As a woman who has suffered much at the hands of men (and given as good as she got at times!), I never thought that I would meet a true man, even though I knew in my heart what that meant and how it would look and feel if I ever stumbled upon one.
And then I met Serge Benhayon.
When I met Serge I was a hurt, hard, bitter, middle-aged woman, struggling to raise two small kids and run a business. Life was hard, work was hard, I was hard and I had all but given up hope of finding peace and quiet, let alone joy, in life.
Serge just met me as I was: he could see all that I had taken on and become but did not let that deter him from seeing the beauty in me. I felt the hard casing I had built around my heart crack open, and the rosebud within start to shyly unfold, as he said: “Welcome home”.
Over the years he has been there, like a rock, consistently holding me in the love that he is, while I wobbled, back and forth, in and out, to and fro, on my path of return.
He has never wavered in his love for me, and that has at times meant saying things to shake me up, to wake me up and to help me to see and feel life more clearly. He has always based our relationship on truth, but no matter what he has said, and how much it has challenged my beliefs and disturbed my comfort, it has always been said with such love that I have been able to hear it, and sometimes even act on it!
And as he has stood, steady as a rock, I have witnessed with joy his sons grow up and stand beside him, and then one by one the men in our community take their place as true men too. Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too.
And held in this caring, tender love, I too have blossomed into the full flower I am now, no longer needing to hold myself hard and protected, and no longer willing or able to stand for anything less than love, in any form, for myself or for anyone else. And I have watched many other gorgeous women flower in this way, The Way of The Livingness.
All of us inspired by Serge Benhayon, the man who stands amongst us like a rock, to remind us of what a true man is, and who stands here, as we do, with our Father, God.
By Anne Malatt, woman, wife, mother, grandmother, eye surgeon, Bangalow, Australia
Further Reading:
Inspired by Serge Benhayon: From Marriage Breakdown to True Responsibility
Inspired by Serge Benhayon to Change my Life
Serge Benhayon – The Philosopher
The Truth about Universal Medicine 
A beautiful testimony to a man who never wavers in his magnificent care, commitment and love for people – very well said.
Beautiful said Anne, your words speak for me also!
“he has been there, like a rock, consistently holding me in the love that he is,” A beautiful description of the love, support and inspiration that is Serge Benhayon.
Delicately expressed as the beautiful woman you are Anne. You could feel our heavenly father in your expression.
There is such amazing power in simply meeting people, to meet them in who they truly are, not what they have or have not done, and not in who they think they are, but to be met in their essence. So many blogs writers refer to this as their pivotal healing moment, to simply be met for who they are when they meet Serge in person. Imagine if we all met everyone in our life this way? Imagine the healing that would be occurring! Life itself then becomes like a clinic healing room, with each interaction a healing session.
Anne this is so beautiful to read – as the truth is there in every word written. Serge Benhayon is a true role model for both men and also women to live from love and in brotherhood with all.
Being a true man is nowadays not easy — hence seeing Serge Benhayon live being a true man himself gains me trust, by seeing other men being inspired, so that we all can come back to our truth. As Serge has shown us and has been letting us know, that love needs to be re-connected to and lived, and we need (as women and men) equally to support each other, each being super sensitive, to gain confidence from our connection to this sensitivity and re-live it, as being a true woman or man comes from connection as we see not from any outer appearance.
It has been deeply healing for me to meet Serge Benhayon who consistently lives and moves with love and truth, there is such power when another reflects this as it also confirming that we are all equally this love too.
There is a greater depth to who we all are, and it is inspiring and confirming to be met by men who sees and honors the depth of who we are as women. Serge Benhayon’s unwavering commitment to live the truth and be the love we are all here to be, has been and still is what has resurrected my will to begin to reclaim the sacredness, power and grace that I am as a woman.
The grace that is Serge Benhayon has inspired a field of beautiful flowers: God’s gardener on Earth.
A true man is capable to offer deep healing for both men and women, as we all need to embrace and accept the tenderness which is our natural right.
Thank you Anne. The reflection of a true man reminds women how precious they are. Serge Benhayon is a living beacon of truth that has supported thousands of women to see how beautiful they are and how deeply sensitive a man can be.
So beautiful to read Anne and deeply inspiring, thank you for sharing the love you have come to know and live, many thanks to the powerful reflection of divine love that Serge’s presence and way of living brings. A true rock amidst the turmoils of everyday life.
As Serge was a rock for many of us, what I feel is important to note is, that we have built ourselves up, with his endless love and support to now be the same rock for other people in times of struggle. I am so appreciative that Serge is a man that wants all those around him to shine equally and in fact, he actually encourages others to out shine him, for to him, that is success.
Beautifully said Sarah and I agree completely. Serge Benhayon is inspiring beyond words and constantly reminds others that they have a responsibility to support others as they have been supported.
It is rare for anyone to be so supportive and have zero ownership over things, he is purely a servant of humanity and so if anyone is a part of that plan, and wants to serve the greater good, he is behind them.
So true Serge Benhayon is a rock for so many, and through his steadiness many have come to see their own beauty and reminded of who they truly are.
How powerful also, is the man or woman who says yes to resurrecting themselves, and stands in the light that they were always designed to be.
Thank-you for the blessing of reading this blog today Anne.
How powerful is the presence of one who asks nought of us, other than we be our very selves.
“And held in this caring, tender love, I too have blossomed into the full flower I am now, no longer needing to hold myself hard and protected, and no longer willing or able to stand for anything less than love, in any form, for myself or for anyone else” Inspiring and beautiful to read Anne. When we know what is possible for ourselves, we indeed cannot stand by and allow others to fall by the wayside. Reflecting what is possible will either inspire others, or they will resist – for now. It’s their choice.
The steadiness of any love and support that comes not only without judgment but an appreciation of your innate qualities and potential allows us to break free of the confines of our habits and beliefs that blatantly cripple this same potential.
Serge Benhayon allows us to feel what it is to be truly met with absolutely no judgement whatsoever and to just being held in the love which creates space for our unfoldment back to the truth we know so well within ourselves.
It is truly awesome and so very healing to be around a man who is loving and tender, and it’s a true joy to see men who are able to self love and care for themselves in great detail. I don’t know where the image and ideal of rough and tough men has come from but it couldn’t be further from the truth.
As a lot of people find in this world “good support is hard to find”, let alone great support. Serge Benhayon has shown himself time and time again to many many people that he is always there ready, ready to support in whatever way is needed. This is not a highlight reel or balancing view, it’s a lived fact of many people’s lives including mine. People aren’t meant to believe what I am saying or even trust it, we are all to arrive by our choice to what we feel. In other words don’t take my word or others words for anything, do the math and make your own choice on what you see, truly.
It has been so healing for me to feel whatever Serge delivers it is always done with love and a lack of judgement but never shying away from delivering truth. There is no imposition and a holding energy that allows the listener to come to their own truth and then choose to act on it or not. This consistency allows us all to drop our layers of protection and flower and it is a privilege to witness the unfolding of so many others inspired by Serge Benhayon who epitomises what it is to be a True Man.
Helen what you have written here and what Anne has shared with us all is very true of Serge Benhayon, he is in every way a true inspiration to us all, He has never told me what to do but has supported me to feel for myself whether the choices I am making are from true love or are abusive, mostly they were abusive but I am slowly coming round to realise that I hate being in disregard to me and my body because it actually hurts too much, and so therefore if I don’t want to be in the pain of not living the truth of who I am then I need to make different choices.
Thank you Anne this is such a beautiful testimonial to the love and consistency that Serge has supported you (and so many others) with in your return to the glorious woman that you are. A true man reflecting to all around what it is to be true to oneself and thus inspiring others to be true to themselves and stand beside him as unwavering rocks in true brotherhood.
Serge Benhayon offers us a constant reflection of what true love is, the level of surrendering in his movements is a strength we all equally have within ourselves, he is a true role model for all men to embrace their tenderness and to express it in full for all to feel.
Serge Benhayon has supported many, many people to turn their lives around, just from truly meeting them in their essence and being a superb role model and reflection of what is possible in life, without fanfare, emotionality or hype.
This is deeply gorgeous Anne. Thank you for expressing what I am sure many, who have truly met Serge Benhayon, also have come to experience. For me meeting Serge awakened a realisation within me that I held myself in a far lesser love that who I truly was. I was being met for all the greatness that I am within, and not for the hurt, the lack of self-worth, the hardness and the emptiness that I was struggling with. I was inspired to explore and live for myself the truth of who I am and this continues today as best I can. Serge Benhayon is a true man, one that stands firm in an embracing love, reflecting to you no less than all that you are, so that we can live who we truly are.
“All of us inspired by Serge Benhayon, the man who stands amongst us like a rock, to remind us of what a true man is, and who stands here, as we do, with our Father, God.” Beautifully expressed Anne. Serge is indeed unwavering in his love and support for us all – a true rock.
Well said and I agree Anne, Serge Benhayon has consistently been a rock and a true role model for men and women equally. Serge’s reflection has always inspired and supported me to make loving choices that have benefitted not only myself but also everyone around me – a true man indeed.
Beautiful Anne – you emphazise the absolute beauty of men in their tenderness. For them to allow themselves in their way and for us all women to equally allow them to be as natural and tender as they are. No limits. That is love.
My eyes welled up Anne as I read your blog on Serge Benhayon, he is indeed the most remarkable inspiring man. I love what you have expressed here, thank you;
Over the years he has been there, like a rock, consistently holding me in the love that he is, while I wobbled, back and forth, in and out, to and fro, on my path of return.
“And then I met Serge Benhayon” A true friend who always tells you the truth and holds you in love while you return to an equal love within you.
Thank you Anne for a beautifully honest blog, so true what you have expressed about the man Serge Benhayon who has inspired us all with his absolute love for all mankind accepting us as equal with him in our divinity, sons and daughters of God He is our rock and role model especially for the men.
What comes through loud and clear is how you were met as you were with no judgement, what a gift that is to have someone just be with you without an imposition but an invitation in being loved and accepted in that way, and to hear how you changed in your approach to yourself from that is inspiring to read.
