Making Space

I am in the process of getting my house ready for sale at the moment and, although I love my home, the time has come to move on.

I have lived in my beautiful home for six years now and even though I haven’t accumulated much during that time it is becoming apparent with every drawer and cupboard I open that there is an excess of unnecessary ‘stuff’ that is not actually needed… and is taking up space.

This is interesting to observe, as compared to when I was younger I had way more then than I do now. I used to love collecting all sorts of goodies just for the sheer beauty of appreciating them, even if they did not serve any real purpose.

There were also items I brought into this house when I moved in 6 years ago that had no real purpose but there was a certain attachment to them, because of sentimental reasons. Some of these items have been sitting in a cupboard and have not seen the light of day for that amount of time.

What I am becoming increasingly aware of lately is there is a constant refining and re-evaluating that is necessary in my home if I am to honour the change and refinement that is taking place in my body. Even though I may not see these things, they are nonetheless taking up space, literally and energetically. It is rather like carrying around excess weight or emotional baggage that causes unnecessary strain and is a drain on the body.

Our homes, I am discovering, are a powerful reflection of our relationship with ourselves.

How we care for ourselves, what we choose to hang onto, what is left in the third drawer down, all these things affect the order and rhythm of our lives.

As I am letting go of past tensions and protection held in my body and re-connecting to the spaciousness within, so too do I need to adjust my surroundings and discard what is no longer needed in my home for there to be flow and harmony. If there is resistance to letting go, it makes sense that it creates stagnancy in moving forward.

Bringing more attention to my home environment, letting go and discarding, I can feel the space is opening up for me to expand and evolve into what is next in my life. There is clarity and simplicity and I am really enjoying the lightness in the body that naturally follows.

In spaciousness everything is available to us, so in ‘emptying’ out we are naturally filled with the love and divinity we are.

By Victoria, Suffolk Park, NSW, Australia

Further Reading:
The De-cluttering Diet
De-cluttering my Flat and my Life: A Forever Deepening Amazingness
Bringing Sunshine inside my Basement by De-cluttering
Making Space

726 thoughts on “Making Space

  1. I love to de clutter now and then when I feel our bodies are asking for a different configuration in the house. But reading these words ‘what we choose to hang onto ‘…, what we choose to hang onto, what is left in the third drawer down, all these things affect the order and rhythm of our lives.’ I could feel there are still some things in the house I am hanging onto for no other reason than an emotional one, so it is time again to feel and let go whatever is needed for more space in my life.

  2. That final sentence is super powerful – when we remove the clutter and detritus it opens up space … yes, and then the follow on is that allows space for more love. Gorgeous.

  3. I love the deeper sense of spaciousness, lightness and clarity in my body every time I discard something that I no longer use or that feels dull and has lost its vibrancy or energy. How we live greatly affects our rhythm and whole way of being and it feels natural to keep refining our choices and discarding what is no longer supportive as we evolve.

  4. I also feel this is a responsibility we have not just for ourselves but for the benefit of all others too. What we hold onto is a weight that also affects them because we bring the energy of disorder and stagnation with us wherever we go and with whomever we speak with.

  5. The more I refine the clearing out of what no longer serves a purpose, the lighter, clearer and more at ease I feel in my body’s natural rhythm.

    1. Indeed, and the more we can feel the rhythm of everything else around us, so our sensitivity and ability to respond accordingly is equally enhanced (back to what it always should have been).

  6. I started to make space in my home by de-cluttering and I love the energy that is left behind, my home feels so different when I do this with love and intention, rather than a chore.

  7. “In spaciousness everything is available to us, so in ‘emptying’ out we are naturally filled with the love and divinity we are” – is a beautiful statement and can be felt when we carry out this process.

  8. Thank you Victoria ‘If there is resistance to letting go, it makes sense that it creates stagnancy in moving forward.’ Absolutely because how can we move forward when we are still clinging on to something that no longer serves us, it makes perfect sense to let go of things that no longer hold true value to our life.

