s sometimes hard to believe that we have this way inside us too, however the more consistent I am with myself, the more I see that this is perhaps possible.

205. I love your blog James , I’m with you James, Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine are all about true service, by Gods Grace we are blessed with his Presence and I will never forget what he has offered.

     1. Here here Paul – we truly are blessed with Serge Benhayons presences and all that he offers us.

206. Awesome James, yes I’m in total agreement Serge Behayon and Universal Medicine are the real deal. And an absolute and true role model for us all.

207. I could feel the immense space he holds with everyone and even though there are so many there wanting to connect, it is the love Serge has which creates the space not only supporting himself in all he does but allowing all of him to be there with each person, without holding an ounce back

     1. It is quite amazing to observe Serge Benhayon with others and as you so eloquently put it Joshua ‘it is the love Serge has which creates the space not only supporting himself in all he does but allowing all of him to be there with each person, without holding an ounce back’. It is extremely inspiring to see that we can do what Serge does without the need to go into a state of anxiousness – something I know I would and do struggle with when faced with lots to do!

208. Absolutely James, It is so true he never rushes anyone,just listens and communicates what ever is required in that moment. He has done so consistently for the 12 years I have know him. A truly inspiring man.

     1. I fully agree Gail, what is incredible is that throughout the years I have known Serge Benhayon and all the presentations I have been to even though I may be in a room of 200+ people. It is like every word Serge says is directly relevant to me – quite extra-ordinary to think about it this way.

209. So true James – we are all the same in essence but there is only one living that in every moment of everyday and bringing that same presence consistently to every person equally, no matter whether you are family, friend or stranger. I chose this in my life above all else. Thanks to Serge Benhayon I have had the experience of being met in this way – it will never be forgotten and something I will continually practice to live and bring to all others in my life.

     1. Well said and the beautiful thing about it is how now through the inspiration from Serge Benhayon there are many others including yourself living more loving life’s and more consistently, so that we are inspiring others and showing them it is possible and they can live like this. But yes, a huge appreciation to Serge Benhayon as it needed one to break the mold that we are stuck in.

210. Great post James! – Yes Serge is a man of true integrity. I love how Serge has an equal way with all people, he never dumbs down or alters the truth in anyway but presents it with deep love and without an ounce of judgement. This is truth and integrity, for me, is paramount in a true role model.

     1. I agree Johanna, and as you say Serge Benhayon “never dumbs down or alters the truth in anyway but presents it with deep love and without an ounce of judgement”. Serge treats us all as equals, fully respecting and allowing us to make our own choices – truly inspiring to be able to do.

211. I so agree, James! “I have never once felt an ounce of judgment from Serge. This is remarkable in itself. For someone to tirelessly listen to all my ‘head talk’ yet be there fully with a loving tender presence, seemingly without any effort, is unheard of in everyday life”. Until I met Serge, it was usually the case that in conversations with other people they were either apparently listening while dying to jump in and tell their own story or plug their own agenda, or zoning out because the focus wasn’t on them, or being critical because their own views were not predominating. Boring – not real communication. And if I were racy, nervous or emotional, people would just react or engage but not calmly show me that I was ‘out’; they would not/could not be a living role model of how to come back to myself. Now that I have in Serge Benhayon the role model I’ve always sought, with his steady, patient, understanding non-judgmental presence that is totally there for me when I need it, I can feel where I am at by myself and come back to my inner quiet. Awesome!

     1. It is indeed awesome Dianne, to have someone, a role model like Serge Benhayon is truly life changing. You only have to look at the before and after pictures to see how people have quite literally turned their lifes’ around.

212. Thank you for highlighting the simple but interesting fact that Serge has time for everyone. You are quite right when you say ‘He isn’t looking over your shoulder seeing how long the line is, but rather is focussed and gives his full undivided attention and presence to the person he is talking with. It is extremely hard to do; give it a try and you will know what I mean.’ It’s one thing to tell people how to live but quite another thing to show them. I have attended motivation speaker tours and almost every speaker although supposedly animated and enthusiastic on stage usually disappears in the breaks or is quite short with people needing to ask questions, if in fact they take questions at all, not so Serge. He is never flustered, never short with people, never over animated and never lacking in energy. Just observing him is a lesson in stillness. He reminds me of a glorious old oak tree, splendid, graceful, commanding, strong, enduring, still, gentle, sheltering and dependable and all from a place of no judgement… he just is.

     1. Well said, and I agree with you entirely: “It’s one thing to tell people how to live but quite another thing to show them”.

213. Serge Benhayon holds everyone in equality, which is soo loving and utterly precious. A heartfelt inspiration no doubt.

214. How right you are, James. It is so inspiring to feel and see that the level of integrity and love that Serge Benhayon presents, is exactly what he is living in each and every moment.

215. Now THAT is inspiration, felt to the bone.
     ‘Hear, hear’ on every word James. Brilliantly said.

     1. Thank you Victoria, true inspiration indeed!

216. Spot on account of what Serge Benhayon is James. I have not truly appreciated the way Serge is with people… When you pointed out how present he is with others who are waiting to talk with him and that there isn’t an ounce of wanting to get home, or through them or anything. He is just fully there, and never gets tired of it. Not once. He also doesn’t show an ounce of the mundane life, it doesn’t matter what he is doing I have never experienced him wishing he was somewhere else or reported ‘being good for a Monday’ or any of the other expressions most people have about life. Its actually really extraordinary. A true role model indeed. Who has time for everyone and anyone.

     1. It is fascinating to watch and be inspired by how Serge Benhayon is with people. The way he is with me always feels extremely supportive, it is a way which I am inspired to be with other people. It is so easy to dismiss someone or their comments without actually understanding them and their point of view, allowing someone the time and space to simply be is a truly special gift that we can give to each other, it is one which Serge gives to me whenever I see him.

