720 thoughts on “I Love the Benhayons”

1. Totally agree Deborah, the Benhayons are up front honest and full of love, there is an equality with them all that only goes to inspire us all to live in this same quality of love.

2. “Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete, they conduct themselves with the utmost integrity and respect, they are funny, they are self aware, they are generous, they are imperfect, they are inspiring, they are hardworking, they are open to all equally” – I so love how you have described the Benhayons here. This is the future of Our family, all of Us.

3. Yes me too – I love the Benhayons and you too Deborah. What a strange world we live in that we so often feel a need to justify or hold back on declaring our love.

4. The world needs more love and all of us living in it too. With every expression we either add to love or to the other source of energy that separates us from love. By building decency and respect with each other we can start to build connection, which is essential on our way to love. Writing lies about another adds to the separating energy that can be felt and also used by others for their own mis-use. Absolutely stunning to read this love declaration and I absolutely agree: I love all the Benhayons too.

5. Hear, hear Deborah, I agree with every word you have said. I feel blessed to know the Benhayon family, the reflection and constant love they have shown me over the years has supported me to discover true love for myself.

6. I agree I have been watching and learning and the Benhayon’s just keep on growing and becoming more love and more amazing, there is no self-satisfaction with ‘that is enough now’, more responsibility and care is chosen and this inspires me deeply….”So, if by following the ‘presented’ road of returning to love that Serge Benhayon has so consistently and lovingly been presenting for over 13 years, if by witnessing many people, including the Benhayon family, live their lives with an ever-increasing ability to be love in all that they do and say, if that raises eyebrows or seems a bit odd to others then I invite you to tell me why you wouldn’t love such a family?” This can be all of us, me you, us, we all have the potential inside to live and express.

7. Media is full of lies and in many cases no one questions when false accusations are deliberately dropped in public. So why not share the deep appreciation for a family that lives daily what honesty, transparency and true love is?

8. I Love the Benhayons too. For all that they reflect to me, for all the support that I’ve received along these last years when needed, for presenting me a way of life that is very enriching, truly joy-full and loving. Thank you Deborah for writing this beautiful blog in appreciation of such an amazing family.

9. When you live honouring yourself you can’t help but naturally inspire others too – the Benhayon’s Love is truly beautiful to see and something we all feel.

10. It seems a little silly and is very telling for the state of relationships the world is in if we have to explain why we would publicly share our love for others.

11. Gosh Deb I can only say hear hear, as I love them all equally too. They are as you say each their very own person but share this great love, wisdom, purpose, commitment and willingness to do whatever is needed for us all.

12. “I Love the Benhayons” – me too Deborah, they light the world so that we can all see the equal light we all are too. Such is the absolute equalness lived that is so loving and unwaveringly felt when in the presence of a son of light.

13. How beautiful, yes Benhayon Family, thank you – thank you for your care, support, love and humour. Thank you for the presentations, the hard work, the workshops and the sessions. Thank you for walking with purpose, dedication and in devotion to the all – thank you Benhayon family for being who you are – an absolute inspiration.

14. Thank you Deb McBride, for you show us that love is much stronger than any lie. And that your expression of love is making us see that in this world we live in, we fight against love and have been prepared to take others down by our lies.

15. The Benhayon family are extra-ordinary in so many different ways. How can you not love a group of people who are one billion percent inspirational in the way they live and conduct their lives and are setting a new stand of what is possible? The world needs more people like the Benhayon family.

16. A ‘familial love’ that reminds us how familiar love is to all of us.

17. There is so much to be appreciated in the reflection that the Benhayon family brings in terms of true family and love.

    1. Yes Jenny, I now know what true family is after watching the love and connection between the Benhayon’s, it is truly beautiful and deeply inspiring.

18. This is a beautiful and heartfelt appreciation of a family of real life superheroes who have supported people to transform their lives the world over.

19. I love this, it is so normal to love your partner or your dog or your family but to love so many other people is not seen as normal. Yet I feel it is our normal to love people and express lovingly to all and not just a selected few.

20. “…if they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.” Having worked in customer services for many many years, it’s commonly known that people will more readily complain than appreciate. Why is it that we struggle so much to appreciate that which supports us so deeply? Thank you Deborah for taking a step to support the rest of us to express our appreciation – not only of the incredible Benhayon family, but every that is at the moment being passed by unappreciated.

    1. Thank you Lucy this is so true. How many times have I been to Customer Services to say how much I appreciate something? I may have spoken my appreciation while refunding a garment but refunding the garment was my main aim….not appreciation. I shall be aware now of the beauty in voicing my appreciation and let’s see what unfolds.

21. Thank you gorgeous Deb, you are beautiful, and so so honoring of you and the Benhayon family to write all this. It inspires me to write even more on what is valuable in my life ; they are, and the truth that they represent, that I now choose to walk with everyday (to my best ability). They have inspired me how it feels to be loved, how it is to be love and how it is to be truly loved by others( the Benhayon family). So you sharing – inspires me to walk more in this love myself and honoring what the family Benhayon has offered me – being my true family now..

22. I loved reading this Deborah, to the point and why not. The Benhayon’s are truely a uniting family who have nothing more to offer but their immense love for all, never measured, never compared – now in all my years I haven’t experienced this before and I’ve only known them since 2014.

23. Deb I absolutely loved reading this! Your appreciation is inspiring and very counter to the accusations being hurled around like confetti.

24. As we love and appreciate the growing Benhayon family we can feel that we can love and appreciate the wider family of humanity all around us.

    1. So true Mary. The Benhayons are so deeeply inspiring as a family and how they relate to and communicate with each other. What a blessing it is to know them and that we too can be inspired to deepen our own relationships with everyone that we meet.

25. Your outward transparency Deborah is inspiring. Inspiring me to also claim my own love and deep appreciation of this family. A family who ultimately is not numbered to just a few but to us all. A family we are all a part of but are only aware of the fact we are until we reclaim the love we truly are.

26. Public love is the best sort of love – especially when it is celebrating the qualities of others with no agenda other than to be in awe of what/how another lives. Why keep it in when it gives people so much Joy to express?

27. What a gorgeous blog of truth and appreciation (love) about the Benhayon family. A huge huge applaud not because of the words being used – but the love shared by you and the Benhayon family. That is an expression missed in our world – should be welcomed when present from All angles. Thank you.

28. What a lovely blog, as you say, it is so important to offer love back when faced with vindictive and hate-full slander. If we stay silent then we leave space for those mistruths to be believed.

29. The Benhayon’s are a beautiful family, and what they live is reflected out there for all to connect to within themselves and live as well. They are an amazing family leading the way.

30. What is not to love, and like you say they complement each other beautifully so its not a question of loving one more than the other… just appreciating they each have something to offer as we all do.

31. Appreciation like this is oh so needed in the world today. I look forward to the day when there are more articles like this on the internet than cyber abuse. What a different world this would be.

    1. What a great point, imagine a world filled with the expression of love and appreciation, instead of abuse. Each of us can easily do our bit to bring the love, and it’s a beautiful responsibility.

32. Gorgeous to read this again. Inspirational in not holding back from expressing what one knows to be true.

33. How we twist the world into what becomes our own reality is quite amazing. We can look and read things like this and think all manner of things and no doubt a lot would turn off to this or dismiss it as something. But what is truly being offered by an article like this? What is the purpose of writing something like this about someone or in the case a family? To show that it’s ok to appreciate and not condemn, to show that you shouldn’t listen to everything you hear, to show that there are people who are choosing to live life from another place and to show that it’s completely ‘normal’ to listen to what you feel. These are some of the things that I see when I read this article and there are many more. I say thank you for truly appreciating what you see in this world with no conditions, it’s great for us to see.

34. I love your declaration of love Deborah McBride. A great lead to not be afraid to express the love that we feel.

35. Without the loving and consistent reflection of the Benhayon family how would we ever know what true family is?

36. The Benhayons are simply a gift for humanity.

    1. A gift that does not asking anything back but to also to be all that we are.

37. When I think about how much I love any one of the Benhayon’s I cannot but now connect with how much I love the whole of humanity, which is a beautiful thing to be inspired to re-connect with.

38. I love this declaration Deborah! I love that as others have time to write a load of rubbish, you have countered it with a load of love. Simple and far more interesting is what you’ve written here!

39. “If they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly” – wow. So inspiring, Deborah. What I feel from each and every member of the Benhayons is their commitment to themselves, each other and what they bring to the world, and how they are role modeling life on Earth as an individual, as well as a community is also available to everyone of us, by choice.

40. It was such a joy to read about your love for the Behanyons Deb, thank you for sharing, I too feel love and appreciation for what each one brings in their own right, they give to humanity an amazingly divine reflection of what true family means, as they accept all humanity as family.

41. Thanks Deb, I do concur, they are legends, all of them, I love them dearly, they are close friends and do not deserve any of the vicious things that have been said about them. Anyone who has the pleasure of meeting them can feel how amazingly committed and lovely they are.

    1. Legends indeed Sarah and what has inspired me for years now is how, regardless of what is said about them, they keep loving and responding to what is needed. This is something we should observe and understand because it will support how we deal and perhaps even eradicate bullying and abuse.

42. So true Deb- they are all amazing people who inspire me greatly on a daily basis. They are all so different and offer a different reflection. It is so inspiring to see the way this family live and are together- I have never seen anything like it.

43. I love you Deb McBride and your love of the Benhayon family. This is an awesome testimony to true (unemotional) love and to the Benhayon family. And I also love (a lot of love!) how you send it straight back to the media in your reasons for going public. If you got the time to write lies? I got the time to write the truth! Love it. And I also love your description of the family – they are so unique in their own expression, and with no comparison at all. A complete celebration of themselves and each other.

44. When a whole family like the Benhayon’s can make living their ordinary everyday lives extraordinary it deserves not only our attention and observation but our appreciation.

45. Heartfelt appreciation for an extraordinary family who I too love deeply and feel blessed to have in my life.

46. It’s astonishing to realise feel so close to people I have only spoken to in person once or twice, yet I feel closer to them than people I spend days with.

47. It’s impossible to read this without a huge smile on ones face.

48. Gosh, I love the Benhayons too, they lead the way in showing what family is really about and in showing how simple it is to live a truthful and loving life. It’s impossible to sum up just how awesome this family is in words…

49. Loved reading this Deborah – the lightheartedness, playfulness and absolute seriousness that you declare your love for the Benhayons. I absolutely love them as well, for all of the reasons you describe above. It is a joy to appreciate your declaration.

50. This family is utterly the most incredible family I have ever known. And no they don’t have any super powers or are super fantastically out of this world in terms of their physical abilities or achievements. They are real, down to earth, loving, soul-full people that commit in full to every aspect of human life and connect with all they meet and do not hold back an ounce of their love for themselves and others. This is a rarity these days to see and witness. Most of humanity is living so far away from themselves and in such deep hurt and protection, it is unfortunately the case that many are in life for themselves and are protected from others. The Benhayons are setting the standard straight that love is the one and true way!

51. What is there not to love the Benhayon family, they bring something very refreshing to humanity, a family who shares their life with everyone around them, they have an amazing capacity for work and when they stop to speak to you it’s as if they have all the time in the world, and what you exchange with them matters, there are no polite gestures there is only a sharing of the deepest love.

52. It is so refreshing to re-read such a deep appreciation and public declaration of love for another, well an entire family in fact. It is all too often that we as a society take time to invest and indulge in expressions of comparison, jealousy, hate and lies. How could this ever unite us as a society? What you have expressed here is what I am sure many others also feel about the Benhayons, and have been equally inspired to return to simply live with more love for themselves, in their and with all others – myself included. Expressing the truth that we know and feel is what confirms the truth of us all, and this is exactly what the world needs much, much more of today. Thank you Deborah for bringing and declaring what you know is true with such authority, for it is only through truth and love, that as a humanity, we will evolve together.

    1. Thank you Carola, how true “It is all too often that we as a society take time to invest and indulge in expressions of comparison, jealousy, hate and lies. How could this ever unite us as a society?” It couldn’t be more simple or common sense, and we need that broader vision of unity together, not self and pettiness and the low standards we have all accepted.

53. Wow I loved re-reading your deep appreciation and celebration of this beautiful family, the photos confirm everything you have said as you can feel the warmth and love between them all.

54. An enormous high 5 to you Deborah for having the ‘balls’ (meant and said with love) to publicly declare your love and appreciation for one hell-of-an amazing family. Your courage is much appreciated by those of us who silently but equally love all of The Benhayon family and all that they bring.

55. Thank you Deborah for expressing your love and appreciation for the Benhayon family, each one of them in their livingness reflect what true family means, they have no borders that keep others out but embrace all of humanity with the same equal love.

56. I love how you say Deborah that if someone “…can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.” I totally agree with what you’ve presented here about the Benhayon family – they each offer so much to all they meet and have enriched my life immensely. Great to stand up and give Love a voice – the haters can hate but that doesn’t mean we have to be silent! And even if there were no lies being thrown around it’s still great to let out our appreciation of people!

    1. People absolutely need to feel that appreciation, it’s how we grow each other because it’s based on who we are and what we bring, not what we do. Appreciation helps reconnect us to who we are.

57. I love your declaration of love for the Benhayons. “Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete,” I agree each one is unique and glorious – a true family. .

58. Declaring your Love for this family publicly in this way is inspiring, we are not to hold back our love. We are all one, holding back our expression of love is holding ourselves from this love.

59. What a great blog, allowing ourselves to feel the love we feel for others is truly beautiful. Confirming that what the Benhayons share with us all is the real deal, no show but all built on true love for Humanity.

60. Your public declaration of love for the Benhayon Family is so incredibly beautiful to read and yet extremely rare. Thank you Deb for not holding back and expressing the amazing love that so many of us feel.

61. The reflection of consistent, unwavering love from every single member of the Benhayon family is totally awesome and has changed my life, and thousands of others, irrevocably. Thank you for expressing your love for this amazing family Deborah and inspiring so many others to comment on your gorgeous blog.

62. Thank you Deb – You speak for many.

63. Thank you Deborah for a great sharing of your love for this amazing family, that deeply love all humanity and hold us all equally in that love, what is there not to love.

64. The Benhayon family includes us all as members of the family of humanity and inspire us to expand our love to encompass all.

65. They are a family that not only knows what the true meaning of love and family is, but they live it every day, they are a family that walk the talk, no holding back. Reflecting out for the world to see and feel, their amazing light.

66. To be now void of what you have listed is quite an extraordinary feat and yet a beautifully common experience for those who choose the love, support and wisdom of Universal Medicine and the Benhayon family. Your love and appreciation is deeply felt and your humour both a pleasure and a delight to read.

67. Gosh I feel so blessed to know such an amazing group of people, impossible to describe the warmth and love in every single person in this family, it’s so rare yet they make it feel so normal.

68. The Benhayons are an amazing family and they will be the last people to place themselves as special or better than others – there is none of that. An inspiring family that shows how sharing the quality of who we truly are is successful in all areas of life. The fact that they are all different covers every area of life imaginable which is what makes them as a unit so accessible to humanity. And never has there been a sense from them that what they are living is unattainable and always there has been the reflection that it is simply a choice that has been and is repeated over and over again to be the love that they are with themselves, their family and all others.

69. I absolutely agree with you Deborah! Each member of the Benhayon family has different qualities yet there is a commonality amongst them and that is the way they treat everyone they are in touch with with equally and with enormous love. They are indeed role models in our world, showing us all how to live very meaningful, productive lives which supports all of humanity to learn what true harmony looks and feels like.

70. This is such a beautiful blog, thank you for writing about the true love for this amazing family, reflecting to us the way forward. Making us aware of what living is truly about.

71. Thank you Deborah for writing this beautiful blog, I too love the Benhayon family for the inspiration and true love and support they offer everyone equally.

72. I love the line that provides a confident rebalancing blow to the unsubstantiated lies that have been concocted and perpetrated by a tiny group of malcontents about a family that is truly exceptional on so many levels: ‘ if they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them’.

73. Deb, I love your sharing because it is real and I absolutely have and feel the same about the Benhayon family, they are constant reflection of brotherhood, love and family and I am so super duper blessed that I know them and since then I became to know how actually amazing I am and am the exact same love, brotherhood and family – they inspired me to feel this within myself – now I got my own power and love discovered to life and build within my life. A huge thank you to my dearest Family Benhayon.

74. Wonderful claiming of love for all the Benhayons, Debra. I agree wholeheartedly that they are all truly inspiring and have such a dedication to serve humanity with no self involved.
    My life has changed dramatically for the better because of their help, from attending sacred esoteric workshops, esoteric woman’s health talks, sacred movement classes and having personal healing sessions.

75. This is such a beautiful blog, i would be having some difficulty with expressing love so openly, but I do wholeheartedly agree that I love all the Benhayons, they are a truly inspiring family, showing us the way forward.

76. Great blog Deborah – thanks for creating a space to share my love too. There is so much to love and appreciate about the Benhayons. We had a friend over for dinner the other night and we were discussing our appreciation for the Benhayons. It was great to take the time to really feel how amazing and inspiring the choices they have made are. I am one of the living miracles inspired and supported by this family and no amount of appreciation would be enough to truly describe how much my life has turned since meeting and working with them. Thank you Benhayon family.

77. Deborah McBride, you are a true rock star at last. You are a star and you rock. Thanks for taking the courage to openly talk about your love for another. Many people have walked your steps since May 2015, some of them on these sites. What we choose to do has an impact, a meaning for all of time.

78. I have equally felt the same enormous love for each of these amazing people, reflecting back to me the same very love that I am capable of. Thank you for expressing what I feel sure everyone who is blessed to know the Benhayons cannot help but feel.

79. I love this post Deborah, a declaration of love for the Benhayon family. They are a family that live by truth, not ideals and beliefs, the whole family work together as a team, and what they reflect to humanity is a very different way of being. I am very grateful for their never ending love and support that has shown me that there is indeed another way to live from truth and in harmony with one another.

80. The Benhayons reflect the deepest love, they work as an amazing family unit and team, and watching them work together is very inspiring. They each have their own speciality that they bring to humanity and the support they give each other is truly amazing.

    1. Very true Sally. And their family unit extends well beyond and includes ‘family’ from all over the world. Everyone they meet is family.

81. Thank you Deborah, it is truly bizarre that declarations of love such as this would be seen as weird in our society. True appreciation is in order here as the work the Benhayons put in to living a life filled with love, and sharing this in any way possible with the world is remarkable. They inspire all in different ways, and take the steps to live with ultimate responsibility. They show that people at any age can do this, and the wisdom that is possible. I too love the Benhayons, and would never be afraid to say so.

82. Beautifully summed up Abby and I know myself and many others would concur with what you have shared. If we used what we have available to us to study, like this family, I feel it could free up relationships and relationships are the answer to unlocking the majority of issues we find in our communities: domestic violence, crime, political misunderstandings and wars.
    On a bigger scale war, war crimes and disputes between countries could also be dissolved if the nature of this family was truly appreciated, if we actually soaked them up and truly studied them, rather than inventing things that are of little importance and pour time and energy into studying them….we have it all there for us, if we choose to take it up.

83. I was considering this today: if ALL the Benhayon crew achieved in their lifetime was modelling to the world how family can be when you are truly loving, then that would be amazing in its self!! – and something that should be studied and observed until it became the new norm and way for families to operate. It turns out collectively the Benhayon’s are doing loads more than that.
    This is in point form, as it cannot put in a sentence!

    > full time dedicated work, within the community and in the health and well being sector
    > to running a phenomenal family business, that has been responsible for incredible transformations for people all around the world

    > writing a stack of life changing purple books
    > bringing out the first woman magazine that actually supports woman
    > changing the music industry forever with 8 or 9, maybe more? albums that are energetically designed to remind you that you are love, so why not live it all the time?

