A True Man – Serge Benhayon

As a woman who has suffered much at the hands of men (and given as good as she got at times!), I never thought that I would meet a true man, even though I knew in my heart what that meant and how it would look and feel if I ever stumbled upon one.

And then I met Serge Benhayon.

Serge Benhayon | Founder of Universal Medicine
Serge Benhayon | Founder of Universal Medicine

When I met Serge I was a hurt, hard, bitter, middle-aged woman, struggling to raise two small kids and run a business. Life was hard, work was hard, I was hard and I had all but given up hope of finding peace and quiet, let alone joy, in life. 

Serge just met me as I was: he could see all that I had taken on and become but did not let that deter him from seeing the beauty in me. I felt the hard casing I had built around my heart crack open, and the rosebud within start to shyly unfold, as he said: “Welcome home”.

Over the years he has been there, like a rock, consistently holding me in the love that he is, while I wobbled, back and forth, in and out, to and fro, on my path of return.

He has never wavered in his love for me, and that has at times meant saying things to shake me up, to wake me up and to help me to see and feel life more clearly. He has always based our relationship on truth, but no matter what he has said, and how much it has challenged my beliefs and disturbed my comfort, it has always been said with such love that I have been able to hear it, and sometimes even act on it!

And as he has stood, steady as a rock, I have witnessed with joy his sons grow up and stand beside him, and then one by one the men in our community take their place as true men too. Men who care deeply about themselves and other people, men who are strong and tender, men who cherish themselves deeply, and in doing so, treat all others as precious too.

And held in this caring, tender love, I too have blossomed into the full flower I am now, no longer needing to hold myself hard and protected, and no longer willing or able to stand for anything less than love, in any form, for myself or for anyone else. And I have watched many other gorgeous women flower in this way, The Way of The Livingness.

All of us inspired by Serge Benhayon, the man who stands amongst us like a rock, to remind us of what a true man is, and who stands here, as we do, with our Father, God.

By Anne Malatt, woman, wife, mother, grandmother, eye surgeon, Bangalow, Australia

Further Reading:
Inspired by Serge Benhayon: From Marriage Breakdown to True Responsibility
Inspired by Serge Benhayon to Change my Life
Serge Benhayon – The Philosopher

629 thoughts on “A True Man – Serge Benhayon

  1. Serge Benhayon has supported many, many people to turn their lives around, just from truly meeting them in their essence and being a superb role model and reflection of what is possible in life, without fanfare, emotionality or hype.

  2. Serge Benhayon offers us a constant reflection of what true love is, the level of surrendering in his movements is a strength we all equally have within ourselves, he is a true role model for all men to embrace their tenderness and to express it in full for all to feel.

  3. Thank you Anne this is such a beautiful testimonial to the love and consistency that Serge has supported you (and so many others) with in your return to the glorious woman that you are. A true man reflecting to all around what it is to be true to oneself and thus inspiring others to be true to themselves and stand beside him as unwavering rocks in true brotherhood.

  4. It has been so healing for me to feel whatever Serge delivers it is always done with love and a lack of judgement but never shying away from delivering truth. There is no imposition and a holding energy that allows the listener to come to their own truth and then choose to act on it or not. This consistency allows us all to drop our layers of protection and flower and it is a privilege to witness the unfolding of so many others inspired by Serge Benhayon who epitomises what it is to be a True Man.

    1. Helen what you have written here and what Anne has shared with us all is very true of Serge Benhayon, he is in every way a true inspiration to us all, He has never told me what to do but has supported me to feel for myself whether the choices I am making are from true love or are abusive, mostly they were abusive but I am slowly coming round to realise that I hate being in disregard to me and my body because it actually hurts too much, and so therefore if I don’t want to be in the pain of not living the truth of who I am then I need to make different choices.

  5. As a lot of people find in this world “good support is hard to find”, let alone great support. Serge Benhayon has shown himself time and time again to many many people that he is always there ready, ready to support in whatever way is needed. This is not a highlight reel or balancing view, it’s a lived fact of many people’s lives including mine. People aren’t meant to believe what I am saying or even trust it, we are all to arrive by our choice to what we feel. In other words don’t take my word or others words for anything, do the math and make your own choice on what you see, truly.

  6. It is truly awesome and so very healing to be around a man who is loving and tender, and it’s a true joy to see men who are able to self love and care for themselves in great detail. I don’t know where the image and ideal of rough and tough men has come from but it couldn’t be further from the truth.

  7. Serge Benhayon allows us to feel what it is to be truly met with absolutely no judgement whatsoever and to just being held in the love which creates space for our unfoldment back to the truth we know so well within ourselves.

  8. The steadiness of any love and support that comes not only without judgment but an appreciation of your innate qualities and potential allows us to break free of the confines of our habits and beliefs that blatantly cripple this same potential.

  9. “And held in this caring, tender love, I too have blossomed into the full flower I am now, no longer needing to hold myself hard and protected, and no longer willing or able to stand for anything less than love, in any form, for myself or for anyone else” Inspiring and beautiful to read Anne. When we know what is possible for ourselves, we indeed cannot stand by and allow others to fall by the wayside. Reflecting what is possible will either inspire others, or they will resist – for now. It’s their choice.

  10. So true Serge Benhayon is a rock for so many, and through his steadiness many have come to see their own beauty and reminded of who they truly are.

  11. As Serge was a rock for many of us, what I feel is important to note is, that we have built ourselves up, with his endless love and support to now be the same rock for other people in times of struggle. I am so appreciative that Serge is a man that wants all those around him to shine equally and in fact, he actually encourages others to out shine him, for to him, that is success.

    1. Beautifully said Sarah and I agree completely. Serge Benhayon is inspiring beyond words and constantly reminds others that they have a responsibility to support others as they have been supported.

      1. It is rare for anyone to be so supportive and have zero ownership over things, he is purely a servant of humanity and so if anyone is a part of that plan, and wants to serve the greater good, he is behind them.

  12. So beautiful to read Anne and deeply inspiring, thank you for sharing the love you have come to know and live, many thanks to the powerful reflection of divine love that Serge’s presence and way of living brings. A true rock amidst the turmoils of everyday life.

  13. Thank you Anne. The reflection of a true man reminds women how precious they are. Serge Benhayon is a living beacon of truth that has supported thousands of women to see how beautiful they are and how deeply sensitive a man can be.

  14. The Men’s Club is certainly a curious one. It is plagued with images of how it has to be, what being a man should look like, of what is admissible and not in terms of conducts, ways of moving, feelings. Overall, it is a pretty restricted and restrictive place. Truth about who we are and our true essence does not find an easy place there. That is why, what Serge Benhayon brings and represents is so unique. Restoring truth in men is a beautiful journey that allows so many to return to a place call home that may not fit the picture of the Club but where we can feel totally at ease in our own bodies.

  15. There is a greater depth to who we all are, and it is inspiring and confirming to be met by men who sees and honors the depth of who we are as women. Serge Benhayon’s unwavering commitment to live the truth and be the love we are all here to be, has been and still is what has resurrected my will to begin to reclaim the sacredness, power and grace that I am as a woman.

  16. It has been deeply healing for me to meet Serge Benhayon who consistently lives and moves with love and truth, there is such power when another reflects this as it also confirming that we are all equally this love too.

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