Beautiful Anne, indeed Serge Benhayon and his sons have been an immense inspiration of what a true man is, no longer do I have to live in protection compromising the tenderness in my body as I have learnt to trust and surrender to that quality which is innate within me.
This is beautiful Anne and absolutely my experience of Serge Benhayon too. The depth of love that he lives and brings to life is huge and unwavering, it takes a lot of love to be able to pull someone up and for them to feel how it is actually done out of deep respect for them and not an ounce of judgement.
It only takes one person to inspire that in us we are so desperately looking for, but are not able to generate that in ourselves without that inspiration. In Serge Benhayon we meet such a person as he is for many an inspiration to make changes in their lives, to choose for love instead for that other energy that is opposing it, and has led us to the way we are daily living in our societies and proves to be not so successful.
To have someone meet us and look beyond the hard exterior which has been the costume we wear to mask our hurts is true love. The more we can inspire each other to do that, the more masks and suits of armour we will learn to leave behind
It indeed takes meeting a true person to regain trust into being true to ourselves, the reflection of being a true man or woman for each other to become true men and women once again. Without such reflection as given by Serge Benhayon and others, most would hardly know what it means to be true and even less how to live in such way.
A gorgeous sharing of deep and well deserved appreciation. I can only whole heartedly concur for I would not know where I would be today if I did not have the unwavering and lovingly support of Serge and the wisdom he has offered me sometimes without even saying a word.
Serge Benhayon is the epitome of what a true man and human being is and can be like. Serge has helped restore trust with so many people it has been incredible to observe the changes people have made as result. Serge simply leads the way and shines light on our path, he has simply taken more steps and never judges anyone no matter what choices they may have made.
The consistency of the way Serge Benhayon lives, his complete lack of judgment and his unconditional and unwavering love for all equally is giving us the confidence to trust again, inspiring us to come back to the love that we are so that we in turn inspire those around us to come back to who they truly are.
I agree, and Serge to me also feels like a true father.
Isn’t it the darkest contrast that we accept “even though I knew in my heart what that meant and how it would look and feel if I ever stumbled upon one.” – truth and love however, we fall for the desires, give up and choose less when all along we have our heart (God inside us) that never leaves us to always choose.
A true man who has inspired many men and women to be truly themselves too. And not only inspired, but truly empowered and with this living as true men and women equally.
Thank you Anne – Serge Benhayon is a rock, his solidness is palpable, his reliability and integrity is unmatched by anyone else I know (though there are many I know that are coming close to it these days). He us unwavering in his honesty and his connection to truth and in his ability to consistently deliver this to everyone he meets all of the time. This is to be celebrated and we can all allow ourselves to be inspired by this and grow from it!
I also noticed how deliberate, gentle and confident Serge’s movements were the first time I saw him on stage, I have never stopped noticing actually. I think its because we are so use to brash and showy personas up on stage or nervous and shy, or flashy and fake but never someone being their absolute heartfelt,gentle and quietly confident and considerate loving all encompassing self.
Absolutely spot on Sarah! And yes it is such a beautiful thing to allow ourselves to feel this gentleness and purpose and confidence in his movements. And this is something for us all to develop!
“All of us inspired by Serge Benhayon, the man who stands amongst us like a rock, to remind us of what a true man is, and who stands here, as we do, with our Father, God.” This is so beautiful and so powerful Anne it brought tears to my eyes, I could feel how deeply true this is and how much as women we have lost what it takes to allow a man to stand true to himself as Serge has done. This is all changing thanks to one man Serge Benhayon.
There is much to be seen in Serge Benhayon and it takes courage to see through the dusty shadows of aeons of one’s own self-abuse. Given this courage from the inner-most heart truth is seen in a true man.
I feel moved to tears Anne. Your sharing has supported me to allow myself to feel the depth of support Serge has been unwaveringly offering me from the day I met him. I feel sad I have not accepted this and let his love in more fully and consistently. When I do I feel the equalness and beauty of us all – our divinity and our love. It is powerful beyond measure and deeper than could ever be imagined. Serge’s love, and therefore my love and the love of everyone else is confirming, supportive, powerful, tender, exposing – he calls us to be all of who we are. Responding is the most amazing feeling in the world.
I totally agree Anne, Serge Benhayon is a rock, a rock of love. He has shown me what a true and real man is and has blown the picture I had about how I should be and act like. He has given me the grace to be myself without the need to impress him or be anything but the love I am.
“When I met Serge I was a hurt, hard, bitter, middle-aged woman, struggling to raise two small kids and run a business”…Anne I don’t really know you but have seen you either via webcast or in person at Universal Medicine events and have read a couple of blogs written by you and it is quite incredible to think that you were once this person you described. I see a beautiful woman, open and engaged in life, ready to support and take great care of her self and your family and one ready to serve your community in your profession. What Serge Benhayon has shown us, is the power in seeing the beauty always first and then the complications around that because once we see that, and keep calling us to account to be that, it supports us do drop the complication and live the beauty that we all are.
I love what you are saying here Sarah. It is the willingness and ability to see the beauty first and foremost and from there it is simple to unravel the problems and complications we have. To live life from the love and beauty there is first a true gift to have.
To meet Serge, is to know he is both ordinary and yet extraordinary. Yes, he is a ‘True Man’ in every meaning of those words.
Hi agree with you Anne, that Serge Benhayon is like a rock. He is there for any of us. I have never met a man with such integrity and love that is consistently there 24/7.
‘All of us inspired by Serge Benhayon, the man who stands amongst us like a rock, to remind us of what a true man is, and who stands here, as we do, with our Father, God.’ Hear hear, truly, deeply and extremely inspired by this man, each and everyday. Nothing on this earth can explain the absolute love and appreciation I have for this man for sharing the truth and reflecting that there is a different way to live on earth.
“Serge Benhayon, the man who stands amongst us like a rock”. This is so so so true – as Serge delivers so much truth, these bombshells of truth can send us ricocheting as we let go of all the false layers of lies and belief and Serge Benhayon just stands there holding us all in love and understanding and patience as we go through these process. He has inspired so many to turn to steadiness instead of reaction and be our own rocks in amongst our communities.
Beautifully said Sarah, the true love and support Serge Benhayon offers us all equally is deeply inspiring and reminds us we too are a ‘rock’ – we just have to make this simple loving choice.
“Serge just met me as I was: he could see all that I had taken on and become but did not let that deter him from seeing the beauty in me”. Tears came to my eyes when I read this this morning. Could you imagine if we all lived like this?
There is so much to say about this amazing man. You have done a wonderful job though Anne of speaking about Serge Benhayon, his consistency, love, integrity and absolutely patience and understanding he has for everyone, no matter who they are or where they are in life. I am deeply inspired by him, likewise the rest of his family, every day!!
Serge Benhayon is all of what Anne says and more… It is his unwavering love that is so profound. Such consistency is only possible when one has a deep and abiding connection with one’s inner heart and more… And this is what Serge Benhayon has.
Anne thank you so much for writing such a wonderful blog about Serge Benhayon. The following sentences was important for me: “He (Serge Benhayon) has always based our relationship on truth, but no matter what he has said, and how much it has challenged my beliefs and disturbed my comfort, it has always been said with such love that I have been able to hear it, and sometimes even act on it!” Serge never imposed things on me and that was the difference for me – so there was no need inside of me to withdraw as a reaction to this imposition.
What you have expressed here is truly beautiful; a wonderful testimony to Serge Benhayon, his sons and men who are inspired by them. I am deeply inspired by all these men as I am by you Anne.
“And as he has stood, steady as a rock, I have witnessed with joy his sons grow up and stand beside him, and then one by one the men in our community take their place as true men too. Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too”.
Thank you Anne, so beautifully expressed, as you write our own story, about a man among men, who has by his reflection of absolutely love, changed the lives of many people around the globe.
The title here is why I have come back to comment again.
A True Man – 3 words yet so powerfull.
True – we have lost the meaning and QUALITY of what this word really is but deep down we all know what TRUE is and if we think we don’t then we certainly know what is NOT True and that way we do know what is True. Hope that makes sense?
In my world I had never come across a TRUE MAN but I knew I had met many who were doing, trying and being something they are not to fit in with society and do what men do and the rest.
Enter Serge Benhayon and I now know what a TRUE MAN is and he makes things so normal and accessible that you are never left thinking he is the only one. He is showing us today what is possible for any man to live if they choose.
How do I know – well I have been checking him out under my microscope and watching him, clocking him, observing him over 10 years and for me that is enough. His consistency, steadiness, commitment to helping others and his unwavering dedication to presenting Truth to the world is off the scale.
Yes those 3 words say it all Bina. Serge Benhayon has redefined what it means to be true + a man. He does this through how he lives which = a true man.
I always knew that men were precious and sensitive. Having sons I worried for them in this world that seems so restrictive to men in the way it demands them to be. How gorgeous to meet and know Serge Benhayon and be apart of a group of people encouraging one another to be their true, amazing selves coming from love. This is not a weak place where we can be walked all over, this is a place of self love where truth is and anything abusive is called out. This can be tough but so worth it.
I had lost the trust in men until I met Serge Benhayon, a man who embodies love and walks it with every step. He respects and treats everyone as equal. He sees us from the essence of who we are-love and not our hurts. He speaks from truth, and does not pander to us. He is very tender and caring, and works tirelessly for humanity. He is consistently solid as a rock in his living of love, joy, truth, harmony and stillness. My deep appreciation for the “gifts” he brings to humanity inspiring us all to return to the true love we all come from.
Serge is, as you say Anne, a true man, one who knows love and walks love with every step, even if it means ‘saying things to shake me up, to wake me up’. His love is not personal – he reflects back to us who we truly are so that we then see more clearly what we are doing to cover that over. There is absolutely no judgment or investment in what he says and this makes it easier for us to hear the truth and less likely that we would feel the need to defend ourselves. He is solid as a rock in his consistent living of truth, love and harmony.
This is a beautiful blog Anne. Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine has certainly allowed me to become more aware and make different choices.
Absolutely Otto and Serge has certainly done that by inviting us all to stand beside him, not to follow him in anyway but in the knowing we are all ‘the one’ and by his inspiration can live our lives with the integrity, love and joy he does.