    > travel around the world every year teaching the modalities that have turned peoples lives around, thousands of peoples lives

    > answering hundreds of emails daily
    > revolutionised swimming in the U.K and around the world

    > bringing through dance/true movement that is a healing modality in itself

    > not to mention modelling how to be a vital, active, tax paying, community members….. explaining the way that money and committing to life, paying tax, organizing your finances can teach you more about your self and how that supports you and your family

    >to photography that doesn’t impose but brings out who you truly are

    I could go on and on as this does not begin to go into the entirety of what these people do but more importantly who they are…
    What a great inspiration for us. I know that every time I see or chat to this crew, no matter what just happened, even if I had a bad day or week, it all just slips away and I feel just like them, I feel awesome and like anything is possible and not because they tell me its okay or they do anything to ‘help’ but because their living way speaks to a part of me and truly inspires.
    Thanks Deb again, total cracker of a blog, your amazing.

    1. Wow sarahraynebaldwin, I totally agree with all you share here so beautifully; the Benhayon Family is showing us a huge leap of how to live as true family, where everybody is supported and is support at the same time. And this is not limited to their blood family at all. Everybody who is willing to live a life of truth and love is included; actually all of humanity is, as far as this is possible. They are not looking to reach a certain level of ‘success’ and then rest on this, but are constantly expanding and growing, bringing more to humanity every day. Thank you Sarah for the list, it’s quite humbling to see it all like that, how much the Benhayon’s offer to us all, without any big-noting, but just as a normal part of their being.

       1. Love what you have added here Esther and it is humbling to see it all listed. I was actually a little shocked at how long the list was and that was the edited version!!
          You are right in saying that their family is not limited to blood, I feel like I am apart of their family but as it turns out so many others feel that same closeness, pretty much everyone that ends up knowing them feels like that I think.

       2. Thank you Sarah and Esther for this sharing. The Benhayons are living true family that extends far and wide beyond their own circle and in doing what they do are showing others how to be love in everything they do whether it be work or play and as you say Esther they are bringing more to humanity (extended family) every day.

    2. An awe-some and super inspiring list sarahraynebaldwin!! The Benhayons show us that love is possible in family life and every which way in life which just blows all our perceptions out of the water of what we have settled for. It is super inspiring, albeit overwhelming at times when I resist the magnificence of who I am. But they are always, consistently at it, paving the way even when we deviate and delay, the love is always there to return to and feel so held and welcomed by.

       1. Yes emmadanchin, they just keep plugging away and what is interesting is they are never concerned or worried about anyone, they never panic or try to convince, they all know that the only way to truly love and care for people is through living not through telling.

    3. This is also a cracker of a list Sarah ! The Benhayons are consistently amazing, inspiring and productive in the most loving way…reading your list here just inspires further what i initially felt when I wrote this blog way back – love..love…love and then some.

       1. Thanks Deborah, revisiting this comment of mine I was pretty impressed too!!
          Seriously though, I love that you made the effort to write a blog about this family, your style of article is warm, real and endearing, many thanks and much love, well done!

    4. Love this Sarah, it is amazingly inspiring to meet one of the Benhayons, it is a true family, loving them is the only thing I would be able to do.

       1. They are a very loveable bunch….I have often thought to myself that even their worse critics would melt if they were made to actually spend any prolonged period with them. I have found the force that is required to hold out the Benhayons love is actually quite intense and that force or energy comes at a high price.

84. Deborah, very much appreciated that you could find the time to write this joyfull blog about love. About a family who all walk the talk and are an amazing and endlessinspiration every day. I fully agree that ‘every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right’. It seems to be good to be true but it is very true and absolutely real.

85. The Benhayons reflect true harmony of living and working together in equalness and we are all one with this growing family of love whether we have known them for a day or a decade.

86. These pictures say it all an ordinary yet extraordinary family. The Benhayons are a total joy-full package of amazing love, grace, harmony and unity. Their dedication to truth, Integrity, humanity and divine connection is unsurpassed. They are living examples of true love, true presence, true family, true equality, true service, true purpose and true brotherhood, and as such are truly glorious inspirations for us all.

87. I am completely inspired when I am around such a loving family. They are so normal in their practical activities and I have never seen a family so consistently joyful ALL OF THE TIME. They are all great role models for our teenagers, our fathers, our brothers and sisters.

88. Deb, I love this. If a small group of vindictive hate bloggers can publicly write lies about this family, what is to stop you, or any of us writing of the love we have for them. . . better yet, can express our love and appreciation in this way even without the impetus of responding to untruths?

    I could spend my whole life trying and not come close to expressing what this family has done and continues to do for me. Because of the Benhayons, I know truth, I know myself and I know what it is to truly love and serve others.

    I hope this blog inspires many such to be written about the Benhayons.

89. The Benhayon’s are a truly loving and inspiring family – it is well said that they reflect the harmony in which humanity can live and share life together and what’s more they make it accessible to all equally so – truly amazing and deeply called for in a world where ‘broken’ families are all too common.

90. Deb I totally get what you are saying. I am constantly inspired by the all of the Benhayon Family in the way they treat everyone with such love, respect and equality. They bring such joy and playfulness and I LOVE BEING around them. What a great role model of true family they are.

91. There has never been a doubt in me that the Benhayons are nothing less than a truly inspiring family without all the antics that we are used to seeing with families. I also love the whole Benhayon family deeply and know in my heart that they also hold the same love for me.

92. “Declaring my love for an entire family may seem a bit odd” – no, not odd at all Deborah, I’m right there with you.

    1. Spot on Jane, one day the media will be queuing up outside waiting to document this amazing family and the quality of life and love they bring to life and everyone on a consistent basis.

93. For sure this family will go down in history as one of the most loving, wise humble families of all time. Like you Deborah I feel such joy and deeply honored to know them.

    1. Yes, I totally agree, they will go down in history as the most loving family, because they are not just sharing their love with the blood relatives as family but every human being of this planet of ours, and more.

94. True family, true love that mirrors love for humanity. Thank you Deborah McBride.

    1. You said it – they are a mirror for humanity. For us to choose to live this way too – a reflection – not an aspiration. An allowing, not a comparison.

       1. Beautifully expressed hvmorden, thank you for expanding the reflection and allowing more to be mirrored! The more we allow the deeper the connection we make with the truth about family.

       2. Absolutely Bernadette 🙂 I love the idea of being a mirror!

       3. It’s great using the analogy of a mirror as with a mirror we are always only looking at ourselves. What better mirrors than the Benhayons who reflect back to us all that we truly are. With that there can be no comparison or aspiration but allowing ourselves to shine in all of our splendour.

       4. That’s beautiful hvmorden, reflecting and seeing ourselves back is so much more encouraging of making the choices they present, it is beautiful to know such a family to be constantly reminded of a true way to live.

    2. Absolutely – with the Benhayon family we have a divine reflection of a family in the livingness. I am very graceful for this opportunity.

95. Every one writing here their appreciation of themselves and the Benhayon family is completely fantastic to read. It shows how much we have come to learn and grow together, not leaving anyone out.

96. If one family can have this kind of affect on so many people, it completely confirms how powerful it is to love each other equally, without the bounds of ‘traditional family’ or ‘defined relationships’ limiting the love we can express to all.

    1. I agree Vicky, love this blog, love The Benhayons and what they stand for which is that we all have the same father anyway, right, God!

97. This is true togetherness and family – love that is so holding of each other. The Benhayons have shown me this, and that it is possible with all families.

98. All the Benhayon’s are un-waivering in their commitment to love and to live this every moment of their life. I am inspired everyday by them and I am learning to know what commitment to life and to humanity really means and the hard work and dedication that has brought them to where they all are now. They are truly like no other family I have ever met and I too love the Benhayons.

99. All anyone has to do is look at the incredibly gorgeous photos of the Benhayons (and Deborah by the way) in this blog and you can just feel the immense love, brotherhood, and harmony emanating from them. I feel fortunate for having such incredible role models in all of the Benhayon family members, since they have inspired thousands of people around the world to finally feel who they are and live with more love in their lives than they could have ever imagined before.

100. I love this blog and I love all the Benhayons too…they are all true role models for mankind.

101. I love them all too. They all are where they are at on account of the choices they have made, and we could be there too – if we get ourselves out of the way and choose differently.

102. I totally agree Deborah, every one of the Benhayon’s extended family ‘is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own’. Yet Like you, I love them all equally as they all come from the same essence, which is truly divine, although on different days I will hold one or another in my heart depending on the expression that most inspires me on that particular day.

103. Simple, real, practical, inspiring, dedicated, committed, playful, funny, real, willing to share everything, incredible work ethics, gorgeous, purposeful, loving, dedication, truthful, normal and genuine….. the list goes on, that is what they all bring, every single one of them, it is amazing, I have never seen anything like it. It is not too good to be true because over the 8 years I have witnessed the hard work and dedication put in by each of them, to get where they are, so there is no magic or epiphany or short cuts, pure commitment, dedication and appreciation.

     1. And that’s the thing – what we’re seeing in all of the Benhayons today is the result of a lot of hard work and dedication – there’s no luck involved at all. It’s all come about purely from their choices and commitment to themselves first and then to others.

        1. Yep unwavering commitment to love truth and humanity – very inspiring. They don’t wait around for someone else to lead or do the work.

        2. The definition of integrity and commitment should have the link, ‘see the Benhayon family’

104. Ok even though this might not ever happen ‘Welcome to the Benhayons’ would be the one TV show I wouldn’t wanna miss. Anyone working in the TV industry…?

105. Such a beautiful family with so much Love for All it is unfathomable that it is possible. Each one of the them lives and breathes this in All that they do, you can’t deny what this feels and looks like as it is simple divine to be around. Each and every moment that I have with them is treasured but it is so normal at the same time. There consistency is remarkable and dedication to being All the love that they are is endlessly inspiring. I am thankful from the depths of my heart to have each and every single Benhayon in my life.

106. It is quite odd loving a whole family so much, and yet not loving one more than another. Each member of the family is different and brings something uniquely special, and yet it is possible to equally love every one of them, recognising the differences and celebrating them, without one being more than another.

     1. Rebecca, the clarity in you comment made me have a realisation. I have never been friends with a whole family like this. You always have one member that you connect the most. When I was younger I would go over to friends place but they would have a mean older brother but there Mums loverly and there Dads you don’t know as he is never there. I literally feel equally close to the entire family, If I knocked at the Benhayon’s door I would be stoked no matter who was home or who answered the door, that is odd but good odd.

        1. Totally agree sarahraynebaldwin, I have had a similar experience, where just one or two members of a family are known to me, but when you know and love the whole family, it makes their family feel like your family, and begins to join people based on love not blood. I know my friends are very close to both myself and my mum, so that they feel a part of my family when they come round, rather than a bit on edge and stiffly polite because they don’t know everyone in the house.

        2. Rebecca, I love the way you have brought more, it is so true… they are earthing the fact that true family is not about blood but connection, awesome point.

107. Its great what you say Deborah about each of the Benhayon’s being amazing in their own right. They are certainly not clones of each other or of Serge Benhayon. It has been wonderful seeing all the changes in them when I have had the chance, and how the joy just keeps escalating and this is not only in connecting with each other as a family but also with all others be they friends, associates or strangers.

108. Awesome ! We are indeed aloud to speak about how much we love the Benhayons. Why would we not.. It is almost irresistable not to:). I found it very inspiring how the family Benhayon is living, very very inspiring. I have closely observed them and everytime I had with them was the most greatfull time I had in whole my life. They reminded me all, yes every single member, of love. How to love themselves, how to love another, and how to accept full love in their life. I have chosen this path to reconnect to the love I have inside me , and allowing my truth & love to be lived in full in my life. And also to receive true love around me, and yes I have practised letting the love in and be embraced by love by this gorgeous family. I never have felt so much warmth and absolute love. Love love love is the best word I can sum up about this family – just pure and equall love.

109. I am coming to realise that being inspired by the Benhayon Family is a choice, and it is a very simple one to make, because actually they are so normal and genuine with the way they live and express, that it can be very easy to say yes, I can relate to that and that is something I recognise that lives in me too.

110. It is gorgeous coming across any person who inspires us in an area of life, through their example we can feel a deeper understanding and appreciation of our own relationship with that area of life. In this respect, I find the Benhayon family a precious gift in that every single one of them is such a person and the inspiration I gain from them is not just in one small area of life, but it is the way they approach the whole of life. We are talking fundamental inspiration! And what is more, their vibrancy, joy, dedication, openness, their love and inclusiveness of people is not put-on, it is not conditional or part-time, it runs very deep and it is 24/7. Each of them completely inspires me about the potential of humanity, every one of us expressing as a Son of God, and witnessing them in relationship with one another I am inspired about the power and grace that can be expressed if as Sons of God we work together in brotherhood and in union. What they reflect to humanity about the part of us we have long forgotten is huge. I am with you Deborah I love the Benhayons more than my words can convey.

111. Love this blog and love all the Benhayons too!!!!!!

112. What a most beautiful expression and declaration of love Deborah! The Benhayon family is really, every one of them, very loving and lovable. We are all lovable, but not often live our love.

     1. So well said Ingrid we are all lovable. The Behayons live and share their love equally with everyone, whether we choose to live it for ourselves or not. What’s not to love about someone who holds us in equalness even when we forget.

113. This blog makes me smile. True love is exquisite in its ability to hold all equal, that’s why you can’t choose your favourite Benhayon Deborah, neither is no more nor no less than the other. The very notion that we are even wondering at times who we love the most (and let’s face it, we ALL have people we think we love over another) only serves to prove for me the degree to which we have allowed our understanding of love to be corrupted. Love is love, it has no time for competition or comparison. It is simply too busy being love.

     1. Great response Liane, it’s true, one is neither more or less than the other. I too love the Benhayons.

     2. Well said a Liane, the concept that we in truth could love all in the world equally has always felt unachievable. The Benhayon family have shown me not only is it possible but its actually natural.

114. Thank you Deborah for openly sharing your love for the Benhayon Family, I totally agree. The Benhayon family are a true and loving inspiration, reflecting the love they are to all equally. They are a true blessing. I too love The Benhayons.

115. It’s true. The Benhayons are a source of real inspiration. As a family and as individuals they are stellar role models of how to live a joyful life consistently. Their integrity and ability to hold all equally are simply incredible.

116. The longer I am around the Benhayons the deeper I love them.

117. The entire Benhayon family offer a beautiful reflection of how family life can be. Thank you Deborah, I too love the Benhayon family.

118. Thank you Deborah for writing this. The Benhayons have become such a big part of our lives and they continuingly show us what true family is about, not just by how they accept each other but the rest of humanity also.

119. I love them too. 🙂

120. “Ok, I’m just going to out myself here and say straight up – I love all the Benhayons…” I just love it Deb, not afraid to stand up and say what you feel. Open and direct. Music to my ears.

121. “they complement each other and do not compete” how amazing does this feel my whole body sigh with relief, imagine a world where there was no competition, only harmony.

122. “Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right” I absolutely agree Deborah, I Love the Benhayons and I love seeing these photos of them all. They all emanate love, and equality.

123. In a world full of cynicism it is so lovely to read a declaration of love.

     1. A declaration of love that shows that there is a different way to live – and that is so simple and natural.

     2. Agree Elizabeth, far too often we criticise or judge others and hold back expressing the love we feel and naturally are. How damaging is this!

124. I couldn’t resist coming to your blog again this morning Deborah. It’s a wonderful thing to read such a joyful declaration of love for others. Thank you, it’s something we all too often can hold back from expressing – and I realise here how much we ALL lose out when we do so!

125. The Benhayons are, it is true, glorious, and let’s appreciate and celebrate ourselves too, for all being part of this one big glorious family. Who could want for a more divine reflection.

126. Deborah McBride you are a glorious ray of sunshine. Thank you for sharing your Joy and Love with us all. The photo of you is superb and captures your fun, sass and beauty so well.

     1. I agree Rachael, I love this blog, so straight up, unapologetic and true. Which is Deborah McBride all over! Yes truly fun, sassy and beautiful. Thanks Deborah this is a gem.

127. Deborah, I loved the light hearted way you have written about a serious topic. The Benhayon family demonstrates a consistent way of living which we can all achieve if we are prepared to take full responsibility for our lives. Others may slander what is there but thankfully they are in the minority because the majority know that what they witness is the ‘real deal’. Thank you!

128. I love your blog Deborah, it’s put a huge smile on my face, thank you for sharing.

     1. Exactly jaderiver56 – I have re-read this blog a few times becuase it just makes me smile.

129. I love this blog, stunning to re-read and feel the joy and stance for absolute truth Deborah that you do not back down from. And I love what you say about how, if a small group of people find the time to write filthy lies about the Benhayon family who have inspired and touched so many, then absolutely we will always have the time to express how much we love them. Standing right with you on that.

     1. Yep me too, Katerina, I am with Deborah and you on that. I can always find the time to declare my undying love and support for the Benhayon family that have all brought me home to Love.

130. The Benhayons are gorgeous inside and outside. I too feel very lucky to be part of the people who know them. Simply divine.

     1. Alexandra I completely agree, It is beautiful to be apart of their world and love. Magnificently divine.

131. This is a beautiful testament to a beautiful family, you rock Deborah for writing and declaring how so many of us feel.

132. The Benhayons show up the emptiness of the ideals that we have chased after for eons, because they are living and reflecting to the world the real deal. As individuals they show how living with love, truth, wisdom, integrity, dedication, purpose and commitment to the all looks like, as a group they show how we can live as a team, loving, caring and honouring of one another and the whole of humanity, and naturally working as a team to serve the whole of humanity. They are true role models and a true inspiration.

     1. Beautifully said Golnaz and I couldn’t agree more. I thoroughly enjoy reading your comments and love how you simply yet deeply express what you feel.

133. Awesome Blog Deborah. Your warmth and humor is emanating off the page. I love the Benhayons also. They are deeply inspirational in so many ways and as a whole family…. Wow what a power House✨

     1. I agree, whats beautiful is they reflect what is capable for everyone. The love people almost naturally feel for the Benhayon family can be felt for ourselves and everyone else. The amazing relationships and loving commitment to life can be experienced and lived by everyone.

134. A great article Deborah that brings a warmth to my heart and a smile to my face when I read it. Definitely an awesome family.

135. How could you not love that which this family brings, for it is all of us … They show us that love is the way whether you believe it or not. Awesome blog Deborah. Thanks for outing us all!

136. We have a great example of family and brotherhood here to be able to take into our own homes and imprint true Love with our own families.

     1. Indeed gillrandall, a simple and very tangible example. This family is just a marvelous inspiration of what is possible when you choose to connect to yourself and live what is your innermost.

137. A gorgeous declaration of your love for each and every member of the Benhayon family Deborah. You’ve expressed what I and so many others feel, but what I also really enjoyed was the way you saw this as an opportunity to send your love right back to those who have publicly printed such lies about this amazing family. Thank you for outing yourself!

     1. Yes rosannabianchini, it is awesome to see how Deborah has with every cell in her body send her love pouring back to those who attempt to publicly print such lies about the most Inspiring family as the Benhayon’s.

138. I have learnt the true meaning of Love, trust, harmony and joy, just by being around the Benhayons.

     1. I have felt that level of love, trust, harmony and joy being around the Benhayons too, for in truth they are reflecting what I am back to me. The fact that we ALL have this inside of us is awesome and should be appreciated. The work that the Benhayons do is to ceaselessly support us all in bringing us back to our true, loving selves.

139. Oh Deb, what an awesome blog, i love how you have expressed your DECLARATION OF your love for the Benhayons…..I FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME and i know many otherS do to, so you are the voice of many and this has caused a burst of opening in me who also wants to declare my love for the Benhayons!!!!
     I TOO LOVE THE BENHAYONS EQUALLY, AN ALL INSPIRING FAMILY WHO ARE ALL INCLUSIVE AND SHARE THEIR LOVE WITH ALL!

     1. Haha I love your comment Karoline! Very true, and very relatable, they are indeed an absolutely inspiring, incredible, powerful, gorgeous family; a stunning example of how to live in true harmony and joy.

140. Great article Deborah, your right they are an amazing family and how lucky are we to of come into contact with them

141. Yep, I don’t care what anyone thinks too …. I love the Benhayons and will not ever shy away from sharing this with the world.

142. I just love coming back time after time and see these photo’s and feeling the Awesomeness that radiates from the Benhayon family. Simply Divine.

