My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed since I met him about ten years ago. I felt the great love and care he had for me and everyone around him, equally so.
At that time, I was really struggling in life. I had almost given up on therapy – I’d tried Primal Scream Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and general counselling. I remember a psychiatrist assessing me at one point and asking why was I being assessed: was it to determine if I was crazy or not? At one point I even had my own Community Psychiatric Nurse assigned to me. I didn’t know what other avenues to pursue to overcome a general feeling of daily depression and futility.
I was still trying to achieve what I felt the world was telling me would deliver me happiness: a career, a loving relationship, a family, and the perfect body and to be really fit. A personal ambition of mine was to be a really impressive surfer.
Deep down, I knew that achieving any number of these things wouldn’t fulfil me, but I still clung to the possibility that achieving them would. I’d already discovered living in the most beautiful place in the world hadn’t brought me any happiness as I just cried for days on end. I’d also completed my degree but this also didn’t give me a well-paid job, as I was told it would. I was in a desperate state but didn’t want to admit it.
I kept on distracting myself with trying to achieve perfection in myself and my life and anytime I came close, I put a spanner in the works to start all over again.
I was very lost, really struggling, but trying at all costs to cover up this fact. I was still going out drinking, smoking weed, but had given up other drugs. I was super skinny and had an eating disorder that was all consuming – I thought about little else but food. I couldn’t string a sentence together and was really jumbled in what I said. I was dyslexic and awkward with people because I felt a great sense of worthlessness, at the same time as feeling very arrogant in that I knew better than other people.
I struggled to connect with people and kept myself hidden. I took on jobs that involved lots of time alone. Although very conscientious to never put a foot wrong and to prove myself an excellent worker, I didn’t like working alongside managers because I had issues with authority. I had a few friends but was aware of how needy I was, so I wasn’t very sociable as I didn’t want to expose how desperate I was for company. I was very lonely even though I was in a relationship – which wasn’t the most loving, albeit very conventional.
Meeting Serge Benhayon for the First Time
When I met Serge Benhayon for the first time, I was a mess… incredibly insecure and defensive. I was in a constant state of frustration, knowing there was more to me than this protective facade I was living, but unable to unlock and express who I was.
When I met Serge I felt instantly that he knew who I truly was. I felt he saw my true worth and that all the walls I’d put around myself were paper-thin. I felt I was loved and accepted unconditionally without having to do a thing.
All the crazy things I berated myself for each day didn’t matter… I was seen and met for the first time ever. I could feel he knew my true worth way more than I ever did.
I remember wearing a white dove and him saying something about it being a symbol of coming home and that’s what this meeting felt like – I was coming home to me and to what I always knew was true. Over the years I have dragged my heels in coming home. I’ve not wanted to admit the extent of the harm of the activities I’ve put a lot of energy into that had harmed me or others. I’ve kept a belief that I was beyond redemption and this was accompanied by an immense guilt.
Knowing Serge Benhayon has Changed my Life
Serge Benhayon has been a constant reflection of my worth, regardless of how I have lived. The love and respect he has shown me has never, ever faltered over the years I have known him, no matter how much I myself have. Seeing how he is deeply caring and loving with everyone he meets has helped me to trust in love again and begin to trust and love myself.
I have made major changes in my life. I know I’ll never drink or take any drugs again, I don’t drink caffeine because I feel its effects and I don’t over-exercise or do things I feel ill after, like surfing in heavy seas.
I no longer feel the world owes me, but that I actually have a quality I can give back to humanity by sharing and expressing. This is amazing in itself as I used to steal anything I could from department stores as a late teen… yes, I am still working on accepting this but can understand how angry and addicted to excitement I was at the time. I was desperate to feel alive.
Feeling my beauty reflected back to me from my interactions with Serge, and being totally honoured and respected, has allowed me to consider and experience my beauty as being on the inside and not on being what is deemed physically attractive. I’ve been able to re-connect to being a woman and respecting that for myself. I’ve understood relationships between men and woman can be deeply honouring of each other so I’ve said ‘No’ to abusive relationships.
I am starting to build a relationship with myself that isn’t wholly self-critical and judgemental. I’ve started to be more tender with how I am with myself and treat myself lovingly.
I may well be slow on the uptake in this regard, but I was horrid to myself – a constant torrent of ‘should be better’ and ‘not good enough’ – now I’m letting go of these beliefs, knowing I am lovely just for being me. I’m learning how to express in the world and be responsible, and not a victim or subservient. I’m finally tackling how I self-sabotaged myself with food and checking-out from the world. I am beginning to trust what I feel and put it into loving action where required.
I never feel lonely now, which is amazing. I have a completely different attitude to work; I’m there to do all that I can to support people, even if this means saying things I know they may not want to hear. I love meeting new people and am very at ease with people – I often chat and joke in supermarket queues etc. I also like my own company and going for walks by myself, but not to escape the world.
All this because I met a man called Serge Benhayon who reflected back to me how amazing I am. All this because I saw him reflect back to everyone how amazing we all are and in that I learned we are all equal – I am no less and no more than another, I do not need to do anything to gain favour, and I know that we all bring something uniquely golden to the table that no other can.
Competition is pointless, and appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun. My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!
By K.B. (UK)
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Serge Benhayon is an author and presenter and the founder of Universal Medicine. You can learn more about Serge Benhayon at his personal website www.sergebenhayon.com
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Further Reading:
Inspired by Serge Benhayon & Universal Medicine: Feeling the True Me
“Serge Benhayon Said…”
How I Changed my Life – Thanks to Serge Benhayon
The Truth about Universal Medicine 
That perception of being beyond redemption I do remember playing that game as well. It’s a horrible, crushing position to put oneself. But meeting Serge I too was met with a love that loves regardless of any harm caused or created and it really does change any ill perception one may have of themselves when that love is there.
My first impression of Serge Benhayon was that he’s an incredibly open and humble man. Two years later I can tell you that I was not wrong, even more so he is an extra-ordinary man and words cannot express the gratitude I hold for him.
I saw Serge Benhayon recently and the sparkle in his eyes was quite something to behold. It was like the light beaming out from within.
Loneliness is our assured travel companion when we indulge in running away from home.
Serge Benhayon is an inspiration to revise our relationship with ourselves first and foremost and then this allows a revision of our relationships with others in terms of how we are with everyone and if we are indeed bringing the fullness of the love of who we are to ourselves, to our families and the world at large.
That fullness you describe is something I have noticed about the Benhayon family, they are physically very full though not over weight at all. I figure it is the fullness of their love emanating out of their bodies. Inspiring most definitely.
Meeting Serge and all he brings is indeed a life changing event, especially when you embrace the new level and meaning of love and living love in your own life. A phenomenal inspiration from a simple, ordinary and extraordinary man that is Serge Benhayon.
Serge Benhayon is the most perfect mirror to everyone to reflect to them their own non-judgmental, loving true nature.
We should never underestimate the power our presence has. For every step towards truth that we take, it is deeply felt by everybody else. Serge Benhayon has simply taken a great deal more of those steps than most.
A huge point of inspiration, KB, as you share about the impact meeting Serge Benhayon has had on you and your self-worth, we realise that this is something we can all do for each other; living in relationship and acceptance of our worth and meeting others knowing theirs too.
When someone sees the truth of who we are we are given an opportunity to claim it for ourselves. When we claim it miracles are possible and your story is proof of this.
I love this sharing it is absolutely remarkable and I love your last paragraph, that your first impression hasn’t changed but everything has changed because of meeting Serge, I agree whole heartedly.
Being met for who you truly are, regardless of your achievements, status in life or behaviours offers such an opportunity for us to appreciate and live from that more fully.
When I met Serge for the first time, I had totally lost who I truly was, and there was Serge Benhayon who’s presentation made me stop and consider my own part in life, and although an uncomfortable feeling, it was delivered with the greatest love, and I felt the truth in his words.
There is an obvious depth of misery you have described here, one that is on the surface because it is plain to see. And I wonder about the more subtle forms of misery, the ones where the psychotherapy appears to be working, the ones where financial, family and career success appear to have been achieved, the ones where physical fitness seems to be under control and yet there is still an underlying unsettlement that is not so obvious, or perhaps even so easy to describe, as it works away at the underside of oneself making joy and appreciation seem very difficult to comprehend. Perhaps the key here is that misery is misery in what ever form it takes, and maybe it takes its many forms when we make life only about function without connection to our greater origins, the soul.
Absolutely Shami well pointed out, in fact the high functioning individuals often are in a worse situation because they are so invested in what appears to be great. Suicides of all those we hold in esteem, at the top of their professions are proof of this false prophet.
With recent suicides from people who are very successful seemingly having achieved all that life can offer shows the most definite uneasy and misery at all levels of ‘success’.
My first impression of Serge was that he was someone I could be myself around. No bells and whistles, just my body breathing a sigh of relief that I didn’t know I’d been holding in.
It is amazing what our bodies show us. How there is a whole new level of letting go, love, acceptance and understanding when we are met in the way that Serge Benhayon meets us.
You were blessed by never being satisfied or fulfilled by all these outer things so that you looked the other way and found the true everlasting and expanding riches that we all carry within.
This is such a testament to Serge Benhayon and the Way of the Livingness. It proves that being held as equal, with deep love and respect, is more healing than any therapy session could ever hope to be. Serge doesn’t focus on your problems, he simply reminds you of who you really are. This is what we crave, the coming home that the author speaks of.
Every time I read this I am reminded of the power of living from this truth. I don’t and are having to relearn how to live with much greater love and appreciation in order to not go automatically to criticism.
“Knowing Serge Benhayon has Changed my Life” – agree and same for me too KB … and in changing my own life, many other’s lives have equally changed for the true better too from me living the Ageless Wisdom Teaching in – living love.
How many things do we strive for to tick the boxes of worthiness, these goals and ambitions are so ingrained in us that we are probably not aware of, so much that we do which makes us feel sluggish, and without any level of vitality – how has this become our normal?
It is such a wonderful refection for another to hold you in your true worth that you do not yet hold yourself in. From this space we are met to such a degree where we can choose to connect with and live who we truly are, an equal son of God.
To say that your feeling of Serge Benhayon has not changed in 10 years speaks volumes for his steadiness. I can say the same – in fact I seem to be more inspired by him each time I meet him. He constantly chooses to say what’s next for the world and represents that in full. He is solid in every aspect and words diminish the magnitude of what he presents to humanity by way of reflecting that we are equal to him.
Yes more inspired, every time, year on year Serge just shows more love more simplicity and power.
It is interesting that what we avoid such as connecting to people we miss the most. We naturally love people and connection. It simply means as I am finding out what has been lacking is the connection to self. Make life about connection to who I truly am with no holding back and my love for others naturally follows. True joy becomes a part of life as opposed to the disconnection and loneliness I was once choosing for myself and was a part of my livingness too.
We can tell the most about how our lives have changed from the little things that have big ripple effects. Things like chatting with people in the supermarket rather than hiding at home – they are poles apart. Not wanting to get out of bed to enjoying our jobs – your blog is very inspiring, not only because you have outcomes that are amazing but because the way you got to those outcomes was to build a relationship with yourself.
“Serge Benhayon has been a constant reflection of my worth, regardless of how I have lived. The love and respect he has shown me has never, ever faltered over the years I have known him, no matter how much I myself have.” This unconditionalness of Serge is this amazing doorway which allows us to accept our own true worthiness that most have given up on and thereby can heal our ills and hurts.
So many miracles in this blog. Especially this one – “I no longer feel the world owes me, but that I actually have a quality I can give back to humanity by sharing and expressing.”
That is a seismic shift, yes. How many of us wander around with this weird mix of lack of self-worth and a belief that the world owes us something? It is properly amazing to flip this into realising our value and the responsibility we have to be about and about in the world in service.
This just goes to show that all it needs is for us to truly meet another with love and no needs or imposition, allowing the person to just be. Seeing the true truth of the person before us. Sometimes all we need in life is to know we are okay and to then move from this space/place.
When I see and read another and accept them where they are at I can truly love them. I see the games at play, the hurts, the disconnection to themselves, the emptiness etc yet I can also see the love they truly are. I cannot react like I used because I know what is there in front of me is not them. This way of being comes from the loving relationship I have with myself which I am forever deepening.
“All this because I met a man called Serge Benhayon who reflected back to me how amazing I am. All this because I saw him reflect back to everyone how amazing we all are and in that I learned we are all equal” And we all share this responsibility to reflect back to others how amazing we all are.
“I no longer feel the world owes me, but that I actually have a quality I can give back to humanity by sharing and expressing.” This is super beautiful, something for us all to realise, how much there is in us to share and bring to the world.
I am just so struck by what I can see / feel in your blog… that conflict between what is presented on the outside and the narrative that is going on inside. I can put out a very polished, assured, and steady facade. But is that really how I am feeling at all times on the inside? Or have I learnt this immaculate performance to protect myself when things are feeling a bit messy inside…
Serge Benhayon – a man who reflects the universe to one and all.
I can totally relate to your words K.B. about Serge Benhayon, as having experienced the same sense of being totally met and accepted just as I am by Serge, without any judgement or critique. And yes – my life has changed beyond measure from the Ancient Wisdom Teachings Serge presents.
“My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!”
Your blog really reminds me how important our first impressions are, I absolutely agree with everything you have said about Serge Benhayon, and I wonder how many other people in the world can greet you with absolute integrity and unwavering truth not only in your first impression, but the second and third and so on and so on.
“My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!” I would say the same and add that my life has changed and yet when I attend a presentation by Serge Benhayon it’s like the familiarity continues to grow whereas when I first met him I felt so alienated from what was being shared. Like leaving home for so long then coming back and realising all the details of what was here, were there the whole time.
So interesting when you hear someone who has done the whole athlete or university thing and found that it does not deliver when there is no relationship with themselves. To me it shows the set up of how much importance society puts on achievement, but forgets the all important ingredient of making sure you are yourself in all of that…. and sprinkling some purpose on top!
The energy we choose and express in our movements every day has a huge effect, if only we could tangibly see the particles shift we would understand we are real sculptors with it, establishing a quality from which the next bit of life will come. The question is as Serge Benhayon and you show KB, what is it that we are putting out? Divine art or counterfeit?
It is interesting how we can be reminded of who we truly are and rebuild that connection by another who is living that also.
To come back from all that you put yourself through is super inspiring. I have people in my life that I’ve witnessed destroy themselves beyond what I feel is repairable and it saddens me very much, but your story is just one of many that reminds me that actually, there is always a choice and the support is always there whenever we ask for it.
When we take responsibility for the things we have done that were not true to who we really are, they cannot own us any longer and thus our true self is given permission to shine out and dissolve the facade we had created to hide behind.
To meet someone who doesn’t see you as anything other than amazing, without any rara but just a genuineness is indeed life changing as I’ve experienced something similar to what is shared here. You start to question the fact of how you’re judged and condemned yourself when someone just accepts you and it’s been deeply life changing. And all it took was the willingness of another to see all of me, and that inspiration had me looking at both myself and life differently.