        1. Hi James. The way Serge Benhayon is with me also inspires me to be that way with everyone I meet. Reading your blog and also your responses to people’s comments illustrates how you are successfully living what you say here. Taking the time to feel the words and appreciate the person who wrote them is so beautiful. Appreciating and fully feeling our own words too is part of it (I just got that now).

217. Serge Benhayon has created the greatest moments I’ve ever experienced in my life. To be listening to presentations knowing they are the absolute truth is simply awesome.

218. How true! The media has missed the greatest story ever. This is the story of a man who truly inspires – not so we chase something unattainable and end up giving up or feeling less but reminds us we are just the same and can all live this way if we so choose it.

     1. Wells said Fiona, Serge Benhayon simply ‘reminds us we are just the same and can all live this way if we so choose it’.

     2. So beautifully said Fiona. And James, you’ve captured how Serge Benhayon is with everyone to a tee. He is a true role model for me for living a more loving life.

219. He’s a pretty amazing guy – and so are you James!!

     1. Thank you and yes I agree!

220. Serge Benhayon really feels like a dear friend from the first time you meet him.

     1. I agree Matts, and this is one of his inspiring qualities which pretty much everyone can relate to when you meet Serge Benhayon, when he is with you he is fully there with you, not focused or distracted by other things. It is this level of quality and depth of relationship which I would love to have with others and am building myself. The relationships I now have with others are far deeper as a result.

221. Yes James, now many of us have grown up with role models who influenced us to take on the false ideals and beliefs, which our role models were unknowing living, as it was all they knew. Thus, we followed suit and incarcerated ourselves in a consciousness, which kept us further from the truth! Like you, many knew that the way they were living was not it but did not know any other way. Fortunately there were some who got to a point in their lives when they decided that enough was enough and that there had to be another way. Enter Serge Benhayon – at last here was a role model who lived love and truth, a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving. As you say, one of the greatest stories of our time, yet ignored by the media as ‘good news’ stories do not sell newspapers!

222. James I whole heartedly agree especially when you said ‘the media hungers for exposing stories but in this instance have missed out on the greatest story of them all – a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving’.

223. How true that so far the media at large has missed out on the greatest story of them all – the Truth about Serge Benhayon. We, the students, will take this extraordinary story out there, solidly backed up by how incredibly well hundreds of us are doing – and our numbers are on the increase.

224. Hello James, I agree to 100% what you wrote in your blog. It is his integrity what makes me so humble and so joyful and I have to say that I was looking for this my whole life. Now I know that this is possible and with that I could feel my own responsibility to do the same to the best of my ability.

     1. Thank you for sharing – I agree with you Serges’ integrity is unquestionable and truly inspiring. It is this that has helped me regain and build my trust in people again.

225. Well said James, Serge Benhayon certainly only ever presents what we are ready to hear. Or as you so aptly put it, “Serge has not held back with what has needed to be said, even if at times it has been tricky and I would say difficult.” James you then go onto say “Serge, without fail, has time for everyone. He never rushes a moment with a person”, and if I could add to your statement, Serge always gives of himself to whom ever and when ever he can. It is not just a face he puts on for Universal Medicine events. To complement what I have just said James, you then go on to say “– a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be ‘more’ of themselves and to be ‘more’ naturally loving.” When you get to know Serge you simply can not get enough of him, he is very moreish, because he embodies love. He is a true role model who humbly brings his presence to every situation.

     1. Thank you for sharing Greg – I love how you say: ‘When you get to know Serge you simply can not get enough of him, he is very moreish, because he embodies love. He is a true role model who humbly brings his presence to every situation.’ I agree with you, love is infectious – it is something I had been searching for all my life and ended up settling for less – now I have a true marker in my life of what Love truly is there can no longer be any giving up on love, as it is here and really has always been – it has been me who has closed off to it not the other way around.

        1. I agree James, we close down to our own divinity that is within us all equally so!

226. I can relate to that James, the role model that Serge Benhayon is reflecting to me feels so natural and inherently living in myself. It feels that the role model of Serge reflects to me the love and inspiration that is equally in me, and it is calling me to live this love and to be the inspiration for all the people I meet.

     1. Spot on nvanhaastrecht, I fully agree: ‘the role model of Serge reflects to me the love and inspiration that is equally in me, and it is calling me to live this love and to be the inspiration for all the people I meet’. Serge Benhayon inspires me to live more lovingly with myself and others and shows by clear example that this way of living is extremely possible and indeed practical.

227. James, whole-hearted endorsement of what you express here so beautifully.

     Serge Benhayon is a man who seems to not be governed by time – there is a sense of spaciousness around him and, as you say, ‘Serge, without fail, has time for everyone. He never rushes a moment with a person’. I recently experienced this when Serge took the time to be with me and listen and it was not only his words that so supported me but his presence which had a timeless quality and I felt I was being held in love. It was truly healing.

     1. I agree Sandra, there have been many occasions when I have felt how Serge quite literally has all the time in the world for me – it is quite extraordinary how he does it. It certainly is inspiring to say the least.

228. Agree James 100%
     Serge is the real deal, it is so amazing it’s almost unbelievable

     1. Unbelievably amazing but true Luke! It just goes to show what is truly possible when we fully commit to living a life of love.

229. Great point James! A true role model has to be such in all the spheres of his/her life and not just in one of them. I subscribe to every word of your blog. Serge Benhayon is a true role mode 24/7, day after day, year after year. He is an amazing human being that offers the most loving reflection I ever came across and that is amazingly inspiring. He, and what he presents, have made an enormous difference in my life.

     1. Great point Eduardo, ‘A true role model has to be such in all the spheres of his/her life and not just in one of them’. They are very few people who can actually live and be the same in all aspects of their life consistently so. The consistency which Serge Benhayon has lived with since I have known him for over 11 years has helped me trust people and humanity again and that is is actually possible to live in a truly loving way 24/7.