     1. I was feeling the same thing Natalie, their love and beauty is definitely felt.

     2. Me too Natalie, I love feeling the Joy and solid connection between the Benhayon’s as they stand in their Glory for the world to see. They inspire just by being them.

143. I can say with great honesty that I love the Benhayon family. However, I am learning not to love them any more than myself, or anyone else alive on the planet. We are all humans equally deserving of love, and although I may not meet each person who walks the earth, I can hold myself in love and this is then what I give, regardless of what family a person is a part of, what continent they live on, what language they speak. Unconditional love means there are no conditions to love.

     1. Well said Shami. The Benhayons are amazing but we are all amazing too and the Benhayons would be the first one’s to point that out if we ever put them on a pedestal.

        1. So true. They show unconditional love is possible for everyone.

     2. Great Shami – yes the Benhayons are all inspiring – but it is so important to recognise that level of love within ourselves and with each other.

     3. That’s Gorgeous. Yes I can say that to I truly Love and deeply appreciate the Benhayons but just the same as I would any other, including myself.

        1. Awesome comment Vicky and hear hear, I love and appreciate them just as much as I love other people and myself too. This is so important to remember as often we can put people on a pedestal, which would mean someone would be less – and this is so far from the truth – we are all equal in the love that is available to us, the love that we are and can live.

     4. That is awesome, Shami. When we meet or simply hear about one who is as inspirational as the Benhayons, it is a challenge to not lose ourselves in all that they represent. That is what we are shown over and over as being the way to be religious, but this does not raise us up, it just makes us followers and supplicants. This is not what Serge Benhayon or any of the Benhayons have ever asked for or accepted from anyone. Time and time again Serge has said, we are the same as he is, and the same as his family. The only difference is the choices made, not the qualities that we are all capable of.

144. Ha ha, why would it be considered odd at all, except in a society where we cocoon ourselves from all around us? Rather I have always found it odd that why society decrees that it should only be normal to love our blood family and close friends and anything else is considered to be the exception.

     1. Odd indeed, Adam. That kind of behaviour starts the “us and them” attitude from an early age, while we know if you put children together they will more often than not, treat each other equally. The Benhayons still retain that beautiful child-like equality with not only each other, but with everyone else as well.

        1. Yes I remember seeing children make friends with whoever was at the playground and those that didn’t often had parents who were protective of them doing so. I know I’ve always felt to speak to people but knew early on that wasn’t the done thing. Through seeing how the Benhayons are, I am allowing myself to love people regardless of whether it’s allowed because they are not within my immediate circle of friends/blood family. And this doesn’t feel odd at all but very natural.

        2. What a great insight Naren. It goes to show that when we are born we feel a natural equalness with all; it is only when our families and society impose ideals upon us as to how to be with each other that we lose that innocent openness.

        3. That’s so true, my 5 kids range from 6 to 13 and when I take them to a park more often than not they end up playing with whom ever is there, they don’t care about age, skin color, size, they just treat each other the same, if they have known them for 2 seconds or 10 years.
           This is an awesome quality and the Benhayon family are some of the only adults I know that seem to treat everyone as if they are worth it, what a beautiful way to live. I know I have been inspired by this and bring more of myself to every relationship because of knowing them.

        4. That is a fantastic phrase: “to treat everyone as if they are worth it”. It is something that we lose with regards to one another (and ourselves), that they are worth taking the time to express love to them equally to everyone else.

        5. If we are open to it our children are great teachers, they have the open heart that we a longing to return to.

     2. Excellent point Adam, we have grown up cocooning ourselves away and making blood family more important than other people. Fact is I have loved people in general much more since knowing the Benhayons and seeing what love for humanity feels like. They ace at it, incredible people, and I am inspired every day by them.

     3. It is true Adam and something well worth discussing, the levels of connection shown in day to day society from one to another is from what I see measured, depending on who and what relationship we have with them. And yet this is not the way the Benhayon family are or many of the Universal Medicine Students as there is a simple understanding that we are all equals and this is a fact, no need to phone a friend to check we are all one and the same.

        1. So true Amina, no phoning a friend required to know that we are all equal and so we all deserve the same level of care, respect and love. The Benhayon family are exceptional in the way they treat everyone with the same amount of love they treat each family member, proving beyond doubt that we are in fact all one big family. Fact!

     4. Indeed, whilst we are taught separation and inclusion from an early age, letting everyone in equally seems strange….however this is exactly what we are all yearning for. Equal, unconditional, love.

     5. We do love to cocoon ourselves don’t we Adam. We create boundaries around everything, our families, at work, we isolate ourselves in our houses and build fences around our gardens, not to mention building protection around our hearts. If we are one big family what is it that we are protecting ourselves from, each other? No wonder there are many lonely people out there, we choose to isolate ourselves and put barriers up when all we crave is a true connection to people.

     6. It feels completely wrong when I see parents who only have love for their own children and express no care for anyone else’s. It shows to me how lost we have become when this is seen as normal, the look after your own mentality. Parenting children should the the responsibility of everyone who comes into contact with the child, this would represent a great step back towards love for all.

     7. It’s deeply inbedded this thinking that we can love some people more than others. I’m definitely one of those subscribing to this yet I have also felt it strange since I can feel such love and connection with just about anyone. It’s gonna take a good while for this anchor to be lifted but I’m sure we’re heading in the right direction since we can all feel that the old way is indeed a dead end.

145. The love I feel for the Benhayons, it is truly beautiful to express this love for all to hear. And it reminds me how truly gorgeous it feels in my body to express love and appreciation abundantly to all others too, as often as I can.

146. Why do I love the Benhayons? Because they consistently reflect to me the real deal – a truly loving family that share their love with everyone. They constantly remind me of who I am. What is there not to love about that!

     1. Well said Vicky, same here, I feel exactly the same way – how loving they are, consistently reflecting to me the real deal.

     2. Yes, it is that simple.

147. Deborah, the photos of the Benhayon family you present on your blog just make me melt into tenderness. They all together represent truth and what a beautiful reflection they offer humanity.

148. How can you not love the Benhayons?

     1. Exactly tonysteenson, when you know the Benhayon family, how can you not but love them?

149. Having just come back from a Retreat where most of the Benhayons were present, I can feel how much they contribute to the quality of life of us all; this is not only through presentations and healing sessions, but their presence, as they live the truth of who they are all the time. And as well as being a very deep and challenging course, when it came for the time to celebrate the amazing transformations in ourselves we had experienced, it was light and fun, and we came together as a whole group to enjoy and celebrate each other fully.

150. I know of so many people who feel blessed for having the Benhayons in their lives, including myself and my family. They live to a higher standard and because they make it all so normal, it shows us that we can also.

151. Something that has always struck me about the Benhayon Family, is how well they make being open, normal. And this incredible normality makes it impossible to judge any person within that family, because what you see is what you get and so much more.

     1. Yes so true Shami, the Benhayon family have established a new normal and it’s up to us now to absorb this new normal into our daily lives too. How glorious to have such beautiful roles models that have shown us all that being open, honest, trustworthy and loving is the only truly successful way to be in this world.

152. What a joy Deborah to read you expressing your love for the Benhayon Family, they are an extraordinary family who deeply inspire us in countless ways.

153. The Benhayon family are without a shadow of a doubt a true family role model for us all. I love and thank them all too for simply being the amazing people they are.

154. It is so beautiful to read this blog. It is expansive and full of joy, love and playfulness. It shows us how powerful we are when we don’t hold back and simply express love.

155. I Love the Benhayon’s also, a lovely blog of true celebration concerning a family that lives who they are in full.

156. Deborah I love your playfulness and openness in declaring your love for the Benhayons. And of course what you say is true. There is love, equalness and openess, no one can be separated from another, this is true brotherhood. An inspiration for us all to be the same.

157. Simply AWESOME, Deborah! I am sure that all of us feel the same towards Benhayons but you put it in writing! I agree with Thomas – what is there not to love? And I agree with you-every one of Benhayons are unique and special in their own right and at the same time together they are this multiplied love which can not be unnoticed. I feel very privileged to meet them and experience this love, understanding, support,fun and Glory first hand.

158. Thank you Deborah for your amazing and truth-full blog. It makes me smile inside and out to have been privileged to meet and be inspired by the Benhayons.

159. Deborah this blog is amazing and so full of joy. You could be starting a trend of blogs full of appreciation and love!

160. Hi Deborah, declaring your love for an entire family doesn’t seem in the least bit odd if you actually know that family.

161. What is there not to love about the Benhayon family, they have all been deeply loving, caring and non-judgemental role models for me, and many others. Thank you Deborah for having the courage to say it as it is.

162. Hello Deborah this needs to be made into a song. Every time I read the title of this blog or even just see it, the song starts; it’s already a classic.

163. The Benhayons are sure to go down in history as true role models there is no family like them on earth in the way they are so dedicated to humanity.
     I am and will always be deeply inspired by a family that is showing us there is in fact another way.

     1. Spot on – this amazing family will make history.

164. This blog is inspiring. It highlights how we don’t often express how much love we feel for others. Thanks Deborah for daring to declare your love.

165. Thanks Deborah, written with humour and love, beautiful. Who wouldn’t love the Benhayons? I know I do, they are all an inspiration individually and as a family. Now I have to think about which one I love the most……

166. Thank you Deborah, the Benhayon family is quite extraordinary in the way they are with each other and also the way they are with others. I can say for myself that all the encounters I have had with them over the years have NEVER been less than loving and supportive and my gratitude is immense.

167. I just had to come back to this blog again, Thank you Deborah for expressing with so much joy and playfulness the love that is felt for such an amazing family. The Benhayon Family rocks!

168. The Benhayons are the new gold standard of what a family is, that is obtainable by everyone. The family grows stronger every day with the love and truth that are held as their foundation.

     1. Yes well said sjmatsonuk, love and truth grows stronger by it’s expression – the Benhayons are living testimony to that fact. A gold standard absolutely!

169. The word family conjures us so many stereotypical ideals and beliefs that we can hold and subscribe to, however, knowing the Benhayon Family, has broken down many of these ideals and beliefs. ‘What we see, is what we get’ from each and every one of the Benhayons. There is not one face they put on for the public and one face for private use – they are pure love, truth and beauty 24/7. Each and every member lets their light shine so powerfully without comparison or complexity – a true example of appreciating what each one brings to the family and, even more so, to humanity. Thank you for being such a profound inspiration of how a family can live in such harmony, love and truth.

170. This is a beautiful account of what truly living LOVE is. One loves all equally whether they are members of one’s own family or not. There are no degrees of love so no one is loved more than another. I so agree that every member of the Benhayon family provides a wonderful example of how this is lived.

171. I agree Deborah McBride that it is interesting how the Benhayons demonstrate a lot of integrity, respect and honour by how they live, but it is effortless because it is very genuine and real. They don’t live in some protected bubble, they let people in as if you were one of their family.

     1. It is above all this lack of effort that makes them so incredible real an credible at first sight. Soon you will realize that they indeed “walk the talk” and live a level of love, responsibility and integrity that I have met nowhere else before. What is so beautiful is that there is not even a spark of haughtiness or superiority, but just an amazing reflection of how life can be lived with joy and purpose, that cannot but inspire.

        1. Great point Michael. Their humility is also very obvious and very inspiring.

172. Deborah, your own photo in this blog says so much — it just oozes the love and joy and inspiration you have let in from how the Benhayon family live. As I look at the picture of all the Benhayons with the same love and joy as in your photo — which truly shows that when we let ourselves see this love and let it in, it is something we can claim for ourselves as well.

173. I agree Kirsty, since meeting the Benhayons my life is no longer about simply making it from one day to the next, but is now dedicated to the love that I am and in each day living from this love, not with perfection, but with a tender commitment to make it my living way.

174. So wonderful Deborah and so great to express appreciation for the amazing reflection that the Benhayon family offer. You speak for us all.

175. I just had to return to the absolute joy of this blog once again to enjoin the chorus of voices to singing I love the Benhayons!

     1. Absolutely kathleenbaldwin.

176. True, Caroline. The ‘get even, get mad, and shut down’ emotional reactions in response to attacks, abuse and injustice, are not needed or felt when universal love is present. This opens the way for people to feel at home with love and speak truth from there. Thus it is that we see the Benhayon family calling out wrongdoing without reacting emotionally or judging, which at last gives the perpetrators of abuse a clear mirror in which to ponder their behaviour, and a taste of how a love-filled life can be that they could choose for themselves if they so wish.

177. I love the dedication you show in this line, Deborah: “For sure I can find the time to write about love publicly…” in response to certain others who choose to write words which undermine love publicly. Awesome!

178. Thank you Deborah and the Benhayons. How infectious is love, the absolute dedication to love by so many students of the Livingness is testament to that fact!

     1. I agree Greg, the love is infectious! Thank you Deborah & the Benhayons

        1. Infectious and irresistible, and ultimately un-escapable because it is within us. So aren’t we ALL just glorious.

179. I love this blog. It makes me smile every time I read it because it makes declaring how we feel about people we love very real and natural.

180. The Benhayon’s are amazing, as individuals in their own right and as well as a family. It’s all there. What is there NOT to Love.

181. Best blog ever – GO DEBORAH and thank you for writing what I would say most of us are thinking!- and in such a fun playful way.. you are seriously awesome!!

     I LOVE THE BENHAYONS TOO!

     1. I completely agree Ariel – this blog speaks for EVERYONE!!

     2. You said it arieljoymuntelwit… BEST BLOG EVER!

     3. Yes I agree completely arieljoymuntelwit. Such an awesome blog. Thank you Deborah, for saying what I think and feel every single day.

182. Thank you Deborah for this wonderful sharing. I too love the Benhayons, they are the epicentre of the greater family that we are all a part of, knowing this brings great joy. The Benhayons live love 24/7 and inspire me deeply to also live the love that I am.

183. In a world full of cynicism and distrust, its wonderful to see people openly expressing love. When did being loving become so uncool, and being guarded, hard, and hiding feelings rule? Everywhere I see cleverness and lovelessness walking hand in hand, and the innocence of being openly loving looked down upon as belonging to simpletons. As a society we have put such an onus on cleverness that love has been swept aside. This blog very coolly claims that love rules, in all its divine goofiness!

184. When talking about the Benhayons, the phrase ‘every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right’ says it all. Thank you Deborah for speaking on behalf of all who know and love the Benhayon family.

185. Thank you Deborah, felt so awesome to read and feel the love you have for the Benhayons. I would love to express that I love the Benhayons, for showing me that this life is possible, that I have been searching for and opening my heart to true expressing and love to all.

186. This article brought home to me how truly joyful it is when we express our love. It is just so joyful to read.

     1. Well expressed Elizabeth. It is that simple, and that profound at the same time. Simply expressing Love!

     2. Yes absolutely… I couldn’t agree with you more. Beautifully expressed Elizabeth.

     3. Well said Elzabeth, it is amazing, simple and extremely joyful when we truly express our love. The only question I have is why we do not all do it more often, or all the time for that matter?!

187. “Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete, they conduct themselves with the utmost integrity and respect, they are funny, they are self aware, they are generous, they are imperfect, they are inspiring, they are hardworking, they are open to all equally, they effortlessly and without trying make each of us who see them as clients believe that we are the only person in the world who is so charming and interesting and evolved and they hold all of this consistently whilst allowing us to see their humanity and their imperfections.” this is true, and what an amazing reflection for ALL of humanity.

188. I love this blog, I love reading the words, and I love seeing and feeling the photo of all the Benhayon family – an absolute joy, and complete steadiness, strength, truth, commitment, love and power for all of humanity to feel and see. Thank God for the Benhayons, what an amazing reflection for all of us, work over, equally – and yes it is an absolute blessing to know them and have them in my life. I will never shy from sharing this love and appreciation of them with anybody.

189. Brilliant blog Deborah – it is obvious that anything that the people who are cyber abusing and lying about Universal Medicine are saying is false, due to your and many of the commenters experiences with the Benhayons.

190. In the picture of the Benhayon family at the start of this blog, I see a group of people who are not constricted by their family ties. There does not appear to be those false smiles of people trying to put on an image of a happy family, trying to prove that they are perfect in any way, or trying to appear to be normal. They are who they are, and the bonds between them are based on love. What they show us in that picture is exactly that, the love they feel for each other and with each person I see a welcoming smile that says this love is not exclusive.

     1. Gorgeously put, looking at the photos of the Benhayons again what I felt was their ease and openess, but this is not a one off because they live this love everyday.

     2. Very true Shami, well said. There is an easiness and intimate quality between all the family members in the picture, it has not taken a great deal of effort to bring this family together for the camera because it is clear they naturally enjoy being together. I can remember posing for family photos where it has been difficult to everyone to agree to be photographed, let alone touching or hugging one another! The love they share is very evident and it is equally offered to everyone they know.

191. Looking at the picture of the Benhayon family at the top of this blog, we can see a group of people who are not defined by the family they are a part of, but who are clearly enjoying the relationships they have with each other.

     1. Your comment Shami ‘a group of people who are not defined by the family they are part of, but who are clearly enjoying the relationships they have with each other’, made me stop to ponder – what if I, what if we, as members of the human family, took that into the relationships with all those we met in our daily lives? Blew my mind!

        1. It just glows off the page the relationship of all the people in the picture, it is inspiring beyond words.

        2. The Benhayons are amazing, they are the microcosm of the macrocosm, reflecting to us that we are ALL part of an amazing family and one day will return to living in a way which fosters love, truth and harmony.

192. The Benhayons are an incredible example of how life can be lived in a truly loving and caring way.
     They do not impose, discourage being looked up to and never tell you what to do, but they are always there with everything they are whenever they are needed.
     Living the beautiful, level love that they do in every moment has been the most powerful inspiration I have ever met.

     1. I totally agree Michael, it is amazing to meet true role models, genuinely caring people and a family full of love.

     2. hear hear Michael they are extraordinary in they way the live this utmost highest level of respect, love and truth but they way all of them live it is so natural, simple and with out any fuss what so ever it is super inspiring and I am thankful daily for having them in my life.

193. I couldn’t agree more, we have this example of a true role model right in front of us to observe how things can be for us all.

194. Thank you Deborah for your playful and light hearted blog and I appreciate that for a first blog it is amazing. So simple that a blog that is written from love for public digestion is a first. Blogs that are written from lies and innuendo will have some work to do to come close to truth as you have done.

     1. Thank you Deborah, Janne and the Benhayons. Absolutely, the love is truly felt in this amazing blog. It is an expression that shares so much.

195. What a brilliant blog Deborah, expressing all the love that you feel with no holding back or shying away.

     It is true that a deep love and appreciation for the Benhayon family is felt by so many, evidenced by the comments here responding to your sentiment. The Benhayon family each reflect the loveliness of a life when it is filled with love, harmony, understanding and truth. This reflection shows that life on earth can be like this for us too and for many it already is. What a precious and life changing gift we have been offered. Heartfelt thanks to you all.

     1. I agree Maree, the Benhayon family reflect to everyone who comes in contact with them such a love filled way of life that is so absolutely amazing. I feel so blessed to know every one in this family and regard them as very true friends.I have never heard of a family ever before to be able to live such a harmonious, loving life so full of understanding for each other.. But they are a role model to us showing that we all have the possibility within us that we too could live that way.

     2. I agree Maree, the Benhayons certainly do reflect something to us – a way to live that many have not seen or chosen before, and yet is seen to be very simple – sometimes unbelievably so !

196. “if they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.” Deborah, this is so awesome and a model for how we can each deal with abuse when it is directed at us. We don’t need to get even, get mad or even shut down and give up like so many do. We just need to not hold back from expressing the truth. Thank you Deborah for not holding back, what you have written is deeply inspiring and like the Benhayon’s you are showing another way.

     1. I agree with everything you have said here carolineraphael. The only antidote to hate is love. It really is that simple. It’s us that make it hard…perhaps by holding back going there in full for fear of what it may look like to another. That’s why Deborah’s words are so healing – absolutely claimed and abundant in their declaration of love – deliciously, unashamedly, joyously and gorgeously. Pure love.