Its amazing how hard we can be on ourselves, with the way we treat ourselves, the negative and critical thoughts on our physicality, our self-bashing, and negative thoughts and all our disregard in every pocked in our lives, and its all seems ‘normal’ and repetitive day in and day out. That was until I attended courses and presentations by Serge and Universal Medicine, was when I started to make different choices.
When we are met for who we are, our whole being relaxes as if a huge burden is lifted off our shoulders.
Wow wow and wow K.B what amazing changes you have made in your life. Society is now made up of many lost and lonely people, the rate of suicides have gone up and more people have mental health problems.
What Serge Benhayon presents is a road map back to connecting to who we truly are and in the process avoiding many nasty turns.
Thank you KB, you have really expressed the power of another’s reflection, and the power we each have to simply be our loving selves and the ripples this can have on others. We try so hard to be more or meet a picture of how we think we should be, when just being our natural selves is enough. It’s actually a really beautiful experience for another when we are just our gorgeous true selves.
Being in the presence of someone who recognises your worth and essence regardless of how we may think of ourselves or behave is truly powerful, it’s like a call to remember who you really are already on the inside.
Absolutely – it’s life changing for someone to see in you what you can’t already see in yourself.
When we get to a place of realisation that beauty lies within we put an end to the never ending trying to look good. We begin to accept who we truly are faults and all and live a quality that can only confirm who we are.
Serge Benhayon reflects back to us all that we are if we allow ourselves to be.
When we are so used to living not respecting our worth, being worth-while can be unfathomable. But with steadying the loving movements in our life, we deepen our own love and self-worth and many more possibilities begin to open up. The first impression of Serge Benhayon has shown us the love that we are, it is truly very memorable and the process has been inspiring.
This is an incredible story. To come from an attitude of the world owing you to then realising that in fact you have much to offer the world..is very cool indeed!
First impressions are generally the ones to be relied upon although when it comes to Serge Benhayon I have found that over time, the impressions are confirmed so frequently and consistently that there is no question he is a man of the utmost integrity. His service to mankind is a constant inspiration and the extent and affect of his work beyond compare.
Over time not only is the first impression of Serge Benhayon confirmed, it is deepened and expanded and continues to do so like the Universe of which he is a reflection.
Meeting Serge Benhayon for the first time is to be met with the reflection of our true worth and the feeling of being seen and appreciated and the awareness that he consistently does this with everyone, no exceptions, that he meets. The power of this is life-changing as you detail so clearly KB and is truly a home-coming to ourselves and our divine essence.
My first impression of Serge Benhayon is still my impression of Serge Benhayon – a man who knows God in every cell of his body/being and who lives it in full.
What a great and true description!!!
It’s amazing how much we can feel in an instant – how much can be communicated between us without words even but just by the way that we are. We all are role models for one another, and in that have the opportunity to inspire another to be more true to who they really are (just by virtue of us living that ourselves) or to negate who they are…
“I never feel lonely now, which is amazing.” what a great point, I know how often I would feel lonely even with people, today as I ponder that its like I was lonely missing me no matter who I was with. It’s been since my meeting with Serge that I’ve truly felt re-connected, content and in love with myself. Each day is now magical even when there are super hard things going on.
Yes I agree, learning to appreciate myself has been an absolute game changer, it has supported me to deepen the relationship with myself and to feel the flow on effect this quality has had on all my relationships.
Extraordinary how someone’s life can be turned around …. Just by reflection.
We all learned to live a life that we knew was not it. Some people accepted that it could not get too much better; they accepted a cap on life and assumed that disturbances were part of life; a part that requires settlement only to realize that the unsettlement was the rule but without realizing the true reason for it-. For other people, the unsettlement of life was far more obvious and much more embodied. They stood out for their obvious unsettlement and were pointed out as disturbed by the others who did not want to put a true name to their own unsettlement.
Thank you for sharing your life so generously K.B. I can so relate to your experience though I never got the degree! The dyslexic can’t string a sentence together nervous energy was exactly what I was in when I was first met by Serge Benhayon. This adopted way of being has gone completely. It is extraordinary the affect of being totally seen and met by one person can have on you.
“My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed since I met him about ten years ago. I felt the great love and care he had for me and everyone around him, equally so.” I agree KB, as i felt the same when I met Serge. Here was a man who saw inside you and knows who we all truly are. He sees through our outer messy life and knows truth. A beautiful reflection and inspiration for how we can live in the world and not be affected by it.
This really brings home to me the power of true appreciation of oneself and others – how with it we can truly re-ignite our essence and bring that beauty back to the world and support all others to know the equal beauty in themselves too.
I agree KB that meeting Serge Benhayon and experiencing his unconditional love has changed my life. I had no idea that we are all one and equal in the eyes of God, but having experienced that from Serge I know this is the truth.
There is no doubt that appreciation of ourselves and others is the key to shifting harmful ideals and beliefs, which affords us the opportunity to come together in brotherhood, joy, true harmony, purpose and fun.
“I’ve kept a belief that I was beyond redemption and this was accompanied by an immense guilt.” I can very much relate to this belief and know how true it can feel even though it is not. It is through dedication to loving and caring for myself that I have been able to start feeling how this is a belief and not true at all. Serge Benhayon is a true inspiration in this, as he indeed does not see all the issues we have created but sees us and smiles his fullest true smile that just makes you melt and feel met very deeply for who you are not what you have done.
Beautifully said Lieke. The thoughts and judgments we allow within our own minds are some of the most abusive choices of all. When someone meets us and reflects the love we naturally are we are reminded of our true nature.
When I read the many testimonials written regarding Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine most carry the same thread and that is clearly remembering the first time of meeting him. This includes myself and it is memorable because up until that moment in all our lives it could be said we had never been reflected what we know to be true – Love, integrity, connection and to be met for all we are. This is worth looking into, because the changes happening are not doing so else where.
When you are feeling alone in the world or you have hit a real low point in life, the people that are truly able to support you become extremely obvious, they stand out, they shine and they are able to remind you that you are equally the light that they are, Serge Benhayon is one of those people. It is so important that we document the kind of man he actually is because some Media outlets have not done this accurately over the years, which leaves a false trail of information. If we choose to take deep care of ourselves the way that Serge has committed to take care of himself, we will all be able to bring each other back or help each other up when we fall down. This is Serge Benhayons life’s work, to support us all to be able to support each other.
It’s truly something exquisite to connect with someone who does not judge or see ‘what’s wrong’. In this case as you say KB it doesn’t mean Serge Benhayon is blind to our faults – far from it, he just sees them as a speck of dirt compared to our true beauty. His way inspires me today to see other people I meet in this same way. Let’s celebrate our gorgeousness not the issues we appear to have.
I love that – my first impression of Serge Benhayon hasn’t changed but my life has. This is totally my experience too. I am amazed by this man, I have never seen someone cope so much direct and targeted abuse and still remain totally open with others – he is a huge inspiration.
It is so beautiful how we can return to our true selves from a place that seems so far away from that. Serge Benhayon provides the most amazing reflection that we are absolutely that Love.
My first impression of Serge Benhayon was,”WOW, how can he say that” such was my surprise at the natural authority, clarity and directness in his voice and the topic he was speaking on. This is what I began to love about Serge Benhayon that whenever I heard him speak it was consistent and I could deeply relax within myself and just listen – unlike many other speakers which are agitating.
‘Feeling my beauty reflected back to me from my interactions with Serge’, I love that line K.B. It described perfectly what is offer by Serge when in his presence. Our absolute beauty.
Super inspirational, thank you KB for sharing your story. Amazing to feel that when we are met with someone who knows who they are and holds everyone else as an absolute equal, we start to feel the same, knowing that we are part of that equality.
The most wonderful and inspirational aspect of meeting and knowing Serge Benhayon is that he is always consistently the same; an absolutely divine, loving, truthful, and universally wise man.
“All this because I met a man called Serge Benhayon who reflected back to me how amazing I am.” This says it all really K.B. What Serge Benhayon offers everyone, no matter who they are, is a depth and quality of love that is unrivalled in this world.
I spoke with Serge Benhayon just this weekend and the level of depth and love that he shared with was so different to anything I have experienced from any other teacher I have met before. His quality of being very present, absolute and open is quite an almost indescribable. We have so much to offer each other when we live from this absoluteness, to living love first and foremost, Serge is just a man, but a man who has chosen to live with a level of responsibility that is almost unheard of.
I can’t help but feel that if everyone in the world feels that the world owes them, who is going to actually pay that debt?
Your blog gave me a lot of understanding of why people act the way they act. Often we think people are shy or just not social but there might be a whole lot of reasons and past experiences of why that person is not letting themselves be seen and out. Your sharing: “I was dyslexic and awkward with people because I felt a great sense of worthlessness, at the same time as feeling very arrogant in that I knew better than other people.” that the feeling of worthlessness created a withdrawal and awkwardness is very revealing.
I feel one of the most amazing things about Serge Benhayon is that he sees you for the divine being you are; he sees past the surface ‘mess’ and knows intrinsically that you are and all are divine because he lives it and knows it within himself with not a shred of doubt. This is what we feel in his presence and it is why so many of us have changed beyond recognition from who we were when we met him. His beholding of what is when we can’t see it is quite staggering to feel and be held with.
Thank you K.B., what a gem of a blog and gem of a person! Your raw openness and honesty is very much appreciated, as for me this provides an opportunity to connect to another human being without any walls or facades, thankyou. It was an immense healing to read your blog and very inspiring, I particularly liked this line about your first meeting with Serge Benhayon “I felt I was loved and accepted unconditionally without having to do a thing.” In a world that constantly asks us to be or do something the power of love in its unconditional simplicity is life changing. I have experienced the same with Serge, he meets you for who you are and there is a feeling of not needing to be or do anything, just a full acceptance as well as being seen so clearly in the fullness of who we are – a fullness we may have given up on ever being met in.
“I never feel lonely now, which is amazing.” When we try and escape the world we turn our back on humanity and this is the loneliness we feel most.
Imagine all the people that we all meet each and every day, whether it’s via email, telephone or sitting on the train. Imagine if each of us had the effect Serge Benhayon does – wow what a powerful support for us all to choose Love! We’d know that we are safe to be us, without pretence or escape, and that our sweetness truly has a place. The thing is, this isn’t a pipe dream but a fact – we do all bring a powerful effect to everybody we meet, but the more we align to living what we know is true – the more, as we see with Serge this can’t help but come through. The changes and inspiration that follow on from energetic imprints like this are impossible to fathom, so let us just appreciate – we have this awesome power. Isn’t it high time we woke up to this and chose to activate?
“I was desperate to feel alive.” We are desperate to feel happy and to make sense of life and the ingredients we are missing and nobody teaches us is to stay loving – that life is about being loving and deeply caring for ourselves and others – and that is what Serge Benhayon so beautifully and unwaveringly lives.
It sound simple the way Serge Benhayon is, and he makes it look like it is but the effect is the most profound thing in the world. He makes life and simplicity easy and shows the true way we can live. Because, as you say KB we all naturally have a great effect in our own way – when we make our actions about Love and being clear we support everybody to do the same. This is something we really need to appreciate.
“My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed since I met him about ten years ago. I felt the great love and care he had for me and everyone around him, equally so.” Meeting Serge and the changes in my life since that encounter has been the greatest blessing in my life.
I so know what you are writing about, I too tried every therapy possible, to no avail, until I came across Universal Medicine and the depression I had experienced for nearly all my life shifted. Universal Medicine Therapies support you to go the root of the condition and therefore be able to heal the issue and totally release the ill energy from the body.
I’ve had the same experience Mary-Louise, nothing I tried gave me anything more than temporary relief then the issue, misery, or emotion would come back again, I tried for decades to support myself with everything from counselling to alternative therapies but it wasn’t until I came to Universal Medicine and their modalities that things truly changed. My life is now remarkably different and continues to build and expand in love and joy everyday. Even my health has improved in ways I thought it never could, and my relationships also – it’s pretty amazing.
it just takes one true reflection to reawaken and reignite the truth in us, and so too can we embrace the responsibility to live and reflect the truth of who we are for all to know for themselves.
I was thinking about the first time I met Serge today, I was given his email quite a few months before that however I kept making excuses as to why I didn’t want to email him – I hadn’t met him, I didn’t want to be referred to someone, etc. etc. I am so grateful for going to the Livingness 1 workshop last year in June and meeting this incredible person – my words just cannot express how blessed I feel.
Beautiful KB, if only we stopped pushing and trying so very hard, ceased our endless comparison and pursuit to be best in class. Perhaps then we would stop our bickering and fighting, and see that we are actually here to help and support each other in the most profound way? For not only are we not as separate as we like to think, we are one and intimately interlinked. The deeper truth that Serge Benhayon helps you see is we will never get to where we are to go as long as we stay stuck in thinking the whole world is about ‘me’ and what we know.
Being met and seen for who we truly are is a simple yet profound experience. Your story K.B. demonstrates a way of approaching mental and emotional health issues that offers the possibility of a true path of recovery.
“Serge Benhayon has been a constant reflection of my worth, regardless of how I have lived.” – It is a beautiful blessing to us all when we have someone who reflects back to us our worth in ways that we cannot even fathom. And it is a further blessing when we can feel this, register it, and recognise that worth lies within us…and yet another blessing when we live that worth and reflect to the rest of the world that they too hold this within, yet to be lived.
This is a remarkable story KB, and all from the inspiration of meeting Serge Benhayon. I have no doubt you would now be offering that same inspiration to all you meet and interact with these days… which is a very profound shift from your earlier days. To know we are all equal is huge, and I can recall learning this too by observing the way Serge was with every last person he meets or talks about. I knew who I was from the way he met me too, so I know what you are talking about, and then I got to know that we are all the same.
If meeting one person can have such an impact on one’s life and bring about a true, long-standing, change of its course, and if there are multiple cases like that, in fact, many about this same person (Serge Benhayon) – surely, it is worth taking notice of what this man is about.
Beautiful KB – I remember the first time I met Serge Benhayon too. I’d heard some audio recordings which he had done, which I had found hard to listen to – my mind had had a field day trying to analyse, dissect and pick apart some of the things that he said. Yet when I saw him for the first time it was like re-encountering an old friend, who was steady and strong, vibrant and alive and who had no barriers or walls in the way. It was like he was energetically communicating ‘hey here I am, you can see everything , I have nothing to hide’. This feeling was unlike any I have experienced and it’s a quality Serge maintains today, only like everything that he does it’s actually deepened and grown every day. What a man and what a way to be and to live.
I am slowly coming to understand the role of appreciation. I used to think that self-appreciation was just about being self centered but this is very far from the truth. If we do not appreciate who we are and what we do then we have no true foundation upon which to build on.