230. Thank you James, I too am inspired by the incredible amount of love Serge Benhayon holds for everyone and his dedication to humanity.
     He has been such a role model for me in what it is to be a true man, embracing and accepting my sensitivity and delicateness that is so innate to me and know that is true power and not something I should be ashamed of.

     1. Thank you Francisco, I agree with you entirely, I used to be ashamed of and tried to hide my sensitivity especially amongst other men but now with the inspiration from Serge Benhayon and other Students of Universal Medicine have learnt to embrace it more fully and now am a lot more open with other men, when previously I would always have put a guard up trying to be a big tough strong man and hide my sensitivity.

231. Thank you James, I am reminded that being a true role model, as a man, has nothing to do with what I do, but everything to do with how I am, which honestly has nothing to do with trying to be a role model but simply offering who I am.

     Perhaps my greatest revelation on this subject of role models is that now knowing exactly who I am means, I no longer seek my own role models to aspire to, nor attempt to impress any others to follow me as one.

     1. Thank you for sharing Greg, I agree with you that the more I connect to and know who I am, the more content I feel within myself and the less I try to impress others with what I am doing.

232. James, I so loved reading what you share about your experience of knowing and being with Serge Benhayon, and I know it’s the absolute truth, as I also know Serge for over 10 years now and the amazing love that comes from him towards everybody he meets is so profound that it is hard to fathom that this actually exists. He is the real deal and an absolute role model for every man, women and child.

     1. Thank you Esther for confirming what I, along with many others have felt and know Serge Benhayon to be.

233. Very well said James, Serge Benhayon is a very dedicated man. His consistency and integrity goes beyond words, thank you James for expressing it.

     1. I agree Alex, great point Serge Benhayons ‘consistency and Integrity goes beyond words’, it is one of his many attributes that has helped enable me to re-build and allow my trust of humanity to develop and deepen. Instead of being frustrated and angry at the world I now am far more understanding of others. The more consistent I am the more others around me also can trust where I am coming, instead of before becoming a student of Universal Medicine when I was literally all over the place and no one really knew which James they would get!

234. It’s amazing to see a man such as Serge Benhayon take the onslaught of abuse that is out there and yet still bring the “love” more and more and more. Another example of true role model behaviour…being able to take it in his stride rather than get knocked, shows an amazing strength, one that can only come from a true knowing of the truth and commitment.

     1. I agree Phill, it is amazing to observe Serge Benhayon consistently ‘bring’ more and more love even with all the abusive and slanderous lies which have and still are being spread about him. It is an amazing strength Serge carries and further shows the power of Truth and the love Serge holds us all equally with.

235. So true James and Andrew. Serge Benhayon’s true humility is available for all to see and an inspirational way to live – returning to our very natural essence.

236. This is so true Jane, ‘An absolute true role model living in our midst today. One who I am constantly inspired by’, I feel the same, I feel blessed to have Serge Benhayon and his family as true role models.

237. I have come back to this blog as I found it inspiring the last time I read it. A ‘true role model’ I really appreciate the last line “This is nothing inherently special as we can all do it, and be the same, but it should be celebrated as very few among us are willing and choosing to do this.” It is important to remember that it is ‘simple’ and only takes free ‘will’ or choice. Thank you.

     1. Well said Samantha – ‘it is ‘simple’ and only takes free ‘will’ or choice’, yes all our hurts which we have held so deeply onto will come up so we can let go of them and it may appear ‘tough’ at times but when we bring it back to the simplicity as Serge Benhayon shows us, things flow with a lot more loving consistency.

     2. I agree Samantha that Serge Benhayon is indeed a truly remarkable but humble man who seems able to have a level of patience and dedication to people and life that is unprecedented. However guru he is not as he has constantly said that anything he does is not special and anyone can do it also. It is just a choice and it is very simple.

        1. Andrew, I fully agree what is so deeply inspiring about Serge Benhayon is that he says: ‘he is not special and anyone can do it also’, rather than putting himself above anyone, he treats everyone as equal.

238. A very inspiring article.

239. Serge is a true role model and a immense inspiration. He presents to us simply that there another way to live life full of Love, Joy and Harmony. I feel blessed and humbled by his deep wisdom. Thank you James for a great blog. You too are a role model and an inspiration.

     1. Thank you Maryline, very much much appreciated.

240. I agree Jane, no article can fully put into words Serge Benhayons ‘relentless love and care for humanity’, for it is beyond words. It is also further inspiring to read all the comments from people, who like myself, have been inspired to live a more loving and harmonious way of live. Thank you for sharing.

241. Like all the comments here, Serge Benhayon is a true role model and having known him for over 10 years now, not once have I felt any different. The typical role model for boys growing up is a football star or celebrity yet look below their public life and things are a mess. All that Serge is – is there all the time – in public or at home constantly supportive and all loving. As James has written the real story has yet to be told.

242. Well said James, the media really are missing out on a story that is worthy of front page news, something that would truly benefit their readership. It is a sorry reflection on where we have allowed our press to drop to when they print lies about people just to sell copies like they have done with Serge Benhayon.

     1. That’s a great point Fiona; ‘the media really are missing out on a story that is worthy of front page news, something that would truly benefit their readership’.

        1. I agree with you Fiona and Susie, it is a sorry reflection on where we are at in society as we have allowed the press to print such vile lies and accusations, even when in some instances they had prior warning as to where the information was coming from and that it was totally unfounded.

243. It is a very beautiful blog written by someone who is clearly inspired by Serge Benhayon.
     This inspiration is clearly demonstrated here by the amazing story you have written.

244. A very appreciative article James, and certainly something we all feel! Serge Benhayon, to your point, has always been very real and totally loving. Never moody or too busy – which so many of us can get caught in. It’s lovely to know such a solid person who has inspired many more.

245. I fully agree that Serge Benhayon is a great role model, for each and everyone of us. He has shown us the many aspects of life that we can aspire to. Love, honesty with ourselves and other people.

