I Love the Benhayons

Ok, I’m just going to out myself here and say straight up – I love all the Benhayons…

The Benhayon Family - Clayton Lloyd, Deborah Benhayon, Simone Benhayon, Curtis Benhayon, Isabella Benhayon, Natalie Benhayon, Emmalee Benhayon, Ericah Benhayon, Michael Benhayon, Caitlyn Benhayon, Miranda Benhayon, Serge Benhayon
The Benhayon Family (L-R): Clayton Lloyd, Deborah Benhayon, Simone Benhayon, Curtis Benhayon, Isabella Benhayon, Natalie Benhayon, Emmalee Benhayon, Ericah Benhayon, Michael Benhayon, Caitlyn Benhayon, Miranda Benhayon, Serge Benhayon

 

Declaring my love for an entire family may seem a bit odd, however it is an interesting question and one worth asking – why do I love all the Benhayons?

Furthermore, why does someone, like me, who led a small life in a big industry in a big city and who, in the past, was VERY careful about who she befriended and who she publicly aligned to… (after all I had my reputation as a known film and TV industry publicist and administrator at stake – and my career was built on my reputation and my social life was an extremely important part of my career)?

Why does someone who in the past would never have dreamt of writing a public blog, nor for that matter associate with anyone else who wrote a public blog announcing that they loved an entire family, a family I might add, that lives in a suburb in Lismore which will likely never be the cause of anyone’s ‘postcode envy’, a family who come from a sporting background, a family who does not have one single known/recognised actor, artist, director, DOP or film producer amongst them and a family whom the writer is not related to, doesn’t hang out with nor grew up with etc; why would that someone suddenly have the need to publicly announce familial love?

Benhayons at the beach
Benhayons at the beach

Before I answer that question though, let me share what got me thinking about the fact that I love all the Benhayons. It was not that my life is devoid of things to do and I was daydreaming (unrealistically as we all know he is married) about running off with Michael, nor that my life is built around the Benhayons and therefore dependent upon thinking about them daily, nor even that I hang out with them or see them that regularly… no, what got me thinking about the Benhayons was the fact that over breakfast this morning I wondered to myself which one of them I loved the most…. (please feel free to laugh here, I am not a serious person).

And do you know that I couldn’t, in all honesty, put any one of them above any other in the ‘how much I love you’ stakes.

Every one of them is a truly amazing person in their own right, their expression is uniquely their own, their chosen career path is uniquely their own, they complement each other and do not compete, they conduct themselves with the utmost integrity and respect, they are funny, they are self aware, they are generous, they are imperfect, they are inspiring, they are hardworking, they are open to all equally, they effortlessly and without trying make each of us who see them as clients believe that we are the only person in the world who is so charming and interesting and evolved and they hold all of this consistently whilst allowing us to see their humanity and their imperfections.

So, if by following the ‘presented’ road of returning to love that Serge Benhayon has so consistently and lovingly been presenting for over 13 years, if by witnessing many people, including the Benhayon family, live their lives with an ever increasing ability to be love in all that they do and say, if that raises eyebrows or seems a bit odd to others then I invite you to tell me why you wouldn’t love such a family?

Deborah McBride - "I Love the Benhayons"
Deborah McBride – “I Love the Benhayons”

And while we are here, I’ll answer that initial question about why go public?

If strangers have the right to accuse me of being one of a “gaggle of middle aged women with a penchant for ball busting” as has been done by a small group of people who have written lies and slanderous accusations about this amazing family, if they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.

My life is truly blessed for having met each member of this family. And for the price of having chosen this path that Universal Medicine has presented, I am now devoid of onerous depressions, outrageous needs for recognition, drug and alcohol addictions, lonely marriages, lack of purpose and endless, endless arrays of drama.

Thank you Benhayon family, I love you all equally.

The Benhayon Family (Back L-R) - Emmalee Benhayon, Michael Benhayon, Natalie Benhayon, Serge Benhayon, Miranda Benhayon, Simone Benhayon, Curtis Benhayon, Deborah Benhayon, Isabella Benhayon, Clayton Lloyd. Front (L-R): Ericah Benhayon, Caitlyn Benhayon
The Benhayon Family (Back L-R): Emmalee Benhayon, Michael Benhayon, Natalie Benhayon, Serge Benhayon, Miranda Benhayon, Simone Benhayon, Curtis Benhayon, Deborah Benhayon, Isabella Benhayon, Clayton Lloyd. Front (L-R): Ericah Benhayon, Caitlyn Benhayon


By Deborah McBride

Related Reading:
Serge Benhayon the Family Man
About Serge Benhayon

708 thoughts on “I Love the Benhayons

  1. I love how you say Deborah that if someone “…can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly and send it straight back to them.” I totally agree with what you’ve presented here about the Benhayon family – they each offer so much to all they meet and have enriched my life immensely. Great to stand up and give Love a voice – the haters can hate but that doesn’t mean we have to be silent! And even if there were no lies being thrown around it’s still great to let out our appreciation of people!