197. I am constantly amazed and inspired by every member of this family. What they offer to humanity by being role models is a heavenly gift.

     1. I agree, they are absolutely heaven sent, but at the same time what I am inspired by in each of them is the humbleness and equalness with which they live and relate to all.

198. This is a gorgeous blog and let me add to all the messages above my unqualified love for the Benhayon family, who, in truth are reflecting the pure love that they offer for all humanity. With Love.

199. The Benhayons have turned what many of us thought was ‘extra-ordinary’ into ‘ordinary’ – a firm foundation of love, joy, truth, harmony, commitment to evolving and deepening their expression individually and supporting each other in that, and what’s more, they do not reserve any of this just to those named Benhayon, they relate to the whole of humanity as their family and share this level of love with everyone. They are truly inspiring and show everyone how possible it is to live this level of love in our everyday lives.

200. Someone like you Deborah knows exactly what she’s talking about.

201. Someone like you Deborah knows exactly what she’s talking about.

202. Absolutely WOW! How can anyone not feel the love and joy that pour through this family? An amazing inspiration for everyone.

203. Thank you Deborah. The love you feel is felt by many of us who have got to know them over the past few years. Each bring a similarity of living a life with connection and also a unique expression of the power that each has with this connection. It is lovely to see and feel.

204. I love this Deborah, so straight up, so simple, so claimed. There is so much here to celebrate, about how you have expressed, about what you have shared. I too love the Behayons, not that I know them all individually and personally either. But who they are and what they reflect to me and us all, is truly amazing.

205. It is funny how we try to hide what we feel or are scared to show all of who we are because of an industry we work in, or social circle etc. What I am learning especially from the whole Benhayon family is never be ashamed of who you are or what you feel in case others may think you are silly.

206. The world could use more of this straight-up, simple, joyful expression of love whenever and wherever it is felt. We feel it all the time with the Benhayons and it has become so normal it doesn’t occur to us that it is unusual and needs to be expressed. So thanks Deborah, for sharing.

     1. I agree diannetrussell, it has become so normal, that it doesn’t occur that is very unusual to receive that level of love and equality from the Benhayon family in such a consistent way, and needs to be expressed in full.

207. I love the true role model of what family is, as lived by the Benhayons. A truly inspirational family with a foundation of love and showing what it is to live that on a daily basis. Beautiful.

208. Love your ‘outing’ Deborah – light hearted deeply felt appreciation – thank you.

209. The Benhayons simply live what they present and by that are the most incredible reflection of what living love truly means.

210. Absolutely gorgeous to read and appreciate “My life is truly blessed for having met each member of this family. And for the price of having chosen this path that Universal Medicine has presented, I am now devoid of onerous depressions, outrageous needs for recognition, drug and alcohol addictions, lonely marriages, lack of purpose and endless, endless arrays of drama.” I know this to be also true for myself. I love this comment and am feeling like this blog is a true celebration of your appreciation of the blessings that you have experienced. Thank you.

211. What is there not to love about the Benhayons? No matter how hard I rack my brains or try to come up with any answer I cannot. The only one I can jostle up is about me…and that actually I wish I applied half the commitment and consistency that they do every day in service – which actually only goes to show how incredible they truly are, because in truth I’m learning to live this way too. To have this beacon of light and love, not only as an individual in Serge Benhayon, but that it is true throughout his whole family, they are an inspiration to us all.

212. Thanks Deborah, what a great blog you have written. Your love for the Benhayon family radiates from your words and I can only agree wholeheartedly with every thing you have said.

213. I have just tried to consider what the Benhayon family have taught/given/supplied/reflected/inspired/shared/re-kindled/ignited in me and thousands of others and in truth there is no description that fits the enormity of what they have brought to me and indeed to humanity. Likewise there is no apt description to express the magnitude of my gratitude.

     with love

214. You claim so clearly the right to claim love publicly, Deborah, and so much more of that is needed in this world of many deceits and lies and conflict. It is so true that the Benhayon Family are a beacon of light and love in a world that has lost its way, and as such deserve to be respected, not slandered. They live the example of how we can live if we choose; it is in the choosing.

215. Well said Deborah – your inability to choose a ‘favourite’ is a real testament to the power of real love. I couldn’t choose either. They are all fabulously amazing people helping our world.

216. The Beauty and Love of all the Benhayons is simply amazing and a joy for all to see, an inspiration and reflection for humanity to whom they are deeply committed with total dedication. I love all the Benhayons too .Thank you for writiing this great blog Deborah and saying what so many of us feel also.

217. That there is a family in the world that can and do live like “The Benhayons”, is a totally blessing for me to know and to experience! That shows me and the world that there is another way to live, a loving, serving way for all equally so.

218. Absolutely beautiful expression of love Deborah. How lovely to feel the equality of what each of the Benhayons bring, the lack of competition and the celebration of their individual expressions. I too love the Benhayons.

     1. Yes Lee – it is gorgeous to celebrate all of their individual expressions, and all of our individual expressions too!

219. What a great article that is awesome to read every time, as it brings such a feeling of love joy and appreciation for the amazing people the Benhayons are. Not to mention the equally amazing, beautiful and playfully joyful Deborah Mcbride who has now said what many people have felt. Thanks for sharing the glory, it feels great.

220. What an amazing difference one family can make by reflecting what true love is to us all. Your expression of love for the Benhayons Deborah, is so open, honest and beautiful. ​I am with you.​

     1. So true Irene, Deborah’s expression is full of innocence and clarity. How beautiful to be able to express love with such ease and joy, proof in my book that Deborah expresses true love, full of respect and appreciation with zero need or expectation. This is the love that the Benhayon family have inspired in Deborah because of the way they live and it is this love that we all hold deep inside. The Benhayon’s are instigating a revolution in love just by reflecting to us all who we already are, we simply need to choose it for ourselves.

     2. Yes Irene, one family living and reflecting true love every moment of everyday, have and are inspiring so many to bring love into their lives and to all others equally.

221. Absolutely 100% agree. How can you not love an entire family who nourishes, inspires, reflects pure love, deals out truth, makes you feel safe, reminds you of how amazing you are, asks you to be all that you can, never imposes, see the truth, have great sense of humours and are all so cool and sexy! (well… maybe … if you’re jealous??)

     1. And what is more, none of the Benhayons ever hold themselves as special or above anyone else. They consistently reminding everyone that all the qualities they so beautifully present are within us all.

     2. Brilliantly put Janine! There are soooo many reasons (longer than I or anyone could list), that the Benhayon’s are so incredible, and there’s over 10 of them so it would take a long time to write! Constantly asking us to be more, constantly loving us to be more… They are family to everyone.

222. The joy emanating out from the photos of the Benhayon family stops you in your tracks, and asks you to consider that it is actually possible for a group of people to be so close and so united in purpose. This is the future of relationships, as more people bring this level of love and commitment into their lives and relationships as inspired by this beautiful family.

     1. Yes, I agree janetwilliams06. I find that I can look at these photos for ages which on one hand might seem a bit weird, but on the other hand it shows how deeply inspiring this gorgeous group of people are – the level of love, integrity, beauty and purpose that is reflected in these photos is actually attainable and exists equally within all of us – if we but choose to re-connect to this. Their one-unified purpose and way of being is showing us the way forward, back to love again.

223. The inspiration to live life to the full, and to be endlessly expanding and continually joyful is a reflection that I receive from this amazing family. WOW!

224. What an ashamedly beautiful declaration of love Deborah ! And to an entire family ! Thank you for expressing so honestly.

     1. Yes marylinecd it’s rare to find an expression of love equally so, to each member of a family – An extraordinary family, and an understanding and appreciation by Deborah of what love really is and represents.

225. “their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete,” What if we all lived that way?

226. Thank you Deborah for claiming your love for the Benhayon family. What has always stood out for me, is what you see is what you get from the whole family, how they hold everyone with love and understanding, their integrity and how they make every part of their life about people. I feel very blessed and appreciate all I learn from this amazing family, and how I now live with my family because of their reflection.

227. I love your post Deborah and the light heartedness you express with, it fits right in with the playful Benhayon family. I too have fell in love with the Benhayon family, actually they are the ones that reminded me what the word love actually represents.

228. Absolutely a wonderful family and each bring a joy for a different reason to our lives. Together they openly love you and see you just for you. How relaxing to know you can just be you with them. This family is a true model for the world, excluding no-one.

229. Awesome Deborah, love this article and love love love the pictures! Such joy and love from all. I know completely what you are saying, they are such an inspiring bunch who have inspired immense, positive change in countless numbers of people. Thank you for so joyfully expressing your love!

     1. Yes absolutely samanthaengland; they are absolute joy, and their consistent love has inspired hundreds, even thousands, to make positive changes in their lives. Quite something, especially considering none of Simone, Natalie, Michael or Curtis have even passed 30 yet!!

        1. A shining example and big pull-up/inspiration to us all. If they can do what they can do, then what about the rest of us?

230. Deborah, I was just considering,just WHY do we love the Benhayons so. Is it because they reflect back to us the Love we innately are too, and that is what we are feeling…?

     Apart from being drop dead gorgeous shining examples of love personified!

231. This makes me realise jsnelgrove that we all bring something unique and that we all have our part to play as demonstrated by the amazing Benhayon family, ‘what all the Benhayons bring, which was super easy as they are all clear in their own expression of how they are and bring love to this world’.

232. I love all you have expressed here, Deborah as well as loving all the Benhayons. A couple of years ago I wrote to myself what all the Benhayons bring, which was super easy as they are all clear in their own expression of how they are and bring love to this world. After, it was incredible to sit back and read the support they offer individually and as a family to so many. Thank you Deborah and I am forever appreciative and inspired by all the love the Benhayons shine and bring. xx

     1. I love it jsnelgrove36, and it is so so true. Each one so unique but yet so complimentary of the whole family.

233. The Benhayon family is a model of how all family life could be if we were all willing to accept that we are all equal and all come from the same love and all have that same love inside us.

     1. kevinmchardy, they are sure a model of how a family could be living with tremendous love for everyone.

     2. That feels like the key Kevin being ‘willing to accept that we are all equal and all come from the same love …’ When we accept that we are ALL from the same love, being love becomes easy and there is less holding back.

        1. True shevonsimon, when I have found myself in the presence of someone who is truly living in love, it is reflected back to me and I feel it, that way it becomes easier to accept that I too am that love, because it is felt.

     3. Yes kevmchardy and Susie. What is reflected to us is no different a way of living to how we could all live. And I love your comment Bernadette – “we are all Benhayons”. The best way to lead is by example. Which is exactly what this family does. A living, breathing, shining example for us all.

234. This IS a love that deserves to be declared to the world, and Deborah, your article speaks far louder than shouting it from the rooftops. My heart bursts with joy every time I am with the Benhayon family – confirming and inspiring the enormous love within us all. Now that’s true family!

     1. Beautifully expressed Kylie; the reflection that the Benhayon family offer everyone is the confirmation that we are all absolute love within.

        1. Beautifully expression by you too, Susie Williams. We are all ‘Benhayon’s’ on the inside; they are committed to being that love in action, consistently and declaring it to the world, for the world.

235. Thank you Deborah and the Benhayon family. How can we love one more than another? What an amazing question; when we find the answer, the truth is we love all equally, naturally so! Can we hold that love to just one family or individual? True love loves all of us the same! It is absolutely amazing how one man Serge Benhayon can reintroduce truth in word that then inspires hundreds of students to claim true love for all humanity! This is the start of a new era of Brotherhood!!!

     1. Absolutely and he doesn’t just claim it in word, but in expression, knowing it and living it. Reflecting that it is indeed within us all too. The Benhayons are true role models, inspirational, adorable, lovely … and funny .. and sexy … what is there not to love?

        1. I agree Vicky, the absolute way the students of the Livingness inspire as true role models is thanks to the Benhayons!

     2. Absolutely Greg, love your comment.

        1. Thank you ruthketnor, privately and publicly the students and the Benhayons bring love to all walks of life!!

     3. “This is the start of a new era of Brotherhood!!!” ~ Absolutely gregbarnes888, Serge Benhayon and the Benhayon family have set a new benchmark for the world, and re-ignited a new renaissance, even though this way of living is innate in everyone we just needed this timely reminder, and boy what a reminder they all are, glorious!

236. Deborah, I love your forthright declaration of your love for the Benhayon’s. They are indeed the epitome of a deeply loving and caring family. Such is the exquisite nature of their love and care that they don’t just keep it within the confines of their immediate family but extend it to all equally so. They are a true inspiration for humanity reflecting the beauty of what is indeed possible.

     1. I agree Rob, they have got an amazing family and they share that with everyone they meet, so that everyone get to experience and see what unconditional love looks like in a family unit, and be inspired to make their homes the same quality.

237. I realy enjoyed reading your loving and playful article about the Benhayons. A declaration of love is felt in your expression and deep appreciation of each of them. It also reflects the absolute love and appreciation I have for each of the family and what they bring humanity. I equally hold that for you Deborah – for being you.

238. Deborah what a joy to read your playful declaration of love. I too love the Benhayons. Words can not express the depth of appreciation I have of the powerful, consistent and unreserved reflection they provide of who we truly are. They are like a beacon and the love, integrity and dedication to humanity with which they live and express is an ongoing inspiration for me to deepen that within myself. I love love love having them in my life.

     1. I am totally with you Golnaz and this is a beautiful comment.

     2. I echo loud and clear all that you say Golnaz. It so true that they are a beacon to humanity that has already shown the way to countless people that there is a more loving way to live than what is commonly accepted by societies.

     3. So well said Golnaz, they are a constant beacon of who we truly are and such a huge breath of fresh air in a world that seems so stuck in its issues. The way they live is a living breathing education that holds and supports all who know them. They are an international treasure and thank you Deborah for outing yourself and giving us all an opportunity to deeply appreciate their gracious presence in our lives.

        1. Beautifully said rowenakstewart – ‘giving us all an opportunity to deeply appreciate their gracious presence in our lives’. They show us there is another way to be, a way that is true rather than the way so many of us have experienced, up until we met the Benhayon family. Yes, I deeply appreciate the opportunity to do things differently with my family and friends, dropping old patterns of behaviour, ideal and beliefs!

     4. + 1 in me, Golnaz

     5. Me too Golnaz, the support and love they have shown me over the years has been unbelievable – and as a direct result of the support and love they have shown me I have completely changed my life around. Words cannot express the gratitude I have for them for simply being all of whom they are no matter what, and for showing me I am the same.

     6. The Benhayons are indeed ‘like a beacon of true love, integrity and dedication to humanity’, Golnaz. I wonder if any other family throughout the history of the ages has had the global healing influence that this family does through the work they do individually and collectively around the world. Just goes to show what’s possible when we truly make our lives all about love and truth, and how the foundation of true family amplifies the reach and resonance tenfold. And this is only the beginning!

     7. Me too! There are no words for how amazing these people are.

239. Exactly why wouldn’t you love the Benhayons… All we have ever wanted in life is to feel love unconditionally here it is, its inspiring so many others to have this love for all. Anything else just doesn’t make sense to me.

     1. You have summed it up here Jaime; the reason why the Benhayons are so universally loved is because they have shown us the truth of unconditional love. I knew about it, but never experienced it, and so gave up on it, but unconditional love on planet Earth actually exists; it is real and fun and they have shown us how by living it.

        1. Very truemichelle819 and Jamie, unconditional love does live on Earth and the Benhayon family hold it up for all to see, feel, experience and join in. The Benhayon family are not a club for the select few, they are a living teaching that we can all choose to learn from if we are willing to deal with the things that hurt us and return to the love that resides so naturally in our hearts.

        2. I have struggle so much with commitment to life and being true loving to myself and others that it has been very important for me to see these reflections from the whole Benhayon family. They continue to show their strength and their true commitment to themselves, each other and the whole of humanity.

     2. I second that Jaime. Well said!

     3. This is the model of family that makes us say, ‘nothing else makes sense’ Jamie. Society’s medicine is here in this family!

        1. I love this quote bernadetteglass, ‘Society’s medicine is here in the Benhayon family’ – and what I’ve found they consistently and irrefutably teach us through their living, loving examples is that we are our own best medicine. What a game-changer this is.

     4. “All we ever wanted was to feel love unconditionally, yes indeed!” But a funny (peculiar) thing is – and I was having this conversation with someone this morning – often when we actually get the thing we really want most of all, we freak out! Is this because we feel we don’t deserve it? Or we feel we will now have to take responsibility for living up to this amazing thing we’ve received? Either way, it feels incredible to let go of those and open up to let in the love, learn the feel of it, let it out so others can too…. Like the sun and tides coming and going, breath going in and out, we are naturally part of this love cycle, and it feels awesome to come home to it and be part of it.

        1. Beautifully expressed Dianne. Connecting with the natural rhythm that love is and that love contains, takes me to such an expansive understanding of our belonging in the universe and then the insignificance of the mundane, petty aspects of my life are immediately put into perspective. The Benhayon family live this understanding and are dedicated to sharing and offering this to the world. I joyfully take up this offer!

240. I have never come across a family or a group of people who are so dedicated to serving humanity, with every last drop every day. The Benhayons are showing us what true family is, and the power of sharing a loving purpose.

     1. Thanks janetwilliams06. I love your comment “so dedicated to serving humanity, with every last drop every day” is so true.

     2. Well said Janet

     3. Yes I agree janetwilliams06, the Benhayon family bring to a whole new approach to true service and brotherhood. They have no concern for individual triumphs or fame, they apply team work to everything in their lives, inside and outside the family home and everyone they engage with, dawn to dusk. What I love is that through their living example, I am learning that every moment of my day is equally important in building a solid platform of love and care with which to carry out all my tasks of the day with. No other family has ever inspired me to raise my game and truly make the most of every inch of my life, as they do.

     4. Well said janetwilliams06, “the Benhayons are showing us what true family is, and the power of sharing a loving purpose”. There are so many notions of what love is, people live double lives – one at home and one at work, there is so much pretence and the need and desire to look like we have it all together.It is inspiring to see how possible it is to actually live lovingly as the Benhayons do. There is no off switch and certainly no exclusivity, rather an opening and sharing with all of us, showing that we can also live the same way if we choose to.

     5. Absolutely – I’ve never met people so dedicated to other people before either – it’s absolutely incredible.

241. Once upon a time I thought the ‘Brady Bunch’ were pretty cool. Now I’m with Deborah – the Benhayon Bunch are way cooler and I love them all too!

     1. Yes, way cooler Victoria, and now there are three generations, wow what a family and truly an inspiration.

        1. Yes 3 generations showing me how glorious we can live in whatever period of life we are in and how each supports each other. Very majestic.

     2. Yes Victoria, I love the Benhayon Bunch too, they are awesome!

242. I too love all the Benhayons. The impact they have had on my life is incredible and they have supported me in being able to feel such love, not only for them but for other people.

     1. I have also experienced this nikkimckee, what I am also learning is to truly trust myself and other people again and not hold any judgement or resistance, to going deeper with expressing what I feel which has been a reflection from all the Benhayon family.

243. Hi Deborah, this blog is set to go through the roof. A great blog and I love the title, it reads like a song.

244. Gorgeous Deborah! I agree, they are all equally amazing and because of the equal-ness they bring, I too feel I love all of the Benhayons equally!

     1. I agree they all reflect equalness to everyone, which is a great reflection and inspiration to us all.

245. Thank you Deborah, the love, joy and respect that is felt by each member of the Benhayon is quite unique. Their unwavering support and love has played a huge part in my healing process of becoming who I am today, and I now live my life with more joy and vitality than ever before.

     1. Absolutely franciscoclara8, I too have experienced their consistent and unwavering love and support which has inspired me to come out of hiding and be more of the real me.

246. Thank you Deborah, I simply love the way you chose to encounter all the lies. Reading your blog made me smile and laugh and reconnecting of how simple it actually is to share our love publicly. Because, yes, the whole family is so so adorable and loveable. The question that stays with me is why I chose to hold back my own love so much? Only reading and connecting to your blog is igniting my own precious love. No perfectionism as you wrote. Just love and forever evolving in this love.