“He [Serge Benhayon] has never wavered in his love for me”. I wonder how many other people can make the same statement, I now I certainly can. This ability to hold everyone with the same quality and consistency is amazing. Yet by his example he shows us that we are all capable of this if we but truly love, for that is power and strength true love.
As a woman being met by a man, Serge Benhayon, with nothing less than love and respect has been deeply healing. Every time my trust in men is challenged I connect to Serge and all is okay again. I cannot come to describe the gift he has given me.
It’s True Love that will break through our hard shells and let us open up our petals gently, until we are in full bloom.
It just melts me to see how many men are inspired by Serge Benhayon, to show their true tender loving selves too.
You have expressed with such power and eloquence what so many feel. Thank you Anne Mallat. Serge Benhayon is indeed a true man and continues to inspire other men and women to be true also.
Inspiring us all to be true. Elaine, it seems simple but you and I both know how life changing it is to meet Serge Benhayon and be reflected how we can choose to be true, to be love. Before, that were only words to me but having met Serge and having felt his unwavering love for us all, I am on my way back home.
There is so much to be said and shared about the man Serge Benhayon and Anne you really have captured so very much of what he stands for, represents and reflects. Very beautiful blog, couldn’t agree more with what you have said.
A true man is to be appreciate and celebrated “Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too.” It is so gorgeous to read of men who are making these choices, standing strong in what they feel to be true and still express with gentleness. Serge Benhayon is a true man and a true role model.
Looking at this photo of Serge Benhayon I feel tension leave my body as I feel complete inspiration and trust whenever I see him because of his lived quality of integrity and care.
Same here Michelle, it is Serge Benhayon’s “lived quality of integrity and care” that one cannot help but feel from the first meeting and it is Serge Benhayon’s consistency in this way of living that truly inspires all who meet him.
A true man and such a deeply beautiful man.
Very true Donna, “Then the one is no longer one, but many. This is the way forward for humanity.” and before we know it there are: “Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too.” It is such a joy and blessing to be surrounded by true men with these qualities.
It is quite remarkable how much men truly respond to seeing and having a true ‘gentle’ man reflected to them, this also goes for when they see and feel that same gentleness from women too. These are qualities that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects to us all every day, what a true blessing indeed.
Awesome Jamie – it is amazing what can happen when you have a true role model.
Serge Benhayon is a beautiful man, we are so blessed to have him sharing his loving way with us all. I love the way you describe your experience with him Anne, beautifully expressed.
Yes 1timrobinson, we are very blessed to have Serge Benhayon. Understanding life with energetic awareness, self love, philosophy, religion, science and resurrecting the Teachings of the Ancient Wisdom has truly been inspiring, all taught from a deeply honest, loving man who walks, breathes and lives his talk.
Well said Julie. It never occurred to me before I began attending Universal Medicine presentations and events that men were naturally tender within. When I got to feel this tenderness during a workshop tears strolled down my cheeks; it was one of the most beautiful feelings I had ever felt.
There was a movie I once watched with a line something like, “you make me want to be a better man”. I can now feel the ‘Serge’ in every man even if they are not living this yet. They will one day as all men want this. Just appreciating that I can feel the true man behind the man is a gift, and I am prepared to wait till they choose to deliver it in full.
Yes truly inspiring Elizabeth, and not just for the men, but for so many women equally to feel the truth of who they can be and inspired to return and bring back out that potential in full.
This consistency as a ‘rock’ is the most amazing quality ever. What Serge Benhayon reflects and inspires is what exists at the heart of every one of us, and from time to time most of us experience these qualities too, some people more often, some people less frequent. Yet he lives that ALL the time, consistently, steady as a rock. He is unwavering in the absolute love and honouring of people, in expressing truth and wisdom, in holding everyone in harmony and as one, in the joy and appreciation of everyone and every aspect of life, and with a stillness and depth that seems to reflect the whole Universe. Unwavering and truly inspiring.
Unwavering is definitely the word that comes to mind when thinking about Serge Benhayon, there is a consistency that is unequivocally solid. Serge is all encompassing when he lives life and reflects that deeply to all.
Thank you Anne for your beautiful appreciation of Serge Benhayon, a deep love and appreciation felt by many now as we have truly come to understand what this man reflects to, and represents for us. I rarely speak with Serge personally but I have looked into his eyes and known immediately that I know this man well. I have felt a homecoming in that moment. I have felt in my own eyes through being met by his, my connection with the oneness of the universe. I have felt the simple expansion of who we truly are.
Anne, I’ve just read your gorgeous blog again and the tears won’t stop coming. I felt the enormous truth of what you share here, of how one man has chosen to stand absolutely unwavering, and see everyone for who they truly are and embrace them regardless of where they’re at and what abuse they’ve chosen in their lives. I’ve seen time and time again, people transform in months after meeting Serge Benhayon and attending Universal Medicine courses and workshops. The ‘back-off’ layers of protection and hardness drop away and what is revealed is the Son of God that’s been there all along, brimming with tenderness, love and joy.
Yes I have to say Katerina, I’ve also been shedding some tears while reading Annes’s blog and the comments coming through. Love and appreciation have a way of doing that to us. The tears can be our missing of that love and appreciation or our joy of accepting this is around and within us.
It is a rare thing indeed to be met by someone who has no agenda and imposes nothing upon you – not an ideal, nor belief about who or what you should be – and in that there is a freedom that allows one to come out of their shell and explore an essence that they perhaps have not connected to since childhood.
That’s what amazes me in Serge Benhayon – from the very first time we met I felt equal. I never felt judged or lesser (unless I choose so). Serge reflects and holds everyone in love with consistency I hadn’t experienced before. And what’s more he is a man who is super tender so both men and women are inspired by his livingness, love, understanding and reliability. Thanks God for Serge.
True, elenalight, to be held in equality, an equality which is pure love and harmony and which feels so amazingly tender in the body and allows to reconnect back to the loving and tender essence everybody has deep within, I also never have experienced this before. But now I have and this turns my whole life upside down in a good way.
Here, here Elena,’Thank God for Serge Benhayon’. What I also love about him is how humble he is yet he claims himself fully and does not hold back from expressing it. There’s no inflated image here – he’s the real deal, a true man.
Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too.’ True gentle men living from their inside out.
So beautiful, love this Anne. Serge Benhayon really is a true man, someone with such integrity, responsibility and love for humanity. He has reflected to me another way of living and reminded me of who I truly am, but just forgotten. I so agree with your line “He has never wavered in his love for me, and that has at times meant saying things to shake me up, to wake me up and to help me to see and feel life more clearly.” Love comes in many forms, and Serge Benhayon has deep love for all.
This sentence stood out for me too “He has never wavered in his love for me, and that has at times meant saying things to shake me up, to wake me up and to help me to see and feel life more clearly.” Something I have never come across before and what I love about Serge Benhayon is that he does not pander to the needs of anyone. However as much as I love truth, when I am being exposed it does feel uncomfortable but I am learning that no matter how sensitive I am that the only way to evolve is to not hold back and learn to trust.
Not only did Serge Benhayon restore my trust in men, he restored my trust in brotherhood, God and the Hierarchy.
Yes janetwilliams06and marylouise, true gifts indeed, reconnection to God, and reconnection to self and to know and understand Love and brotherhood and true relationship, allows a devastated world to begin to learn to trust once again.
And he restored my trust in myself as a man. This is something that is a truly profound gift which I am grateful for every day.
Absolutely marylouisemyers, I am 100% with you on this. Never have I met a man or woman that lives with such clarity, transparency and Love. I had given up on myself, God and humanity only to find that I was looking at it all from a perspective that wouldn’t let me see the Truth and Love that is available twenty four seven every day. Serge Benhayon supported me to see this and to know that it is very real and very possible, that it is a choice -which is my responsibility of how I am going to live life. As opposed to letting life live me.
that’s right marylouise, it doesn’t have to be just one’s father – thanks to Serge Benhayon, Michael Benhayon and Curtis Benhyaon the world has role models of what it can be for men to live true to themselves, and for us to know what it is like to experience that immense tenderness and love coming from such men. It is inspiring for women also to know how true relationships can be and grow, something we recognise within, but have not always had experience of in the world – but thanks to this family the world is changing.
This is so true Matilda, we are so fortunate to have Serge Benhayon walking amongst us and showing us the way back to true brotherhood.
Some really awesome points, Golnaz. Seeing great teachers through the lens of history also allows us to pick and choose what we want to apply to our lives, whereas a living teacher is there to pull us up on where we stray from the truth.
In your words Anne “I felt the hard casing I had built around my heart crack open and the rosebud within start to shyly unfold”. I too have experienced this and observed in many others the same remarkable transformation. I feel that the seed of ‘choice’ was offered and presented that, there is another way to live life in full. Serge Benhayon is a true world teacher of life by setting an example to us all that truly inspires us to raise our awareness and to set those inspirational seeds forth until we ‘all’ live in true brotherhood.
Anne I am one of those ladies that is walking beside you blossoming into a full bloom rose. It is truly incredible to have these men in our lives that are standing strong in who they are no matter what and how tender they naturally are, simply beautiful. I knew this to be true as what I have experienced up to this point never felt to be the truth of what we are innately to be. We are Love Bombs just bursting inside to share with everyone and as I start to accept and appreciate this life becomes much easier and flowing with a lot of joy that I am starting to realise can be my new normal.
I just loved reading your comment Natalie. ‘We are Love Bombs just bursting inside’… how beautifully and accurately expressed.
Even in the men that aren’t yet standing strong, there is a knowing from within that they too are this man, Serge Benhayon. That’s what I love about Serge – he reflects to all of us, us. All we have to do is appreciate him walking his way and we will feel and know we can walk our own way too.
So true Natalie, if we accept and appreciate we are ‘Love Bombs’ just bursting inside to share with everyone, there is no room for playing small and all the other games we play to not be ourself in full.
It is so deeply healing for a woman to be in the presence of such beautiful, tender, caring men who choose to live from the preciousness of their inner hearts, as opposed to playing out the stereotypes, expectations and ideals that society places on them.