K.B this is amazing to read, what an incredible turnaround you have made to your life. What you have written here about Serge Benhayon really stands out for me, ‘Seeing how he is deeply caring and loving with everyone he meets has helped me to trust in love again and begin to trust and love myself.’ I can feel reading this how important it is not to hold judgment on others for their choices, as I sometimes do, and how we can love everyone we meet no matter what is going on for them and that it was being held in this love that allowed you make the changes that you have in your life, thanks for sharing this, this is something for me to work on.
‘I felt a great sense of worthlessness, at the same time as feeling very arrogant in that I knew better than other people.’ Two ends of the same line, feeling less and feeling better than others with the same result we don’t let love in and separate us from the rest of the world. And both come from the same arrogance.
KB, thank you for such a deeply felt and beautiful sharing of how Serge Benhayon has supported you in changing your life and turning things around for you. Your appreciation is palpable, and the beauty is that you hold the appreciation for Serge, but also clearly for yourself too in all the choices you have since made in your own life. Well done, and thanks for sharing as this allows us to appreciate in turn and grow from this.
It is greatly uplifting when we are met with the reflection from one who knows our true worth and holds us in that until we too can know and live it for ourselves.
Very beautifully said Annie – and this is truly said from someone who has experienced it as a blessing!
KB thank you for writing this blog and putting into words what I have felt too; meeting Serge Benhayon we are faced with all that we are not and also all that we are. And for me that brought up the knowing that there was more to me but also feeling the frustration of not being able to unlock and express the true me, who I really am.
The power that one man has to hold and reflect back to all others the truth of their being is immense – as demonstrated to KB here by Serge Benhayon. Is it possible that Serge Benhayon is not special but that he is showing us all the power we have access to equally? Is it possible that when we let go of any stories we have about ourselves or others, then we know the equalness we all come from? Thank you KB for your candour here and your willingness to share your experiences.
Richard, these are beautiful words that build further upon what KB has presented, For it is with someone like Serge Benhayon that we get to feel that there is indeed an equality that lies inside us all – an equally powerful state we all have access to should we choose it. This is the reflection that is gifted to us when we are ready.
No matter what we do to achieve in life eg the degree, the perfect house, relationship, having a family etc unless we know who we are and live from this knowing we will be forever on the merry-go-round of wanting to achieve. The more I become aware of the distractions around me and what takes me away from knowing who I am, the more I am able to live in connection and in contentment with myself and nothing outside of myself can come anywhere close to that.
Agreed. There is the constant searching which feeds the insatiable need to recognition and acceptance and then there is the ease with who we are and where we are at. The latter does not mean we sit around avoiding work, quite the opposite, you can feel so clearly the need for service, there is more a commitment to life and therefore more self care in order to ensure we are fit for life.
Letting go of shame and guilt is the first step in our return home, no matter what we have done in the past and the level of harm our actions have caused ourselves and others it is important to understand that that was not who we truly are and instead of giving ourselves a hard time we need to take stock of the choices that we have made in coming home to what we know love is and keep moving forth in full appreciation of it.
Francisco what you are saying here feels to me to centre around acceptance, accepting that what we have done in our past which as you say wasn’t really us, we were so empty of love that we allowed another energy to dominate our bodies. If we get caught up in the guilt and the shame then we are just perpetuating the same energy so nothing changes. We have to change and heal the energy of the guilt and shame otherwise we cannot move forward as we cannot build a body of self-love. When we start to build a body of self-love we naturally allow the flow of harmony back into our bodies and this flow of harmony is the flow of the universe which is God and all his magic.
When we focus on the smaller % of what we’ve done wrong, our shortcomings and our mistakes, we stay in that. Appreciation is the glue that holds us together, that builds and links the peaks of amazingness in our lives until it becomes one line of steady joy.. no highs, no lows, just a steadiness and a beauty in that.
Your opening line here says a lot KB – that your first great impression of Serge Benhayon has not changed since you met him 10 years ago. How many people can we say that about? This is a true tribute to Serge’s consistency and transparency as a human being which I have found has actually strengthened through the years I have known him.
A beautiful sharing of your experience on your first meeting with Serge Benhayon and since! I have never seen a change to the way Serge treats each person nor the love and respect that he holds either.
Being seen and appreciated for who we truly are, being confirmed in our innate worth and supported to know the true potential of the way we can live is deeply powerful. Serge Benhayon has showed me this too, it is how he is with everyone, seeing through the outer layers of what we put out and with that helping all to bring out the gold that is at our core. Thank you K.B for sharing the immense changes that you’ve made to your life, really inspiring.
Being met for who we truely are is such a divine gift, as is being supported and encouraged to live and express who we truly are. Serge Benhayon is the epitome of meeting each and every one of us, each and every time, and supporting us to live this truth. Thank you KB for honouring and deeply appreciating all that Serge is and offers.
Serge Lives as a reflection, and it is one of the greatest things to see and meet. When you meet Serge you meet yourself, because he holds everyone as the divineness that they are first.
My first interaction with Serge Benhayon involved me wanting him to prove to me something – as in, why should I listen to you? And the amazing thing, as you’ll also understand KB, is that he didn’t and doesn’t need to prove anything. The way he lives, his Livingness, is inspirational. It’s not imposing nor does it suggest or tell me what to do. So I can simply watch a man, hear what he has to say based on his own experiences and make more loving choices that serve me better. Pretty incredible to say the least.
A beautiful testimony KB on Serge Benhayon’s consistent love and deep care for humanity that has the power to inspire and ignite so many to live a more true and loving life.
It is incredible what a change we can go through, being inspired by a man living his life lovingly and expressing that what he knows will inspire and pull up others. Serge Benhayon is an incredible man showing us all a way of life that is without self-doubt and misery but in full service of humanity.
“I was coming home to me and to what I always knew was true”. What you have expressed here KB is such a beautifully true confirmation and appreciation of yourself and the man who inspired you ( and so many others), Serge Benhayon.
‘appreciation of oneself and others is key’ I could not agree more. When we start with the fact that we are love and appreciate this then everything else pales into insignificance. After all how can we try to be love when we already are love?!
“Seeing how he is deeply caring and loving with everyone he meets has helped me to trust in love again and begin to trust and love myself.” Serge’s reflection is so powerful in his absolute livingness that when people met him and feel met by him for who they truly are, it is the beginning of life long changes as you so beautifully and honestly shared in your blog KB.
Serge Benhayon presents and offers a real and healing paradigm-shift for the field of psychiatry/ psychotherapy/ counselling by supporting people to reconnect with our Whole Body Intelligence rather than focusing on the mind in isolation.
Encountering Serge Benhayon for the first time and there after is a permanent reminder that we all belong in Heaven together. We are allowed to feel that from the very first moment even if nothing heavenly was part of your life till then. That, in itself, is a confirmation that deep inside us, we also know that this is true.
Hugely inspiring to read. Very few people have the courage to openly assess their life with clarity, and question their level of satisfaction with things, namely because I suppose society is very non-receptive to such musings, cemented in the ethos that you need to deal with the cards you are dealt with and stop winging. That is true to a certain extent – but it is our acceptance of a way of being that is less that stops us questioning not only the status quo, but our own lives, and stops us from discovering that there is more to life. We should all be philosophers, and that starts with questioning very deeply one’s own life in every aspect, not because it is necessarily poor by comparison, or needs fixing, but as the beginning of pathway to a much deeper relationship with life in general. We were not born to be meager. We were not born to be miserable. And neither were we born to be alone.
You say; “When I met Serge I felt instantly that he knew who I truly was” that is because he knows exactly who he is. In knowing and living who he is in full, he is able to meet others in full without any need, imposition or judgement, ie in pure love. As we are all the same in essence when we are met like this we also get an experience of meeting ourselves. The more I reconnect to and live who I truly am the deeper I can connect to and meet others.
I love your honesty in this blog KB. There is no blame or defense in it just an honest account of how you were then and how you are now. A ‘before’ meeting Serge Benhayon stock-take and then an ‘after’. All in all a great testimony to the power of being truly met for who you are.
Serge Benhayon meets everybody with an abundance amount of love and respect, free from judgement and that is maintained consistently.
We are capable of being our worst enemy – this is because the bedrock of true evolution is self-love, so to deny ourselves that, kills us like nothing else.
“I felt a great sense of worthlessness, at the same time as feeling very arrogant in that I knew better than other people.” Yes, we can definitely feel worthlessness and arrogance at the same time, it just goes to show that even though one may think that an arrogant person cannot be self-conscious, being arrogant is just another level of being self conscious and therefore the two are actually pretty much the same.
So true. When I first met Serge Benhayon I knew my life was about to change and it has. I am rediscovering the joy of who I really am and the many ideals and beliefs that controlled me have cracked and freed me to feel the truth. We are all so much more than we realise.
It is true that there is a consistency that comes from Serge Benhayon that is inspirational. He always meets you and sees you for the amazing being that you are. You know he lives this as his normal and it feels so good it is truly inspiring to live that way ourselves and be that with those we then meet in our lives.
The foundational changes that you describe here because of having attended and implemented into your life the teachings of Serge Benhayon ought to be studied by psychology because they are profound. So many people’s lives have change enormously because of the teachings of Serge Benhayon and I never tire of hearing their stories. They are incredibly uplifting.
Serge Benhayon is amazing because he doesn’t tell you what to do but supports you to connect and stay connected to your own inner wisdom, that which is the ancient wisdom of the ages. He let’s you fall and get up and learn from your mistakes, if you are willing. He lets us see that we can do all this for ourselves and slowly and surely grow in in our our own power as you have shown here in your own story KB. A great sharing.
A lovely story of how we can all raise another up, support someone to be more accepting and appreciative of themselves. We all need to be able to accept and appreciate our qualities and it stands to reason that from time to time we might feel a little lost. Having the support of genuine love, being seen and understood can transform most anybody and assist our troubles to melt away.
Knowing Serge Benhayon has Changed my Life – my sentiments exactly. I began attending his courses around 6 years ago, and the reason I go back every year and as much as I can, is simply because he presents truth. He does not preach and he does not pander, but he does reflect his living way which in one sense needs no words as it can be felt….
really beautiful to read your personal experience, that Serge Benhayon shares with all equally. He holds us in who we truly are, showing us a way to get back to this amazingness.
I enjoyed reading your personal sharing KB and I can relate to much of it. There can be no questioning the power of love and how it changes lives for the better.
I love what you share here KB – how appreciation counts for so much – it is certainly a huge contributor to allowing ourselves to feel we are absolutely equal. Yes Serge Benhayon can show us this, but we also have to feel and claim this for ourselves. That is the magic of relationships, that we are able to support each other to feel we are equal.
The truth is that when we try to manage life we get nowhere. We can have better managed versions than others but it does not work equally. The beauty about those cases where the feeling of going nowhere is felt, is that they are open to healing. The ‘successful’ ones are usually not.
This is amazing K. B. and so very honest, thank you for sharing your inspiring story. So many lives have been changed by coming into contact with Serge Benhayon the power of his beholding love is immense for in it we get to be accepted for who we are as equals with the reflection, that his love is our love too.
One of the greatest impediments to returning to the fullness of who we are is the guilt or recrimination we hold against ourselves for what we have lived prior that is not true, but this is merely another delay tactic. There is no time for self-recrimination, and shame, but rather an ever-unfolding deepening back to that truth we can live in every moment if we so choose.
No amount of words will or can ever credit Serge Benhayon with the praise he deserves for literally being thee no matter what for soo many people. He is a true inspiration to me and makes the seemingly unthinkable not only tangible but also very simple and practical.
I have learned many things from my interactions with Serge Benhayon but what he models so superbly is how we are able to be so solid in the face of anything, here is a man who gets up and presents for 8 hours straight, he keeps you on the edge of your seat , so engaged and he doesn’t rehearse plan or script anything!
“The love and respect he has shown me has never, ever faltered over the years I have known him, no matter how much I myself have.” – Being seen for who we truly are in our essence whilst also seeing all the rubbish we choose to live that’s not in line with our essence, with no judgement just love, is very powerful and so supportive.
This is a great testimony of how one person can make such difference to many by just being himself and allowing the other person to be also without imposing or judgement.
Serge Benhayon has a huge understanding about life, the way we live it and how we fight our own natural rhythms. I had only spoken with him for a few minutes, and that was enough for me to want to work on changing my life, and open up to a different way of living.
A superb testimonial about how very possible it is to turn our lives around, from complication and hardship to vitality and zest for life. And how incredible to have “All this because I met a man called Serge Benhayon who reflected back to me how amazing I am.”
There is so much in this blog. We can place such incredible demands on ourselves to perform and deliver. We go through the motions of life and expect ourselves to deliver even before we have built any kind of relationship with ourselves. The changes that you have shared are amazing.
It is amazing to meet a person who does not react to our reactions. The first feeling can be one of overwhelming relief.
I am a huge fan of this blog, I have to admit this is not the first time I have read it. One if my favorite lines is actually at the end- “My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!” This statement must be true for so many people, I know it is for me. The way our world is currently set up it is hard to explain to those that haven’t actually met Serge Benhayon what he is about. I can feel some onlookers jump to the ‘guru’ assumption or be suspicious of the enthusiasm people go into when talking about Serge.
The way you talk about Serge Benhayon and what reflection he brought to you is very special, it is yours, there’s no sycophant energy or worship. It is purely your AMAZING experience with another equal brother, thank for your story, INCREDIBLE.
What a truly inspiring transformation KB, I love the way you accepted and appreciated Serge Benhayon’s unconditional love. I agree wholeheartedly with what you have expressed about Serge;
“When I met Serge I felt instantly that he knew who I truly was. I felt he saw my true worth and that all the walls I’d put around myself were paper-thin. I felt I was loved and accepted unconditionally without having to do a thing”.
How blessed are we.
Awesome turn around KB and great to hear that you are appreciating yourself and others and have let go of those insidious thoughts of competition “Competition is pointless, and appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun.”
Incredible testimonial K.B.. Thank you for sharing – especially about the evil of competition and its destructive nature, and of the power of being simply met for who you are.
Yes, competition is a great way to lose ourselves, a great way to distract ourselves.
This is the kind of story that needs to be part of our school curriculums, that speaks of the many ill paths we can take with realism, and without the glamour we can often bring to our perception of them (think ‘heroin chic’ in fashion and the glamour that can be associated with drug use and anorexia and bulimia, for example). That there is a simple way through the messes we create for ourselves is indeed knowledge worth sharing with people of all ages and stages.
Fabulous and honest sharing K.B., thank you so much. The thing is, we ALL do versions of the kinds of things you have outlined here, just with different flavours and quirks. We are ALL lost from ourselves until we are inspired, be it through meeting someone (like Serge Benhayon) who has reconnected with themselves in full, or by encountering the Ageless Wisdom in some other form. And by Ageless Wisdom I mean the timeless philosophy that speaks of our divine nature, amongst many other things.