247. Wow! all these amazing blogs joyfully expressing the love people have for the Benhayons and declaring it from the roof tops. How wonderful!

248. Like you Deborah, I love each and every member of the Benhayon family. They are all so different and bring such a richness to my life and to the lives of everyone that they meet. And they are so much fun.

249. I have never seen a family that works so well together, never a hint of tension. Their commitment, dedication and love started an enormous wave that has turned the tide for all humanity.

250. I love them too Deborah. Each and every one of them has touched my life so deeply, not by helping me be better (for that would assume I was not already enough) by supporting me to be me. What a gift – the greatest there is… what is not to love in that…

251. Reading the comments on this blog has been a lovely way to unwind from my day and settle into my evening rhythm. Thank you everyone.

252. That’s a declaration of love, Deborah! And the most beautiful thing is that this is to me a deep lived sense of equality and brotherhood. That’s the same huge unconditional love that is there for everyone, including me and everyone. Beautiful

     1. That is the pure beauty of their love, it holds everyone equally, just as love is there for us all always to choose should we wish too.

253. Such a loving, joyful way to express your love for this amazing family Deborah, I love them too and I appreciate the depth of their qualities. Such examples of a harmonious family living with integrity and committed to truly helping everybody are rare. I love the photos, they say it all, and the photo of you is stunning!

254. What is so beautiful Deborah is that you are so open and willing to tell the world your love for the Benhayons. Considering your past where this was so calculated and manipulated all for the ‘right’ appearance and status in the so called media world. I can feel your true self that is just like the Benhayons full of Love and wanting to share this. Thanks Deborah.

255. Hear, hear. I agree with all you have written, Deborah. Such an amazing and loving family, all equally so. They have been the inspiration for me to transform my life into a living miracle, overcoming huge obstacles and challenges. I cannot thank them enough and will always deeply appreciate the love and care they show everyone.

256. When I look at these pictures of the Benhayon family I see Joy like no other picture I have come across, it is an without question incredible to know this family and have them continue to reflect the simplicity of how to be in life by holding yourself steady.

257. Thank you Deborah, your joyful blog reflects to me my own deep appreciation of the Benhayon family which bring so much joy and love through their way of living. My life is ongingly so inspired by them.

258. I love the Benhayons, every one of them for their unique qualities. They are an amazing family of Love, they show me what true family stands for and that Love extends out equally to everyone they meet. I feel truly blessed to know them, and in doing so, to then know and feel I have that much Love in my life.

259. Deborah, what a gorgeous blog. And to state your love without any need or want, just beautiful. How awesome. The Benhayons are indeed amazing and for me I know they’ve shown me absolute graciousness no matter how I am – they’re just them and meeting them when I do encourages me to just be me. And that’s the joy I feel in your blog, you just being you expressing your appreciation. I very much second it, thank you for sharing.

260. Saying it as it is Deborah, love it! And I too have no hesitation in declaring for all to hear I LOVE all the Benhayons! Yet I have a sneaking suspicion it may not be as odd as one may first suppose. For each and every member of one family to consistently and unrelentingly shine from the glowing warmth of their hearts for all to feel, day after day, year after year, it’s not hard to take notice.

261. I agree Brendan, a joy to see a family live in such a loving and harmonious way. A true inspiration.

262. I felt such a huge joy reading your blog Deborah that you have expressed what I so deeply feel also. I have been truly blessed to know and love each and every one of them and their fun, playfulness, joy, commitment and love that they share equally with all is a constant deep source of inspiration every day. They shine as a steady light of truth in an otherwise messed up, confused world.

     1. That’s so true, Annie. The Benhayons blaze steadily and brightly, showing us all that life can be different – joyful – each and every day, and on-goingly.

263. This writing is a true example of ‘Magnifying’ love, beauty, joy, harmony and stillness existing in the world and celebrating it – lets have more of it.

264. Now that’s a love worth declaring.

265. This is a beautiful thank you to the Benhayons for leading the way in expressing the love that they are. Never before have I seen a more loving family. As a man I have found it difficult to express my love as I didn’t think that it was a manly trait, but I have been shown otherwise. I too love this family. Thank you Deborah.

266. Thank you so much Deborah for writing this gorgeous blog! The feelings you share could describe my own exactly. In fact I would love to publicly claim how much I love each and every single member of the Benhayon family too for the same reasons! It’s tricky as in fact there aren’t enough superlatives in the English language to cover just one of them, let alone the entire family… please excuse the hyperbole, but they simply rock!! I count myself truly, truly blessed to know them.

267. I love you, too.

268. I just remembered my life before the Benhayons – ostensibly not bad, but now it is incomparably better. Thank you to all of them!

269. Yep, you just gotta love them!!

270. Haha Deborah, I love this article – and the fun you have with this open declaration of all the Benhayons are to you. It is so very true that each member of the family brings a certain quality, not more or less than another, but each a gorgeous, steady inspiration. Why should we hold back from declaring the love we feel for people we hold so dear?!

271. I could not agree with you more Deborah. Everything you expressed here echoes the feeling I too have about the Benhayon family. They are extraordinary and yet ordinary, living loving family life which inspires people across the globe. I love them all too! Thank you for writing the love.

272. Deborah what a totally joyful and loving testament to a truly remarkable family and to the discovery of what love truly means. I love your expression, and the Benhayons.

273. Wow, the joy in reading your blog Deborah and then reading lots of the comments…can the internet handle this much joy??!!!

     1. Hahaha : ). good question Sandra – the internet better learn how to handle this much joy, as there will be more of it and we’re not going away.

274. I am in complete agreement with all you say Deborah. Each and every Benhayon I have ever had the pleasure of knowing has shown me nothing but love. They are all beautifully knowing of their own strengths, and bring all that they are to each person they meet. That is truly incredible and hugely inspirational.

275. Funny, true, joy full and as far as my reading of it goes, not a hint of cheesiness. I also really resonated with this blog because it is really inspiring to read someone express in this way and brings up in me my holding back of loving everyone equally, my little jealousies, my little hurts and holding onto issues around others. Yet Deborah, you have written in a way which is selflessly personal and I cannot help but see all those triggers in me and feel impulsed to simply renounce them and not want them there in my life anymore. So thank you and deep appreciation to all the Benhayons… equally.

276. Wow Deborah, what a gorgeous blog you have written about the Benhayon family. I totally agree with you “Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right”. They are each in their own way true role models, and although there is no perfection they come pretty close. I love them all,as they have all inspired me to be more of who I am.

277. Oh Deborah I Love this : ) you are so right if people find the time to write lies and slanderous accusations why can’t we find the time to write about Love? The love that we feel and the true love that we know and the Benhayons are all that you said. ‘Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete, they conduct themselves with the utmost integrity and respect, they are funny, they are self aware, they are generous, they are imperfect, they are inspiring, they are hardworking, they are open to all equally, they effortlessly and without trying make each of us who see them as clients believe that we are the only person in the world who is so charming and interesting and evolved and they hold all of this consistently whilst allowing us to see their humanity and their imperfections.’ And so much more.

278. Beautiful how your feelings for each of the Benhayon family are equal Deborah. They show us all that Love is available for each and every one of us and its fundamental quality is equality. To say this is a game-changer to the way we currently live is the understatement of the century. And this is just one part of what they offer. An awesome family indeed.

     1. Joseph, I love too how the whole Benhayon family express love within their own family unit, and to the greater family unit that humanity is.. to everyone they meet so what they show us is that love is available to us all. But not always easy to come back to love when you have not been chosing love for yourself, but thier reflection of love is irresistable.

     2. Indeed Joseph, the Benhayons are setting new standards for all the families in the world. Standards where love between family members is the absolute foundation – beautiful !

279. A super cool family and there is nothing not to LOVE about the Benhayons.
     They have inspired me and many others by the way they conduct themselves, live simply and are always there willing and open to support anyone. I have never once seen them frazzled, raising their voices or suffering from a mood disorder whilst downing copious amounts of coffee. In fact they are the total opposite. Their amazing steadiness which can be felt actually helps me to get more still and this is what I love.
     I love their individual sense of style and have no intention of copying them or trying to be like them but I do appreciate their qualities and have joy communicating with them.
     Boy oh boy I feel blessed just knowing they are in my life.

     1. So well said Bina. We are so used to fluctuating our way through life that when a group of people show up who have found a way to live with a steady joy and purpose, they stand out head and shoulders above the rest of us. The Benhayons unerring love has supported so many people to establish steady lives for themselves too, devoid of copious amounts of coffee and mood swings, but full instead of love, fun, health and joy. It is a real blessing to know them, they continually enrich everyone’s lives just by being themselves.

280. Such a beautiful article Deborah. I love them too. With their love and support I have been able to make immense transforming changes to my life and I know this love and support is there for everyone.

281. Thank you Benhayons and Deborah, for being you!

282. Deborah this is so sweet and so true – I love the Behayons too! I loved the bit where you said you were trying to work out who you loved best but it was impossible to decide – I totally agree 🙂

283. Deborah I loved your blog – it is so very true and great to read and appreciate. Furthermore as you say, why would you not stand up and write the truth – a truth many thousands of other people feel? Whilst a few people may disagree it doesn’t take long to see that they are not really disagreeing, instead choosing to blame another instead of looking at why their life turned out the way it has.

284. Thank you Deborah. Public declaration of true love such as yours for the Benhayons is cool! My question is humanity, are we leading the way in coolness? Like you Deborah, I am in too!

285. I have thought of the Benhayons as family for a number of years now, but there is a question here that has just never occurred to me – which one do I love the most. It’s really made me think about them all, their uniqueness and their different roles yes, but also their underlying dedication to love; loving me, loving humanity, and loving themselves and each other.
     Above all else it goes to show me that this level of love is possible for everyone… and that is true inspiration.

     1. Cracker simonwilliams8… picking ‘one’ just isn’t possible is it.
        One of the greatest things I have learnt from so many of the ‘Benhayons’, is that we are all equally significant, all equally amazing beings. There can never be just ‘one’, can there, or ‘one’ that we prefer. When we truly open our hearts to the true quality of love such as this family exemplifies and lives, our hearts are opened to all.

        1. Beautiful Victoria and simonwilliams8. Picking ‘one’ is no way possible, and what this shows us, is as you say, that with all the different but equal qualities we bring, we make up the whole, and none of us have to ‘do it all’. Comparison goes out the window and we just live our part in full. Individually each of the Benhayon family is ‘off the dial’ amazing, and not possibly lacking anything with the different skills and qualities each has mastered and expresses, but TOGETHER…boy oh boy, thats the package! Those photos speak volumes (I keep coming back to the blog just to see those pics!) – “we are all equally amazing beings” is an undeniable fact when we see this family in action.

        2. An undeniable fact indeed Kate. And yes, these images of the family are some of the most powerful images I have ever seen, I have to say. They are filled with the deepest power and love – what a blessing to have these here for all to see. A family in harmony, and a family truly dedicated to all. I am so deeply, humbly and joyfully inspired to bring these qualities to my own family, my own life, that I may offer the same quality of inspiration.

        3. Yes. Through the Benhayon inspiration I have learnt that when I play my part in full I help to complete the whole, but that when I do not, not only do I make myself less but the whole is not complete. Learning to express myself in full is an ongoing process and one that I am committed to however, I can’t imagine the Benhayons as a family where one of them is not expressing in full – the jigsaw would simply not work, and so this shows me how much I have delayed and really how much self there is in how I live my life. As an analogy for life it makes me realise how fractured we are as a humanity where not only can we not complete the whole, we do not want to admit that there is a whole that needs completing where every individual must play his part to the full.

        4. Well said Michelle, and you’ve taken us deeper here… leading me to reflect upon how the strength of my relationships with certain members of the Benhayon family in particular, are exactly what has called me to express and commit in full in life. There is a line upon which I today find myself standing, from where there can be not one iota of ‘stepping back’ – i.e. no holding myself as less, but rather, acknowledging the equalness in me to the true Greatness I see in these people. There is nothing more inspiring and awakening than this, on this earth, nothing at all. And it is undoubtedly via such true role models and inspiration, that we all will come to know this.

286. Thank you Deborah for opening up the discussion about the Benhayon family.
     What we all innately know, and are feeling here, is that we can ALL live this way, we have lived it before and we shall live it again, as is it our true way of being of living together in Brotherhood. Thank you the Benhayon family for reminding us of who we truly are and how truly living as a family can be.

287. I will joyfully join you in declaring my love for the Benhayons too, Deborah! Your point about the fact that they complement each other is right on target. I know of no other family that I have ever come across that works together so well.
     Every other family I know of has some kind of competition, politics, or other drama going on usually quite publicly. That drama is simply not there with the Benhayons, and it is an inspiration. An inspiration of love.

     1. You can see in the photo how they love and care for each other and yes compliment each other for sure. The photos of the whole family are so gorgeous and I love seeing them and being reminded of how families can truly be with each other.

     2. Me too Naren.

        I totally agree. The dynamics that I once thought were normal family life because they existed in every family I had encountered simply are not true or normal. What the Benhayons live and are, for me is normal and a true inspiration.

     3. Another thing about the Benhayon family that is so hugely inspiring is that they don’t just run off and move out once they reach a certain age. They choose to live together, blending their growing families into one big family. Society has the model of you move out around age 20, live on your own, and when you marry and have kids of your own you definitely don’t want to still be living with mum and or dad. But why not? The Benhayons offer a different model and everyone is thriving. The family picture they offer is so incredible supportive, and not to mention loving!

     4. I agree Naren,

     5. I agree Naren, we are brought up in family life to see conflict as normal or even championed but when we observe the Benhayon family we see that it doesn’t have to be this way. There is a natural cohesion to the whole family and it is very joyful to see.

288. Brilliant comeback to the negative media drivel that the public has been subjected to about the Benhayons – public declarations of love for a family that holds the true model for humanity on how to be/live/work/play together in relationships. Their collective example is seriously “as good as it gets”. Meet them for yourselves, and be reminded how deeply nourishing true love in community is, and also how fun, joyous and brilliant life can be, every single day.

     1. Beautiful Jo – articles like this and comments like yours are the antidote to the absurd and false media campaign against the Benhayon’s, for once the true side of the story is expressed, people have a choice, either to see what is obvious, the love and true family the Benhayon family are, or accept the lies of a few who really don’t know what they are talking about.

     2. Captured beautifully Jo, they really do show how life can be simple, joy and love without any perfection. And their dedication to living that way is an inspiration for all who meet them.

     3. Absolutely, but what is also really is that the Benhayon’s show us (amongst sooooo many other things) that there is no plateau, there is not a point where you stop learning, stop loving, stop evolving there is always more love, more to do, more to feel and THAT is Amazing; it shows us there is a whole other area to life we are not currently living. I Love the Benhayon’s too.

289. The love that is shown by the Benhayons is there for all equally, so these people that choose to write lies and try to upset this love are just hurting themselves as they are missing out on a truly amazing thing that they could be sharing in equally.

     1. And boy does it feel good to share in this love. One thing about being with the Benhayon family is it’s teaching me about letting people in. Interacting with them I am learning to trust myself and people so much more than I have ever done.

290. In the short time of just 10 years that I have known Serge Benhayon, his family has become the standard of what make loving choices is. Everyone of the family are unique in the natural talents they bring to the world. What would a normal, large family be like, that has no comparison, jealousy, or the normal personal emotional conflicts… Just ask the Benhayons!

     1. Absolutely. They are the ones to ask!

291. Great blog Deborah and I agree with all that you say. Team Benhayon is a true role model of what a family should be about and I feel very blessed to know them.

292. Thank you, Deborah, for pondering over breakfast and sharing without measure the love you have for the Benhayon family. It is a tribute to all the Benhayons, to you, to Universal Medicine and is a shout from the rooftops to be heard by many. You rock.

293. Thanks for your unique expression and sharing of your love for the Benhayon family Deborah. To feel the love they are is my wish for all mankind.
     They are a true inspiration reflecting how we and families around the world will be.
     My love for them is endless!

294. Thank you, Deborah, for your declaration of love for the Benhayon family and, yes I did laugh (!) because you wrote so playfully. The beautiful photos back up what you express here (your photo and the photos of the Benhayon family) -the joy, harmony, stillness, truth and love are there for all to see and feel. As you say, why wouldn’t we love them?! They are certainly, each and every one, an inspiration to me.

295. Deborah, you and your blog are feeling so light and joyful. Totally different to what this little group of accusers are writing which feels heavy and sad. This is a great proof how healing occurs. Lightness, joy and love , which your blog is emanating let my heart become open and I can feel how this is harmonious and healing. I too love the Benhayons and the deep love each of them is sharing with everybody.

296. Well said Deborah, count me in as another who stands with you. I thank God every day for the sunrise and the Benhayon Family.

297. It is so very beautiful Deborah that you are publicly expressing love. The lightness from your expression is a joy to feel and read.

     1. It is true Bianca, it is definitely a great JOY to read and reflects the importance of expressing what you truly feel.

298. It’s a great thing to declare love anywhere, anytime, Deb, especially in view of: “if they (cyberbullies) can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.” I can say it too: I love all the Benhayons, unreservedly, with all my heart. And I love you too, Deb, and all of Humanity as my separative judgements gradually drop away and I learn to let all of my love out and everyone’s love in!

     1. diannetrussell, thank you, that has touched me deeply. It is the shared joy of knowing there can be relationships without separative judgement.

        1. “knowing there can be relationships without separative judgement” is something I am very grateful to the Benhayon family for. Many years ago, every time I walked into a room, a hall, a shop, a party…. I would feel as if I were being judged and there would be a protection and defensiveness in me, oh so automatic (and generally people were in fact judging me). When entering the presence of the Benhayons in the early days after I met them, I had this ‘suit of armour against judgement’ on as usual. It took a while for me to see outside my own defences and realize that not only was no-one in the Benhayon family judging me, everyone was lovingly accepting me as I was and letting me be me and come to things in my own time and way. I had been essentially judging myself by assuming everyone else was judging me. What a revelation! In the years that followed, as I have dropped my armour and learned to let people in, I feel the awesome level of love in the Benhayons as well as people in general.

     2. diannetrussell I have never met you but have seen your presentations and love watching them, and how lovely you are in sharing science with us all in a way that I never knew was possible. Love out and in!

        1. Thanks Vanessa, it has only become possible because of the love of the Benhayons.

299. Oh Wow, Deborah I publicly declare my love of you and your expression of love. What you have shared (and so lightly!) has brought such joy to me as the reader as I can appreciate and celebrate all that you have shared about the Benhayon family too.. and that follows on to the love that I hold myself in and all others. It’s all the same and is redefining the true meaning of family.

     1. Brilliantly pointed out cheriseholt, that the love you hold for another you also hold for yourself – a great reminder to not leave yourself out of the equation 🙂

300. Beautifully worded, Deborah, I agree with every word you said. What a beautiful example we have in them as a joyful, loving family living ‘The Way’ as expressed by Serge.

301. Right on Deborah. Brilliantly expressed and you are not alone. I am right with you, as are the many who have also commented. I also love all the Benhayons and I am constantly inspired by how they all choose to live life, in their own expression, wholeheartedly and never hold back from living their fullest potential. And with unwavering integrity they reflect the love they are not only within their family but with everyone equally – absolute role models indeed.

302. Beautiful Ariana!

303. Deborah it’s beautiful how you speak for everyone. The Benhayons are beautiful loving people and their support and love for everyone is equal. I too openly say I love the Benhayons dearly.

304. Thanks Deborah, the Benhayons have shown us all what True Family is, a deeply connected group of people, each shining their unique light, complementing and supporting one another, radiating love and joy. Yet real and honest about stepping up and taking responsibility for their choices knowing that this will affect not only their own evolution, but all of humanity. Showing us that we too can live the way of True Family wherever we are and with whomever we meet. What an absolute blessing to feel the love of this family and to love them in return!

305. Oh I so know what you are saying here Deborah, and thank you for sharing this with the hilarity, joy and beauty you are. As I have got know each member in this family I feel held as one of them myself!