“Over the years he has been there, like a rock, consistently holding me in the love that he is, while I wobbled, back and forth, in and out, to and fro, on my path of return”.
This is such a gorgeous reflection for me Anne.
I really appreciate the truth you have expressed about Serge Benhayon and, like you, I deeply appreciate his constant love and holding on my path of return.
The beauty in this is that Serge Benhayon never holds back his love even when I wobble or am out. He gently reminds me there is another way.
The remarkable man that Serge Benhayon is ,shows us as a refection ,what is possible when we get our selves out of the way and live in aligned to our soul in service to humanity. This man has been the rock to many people, even amongst vicious personal attacks and abuse for presenting the ageless wisdom. His inspiring life and presentations will be much remembered as a big turning point for humanity proving that there is another way live to life in a more loving and connected way.
I agree Annie, there are no words to describe Serge Benhayon, it has to be felt, and boy oh boy, is it felt. I am constantly inspired every time I hear him present. He is also very humble in as much as he shares that his wisdom is not him, but comes through him and we all have access to this wisdom if we truly open up to it, and that makes us all equal, which coming from such an amazing man as Serge Benhayon makes ME feel humble.
Agreed Lee, there are very, very few people who would be able to withstand the personal attacks and hate campaigns that Serge has encountered, without an ounce of resentment. His resolve and commitment to love, truth and a life of service is deeply inspiring.
Yes, that is exactly what I felt when I met Serge Benhayon too – a huge and warm ‘Welcome home”.
Oh yes Victoria! The Nobel Love Price for Serge Benhayon.
I have not really pondered what a ‘true man is in detail before but I can feel in an instant that Serge Benhayon is indeed true. Every move Serge Benhayon makes and every word he speaks shows great integrity. It is clear to me that Serge operates from his soul and this shows in everything he does.
I agree Leonne, we often consider the perfect tall dark handsome man or the perfect family man, but do we ever stop to consider what a true man looks like, and what it means to be true to yourself as a man? I can say that for me, Serge Benhayon and his sons, and many men in the student body, are redefining what it means to be a man and a gentleman.
So true Rachael. When I listen every particle in my body is rejoicing with feeling what I know to be true, that it is simple, real and very possible. Truth resonates within us and leaves an indelible marker that we can avoid but not deny.
Anne, reading your blog gives me such a big smile in my face and in my heart. Thank you for these loving words and I absolutely agree with you, Serge Benhayon is like a rock, always holding everybody in love and in equality.
I love your comment Angela, ‘Serge Benhayon’s every movement is alive, full of life, joy, harmony and truth’, and this is what you get met by every time you meet him.
Agreed Angela, Serge Benhayon is stronger than rock, stronger even than diamond or iron. he cannot be worn down by the winds and waves of adversity, cut by the blade of jealousy and hate, bent in the heat of argument. He towers above all that ,and still retains the gentle fluidity of flesh as he moves amongst us sharing his given wisdom and grace and love. To know such a one is to know the boundless possibilities of myself and all mankind, and the joy of working toward the day when all are joined in the love, harmony and truth he expresses.
Beautiful Annie. I love your first point, that everything Serge Benhayon is and shares, we all are, equally so. With Serge there is no pedestal, there is no better than anyone else. Just a knowing that we are all equal.
Me too Michelle, I wrote this blog/article a while back about Serge Benhayon and how he is a true role model. What is so inspiring is how he has supported so many people to quite literally changed their lives. The world is certainly a more loving place with Serge Benhayon in it. https://truthaboutuniversalmedicine.com/2014/06/16/serge-benhayon-a-true-role-model/
I totally agree James, thanks to Serge Benhayon and the life he lives of absolute Love and dedication to all, others are remembering and opening up to the truth of Love also. The world is definitely a more loving place with Serge in it.
I totally agree James, the world is definitely a more loving place with Serge Benhayon in it. And the ripple effect he causes with his livingness inspiring others to let their love and truth come through, the world gets more and more loving.
Thank you Anne. This shows what it is like to be truly met by someone and held in love. Serge Benhayon is an absolute rock in his consistent and loving approach to all.
This is something I deeply respect concerning Serge Benhayon and also something I am now am inspired to do myself “He has never wavered in his love for me, and that has at times meant saying things to shake me up…” I have really healed some old hurts through being gently challenged concerning an assumption or opinion I have had that was not supporting me and I am aware that there is power in sharing this way of expressing love with others. Being ‘loving’ is not about being nice, I am learning it involves expressing truth and learning to do this gently and with understanding is part of supporting others to heal.
Yes, this is beautiful to behold, ‘And as he has stood, steady as a rock, I have witnessed with joy his sons grow up and stand beside him, and then one by one the men in our community take their place as true men too. Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too.’ Absolutely gorgeous.
Absolutely inspired by this man that’s for sure. As you say Anne, he is like a rock. Unwavering in his true love and support for all.
“Serge just met me as I was: he could see all that I had taken on and become but did not let that deter him from seeing the beauty in me”. Anne, this is also my personal experience and the experience of everyone who meets Serge Benhayon, whether they are ready or not for the Love he consistently reflects, with no exception. I still remember as vivid as ever my first session with Serge. I didn’t know anything about him and had no idea what to expect. As I was talking with him and presenting what had brought me there, I remember feeling held in absolute love and respect. The way he replied to my first question made me stop and I remember saying to myself: I have come to right place, I met the right person, this is IT. And, indeed if He was IT. I felt I was in the presence of a man with absolute integrity who was able to truly meet me and show me that irrespectively of the misery I was in, there was so much beauty in me awaiting for me to discover through self-love. I felt completely honoured as a woman as well as deeply inspired by his tenderness, grace and strength as a man. Every meeting after that confirmed – without exception – that Serge Benhayon is “A True Man”, a man who, through his unwavering love and care, supports all of us to blossom into the loving divine beings that we are. His reflection consistently inspires men and women all round the world to return to be and live who they truly are in their Essence. He stands as a rock as his love for humanity and commitment to truth are unshakeable and unbreakable. Forever grateful and forever blessed we are.
I love this section: “Serge just met me as I was: he could see all that I had taken on and become but did not let that deter him from seeing the beauty in me. I felt the hard casing I had built around my heart crack open, and the rosebud within start to shyly unfold, as he said: “Welcome home”.” It was this exact consistency in Serge Benhayon, being met in complete equality and honoured as if I am the most precious person in the world again and again until I started slowly reclaiming my acceptance of myself – he sees the beauty within even when we refuse to see it ourself. I have also witnessed the grace and the love with which he responds to every single person irrespective of what they present to him. I have been amazed at seeing hardy, disruptive, rude and obnoxious behaviour change and become open, childlike and playful when showered by the depth of love and tenderness which is Serge Benhayon’s natural expression. Everyone blossoms around him and starts to express more of their natural selves too.
Yes, agree James, this is the true inspiration that Serge Benhayon offers, reminding us we can equally draw breath from the same endless source of love.
Anne, thank you for expressing for many of us, your appreciation is deeply felt for the unwavering love that is Serge Benhayon.
Agreed. And the humbleness that comes from Serge happens in a way that everyone who he meets can feel the equality.
I work with predominantly men daily, and because I have clocked the gentleness, love and truthful way Serge Benhayon holds himself, his sons too, my relationships with my colleagues are changing for the better as I see them as men first, their usual bravado and masks they wear becoming transparent. I am a much lovelier person to interact with now, looking for the essence of people first, not the exterior.
I love rocks! They are so beautiful because they have such an unchanging quality about them which is what I feel from Serge Benhayon too. There is so much power and strength in consistency.
I think if one was to ask a roomful of men what exactly was a ‘true man’, it would be met with a stoney silence. (same would be true too if a room full of women were asked the same question, what is a true woman?). The best answer does not come from words, or a dictionary meaning; rather it comes from watching a man who is living every moment in a body that is being true to themselves. And Serge Benhayon, for now, is that best example, to allow people who have unfortunately become so far removed from knowing who they are, the insight to rediscover for themselves how to be true to themselves too.
‘The best answer does not come from words, or a dictionary meaning; rather it comes from watching a man who is living every moment in a body that is being true to themselves.’ – Well said Suzanne – Serge Benhayon is a living inspiration.
I agree. I think many people would like to feel that they have in someway inspired another or touched a persons life for the better. It is amazing just how many times Serge Benhayon has done this for countless people all over the world, from every age group and every background. It is astonishing what can be accomplished by one man.
This is very true marylouisemyers, Michael Benhayon and Curtis Benhayon have been amazing role models for me as they constantly reflect what a true man is and that I don’t have to walk around in protection and can surrender to the tenderness and gentleness within me and that there is a strength in that, their support and friendship has been short of amazing.
“And I have watched many other gorgeous women flower in this way”….
I am one of those gorgeous women and thank Serge Benhayon from my inner heart for what he brings to us to ponder and live and from this the impact that my loving choices have had on my daily life. An extra-ordinary man. Thank you Anne for sharing.
Anne, you nailed it when you titled Serge Benhayon, ‘The True Man.’ Serge Benhayon is every quality that men are in truth but rarely truly live. Men can be both strong and delicate, they can be open and steady, As precious as women and still clearly masculine. Serge Benhayon embodies all of these qualities. Because he is a man who knows who he is, he can meet people in the grace of seeing who they are in truth along side who they are choosing to appear to be – holding the former as true and respecting the latter as the person’s choice. Is there any greater healing than to be seen for who you truly are and allowed to be with your own choices?
Absolutely Victoria a rock, lighthouse and beacon all in one.
Hi Anne, your blog touched me deeply and thank you for expressing what is a truth for so many of us. While reading I felt the deep appreciation I have for Serge Benhayon too. I thank who I am today to his unwavering presence, inspiring me. And yes I can relate to what you write “…no matter what he has said, and how much it has challenged my beliefs and disturbed my comfort, it has always been said with such love that I have been able to hear it, and sometimes even act on it!”
Although people like Serge Benhayon may be a current rarity among humanity, what Serge Benhayon clearly reflects to me that it can start with, and only takes, 1 person to make a choice to be who they truly are, to inspire great change in many others. The ripple effect is clear and very expansive and the true power to change the world by living example is a reflection available to us all.
