Community Living

For much of my life I lived in a self-imposed isolation where I looked on at community as an outsider, wishing I were a part of it. I didn’t have the awareness that I was the creator of my isolation, nor that it was only my choices that led to the way I was living. I had a chip on my shoulder against the world and humanity, and whilst I still played ball, I did so from the fringes. I did what was needed to stay in the game but when my turn was over, I retreated to the sidelines.

But even while living this way, I craved engaging with people. I would look at others and think how lucky they were for having the dinner invites, social activity and community events they were a part of. With my arms crossed and a harsh glare, I wanted to be a part of it all and was annoyed I wasn’t.

Five years ago I began having sessions with esoteric practitioners and reading Serge Benhayon’s purple books. Gradually I began attending workshops presented by Serge and now I am a committed esoteric student of The Way of The Livingness.

Today, if I take a snapshot of my life in my community, here is what I see:

  • A home that has a regular flow of people – other people’s kids here sometimes before school, sometimes after; friends over for dinner and popping in
  • A gorgeous housemate who co-parents with me
  • A workplace that is an extension of my home and where my workmates are part of my family
  • Fortnightly Sacred Movement classes where I pair up with a friend, my hairdresser or a stranger and share deeply heartfelt movement and connection
  • Supermarket shops where I know the butcher and we stop to say hello
  • School parents who I love to have a catch up and laugh with at the bus stop
  • Needing help with photography and calling a photographer friend whom I don’t know so well, but know through the community, and he gives me a huge amount of support and researches which camera will suit me best
  • Endless support, be it with healing sessions and swaps, childcare, a friend to call, someone to edit a blog, someone to help with design work… it is endless.

This snippet paints a picture of the richness of our community.

And this community is not bound by geography – we’re global. The other day I had a quick Skype call with a woman I know in the community who lives in Germany, for some video training.

Within this global community we are all working for the same goal – to live on Earth the love we truly are. We’re not perfect at it, but we keep at it. With that same shared goal there is a deep level of trust with others as we know where the heart lies.

We are all there to support each other – in illness, in love, in disasters, in marriage, in pulling each other up to be more… whatever it is, we’ve got each other’s back.

This is the community of The Way of The Livingness. This is our religion and it is reflected in the way we live. It is what binds us together as a community. The door is open for all and you can come and leave as you choose.

The foundation of true community living can only be founded in Love and Truth and with that as a base –– Wow!

By Nikki McKee

Further Reading:
Family Love
True Family
How I Used my Mind to Protect Myself from Others

319 thoughts on “Community Living

  1. Its beautiful what you share, true community is built on truth and openness and a willingness. When we open our hearts to others, they are all there willing to support. This is how a true community builds.

  2. This is so beautiful Nikki. “The foundation of true community living can only be founded in Love and Truth and with that as a base…” Yes, Wow! And no we are not perfect at it, but we are students, and are learning and growing all the time. There is an amazing feeling of support within our community, even when we get it wrong!

  3. We are definitely the creator of whatever happens to us, when we isolate ourselves from community living, we get isolation. It is so appreciative Nikki to stop and feel how your life has changed, by changing your choices. It is all pretty simple really.

  4. A community that is open to all, otherwise it cannot be community. Our lives are enriched by the people we let in, and the beauty of that is that we can never be overfilled with too many people in our lives. No need to be measured or guarded, for we learn from one another and everyone I have ever met has been my teacher, even when I have not realised it.

  5. Nikki, it is a ‘wow’ indeed, I have never been part of anything like the The Way of The Livingness community, I feel that I have very honest and loving relationships with people in this community, who truly love and support me and my family and I truly love and support them too and if anything arises that does not feel true it is usually spoken about in a very loving way without judgement and criticism.

  6. What shines out from your blog is that the support is always there waiting for when we chose to connect. I can relate to sending out vibes of ‘don’t come near me’ whilst craving the intimacy of true community. Becoming an active participant in The Way of The Livingness community has supported me to unpick the many layers of protection that I had erected and live in a way that feels true and ever expanding.

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