306. Lovely to read your whole-hearted declaration of love, Deborah. The Benhayon family are setting an example to the world of how it is possible to live in a way that honors each of us equally, knowing that we each have our unique expression and no-one is more important than another. By seeing humanity in this light, comparison and jealousy cannot breed, competition is pointless, and love is paramount.

     1. Yes Sandra, it is lovely to read Deborah’s whole-hearted declaration of love. You only have to look at the photos to feel the harmony between them all. A unique family, but by setting this example others can see that it is not only possible, it is there for us all to know it works, as here it is, in action!

307. Thank you Deborah for taking the time to write about love publicly! Truly I can say that every member of the Benhayon family that I know has a huge commitment to being and bringing love to every person they meet, totally unconditionally.

308. My connection to my innermost, self appreciation, the quality of love I can hold others in, how open I can be and the level to which I let others into my heart have all deepened enormously as a direct result of the inspiration and support from the members of this family. Knowing them fills me with absolute joy and appreciation. And it is a delight reading an article and comments that acknowledges them for the powerful reflection of love, joy, harmony and commitment to humanity that they are.

309. All the lighthearted beauty-full comments made here from so many who have had their lives touched so lightly, but magically, by all of the Benhayon family is certainly testament to the fact that we are not involved in a cult. So many of us have so turned our lives around for the so, so much better! We have so much fun and joy in our lives now. There is so much fun here, no serious following, just a wonderful feeling of BROTHERHOOD, we are all really all one amazing family.

310. Ah Deborah – I love public love declarations – they fill us all up with the warmth and tenderness that we so are!! Thank you!

     1. I agree Henrietta, this left me feeling very warm Deborah! Very gorgeous, and so true. This family are everything you have said and are so committed to supporting the community they live in and far beyond. I am completely inspired by them all, I love them too!

311. Gorgeous blog Deborah. What I love about the Benhayon family is that each individual person bring a completely different expression, and they each inspire me in completely different ways. They are all true role models, and I am absolutely blessed to have them in my life.

312. Thank you Deborah for what is a great and also very light blog. You highlight a great family that is forever growing. You see the immediate family in these stunning photos but they include thousands of people into their lives collectively. The intimacy of the relationships within ‘their’ family and then within the wider collectively family is nothing short of miraculous and is something to truly behold. As you allude to Deborah some may detract from this but the wider embrace it because what the Benhayon’s bring is not the norm but is most definitely the way. They are a symbol of family, community and love. A shining example for us all of how we truly are, a real, working, living example in forever progress.

     1. Yes Ray, this is the future of Humanity in the making. The past ‘extended family’ way, the modern ‘nuclear family’ way, and the ‘alternative family’ ways, have visibly not worked to produce global respect and harmony, so why defend what’s not working? Let’s embrace what manifestly brings love and that longed-for sense of family to more and more people regardless of ‘blood’ (aka biological relationship).

313. The Benhayons truly are an amazing family that bless everyone with the love that they are.

314. Thank you Deborah, I understand what you mean in your blog.
     We cannot love one Benhayon more than another because they all hold us in love and truth equally. The level of love I have for each of them can only be measured by me and how much I allow the awesome endless love they all embody to flow through my body.

315. What a glorious proclamation that I echo with every cell of my body.

316. The Benhayon family is a great inspiration for what true family can be like. And the love expressed in this blog and in the many comments is the reflection of the love they share with humanity. They give endlessly without ever running out, they have each others backs and they live in such abundance that they never in lack to share with you.

317. Absolutely Deborah, this is so beautifully expressed about the whole Benhayon family, they are an example for us all to witness how loving families can be. I completely agree that every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right. Beautiful.

318. Deborah mcBride what a beautiful blog – brings tears to my eyes. This family is remarkable and I have had the honour of watching it grow and deepen in beauty and service to humanity. This family has pushed all my buttons and has brought up a lot of jealousy in me and have helped me to clear this poison. They have shown me what I will choose for myself. Living a life dedicated to service and love, living with such cool grace and divine intelligence, not in perfection but in purpose.

319. Thank you Deborah for so beautifully expressing it as it is. I too love the Benhayons deeply, joyfully and intimately as you have described. One of the many, many, many gorgeous blessings I have received from the Benhayons is that through their living example they have re-introduced me to true love. This has allowed me to heal my hurts and in turn love myself and others. I have discovered that at heart we all have the qualities we so dearly love in the Benhayons just that most of us cover them up with our hurts and protection.

320. Thank you Deborah for coming out and sharing what no doubt everyone who has ever met and been inspired by each member of this family has felt. From watching how the Benhayon family interact with themselves, their family members, close friends or anyone for that matter it is an amazing site to behold. Like you say if a small few can spend their time writing about a family they have had little contact with regularly, then I have more than enough inspiration and appreciation to write about them, in the four years I have known them. Without perfection the love they consistently express to all has been the greatest source of role models and understanding in my life and beyond bar none.

321. I did laugh with you Deborah as I have had the same thought and came to the same conclusion as you, it’s impossible to choose they are all equally amazing in what they each bring. They are the walking, talking, living proof that there is another way to live our lives filled not from need and recognition but service and love. I am endlessly inspired by them all.

     1. ‘Endlessly inspired’ – ah, those were the words I was looking for! I completely agree Vanessa, as the Benhayon’s continue to grow and be more and more love every day, I can’t help but be inspired… Endlessly.

        1. Endlessly and everywhere.

322. I LOVE your blog Deborah 😉 a gorgeous description of the many, many attributes of the Benhayon family – thank you for sharing your breakfast thoughts, everyone who has had the opportunity to meet and talk to any one and/or all of the Benhayons is truly blessed

323. I’ve really enjoyed reading this Deborah, it’s all too rare to find such a beautiful, public, open expression of love. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt appreciation of each of the Benhayon family, very beautiful.

324. Deb McBride, this blog is gloriously joyful and absolutely true. I totally agree with this depth of love you speak of that I too feel for every member of the Benhayon family. They constantly reflect from their consistent way of living love, not just with their own family, but for everyone they meet, just what is possible for us all.

325. Well said Rodharvey – I agree fully that Deborah McBride has extraordinary taste and wisdom with her love for every member of the Benhayon family.

326. This is without question an amazing article and show us all how no matter what stones are thrown, Love always wins.

327. It’s like you are speaking for everyone that has been blessed enough meet this bunch. The Benhayons are unfortunately a rare family that I believe will be studied as a model or a way of living to get back to, old fashioned warmth and integrity and generosity is present in every interaction you have with them. There is literally no off switch with this crew… this is who they naturally are 24/7 364 days a year. They don’t butter you up in session or rah rah you on stage and then chill out on the weekend and check out and indulge.
     There way, this way, is dedication to every moment, not with perfection but with absolute commitment. I second this blog a billion percent, this article articulates the true power of the Benhayon family,
     thank you Deborah, simply beautiful.

     1. So true Sarah, the Benhayon family will be studied for years to come, they have been my marker to know what a true family is and this has in turn helped me with my family and I know they are an inspiration for many hundreds of families.

     2. ‘I second this blog a billion percent’. I love this because as I read Deborah’s blog I was ‘me too-ing’ the whole way through.

     3. Thank you Deborah and sarahraynebaldwin, I agree, and the more you get to know this family the real they become. There is absolutely no put-on or sugar-coated aspect to the Benhayons, what you see is what you get.

     4. So true sarahraynebaldwin, the love that the Benhayons’ live is perpetual, no putting it on for show, so no need to switch it off when no-one’s looking. It is a living quality applied to every single detail of life, every aspect of relationship and a quality that many are subsequently choosing for themselves. The Benhayon family is a living example of the love that so many religions talk about, true love in action. What a blessing Deborah’s article is, outing not just herself, but all of us as we echo her love all around the world.

328. I one hundredth that sentiment Deborah, I too love the Benhayons.

329. I loved reading your gorgeous expression Deborah. I was just smiling in agreement all the way 🙂 I too am so inspired by the Benhayon family and love what they reflect for me and all.

330. The photos say it all, Deborah, the light shining through their eyes, the wide open smiles, the obvious sense of true intimacy and fun, the togetherness. All these for us to see and feel, and they confirm your words.

     1. Well said joanchristinecalder. The harmony is visible and can be felt.

331. This is a burst of joy. I love this piece of writing Deborah! It is like a breath of fresh air.

     1. So true kathleenbaldwin – so very joyful.

332. I know you are one among many Deborah who found it difficult to trust, yet are able to trust and love the Benhayons completely. What I find remarkable is that anyone could not love them!

333. Hear Hear Ariana, nothing will deter us from speaking the truth!

334. Hear Hear, Deborah, I understand completely and stand tall beside you as I also love each and every one of the Benhayon family and as Joel says” What’s not to love,” This is a family of true role models.

335. Right with you Deborah. And a great blog. I love them all. I spend time with one, love that one even more, then realise that actually I now love them all equally more, because I love myself more, and so it goes on and on. There is no ceiling. There is no end. My love of them all is only governed by how much I allow myself to be loved by each, any, or all of them. I love them all, as they are the all and they love me as I am the all.

     1. So true ottobathurst, I too have experienced that as love for ourself deepens so then does the love we can have for all others deepen. Like you, ‘I spend time with one, love that one even more, then realise that actually I now love them all equally more, because I love myself more, and so it goes on and on’. A forever deepening of the love for self and for all others equally so!

     2. Gorgeous comment ottobathurst, and I feel the same – there is no limit, ceiling or lid on my love for the Benhayons. The only time it is capped is when I try to love them more than I love myself!

        1. Susie, this last sentence of yours is ginormous. As soon as one is trying to love someone more than oneself then we are stopping ourselves from being more. We can only get back as much as we are. If I walk with anger I get anger back. If I walk with love I get love back. If I walk with more love I get more love back. But always it is dependent on where I am at, and how wide I have opened my heart to my own love. This is what the Benhayons are constantly asking us to do…to open ourselves up more to the love that we all have, equally. That is the purest service imaginable.

     3. I totally agree ottobathurst – there is no limit this love.

336. I love the absolute playfulness of this blog, so fun and light, it made me laugh, but at the same time I equally agree with the absolute love you express for the whole Benhayon family. The world is truly blessed to have them here.

337. Oh Deborah, I love this blog – I too love the Benhayons! Along with the life changing reflections they are all offering, the word that sticks out is JOY, just look at this gorgeous bunch… There is an endless generosity.

338. Hear hear I absolutely agree I love all the Benhayons. I feel blessed to know them and have them as part of my life. I just feel so much love for every single one of them equally. They are all amazing in everything they share with everyone, even people they don’t know personally are all offered an amazing reflection and connection from them.

339. Thank you Deborah and may I say hear here! Your article has made me reflect on the fact that not a single one of this amazing family is better and more loveable than the other. They are all equally awesome in their own right as you say. Even tiny Caitlyn with her power-full on stage presence.

340. Beautifully written Deborah ‘I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.’

341. So beautifully said, Deborah and I’m so totally with you. They are a truly inspiring family. Each person living their own life, with no expectations on each other, in absolute harmony and equality. And this is shared with everyone, no one is special, everyone is special.

342. Deborah your public outpouring of love for the Benhayon family is gorgeous. They are a beautiful representation of what true family and service to humanity stands for. A huge thank you to the Benhayon family for representing love lived at its fullest.

343. Well done Deborah for stating very clearly what you feel. I believe it to be a fairly normal custom to offer love and gratitude to those for whom we feel appreciation, perhaps not so much in a public blog forum! But hey let’s be ground breaking, just like the work of the Benhayon family. Thank-you.

344. Touche Deborah. And I love you equally as much for displaying such open affection. This is a huge offering. In a world that is immediately skeptical of such open displays of affection, it takes courage to do something like this. It shouldn’t need be so and it should be natural, but the truth is that it is not in a world that seeks to cut down that which it does not want to understand. I take my hat off to you, and while I am at it, I declare my love as well for the Benhayons, for life, for my many friends both inside and outside the community of Universal Medicine, my work colleagues, my family, my wife and for God. There, glad to have that out – inspired by your boldness Deborah McBride.

345. You cannot help but smile when you see those photos! I am outing myself too Marika and feel the glow within as I acknowledge the love that the family share with us all.

346. Deborah thank-you for standing up and letting love in – this is a beautiful declaration of your love and appreciation for this true family. Equally it is with the fullness of my breath that I love this dear family.

347. I can only agree Deborah for I have asked myself this question once and came to the same conclusion. They are all uniquely gorgeous and inspiring and as you say…I do not only love them but they love me back. I wanted to say equally, but at this point in time, their love is more lived and expressed then mine but with their reflection unwaveringly before me one day it will be absolutely equally.

348. Beautifully shared Deborah – you express what hundreds of people feel towards this family.

349. I like this very much Deborah, the love you are writing about is felt through every word you wrote and so is the lightness, playfulness, and at the same time, depth and independency of recognition, this love has brought to your life – beautiful and inspiring – very much so, thank you : ).

350. Thank you Deborah for your public sharing of the love for the Benhayon family! And yes I agree with everything in me, I love them too all equally. They are an amazing inspiration in all they live. I feel very blessed knowing and meeting the Benhayon family and being part the love, joy, harmony, stillness and truth they share with all of humanity.

351. I love your beautiful and heartfelt expression Deborah. I too love all the Benhayon family and feel truly blessed to know them, and to have them in my life.

352. So much Love! So gorgeous!

353. Thank you for going public in stating how awesome a family the Benhayon’s are – their bright sparkling eyes and beaming faces tell it all – pure joy and love for themselves and humanity/life. They are very inspiring in how they live harmoniously together and live to serve humanity.

354. This is such a beautiful blog, thank you Deborah

355. BAM ! I agree with ALL that you have written- feeling exactly the same and loving every word you shared!!!

356. Thank you for your expression Deborah, a moment to truly connect, joyously acknowledge and feel how much I love the Benhayon’s, and the fact that (absolutely confirmed by the last photo)- I love them all equally as well.

357. What an amazing simple post Deborah McBride and what makes is so real is that this is not your style normally to go public but in this case you have and well done for saying it as it is. The Benhayon family are fresh air in our world today and we could all learn a thing or two from them.
     I have never met more responsible people who live their lives and inspire others with their utmost integrity and conduct themselves with deep love for self, each other and all of humanity. The Benhayon family have personally supported me to get back on track and live a life that is real and meaningfull everyday.

358. I agree Deborah that to love the Benhayons seems very natural and easy to do because they are so consistently loving to everyone. They bring love out in others, they humbly inspire others to be themselves, simply by the example of how they live themselves.

359. Absolutely love the way you have expressed your love for all the Benhayons so playfully but with such deep appreciation of everything that they are and bring to humanity. My life has been irrevocably changed by meeting them and witnessing how dedicated they all are to reflecting love in everything they do which has inspired me to open up and make different choices in my life. Thank you Deborah.

360. Thank you Deborah for putting into words what so many of us all feel – it has given me the opportunity to fully appreciate all that each of them has brought to my life. My life is so much richer and fuller for knowing them.

     1. I agree Susan, Deborah has expressed what I feel too and given me the opportunity to clearly feel how much I love and appreciate all members of the Benhayoun Family equally, and how much they all enrich my life beyond measure. They have given me so many markers that I now clearly know and recognise, and a clear level where I can take my life to.

361. What a beautiful post. I love them too as “Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete…….” The fact that they also love everyone equally, opening their hearts to all – I always feel very special in their presence.

362. Hola Deborah McBride , you have just outed yourself as a great writer! What a wonderful idea to write about this subject – The Benhayon family which is an incredible inspiration to at least hundreds if not thousands of people to choose a life of love, purpose and total dedication to the evolution of humanity. The sincerity of every single one of them is incredible and not something you would find easily again on this planet. They are working together as one organism, each contributing their uniqueness without an ounce of holding back and together they are offering a quality which has not been seen on this planet for a very long time. Instead of competing they are supporting each other to step up and move forward in their evolution constantly and the results of this work are tremendous and are available for the benefit of everyone who is choosing to join the work, the dance, the play, the joy and the expansion. For me there is definitely no better place in this world to be at any time of my life. I AM IN …..!!

     1. Wonderfull expression of what is happening here Karin – absolutely amazing to feel expression with not an ounce of holding back xox

363. Here Here Deborah – I love all the Benhayon family equally as well, thank you for expressing what so many of us feel and have felt, as is evidenced by the comments above.

364. Thank you Deborah, you have spoken your truth loud and clear and so many, myself included, will chorus what you have said. Why on earth wouldn’t anyone love every member of this family? The Benhayon family are without a shadow of a doubt the most loving family one is blessed to meet and as you say, its not that we need to hang out with them 24/7, camp outside their houses weeks before their children are born or collect Benhayon memorabilia, it is because of their genuine love of one another and all their friends and acquaintances, their generosity, care, tenderness and defiant adherence to the truth that one cannot help but love them back. Thank you for going public and declaring your love, I love them too, immensely and feel extremely blessed to have them in my life.

     1. Exactly rowenakstewart, beautifully put, and add me to the list of those who feel blessed to have the Benhayon family in my life, I too love each and everyone of them.

365. This is gorgeous Deborah, I feel the same, ‘their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete, they conduct themselves with the utmost integrity and respect, they are funny, they are self aware’, I feel blessed to know the Benhayons, to have met such an amazing family that have supported and inspired me to return to living a healthy, loving, joyful life, how can I not appreciate and love them all.

366. Thank you Deborah for writing such a heartfelt blog and I agree with all you say. The Benhayon family share their love with each other, all those they meet and all of humanity. I have delighted in feeling this essence of true love that is within me also and when I feel this love I understand the love that the Benhayon family share with us all equally.

367. What a great a question to ask Deborah. It is as you have said that every one of the Benhayon family is as unique as snowflakes. When they are all together they become a snowball not perfectly round, but still solid. If you roll the snowball it collects other snowflakes and grows and grows where its only purpose is to be its self with all others.

     1. Having fun with your analogy sjmatsonuk – it rolls up another of those essential ingredients of playfulness that make up the rich mix, that makes them who they are!

368. Very raw, very loving, extremely real – your deep love is tangible and it only adds to you as the amazing person you are in your own right.

369. I love them all equally as well for without them all I wouldn’t really be aware of what love was in the first place. Lovely blog Deborah so great for sharing.

     1. There goes – without the Benhayons I would have no idea what love truly is – still floundering in the icky, sticky, needy, conditional version of emotional love we have decided to call love, that isn’t. The Benhayons have raised the bar, freeing us all.

370. The Benhayons are an amazing family and my life has been blessed by meeting them all in so many ways… and as the title so aptly expresses: I love the Benhayons too, as they all inspire me to live in simplicity and to just be myself.

371. Thank you Deb for putting into words what a lot of us feel in our hearts about the Benhayon family. They are an extraordinary, and at the same time an ordinary, family that are accessible as they serve all humanity. My life is all the richer for having met the Benhayon Family.

372. I LOVE your blog Deborah and I LOVE how you go public with telling the whole world how much you love the Benhayon family. I love them too, to the full moon and back again.

373. I can agree with you Deborah McBride, why should’t we declare our love for the Benhayon’s family publicly while the opposite is happening? This makes no sense, so Deborah thank you for this amazing piece of love being posted publicly.

374. I’m outed too – totally adore this family – each and every one, just the mention of their names makes me smile from all of me in celebration, and I’d gladly sing it from the rooftops – amazing dear people making a difference in the world that inspires no end.

     1. I love your expression here Kate and the Joy and cuteness, it is filled with. I am with you!

375. And Deborah I for one am very glad you made the time 🙂

376. Reading you biog Deborah brought a huge smile to my face. Your zest and public declaration of love for the Benhayon family is gorgeous. I too love the Benhayon family, every single one of them having their own unique expression, all from love and always meeting every single one of us with equality and joy. A true family and a true inspiration for how we can all be.

377. What’s not to love, there is such a depth of inspiration from everyone of them.

     1. Absolutely Joel L – I have been looking over the last 10 years and really there isn’t one little smidgin that I can’t not Love about All the Benhayon’s. They are the pure Joy in my Life.