It is interesting how many people describe being in turmoil before meeting Serge and then afterwards having an absolutely miraculous healing and turn around in terms of their health, commitment to life and well-being. This is because the way we have all been taught to live life and what is paraded as “normal” in the world is not a truly love and healthy way to live, and therefore it is actually a healthy response to feel there is something wrong with it and look for another way. However most end up reacting to the hurt of the current way or searching outside of themselves both of which are harmful.
What Serge presents is a truly loving and healthy way to live and one that we can all connect to as being “yes this is it” a way of life that I used to live long, long ago and have been looking to reconnect to. There is a deep sense of coming home as Serge presents back to us our own truth, one we all share at essence and this is incredibly liberating and empowering.
Gosh KB how much of humanity walks around in this to one degree or other: “I was very lost, really struggling, but trying at all costs to cover up this fact” ? What Serge has brought is true medicine that heals this devastating condition.
A beautiful read KB. I too feel grateful everyday for the wonderful teachings and revelations of Serge Benhayon. The difference I see in so many of us because of these supportive and loving teachings of the Ancient Wisdom is amazing!
I love this KB, simple and very true ‘appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun.’ Appreciation was always missing in my life, to bring this to our lives is truly beautiful and the more I appreciate the easier it becomes to deeply love and appreciate everyone I meet.
“I am starting to build a relationship with myself that isn’t wholly self-critical and judgemental. I’ve started to be more tender with how I am with myself and treat myself lovingly”.
I may be slow on the uptake with you KB, however I do appreciate that we are on the path of return gradually building a relationship with ourselves and who we truely are.
I have heard hundreds of people from all walks of life and of all ages share the miracle of transformation that happened in their life from one meeting with true love (Serge Benhayon). Some people have not even met him in person but just read one of his books or received an email. By Serge simply committing to live and express love (in the true meaning of the word which has not once ounce of emotion) many thousands have been healed. Imagine if we all lived in this way – it would not take long for the world to catch fire. That is the plan!
I love that through meeting Serge you have been inspired to shift your view through being seen for who you are and the possibility of that being true…. and then to have committed to live the embodiment of that inspiration, work on your hurts, and embrace life. It is a remarkable transformation and absolutely worth appreciating.
What a beautiful turnaround you’ve made KB and all because you chose to be inspired by one man who has chosen to walk a different path and express his unwavering love for all so that you could trust and in turn know that you are this love also.
By being shown and feeling what true love and care are really like, it give us a definite marker so we don’t have to choose anything less.
This testimony in itself is a revelation for those in counselling, that it’s not the amount of educational studies that determine the effectiveness of the session but how much the counsellor is able to see the client for who he or she truly is that truly counts.
From day 1 Serge Benhayon reflected back to me that I was a beautiful delicate woman. I could not see this at first but because he held me so strongly in this knowing, eventually I surrendered to these qualities that were always there within. I now know myself that I am a beautiful delicate woman.
Hats off to you KB, for choosing to say yes to love, taking responsibility for your life, your body and your choices. So many people in your previous situation, choose to give up and check out from life, even when standing in the face of love, for what can feel like lifetimes.
Billions of people world wide have given up and checked out from life; you present along side Serge Benhayon and The Way of The Livingness, that there is another way, a very simple way to live, one that brings true joy, harmony, brotherhood, love, deep care and lasting healing, for everybody.
OMG – this is massive! You had a psychiatric nurse assigned to which would suggest you were in psychosis and had major mental health issues, yet look at the absolute turn around in your life and your body from meeting Serge Benhayon, being met for who you are, not your outward appearance, illness or choices, and being held in absolute love. Supporting and inspiring you to re-learn to love yourself, take responsibility for your life and make different choices. This is massive, I can’t help but feel what if every doctor and medical professional knew and lived this, every person for that matter, the medical profession would be turned on it’s head when dealing with such illnesses and diseases. We would know, which we all do deep down, that it is our spirit that was choosing this way of living, not our Soul.
This is an incredible blog, if you ever wanted proof, not that it’s needed, that The Way of The Livingness is the way to live, this is it.
No wonder we feel lonely when we shut out, beat and exclude ourselves. What you share here so openly KB is a process of becoming our own best friend, someone you trust loves you and is always there. This consistency is what I saw when I met Serge Benhayon too, it is like he is showing us ‘hey you can be this way too’. Instead of sending ourselves the occasional postcard from abroad, we can build a true rapoor and give ourselves the biggest hugs every day we are alive, cherishing that at last we feel unified.
“appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun”. Beautiful expression KB, appreciation of oneself is just so important thus flowing into appreciation of all, equally so.
It is true, competition is pointless, and more so anti-evolutionary – it goes against everything we are here to learn together. So the sooner we can expose the deep harm it is perpetrating in every corner and aspect of our lives, crushing the natural light of our children, and entrenching separation amongst ourselves, our siblings, our school mates, and whole countries, the faster we can return to our natural way which is working together, supporting each other in true brotherhood.
This certainly highlights the importance and power of meeting another in their true worth and seeing them for who they truly are. Even by doing this alone, there is enormous healing power.
Thank you KB great sharing. I can relate to much that you say. Thank God for Serge Benhayon and all that he brings inspiring us to be the all that we bring. . . .. we now know that every day is an opportunity to learn grow and express more of who we truly are..
I love your sharing, KB. I too felt when I first met Serge Benhayon that he knew me more than I allowed myself to know myself. What I am learning now is nothing is personal and nothing was ever meant to be personal. This sometimes clash with my humanness that still sees and feels my vulnerability as an individual.
Beautiful to read KB the amazing turnaround in your life, as you opened up to the reflection Serge was giving to you. When I first heard Serge, speak in that moment I had come home, home to me, home to life.
Serge Benhayon must surely be living something very true and well worth living because his simple reflections of consistent love and truth have literally been the founding point of many life changing events of some many peoples lives. And what inspires me is the ease and solidness in which he does so.
From what you have written here KB, Serge Benhayon has given you an enormous gift simply by him being himself. Serge Benhayon certainly does see the essence of another and the effect this has is enormous. When we are used to only seeing what is wrong with us and then meet someone who sees our divine nature the effect is truly healing.
It’s so amazing to read how the quality of how one man lives has transformed so many lives. In fact it inspires and reflects the responsibility we all have to live the full quality of who we are because it too can inspire hundreds or thousands of others to also transform their lives. It’s giving back to humanity the beauty we have had the opportunity to see, feel and remember.
‘Competition is pointless, and appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun.’ And we have so much to appreciate if we truly allow ourselves to see the affects living a true life has.
We all have so much to thank Serge Benhayon for, he brings far more to all, and everyone of us than we can fully begin to be able to comprehend, and with this there is no arrogance, just a humbleness and deep love for humanity. I feel deeply touched by Serge Benhayon’s love and commitment, and like you KB he has, and continues to help me trust again, ‘The love and respect he has shown me has never, ever faltered over the years I have known him, no matter how much I myself have. Seeing how he is deeply caring and loving with everyone he meets has helped me to trust in love again and begin to trust and love myself.’
This is gorgeous to feel how you are turning your life around KB, I can relate with having had some of these self-critical thoughts in the past, and say no to them now if they try to creep back in as I know they are not true. ‘I am starting to build a relationship with myself that isn’t wholly self-critical and judgemental. I’ve started to be more tender with how I am with myself and treat myself lovingly.’
I love reading stories such as these and feeling the deep appreciation many hold for Serge Benhayon and all he continually reflects to humanity. How you have turned your life around KB with the support and true love offered by Serge Benhayon is very inspiring and beautiful to read. These stories are true miracles and what’s even more amazing is there are thousands of similar stories experienced by Universal Medicine students worldwide.
Serge Benhayon is a rock, a consistent reflection of love. He has shown me how I can live in the world as myself uninhibited by how society or others want or need me to be. Serge has shown me a living, breathing example of what it is like to be a man, father, friend there is complete love with no judgement. Serge has most importantly shown me that I am the same and for this I am eternally grateful.
“I felt a great sense of worthlessness, at the same time as feeling very arrogant in that I knew better than other people.” I could relate to the arrogance that we can use to cover up the sense of worthlessness you describe. For me, I didn’t want to see that I was never enough, a constant feeling that I should be more, so arrogance and denial was my defence mechanism. With the support and love of Serge Benhayon I am learning to accept and appreciate that I am enough and realise that we are fed this illusion that stop us feeling the amazing people we truly are.
I have never seen anyone as dedicated and committed to humanity as Serge Benhayon. And the love and honouring with which he holds each person whilst seeing the most divine aspect of them is truly exceptional, healing and empowering. He naturally inspires simple by not holding back the truth that he lives and the example that he sets, so many people have turned their lives around and now also share your awareness that every one of us “have a quality we can give back to humanity by sharing and expressing.”
I also tried every thing from physically working hard, pleasing others, drinking alcohol and going out, institutionalised religion, spirituality, having the perfect body etc to want to feel accepted in the world but none of these things and more worked. There had to be something else so I kept on trying, moving from one thing to another looking for the answer until I came across Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine that presented what I was looking for was within me all along and all I had to do was to connect to it… my essence.
Thanks KB for your open and honest sharing. Your comment – ‘All this because I met a man called Serge Benhayon who reflected back to me how amazing I am’ has been my experience also – the stumbling block has been for ‘me’ to know the truth that I am amazing. There are no party tricks here, just openness and surrendering to the truth, and Serge Benhayon reflects this to us all everyday in his life. The impact has been huge and the healing that has come from this deeply nurturing. We can offer this same love to others, a moment in time that they too begin to trust in who they are and all they bring to this beautiful life we are a part of.
So many people, so many stories, so many life changing steps all with a point of origin with Serge Benhayon. Has he stopped, retired, stepped back etc, in short no and in fact he has expanded this further. The deep care and love was always there it is just now more people have the same awareness and have literally turned their lives and the world upside down. You can blanket this blog and these comments off as just something else or you can truly look outside the window or inside the window and see that the world doesn’t make sense in how we are. Universal Medicine and Serge Benhayon bring understanding in the world and in that it allows your eyes to open to see and from there the choice of what’s next is yours.
Like you I had tried many other modalities before meeting Serge Benhayon, but none of them left me feeling any better. The process always seemed encouraging, and the money spent (wasted) gave me some hope that something would change. But nothing worked, and nothing changed until meeting Serge Benhayon. Now everything has changed, and the search for a purposeful and rewarding life is over.
Your final line says it all K.B. One of the things that constantly blows me away about Serge Benhayon is his consistency. From day one of reading the Universal Medicine website I felt all you describe here, I didn’t even have to meet the man himself to feel the quality of what he expressed as it was evident in every word presented. I spent a long time watching Serge for any slip up or mistake in an effort to avoid facing the truth he expressed and even 6 years on he has never given me any reason to doubt him as he lives with a level of integrity that is unmatched by anyone else I know of.
Thank you K.B. for sharing your story, even though I don’t have all the ingredients that yours does, mine still is quite similar in that life was a mess, living from ideals and beliefs, I had a very low opinion of myself and didn’t even know what it meant to be tender and self honouring in any way. So equally when I met Serge Benhayon and began attending Universal Medicine presentations, life started to make sense, a lot of sense. He is someone who has more love for his fellow human beings than anyone I have every met, along with more patience and understanding; he is someone who continually inspires in all that he does.
Thank God for Serge Benhayon alright! I am with you K.B. I too was in a very bad place and was heading down at a spiraling speed. Life had gone mad all around me and this night mare of a world felt like hell on Earth. Until I heard his voice on audio – it was the voice of sanity and words spoken of truth. Viewed him on podcast – a body and man of humble tranquility. Three years ago I attended my first retreat – A man that lives, moves, talks, interacts, builds on relationships and unravels the ridiculous in everything and everyone all at the same time. Heaven on Earth is true, it is here and now and possible in all of us. Like you K.B, I chose to heal.
The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was floored by not only his insights, but that I felt truly understood for the first time in my life. The internal battle of self degradation no longer defined me, for here was someone who could explain why I loathed myself so much, and left me knowing that was not me. It was a momentous change that has continued to develop, and now 13 years later, I can only say thank God for Serge Benhayon.
The unwavering consistency Serge Benhayon lives with is quite amazing. Even after being attacked in the media for over 3 years rather than retreating he has stayed being the love that he is. He is a living breathing example to us all how we can live and be without getting swayed by what people say or what is going on around him.
Thank you KB … I really had to chuckle when I saw what you had tried…. Primal Scream Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and general counselling.… If I had to list everything I tried, as I am sure would be the case with so many others, the list would be beyond belief. And now simply, through the inspiration of Serge Benhayon, I have also built a relationship with myself that reflects back to me now the deep and abiding love within which I am held.
From this: ‘I couldn’t string a sentence together and was really jumbled in what I said. I was dyslexic and awkward with people…’ To this: ‘I love meeting new people and am very at ease with people – I often chat and joke in supermarket queues etc.’
This transformation is nothing short of extraordinary, KB. Thought the Livingness of Love, miracles happen. Your life is testament to this.
Thank you K.B. Your experience is a confirmation that every situation, no matter its dimensions, can be transformed by the power of Love, as it resides within everybody, waiting for the moment we allow it to be lived and expressed.
Serge Benhayon is the real deal – he is the Livingness of Love and it is by his reflection that have come to know what true love is, it is liberating, it is about humanity, all of us, connection, joy and now that I’m living more and more love in my life, a deeper rest is being felt as the protection, the needs and so forth start to melt away from the warmth of love. From Serge Benhayon’s reflection i see that love is actually the natural human way we could all be living, its in us all, it’s not exclusive.
Yes great point Karoline, this grand love is not reserved for a special few, it is equally available to us all if we make similar choices.
This has such a sweetness of love and reconnection to ourselves and the power of that, it is life changing.
I love your comment ‘My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has! That is the power of true reflection, where the love and deep acceptance that Serge Benhayon meets us with is life changing and it is so simple.
I love your blog K.B., your honesty, the changes you have made and now living as the awesome being that you are – inspiring read.
This is a beautiful sharing KB, I love that you have turned your life around with the support of Serge Benhayon. He has and continues to make a difference to mine and so many people’s lives, my appreciation for him is huge.
Mine too Lorraine and for the student body who choose to make these changes and have the courage to let go of these walls of protection and learn to live with each other and experience the joy of this. Hats off to all I say.
Yes Serge Benhayon’s reflection of absolute love has inspired me to know love, the love that is all encompassing, not needing but a deep acceptance that i am so much more than the physical. He meets the love that is within me and it is awakened again. So that i can live that too. A mirror reflection.
Loved reading your experience of life and of meeting Serge Benhayon, reminds me of the first time I met him, knowing immediately that he is someone I could trust in full, feeling held in the greatest love there is. This brought the possibility to fully see my potential and feel the love that is inside me as well.
A role model such as Serge Benhayon really does highlight the power that each one of us brings and how much of an affect we have on each other. Because if one man can change the lives of thousands (if not more) people and he is simply reflecting who we are back to us then what are the ripple affects of our own quality of life? Never in my whole life has this been reflected or taught but because of it my life and the lives of those around me have changed in ways I am sure I have yet to fully appreciate or be aware of. In the face of every unloving choice I or anyone or the world has/continues to make Serge stands there as a role model to say ‘I have a choice’ – this is something I have recently been playing with and been inspired to bring into my life.