246. Beautifully expressed James. Serge Benhayon and his family have shown us all that there is another way to live. Even in the face of all the cyber-bullying and media abuse they remained consistently true to themselves. If there was a Hall of Fame for Love, Truth, Integrity and Dedication to Humanity I am very sure Team Benhayon would be up there.

     1. I agree Tim, given what Serge Benhayon and his family have been through and yet staying ‘consistently true to themselves’ shows us all that no matter what we are faced with we can stay ourselves and not react. Very inspiring.

247. A very inspirational blog and comments.

248. I agree with everything shared in this article and the comments. As well as all of this I find Serge Benhayon is a role model for me in evolving the greatness within me. To explain this let me expand: there are times when Serge is on stage and is just sharing about how he lives or how he approaches life and I feel moved beyond words, simultaneously feel a joy for what I am witnessing and feel an ache in my heart for having missed it so long. For example the first time I heard Serge explain that if he prepares chairs for a meeting, he naturally places each chair down in tenderness,as he places each chair down, he is completely aware that someone will be sitting on that chair, that they will ‘feel’ the impact of care or a lack of it, that he has a responsibility, I was speechless, it was so simple yet so profound for me, I completely understood what he was talking about and I sooooo longed for that level of love and care in the world. That inspired me to start building that kind of awareness and commitment in my life. That was several years ago and through similar inspiring moments my understanding and commitment to a loving life has deepened enormously. There are millions of gems I consistently hear from him and witness in the way he lives, which provide a deeper insight into my own heart, a deeper connection to my own Soul. Serge Benhayon is an immense role model and support for me in evolving and expanding back to the greatness that I know in my heart I am from.

     1. Beautifully said Golnaz, I could not agree with you more, Serge Benhayon is, beyond words, a deeply inspiring man and role model showing me and so many other people, as the student body and these comments attest to, a truer more loving way of living life.

249. Serge Benhayon and his family are true role models. We can all learn from them about loving ourselves and loving others. They are an inspirational family.

     1. I agree Mike, the Benhayons also show us how a loving family can be, with no put or pretense simply love. There are not many other families in the world I can say the same for – to know them and see how they all work together shows me a truly loving family is possible.

250. I too have know Serge for around 10 years and can testify 100% to everything that James has quoted here. It is impossible to imagine a greater role model. Like James, Serge has shepherded me through a plethora of life’s ups and downs, never, ever, ever failing to be there for me any single time that I have ever, ever needed him. And he is there with total love and zero compromise. He is a living, breathing and laughing inspiration to me and to the thousands of others whose paths he has crossed and blessed.

     1. Thank you Otto for sharing and further confirming the true model Serge Benhayon has been and is for many thousands of people.

251. I never really thought of Serge Benhayon as a role model for myself until reading this post. I’m not sure why I’ve never considered it before, maybe because he is a man? Or that I have never really deeply appreciated how much commitment to love and to humanity it takes to live the way he lives. But as you say James, he is not special, he has just made choices that do not compromise on love, choices we are all able to make for ourselves, so rather than just looking on and loving what I see, I will try seeing Serge Benhayon as my role model… and being more responsible for my choices. Thanks for the inspiration.

252. Very well said, James. This line…

     ‘The media hungers for exposing stories but in this instance have missed out on the greatest story of them all’

     …I love, and you have hit the nail on the head: the media have missed out on the greatest story out there – Serge Benhayon is an incredible inspiration; a truly remarkable man, spending time with whom will attest to. His commitment to service – true service – is like nothing I have ever seen before.

     As for the media, wouldn’t it be great if they were spreading the word about Serge’s amazingness so that more people could know about him? instead of aligning to an agenda of defaming and bad-mouthing.

     1. I agree Conor and I am sure in time they will. The changes in which Serge Benhayon has inspired many people, my self included, is unquestionable and remarkable.

253. I find Serge Benhayon and his family very inspiring. They demonstrate to me that there is another way to live – a life of true family and love and service to humanity, the real deal, no false pretence to be other than they are – natural people with huge integrity in all aspects of their lives. Observant yes, but never judging. True role models.

     1. I 100% agree Sue, well said.

254. I really appreciated the simplicity and the pure facts based in this blog. When I read it, I can feel my appreciation for how Serge Benhayon has shown integrity and that wonderful full attention and presence – at any presentations and within personal encounters that I have experienced, since becoming aware of Universal Medicine. Thank you for writing with clarity and putting the record straight.

255. Nothing puts us at ease more than being with someone who does not judge, sees you as their equal and who lives transparently with nothing to hide – that is Serge Benhayon. Words cannot express my utmost appreciation for this man and what he has given and still brings to humanity. Serge Benhayon and his life is certainly worthy of front page news.

     1. Shevon, I love how you say: ‘Nothing puts us at ease more than being with someone who does not judge, sees you as their equal and who lives transparently with nothing to hide’ – I could not agree more.

256. Re-reading this wonderful blog, I am again in absolute awe that one man can meet hundreds and thousands of people with the same unflinching love. Serge Benhayon sees God in every single one of us, and when we spend even a moment with him, we cannot but be reminded of who we are.

     1. This is amazing in itself Janet, and I would add he reminds us we can equally connect and express as he does.

257. Thank you James for putting into words how so Absolutely Inspiring Serge Benhayon is, simply by connecting with the essence of each and every person he meets with no judgement just equality and Love. I have never ever experienced or witnessed anything less than this in his presence. What I have felt for myself and seen with others is that in his dedication to grow, live with absolute integrity and share all that has been learnt, anyone has the choice to make supportive and loving choices for themselves too.

258. Well said Ariana – Serge Benhayon constantly reflects love back to us no matter what and no matter who we are.

259. I agree totally and wholeheartedly with every word you write James. Serge Benhayon is indeed amazingly consistently inspiring in every way.

260. Thank you James for expressing so simply all I would love to say also about Serge Benhayon and the enormous love, joy, integrity, truth, honesty, dedication to humanity and amazing livingness…….. it is endless all that Serge lives and reflects to us all for us to live for ourselves.
     A True role model for the whole world and there is an enormous thank you to be expressed.