The ripple effect that Serge Benhayon has created is magnificent cannot be denied. Over 15 years I have been watching my own life and many others gradually change and blossom, as more of what is true within us is openly shared. I am constantly hearing inspiring stories of the ripple effect one person can have. It is not from anything we do but simply from our beingness, that others get the opportunity to evolve and be more of their true self.
Yes Angela, and the ripple effect is spreading all over the world. So many people are inspired by Serge Benhayon and have become aware that there is more to life and that we are free to make true and loving choices.
I have been witness to this too Oliver, and felt the process unfold so many around me.
Indeed Maryloisemyers.
As a man a Michael Benhayon and Curtis Benhayon have been an incredible example to me of what is possible and natural to live like as a man. Elegant, Dignified, devoted to life and love, tender, caring, and strong. Very beautiful.
Just say it like it is why don’t you Anne! Love the straightforwardness of your sharing and totally agree Serge is a very solid tender rock who delivers nothing but truth and with true love. It has been for me the most amazing feeling to have this level of love in my life and what it brings for everyone I share my life with.
It is a blessing for all men to see a different way lived, one that does not ever pressure or be pressured to confirm to a single picture of what men are supposed to be about, but rather a gentle unfoldment into honouring their innate true nature. From this comes a natural true respect and love for others, men and women, and this becomes a blessing for us all.
Annie it has been one of the greatest blessing to have role models of what a true man is. For as boy and young man the only role models were what I saw on TV or adults living dysfunctional lives. The role of the man was to provide and the true quality of tenderness, love, deep care were considered weaknesses. Yet with Serge Benhayon showing and living as a true man it is those qualities that I once considered weak that are now my, and many other mens, greatest strength.
I agree, Julie I had never looked at men that way before, the tenderness they are, their deep, deep sensitivity was not fully appreciated because I was seeing them through my own hurts and what I needed them to be. Realising just how tender, gentle and sensitive men are under the hard outer layer has been a revelation and a beautiful one but at times challenging as it asks me to let go of any protection and any stories I may carry from the past.
I remember my first workshop with Serge Benhayon, I was dis-trustful and kept waiting for him to slip up. I had done my rounds of searching for “someone” who had the answers I was looking for, but they always came up short, or frankly, completely freaky. Yet, after two days in Serge’s presence, no matter how hard I looked I couldn’t find anything. After 10 years still nothing, only more and more confirmation of the love that he is and the love that he has for all. Even those that have spent several years vilifying him, never a mean word, just complete and utter love and understanding. I agree with Victoria this man deserves a Noble Love Award.
Wow Annie this is beautifully put and so very true. Being exposed to the Love that Serge embodies is simply life-changing and unlike anything I had ever encountered before. All that I knew love to be and so much more that I had not understood love to be with my mind because I had never come across it but that deep recognition was there in my inner heart, as in truth we all know what true Love is because the very same resides within us.
Serge Benhayon, an extraordinary man. We are witnessing history in the making for those paying attention – A teacher of global scale.
“Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too.” Yesterday I received a kiss so exquisite, so tender that I was brought to tears, I could feel that this was beyond the tenderness I am with myself and this made me sad, but equally I felt so touched and swelled by appreciation for the preciousness of a man who used to be so withdrawn & shrunken and today stands open faced with glistening clear eyes that speak of the love that he truly is. Forever inspired by Serge Benhayon.
This is the stuff that changes the world lucindag. Often I experience a moment of sadness as I realise, from observing the tenderness in the men in my life, that my own pool of self love is quite shallow. But Serge, Curtis and Michael Benhayon will never adjust their way of delivering their light to the world (thank goodness!) so the sadness I may feel is fleeting and inspiration combined with a new marker of being, kicks in.
Wow yes so true felixschumacher8, we have the God’s Love here with us on earth, because in truth it lives inside each and everyone of us, and this is what Serge Benhayon is here to show us.
Yes Leonne, could it be that what Serge Benhayon has brought to this world be the catalyst for change we are all craving? It’s up to us to just be open and feel this truth for ourselves and know that we can be this change too.
Yes I agree Ariana, Serge Benhayon has never been about self, it has always about the ALL, all of the time. Such is true love.
Anne thank you. And yes what a rock he is, standing firm and unwavering in truth and love holding each and everyone of us in this also. Without his reflection my life would be very different, but I have chosen love, yes I may stumble at times, but with a true reflection of love lived I know I can always return to love because it is who am and who I always will be.
The ‘rock’ you describe so well here Anne is the super consistency of love and truth that Serge Benhayon has shown us all is possible to live. This consistency breaks down mistrust and allows others to let their guard down and surrender and open up again which is true liberation.
What you are writing here Anne, opens my eyes anew. Even if I know Serge Benhayon now for some years and observe the many changes people and myself are making I never appreciated Serge Benhayon in his qualities of giving a reflection of being a true man. Him standing as a rock amongst us is a support for so many including myself. Thank you Anne.
thank you Anne, I feel the same. Knowing true men in my life has made such a difference and it’s truly magical to be around them. Serge Benhayon is like a rock for all- completely unwavering.
A true man is dynamic and tender; there is no picture one can use – rather, a thousand words comes closer to describing him. But, if we were to use a picture, I’d certainly make sure Serge Benhayon’s face was it.
‘inspired by Serge Benhayon, the man who stands amongst us like a rock,’ Yes he does, stands like a rock, unwavering commitment to all people, there is no other like it. The inspiration we all need to come back to ourselves and realize we are just like him, amazing.
Thanks Anne, Two words stand out to me in your description of Serge, ‘steady’ and ‘consistent’. Steady and consistent in himself, and also stead and consistent in his love for me and everyone without judgment or question. How wonderful is that? Slowly I am learning to be the same with everyone I meet – to be steady and consistent, and love everyone equally without judgment or prejudice. I can feel how beautiful a quality that is and what it brings to the world.
Wow Anne! I can feel your words have come straight from your heart and they speak volumes. I relate to so much of what you have shared and can feel the profound and deep healing you so lovingly share.
I was with a man the other day who works in the mines, hard physical shift work and as he said “I am a real blokey type” I was blown out by how tender and loving he is now since attending Universal Medicine presentations by Serge Benhayon and he is not afraid to express these qualities. We had a laugh at how this was getting received in the mines by the other men. From what he shared you could feel the knock on effect. This example is of only one man going about his life making a huge difference. There are thousands of other men who have re-connected back to their tender loving ways, being true points of reflection. This revolution has started with one man Serge Benhayon showing men there is another way then what they have been previously known.
Indeed Bina and ottobathurst. He is our ‘future from the past’.
I agree with your words Shevonsimon, and to make reference to Serge’s sons, it has been such a blessing to witness and experience their own expansion and evolving as they offer themselves in true service in grace, dignity and wisdom – a true reflection of the one that is their father, Serge Benhayon.
Yes I agree with you Julie the patience and understanding with not an ounce of judgement Serge Benhayon has is astounding, I know no other like him. This has inspired me and thousands of others to develop these qualities within ourselves….for me it is a work in progress.
It only takes one man to walk in truth, to be tender, to be precious, to be love to offer the world an opportunity to feel that there is another way. That man who has walked this is Serge Benhayon and as he has gently trodden this path, many have followed, not in that they have followed him, but they have been inspired to follow their own inner-heart knowing now that this too is possible for all.
Beautifully said Donna and absolutely so true.
Yes, ever so tender and ever so precious but the strength and power he lives is awe inspiring as well. It really busts the myth that men cannot be tender and strong at the same time, as I do not know a stronger man than Serge Benhayon.
I agree ottobathurst, we are only getting started.I was at a presentation by Serge Benhayon last night and when it finished I was saying good-night to him and I looked into his eyes…heaven was in his eyes… This so inspired me…I want what he lives …so how to live this…… make responsible great choices every single moment.
Thank God we now know that men are tender and precious, super sensitive and vulnerable to the attacks we have learnt to give as women, from our own hurts. My relationships with men are transforming with the understanding I now have of what really makes them tick; and feeling just how gorgeous they are. As I permit my own exquisite delicateness as a woman, I feel men to be no different. It is such a revelation, that changes everything, changes the world when we know and stand in who we really are.
Emmadanchin, I feel it is important, as you say, for us as women to nominate the part we play in that we have attacked men ‘from our own hurts’ which would make them feel the need to protect themselves and make it harder for them to connect to how ‘tender and precious’ they really are. Connecting to our tenderness as women and men will help us all let go of this silly game of protection.
Super true. Knowing true men we have to be responsible for the way we are with everyone- realising they are just as delicate and tender. Allowing them to help change the way we see them.Not as just hard and tough guys who don’t feel.
I agree Katinka de Lannoy, Serge has transformed my way of thinking about men. I never trusted them or had any in my life. Serge Benhayon has showed me how a man is to live, and in that showing other men how to be their true selves.
Just this week I have come to feel how important meeting and knowing Serge Benhayon is when it comes to my relationships and “troubles” with men. Whatever I may experience with men in a less than pleasant way, I have my relationship with Serge to go back to. I cannot begin to describe how supporting that is for me.
Discovering what it means to be a true man and a true woman is just one of the multitude of gifts that Serge Benhayon brings to us, steadily and consistently, always ready with the next point of evolution, calling us to live the wisdom we are receiving. It is a joy to observe this blossoming in the community and in myself as we drop the conditioned ways of being in the World that we had accepted.
Great blog Anne and yes Serge Benhayon reflects back to all humanity how we can live as the TRUE MAN or THE TRUE WOMAN. We are blessed to have a true role model in our lives that we can be inspired by. We have been shown another way and it is now our responsibility to live this so we too can inspire others and show them what is possible: To live a divinely glorious life.
That’s it marylouisemyers, the Way of the Livingness that Serge Benhayon presents is that of a ‘divinely glorious life’. No less.
Yes good point marylouisemyers… It’s like a flow on effect. One is inspired to live themselves and so inspires another to do the same and so it goes on and on. Small scale at a time, we all have an important part to play.