Brendan your comment had me laughing out loud. Yes, it wasn’t for the faint-hearted and nor was it cheap – a year later I realised that could have been a house that had my name on it (before the prices went crazy) and how much it cost me in where I was able to live etc. But I also understood how desperate I was. It is amazing what we try until we admit, actually this is not working.
I loved reading your story and we all have similar stories but the one unwavering truth is we are all held in the most Divine love by Serge Benhayon, and how truly blessed we are to be living in the reflection that he brings to humanity.
Knowing Serge Benhayon is transforming peoples lives and your account KB is beautiful and amazing as is the stories of others from his reflection and inspiration of love. Serge Benhayon offers us the true way of living and medicine all in one and our future. The self esteem and wellbeing of so many is changing in an opposite trend to what is going on in the world and needs to be studied by everyone and our equality and love to be opened up and lived.
To be met by and held in such unconditional love, with such utter regard, respect, care and attention is something unfortunately rarely seen in this world and yet it is what should be considered normal as this is the potential we all carry within. Serge Benhayon shows us this by pure reflection.
Today Serge Benhayon delivered another inspiring presentation on expression and presentation. Again I was blown away by the incredible calibre of the international students. It is astounding to be part of process with a group working with the Ageless Wisdom and as the discussions that occur in different locations all around the world with no facilitators, just a commitment to group work, the same unified truths are landed in each location.
“I am no less and no more than another, I do not need to do anything to gain favour, and I know that we all bring something uniquely golden to the table that no other can.” How great K.B. that you know this now after seeing through the great sense of worthlessness that you believed in. In fact it takes a lot of effort to create the false picture we have of ourselves because deep down we do know it is not who we are and when another sees who we truly are it reminds us of that and we start to let what is not us drop away.
Thank you K.B. for so openly for sharing your journey to the beauty and love you are. Your story and countless others on this and other websites are such powerful testaments to the fact that what Serge Benhayon presents and the example of how he lives is the answer to the woes of this world.
Thank you K.B., this is an amazing sharing of how your life has transformed as a consequence of being met for the love that you are and the opportunity to rekindle the knowing of how we all play and important part in getting back to where we come from. Deep gratitude to Serge Benhayon for offering us a true reflection of the love that we are and for seeing and igniting the divinity in each of us.
How Serge Benhayon lives and the example he gives us should be studied by all governments and education systems in the world. He has proven time and time again that he holds the answer. Thousands of lives have been transformed as you have described K.B. People who were often non-functional and becoming health statistics are now healthy, joyful and giving back as fully contributing members of society. These blogs, countless stories, case studies and a library of books and audio are available providing the answer to every problem and issue mankind faces. The only question that remains unanswered is just how much more we are ready to suffer as a species before we are willing to listen.
Great point Nicola, Serge Benhayon offers everyone an opportunity to re-connect to who they truly are and to transform their lives and health and well-being in amazing ways. Not just for a select few, this has occurred for thousands of people worldwide and will continue because what Serge Benhayon presents truly works and is key to living a life with more love, joy and vitality.
Dear K.B what you write is deeply touching and brings tears to my eyes. Deeply touching because your story (with variations) is that of thousands of others. Deeply touching for the example Serge Benhayon gives and the seemingly miraculous healing that is offered to the whole world by the living example of this one man who has chosen to consistently fully express from his essence, an essence and way of life that is available to every single one of us.
What a deeply beautiful blog – my heart is opened reading your every word here K.B.
For you have shared your experience of ‘the fight’ we all know well – the ‘fight’ with life, the ‘fight’, resistance and wrestle, with our own true nature.
When I first met Serge Benhayon, and on every single occasion of connecting with him since, I also felt (and still feel) that “he knew my true worth way more than I ever did”. If we allow ourselves to be so truly and completely met by another, and held for all that we are – rather than what we may be displaying by virtue of our own ‘fight’ with life – we cannot but be pulled ‘up’, and back home to our own true nature.
I totally celebrate with you, that you’ve allowed this, and the consequent dropping of the fight K.B.. The world may be full of that which resists our love, yet those who know and live love are so deeply needed, that others may be so fully met, and contemplate changing their own lives, that they too shine for all to see.
What an incredible U-turn on life, on relationships and on love KB, This is an enormously heart felt testimonial about Serge Benhayon, also showing how every person has the capacity to be that refection for each other, to meet in full with no judgment.
K.B., this is an absolutely gorgeous blog. I can feel your sincerity and your honest expression that holds no judgment. Just beautiful.
What a glorious testimony to the truth that we are each the many reflectors of each other. Our responsibility lies in knowing exactly what it is we are reflecting. Are we reflecting the ‘all that we are’; the love, the truth, the joy, harmony, stillness and endless wisdom, so another can see and therefore make the choice to live all that they are too? Or, are we reflecting ‘all that we are not’, the misery, the hardness, the trying, the pleasing, the niceness etc. so that others are confirmed that living less than the all that we are is ok and perhaps even ‘normal’ because it is so common? The more of us that choose to unashamedly and magnificently live the Light of the Soul here on Earth, the more mirrors we will have to reflect back to each other that we are so much more than we play ourselves to be.
Serge Benhayon is a bright and burning reflection of what a Son of God looks like in human form and the power of his reflection lies in the fact that his expression of this light, the One true light which we are all seeded from and each hold deep in the core of our being, does not flicker or falter but is as consistent as the new day’s sun. We are each the many Sons of the One true light that burns within us all and it is our responsibility and our deepest joy to live this light in full so that we all may all arise from the shadows in which we have fallen.
True beauty in your words Liane… Meeting Serge Benhayon showed me that for each and every one of us, our light can shine with the consistency of the sun. Life needn’t be a roller-coaster of self-created and perpetuated dramas, but can actually be deeply enriching, purposeful and full of God’s Joy – and yes, it is actually our responsibility to live this in full, that others may know they needn’t give up, on themselves or the humanity that surrounds us.
Spot on Liane. Each and every one of us is a constant reflector. It is our responsibility to be aware of exactly what we are reflecting. Serge Benhayon provides a role model and example of the miracles and healing available to all when someone chooses to reflect the light of the Soul on earth. What Serge reflects is the essence of who we ALL truly are, our evolution and what we are returning to. As we know at present it is much more common to be faced with the reflection of the hate, abuse, struggle and conflict that is all that we are not in truth, but a reaction to how much we miss our true essence and an example of our willful irresponsibility.
Beautiful Liane, it is important to understand the responsibility of our reflection and the way we are all here to help each other return to the love we all come from.
‘unashamedly and magnificently live the Light of the Soul here on Earth.’ This line is magnificent! It is who we are through and through. The shadows I once lived in are burned away like sea mist on a super sunny day. There is nothing stopping us live this and lighting the world up with our reflections.
Great questions to ask ourselves, ‘Are we reflecting the ‘all that we are’; the love, the truth, the joy, harmony, stillness and endless wisdom, so another can see and therefore make the choice to live all that they are too? Or, are we reflecting ‘all that we are not’, the misery, the hardness, the trying, the pleasing, the niceness etc. so that others are confirmed that living less than the all that we are is ok and perhaps even ‘normal’ because it is so common?’ It is our responsibility to check if we are living true to ourselves and reflecting our magnificence at all times, and so inspiring other people to be in their fullness.
Over the past 10 years I have slowly been waking up to the fact that Serge Benhayon is here to show us all that true love does indeed still thrive in this world and that we can build this quality of love in our own bodies, not for personal gain or betterment, but so as to reflect this love to all others, giving the same precious gift that he has given to us, so that love eventually becomes our predominant way again on this planet.
Yes Andrew I totally agree this all encompassing Love that Serge Benhayon reflects is such a confirmation that it is possible for us all to connect to with Serge being the first person who teaches and supports us to do so. Each choice that we make, every move that we make, every word that we speak has the potential to be the enormous Love that we are. I am eternally thankful that I have meet Serge Benhayon as living life with this true Love that I keep deepening moment by moment is the true purpose of why we are here.
This has been my experience also Andrew, and beautifully said. What you describe cannot be underestimated, for I don’t hesitate to say that the bulk of humanity is deeply given up on life – evidenced by the myriad of self-harming habits and activities involved in the everyday activities of so many… To have such a turn-around, and no longer feel given up, or seeking just a ‘safer patch’ for oneself… but rather be concerned for the all, our impact upon the all, and a sense of how great a love there actually is for us to live…? All I can say is wow – hats off to Serge Benhayon for inspiring so very, very many people at such an absolutely fundamental level…
Yes, here is a man that has not given up on true love like so many of us did and who knows the power love holds and commits to it 100%.
I felt exactly the same way when I first met Serge Benhayon. It was like he saw through all of my guard, protection, hurts, behaviours, faults and the front I was putting out and saw the real me instantly. Your description KB of paper thin walls is very apt. It brought me to tears to feel this amount of love for I knew instantly that this love is what I had been searching for all of my life. And the best bit was that once Serge had shown me and held me in this love, he then immediately showed me that I can love myself and hold myself in the same way.
Beautiful sharing Andrew, in the face of love we are willing to drop all of our protections and stand once again in the Son’s light in all our preciousness and delicateness.
This blog contains the real meaning of life.
Which is quite simply to arise back to the love that we are. The ‘secret’ of the alchemists’ is not so secret and in-truth never was, it was simply bastardised so it could be ignored to buy us more time to live less than who we are. True alchemy is the ability to transform the ‘lump of lead’ that our bodies become when starved of the light and love of the Soul, back to a vehicle of love; the golden sun (Son) that is the embodiment of God’s light on Earth. This blog shows us how simple and normal true alchemy is and that within each of us lays the ability (the Philosopher’s Stone) to transmute the seeming denseness back to the light of our love.
That’s beautiful Liane
Wow Liane, what a gem of a comment! I can so relate! – how the body becomes heavy like lead when we deprive it of God’s light, such a simple marker that shows us exactly what we have been up to. And so valuable to read all these blogs how this can be undone with a simple choice.
Thank you KB for your very honest and powerful blog. You have exposed something important here which is that the world has a so called formula for success and happiness which is supposed to work but it clearly doesn’t as there are many who have the job, the lifestyle etc but are still miserable or plagued with mental health issues. And you have given us the answer though your own life experience of how to truly feel fulfilled in life.
I am really glad that you have shared this K.B. because when you are in the midst of self-loathing you cannot see a way out. I too have felt that Serge Benhayon meets you on a soul level and knows all the behaviors and attitude comes from hurts, which can be healed and discarded. The person that is underneath all those behaviors is naturally loving, and we are all the same, access to our souls is equally available.
So true, underneath the blemishes and hurts and protection we are all the same and we all have our Soul to connect to and live life from that foundation.
We are all souls on this earth finding our way home… When I first met Serge Benhayon was when my path of return initiated.
How truly freeing it is, to start to deeply connect with the truths you have shared Bernard. Whatever behaviour we may ‘display’, if it is not essentially loving, it is not who we truly are.
What a blessing to be met by someone such as Serge Benhayon, who sees through our self-created and designed ‘smoke-screens’ – the miasmatic constructions of our own making through which we have deftly hidden the immense love our our true nature and avoided it at all costs… To be met by someone who ‘sees through and sees you’, no matter what.
Most surely, we are offered a golden opportunity to drop the fight we’ve lived with for so very long…
My first impression of Serge Benhayon was extraordinary in its ordinariness. There was no exhilaration, in that moment, simply a sense that I was, because of his reflection of love, coming home to my own love after a very long absence.
Beautiful expressed Jane and my sentiments exactly on my first meeting Serge Benhayon, I was; ‘coming home to my own love after a very long absence’.
And it began a long and everlasting love affair with myself.
All that amazing change and discovery of yourself from meeting someone who truly saw you as the beautiful woman you are. If we consider that this is possible for us to do too then how awesome it will be when we can all meet anyone with that solid foundation of love and reflect to the world that we are all this love in essence.
Beautifully said Amanda. This is precisely how our world can change, when we truly allow ourselves to be such a reflection to all, and live in and with the deep responsibility that enables us to be so.
Serge Benhayon is loving with everyone he meets, and is a great friend to so many!
Serge Benhayon has a way of showing people that no matter what your choices are, or what you hold against yourself and there, there will always be something reflecting light, trust and divinity in the world. Thank you Serge Benhayon for always reflecting that it is okay to trust.
This simply cannot be stated enough Harry. Knowing someone we can truly trust – who is an absolutely unwavering presence of love, integrity and truth in this world, means everything.
For without such a presence, or I should say presences (plural 🙂 ), we remain lost in our given-upness, distanced from the fact that we can ourselves, be so truly gracious and grand.
Agreed Harry, Serge Benhayon offers us all the opportunity to trust again that we are the sons of God and that it is our divine right to live in harmony, to be in our glory of love and joy and not in the illusion of playing small and struggle that we have bought into.
This is an important point Brendon considering that Serge Benhayon has been touted as being extreme and radical when what is truly being presented is about making consistently sensible, loving choices as K.B. has brilliantly described.
Simon so true, what I’ve seen is that the presentations of Universal Medicine are really simple and practical. Nothing radical or against what feels true. Yet when you consider all the other activities people engage in, something they are free to do, its clear there is nothing extreme about Universal Medicine. Why then so much effort to attack a very simple and loving way of living? The only answer I can come up with is because its true and asks us to be loving and responsible for the way we live.
Serge Benhayon is the most beautiful man I have every met. Not only for his looks, it goes way deeper than this. Serge Benhayon’s eyes were the first thing that I noticed and still to this day I can’t keep my eyes of them. Everything that emanates from Serge is simply Glorious. I love being in Serge Benhayon’s presence – always have and always will.
Like you KB when I met Serge Benhayon I felt how he saw me in my deepest essence, through any of the stuff I was projecting out or walls I’d put up. And in doing so inspired me to bring more of this essence (love) out and realise how there were guards and personas that I held that served no-one. To this day every time I see him he meets me for who I really am and never less than this.
Just pondering how much amazingness I actually allow myself to embrace about myself? What would my day feel like when everything I touched, wrote, spoke and glanced upon was done knowing that I am truly equal to the divinity of god and the universe? I know one thing from being in the loving reflection of Serge Benhayon – it is sure worth giving a ago.
A beautiful testimony to Serge Benhayon and yourself K.B. – one of the things that stood out for me was this ’I am no less and no more than another, I do not need to do anything to gain favour, and I know that we all bring something uniquely golden to the table that no other can.’ This is something I have learnt from Serge Benhayon as well, and because Serge offers the consistent reflection of this, for me over the last 11 years, this fosters true trust – something that is very rare in our society.