     2. I completely second that . . . they ooze inspiration each individually and also as a whole family.

378. Love it Deborah. And so true. If people can write hate blogs everywhere, and reporters can spread lies, why can’t we write love blogs everywhere and spread truth too. I love all the Benhayons ! They are spectacular and amazing, each in their own right. They are all so different in what they do – none of them are going off the other, or following in a person’s foot steps, yet they all have this spectacular quality in how they do everything that’s mesmerising. Love, love, love, love.

379. I LOVE your expression Deborah McBride! You are oozing joy and contagious sunshine and glee for all to feel. The fullness of you in being open about your love for the Benhayons calls us all to open up and be honest with how much we actually TRULY LOVE everyone! Why hide and protect ourselves against the magnitude of love we have for humanity? We have access to a bottomless well of love inside us, thank you Deborah for letting us feel your gorgeous well of love and to feel it in ourselves too.

     1. Awesome – I like how you have expanded this to the whole of humanity, as what Deborah has shared, although specific to one family, shows how we can love EVERYONE instead of just those within our close circle of friends who we hang out with, or family.

380. Brilliant Deborah. Awesome to write a blog about love instead of addressing lies and innuendo, and that love playfully shining in every word you have written. If I ever have need of a publicist I know I will be calling on you for your support.

381. LOVE IS JUST SO EASY TO LOVE! Thank you Deborah for spelling this out so joyously and unashamedly. True to your gorgeous style. What you say of the Benhayons I know is true to my very core and to tout such love as anything less than the everything it is. Not only requires a seething jealousy but also a great evil (which is purely the absence of love) to blind oneself to the fact that we are all this same love and also capable of living this as consistently as this family do. If we are choosing not to, then it is almost understandable how the reflection is too much to bear – hence the poisoned apple laced with lies that gets sent out…

382. Thank you, Deborah. The way you describe the Benhayons feels like the future of the entire humanity as a family, and it is so gorgeous to feel. And I love the Benhayons, too.

383. From first meeting Serge Benhayon 15 years ago, and all of the Benhayon family since, their integrity and love of humanity is unwavering and truly inspiring. Thank you Deborah for playfully reminding me of how much I love the Benhayon family!

384. Love your blog Deborah. And yes, I absolutely love everyone in the family too, they are an amazing package of LOVE, and constantly inspire me to be more of who I truly am, to stop holding back (a work in progress), and to KNOW that that level of love between people is available to us all if we are willing to take the baby steps (or leaps) to the next step toward that way of being and therefore living.

385. Dear Deborah my eyes sparkle as I read your open and joyful sharing of the love and appreciation for all to see and I must add how wonderful it is to feel that to love any one above any other as every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, and their love for humanity that goes unwavered. I love love love the Benhayon’s they are a true inspiration for me and I can joyfully say my life has been blessed from the day I first met Serge Benhayon and then each of the family over the past 14 years. Not only to this day am I continually and steadily inspired by each and every one. I have the reflection of knowing myself and that how I live each and every day simply being myself. I will never doubt the impact I have on others and the responsibility I share with humanity.

386. What a cracker of a blog Deborah, thank you for your truth and love in blowing out of the water all the past malicious toxic writings of a few bitter people about the Benhayon family. I – like you – have always seen and felt this family consistently over the last 15 years living their love and deep care for all equally – and equally from each and every member. There are so many things I love about each and everyone of them as the amazing individuals they are. What they all do in common with me and everyone is when you talk with one of them or they look at you – at that moment you are held by their love so strongly that you feel nothing else is as important as you or what you have to say at that moment. Now that is golden and worth celebrating, after all I don’t know any other families that consistently love themselves and others the way the Benhayons do.

387. Well said Deborah, you have spoken for many that know The Benhayons and what is being observed in the living of their lives consistently everyday. The world of ‘Love’ we know deeply within us, the one that before we even realise it we aspire to and know. is available to us. We allow this way to be taken over by a world that is setup to stop us from knowing who we truly are. Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine has made this available to us again through presentations and the family’s livingness. I feel deeply blessed to have this wisdom and way of life happening around me and within me.

388. Deborah, I love the light heartedness of what you have written and the conversation you had with yourself over breakfast about which Benhayon you loved most, it got me stopping and wondering, and like you I found a sense of each of their uniqueness and their unwavering commitment to truth and love. I too love the Benahyon family and feel blessed to have them as part of my life.

389. What a gorgeous, funny and true testament to an amazing family who inspire so many to reclaim the truth of who they are! Love it!

390. Me too, I love them all. Thank you for making that strong statement Deborah. It’s a true blessing to know this amazing family full of beautiful individuals who live in harmony with everyone. Their reflection is showing us all that true love can be and what it can bring to our world. They certainly changed my life by being an ongoing steady inspiration I joyfully choose to connect to again and again. Through them I’m re-learning what holding someone in love truly means. And this is GOLD.

391. This awesome Deborah and I love your sense of humour. I too love the whole Benhayon family and happily tell everyone I know regularly! What this family offers the world is a reflection of true family and love with no perfection, and that this is possible for us all if we only allow this to be possible for ourselves. Who could not love a family like this, and if you don’t, what are you truly saying no to?

392. Beautifully said Deborah, “..if they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly.”. I too love the Benhayon family; I unfold with, and via their clear and bright reflections.

393. Absolutely Deborah. I am totally with you. I too love all the Benhayons. They are the truest living reflection of love each in their own right and most importantly together as a family. They reflect a consistency of this lived love for us each individually and also how we, as the whole of humanity, could potentially be living a joyful and love filled life. Without them I would have be living in same desolation that I once called my life. Now I am living life reconnected to the love of my soul and it is amazing. I have brought my deep tender love to those I work with, those in my family and all my friends. A true blessing. Thank you Benhayons for being the true face of God on Earth.

394. This is indeed an extra-ordinary family. We are all equally as gorgeous and loveable as each member of the Benhayon family who confirm in every way how we can all live as one big family.

395. Thank you Deborah. Awesome that the Benhayons have inspired you to be more of who you truly are, and all the worry about your reputation being tarnished for being the real you can no longer get to you, because nothing is more harmful that holding ourselves back. You’re declaring your love for the Benhayons, but what it sounds like to me is a declaration of a new found love for yourself and humanity. Super cool!

     1. Spot on Elodie!

396. Hear Hear!!! I’m with you Deborah. And so too I say the same.

397. Yes indeed Deb, how awesome are the Benhayons? So awesome! Yes it may seem odd to publicly declare love for such a family but they are indeed exceptional. Exceptional in the way that they have each made very conscious choices to be the amazing loving people they are today and role models for all of society. I am grateful to have them amongst my dearest friends, with their loving support felt always, and the same returned to them.

398. Too true Deborah. It is lovely to be around them and to watch each one in their love & expression. A great reflection of what a family can be, knowing also that we are never always in perfection.

399. This is just beautiful Deborah! And there are countless others who share in all that you have said here, myself included. You just need to look at these photos of the Benhayon’s and of you Deb, to feel the absolute joy that is being lived. This is remarkable to say the least, and we can choose to be either inspired or insanely jealous. I choose inspiration and my guess is that the small group of people you refer to that continue to slander this family, are insanely jealous that they have not made the choices to live the love, joy and dedication to truth that this family has. I love your public declaration Deborah and I am standing right there with you.

     1. Sara, that’s exactly right – the small number of people who choose to slander this amazing family must be insanely jealous as they can feel that they have not made the same loving choices for themselves as the Benhayon Family clearly has. I choose to be inspired by the Benhayon Family – every day, and I am deeply appreciating the true way forward they are showing me consistently.

400. This is an absolute Fabulous blog Deborah. I feel so much Joy when reading it and I totally agree with everything you have written about the Benhayon family. And yes I also Love the Benhayons!!!

401. Absolutely brilliant Deborah! This is true family and you have demonstrated not only how the beauty and integrity of the Benhayon’s has inspired you but in doing so, told the world. I love you have ‘outed yourself’ and not held back about the true inspiration and way of the future this family presents. In doing so you are part of it which is exactly what the Benhayon’s would endorse! Thank you.

402. Wow Deborah hear hear, yes true family is one united by love alone; brotherhood. And in your expression you felt cherished love for the Benhayons equally, and so deeply shared by hundreds too, is the love felt for all – for this family truly loves the all and in this comes confirmation of the ultimate fact that at our core, we are all one big brotherhood/family of love. And so should it be.

403. What a wonderful way to start my day reading your sharing Deborah. This family created by Serge Benhayon and Deborah Benhayon ( the Patriarch and Matriarch ) of two Daughters and two sons who with their Husbands, Partners, Wives and children all make up a most amazing family. To be associated with the Benhayon family through Universal Medicine and the healing and Love that is shared with all who come into contact with them, I feel truly blessed. My heart feels full, my body tender and gentle, filled with Love for all . Thank you for a truly heartfelt Blog Deborah.

404. The Benhayon Family are the most Open family that I know. They are immensely willing to share everything that they have with regards to the love they feel for each other and for everyone. I know that none of this has come easy to any member of this family as each person has to work at their part of the whole, but this only serves to make them even more accessible and relatable. They are in fact deeply normal – not chosen or particularly special – Just very very dedicated.

405. To know them is to love them.
     It is a treasure to know this family and see and feel that they do not hold back who they are in any way. They are an awesome example of how we can all be, and fun, playful, purposeful, harmonious and hold us all equally. Gorgeous.

     1. Great description Amanda, of this extraordinary family. I agree with your every word.

406. An amazing blog Deborah and beautifully written. Thank you.

407. Deborah, I have not met every single member of the Benhayon family but I know the sum total of their commitments and dedication to humanity is incomparable to anything I know. Thank you to all the Benhayon for being who you are.

408. Hi Deborah, I couldn’t help but smile a knowing smile while reading your blog – I understand absolutely what you are expressing in your article, and I feel this also, it comes from a very deep place within.

409. How beautiful Deborah, and I totally concur! The Benhayons are indeed a remarkable family and I know that many others share your love for them, including myself.

410. I couldn’t agree more Deborah, The Benhayons are a family that don’t deserve the media publicity they receive, or any family for that matter. They are a family that I am proud to say I know and they are such an inspiration on how to connect with people and commit to life with the most amazing expression. The Benhayon family are leading the way on how the world could be, and one day will be, by expressing with true love and sharing their wisdom with everyone equally. And how beautiful that the Benhayon family is expanding to create more of them.

411. I would like to concur I love all the Benhayon family equally, each of them as their unique selves and them as a collective one family unit. They are living role models of what a family based on love is and an inspiration for all. And I love that you Deborah McBride have taken the time to go public in declaring the true love you have for all the Benhayon family in writing this straight forward, beautiful blog.

412. I completely concur and would stand up in court to attest to the love and integrity I have witnessed in the Benhayon Family. I too could not say I loved one more than the other, for each one is so completely unique in who they are and yet they are all the same in the quality of love they bring and the way in which they live their lives. I may not spend a lot of time with them – in fact I live half way round the world from them, and yet I see them as a part of my closest family and friends, such is the relationships they build with people.

413. This blog has got me smiling Deborah McBride – I can feel how much fun you must have had writing it! And I absolutely agree, I love the Benhayons too.

414. Dear Deborah, I love your love letter to the Benhayons, and it could be that you have taken the words out of my mouth – because I can say very much the same – each member of the family Benhayon has inspired me in so many ways, shown me a deep love, and a new marker of how to live lovingly in today’s crazy world. I do feel blessed to be around them, or even just to know they are there, showing me the way forth in so many different ways, like through Serge’s and Natalie’s presentations, Michael and Miranda’s music, Clayton’s photos, Serge, Natalie, Michael, Curtis and Miranda’s treatments, seeing Michael and Emmalee with their beautiful daughters, growing up, allowed to be themselves fully, to name just a few. My heart is filled with love, equally for all of them. Thank you Deborah for speaking up; it’s so wonderful to have those photos here, including yours.

415. This is a lovely piece of writting Deb and I enjoyed reading how much love you have for all the Benhayons. It’s true what you say about them all having different qualities, how they each hold themselves for who they are, each choosing what’s best for them and in that inspiring all others to choose who they innately are also… not trying or supporting anyone to be anything but themselves. I also feel very blessed to be supported by all of the different Benhayons within sessions and small passing conversations we may have at Universal Medicine events, or seeing them down the street. Each time always just a simple lovely interaction and beautiful supportive connection shared.

     1. What a lovely reflection of harmonious family, working together, honouring each other’s differences. A template for the family that humanity can be.

416. Absolutely beautiful sharing Deborah McBride, I wholeheartedly endorse your words, the Benhayon family are awesome, and I love them too. The joy in your eyes says it all, and the gorgeous photos of the Benhayon family light up the page, in fact they light up everywhere they go.

417. Hilarious blog Deborah.
     And at the same time thanks for being so open and willing to sing it to the roof tops.

     Looking at the picture above of all those people (who happen to all be in the same family) and being offered a moment to feel how much fun, care, honesty and warmth and inspiration I have been offered by each an every one of them as individuals is very moving.

     There is nothing else for me to do but join you in chorus and say that categorically, and without exception ….

     I Love all the Benhayon’s too!

418. I could not agree more Deborah. The Benhayon family has been a huge inspiration in my life. They showed me how you can live harmoniously as a family and with all of humanity. This has reignited in me the joy of living life, feeling the freedom of being able to make loving choices and not accept abuse in my life. Thank you Deborah and the Benhayon family you are a joy in my life.

419. Deborah I am so with you on this. I totally love the Benhayon’s. It’s not because I blindly follow them or anything weird. No it’s that they are all AMAZING. And I’m no different from them (something they never ever stop expressing to everyone they meet), apart from I don’t live from the integrity and the absolute commitment to humanity that they do. But they are showing me it is possible to live truth and love in every way. And anyone who meets them gets to experience this for themselves.

     They are seriously awesome and humble and playful and tonnes more. What is there not to love?

     And who’s my favourite? Well they all pass the finishing line together which is what I am learning from knowing them: that the whole of humanity passes the finishing line together. It’s just that people take different times to realise this, and this is all ok.

420. Deborah, your declaration of love for the Benhayons feels so gorgeous and yes, why wouldn’t we love this gorgeous family who live in such a true and loving way and share themselves so openly with all the world. I can so feel the impact they have had on my family as individuals, and as a whole, and have experienced such consistent support and love from them over the last few years.

421. Beautiful statement Deborah! Who could not love the Benhayon family….

422. Love this blog Deborah. A powerful and joyful declaration beautifully expressed.

423. Brilliant blog Deborah, I love it. I met the Benhayon family through the numerous presentations and workshops I have attended in the past few years. I too feel deeply inspired by them on every level. I love and respect them like they are my own family. This extends to everyone at Universal Medicine, I feel that I have a family that is forever growing and I love everyone I meet at the courses and presentations. I am deeply blessed to have an extended family that is forever loving, tender, understanding, appreciative and supportive. I have realized when I open my heart my family is everywhere.

     1. Gorgeous Chan – and deserves repeating – ‘I have realised when I open my heart my family is everywhere’.

     2. Dear Chan,
        I too feel my family is growing, I know the connections that I make with people when I am at Universal Medicine presentations are genuine and beautiful. I have met many people here who I know will be a part of my family for life.

424. Gorgeous! Thank you so much for outing yourself here Deborah. Your expression about this beautiful and amazing family says it all.

425. Hear hear Deborah I second everything you say, we are so blessed to know them and have them in our lives. My life has changed too, from someone who had given up on life and humanity, to someone that enjoys waking up and dare I say, enjoys being with people. This would never have happened if I had not met such an amazing and truly scrumptious family, each one of them has been a huge reflection and inspiration to me.

426. Go Deborah! With the HUGE changes and these are not just change of seen these are true changes of peoples lives where the actual quality has improved and the hurts healed, all inspired through the livingness of Love in one family, indeed I feel endless appreciation each and every day!

427. Thank you Deborah for expressing what so many of us feel. I particularly like your words ‘Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right’ because what they are consistently reflecting back to us is that we are like that too, and their endless love, support and patience is enabling us to live that more and more each day.

428. Awesome blog Deborah – I can feel your joy and “way da go” in expressing love so publicly – more of this is needed. I too feel so much love when I think of the Benhayon family.They have brought such richness to my life and so many others by being themselves and not holding back their love or hiding themselves. Each one of them has their unique expression, which as you say, does complement each other, and they all EQUALLY have something to offer – not one more than another and that is so obvious when you meet them. It is a true blessing to have the Benhayon family in this world. I am so pleased to have met them.

429. Oh Deborah this is just absolutely gorgeous!! Thank you

430. What an amazing blog Deborah McBride ! I too love and are truly blessed by meeting the Benhayon family.
     The Love, and the absoluteness, that the Benhayons’ live in their family is so powerful and so very contagious, that now my choices are inclusive of all others too. The Benhayons’ extend their love to everyone.

431. Me too, Deborah! I am so glad that you have ‘outed’ yourself and your love for the Benhayons, straight up and from the heart. What’s not to love, as you say? And quite rightly it feels good to ‘go public’ and express your appreciation of how much they have loved you back over the years. Nothing can diminish in any way the love that has been shared.

432. There is no doubt that the Benhayon’s are the most truly loving family I have ever met and witnessed – by a long way. I love how there is absolute equal-ness within their family and how the same equal-ness is shared with everyone they encounter. The foundation of Love they live is the way they live with everyone and this is beautiful, remarkable, extraordinary – and the best thing is, it is without doubt possible for us all to be and live this way. So it is only remarkable and extraordinary because at present, not many of us choose this way. Maybe one day this extraordinary will become the norm.

     1. Absolutely richardmills363, the way the Benhayons live will become the ‘new normal’ for everyone. Humanity may kick and scream for a while but who can resist true love, they are gorgeous – and what is there not to love…?

433. Thank you Deborah for putting this so beautifully into words – such a lovely heartfelt expression – me too! Wow look at all these beautiful smiling faces. I feel an incredible warmth as I look at everyone and feel very blessed to be a part of the Universal Medicine student body and be a recipient of and feel the absolute love, compassion, understanding and equality the Benhayon family have for ALL.

434. Oh my Glorious God, YES Deborah McBride. I second every word, and if I haven’t ‘come out’ in full as yet for loving this powerhouse of a family, who all are so deeply inspiring parts of my life, then, I come out – in full – here.
     But seriously (in the playfulness of your own amazing light Deborah…;) ), it is an honour to know every one, and the true harmony and dedication in which they each live – a life of the deepest and most true familial love, that extends this to everyone in kind.

     1. Yes, Yes, Yes Victoria- beautifully said. The Benhayons are the Gloriousness of God on Earth . . . the way the live as a family and the way they each are individually with themselves and all others.

        1. Hear, hear johanna08smth. The Gloriousness is something that all of us can live too – how blessed are we to have such inspiring and dedicated reflections that show just how real and possible this is, for all.

435. Hear Hear Deb, I concur!

436. Deb McBride, I must compliment you for having such good taste and wisdom.

     What about the Benhayons is there not to love? The Benhayons consistently provide us with the inspiration of what love really is, by demonstrating to us how a blended family can live together in harmony. But their love for each other extends far beyond their immediate family – they share their love equally with thousands of other people. Their love is not selective, it is all encompassing and it feels lovely to be a part of.

     How could we not reciprocate?

     1. Totally agree Rod. They are an inspiration in every way.

437. I am hearing you Deborah and completely concur! Thanks for going public with your love for this gorgeous family. Each one of them is in their own right, inspirational.

438. What a gorgeous and inspiring blog written with the vitality and joy that is inherent in the whole Benhayon Family and which we all love them for. It feels so good to have it expressed in such a real and honest way in public. With all the attention being paid to them by the small group who are making false accusations about them, it is about time we all stood up and expressed how much we love this unique and amazing family, a family like I have never experienced before. Thank you for leading the way, Deborah.The fact that they are very ordinary is so important, and that they are always open to everyone, and are not a separatist group of individuals but individuals in their own right living in a beautifully harmonious unit, and a continual inspiration to all who meet and work with them.