Dear Anne what a beautiful sharing..
What greater gift can one bring than to offer the love and inspiration to reclaim our own immense power?
Serge inspires me to live with the same consistency that he lives and not be swayed or distracted by my own stories.
Absolutely beautiful Anne, I love how you shared that even when you were hard Serge had the love to see the glory in you that you could not see for yourself. I also love how you describe Serge as an unwavering rock in your life while challenging your beliefs and everything that was not the truth of your soul. The “shake up and wake up” is challenging as I well know but well worth it and much needed to show humanity the way out of their own self destruction.
The way you described all the aspects of life which have affected you and created a hardness is so true to what is often going on, we choosing to compromise and step away from who we we are because of all these external things going on in life such as work being hard, and at the time it may be seamlessly unnoticeable however what is so powerful about the opportunity to meet Serge Benhayon, is he gives us the opportunity to feel everything from the big to small ways in which we have deviated from ourselves, what is amazing to read is the way in which you, Anne, were able to change your life around, just because you had this opportunity from Serge
This is was such a beautiful blog. When I met Serge I was only six and he has been like a second dad to me – always there for me no matter if I wanted him to be or not. Thank you for sharing this
Beautiful comments rachelandras and rowenakstewart, appreciation is indeed a “fertile ground for love to grow” and it is amazing to claim back our sensitivity and delicateness as women and as human beings and realize that this is were our strength lies.
Yes Leigh, to live and communicate from this innermost essence is something Serge Benhayon has inspired in me too. His way of life takes a complete shift in consciousness and a letting go of everything I knew until that point. This is a big step and I am very grateful to have such amazing guidance in this process of making different choices for myself.
I agree Anne and Leonne, when I first met Serge Benhayon I felt so deeply loved, it opened me up in a way I had forgotten was possible – it was such a relief and deep let go. I keep surrendering to that love ever since and it is the most beautiful and enjoyable process.
Thank you Anne, I agree Serge Benhayon has been a key player in the personal development of so many people; his consistent, loving and solid way of living cannot but inspire us to seek that truth and level of self love within ourselves. The Way of the Livingness is the way.
Inspiration, we all require at times; Serge certainly has done and does this. The Way of The Livingness IS the way Francisco.
Thank you Doug for your sweetness! I worked with a bunch of men today and realized how much they love each other but dare not express it in a sweet and tender way, they were always a bit rough in their touch and in their words with each other. It made me realise how much I enjoy that a lot of men around me have the courage to show their tenderness and how amazing that is.
“Serge just met me as I was: he could see all that I had taken on and become but did not let that deter him from seeing the beauty in me.”
When I first met Serge Benhayon that is exactly what I felt.
I feel that too when I am with Serge Benhayon. Because he ‘sees’ me I can connect to the real me and speak with authority from that place . There is no judgment so I feel no need to protect or defend myself. It shows me that I often do harden out of fear of judgment from people and if I could let go of needing approval I could stay open and not need to protect myself. I would then stay connected to me and be able to allow others to be themselves without imposing any of my expectations, fears, or judgment on them.
I love this too Bina and ottobathurst: Serge Benhayon the FUTURE MAN (although I have never met anyone so present :). He is the future in leading and shining the way on what is possible in the future when we make choices from true love.
Yes I second that Otto, we have just started, so many to follow in their footsteps, and as Bina shares it’s all about loving choices.
If you go to the Way of the Livingness – 27 presentation this morning at Convery’s Lane you will be able to feel one of Serge Benhayon’s creations, a whole hall full of love.
Very true Joost. There certainly is so much strength and power when we allow ourselves to feel our delicateness and fragility.
Awesome sharing Anne, like you I have been witness to the sons of Serge Benhayon standing beside him as true men it has been deeply healing to see how men can really be.
A beautiful blog Anne. Serge is a constant reminder that our home is within and shares tools and the inspiration to live from the love of our “home”, our Soul.
Serge Benhayon is the man for all times, thanks for highlighting this Bina. He brings in the Ancient Wisdom for all to share, lives in each an every present moment to the fullest and lives the future now by being all that he is and not holding back with even one cell of self.
“Over the years he has been there, like a rock, consistently holding me in the love that he is, while I wobbled, back and forth, in and out, to and fro, on my path of return”. Anne, in describing your experience with Serge Benhayon, you speak for all committed students here. Everyone of us who have discovered Universal Medicine and made the choice to be a Student of the Livingness is held by Serge Benhayon in the same way and as you say, Serge stands there for all ‘steady as a rock’. As others have said, “he is a true servant to humanity”.
Great comment Anne, as students of Universal Medicine we are all in the same boat and what a lovely boat to be in when we have a captain who is the master of sailing stormy waters….
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Just a comment to appreciate your words of appreciation Anne. Every word is so full of honouring of Serge Benhayon, of men, of yourself, of life. Connecting to this is allready enough for me to re-read your blog. It is Beautiful. Thank you. Up for more??
Ann, I am deeply touched by your blog as it has given me a chance to stop and appreciate the deep love Serge holds for all of us and the immeasurable healing this has offered to so so many. His love is true, his expression as a man is true and he is unwavering in holding all in his Universal Might.
This is a perfect description Anne of ‘true men’: “men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too.”
It seems like a simple thing to do maybe even obvious but at times we do not do these simple things like appreciating a person, a man like you have done so sweetly in this blog Anne. We feel theses things about people and sometimes we say them to the person whom has made an impact but the power in documenting and writing a declaration of what this meant to you is a priceless. This blog will live on and be an evolutionary moment for everyone that is blessed to read it.
True Elizabeth, we are all equal to Serge Benhayon and we can feel that when we are with Serge. He made the choice to live what he knows is true consistently, 24/7. And that is what it is a choice to align to love. So I am with you ‘Here’s to a world where love and truth reign.’
When I look at this photo of Serge Benhayon I know with every part of my being that this is a man I deeply trust.
So true sjmatsonuk, and if we ever try to be less than Serge he does not play that game with us at all.
Yes rachelmurtagh1, I agree life before meeting Serge Benhayon and then after. I would still choose after all of the time.
Most of us spend our lives searching for something which seemingly we do not know. When we find it, we know. Many of us would attest that we found ‘ it’ when we met Serge Benhayon. And not so much him as an individual, but what he has shown us by reflection in his way of living and the teachings of the Ageless Wisdom he presents, all that lead us back to ourselves, inside ourselves, our deep connection that we feel to our purpose and to love and humanity.
Wow Anne, what a gorgeous blog! I totally relate to your life before you met Serge Benhayon – ‘Life was hard, work was hard, I was hard and I had all but given up hope of finding peace and quiet, let alone joy, in life.’ Meeting Serge Benhayon did transform my life, and there is no turning back, and forever a deeper unfolding. I’m in awe of the transformations that I am witness to and experiencing for myself.
Melinda what you share here is so eloquent. Yes we socialise the expression of tenderness out of our boys and men so much so that we all suffer for it. But when I look at this photo of Serge that is posted at the top of the article I literally melt at the beauty of the love that is carried within him and is expressed through his face and eyes. There is such a steady tenderness, warmth, grace, beauty and strength there that is so open and transparent that it brings me almost to tears. I am so touched because he is living proof that what we all want to be real is in fact the truth and not some random wishful thinking that we push away in acceptance of the contraction we keep confirming as a humanity is normal. You are so right – Serge has led the way for other men to deeply honour and cherish themselves. When even a tiny portion of that love is connected to then those men and women that do it cannot bring themselves to commit any acts that are contra to that. Serge reminds us all by his very lived and real presence that that love is ours to claim too, equally so, and so when claimed in our turn we offer that to others.
Thank you Anne. Indeed Serge, as well as his sons, and now many other men I know are re-imprinting what it is I can feel a true man is, and how they are around women. The equality and love in each and every interaction is the marker – whether male or female, close friend or new ‘acquaintance’. The love is the same no matter what, and holds all so steady. This marker is one I can now hold in myself, knowing this is how all relationships can be – with a depth of honouring that comes with the knowing of our innate divine equalness.
Anne, when I look back at the hard angry young women that arrived to my first presentation given by Serge Benahyon and the women I am today I am blown away by my own transformation. I have become a women who is learning it is possible to be in this world with gentleness and grace and when I choose this way I reflect it to those around me who can feel it is possible for them to shine too.
I love this article Anne, It sums up the beautiful man Serge Benhayon is.
I have not only witnessed the consitency in which Serge carries himself, I have also witnessed his sons follow suit. To see Men stepping up to the plate, honouring themselves and therefore everyone they meet, is nothing short of amazing.
A lovely article, a celebration of how you have committed to being yourself in full and the amazing support and inspiration shared by Serge Benhayon. It is also gorgeous to read about who you desiccate the true nature of a man, really is something to ponder there – Thank you.
I couldn’t agree with you more Ann, Serge has an amazing ability to go past a persons walls and hardness and bring out the love in them.
Gorgeous Tracy. Knowing Serge this time round is something I am also deeply grateful for. I always knew there was much for me to learn in this life, I just didn’t think I would actually find it. Funny how it’s been here all along and it just took one man to remind me… now there is no turning back.
That’s the beauty of this man sjmatsomuk, that he is so very natural and real. The effortlessness with which he approaches life is sometimes confronting to feel because it exposes how much effort we must go into, to go against the realness and naturalness of just being who we are.
Meeting Serge Benhayon…I remember the first moment our eyes crossed and I knew I was home. Thank you Serge for your love, your endless patience and your divine grace.
Thank you Joost, I love reading these words, especially when written by a man, “the delicateness of the flower in me”. Just beautiful.
It really is truly remarkable when you consider the profound effect that one man has had on so many people, both directly and indirectly. The inspiration that flows when one is reminded of who they are, is indeed effortless and endless, as one inspires many and the many inspire many more…
I agree Sara, I was actually thinking the other day how profoundly Serge Benhayon has affected the lives of so many people that he hasn’t even met I am continually blown away considering the enormity of it. Like a tiny pebble dropped into still water creating ever widening ripples his love has no end…
A beautiful, humbling blog. I can feel the love that you are Anne, thank you.