There are just some people that you meet and you just know that your life is going to change because you know them. That is how it was for me when I first met Serge Benhayon. There was nothing about him that looked or seemed different. What was different however was the way he felt to be with. I had never met someone before that meeting that did not imposed on me in some way or another. Serge Benhayon did not impose. He was just very still within himself. It stood out to me the freedom that stillness brought to me.
Serge offers an extraordinary example of stillness in motion. Like you Elizabeth, this is one of the things that I really notice about Serge, that ‘he is just very still within himself’. The reflection of this living way is deeply inspiring because it is equally available to us all. Stillness offers true inner freedom.
It is such a blessing to feel this absolute stillness within Serge Benhayon, because it is this reflection and his lived way that is so inspiring which as you mentioned Stevie is equally available to us all.
That is very true Elizabeth – after my first meeting with Serge Benhayon I knew that my life would never be the same.
What you’ve shared has touched a deep place in me Elizabeth, for I felt the same upon meeting Serge Benhayon. I met him in an esoteric healing session (my first), Serge was the practitioner that I saw. He was profoundly still and there was a depth, a quality to him and the space he worked in, that I at once felt deeply familiar with, but also, had never felt with any other practitioner, teacher or healer. I left that session feeling changed at a profound level – my mind not involved, nor able to comprehend the change… but I felt more ‘me’, and I would say, the natural power of ‘me’ than I’d ever felt. As you’ve shared, there was zilch imposition. This man asked nothing of me, and needed no aggrandisement. He worked simply, with the deepest of respect and integrity, and yet a claimedness in his person I’d never before experienced. That day, I know now, I decided to change the direction of my life, and reconnect to my own innate Godliness. How profound to meet someone who himself had dedicated his living way to embodying the Godliness within him…
This is very well said Elizabeth, after my first meeting with Serge Benhayon I could not have said what was so different about him, it was not his clothes, not his practice rooms, nothing on the outside but an inner quality that I deeply connected to and could hardly put words to – a feeling of stillness and divinity that made me feel at home.
A profund blog and I can see why you stay with initials. Your sharing is great and much needed about this man called Serge Benhayon.
The title of this blog made me stop and laugh and in my usual style I will say it as it is.
Well my first impression was – he is a bit ordinary. there was no ra ra about him, no flowers in the room, just a very ordinary venue, no staff clucking around pandering. Who on earth is this man. He dressed normal and nothing fancy and seemed to be like one of us but at the same time different. It was his steadiness and the way he spoke. It was gentle yet strong. What he had to say made sense but that would mean my world was upside down and at the time my head was strong. So I done my best to ignore and walk away with this internal fight inside me. I wanted to believe that the mess in my life was ok and if I listened to anything this man was saying then I would need to take Responsibility and walk the road to Truth. I done a runner for 6 months but my heart kept saying this is real and this time you will not be fooled.
I had done the spiritual new age circuit for over 25 years and was totally lost and had little trust in anyone so it is understandable.
Anyway that was almost 11 years ago. Today there is so much I can say about this man called Serge Benhayon. Not only has he given me everything to change my life, deal with my stuff – we call that issues and hurts and simply get on with it. I owe him nothing other than to live the principles and share what he is teaching. Not once has he ever asked me for anything but I do feel it is my Responsibility to continue writing blogs and comments about this man and I will do so until my last breath.
Sounds a bit of a strong claim – not really if you know me and my commitment and consistency. Nothing will stop me and I am here to express my Truth day in and day out.
Love Bina how you call this the ‘spiritual new age circuit’ it is so true – round and round getting nowhere, I also had done this for years. I now see spiritual new age pursuits as nothing more then exploitation of vulnerable people.
Well said Samantha, that is exactly what it is – I had been on this ‘spiritual new age circuit’ when I met Serge Benhayon and had spent a lot of money on it and it had led me absolutely nowhere, in fact I would say it had led me even more away from myself and the truth.
Bina, it doesn’t sound like a strong claim at all, because it is the truth, and I am sure this would be the sentiment of many who now have a connection with Serge Benhayon, including me.
Beautiful, Bina. You deliver the truth of what Serge Benhayon brings to the word with such candidness, and I have no doubt that this will continue until your last breath. Through your words and others, humanity will eventually come to witness how one man can change the world as we know it.
“I owe him nothing other than to live the principles and share what he is teaching.” Beautifully said Bina.
The greatest appreciation and ‘gift’ that can ever be given to a man such as Serge Benhayon, is to live our own greatness in full. And to express and live truth until our ‘last breath’. I absolutely stand with you on that – brilliantly said, and full of the love for all, that Serge Benhayon exemplifies.
Absolutely Victoria, ‘The greatest appreciation and ‘gift’ that can ever be given to a man such as Serge Benhayon, is to live our own greatness in full. And to express and live truth until our ‘last breath’.’
I love your writing Bina. . . you are a real inspiration! I for one am glad that you will never stop.
‘all the walls I’d put around myself were paper-thin’ – this is a great line. You can see quite clearly throughout your blog KB what an investment you made (that we all make) in putting up these defensive walls in their many forms and layers. It sounds so impressive, so complicated, that how could anyone possibly penetrate them to see someone gorgeous within? Yet love pierces the veils like no other, and Serge is the master in that expression. Its an incredibly powerful testimonial that you have written here, even more so as this has been felt by literally thousands of us, helping us all open up to who we truly are.
My very first impression of Serge Benhayon was when I went to a presentation in London and there was a very ordinary looking guy putting some chairs out and he walked behind me without imposing or disturbing me in any way, and I turned around and there he was. Then year in and year out I have watched him and what has really stood out for me is his consistency, which is unwavering.
Julie, I had the same experience when I first came to see Serge Benhayon – he was putting out the chairs and I noticed how present he was with each chair and then he got on the stage to present and as soon as he opened his mouth I knew he was the ‘real deal’ – an extraordinary ordinary man who needs no glamorous fanfare for he knows how amazing he is and he knows how amazing we all are when we let go of what is in the way of connecting to who we truly are.
Your honesty is deeply inspiring and your transformation truly remarkable. The power of being seen and loved for who we are in essence is incredible and was clearly all you needed to know you are worth loving and can offer the world so much when you begin to claim and live that truth.
So true Samantha, “…to be seen and loved for who we are in essence is incredible…” as this is what we long for all of our life. Maybe we are not aware of it anymore because we have given up on it ever happening a long time ago, but the moment we meet someone that offer this to us something is re-awakened inside and we remember.
A truly stunning testament to the power of Serge unwaveringly reflecting your worth to you to remind you how amazing you are regardless of your choices and in doing so inspiring you to make choices to reflect that amazingness. Just gorgeous.
The love that Serge Benhayon has for every single person is so humbling and inspiring. He reflects that we can all choose to connect to the beauty in others rather than put up a wall and judge what they have done.
Meeting Serge Benhayon certainly changes ones life as we make changes to love and honour both ourselves and hence others from his amazing reflection, inspiration and equality for humanity. Beautiful KB thank you.
So true Tricia…meeting Serge Benhayon certainly changes lives – not by anything else other than his consistency of love reflected for all to see year in, year out…and from this many, many people are inspired to change their lives to a more loving way of being with themselves and thus a more loving way of being in the world – this is true inspiration.
Serge effortlessly demonstrates the vast and endless love we have for ourselves and for humanity. Treating no one different to another, he holds each and every encounter sacred, because we all are.
How amazing Rachel is it that we have Serge Benhayon living this love so that we are reminded that we too are that.
I like how you use the word effortless about Serge, there is no game, no pretend, no facade – just plain and simple Serge.
I agree – it really is extraordinary how consistent he is – it is not to say he does not grow and change, because he has grown hugely in the time I have known him, as he has deepened his love and care and respect for others, deepened his connection to himself and the amazing person he is – he is never not evolving and yet he only become more himself as he does so.
Yes, Serge Benhayon’s commitment to humanity is that he never puts the brakes on, forever evolving. I cannot deny I am not like him, a son of God too (though I can and I do!) So why is it I hesitate and put a touch of the brakes on? That when I feel a moment of evolution I panic I’m going to lose life as I’ve created it, as I know it? – rather than supporting myself in this expansion and feel the great gift I am bringing to humanity too. What Serge Benhayon has reflected to me over the years is a beautiful, graceful deepening of his connection, his commitment and with God holding him every step of the way, as we are all held too. There is nothing stopping me from choosing evolution without delaying.
I agree – Serge Benhayon is there to reassure us that evolution is not only possible, but it is not scary or unattainable and nor do we lose out
‘I am starting to build a relationship with myself that isn’t wholly self-critical and judgemental. I’ve started to be more tender with how I am with myself and treat myself lovingly.’ This is beautiful KB and this is how we could bring up all our children from the start.
I agree Carmel this is precisely how all our children deserve to be brought up.
Maybe if our children brought US up the world would be a much more joyful place 🙂
Seriously though, children feel everything around them, and have much wisdom to extol and if their childlike innocence is not quashed from an early age and they are allowed to be heard then we can certainly learn a lot from them on how to be loving with ourselves and each other I am sure of that.
That is such a great question to bring up – what was our first impression of Serge Benhayon. My first impression was that I could not fault this guy. Until then I didn’t realise I had been doing this when meeting people. I wasn’t looking for faults, I can just remember leaving and saying to myself – I can’t fault him. It was the first time I had ever felt that in anyone. It wasn’t that he was perfect and I now understand that it was his quality of energy that was pure.
I can very much relate here Vicky, I remember seeing in Serge Benhayon a presence that I knew but had not seen before.
Same here Amina, I also remember feeling a presence in Serge that I had not been met with before, it is a presence that holds you and confirms you, without any words being used and is just gorgeous to feel and met like this.
I love what you say here Amina. I felt this presence and knew it to be true but I was baffled because I couldn’t work it out in my head at all. Many years later I am appreciating the potential to fully live from feeling and not coming from mental thoughts.
What Serge Benhayon presents always makes sense, and my first impression of him was that I knew I had found the truth and this man was able to give me the answers that I had been looking for, and five years on he hasn’t failed me once, not once, how awesome is that.
What I had been told about how the world works never stacked up with my life experience. The way it is patiently explained by Serge Benhayon puts it all together in a way that can be understood and lived.
It’s quite amazing that we can actually feel this the moment we meet someone and all in a split second really. It just goes to show that we are picking up on so much more than we often realise. This energetic communication is always there and we are the ones determining how much of it we allow ourselves to become aware of.
Good point – it is not at all about perfection and Serge Benhayon is the first to say as much. But there is in him an incredible steadiness and foundation of true and unwavering love that does not need anything from the outside and leaves you be and that also had not ever found anywhere or in anyone else.
Vicky you’ve highlighted how I used to meet everyone – finding faults in them. I’d tell myself this was a way of protecting myself so I could defend anything that came my way. But actually it was me finding excuses to hide, see, the world’s unsafe to be vulnerable and sensitive.
Since meeting Serge Benhayon and seeing how he is with people – like he is pure love with them all the way – I too have begun to see the light of the soul in another before any of the other stuff and actually feel the other stuff isn’t them. Work in progress on this but sometimes it really takes me aback. Feels so joyful, a great warmth within.
The first time I talked directly with Serge Benhayon I remember feeling like I could see the whole universe in his eyes, there was such a depth of wisdom in them I was quite blown away. The unconditional love I felt in his eyes offered a divinity that felt so familiar, I knew then that this man lived a differing quality to what I had so far experienced. Serge Benhayon has since never failed to astound me by his total dedication to humanity and love of all people -equally so.
Yes me too, Samantha. When I met Serge I could see everything that I had known and felt heaven to be right there in his eyes. Just that in itself made me cry for joy, as it felt like coming home.
Serge Benhayon’s eyes reflect the All that is and that awaits us when we return to the love that we are. This we can do in the blink of an eye if the will to do so is there. Divinity is simple, it’s the everything else that is not!
I agree Samantha, the first time I met Serge Benhayon it was very evident that here was someone who was living a different quality, from the feel of his hand shake to the look in his eyes. And whenever I am feeling impatient with someone, I always think of Serge and his incredible way with people, never in a hurry, never expecting anyone to “get it”, continually presenting the truth year in year out with no investment or agenda. It is mind blowing and thank God it is, because it de-configures all the barricades we create to sabotage true relationships and brings us home to the bare essentials we all desire, to be held in love because that is who we really are.
Reading your reply Rowena has brought tears to my eyes, I deeply appreciate the love this man shares and inspires in us all.
Reading your comment Rowena made me remember a time a few weeks back when I wasn’t feeling that well but had a really busy day and was constantly seeing people in group work and one to one’s and at the end of the day there was still another person I needed to be with and I could feel a part of me feeling that I needed time out and time to be with me! and that is the moment when I thought of Serge Benhayon who tirelessly see’s people in breaks during or after courses or workshops, with emails, it NEVER stops he is always with people or working to support them. It was a humble moment to feel and remember this and then I saw I had a lot more to give instead. Also it gave the game away in how I had been living in that I wanted ‘time out’, if I wanted ‘time out’ it showed I hadn’t been truly deeply connected with me in all of those moments throughout the day .. hence why I wanted ‘a break!’.
Serge Benhayon is so deeply, and consistently inspiring Rowena… Reading your words, I am reminded of feeling some tensions this morning – subtle ones, but tensions that led me to ponder deeply whether I held onto any investment in another/others whatsoever… There was nought for my ‘mind’ to work out in regards to the situation at hand, so I lay down and allowed my body to surrender very deeply. I thought of the depth of Serge’s love, and the continuance of his holding all in this love (no matter what), and something just let go… and a depth of wisdom was there, a timelessness in observing the situation at hand, and letting all its players make their own choices, whilst totally honouring my own steadfast commitment, and the knowing that I will know how and when to respond to the situation at play, as needed.
I love your comment Rowena, I too think of Serge Benhayon when I’m in a hurry and tempted to basically ignore a person (big, big ouch!) because I’ve got ‘so much to do’. He would never do this, always has time and space for everyone he meets. So now I am aware whenever I have an agenda when I’m with someone, sure it maybe filling out a form for them, but if I don’t do it truly being with them but focus on getting the form done because I have a deadline, well, that’s not love and it’s not what we’re here to reflect. I’d never have fully appreciated this and certainly never practiced this had I not met Serge Benhayon.
Yes Rowena, Serge Benhayon has no investment in us ‘getting it’ so he does not feel impatient or frustrated but he is constantly offering us an opportunity to walk beside him and he is tireless in his presentation of truth.
Yes thanks God for the endless dedication Serge Benhayon has in sharing the Absolute Truth and Love from where we all come from. We can try and deny that we don’t want to be held in the Love that we already are but the first time I ever felt this Truly and continually was from my first meeting is with Serge Benhayon and this Love has only ever got stronger and stonger because I surrender more and more to it and allow it in.
Gorgeously expressed Rowena. Your words confirm that the love in you, is the love in me. We are the mirrors of Heaven when we let this love shine out.