261. A truly great testament to a truly great man! Thanks James.

     1. Perfectly put Kevin.

262. I love the comments about the queue at the end of workshops – yes, Serge Benhayon stands there in his fullness, knowing exactly what is needed to be said to each person in turn. He always speaks without judgement, and with absolute equalness. Here is a man whose whole life is dedicated to humanity, and he offers us all a true reflection of our own divinity – indeed a True Role Model.

     1. Very true Carmel, Serge Benhayon never holds judgement towards anyone and has absolute respect, love and patience for the whole of humanity.

263. Serge Benhayon lives an extraordinary ordinary life, with an openness and willingness to share that inspires many. Thank you, James, for sharing this fact so sweetly and clearly.

     1. I agree Matilda, and the wonderful thing is that he is inspiring so many people to make their ordinary lives extraordinary too.

        1. I love this, the ordinary made extraordinary. Indeed this is so.

     2. I love your comment Matilda – ‘extraordinary ordinary’ certainly describes the way that Serge Benhayon lives.

264. That is so true Ariana that Serge Benhayon listens to the whole package… and yes it sure is the real deal.

265. Thank you James for expressing so beautifully what I too feel about Serge Benhayon – I am constantly inspired by experiencing Serge living what he presents, there is no show, only consistency, integrity and love.

     1. So true Elaine. Thank you James and everyone for expressing what so many of us feel, this man is awesome, inspiring and loving. He is an amazing role model.

     2. Oh so true Elaine.

266. Absolutely the Truth, Janet, perfectly put.

267. So true James, Serge Benhayon is a role model worth writing about. Many people today have been inspired by his love and consistency, including myself. I have known Serge for many years, and no one could put on an act that long. His love comes from being lived and expressed everyday, and everyday I am thankful for having him as a true role model.

     1. Great point, absolutely agree that the only way that Serge Benhayon can maintain his love and consistency is by living and expressing it every day.

     2. It will be great when Serge Benhayon and the Universal Medicine Student Body are studied, as we will be. The world trend is downhill with illness and disease on the rise – something many of us were a part of (not that we are now immune to it – we are human and not perfect!) – but now we are reversing the trend and it is a Joy to watch others too be inspired by Serge, and likewise inspire others.

        1. Well said James.

        2. Very true James.

268. Serge Benhayon has shown thousands of people across the globe that there is another way to live that is full of love, joy and harmony. He is a living example of God’s equal and unconditional love for all of humanity. If he did not live this day in day out, there is no way that so many people would have let themselves trust again in love, and now be living that love also.

     1. I for one Janet, would have not trusted in love again or be living the love that I am today.

     2. That is beautiful Janet and I feel exactly the same way. Thank you for the post James. Serge Benhayon is a true inspiration to humanity and how we can live our lives if we choose to.

269. Thank you James for expressing exactly what I feel, and have myself experienced with Serge Benhayon. Serge has at all times unfailingly been there for me in full, and as you say, has never minced his words, and has never ever judged me in any way, even when I have been judging myself.

     1. True Catherine, whereas I have been trigger happy at judging myself, Serge Benhayon has been unfailingly non-judgemental and loving. He has always seen the true me underneath all the games and complicated scenarios I have presented and he has always responded to the true me and not my false personas that might have been fooling even myself – and he has been so consistently loving and honouring towards me that I eventually learned to be that for myself. Now I am learning to be that for other people, as he has been for me. Yes, Serge Benhayon is a True Role Model.

     2. As you say Catherine, at all times Serge Benhayon has been unfailingly there for us all, has never judged us and continues to love everyone to the absolute highest degree.

        1. So true Susie

        2. I agree Susie and how amazing is it that Serge Benhayon has the time to be there literally for thousands of people over the world on a personal level, plus be an author, a presenter, director of a very successful busy expanding business, always woking on/overseeing several projects at any one time, has a very full and committed family life and so much more. This is something to be investigated as it is truly remarkable. People have had the opportunity to experience this love consistently for over a decade, this is not a fad or staged appearance, it is the real deal, there is so much here to learn from…

270. YES James I agree the world has missed out on the greatest media story of them all about a real man called Serge Benhayon. I reckon I am alive because of what he said to me and many others who chose to listen and apply the teachings of Universal Medicine and the Ageless Wisdom. There are very few on earth that truly show you that you are the same and you can also be that and give you the tools to support you to become the real you. I have nothing but absolute Appreciation for this man.

     He is the real deal and I know it. A true role model who is humble beyond words and works non stop to serve humanity in every way possible. My life has changed because like you say ‘he does not judge’. I have learnt how not to judge through understanding and this has inspired many people I have supported. I got this from Serge Benhayon.

     I do not follow him as he has no followers. I just see him as the real thing and what is possible for me if I choose to live as he does. A true role model who does not need any fancy fluff or media to get attention. He just gets on with it and I hope one day I can say the same about me. I know I am on my way!

     1. Hi Bina – I agree entirely and yes I know you are on your way, and so am I!

     2. So beautifully shared Bina, I absolutely agree, Serge Benhayon is a true role model.

     3. Fantastic Bina, your words are very true – Serge Benhayon has assisted so many to turn around life styles that were on a crash course with ill health and more. And as you say, impossible to follow him as he has no followers, simple. He just gets on with his life and leaves others to do the same, no frills, just dedicated to his work and expression of wisdom.

     4. I agree Bina the media has missed our on the greatest story ever to be told, and it is right under their noses. One day they will wake up to the fact that Serge Benhayon is the real deal and that he has been the true role model for both men and women. He has brought an understanding of what true love is for us all to feel and that is an amazing gift to receive and an a true blessing for us all. Thank you James for your beautiful and heart felt blog.

        1. Yes, so true Alison the most extraordinary media story is staring them in the face, but they just can’t see the wood from the trees.

