Shining Like a Diamond

Since I was sixteen years old, diamonds have deeply fascinated me. Not because of their material value, but because of their unique physical properties and sparkle.

I have learned a lot about jewellery and gems since then ­– about the history, craftsmanship and art of jewellery and gem cutting. I discovered many amazing details over the years, but nothing has ever fascinated me more than the sparkle of a diamond.

A diamond is the hardest natural substance on earth and it does reflect more light than any other gemstone. No one diamond is exactly like another, every single one has its own unique beauty. There are a large variety of cuts, all with their different properties. The more of them there are, the greater the sparkle that is reflected. Just this morning, while sitting on the sofa feeling a wonderful autumn morning dawn outside, I saw amazingly beautiful reflections of the warm glow from the fire in the stove in the diamond on my finger.

The sparkle was so still, almost subtle, yet so joyful and profound. Maybe this was just me that I was seeing, as the only things that I felt in this moment were an amazing stillness and joyful love for being who I am, like I am and where I am.

This was when I suddenly understood why I have always been fascinated by diamonds. When you look at them you see a beautiful gem; you know that it is precious, but what you see above all is a reflection of light. A diamond cannot do anything else than reflect the light that is cast on it – just like we in our essence are mirrors for each other to truly see ourselves.

Every diamond is different; most of them are white, but occasionally they do appear in every colour imaginable. They can have inclusions or be absolutely clear. Every diamond will reflect the same ray of light differently, depending on its cut and proportions and its inner structure. And yet, from a chemical point of view, all of them are made from highly compressed carbon.

We are the same: different in our outward appearances, but made up of the same particles in a strikingly similar way. Our essence is the same – love. We can connect to this essence anytime, thereby not only connecting to ourselves, but to everybody else.

The fiery glow in my diamond made me understand: We meet what we reflect and reflect what we meet.

This reminds me of the days where we are feeling joyful and light and suddenly we meet this joy and lightness everywhere – in others, nature or interactions – and where we never would have deemed this possible. What we see is what we radiate or shine out. Like diamonds, every other person in their unique way will reflect back to us what we radiate or shine out. There is no better or more effective way to reflect; every way is valuable and special.

We so often seek to change our lives by trying to change the circumstance we live in. We dream of things that might make our lives simpler or richer, we hope for the perfect partner, job or whatever, to arrive. We want to change everything around us, but do we realise that in fact there is just one thing that we can truly change? Ourselves.

Not by force or with a lot of effort – we do not need to learn things and do not have to become better. What we need to do is open up to the fact that we are wonderful just as we are. Deep inside our bodies we know all of this already and with our body we have the most faithful companion in whom we can always rely if we might need a truly wise answer.

Like a jewel that has not been cleaned and lovingly worn for a long time, we might be covered by dust of the ages and our surface might show some signs of wear, but deep inside we all are a gem.

Like an antique diamond we might need loving care and attention, but we cannot lose the ability to shine and sparkle from deep inside. It is simply up to us to shine and sparkle in our fullness again.

By Michael Kremer, Personal Assistant, Buchholz, Germany

Further Reading:
Returning to Our Essence
Aladdin’s Lamp – Cleaning a Teapot

1,039 thoughts on “Shining Like a Diamond

  1. Such a precious article to read this morning.
    At times I’m blown away by the sparky gorgeousness of some people around in my life, but what I’m realising is what I love most is the natural joy that is reflected back to me as a qualitiy of my essence as well. It may change the physical aspect but deep down inside we all share the same light, the same essence.

    1. True Greg, instead of judging we open up to get inspired by another’s expression, we enrich each other so beautifully in this way.

  2. I always find it fascinating the little aspects of life which can inspire a person, like you have written here – a simple autumn dawn, a reflection of light has inspired something in you which has lead to this beautiful article. An article which many people have the opportunity to read & connect to the same feeling within themselves.

  3. “Every diamond will reflect the same ray of light differently, depending on its cut and proportions and its inner structure.” I love this, it’s a beautiful way to understand the unique expression we all offer, and our absolute equality at the same time.

    1. I agree – this is such a wise statement, how can we ever compare ourselves to another when just like a diamond we are here to show a different point? Yet, we are engulfed in it, our insecurities and everything we ourselves have laced ourselves with are a constant bring-down through which we compare and feel bad about…

  4. And when we begin to appreciate that just like a precious diamond, we ourselves sparkle and reflect different facets to different people. Depending on the angle that they are seeing us, we will realise how precious to each other’s learning and growth we really are.

    1. Absolutely Suse, appreciation of our essences and the fact everyone will reflect these qualities equally, but slightly differently, because we all come from a different angle and you have equality and evolution.

  5. Our true nature is to reflect the light of our Soul through every facet of life we live, the truth of who we are. This is a beautiful reminder Michael of our innate way of being and our true purpose in this life.

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