Ok, I’m just going to out myself here and say straight up – I love all the Benhayons…
Declaring my love for an entire family may seem a bit odd, however it is an interesting question and one worth asking – why do I love all the Benhayons?
Furthermore, why does someone, like me, who led a small life in a big industry in a big city and who, in the past, was VERY careful about who she befriended and who she publicly aligned to… (after all I had my reputation as a known film and TV industry publicist and administrator at stake – and my career was built on my reputation and my social life was an extremely important part of my career)?
Why does someone who in the past would never have dreamt of writing a public blog, nor for that matter associate with anyone else who wrote a public blog announcing that they loved an entire family, a family I might add, that lives in a suburb in Lismore which will likely never be the cause of anyone’s ‘postcode envy’, a family who come from a sporting background, a family who does not have one single known/recognised actor, artist, director, DOP or film producer amongst them and a family whom the writer is not related to, doesn’t hang out with nor grew up with etc; why would that someone suddenly have the need to publicly announce familial love?
Before I answer that question though, let me share what got me thinking about the fact that I love all the Benhayons. It was not that my life is devoid of things to do and I was daydreaming (unrealistically as we all know he is married) about running off with Michael, nor that my life is built around the Benhayons and therefore dependent upon thinking about them daily, nor even that I hang out with them or see them that regularly… no, what got me thinking about the Benhayons was the fact that over breakfast this morning I wondered to myself which one of them I loved the most…. (please feel free to laugh here, I am not a serious person).
And do you know that I couldn’t, in all honesty, put any one of them above any other in the ‘how much I love you’ stakes.
Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete, they conduct themselves with the utmost integrity and respect, they are funny, they are self aware, they are generous, they are imperfect, they are inspiring, they are hardworking, they are open to all equally, they effortlessly and without trying make each of us who see them as clients believe that we are the only person in the world who is so charming and interesting and evolved and they hold all of this consistently whilst allowing us to see their humanity and their imperfections.
So, if by following the ‘presented’ road of returning to love that Serge Benhayon has so consistently and lovingly been presenting for over 13 years, if by witnessing many people, including the Benhayon family, live their lives with an ever increasing ability to be love in all that they do and say, if that raises eyebrows or seems a bit odd to others then I invite you to tell me why you wouldn’t love such a family?
And while we are here, I’ll answer that initial question about why go public?
If strangers have the right to accuse me of being one of a “gaggle of middle aged women with a penchant for ball busting” as has been done by a small group of people who have written lies and slanderous accusations about this amazing family, if they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.
My life is truly blessed for having met each member of this family. And for the price of having chosen this path that Universal Medicine has presented, I am now devoid of onerous depressions, outrageous needs for recognition, drug and alcohol addictions, lonely marriages, lack of purpose and endless, endless arrays of drama.
Thank you Benhayon family, I love you all equally.
By Deborah McBride
Serge Benhayon the Family Man
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Absolutely, we are blessed to have the Benhayons in our life, what they reflect and bring to the world is beyond magnificent.
Since meeting the Benhayon’s I have been on a path of rediscovery. There is a lot to be said for perusing true love, I had no idea for example that I was parched of it. I knew I was suffering from depression and mental illness but put this down to ‘that’s life’ as looking around me no one was seemingly enjoying life but just getting by using many different rewards to get them through the day.
Meeting first Serge Benhayon was a major turning point in my life I am still turning the ship around but I’m not sailing in hurricane-like waves that threaten to engulf me. I’m sailing in calm waters as there is no longer any sense of mental illness or a wish to withdraw from life. There is a truth to what Serge Benhayon presents that our bodies naturally align to, it is as natural as breathing. There are those that are so hurt that they find it difficult to trust and love again and I understand that because I was one of those people but that’s why I feel it is so important not to just give up on life and humanity but understand that the reasons we give up are because we have given up on ever connecting back to the true love that resides within us all. To give up is to feel that we are less than that we do not deserve love what Serge Benhayon shows us all is that we are so worth it. We are pure love because that is our essence and it is pure love that is the energetic quality of the universe. The fact that the majority of us have no comprehension of this doesn’t make the truth lesser it shows that we are being blinded by something that doesn’t want us to know just how loved we truly are. We are kept a prisoner of our own emotions locked in our minds.
What you share Mary I can relate with, not trusting people, withdrawing from life; and what you share in itself is enough to deeply love and appreciate Serge Benhayon before anything else he brings is even mentioned.
Gee, it’s so beautiful to read this again, it’s highlighted to me how vital it is for our wellbeing to express our love and appreciation, we have so much love within ourselves but we don’t often let it out. Simply gorgeous to read, and I love them all too, such an awesome family.