I know what you mean Samantha, words cannot describe the feeling I have when I have spoken to Serge, he is pure divinity itself, and when you feel it, you know it… we are all divinity, that is what is so beautiful, he reflects what we all are back to us and it is this remembrance that is felt. Even though we may not want to remember how far we have strayed from our own divinity there is no getting away from what our bodies feel in his presence.
The words that describe my first meeting with Serge Benhayon are “family reunion”. It was like seeing a dear, dear member of my family whom I had not seen in ages. There was (and still always is) such a deep presence of welcome around him.
Naren this is gorgeous. And what’s so lovely is we can have this openness with everyone we meet. When people respond it’s amazing, sometimes people are preoccupied but I can understand this because I too can be preoccupied and miss opportunities to connect but I’m learning, we all are.
Very true, Karin. It is common for us to meet people whom we wonder how it is that they are able to be so open, or so wise, but usually we walk away left to ponder and wonder. Serge Benhayon right from the start, has always been completely forthright in the fact that openness is something that we can (re)learn and is a natural state for us, not one for just a few. Your are right, it takes some time and some application, but I have found that it can be so amazing to let myself be open more and more.
One word sums it up Samantha, doesn’t it… “Love”
Serge Benhayon is the ‘real deal’ of love – all that it truly is, as it can be lived in and through every one of us. To be met by love, is to meet ourselves – this recognition of who we truly are is undoubtedly what changes the world… We all do know the truth of what love is. To know another who embodies love so deeply, in his dedication to all and ‘the all’, is the greatest blessing I know on this earth.
Hear hear Samantha to all you share here.
Dear K.B., I really appreciated the honesty with which you’ve shared about how you lived. Life and conversations seem so edited nowadays, so everything that’s really happening is going on behind closed doors so to speak. As a community we really need to hear how life truly is for people, and begin understanding one another. Including your experience of theft has supported me to understand why people do this. I can really understand all of your earlier choices and also the healing you received from the way Serge Benhayon related to you – a very inspiring blog to read. The thing I appreciated the most is you let me completely into your life, not just sharing the “good” bits, but shared everything – thank you.
That was my experience today as well Melinda. For the the line that stood out was how worthless KB felt but how arrogant she.he was by thinking they knew best. I have met many people like that (myself included some days!) and often you only see the arrogance and can judge on that but this deepens our understanding of what can be lying underneath and drops the judgement as well. We need to hear more stories in our community about what is truly going on for people.
I agree with you both in regards to we need to hear more of the truth that is going on in society and I feel this is starting to happen (although not fully) and when we do hear about all the ugliness, stress (even from year 6 children!) exhaustion, illness it is not to go into overwhelm (which can be easy to do) or reaction but honestly ask ourselves how can we change this and support both ourselves and others. This is something Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine asked a long time ago and have been working on and with ever since, they are turning the tide reflecting there is another more self-loving way to live.
Hi Melinda and Sarah, thank you so much for what you’ve said. I know if I’m understanding of another and myself my life transforms. Lately I’ve been a little more honest with myself and observed instant judgements of people, myself included and how this instantly corrupts relationships. So, I’m working on understanding, allowing another space to simply be wherever they are at – letting go of a tired old belief that I have to do something to change the world rather than hold someone and myself in love and understanding.
So I’m putting to myself the question: is it possible to acknowledge that even those things we’ve done that we knew were a bad idea and didn’t feel good, even at the time, we actually didn’t know any better? E.g. I remember feeling great sympathy for someone close and wanting to help her but then having a huge reaction to something about her and being very verbally abusive. Each time I vowed I’d never lose it like that again. I could feel that wasn’t who I was and it wasn’t the image I was working towards of how I wanted to be – perfect with everyone so I judged myself, felt bad about who I was which led to bigger reactions. No excuse for my abusive ways but this didn’t change because actually I didn’t know any better.
In this example things have changed so that yesterday I was appreciating just how gorgeous it was to speak with this person and feel her giving herself the space to be herself. She’s super great fun to be around now I’m not trying to mold her to be a certain way. Again, I didn’t know any better like lots of people. This understanding helps me drop the judgement and arrogance that pigeon-holes people. I know I can allow myself and others greater space to be.
The honesty and lack of censorship in K.B.’s blog is so deeply refreshing Melinda, I agree. Along with the awesome quality that K.B. holds, of holding all of her past experiences in such a loving light – to move beyond self-condemnation so powerfully stands testament to the power of love that Serge Benhayon shares with us all. Wow.
It is truly beautiful to read all there is to a life, not just the good parts or just a part of the bad ones. But just shared from the honesty we all have in us, and see that there are points in our life that haven’t been beneficial for our evolution.
And it makes no sense that we should fight our own light, but we do. It is great to learn we do not have to live with regret when we wake up to how we have been living because love does not judge, it understands with deep compassion and knowing why we chose what we did. This is the place that Serge sees us all from.
Absolutely Kate… and being seen from this place reminds us of the deep love, understanding and compassion we should have for ourselves… and what is possible when we stop resisting all that we are.
Yes, Kate, Serge Benhayon has a deep understanding of why we make the choices we do, even if it is to turn our backs on God, and he does not ever judge. This is true compassion and he just keeps presenting the next evolutionary step knowing we will walk beside him one day.
This is so beautifully said and so true Janet, I myself have never met a man (or woman) that holds such deep understanding and acceptance of people before I met Serge Benhayon.
He has so much patience and love, with no expectations or impositions.
This is so true katechorley, Serge DOES see us all from a place of true compassion and never does he judge anyone, not one jot, because if he did, I am sure we would all be able to feel this, but instead we have a man who is all abiding love to guide us through the what is not, back to the what is true…. once again.
Yes, it is Serge Benhayon’s absolute reflection of love, the love we all are, that we cannot find fault, that we cannot continue to make excuses and deny we are this love too when we see it in it’s absoluteness. It is then that we can see it in ourselves and see it in others through the imperfections that we indulge in.
All you say Kate is true and just this simple 4 words ‘love does not judge’ is enormous as many of us live lives judging ourselves and others, its very harsh and debilitating. Where the understanding love brings melts the walls of judgement and allows the sun to shine.
Unfortunately that ‘depression’ you speak of is actually accepted as a normal way of being.
Hello Doug and mine was a little different. I knew there was something different about Serge Benhayon when I first met him but I was unsure about what that was. I watched him for a while in interactions with people in crowds and one of one. I still wasn’t sure, I watched him with his family and with his friends and I still wasn’t sure. I watched him with people he didn’t know and generally I watched him everywhere. What kept striking me over and over was just how caring he was, but caring in a way that he didn’t make it about caring, he just was that. The man leads by example of how to live, live in a truly quality and that quality is there at your fingertips in every interaction with everything. Serge Benhayon is a great man and that quality we speak of has already gone deeper.
Great Doug thank you. It is amazing how the ‘image’ trips us up and as you say it is far far more simpler than that, “all we need to be is the true us and the caring is just a natural byproduct.” It just is who we are, no trying, copying, role playing, game face etc, just a very natural expression in every way.
The great thing is, love is eternally patient that no matter how long we delay it knows of our imminent return.
Serge Benhayon simply demonstrates what we are all capable of doing, to first wake us up to the fact that we are already amazing and then to live as an inspiration for other ourselves. This is how true love works, as an ever widening ripple that eventually touches everyone.
“All this because I met a man called Serge Benhayon who reflected back to me how amazing I am.” What a turn around KB. ….something so simple and yet so profound and Serge has the ability to naturally do this with everyone he meets. We are all amazing but we don’t allow ourselves to feel this, but here is a man who can reflect amazingness in every step and in the words that he says.
‘We are all amazing but we don’t allow ourselves to feel this’ I agree, Alison, we don’t and Serge Benhayon is showing us the way.
The joy oozes deep from you KB – the prodigal son returns. I can relate too many ways how your life used to be, and feel the joy with you as I read every line. This blog captures the meaning of Joy and how it cannot be without the sharing of connection with another. Beautiful blog KB .. more to come I trust..
First, last and everlasting impression of a man dedicated to humanities development
I would say so Joel and it made me realise that all impression we make are everlasting so how important are they then each and every time. Serge never ever switches off in full knowing and responsibility of this fact.
this is so true Carolien, I have at times notice my own lack of consistency with living what is being presented effecting relationship, when people see and connect to what they feel, the not to feel it within me, the next time we meet…
It is just that is it not Joel, a great reminder thank you that what we all need most is to trust that it is real and possible and only consistency can offer this. This is why we are all so appreciative of Serge Benhayon as without his unwavering consistency we would not have dared to go down this path of surrender and evolution.
If we know ourselves only by the false refections that are so abundant around us we will never come to the truth of who we are and that we long for so deeply. It is only through those who have returned to their essence and live from this place that we will be reminded of who we are. What an indictment to holding back that which we feel within!
K your story is an absolute statement to the power of reflection
It is clear to see that Serge Benhayon is a fundamentally brilliant person. And it as also clear to see that each person who has been inspired by him is also just as brilliant. And each person who has been inspired by all of those people are brilliant too. And so it goes on, until every person has been inspired and awakened.
I love this Shami, it shows how the ripple effects of a love filled expression operate.
The inspiration from one man offering true love is quite beautiful and amazing and the expansion of this from others doing the same from his reflection is truly phenomenal for all humanity.Thank you KB for your beautiful honest sharing and where you have come to is simply amazing also.
A gorgeous blog KB reflecting the love and constancy of Serge Benhayon – ‘The love and respect he has shown me has never, ever faltered over the years I have known him, no matter how much I myself have. Seeing how he is deeply caring and loving with everyone he meets has helped me to trust in love again and begin to trust and love myself’ – these words reflect my own experience and it reminds me of that first moment of meeting – and as you say Serge has never faltered. It was beautiful to read your blog and feel how much you have changed and how your relationship with yourself has blossomed and unfolded as you returned to your innately expansive self.
The foundation You have built and Your honesty of sharing here are so solid and so inspiring to read. Thank You.
Yes, K.B., Serge Benhayon has also supported me to see my amazingness, and the amazingness of all others. God never abandons any one of us, only we can do that to ourselves.
Wow KB what a turn around only because you met a man who really saw you. “My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!” So if there is someone who do not like to change life – avoid meeting Serge Benhayon . . .
Your comment made me smile Ester and the quote you mention here is amazing as it shows how immensely consistent Serge Benhayon has been through all the years.
Yes very consistent Carolien, a consistency I never thought that was possible on earth – or have convinced myself ‘that was not possible to live’.. When writing this, I understand that it actually always was possible, only the part within me (that has lived from irresponsibility) wanted to believe in this, in order to avoid its responsibility – to live consistently and stand for love all of the time!
I can relate to that Danna, not that I believed it wasn’t possible but more so that I felt that there should be ‘me time’ and ‘down time’ from being responsible and loving in all my choices. As if, if I lived it for the most part that would be enough and the other parts did not really matter or did not hurt anyone. Knowing that we are all one and every choice impacts the whole that we form together now shows how these beliefs are in fact harming.
When I first met Serge Benhayon he had not even opened his mouth and I could feel something was different to him than all the rest of the people I had ever gone to. I was instantly comfortable and at ease but what I could not get my head around was everything that Serge presented it felt like I knew what he was saying. Everything makes sense and if there was ever a moment of doubt Serge would have an exercise where it would with out questions show exactly what he was saying. But most of what I could not keep my eyes off was his eyes and the warmth in his face.
This line hits the spot for me “I’ve kept a belief that I was beyond redemption and this was accompanied by an immense guilt”. I ran with this belief myself for many years too (maybe 10) after committing to be a student of the Ancient Wisdom, and even though there was an immense healing I felt through courses and healing sessions, group work and modalities, and I felt amazingly clear, and still do feel clear, I was not appreciating my choices and valuing my new life that I had. We can have all the healing in the world to clear our stuff but after that it is our choice to choose the quality we feel after the healing, and becoming aware of your choices does not mean you focus on them, it highlights a better choice needs to be made.
Meeting Serge meeting me was and still is the most amazing experience. It opened me up to accept my feelings, and also provide a space to see what does not work for me. Serge Benhayon has sparked those deep threads back to the love I am. He unleashes your power. I deeply appreciate Esoteric Psychology and Esoteric Medicine and how Serge Benhayon lives, to access these modalities, and also inspires the responsibility that we can too activate this wisdom.
A great sharing KB, thank you. It is incredible how ‘All this’ is from one man, and, he has has inspired ‘All this’ to many, many people too. Amazing.
‘My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!’ I love this line as I feel any one of the students of Universal Medicine could say this. The consistency I have known in Serge Benhayon to love all equally is something I am only just beginning to appreciate.
Gosh you’ve got to love … or laugh at what is out there and what we try in order to come back to who we are. I was reminded of this when I read Primal Scream therapy!!!! This is no judgement, I have tried some crazy things as well all in the name of trying to heal me. When I met Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine the forever ending searched stopped, not because they are it but because they have helped me truly and deeply reconnect back to me. I now have an true understanding about everything and my health and well-being is truly in my hands 💕
Oh yes Vicky, I too have tried numerous techniques to no avail with no true healing, only temporary relief. What is offered by Serge Benhayon is extraordinary but not unique to him or anyone…it is available to us all. I was only too happy to drop all the techniques and therapies I was practicing like hot potatoes when I felt the truth of what Serge lives and his unwavering love of all people.
Yes agree Vicky, something doesn’t sit quite right with the term ‘Primal Scream Therapy’, it almost feels like a contradiction in terms! Thank goodness we now have something so real and so truly healing, that is the teachings of the Ageless Wisdom, and the question is how or why did we ever leave this is the first place?
It is profoundly empowering to take back into our own hands the responsibility of healing ourselves rather than looking to outside modalities to give us the answers. It is remarkable what this, along with some inspiration and a dash of love can do when it comes to deeply healing and turning our lives around….as seen by K.B’s incredible and inspiring story.
Absolutely Vicky, when I recount some of the things l’ve done in the name of personal growth, it is actually comical, and ridiculous at the same time. The most interesting question to ponder though becomes how on earth did I see them as valid, reasonable-sounding potential answers to my searching? One of the biggest game-changers when I first had a session with Serge Benhayon was that suddenly I saw things completely differently, like a fog was lifted… in a single session. I now look back and feel brainwashed, it was so easy to pull the wool over my eyes and convince me of all sorts of things that today, I see straight through.
K.B. thank you for sharing so deeply and honestly about your life. I was very touched by a number of things you shared, and particularly taken by your last line… ‘My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!’ It is the consistency of the reflection you described being offered by Serge Benhayon that has allowed the incredible change you’ve undergone to occur. This is true love… demonstrated in a way that renders every other form of ‘love’ we’ve come to know, as being not love after all. In the face of true love, you are a living example of what is possible…. amazing!
Hello Jenny and I don’t disagree with you or K.B. and I would say my first impression of Serge Benhayon has changed hugely but he is no different, it is my eyes that are seeing differently.
