I Love the Benhayons

Ok, I’m just going to out myself here and say straight up – I love all the Benhayons…

The Benhayon Family - Clayton Lloyd, Deborah Benhayon, Simone Benhayon, Curtis Benhayon, Isabella Benhayon, Natalie Benhayon, Emmalee Benhayon, Ericah Benhayon, Michael Benhayon, Caitlyn Benhayon, Miranda Benhayon, Serge Benhayon
The Benhayon Family (L-R): Clayton Lloyd, Deborah Benhayon, Simone Benhayon, Curtis Benhayon, Isabella Benhayon, Natalie Benhayon, Emmalee Benhayon, Ericah Benhayon, Michael Benhayon, Caitlyn Benhayon, Miranda Benhayon, Serge Benhayon

 

Declaring my love for an entire family may seem a bit odd, however it is an interesting question and one worth asking – why do I love all the Benhayons?

Furthermore, why does someone, like me, who led a small life in a big industry in a big city and who, in the past, was VERY careful about who she befriended and who she publicly aligned to… (after all I had my reputation as a known film and TV industry publicist and administrator at stake – and my career was built on my reputation and my social life was an extremely important part of my career)?

Why does someone who in the past would never have dreamt of writing a public blog, nor for that matter associate with anyone else who wrote a public blog announcing that they loved an entire family, a family I might add, that lives in a suburb in Lismore which will likely never be the cause of anyone’s ‘postcode envy’, a family who come from a sporting background, a family who does not have one single known/recognised actor, artist, director, DOP or film producer amongst them and a family whom the writer is not related to, doesn’t hang out with nor grew up with etc; why would that someone suddenly have the need to publicly announce familial love?

Benhayons at the beach
Benhayons at the beach

Before I answer that question though, let me share what got me thinking about the fact that I love all the Benhayons. It was not that my life is devoid of things to do and I was daydreaming (unrealistically as we all know he is married) about running off with Michael, nor that my life is built around the Benhayons and therefore dependent upon thinking about them daily, nor even that I hang out with them or see them that regularly… no, what got me thinking about the Benhayons was the fact that over breakfast this morning I wondered to myself which one of them I loved the most…. (please feel free to laugh here, I am not a serious person).

And do you know that I couldn’t, in all honesty, put any one of them above any other in the ‘how much I love you’ stakes.

Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete, they conduct themselves with the utmost integrity and respect, they are funny, they are self aware, they are generous, they are imperfect, they are inspiring, they are hardworking, they are open to all equally, they effortlessly and without trying make each of us who see them as clients believe that we are the only person in the world who is so charming and interesting and evolved and they hold all of this consistently whilst allowing us to see their humanity and their imperfections.

So, if by following the ‘presented’ road of returning to love that Serge Benhayon has so consistently and lovingly been presenting for over 13 years, if by witnessing many people, including the Benhayon family, live their lives with an ever increasing ability to be love in all that they do and say, if that raises eyebrows or seems a bit odd to others then I invite you to tell me why you wouldn’t love such a family?

Deborah McBride - "I Love the Benhayons"
Deborah McBride – “I Love the Benhayons”

And while we are here, I’ll answer that initial question about why go public?

If strangers have the right to accuse me of being one of a “gaggle of middle aged women with a penchant for ball busting” as has been done by a small group of people who have written lies and slanderous accusations about this amazing family, if they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.

My life is truly blessed for having met each member of this family. And for the price of having chosen this path that Universal Medicine has presented, I am now devoid of onerous depressions, outrageous needs for recognition, drug and alcohol addictions, lonely marriages, lack of purpose and endless, endless arrays of drama.

Thank you Benhayon family, I love you all equally.