     5. So true Bina. The first time I heard Serge Benhayon present I was stunned. Here was a man standing in his full truth, without ego or agenda, not needing approval, indeed inviting us not to believe what he said, but to test it for ourselves, and feel our own truth. So I did. And found that what he presented was a knowing of a way of being that my body knew, but my mind had over-ridden. He stands as a shining example for all of humanity.

        1. Well said Catherine, ‘He (Serge Benhayon) stands as a shining example for all of humanity’.

271. I always love watching Serge Benhayon at the end of a course while people queue up to speak to him, whether it is some issue that they are seeking support for or they just want to thank him and give him a hug.

     The full connection that he gives to each person (and sometimes it is every person in the room in the queue) is amazing to behold and amazing to receive.

     I was going to write “there is no one else like him”, but if anything, he has inspired myself and many others to be like him, and connect to that love within and share it with others. The truest of role-models!

     1. Perfect Naren, Serge Benhayon is a true inspiration for all of us to be like him, in terms of being loving and open with everyone and not holding ourselves back in anyway. And yes slowly but surely there are many of us who are claiming the love we all equally have within and sharing it with others.

     2. Great point Naren – there is very often an air of superiority when it comes to ‘normal’ role models, such as celebrities, but this is not true in the case of Serge Benhayon – he treats everyone as an equal and truly inspires people to connect back to love as he has done.

        1. Totally agree Jess. When I met Serge Benhayon in 2010 in one of his courses I was amazed to see how he was just ‘merging’ with everyone. There was no special treatment for him – very different from the presenters and teachers I’ve met before that were treated as superiors.

     3. It is extremely Inspiring to watch Serge Benhayon and the absolute connection he offers everyone, no more and no less to any other – all equally so and consistently so. Serioiusly Amazing to be met by him in that Love and to be held and supported in it.
        As you expressed Naren, that Love is there for us all to connect to, it’s just a choice.

        1. Perfectly written Natalie, it is beautiful to observe how everyone Serge Benhayon connects with is met with the same absolute love.

        2. I absolutely agree. It is an absolute Joy to watch Serge Benhayon with people. Serge makes Love, tenderness and connection with people so natural that one can’t help feel those qualities within themselves.

     4. I too love watching Serge Benhayon. Whenever I have been to concerts or any other presentations in the past there has been an air of the people on stage being “better” than the audience and whisked away to a private jet. Many times I have sat and observed at the end of one of Serge’s presentations and just enjoyed the lovely feeling in the room. Gorgeous, equality.

     5. True Naren, the truest of role models. It is not gender related, Serge is just as much a role model for me as a woman as would say Natalie or Miranda Benhayon be. The love and consistency that is in their lives is truely inspirational for all.

272. You have written this piece so beautifully James, and have summed up exactly how I also feel about Serge Benhayon. My experiences with him are identical and I couldn’t have defined them any better than you have done.

273. You hit the nail on its head James, 110% agree with each word written.

     1. Absolutely agree Rachael!

        1. Yes, well said Rachael.

274. Thank you James for your words, they beautifully express what I feel. The moment I met Serge Benhayon I knew I had found someone who reflected back to me the Truth of who I am. I feel total Love in his presence and yes, no judgement whatsoever. He is indeed a true role model for us all, equally.

275. You said it all James. Serge Benhayon is a true role model and a very inspiring person.

     1. Here here Priscila

276. If Serge Benhayon did not live this way, there possibly would be no-one to offer true inspiration. Thank you for this blog.

     1. Rhiannon, what I now love is that there are now many more people who have been inspired by Serge Benhayon offering true inspiration to others.

277. I love how you have expressed so simply about an equally amazing man as yourself for all to read and especially those who have not yet met him. And yes Serge Benhayon and his family are very awesome and true role models in this world. I feel blessed over and over again several times each year to have these reflections in my life. Thank you, James, beautiful. 🙂

     1. So true. Serge Benhayon and his family provide great inspiration and reflection of what is possible in living a life of integrity, love, truth, responsibility and commitment. They are amazing role models and I too look forward to the days when they are physically in my life. I would have still been an arrogant health practitioner, very angry with the world and withdrawn from society if I had not met Serge Benhayon and had not been inspired by the truly loving way he approaches life.

        1. So true Golnaz – and you are a shining example of how things change when we get a reflection such as that shown to us by Serge Benhayon, his family and practitioners of Universal Medicine. I too bless the day I walked into a talk, having no idea of the profound effect it would have on my life.

        2. Agreed Golnaz – Serge Benhayon and his family are truly beautiful people, well said: ‘they provide great inspiration and reflection of what is possible in living a life of integrity, love, truth responsibility and commitment’.

        3. Well said Golnaz, you too are now a role model for how we can make truly loving choices and can change the way we have been living.

        4. Golnaz, you too are an amazing role model for humanity and we all are when we meet people with absolute love and equalness.

        5. Well said Golnaz. I too would have remained arrogant and withdrawn had it not been for meeting Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine. It has been a true grace to meet Serge Benhayon and to discover that there is a real way to live in this world that honours our love, compassion, wisdom, that truly nurtures our health and well being and shows us our way home to ourselves. It is a true blessing and one that can be shared as we too resume our connection to these innate and divine qualities within us.

     2. Thank you Mary and Julie. It is also great to hear Mary how you are starting to heal your past hurts with men through meeting men now who are not afraid to express and share from their exquisite tenderness. It is a gift we as men have held back from the world and from women for far too long, we have for aeons tried to be something we are not, tried to be something we ‘think’ women want us to be whilst everyone loses out – the tide has turned and men are starting to side their true nature once again.

     3. I love that you say here ‘an equally amazing man’ as that is so the Truth. We ARE All Equal and the Beauty of Serge Benhayon is this is what he teaches, lives and presents. One can’t help but feel your equality and value in Serge’s presence.