  2. Thank you Deborah for expressing your love and appreciation for the Benhayon family, each one of them in their livingness reflect what true family means, they have no borders that keep others out but embrace all of humanity with the same equal love.

  3. An enormous high 5 to you Deborah for having the ‘balls’ (meant and said with love) to publicly declare your love and appreciation for one hell-of-an amazing family. Your courage is much appreciated by those of us who silently but equally love all of The Benhayon family and all that they bring.

  4. Wow I loved re-reading your deep appreciation and celebration of this beautiful family, the photos confirm everything you have said as you can feel the warmth and love between them all.

  5. It is so refreshing to re-read such a deep appreciation and public declaration of love for another, well an entire family in fact. It is all too often that we as a society take time to invest and indulge in expressions of comparison, jealousy, hate and lies. How could this ever unite us as a society? What you have expressed here is what I am sure many others also feel about the Benhayons, and have been equally inspired to return to simply live with more love for themselves, in their and with all others – myself included. Expressing the truth that we know and feel is what confirms the truth of us all, and this is exactly what the world needs much, much more of today. Thank you Deborah for bringing and declaring what you know is true with such authority, for it is only through truth and love, that as a humanity, we will evolve together.

  6. What is there not to love the Benhayon family, they bring something very refreshing to humanity, a family who shares their life with everyone around them, they have an amazing capacity for work and when they stop to speak to you it’s as if they have all the time in the world, and what you exchange with them matters, there are no polite gestures there is only a sharing of the deepest love.

  7. This family is utterly the most incredible family I have ever known. And no they don’t have any super powers or are super fantastically out of this world in terms of their physical abilities or achievements. They are real, down to earth, loving, soul-full people that commit in full to every aspect of human life and connect with all they meet and do not hold back an ounce of their love for themselves and others. This is a rarity these days to see and witness. Most of humanity is living so far away from themselves and in such deep hurt and protection, it is unfortunately the case that many are in life for themselves and are protected from others. The Benhayons are setting the standard straight that love is the one and true way!

  8. Loved reading this Deborah – the lightheartedness, playfulness and absolute seriousness that you declare your love for the Benhayons. I absolutely love them as well, for all of the reasons you describe above. It is a joy to appreciate your declaration.

  9. Gosh, I love the Benhayons too, they lead the way in showing what family is really about and in showing how simple it is to live a truthful and loving life. It’s impossible to sum up just how awesome this family is in words…

  10. It’s astonishing to realise feel so close to people I have only spoken to in person once or twice, yet I feel closer to them than people I spend days with.

  11. When a whole family like the Benhayon’s can make living their ordinary everyday lives extraordinary it deserves not only our attention and observation but our appreciation.

  12. I love you Deb McBride and your love of the Benhayon family. This is an awesome testimony to true (unemotional) love and to the Benhayon family. And I also love (a lot of love!) how you send it straight back to the media in your reasons for going public. If you got the time to write lies? I got the time to write the truth! Love it. And I also love your description of the family – they are so unique in their own expression, and with no comparison at all. A complete celebration of themselves and each other.

  13. So true Deb- they are all amazing people who inspire me greatly on a daily basis. They are all so different and offer a different reflection. It is so inspiring to see the way this family live and are together- I have never seen anything like it.

  14. Thanks Deb, I do concur, they are legends, all of them, I love them dearly, they are close friends and do not deserve any of the vicious things that have been said about them. Anyone who has the pleasure of meeting them can feel how amazingly committed and lovely they are.

  15. It was such a joy to read about your love for the Behanyons Deb, thank you for sharing, I too feel love and appreciation for what each one brings in their own right, they give to humanity an amazingly divine reflection of what true family means, as they accept all humanity as family.

  16. “If they can find the time to write lies publicly then it is for sure that I can find the time to write about love publicly” – wow. So inspiring, Deborah. What I feel from each and every member of the Benhayons is their commitment to themselves, each other and what they bring to the world, and how they are role modeling life on Earth as an individual, as well as a community is also available to everyone of us, by choice.

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