How could you not love the Benhayons, each and everyone of them brings so much to the world and humanity in their own unique way.
There is so much that can be said about these guys – I haven’t met all of them, but as I meet every single one of them over the years, it feels like I have known them forever. The awkwardness or unfamiliarity and pretense we often fall in when meeting somebody new is not there, it’s always a warm welcome and pleased to see you. They are a truly amazing group of people, a family that is inspirational & we can learn much, much from them.
The media has found the only way to resist Love is to lie about it, and one day these lies will be known as simple false allegations against the most Loving group of people on this earth.
That’s what the majority of us are doing resisting the love that we are naturally, because we just cannot seem to get our minds around the fact that we are literally led around by the nose by a consciousness that is not going to admit what the game is. Why should it when it has the upper hand. I liken our way of living to a film I saw call Jumanji where a group of people get sucked into a game in which they don’t know the rules and they had to work together as a team to find their way out. And is that exactly what we all need to do, work together to bring down the illusion we call life and get out of the game back to where we belong.
In the current canary-virus as it could be known as it is taking advantage of those of us who do not want to understand the bigger picture, so it is like we are kept in the dark like canaries were last century to alert miners to impending danger. At the moment the whole world is on edge so it is amazing to walk through the supermarkets and connect with others with a simple smile and a loving look. As the current SAS virus has many names maybe being light heart could relieve the pressure of isolation at present? 💓.
True Greg, what the media peddles about the Benhayons is disgusting evil lies, and at some point the media will be exposed for their corrupt and evil ways.
“… why you wouldn’t love such a family?” Absolutely no reason at all!!!!!!
‘I love all the Benhayons…’ Ah me too! Absolutely love them all. They each bring a quality that is unique and so perfect in every way. They all teach me that there is no better, we are all uniquely equally amazing when we dare bring ourselves out into the open to be seen. The joy and sense of humour they each bring is truly wonderful, and how they interact with each other just beautiful. I so appreciate how they know they are watched by everyone and they don’t shy away from saying to the world, just be yourself, don’t hold back you’re amazing too. I am truly blessed to know them, even if I don’t see them that often, they are there.
Thank you Karin for your comment, they are such a unique family and offering such extraordinary support to others, they are setting the model for what’s possible in family, work, serving community, and relationships in general. They certainly draw out all of this love and appreciation for good reason, truly an amazing group of people blessing everyone.
They are such a sweet and amazing family, I love them all too. Even more spectacular is the Universal Medicine student body and how we are all returning to how amazing we each are by living from our essence again, and the way we are loving and adoring each other… it’s like the Benhayon family is growing! The Benhayon’s are truly amazing, they have set the marker for what’s possible for how we can each live and share our love equally with all.
“Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right,” When we extend the family to encompass all humanity we realise that each and everyone of us is an amazing person – we just have to be who we are – love.
Thank you Deborah, a blessing to read.. and a blessing to know each member of the Benhayon Family too. For they have inspired me to claim my truth back in this world where so many lies have been incorporated into many many industries, lives and families. It is truly refreshing to see a family living the truth that they all know to be, just like we all can.
“I Love the Benhayons” – the more we truly love the deeper we (can) love truth in all its representation.
Whenever I have spent any amount of time in the presence of one of the Benhayon family I am constantly inspired as they are all in their own right amazingly brilliant human beings. As a family they have restored a way of life and a way of working together that will be the blueprint for how humanity lives in the future.
Andrewmooney26 I totally agree with you that the Benhayon family have re written the book on how to live as a true family. I’m so glad I gave myself the opportunity to explore in my own time what is true family and what it is I had accepted without ever questioning the validity or truth of what was on offer.
The depth of love that the Benhayon family have inspired in me extends to naturally loving everyone more deeply too, such is the level of openness and equality that they hold.
I love how you shared that you could not know who you loved more, because that is our natural way, to love all equally even though we all bring a different flavour to life. When we express from or in our essence we are all equal.
The Benhayons live a life of love and truth, they reflect this and inspire everyone else to equally live a life of love and truth.
A family not unified by the exclusive common blood is thicker than water mentality, but a family who lives brotherhood as the one common denominator for all of us as the one humanity we are. They know us all to be one family and live it at their homes as well as in the public inclusive of everyone. Love is love without any measured version or exclusive favouritism.
Totally agree Deborah, the Benhayons are up front honest and full of love, there is an equality with them all that only goes to inspire us all to live in this same quality of love.
“Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete, they conduct themselves with the utmost integrity and respect, they are funny, they are self aware, they are generous, they are imperfect, they are inspiring, they are hardworking, they are open to all equally” – I so love how you have described the Benhayons here. This is the future of Our family, all of Us.