439. Just wonderful Deborah… a piece of writing that is clear, gutsy, funny, beautifuly endearing … just like you ! and yes to know know know them… is to love love love them …as the song says…. and we do 🙂

     1. Spot on cjames2012, to know know know them …. is to love love love them, am singing this on my way to the shower….

440. I love what you have shared here Deborah, open for everyone to see. No shame, just saying it like it is. I too love the Benhayon’s and my life has done a massive turn around since meeting them all.
     I am always blown away by their consistent patience and love for me and my friends and everyone equally, no matter how slow I am at sorting out my life… and even how many times they see me not get whats right in front of my nose…… they have no agenda or no need or judgement, they just have been there steady and inspiring me along my way.

441. Love it Deb it’s gorgeous as you are and absolutely joyful to read. It made me sparkle and feel lovely, lovelingly embracing the fight that was going on between the kids in the kitchen meanwhile reading this…. I love and totally subscribe to the effortlessness of being love constantly that is absolutely inspiring and I absolutely love the Benhayons too!!!!!! You made me stop and think of who I love more too…haha..hilarious, impossible just a big bunch of love everyone in their uniqueness and individual expression. Thank you for sharing your joy, lightness and beauty with us!

442. What an entirely awesome blog Deborah! And you are right – what is there not to love about this family!! They are deeply inspiring, encouraging, loving… and all equally so. Thanks for sharing your thoughts publicly, after all, why not?! 🙂 ❤

     1. Absolutely, congratulations to Deborah for sharing her thoughts publicly, what have we got to hide anyway, what are we hiding from?! It doesn’t make sense to hide from love any more, declare it, shout it from the rooftops, WE ALL LOVE THE BENHAYONS because they are awesome! 🙂

443. I love this Deborah. You are so funny, gorgeous and such a spunk and I love how you write. More please!

444. Wow, Deborah, what a gorgeous love declaration. I can say wholehearted from my whole body: me too: I love the Benhayons too. You described the way they are amazingly precious. They are a unique family and yet this is the way families can be and live with each other.

445. I had never thought about it before but it is impossible to love one Benhayon more than another. Perhaps that’s because they are just being themselves and allow me to be myself. There is no emotion, no drama, just pure love. They all reflect to me the many ways that the expression of our soul can look, sound and move and offer constant inspiration. They let me see the future right now, of how we can be in relationships, business, work, health, as women and men – all aspects of life. They have helped me to see the beauty in people again and through this family, I have come to know the true meaning of love.

     1. Gorgeous Fiona, a truthful expansion of this already open forum of love.
        ‘They let me see the future right now, of how we can be in relationships, business, work, health, as women and men – all aspects of life.’
        This is so true and I hadn’t really put my finger on the pulse before, like what is it about the Benhayon’s? It’s not a charm or a hook, it’s purely them being all of them and allowing others to feel the potential of how life can actually be lived in true community and equal-ness. Their consistency in expressing all of who they are is extremely inspiring in all facets of life.

     2. Fiona – this is so beautiful what you say – such an expression of all that the Benhayons are and what they bring to each and every relationship. I could really feel the awesome grace and wisdom of you in this comment. And wow, how far you and I have come from that first meeting together !!

446. Deb, this blog is magic. It says everything that we all feel (those who know the Benhayons) and have probably spoke in passing but had not ever considered to express as a blog. Even though this blog is truly and deliciously funny, in stunning Deborah style it has a depth to it that has touched me deeply. Taking a moment to truly appreciate just how much I love every single Benhayon. . . And you too Deborah McBride. Thank you.

447. So beautiful Deborah. I did laugh with you, not at you when I read the question you posed to yourself… I must say I couldn’t pick a favourite either. The Benhayons consistently present true brotherhood and equality. These people love all equally, even when faced with people who relentlessly and baselessly attack them and the truth.

448. And I LOVE this blog! And all of the Benhayons as well! They are the most inspiring, amazing and real family that I have ever met and am – as so many are – so blessed to known and to learn from.

449. Great blog deb, humorous and thought provoking in a good way (if thoughts can be provoked in a good way). I find myself in accord with everything you say. The Benhayons are an extraordinary and inspiring family indeed, each is as you say is truly amazing and unique in their own right, yet as a group move in great harmony, joy and love all together and offer the same to everyone. Why wouldn’t you love them, they are supremely loveable.

450. WOW Deb, Now this is a declaration of love! I LOVE it, and I agree with you WHOLEHEARTEDLY.
     As I often say ‘Where on Earth would we be without the Benhayons?’… and I mean it, seriously. Every member of this family brings me great joy, inspires me deeply and consistently shows me a love like no other.
     It’s true, I love the all the Benhayons and I won’t hold back saying it so.

451. I love your down to earth candidness here Deborah McBride, why not express the enormity of love you so clearly feel! To have been touched so deeply is rare these days, and when found, ought to be shouted from the rooftops as you have. The Benhayon family are truly amazing, every one of them and many thousands of lives have been similarly inspired as you have been, me included. An absolute pleasure to read thank you!

452. What a ripper of a blog Deborah! You have outed yourself and publicly declared your love for a family – and in doing so your own unique and incredible expression encapsulates absolutely the love you have returned to live in and with from which has been inspired by this entire incredible family. Thank you for presenting also the opportunity for myself too to recognise and declare my absolute love for each and every member of the Benhayon family; a story similar to yours – supported to return from depression and drug and alcohol dependency to now enjoy and develop a life which deepens each day to live with more love. Thank you Deborah – totally awesome celebration and appreciation of you and the Benhayons.

     1. Yes Gina, I am with you on this. A huge thank you to you Deborah.
        Deborah, you are totally correct in saying, feeling and thinking that we can declare this love publicly. And why not, why should we just allow the rot of the media and untruth of the lies told about great people be there in society and then our response to those lies be the only path we take to address the untruths.
        I love how you just went straight to the love and truth of it. We just all need to come right out and declare the love for who and what we love. Far more powerful and an absolutely true way of expressing Love.
        This is a great inspiration and reflection for all of society- for us all to bring this declaration and appreciation to all areas of our life and to the people who deserve to be appreciated for the full love and inspiration they bring.

        1. How beautiful when we all share our love for eachother more and more openly. This naturally let’s old lies we might hold in our heads melt, and the Love we are will grow stronger and expand like the rings of the water when a pepple falls in…

453. Hi Deb, I am with you all the way, and “why wouldn’t you love such a family”. I have the deepest appreciation for all the Benhayon’s. They represent in full what true family is and it is shared equally with everyone…love and truth with absolute integrity and respect.
     My life has been greatly enriched by knowing each of them.

     .

454. I love the Benhayons too. Each one is equally as precious and inspiring as the next. I cannot imagine my life, and indeed the world without this family modelling their loving ways for all to know, by their example, that there is another way to live.

     1. Beautifully said, Jeanette. I too cannot imagine the world without the Benhayons in it, guiding us back to the love we know inside, but disconnected from. The Benhayon family shows us what is possible, and the love they share with us deepens every day.

455. Hurrah Deborah for writing this blog. I love the Benhayon family too and could not imagine life without having them in my life.

     1. Me neither Lee Green, what a blessing to have such a family to be inspired by. They live and breathe their truth everyday and are such an example to the world, we are so blessed. They are living our future now, and are remarkable examples of how ALL families can live.

        1. Sandrahenden, I love how you say the Benhayons are living our future now. I dread to think where I would be now if I had not met the Benhayon Family and I too can feel my future full of the very same love they bring to this world. So now I bring my future to me and live my love each and every day.

456. Dear, dear Deborah McBride, I have a smile from ear to ear and right across my heart reading your blog. It is simply marvellous to read about your love for the Benhayons and I have to say, it doesn’t take any convincing me as to why you would love each and every one of them. As a family they are inspiring in the way they are with each other, and individually they are inspiring in how they are with others. Thank you for declaring your love for them publicly.

457. A very beautiful sharing Deborah. You are so open in presenting the love for the Benhayon family, it is truly inspirational to claim that I love this family of such gorgeous people, just a much.

458. What an amazing blog! I too have an enourmous love for the Benhayon Family, and its because of all of the things that you said Deborah and the fact that they are a regular family, and remind me of my own, simply amazing.

459. I love this blog! It says everything that I know to be true and I feel about the Benhayon family. Individually and in relationship with one, in the way they live life and in how they relate to others, in every area of life they are a shining light and inspiration. They show the potential we all have to evolve to a far greater level of love in our lives. Through how they simply live and express, the Benhayons have inspired hundreds of people to turn their lives round already who have through simply how they live and express inspired many many more. They are a true blessing to the whole of humanity.

460. Deborah, I love all that you have said about the amazing Benhayon family, yes all of them. And I love them all dearly also. The level of equality that they hold all of us in is unequalled in any family (or individual) that I have ever known or heard of of. Their ability to be love in all that they do is unsurpassed, what great role models they are for all of humanity.. I feel absolutely blessed to know every one of them.

461. Cute! Honest! Fun to read…………and got me to wondering which one I loved the most. Like you, I just cannot decide so will choose to love them all equally. 💞

462. Thank you Deborah for going public with this, because I too feel the same about the Benhayon’s. The whole family are an absolute inspiration in my life and each time I see any one of them their absolute joy, openess and love glows from them and inspires me to light up with such vibrancy and spunk also. I never once considered going public about my love of the Benhayon’s, possibly fearful of what others would think, or not wanting to attract the attention of the couple of cyber trolls who bully and attack the Benhayon’s and anyone who is associated with them in any way. Your post has inspired me to feel how ridiculous it is to cower to the vile lies and insidious blogs, comments and social media dribble from this small bunch of people who think they have the free will to abuse who ever they want publically. The fact is that despite the false and abusive stories posted online about the Benhayon’s and the misrepresentation from the media that have been contacted to copy paste the online dribble into flamboyant and tantalising news paper articles – the Benhayon’s are still loved and appreciated by thousands of people world wide, because of the caring and loving people they are.

463. Deb I can hear your gorgeous laugh as I read this playful blog. I must say that if the sparkle in your eye and the joy in your smile is as a result of this love, then why not declare it? And yes contrary to the slander that a bitter few feel the need to write about this family, “they are funny, they are self aware, they are generous, they are imperfect, they are inspiring, they are hardworking, they are open to all equally.”

     I love this family too, every one of them and I would choose love any day.

464. With such joyous expression, wide smile and shine in your eyes Deb McB have you considered that you possibly might be a Benhayon (McB – the Scottish wing)? Loved this blog, it’s truly inspired and has gorgeous threads of humour like the veins in Pistachio halva.

     1. Very funny and very true alan johnston, the Scottish wing indeed.

     2. Haha absolutely the Scottish wing of the B family!! Had to come back to this blog and read it again, such a fun to read and so true ….and now with all the comments its like a super joyful Benhayon biography…love the Benhayons!!!!

465. Absolutely love your sharing Deborah, and your playfulness! 🙂 It is so true, every one of the Benhayons is an amazing person in their own right, allowing them to simply and profoundly love each other deeply, and offer that reflection for all to be inspired by.

466. Thank you Deborah. I love the fact that you have found the time to express your love openly In writing. Yes if detractors can find the time to fill up cyber space with abuse and attacks towards this awesome family there is certainly room for expressions of love.

467. Thanks Deborah, I can totally understand and relate to what you have said , they are all truly amazing people and what is there not to love about the Benhayons, unless of course you are jealous of what they have and bring as individuals, as well as a family. They are people with a deep love for humanity who spend a lot of time working with and helping people; this is done with the utmost respect and humility and never making others feel lesser through competition or arrogance. I really felt the warmth in your words, an awesome sharing. 🙂

468. The perfect blog to open up on ending my day was this one, reminding me of just how much love there is available for us all. Love oozes out of these photos, it oozes out of Deborah’s words. I too love the Benhayon’s for their dedication to showing the world that there is so much love on offer than we had ever considered and that this love can be lived and shared with everyone.

469. Me too – I love the Benahyons! An amazing and incredible family, every single one. And I am incredibly blessed to have met them and now say they are part of my life. Same as you, not because I hang out with them or am close to the family, I live on the other side of the world, but with the consistent support and inspiration in the way they choose to live their lives, and also through workshops, presentations, projects, correspondence, reading the books Serge writes and so much more. They all reflect constant love, dedication, commitment to life, service and to all of humanity – and then some! And to top it all off – they are no different to us, they constantly reflect we are, and can be, exactly the same, it all comes down to the choices we make. I would definitely say that meeting the Benhayons has changed my life, in the most amazing possible way. Yep I love the Benhayons too.

470. Gorgeously expressed Deborah. This family should go under the microscope from a true scientific perspective to observe the way they live, not attack nor make assumptions… What could we learn?

     1. …perhaps that there is only love, and anything else we choose to be that does not match this light, is simply an indulgence we go into to play ourselves less that the enormity we actually are and are from.

     2. Jealousy is an insidious emotion, and these attacks against the Benhayon family come from a jealousy and lack of love. The Benhayons reflect so much love back to others and some don’t like it because they are not choosing it for themselves.
        We can, and are learning a lot from this family, they are an open book, they have nothing to hide and love to share their love and wisdom with anyone who is willing to listen.

     3. I so agree with you Laura, the wonderful Benhayen family show the way to live life. Their love and integrity should be put under the microscope so everyone can see the way to lead a joy-full life serving humanity.

     4. Indeed Laura Hoy, what could we learn? There is a mindblowing change of paradigm at offer here, for those who might care to look more closely.

471. Deborah what’s not to love, they are an incredible group of people who have made their lives about caring for people.

472. Fantastic Deborah – I’ll come out now and say that I love you too! I wonder if I fit in to that middle aged gaggle?? If I do, well then, let it be known that the only thing I am interested in busting is the garbage that has been said about the Benhayons. I know them to be loving, dedicated, honest and deeply caring individuals the never stray from bringing their all in everything they do! I am very proud and indeed blessed to know them.

     1. From another of the ‘middle aged gaggle’ I can only ponder in horror how I might have referred to myself if it wasn’t for the extraordinary reflection of love from every one of the Benhayon family over the last 14 years!
        Blessed is absolutely true, they have group-handedly re-established the real meaning of love and are responsible for inspiring hundreds, if not thousands of real-life incredible transformations. There is none greater than the other because love is equal… and they live it.

473. Its true! The way the Benhayons live and the way they are with each and every person, consistently consistent in their love and care for themselves, each other and all others, (no one greater or lesser) means you are naturally part of the love equation, as they inspire you to live the same.

     1. “…consistently consistent in their love and care for themselves, each other and all others..” this is so true Jeanette, and I feel this with the family of Benhayons like no other family I know. So inspiring.

     2. It doesn’t matter who you are, how often you are in the company of one, or all, of the Benhayons, you are always met totally and equally with the same love, care and truth that they hold for each other. There is never anything less. The inspiration they offer is just beautiful.

        1. Yes and so down to earth. I am a very practical person and that is what I love about what they offer too, their practicality and common sense approach to life, which gives me many “Duh!” moments and lots of “How did I not see that?” They also make me laugh a lot in amongst all that. You can’t beat love and laughter.

474. This is great Deborah – I love how you’ve shared that if someone is taking the time to write lies about the Benhayons, then why wouldn’t you want to share how much love you have for them! I can certainly concur as well that it has been a blessing for me to meet the Benhayons – an extraordinary ordinary family 🙂

475. The Benhayons are all equally – individually and as a family – remarkable, loving, open and generous. Like you Deborah, I couldn’t say I love one more than the other or that one has supported, loved or brought healing to me more than another. They are a truly beautiful family who reflect to us what is possible as a loving and inspiring family. I too love the Benhayons, each and every one of them.

476. Deborah McBride you rock my socks, You make me laugh and all that you have shared is absolutely true. Declaring your love to the world is honourable. As you have expressed this family is the top of the pops, they are the bees knees and they have been trending for aeons!

477. Go Deborah, I love what you are saying and feel that you are writing this on behalf of many. I know many, like myself who will agree with you 100%. I too love the Benhayons.

478. Wow Deborah, what a great outing you are sharing! As you say clearly and lovingly, what is there not to love about all the Benhayons. Their livingness is truly remarkable and worth so much more appreciation than can be expressed with many words. You’ve captured the essence of who they are beautifully.

479. Deborah I love all the Benhayons as well. If it wasn’t for Universal Medicine and the teachings that Serge Benhayon shares, there is no way in this world that I would have felt this enormous love that the Benhayon’s endlessly live and share. I am thankful daily for the Benhayon’s in my life and having them as friends, which is truly beautiful.

480. As do I Deborah, their love is boundless and endless and this they present for all of us to feel and own for ourselves.

481. Hi Deborah, I love when I read a blog and go, oh yes it’s so obvious and true. So thank you for stepping out and declaring your love for all the Benhayon family, and I agree each and every one lives a life in true brotherhood, but bringing their own unique way of expressing. They as a family present us with the opportunity to see truth, and I for one am truly appreciative of having had the opportunity to see it, feel it and know it to be a true way of living for family/humanity.

482. That’s so gorgeous Deborah. You are right. The Benhayons are an incredible family. And they are so willing to share with others how they live such loving and joyful lives. They don’t send a message that they are exclusive or special but that the love and joy is there inside us all waiting to be lived.

     1. Spot on annietran36… they live love every day, and love is equal!

483. What an awesome blog Deborah, a declaration of love to a whole family. I am in here with you, I love the Benhayons too, and while reading through your words realising that I do love them equally too, everyone unique in their expression, dedicated to a life of love and fun. What is there not to love? Thank you Family Benhayon for being the love that you are, and thank you Deborah for declaring your love so publicly. Awesome I say.

484. I was so delighted to come across your joy-filled and heart felt “love letter” to the Benhayons tonight Deborah, and I smiled, laughed and agreed with you all the way through it. And like you: “My life is truly blessed for having met each member of this family”. I find it hard to put into the words that will adequately express all the appreciation I have for them and what they bring to this world, so I will simply echo your words, “I love the Benhayons”!

485. Now that is what I call a love letter Deborah McBride!!! I am smiling all over from reading it. Especially the “pick a Benhayon” bit. Hilarious:-D. I take them all, very last one of them, because no way can I pick. They are all the best.​ ​Good on you too for saying this at a time when there is so much being written about them, ​that is not true, ​and plastered all over the internet. I really get where you are coming from with care about your reputation and career, but it gets to a point that you can no longer watch a person or a group of people being pilloried in this​ awful way. So I love the Benhayons too.​ ​

486. Simply beautiful Deborah. You are one of the most down to earth well-balanced people I know as are the Benhayon family.

487. Awesome Deborah McBride, your wonderful blog speaks out from my rooftop as well about how much I love the Benhayon family. Thank you for making the time to express your love and not holding any of that back. I love all of the Benhayons for the same reason you share here — every single one of them is unique but full of love, joy, a realness that is so inspiring and I have never once felt any of them treat me less than that. I have found it amazing that they treat everyone as if they are the one and only person in the world — at first in fact this mind-boggled me. How can anyone do that — be the same with everyone, absolutely open and fully there with them? And it is not just one person, it is all of the Benhayon family that does this with everyone they meet. They are a joy to have in my life and a huge inspiration of how we can all be with ourselves and each other.

488. Gorgeous blog Deborah, what I love is the way you openly declare what most would shy away from, as you once did, but now, as some find the time to write lies publicly then “it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.” First class and signed for!

489. Beautiful Deborah & ‘here, here’ to the wonderful Benhayon family,
     who inspire love in others by being love in all that they are & do

490. Hear, hear Deborah, I too love the Benhayons and all that they represent – integrity, honesty, truth and love always, dedication to serving humanity, playfulness, always approachable and friends for life. Thank you all for being you.

     1. You’ve expressed all I feel about the Benhayons as well Susan! I have never before met a family that lives with the integrity, honesty, truth, love and service that the Benhayons do and with such consistency and dedication and commitment to continually keep evolving their relationships with everyone they interact with. They offer inspiration to all, and not because they are the ‘only’ family that has the ability to live this way, but by the very fact that they offer a reflection that ‘everyone’ can live this way. What is there not to love about the Benhayons!

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