        1. Hear hear Shevon, you have expressed clearly my thoughts and feelings. Thank you James for your blog.

        2. Love your comment Shevon; completely agree!

278. I completely agree with what you written James, Serge Benhayon is a true role model and inspiration for us all.

279. So true Ariana, Serge Benhayon listens with every particle in his body to every particle in our bodies, not just the words, but our energy and expectations – and all done with no agenda of his own, just simply and fully there and then speaks what needs to be said, with no expectation from the person he is listening to. As James says, he is a True Role Model.

280. Serge is indeed all that has been expressed here in the article and comments, and I feel very humble right now for having chosen Universal Medicine and having Serge Benhayon in my life.

281. Thank you for your beautifull expression James… I too feel truly blessed to have Serge Benhayon as a role model who illuminates my path of return to who I truly am.

282. Serge Benhayon is an amazing man, he has time for everyone. No question is small or silly in his eyes. He is there equally for everyone.

283. Thank you James – there is a dearth of true role models today that can show people a true way of living and being based on true joy, vitality and love. Instead it is all about fame and celebrity and sometimes at any cost. It is a facade that often covers up the inner emptiness – and thus the seeking for outer recognition. For those who are interested in a true role model – look no further – Serge Benhayon has inspired hundreds and hundreds of people to turn their lives around in a way that is true, bringing increased levels of health, joy, vitality and love.

     1. I am loving reading all the comments further confirming the inspiration and the role model Serge Benhayon has been and is for soo many people, thank you all for sharing. The depth of appreciation I have for Serge and the love he has brought to us all continues to deepen the more I/we become aware of what Serge is unconditionally offering us.

284. James, the gentleness and humbleness of your blog is an example itself of how such an incredible role model as Serge Benhayon can inspire others to live with the same level of integrity as you have shown here. My life has been truly blessed by what Serge Benhayon has presented and expressed with such devotion to humanity that in my experience is unprecedented.

285. Yes Serge Benhayon is a true role model indeed.

286. Thank you James for expressing the beauty-full truth of Serge Benhayon and the true role model he is. As you have shared, whenever I have spoken to Serge Benhayon I have always felt he is totally there listening to me and not distracted by anything (even the long queue behind me) as he listens and you are held with love which is truly honouring to be held in such love. A true inspiration for all humanity.

287. Thank you James – this is a truly awesome expression about Serge Benhayon and the amazing man that he is. What he shares and what he reflects has made such a difference to my life. As you say, he is a true role model.

288. Thank you James for expressing to the world who have not yet met Serge Benhayon, what all that have met him, know for truth.

289. Thank you James for so clearly expressing what an amazing role model Serge Benhayon truly is, an inspiration to all who meet him.

290. Serge Benhayon is indeed “a man living lovingly and inspiring everyone he meets to be more of themselves and to be more naturally loving”.

291. Like all the comments I, too, feel blessed for knowing Serge Benhayon, to have him and his family as a role model. His inspiration has brought such a change to my life in so many ways – by his example to love myself, to know that I too can be an inspiration and not hide, and so much more. Thank you James for providing this platform.

292. I have never come across anything to match Serge Benhayon’s consistency, love and commitment, and his absolute integrity is an inspiration for all who choose to see it.

293. So beautifully expressed, Serge Benhayon is the truest role model I have ever met and I love when you remind us all “Serge, without fail, has time for everyone. He never rushes a moment with a person”, something I will take into my day. I recently reflected on the role models I aspired to and looked at them today – they are not doing well at all. Having a new and true role model in Serge as you have written is incredibly supportive. Thank you for writing this.

294. So true James… I have never met anyone like Serge Benhayon, so unwavering in his Love for Humanity, equal with All and always there to reflect the Truth of who we are. An amazing man and an inspiration to us all….

295. I completely agree, particularly with your comment about Serge having no ‘put on’, he truly is the real deal.

     1. Thanks Jess – I know how throughout my life I have tried to put on different faces and be different characters but it is exhausting – they could never be sustained – it is also easy to tell when there is a put on as it never feels like the whole thing or person, but with Serge he is fully there, no put on, warts and all!

296. Hi James, thank you for such a beautifully written article.

297. Well said James. Serge Benhayon is definitely a true role model and an inspiration to us all.

298. Thank you James for expressing what so many have felt and experienced from Serge Benhayon. The beauty he brings to the world is truly inspiring.

299. Thank you James. What you have written is my absolute experience of Serge Benhayon. Having been deeply let down by people and society which had failed to reflect the level of love and integrity my heart desires, it took me a while to accept that someone could actually be truly presenting the real deal. But wow, after 8 years of knowing Serge Benhayon, I have been immensely inspired by him and have regained my trust and openness to humanity, I am more open and loving, I have a greater sense of responsibility and I have a rich and fuflfilling relationship with life. And since he does not consider himself special or having arrived, he is forever expanding and deepening his own expression too, and the amount of work he commits to: treatments, supporting people, presentations, writing, and more! Seems astonishing. He is a true role model – very very inspiring.

     1. Thank you Golnaz for sharing. It is role models like Serge we need, showing the world how things can be, that it can be the way we all feel inside just don’t always see coming back at us.

300. So very true James, a great article.

301. A very lovely piece James, Your honesty shines through.

302. I couldn’t agree more James. Thank you for expressing your appreciation for Serge Benhayon. He is a truly remarkable man whom I am deeply appreciative of myself. A role model for us all.

303. Beautiful to read James and all the comments too and confirms all I know. Finding the enormity of love reflected for us all to feel since meeting Serge Benhayon is simply amazing.

304. This is so lovely James thank you, I agree with every word. Serge Benhayon is an inspiration for us all.

305. Beautifully Expressed James.

306. This is such a beautiful read James, so clearly and eloquently spelt out and how many of us feel about Serge Benhayon too. He is a man deeply committed to the whole of humanity, shining the way forth for us all. Thank you for sharing this gem.