  9. Space is never empty as it is always comprising of either the ever expansion of Gods love or all that is not of this love and its density. Much like we are always saying ‘yes’ to a vibration, be it that of Divine love or otherwise. As you have wisely shared Victoria when we let go of what is not of love, we allow the expansion of the pulse of the universe, of God, which is ever-present to be re-claimed and embodied.

  10. A beautiful sharing that there is no vacuum when we let go of ‘stuff’ and our attachments, but the space is filled with love and the divinity of who we are.

  11. We are what we are by our choice of living. The quality is therefore important. A way of living that is called The Way of The Livingness is what has truly supported me through thick and thin, never leaving me short of any knowing within me. Always asking me to step up and let go.. letting go of things that do not belong to me energetically and physically. An awesome way of living that has, and is continuously supportive to thousands, if not one day millions of people. Thank you Universal Medicine.

    1. Knowing that our quality of movement informs the quality of our lives allows a connection to more than just our physicality. We are energetic beings and our vibrational quality is affected by our choices, this is our Universal Medicine.

  12. I am enjoying the space, and the choice we can make that allows us to re-connect to space in us that allows us then to either continue in space or go in the strain of time.

  13. My wife & I are at present in the process of moving to a much smaller home. Before making this move we had already greatly refined our belongings, yet we still have too much. Going to this deeper level of discerning what we keep based on being appropriate for our limited space, is a great learning as we cannot keep things just because we like them and have the space, as in the past. There now has to be a purpose for us to what we retain and this is a great reflection in what I choose in life; does it have purpose?

  14. It is amazing what we can collect in just a few years – like you I emptied my house after just five years and was amazed at how much stuff I had to get rid of, in my case because I was moving to another country. I still managed to ship ten boxes worth of ‘stuff’ and although much of it has been useful in my new home, there are clothes, towels and bedlinen I have not used in the year I’ve been here. It is good to explore our attachments and to let go.

  15. It feels like I have been in a constant process of letting stuff go for many years – as soon as I finish one round it is time to start again and so it goes on. ‘If there is resistance to letting go, it makes sense that it creates stagnancy in moving forward.’ This is so true, as whilst I was invested in all the objects I had accumulated, I remained stuck in moving on with my life, but since I have become more willing to release old patterns and stuff, my life has become so much more spacious and joyful.

    1. Such a great reflection that by letting go of ‘stuff’ we are more willing to let go of old patterns that no longer serve us.

  16. “Making Space” – it’s fascinating how that when we clear from our body, whether after a cold, flu, illness, or perhaps leave a former job, relationship that we do feel this mighty urge or impulse to clear out our homes too, to make space and be ready for what’s next. Space naturally calls for more of it [space].

  17. I definitely need to clear out the third draw down (and the one above it and the one below it … and the other draws! It is true how our places – home, car, workplace reflect our body and once we clear all the places or even just start with one place and one thing like a draw it creates more space in our body!! That’s magic and proof that everything is energy in that we clear a draw and notice the affect it has on our wellbeing and body.

  18. “Our homes, I am discovering, are a powerful reflection of our relationship with ourselves” – I also see this at work too… in regard the work spaces we keep which are like mini-homes reflecting to us the angles of our relationship with ourselves and also with others too. Is the space, are the angles open, welcoming or more protected and by its order keeping people out.

    1. Yes in truth our relationship with everything in life is a reflection of our relationship with ourselves, it is one and the same. I can feel the angles within space you mention, and the affect these have, pure geometry.

  19. I have found Victoria that although I am quite a thrower-outer of superfluous stuff, I still have stuff that I have hung onto for various reasons e.g.. I just this moment saw that I had kept an email which was very complimentary from someone I did a job for. Why not just delete it because the inner heart and all the love in the universe is constantly there, so why do I have to hold onto this piece of evidence – comfort, safety, proof!

    1. Taking it to a deeper level Lyndy, everything in life can be ‘read’ and offer insight into our behaviours. What an exploration. I have done the same with letters and cards. Sometimes kept for the sheer beauty and appreciation, that was felt at the moment it was received.

  20. One of the challenges with allowing more space is that we don’t immediately fill it with more ‘stuff’. Being at ease with greater space takes time and sometimes we need to sit with that space without reacting to it, to feel what we are being offered.

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