This is just beautiful to read Joost.
Thanks for writing this Alexis, for every time a woman (or a man) reclaims what it is to actually be a man, the less men are held back by the nonsensical portrayal we are fed of what being a real man is. There is a huge pressure on men to be physically unbreakable yet this is not natural and is not innately in us. Being a hard man is a case of nurture not nature and it is a form of nurture that is not at all nurturing, a real man is not actually real, it is a construct that is quite damaging.
It does feel beyond words – in a world void of what should be, will be and already has become to be again (with Serge) the only true benchmark – and hence it is so liberating and confirming to read Anne´s declaration of love, the love Serge offers, the love we all are, the love of God that forever holds us unconditionally.
A true love story – and even when they die they still are and will ever be the love that they truly are.
It is inspiring to see men living in this way, knowing their love, their care and holding everyone as precious, these are the qualities of the true man. When I meet Serge I feel nothing but equality and this is quite amazing, because one can marvel at all the love he presents and the extroadinariness that he lives, but in his presence one can only feel that he is holding you as equal as well and is not judging you for one ounce of the ‘what is not’.
In my very first meeting with Serge Benhayon, I knew I was ‘home’. I have yet to appreciate that I always knew I would meet in this case Serge and feel immediately all he is and lives, and without a moment’s hesitation align.
Gorgeous Anne, I can relate to having Serge Benhayon steady as a rock and offering me and my family, when we ask, for unwavering support that does not pander to anything but delivers truth straight up. As uncomfortable as this has been at times I would not have it any other way.
Anne this is so true, Serge Benhayon is the solid, unwavering, loved filled, truth boom, True Man that you say him to be. I am constantly blown away by his enormous love that he is and as Serge presents he is not someone special, he is a man that is choosing to Connect, Accept and Claim himself to be, a Son of God. This is what makes him True as he lives and honours his truth.
I agree – You are indeed a full flower Anne Malatt – real, natural, delicate and radiating a beauty for us all to see and feel.
For the record, when I met Serge Benhayon 10 years ago, I didn’t like him as he was so loving, caring and did not try and sell me anything. That was so alien to me so I did a runner for 6 months as I was so used to workshop presenters who were clearly not what Serge Benhayon was and is today – A true man with qualities that are difficult to put into words, but I will have a go —
Serge Benhayon is a steady rock who is unwavering in his commitment to humanity – no matter what. A true real role model for our world today of what is possible for us all equally if we choose. His wisdom is wise beyond his years and the Love that comes out of this man is pure, real and heaven sent. I cannot endorse enough the deep Appreciation I have for this incredible human being. Just knowing Serge Benhayon has totally changed my life in every area and I can honestly say I am content – deeply content with my life and all my choices. Never thought I would ever say that about anyone, but it is so true and it needs to be said.
Beautifully expressed, Anne. To have that consistent, unrelenting, uncompromising representation of God’s love with us day after day is the greatest blessing of our lives. ‘The Way of the Livingness’ and all that has been bestowed upon us by Serge Benhayon is the rock upon which we can lay a true platform for the glory that lies ahead.
So beautiful and touching to read your words of appreciation Anne, for all that Serge Benhayon has brought into our lives and offers us as a reflection of a ‘True Man’. Because he stands for truth in a way that invites us all to live life fully it is, as you say, deeply awe inspiring to see those around him change and become who they innately are – tender and precious human beings who have found a power and purpose in their lives and the way that they live and are themselves emanating this truth out into the world.
I can relate to the hardness that you describe Anne. I was tough and I was rough, even though my physical frame is naturally quite delicate. To be able to let go of this over the years, inspired by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine practitioners, to return to my natural delicateness has been a process, and one that has had its ups and downs, but has been totally worth it. My body does not work as hard now (pun intended) and I feel so much more graceful and open. This is truly living, before I was just existing.
Anne this is exquisite, a beautiful appreciation for a true man Serge Benhayon, who has inspired so many to open their hearts with his words and his actions, welcoming us home.
Gorgeous Anne – I agree with everything you have written. What’s amazing about Serge Benhayon is that, as you say, even when he’s pulling you up on something that isn’t right and when he sees that you’re not doing as well as you could be, anything that is said is said with a million percent love and understanding. He is the one person I have never, EVER felt judged by, imposed upon or misunderstood by.
Serge Benhayon is absolutely an example of a true man. And I too have received an enormous amount of healing from feeling this as it brings with it a knowing that the hurt I have experienced with other men is because I knew they were being less than who they really could be. I have also come to realise that I allowed myself to be hurt because I was holding all men up to the standard of this and it is clear that they were not able to live this way due to the hurts they were carrying.
When I first met Serge Benhayon I had never met another Man like him, the care, tenderness, love, and absolute solidness of a rock with the delicateness of nature all in one. Like you over the years he has been there and been a support through everything. Today I understand its not Serge that is unique as a true man it is the fact that so many boys grow up being told to be something – something that is very far from what a true man is. With Serge Benhayon living as a true man he inspires those around to reclaim the truth of a man they naturally are – piece by piece. A very deep appreciation as without that inspiration I would not have so many true men to call friends in my life.
Well said David!
Thank you Anne for expressing so eloquently how it feels to be met by Serge Benhayon and inspired to return to our true selves ‘I felt the hard casing I had built around my heart crack open, and the rosebud within start to shyly unfold, as he said: “Welcome home”.’
It is so easy to taint all men with the experiences we ourselves have gone through and so fortunate to have a role model in Serge Benhayon who can show us the true tenderness of a man. It is inspiring to feel the men who are associated with Universal Medicine begin to express in the same way.
I love these blogs about Serge Benhayon because the depth of love he holds for humanity is remarkable and it needs to be known that through his inspiration he is teaching many how to develop that love too. I also love the picture of Serge shown at the top of this page because his face shows the love and stillness that he lives and this picture alone inspires me to go to the deepening stillness that is within me.
Beautifully written and beautifully said Anne. You express these words for all of us who’s lives have been touched by Serge Benhayon. He is indeed a true man and is inspiring other men, and indeed women, to re-connect to the truth of who they are.
Thank you Anne for sharing. The way Serge Benhayon is with everybody is quite extraordinary in so much as being there constantly like a ‘rock’ always there no matter what. No being afraid to pull us up but say what is needed and always with love and not an ounce of frustration. He has helped and supported me to change my life, along with many many others. I am truly blessed to know him, have him as a friend and a part of my life.
Thank you for such heartfelt, true testament of this glorious man, Serge Benhayon, that speaks for all of us who know him.
This is a beautiful description of the true man Serge Benhayon is. He has inspired me too beyond words, and shown me just how precious a life stood upon a foundation of truth, integrity and enormous Love can be.
Thank you Anne and you speak for the many hundreds of women, self included, who have come to find a true friend and gentleman in Serge Benhayon. I love how you describe that flower bud shyly opening, nurtured by Serge’s steady, unwavering adherence to seeing the beauty in you and honouring that beauty by consistently speaking truth with integrity and love. And further more it is such a joy to see how his sons and the men who meet and study with Serge chose this within themselves too, peeling back the protection and claiming their divine tenderness and power. A rock indeed and a much needed beacon of truth, love, integrity and respect in this world, Serge Benhayon is the very epitome of friendship, honour and love and one we are very blessed to have in our lives. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to appreciate Serge and all the inspiration, support and love he shares so openly without exception or expectation, a rare gift in this world.
This was so beautiful to read and brought a tear to my eyes, for I know exactly how you feel about the love and support Serge Benhayon and his sons, hold us all in. When I first heard about men being tender, gentle and allowing themselves to be vulnerable it took me a while to get used to it and even to consider that was part of what a true man is. But I have come to know that tenderness within my own husband and have become more aware of the sensitivity of my male work colleagues. Serge and his sons have set a new marker of what it means to be ‘A True Man’.
When people are met, held in love they know the depth of beauty of who they are. One of the worst things we can do to people is impose on them, it’s harming, by making people shut down, go into protection and harden.
Thank you Anne for this loving testimonial to a True Man who has brought Truth and Love back into the lives of many men and women. Serge Benhayon’s steady consistency truly reflects for all to see who we are and offers a way of livingness that restores trust within ourself and indeed, in humanity. I love how you have shared… “And held in this caring, tender love, I too have blossomed into the full flower I am now, no longer needing to hold myself hard and protected, and no longer willing or able to stand for anything less than love, in any form, for myself or for anyone else.” This too has been my experience, having met Serge, a True man and brother.
A very raw honest and open appreciation of a man who has inspired many many people, thank you Anne. What truly makes Serge Benhayon remarkable is what you have described here Anne when you said that ‘he could see everything I had taken on and become but did not let that deter him from seeing the beauty in me.’ So often we all react or trip up on each other’s behaviours and habits and end up believing that those habits are who we are and so nothing changes. To be able to see past these behaviours and connect with the real essence of someone underneath it all is true love and understanding and deeply healing, for it allows someone to feel that their behaviours are actually not who they truly are and gives them an opportunity to perhaps let them go.
Dear Anne, this deeply truthful – the love, appreciation and honouring of Serge Benhayon, his family, the men around you and yourself is very much felt, alongside the consistent and absolute equal love that Serge Benhayon holds everyone in.
This is absolutely gorgeous Anne, I could feel your love and appreciation for Serge Benhayon come through so powerfully in your blog. I too was hard, given up, and holding back my love, waiting for the world to show me love first. The love that Serge holds for us all is so solid, he has never wavered, not once and it is his commitment to love that he has shown us all, has made it possible for me to be this love too.
Thank you Anne, I’ve got tears bubbling up after reading this and feeling the truth you’ve shared here. To be surrounded by deeply caring men and to feel women all around me that are blossoming and opening up as are the men as well — yes, that is the Way of the Livingness , it is our normal amazing way and it is thanks to this very extraordinary humble ordinary man, Serge Benhayon.
We are all on our ‘path of return’ as equal brothers & sisters. How lovely to support each other on this way – in fact is it a part of our way to pull each other up on our stairway to heaven. And Serge Benhayon chose to be a strong, amazing ‘pull’. He is constantly inspiring. I am full of gratitude for him and for what he presents. Because what he presents is what we all are, but did turn away from. We are all equal, and so his living choices to express the truth gives us all the reflection of what is possible and chooseable again.