307. Serge Benhayon is an amazing role model.

308. James I too have known Serge Benhayon for 10 years and in that time all that you shared is completely 100% true. How amazingly dedicated to each and everyone that he meets, is truly inspiring. The Love that he shares is in us all – equally so.

309. Thank you James for sharing, you are so right to say Serge Benhayon is an amazing true model and completely inspiring. He holds everyone equally in love, and has such a beautiful open heart. Just so amazing, never know anyone like him, so true and pure. He has completely changed my world through inspiration, full of love and joy.

310. From Serge Benhayon’s presentations we have learnt that each one of us is responsible for being a role model, such a humble guy as he shows us all our worth. Great piece James.

311. James – great to read… and I feel the same way. Serge Benhayon has been an amazing role model for me too. What has been particularly interesting for me is to see how his consistency has provided a platform for so many, and how that has inspired us all to make changes and live fuller lives.

     1. Hi Simon, it is amazingly powerful and confirming how Serge has consistently been in the time I have known him as well. Always having someone who no matter what offers the same level of love, shows that even with everything that is going on around us in the world we can stay ourselves and not get affected by it all.

312. Thank you James for expressing so beautifully what an extraordinary man Serge Benhayon is. So much love and integrity and open-heartedness. A true inspiration.

     1. A true inspiration, Thank you Esther – and as I know you know no words are enough.

313. Great words James. The support that Serge provides to all of us is incredible, and at the same time shows us a deep understanding of where we are without any judgement. Thank you!

     1. Very true Gustavo, the support and reflection we get from Serge is inspiring, inspiring because it helps us make a choice to increase our awareness and see that where we are or have been has not been loving and so change the way we are, or it confirms the choices we have been making and says there’s even more love!

314. Yes, Serge Benhayon reflects all that we know we want to be and he always totally and fully respects our choices even when we reject the love we are being presented with. It’s an amazing thing to feel. The enormity of the blessing we receive is truly and deeply profound for us all when we are ready to receive it.

     Thank you for writing about your experience of what a true role model really is James… So beautifully expressed.

     1. Thank you Suzanne, it is great to reflect on what you wrote as the enormity of what we are offered is huge, one which our mind cannot really comprehend. Whilst we all receive it, we measure how much we let in and want to be aware of.

315. Thank you Michelle, the way you expressed shows you are well on your way to expressing the depth of love Serge Benhayon offers us all.

316. Thank you very much James. This is one of the most honest and open love letters I have ever read. I totally agree with you and deeply appreciate the unwavering reflection Serge offers to us. He is constantly showing us what we are capable of and who we truly are. And that we can live a truly loving and joy-full life. The changes I see in people around me who are inspired by Serge as I am are a true testament to this.

     1. Thank you Katrin, I love how you said: Serge is constantly showing us what we are capable of and who we truly are. It is this that makes Serge truly inspiring.

317. Thank you James for writing so beautifully that which I feel about the loving commitment Serge reflects to humanity. Thanks too for the reflection about listening to others and really being present – you feel very present and joy-fully light.

     1. Thank you Judy very much appreciated, it was also a real pleasure to write.

318. Thank you James. My experience of how Serge listens and is fully present when engaging with someone is the same as what you describe and something I find deeply inspiring.

     1. I totally agree, thank you for confirming what I have felt.

319. Well put too Ariana, by listening in-full Serge is aware of everything. As I start to listen more and more to other people – I start to become more aware of what the person is actually asking and have a far greater understanding of the whole.

320. And the lovely thing is the more and more of us who are living with a deeper commitment and level of integrity the more of us too can offer the same reflection to humanity, throughout the student body true role models are to be found. You Amina are one of them.

321. Beautiful James, you have very eloquently represented the truth about Serge and the truth about us all, that we can if we choose, live with the same level of love and truth that Serge Benhayon and his family chooses to, everyday of our lives. Thank you.

     1. Thank you Rowena and yes Indeed we can, and so shall we!

322. Thank you James for a great article highlighting what it is I want in a role model and in someone I look to for guidance. I want someone that is the real deal and Serge Benhayon is nothing less than this. You will not find anything hiding behind closed doors here. You will only find a man living lovingly and that has inspired me to live that too.

     1. Thank you Sally, even the words do not do justice to the depth of role model that Serge is for myself, you and all of humanity.

323. Thank you James for sharing your experience of Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine for over 10 years. I can say that this is my experience as well and I know without any doubt that Serge Benhayon and his whole family are true role models and the real deal. The love Serge and Universal Medicine has and expresses for all is truly and deeply inspiring.

     1. Thank you Esther, I know there are plenty more people who feel exactly the same way. Serge and his family are inspiring how they bring us all in as equals.

        1. Thank you for your article James. It is so refreshing to read such a true and loving message about the amazing role model that Serge Benhayon offers to us all. Serge and the Benhayon family are an inspiration of how we can all live.

324. Well said James – it’s great to see the truth about Serge written so honestly and sincerely.

     1. It sure is – there is plenty more that can be said but no words will ever match up to what Serge presents us, they can only catch a glimpse of the enormity of it.

        1. I agree completely.

325. Hear, hear James. The way Serge consistently lives, expresses and communicates has been, and continues to be, a marker for me to lift my game. He is inspirational… yet what he reflects is attainable to each of us if we choose to live a more loving life.

     1. Exactly well said – Serge never puts himself above anyone rather asks us to be more of ourselves.

326. Meeting Serge has changed my life. I have learnt what it is to be inspired, truly. Feeling the absolute love within, Serge has and continues to inspire me to allow this same quality to be in my life. Serge has reflected to me time and time again the power of reflection we each carry. I feel so so blessed for having met Serge. Thank you for this article James.

     1. I agree explicitly with you Abby, thank you for sharing too.

     2. I feel the same Abby, meeting and listening to Serge has re-awakened old knowledge and given me back my road to home.

        1. Abby and Catherine, I love the way you have written acknowledging and appreciating the changes that you have made and are making. Beautifully captures my experience of Serge Benhayon as an immensely inspiring role model.

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