The Benhayon Family (Back L-R) - Emmalee Benhayon, Michael Benhayon, Natalie Benhayon, Serge Benhayon, Miranda Benhayon, Simone Benhayon, Curtis Benhayon, Deborah Benhayon, Isabella Benhayon, Clayton Lloyd. Front (L-R): Ericah Benhayon, Caitlyn Benhayon
The Benhayon Family (Back L-R): Emmalee Benhayon, Michael Benhayon, Natalie Benhayon, Serge Benhayon, Miranda Benhayon, Simone Benhayon, Curtis Benhayon, Deborah Benhayon, Isabella Benhayon, Clayton Lloyd. Front (L-R): Ericah Benhayon, Caitlyn Benhayon


By Deborah McBride

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Serge Benhayon the Family Man
About Serge Benhayon

767 thoughts on “I Love the Benhayons

  1. Yes me too – I love the Benhayons and you too Deborah. What a strange world we live in that we so often feel a need to justify or hold back on declaring our love.

  2. The world needs more love and all of us living in it too. With every expression we either add to love or to the other source of energy that separates us from love. By building decency and respect with each other we can start to build connection, which is essential on our way to love. Writing lies about another adds to the separating energy that can be felt and also used by others for their own mis-use. Absolutely stunning to read this love declaration and I absolutely agree: I love all the Benhayons too.

  3. Hear, hear Deborah, I agree with every word you have said. I feel blessed to know the Benhayon family, the reflection and constant love they have shown me over the years has supported me to discover true love for myself.

  4. I agree I have been watching and learning and the Benhayon’s just keep on growing and becoming more love and more amazing, there is no self-satisfaction with ‘that is enough now’, more responsibility and care is chosen and this inspires me deeply….”So, if by following the ‘presented’ road of returning to love that Serge Benhayon has so consistently and lovingly been presenting for over 13 years, if by witnessing many people, including the Benhayon family, live their lives with an ever-increasing ability to be love in all that they do and say, if that raises eyebrows or seems a bit odd to others then I invite you to tell me why you wouldn’t love such a family?” This can be all of us, me you, us, we all have the potential inside to live and express.

  5. Media is full of lies and in many cases no one questions when false accusations are deliberately dropped in public. So why not share the deep appreciation for a family that lives daily what honesty, transparency and true love is?

  6. I Love the Benhayons too. For all that they reflect to me, for all the support that I’ve received along these last years when needed, for presenting me a way of life that is very enriching, truly joy-full and loving. Thank you Deborah for writing this beautiful blog in appreciation of such an amazing family.

    1. If you truly know the Benhayons, what they bring to humanity, how they live, and so on, how could you not love them; the world needs many such reflections of love, truth, joy, harmony, and stillness.

  7. When you live honouring yourself you can’t help but naturally inspire others too – the Benhayon’s Love is truly beautiful to see and something we all feel.

  8. Gosh Deb I can only say hear hear, as I love them all equally too. They are as you say each their very own person but share this great love, wisdom, purpose, commitment and willingness to do whatever is needed for us all.

  9. “I Love the Benhayons” – me too Deborah, they light the world so that we can all see the equal light we all are too. Such is the absolute equalness lived that is so loving and unwaveringly felt when in the presence of a son of light.

  10. How beautiful, yes Benhayon Family, thank you – thank you for your care, support, love and humour. Thank you for the presentations, the hard work, the workshops and the sessions. Thank you for walking with purpose, dedication and in devotion to the all – thank you Benhayon family for being who you are – an absolute inspiration.

  11. Thank you Deb McBride, for you show us that love is much stronger than any lie. And that your expression of love is making us see that in this world we live in, we fight against love and have been prepared to take others down by our lies.

  12. The Benhayon family are extra-ordinary in so many different ways. How can you not love a group of people who are one billion percent inspirational in the way they live and conduct their lives and are setting a new stand of what is possible? The world needs more people like the Benhayon family.

  13. There is so much to be appreciated in the reflection that the Benhayon family brings in terms of true family and love.

    1. Yes Jenny, I now know what true family is after watching the love and connection between the Benhayon’s, it is truly beautiful and deeply inspiring.