“Serge just met me as I was: he could see all that I had taken on and become but did not let that deter him from seeing the beauty in me. ” this is one of the most beautiful lines I have ever read. To not be imposed upon by another and be seen and met for who you truly are, not what we project or get projected onto us for whatever reason – is one, if not the most honouring, deeply loving, caring and beautiful things in this world. It allows you to feel the truth of who you are and your Soul.
I love the depth of true appreciation you bring here Anne to honour Serge Benhayon and all men who are choosing to embrace their own strength and tenderness from seeing the way one man lives his life 24/7. What a difference this brings to us as women too.
“And as he has stood, steady as a rock, I have witnessed with joy his sons grow up and stand beside him, and then one by one the men in our community take their place as true men too. Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too”.
This is a beautiful article Anne and I could write a book on how much Serge has inspired me and one day maybe I will. Having already changed my whole life and continuing to refine and develop I can say that the steadiness and sheer natural Love that Serge Benhayon holds each and every person in with no judgment whatsoever is a testament to how he lives his life and why he is so needed in this world.
The men of the Benhayon family are outstandingly beautiful role models. By their example we have the opportunity to learn about the tenderness of men, something that perhaps many of us have long given-up on ever seeing again.
Love your appreciation and honor for the men here Anne. It is a real treasure chest which did open up through the inspiration by Serge Benhayon. The unfolding men and women are a field of gold which is reflecting the love and beauty of God again. Hardness has to melt away and love, sweetness, joy, power, innocence and humbleness takes place. Real Men. Real Women. Watch out! Truth is back in town. And it is lovely.
A never ending stream of inspiration = Serge Benhayon
Agree Sandrahenden, I have stopped trying to predict what Serge will present next but know it is exactly what I and many others need to hear. Thats how he operates, he speaks for the many.
Beautiful Anne. Serge Benhayon the most inspirational man I have ever known, I like many other men have certainly been shown that there is another way to be as a man. I did not know what it was to be gentle, tender and truly loving, or should I rather, say that I did know deep down and Serge helped reawaken it and show that it was not only manly but the way we are naturally meant to be.
To let go the hard cover as you have done as a mother and businesswomen, must have been such a big release for you. I have never in my life met a deep caring man like Serge Benhayon, he is, as you said, a solid rock offering his love and care. I sometimes can’t really take it, because I feel not worthy enough to be cared for from a man, for just who I am and not for what I can do and bring and what I have. This is still an ongoing development to give myself the care and love in such a deep way, everyday and seeing that I don’t have to be perfect in it, is already melting the hardness away.
I agree Anne, Serge Benhayon offers us the key to unlock the fortress door of protection that we have constructed around ourselves. We think we are protecting ourselves from hurt but are hurting ourselves by shutting out true love. Open the door to the inner-heart of love and we need no protection from being who we are.
I don’t think I even had a concept of what a true man or true woman was until I came across Serge Benhayon and The Way of the Livingness. All I had was false ideals and beliefs that didn’t serve me at all. As Serge Benhayon has stood there before us, in all of his light, not holding back, we have been able to see and feel what the qualities of a true man is. Having been inspired by Serge Benhayon, I have enjoyed seeing the men (and women) around me unfold to also reflect these qualities and through The Way of the Livingness we know that there is another way forward in life without the hardness and the protection – that way is with true love.
Yes we do know, I agree Nicola, when truth is heard it ignites the equal knowing in oneself, it truly inspires.
It is true Victoria, we do know when truth is spoken and then we can choose to accept and embrace it or resist it, deny it or violently attack it. Even those that attack it and call it lies and all sorts, in their heart of hearts know truth. There is no escaping truth and it is our evolution to all return to it. The only choice we have is how long we will take and how much we want to suffer in the meantime.
It is such a blessing that Serge Benhayon has become part of our lives as he lives the life what we all feel form deep inside is true and what we should live. We have walked away from this life long time ago, in an experiment to create a life on our own. Returning to who I truly am, is as you say Anne, not an easy way, but one where I “wobble, go back and forth, in and out, to and fro, on my path of return.”
When we are met for who we are, the hard layers of ‘who we are not’ fade into insignifigance, unable to compete with the beauty of the budding rose. When we are truly seen for the love that we are, it is very difficult to return to anything that is not of this same exquisite beauty. Thankyou Anne, for being a gorgeous example of this living truth and to Serge Benhayon, for knowing that this is so.
Exactly Kylie, what Serge did with us: meeting us for who we are, “so our hard layers of who we are not fade into insignificance, unable to compete with the beauty of the budding rose.” We are now sharing when we meet another. So the circle gets bigger and bigger.
If it weren’t for the solidness of the rock, the flower would not know the stability from which it can grow. While this is not gender specific, many women have lost trust in men, for they have lost trust in themselves and hence lost trust in love. For a man to stand solid in his love for a woman and hold not an ounce of need nor lust, is very healing for the woman who has spent a lifetime building a fortress around the beauty of her heart. Serge Benhayon is one such man, as can be the every other man who chooses to stand in this truth also.
Yes Liane. I did loose my trust in men, or me, lost my trust in love. And I did that by giving up on love. Now this man comes along and presents & lives the possibility to claim it back, presents that it is possible to live love. His solidity gives me the guarantee that I am also able (and allowed,… – or what ever thought did hold me back – to take love again as my foundation) to come back to love. It is possible. He lives it. So can I.
Beautifully said Liane. I can feel as a man how healing it is for women when I am solid, consistent in my tenderness and honouring of women. They relax and open up and shine even brighter. I have also felt how healing it is for me when women do not ask me to be anything or do anything other than to be myself. There is so much potential healing that men and women could offer each other.
“if it weren’t for the solidness of the rock, the flower would not know the stability from which it can grow. ”
“Serge Benhayon is one such man, as can be the every other man who chooses to stand in this truth also.”( and every woman also)
These two lines for me magnify the power of truth and everything Serge Benhayon offers us all.
Serge Benhayon and his sons are men, that as you say Liane, have never offered anything but love to all women, this is very rare and exquisitely beautiful to feel. You have to surrender yourself to just feel the fact that nothing untoward flows through them at other men or women.
Serge Benhayon absolutely is a rock – an inspiration to us all that we have known all along that what we wanted was love and truth, and to be that ourselves. Serge leads the way, his books, modalities and presentations have given me so much support that now I feel that I have the answers to all the questions I was asking, and that I can live with a level of self love and self acceptance that seemed unattainable before. I now realise that life is not all about me, but all of us together. Thank you for writing your beautiful testimonial Anne, and how lovely to read about how you have fully become the gorgeous woman, wife, mother, grandmother and eye surgeon.
Thank you Anne, what you have shared so many of us have experienced… A true man who holds everyone in love
“Over the years he has been there, like a rock, consistently holding me in the love that he is, while I wobbled, back and forth, in and out, to and fro, on my path of return”.
with love and appreciation both to Serge Benhayon and to you for sharing
Serge Benhayon certainly is a true man. His love and care for people is palpable and never ending. He is a living example of the way to truly conduct yourself as a man and with a lighthearted and playful approach to life, it is always wonderful hearing him talk and present on the many topics about life, family, friendship, men, women or education and many more… A true inspiration.
Anne this is absolutely beautiful to read with every word you’ve written a testimony to the truth behind your words when it comes to what Serge Benhayon offers. What encapsulated it was reading the way you signed yourself off… with your job, as eye surgeon just one of your many roles in life, no more or less than any other, and without even capital letters to highlight it’s ‘importance’. So very humble and true in claiming your – SELF as who you are and not what you do, and a reflection of what you’ve been offered through Serge as being the real deal!
Absolutely Kate, well said… ‘none of the doings being any more important than any other’…. and ALL of the doings being only a vehicle through which the BEING can express its quality.
Anne, I find it amazing what you write. I have only ever known you as very gentle and very, very caring. I am sure you were able to be rough and tough as well but I never even came close to experiencing that side. I find it amazing that others may have seen you differently.
Anne in this writing what you have expressed reflects true devotion to love. Isn’t it wild how it has occurred that one person totally devoted to love, Serge Benhayon, has inspired and ignited the same in others. Then when the foundation is solid enough, one understands that the personification of love is nothing personal yet deeply personal at the same time.
Serge Benhayon is teaching me to honour my tender, precious nature, I never felt safe to show this in the world and created a persona and protective way of living that didn’t let other people see the beautiful, deeply caring ‘heavenly man’ I am.
The more I allow this, and let go of the protection allowing others in, I actually feel the safest, strongest and most powerful I have ever felt in my life, for this I am deeply grateful.
That is so beautiful Thomas, Serge Benhayon has also taught me to honour and cherish how precious and exquisite I am as a woman too. Unguarding myself for the first time ever has shown me a strength I had no idea I had, and I am hugely hugely grateful too.
It has always been very hard for me to trust people, not just men. People were disrespectful, deceiving, unreliable, greedy – I felt let down by humanity and its behaviour, so I joined in – as if to say I didn’t want to be hurt by anyone, I would be the one who does the hurt. Meeting someone like Serge Benhayon has been a great gift for me, first to recognise the distrust I have held and lived with all my life, then start working on a possibility of reinstating that truth, and living as the true me that never was lost despite all the misery.
Anne, you have described the truth of love and you have blossomed because you know it too. No proof needed, just an openness to trust that we are that Love. Thank you for you beautiful, confirming and inspiring expression about this man, Serge Benhayon, who is the light for humanity in our times.
Here’s to the amazing appreciation we have for knowing Serge Benhayon and the absolute love and truth he stands for, with and in. Meeting Serge grounds a new marker for anyone to hold, a new marker of what love really is. It is firm and expressive, beholding and actively communicating all the time and this the relationship that we equally have the opportunity to hold with ourselves and outwardly with all others.
I love what you have expressed here Cherise the truth that love can be firm – so often we equate, been fed or have grown up with the belief of emotional love, the wishy washy soppy kind – when in truth firm love is very much needed at times.