  14. This is a beautiful and heartfelt appreciation of a family of real life superheroes who have supported people to transform their lives the world over.

  15. I love this, it is so normal to love your partner or your dog or your family but to love so many other people is not seen as normal. Yet I feel it is our normal to love people and express lovingly to all and not just a selected few.

  16. “…if they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.” Having worked in customer services for many many years, it’s commonly known that people will more readily complain than appreciate. Why is it that we struggle so much to appreciate that which supports us so deeply? Thank you Deborah for taking a step to support the rest of us to express our appreciation – not only of the incredible Benhayon family, but every that is at the moment being passed by unappreciated.

    1. Thank you Lucy this is so true. How many times have I been to Customer Services to say how much I appreciate something? I may have spoken my appreciation while refunding a garment but refunding the garment was my main aim….not appreciation. I shall be aware now of the beauty in voicing my appreciation and let’s see what unfolds.

  17. Thank you gorgeous Deb, you are beautiful, and so so honoring of you and the Benhayon family to write all this. It inspires me to write even more on what is valuable in my life ; they are, and the truth that they represent, that I now choose to walk with everyday (to my best ability). They have inspired me how it feels to be loved, how it is to be love and how it is to be truly loved by others( the Benhayon family). So you sharing – inspires me to walk more in this love myself and honoring what the family Benhayon has offered me – being my true family now..

  18. I loved reading this Deborah, to the point and why not. The Benhayon’s are truely a uniting family who have nothing more to offer but their immense love for all, never measured, never compared – now in all my years I haven’t experienced this before and I’ve only known them since 2014.

  19. Deb I absolutely loved reading this! Your appreciation is inspiring and very counter to the accusations being hurled around like confetti.

  20. As we love and appreciate the growing Benhayon family we can feel that we can love and appreciate the wider family of humanity all around us.

    1. So true Mary. The Benhayons are so deeeply inspiring as a family and how they relate to and communicate with each other. What a blessing it is to know them and that we too can be inspired to deepen our own relationships with everyone that we meet.

  21. Your outward transparency Deborah is inspiring. Inspiring me to also claim my own love and deep appreciation of this family. A family who ultimately is not numbered to just a few but to us all. A family we are all a part of but are only aware of the fact we are until we reclaim the love we truly are.

  22. Public love is the best sort of love – especially when it is celebrating the qualities of others with no agenda other than to be in awe of what/how another lives. Why keep it in when it gives people so much Joy to express?

  23. What a gorgeous blog of truth and appreciation (love) about the Benhayon family. A huge huge applaud not because of the words being used – but the love shared by you and the Benhayon family. That is an expression missed in our world – should be welcomed when present from All angles. Thank you.

  24. What a lovely blog, as you say, it is so important to offer love back when faced with vindictive and hate-full slander. If we stay silent then we leave space for those mistruths to be believed.

  25. The Benhayon’s are a beautiful family, and what they live is reflected out there for all to connect to within themselves and live as well. They are an amazing family leading the way.

  26. What is not to love, and like you say they complement each other beautifully so its not a question of loving one more than the other… just appreciating they each have something to offer as we all do.

  27. Appreciation like this is oh so needed in the world today. I look forward to the day when there are more articles like this on the internet than cyber abuse. What a different world this would be.

    1. What a great point, imagine a world filled with the expression of love and appreciation, instead of abuse. Each of us can easily do our bit to bring the love, and it’s a beautiful responsibility.

  28. How we twist the world into what becomes our own reality is quite amazing. We can look and read things like this and think all manner of things and no doubt a lot would turn off to this or dismiss it as something. But what is truly being offered by an article like this? What is the purpose of writing something like this about someone or in the case a family? To show that it’s ok to appreciate and not condemn, to show that you shouldn’t listen to everything you hear, to show that there are people who are choosing to live life from another place and to show that it’s completely ‘normal’ to listen to what you feel. These are some of the things that I see when I read this article and there are many more. I say thank you for truly appreciating what you see in this world with no conditions, it’s great for us to see.

  29. Isn’t it that we can more often feel all beautiful feelings or have beautiful thoughts and we do not express them. We keep it to ourselves. Great you didn’t Deborah.
    And you know what Deborah I love all the Benhayon’s deeply too.
    Each of them expresses something very different but one thing they have in common they share the love they live within themselves with the world the same as they do with their partners and children.

  30. I love your declaration of love Deborah McBride. A great lead to not be afraid to express the love that we feel.

  31. When I think about how much I love any one of the Benhayon’s I cannot but now connect with how much I love the whole of humanity, which is a beautiful thing to be inspired to re-connect with.

  32. I love this declaration Deborah! I love that as others have time to write a load of rubbish, you have countered it with a load of love. Simple and far more interesting is what you’ve written here!

  33. “If they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly” – wow. So inspiring, Deborah. What I feel from each and every member of the Benhayons is their commitment to themselves, each other and what they bring to the world, and how they are role modeling life on Earth as an individual, as well as a community is also available to everyone of us, by choice.

  34. It was such a joy to read about your love for the Behanyons Deb, thank you for sharing, I too feel love and appreciation for what each one brings in their own right, they give to humanity an amazingly divine reflection of what true family means, as they accept all humanity as family.

  35. Thanks Deb, I do concur, they are legends, all of them, I love them dearly, they are close friends and do not deserve any of the vicious things that have been said about them. Anyone who has the pleasure of meeting them can feel how amazingly committed and lovely they are.

    1. Legends indeed Sarah and what has inspired me for years now is how, regardless of what is said about them, they keep loving and responding to what is needed. This is something we should observe and understand because it will support how we deal and perhaps even eradicate bullying and abuse.

  36. So true Deb- they are all amazing people who inspire me greatly on a daily basis. They are all so different and offer a different reflection. It is so inspiring to see the way this family live and are together- I have never seen anything like it.

  37. I love you Deb McBride and your love of the Benhayon family. This is an awesome testimony to true (unemotional) love and to the Benhayon family. And I also love (a lot of love!) how you send it straight back to the media in your reasons for going public. If you got the time to write lies? I got the time to write the truth! Love it. And I also love your description of the family – they are so unique in their own expression, and with no comparison at all. A complete celebration of themselves and each other.

  38. When a whole family like the Benhayon’s can make living their ordinary everyday lives extraordinary it deserves not only our attention and observation but our appreciation.

  39. Heartfelt appreciation for an extraordinary family who I too love deeply and feel blessed to have in my life.

  40. It’s astonishing to realise feel so close to people I have only spoken to in person once or twice, yet I feel closer to them than people I spend days with.

  41. Gosh, I love the Benhayons too, they lead the way in showing what family is really about and in showing how simple it is to live a truthful and loving life. It’s impossible to sum up just how awesome this family is in words…

  42. Loved reading this Deborah – the lightheartedness, playfulness and absolute seriousness that you declare your love for the Benhayons. I absolutely love them as well, for all of the reasons you describe above. It is a joy to appreciate your declaration.

  43. This family is utterly the most incredible family I have ever known. And no they don’t have any super powers or are super fantastically out of this world in terms of their physical abilities or achievements. They are real, down to earth, loving, soul-full people that commit in full to every aspect of human life and connect with all they meet and do not hold back an ounce of their love for themselves and others. This is a rarity these days to see and witness. Most of humanity is living so far away from themselves and in such deep hurt and protection, it is unfortunately the case that many are in life for themselves and are protected from others. The Benhayons are setting the standard straight that love is the one and true way!

  44. What is there not to love the Benhayon family, they bring something very refreshing to humanity, a family who shares their life with everyone around them, they have an amazing capacity for work and when they stop to speak to you it’s as if they have all the time in the world, and what you exchange with them matters, there are no polite gestures there is only a sharing of the deepest love.

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