Yes too true Ray… I would say that my understanding has definitely caught up to what I registered as a first impression. There was no question I had met a man who was extraordinary in a way I couldn’t deny. Nothing could have convinced me he was otherwise as something much deeper in me knew that what he represented (and reflected) was undeniably true.
Hello Jenny and we are saying the same thing just in a slightly different way. In the beginning for me when I met Serge Benhayon I didn’t trust what I felt, in fact I can reflect now and say that but at the time I just simply didn’t trust anything. In time seeing how he was in so many areas of life, the deep care, the lightness, the support he has with everyone and everything my eyes opened further and I was able to catch what I was feeling. My first impression wasn’t really ‘mine’, it was born out of how I had been living. So I didn’t truly see Serge Benhayon, I was looking with everything I didn’t trust about the world. That has since changed and I know and see clearly who I am and in that way I am able to also see others.
A great point Ray… showing how skewed our ‘looking’ can be, and often is, laced with whatever we’ve taken on leading up to that point.
Yes Jenny I agree and you could say the true evil of it all is that in ‘looking’ you have no idea how “skewed” things can become.
Yes great point being made here… the way we live affects the way we will see things, in fact every breath we take affects the way we will see things… as I have discovered using the Gentle Breath Meditation. Within moments I can feel myself shifting perspective, as my breath changes quality.
Hello Jenny and yes the Gentle Breath Meditation we can use as a marker at the start. Don’t trust your eyes but trust how you body feels, so as you are saying, lose you breath and know that something has changed. Dedicated back to your breath and how it feels and then trust that everything you see comes from that. As you are also saying don’t worry about where your “perspective” has shifted to but more dedicate back to feeling. So if you walk and can feel your walk has changed, simply dedicate back to ‘your’ walk and then look. If we try and look before we return to our walk then what you look at will take on a different meaning, even slightly, “the way we live affects the way we will see things”
Exactly Ray… if we don’t change our breath, or our walk, then it’s the same perspective looking at the problem and trying to find an answer. Change the perspective first and restore our true breath or walk, and the problem most often dissolves in the process, with the answer being apparent in the shift.
Yes great Jenny and I agree. We only think we can think ourselves out of something. But as we are saying if you don’t change the movement, the quality, then it’s literally like the dog chasing its tail with no idea that it’s actually its owns the tail.
Haha great analogy, I love it… so true, the dog has no idea the tail is it’s own! Or does it? Are we really completely ignorant to the game being played… or are we deliberately playing it with the clear intention (however deeply buried beneath the surface) not to change the movement?
Yes Jenny ‘we’ aren’t “completely ignorant to the game being played” as we had a hand in how it was set up and now that we have gone around the board past go so many times it would seem, in fact we are convinced that we are not at fault. Not only that, now collectively we can’t see the whole board.
Thank you Ray and Jenny. A lot of revelation revealed here! Clearly proving that how we live, taints what we see.
Thanks Harry and it’s pretty amazing to talk about. There is a quality we can live or dedicated too that unlocks our vision and allows us to see deeper into the world, The Way Of The Livingness has supported just this. When I reflect back through life there was so many points that I had a chance to see more but, and as you are saying, the way I was living, the quality didn’t support me. Now that has changed dramatically and almost every day is a before and after.
beautiful Ray, every day is an expansion on the last and is also setting a foundation. The Way of the Livingness has allowed me to see further as well and have understanding of all of the queries I have had for a long time.
Spot on Harry and we can’t sit on a moment or a day. In other words any expansion is already leading deeper into something further. Absolutely appreciate every part but don’t sit on it and clock off. The Way Of The Livingness is named as such because the ‘living’ part is important, it’s not the moment and when you are ready the next moment Of The Livingness, it is The Way.
Great thread and a clear exposure of how our vision is always tainted with what we hold inside. It is complete package of everything undealt with, all our hurts and protections, mistrusts and expectations that blur our vision from what otherwise would be crystal clear.
Thanks Carolien and there is only one way out of this type of ‘vision’ and that is to walk with our body. We can think ourselves around the corner and back but until we truly walk the steps we see that there in fact is no corner but just an ongoing walk.
and so it is that we can see with our heart
WOW KB not only is this blog testimony to a truly great man but it is testimony to you. To have not completely given up no matter how low you slumped, but to allow your miraculous unfolding to take place from the moment you were truly met when meeting Serge Benhayon, is inspiring beyond words. Thank you for sharing your life.
Absolutely well and acutely said Giselle. It is our part, our choice – when we are met in love. Either to make our lives all about connection (love) or continue in the lack of love we had created. And this blog shows us the steps you have made KB to return to who you are, which is a choice you can only make.
K.B. you have offered many great points of reflection through your beautiful sharing. One that stands out for me is how much we all diminish our Light and reduce our greatness. You have shown how through the willingness to choose Love we can build our body of Love, through which we can return to being a reflection of the Divine Love that we all naturally are.
Serge Benhayon is a constant and consistent inspiration in the lives of many and what you have shared here K.B. is a powerful testimony of this. We search incessantly for a light that will illuminate, reveal the purpose of and bring meaning to our lives. At times we may give up and are misguided as to the light we pursue, but deep down inside we know there is something more as we find that we are still stumbling on a dimly lit path. I can remember how when I first met Serge Benhayon I felt instantly at ease as I could feel the struggle of searching melt away because deep down I knew that this was all that I had been searching for; my connection to my Soul. And so I discovered that this Light is real, it is here, it always has been, it always has been with me as in fact this Light is me, who I am within. It is my experience also that I was and still am met by Serge Benhayon, every single time, held in an absolute embrace of knowing the greatness that I already am and no less, the greatness we all are through which I am continually inspired to explore, claim and live more of our Divine greatness that we are all here to live.
Exquisitely said Carola Woods.
‘ I was coming home to me and to what I always knew was true.’ that’s so great KB.
Yes Jenny agreed, what I love about what K.B. has shared is there is not an ounce of giving her power away to Serge Benhayon, despite the clear and enormous inspiration he has been. To know that we are already everything, and that we already know everything is a key and fundamental starting point for healing… and something Serge teaches and presents constantly.
great point Jenny, Serge is empowering where may that claim to be actually allow people to give their power to them to make them feel good. Serge stand in and on his own and inspires all to do the same. A whole new living example of true empowerment.
Exactly Carolien… we are so used to our modern-day gurus who stand as an authority on personal growth or business success, our hailed super-mums who are across it all or the rich and famous superstar who appears to have it all… that we’ve lost sight of what true inspiration looks like. Serge Benhayon has re-introduced what it means to lead and inspire… bringing everyone with him, equal at every turn.
Absolutely Jenny, and Serge Benhayon lives everything he presents and more. I have yet to come across a presenter who does so to the detail.
Likewise Carolien, Serge Benhayon has provided a new benchmark in presenting for me, and is a constant inspiration personally in that respect too. To do so for days on end sometimes with zero preparation and never miss a beat, is in itself remarkable.
I agree Jenny it is an inspiration for me as well, to always keep being aware of my presence and quality as this will build the consistency that Serge Benhayon is living and which forms the basis of all the wisdom to come through exactly what and when it is needed.
Yes, and that completely debunks everything we’ve learnt previously about presenting… preparation, pre-written speeches, notes, rote learning etc. To understand that we access wisdom is something that will take quite some time to be accepted…
As this requires great trust, the willingness to let go of control and to surrender to something much bigger than ourselves. This is taking ourselves out of the way and that is the hardest part of all.
Incredible true Carolien. We got everything inside,
What stands out for me about Serge Benhayon is his unwavering and constant deepening love. His whole life is about love and evolution and never is this not his choice. He offers me and everybody who comes into contact with him, trust that we can be ourselves in a world that is constant communicating to us we are not ok, we have to be something and change. He is changing the world by who is he and the reflection he offers. He lives in a way we will all return to equally.
I agree with everything you wrote, Doug. And I learned truth is in my body and my body recognizes truth. That is what happened when I met Serge, my whole body screamed: this is the truth.
Gorgeous clarification, Doug. I experienced the same, for me it is a knowing a certainty that God exists and that Serge, his books, audio’s, presentations, workshops and company represent truth and divinity.
well said Monika, Serge is changing the world by who he is and the choices he lives on a consistent and daily basis. It does away with all the ideals we have about what makes a better world, and shows there is only one thing we can actually do and that is live love in the true sense of the word.
I absolutely agree Carolien. In a way the effects one man that is living like this has on so many others blows me away. What if each of us would do the same? We will get a unstoppable ‘love’ revolution.
Beautiful said Monika. What comes to mind is, that Serge Benhayon is never tired or giving up on anything. This to me is a very unique thing. Even when things might be challenging in life, or quiet tense, he seems to always make life about love and never give up. This is what makes his dedication (choice) second to none. And this is the absolute respect he offers people everyday. To never check out or seek relief – but always stay present and true.
Absolutely Danna, Serge his movements make sure he is the most loving, committed and dedicated man I know and all in service of humanity.
Can you imagine considering everyone in how you move – and being aware of the effects that you and your movements are causing? Well, it is all about taking responsibility for this fact. As we do make a lot of sense and effects on ourselves, enviroment and each other. And so we can only by virtue of denial not take responsibility, but the responsibility of you moving and being is always there. Even though our minds escape this fact. It does not change the truth that we have not taken responsibility before.
Which gives an enormous trust that we can restore brotherhood on earth. And that we have a responsibility in how much longer we avoid our responsibility and not stand up and say no to abuse. And so to claim the beauty within us instead of the crave for desperation, dispair and silence. Which just does not make any sense – again it is in our hands. We as a society have to say stop, enough is enough, we no longer abuse or continue to abuse ourselves and others. How far the desperation has come, is how far we let it come and neglect our love. Time to turn thide. We got this amazing strenght!
What a love to hear this, and so simple, how there is being shared what Serge has brought to your life. I am extremely well aware that Serge Benhayon, has offered so many people this reflection, and so many hundred or thousands of lives have changed. As so mine. Thank you for sharing this with us, it allows me already a new reflection that I can write simply about mine and share them with you also.
Hello Danna and I agree. What’s most significant for me about Serge Benhayon is that he doesn’t set out to ‘do’ all the things we speak of here. He doesn’t put himself into the mould of ‘life changer’ for people. What he does is live within himself, in other words he knows that the quality and the way he lives consistently with everything he does is then there equally in everything he does. It’s a no brainer, live how you see things should be. Serge Benhayon holds a great love for everything around him, it’s not about him but about the quality he is.
Great point Ray – its not about trying to do something, or be anything. Just living everything we already are.
Yes spot on for me Simon, you live who you truly are rather than focusing and putting energy into everything else. As has been said ‘live the future now’. So if you know how truly amazing you are then dedicate to living that now. Don’t wait to tick boxes, just truly live.
Yes Ray Karam, what comes up in mind when you say this ; that Serge Benhayon is the most humble man I know. And this absolute humbleness is exactly what humanity needs , as if truth was presented to us in any other way or shape or form, we would probably dismiss it , because of the hurts we are carrying. Also, truth is coming in truth – with a huge humbleness at times, as it expression might vary. But nevertheless, the truth is never foggy or unclear. And so what I came to learn by Serge Benhayon is that we have this huge capability of living the truth we know within , and so that it is lived by connecting to this truth within us, knowing that we belong to the source of energy that is divine fire. And so , as we look at life, we can see that there are two sources to life from: fire of prana (which is the opposite of fire, also known as separation to our one and only love (fire). And so he gives an example , by his own living, how to life from a deep responsible fire, and teach us all how to eliminate all the non-truths that we had chosen to life before. You could see life as an opportunity to come closer to our divine father (fire) and our deep loving soul.
Hello Danna, now that’s a comment. All this from a simple true connection. As you are saying it is that simple, connect to that “divine fire” and the rest, well that’s guaranteed if you allow it.
Well said Ray, you bring in the understanding of surrendering. Beautiful.
Thank you Danna and likewise. Life, well ‘living’ can be made so simple and while the mortgage, bills, work etc are all important, the quality you do these things in is the part that sings. Dedicate to the quality and it’s not that these and the pressure of them go away or disappear but you are different in them. You see them as an important part of everything but they aren’t who you are actually are.
That is beautiful said Ray, as our quality of being should be our number one before we do anything. As with our being we can do everything only.
Great and yes Danna, from our quality everything comes. So if you are feeling ‘off’, strange, not yourself, check the quality you are walking in and slow life down a touch and feel. A pause then to truly connect and away you go again. This may happen 1000 times a day but it is this dedication to our quality that brings the world to you and doesn’t have you chasing the world.
Yes Ray, what you mention is super important. It is our discipline to not wait, but to be super present and on to it , to at the time of disconnection, help ourselves to come back again. This could be like you shared Ray ; slow down a touch and feel. Allowing ourselves to have moments of stop during the day, helps us to re-imprint our fallen way (of disconnection) and helps us back on track – which feel more vital , then any holding back or continuation of disstress and anxiety (which means we are not connected).
Thanks again Danna and it is super simple but super important. Don’t chase the thoughts but ground yourself back into your body and breathe. As we know thoughts can at times run out of control if we allow it and so absolutely “have moments of stop during the day” but check in in every moment, we need not go anywhere, only within.
That is beautiful Ray, absolutely. It is all within. Thank you.
Absolutely Danna and likewise. This could be a simple fridge magnet.
Beautiful example, like doing the diswasher! So simple. And equally it requires presence and order, as this is our start.
Yes Danna and no matter how mundane the ‘chore’ it’s well worth doing with you. In other words and as we are saying be with or present in every moment you breathe, dedicate to this. If you lose it, don’t wonder why just return to presence in your next step and watch things unfold before your eyes.
Yes the key is indeed to not worry about the past step, but actually choose and focus on the present step.. As by staying in the past, causes for delay to return to our internal flame (our inner-fire, our heart). If we stay in the past, we do not realize that we hold back by not being in the moment/present time. And so we are not with ourselves.Which is important. As being with you is all that matters, even if you were missing for a short or longer time.
Spot on Danna and it’s so clear and simple when you write it like this but yet we are not always seeing it that way. It’s funny to watch how we are constantly trying to be dragged out of the present, why? Why are we constantly hooked into the past and future and not supported around us to be present? Because everything is in the present or the presence, there is truly no past or future as everything is with you where you stand, you only need connect to it.
And could it be Ray, could this simple be our way of avoiding our responsible truth? That is we are never complete once we have separated from our hearts and that so, putting focus on outer things might distract away the pain of the long given up part – that is – we had given up on living love and replaced it for existence, creation.. At the end, believe it or not, we have to feel it anyway – that what we have chosen has brought us further away from each other (and ourselves), and that it is our turn to be honest about it and re-turn again!
I love this Danna and here you have the whole dilemma, “we are never complete once we have separated from our hearts and that so, putting focus on outer things might distract away the pain of the long given up part – that is – we had given up on living love and replaced it for existence, creation” The only thing is that it is only the delay we can go to because and as you say, “At the end, believe it or not, we have to feel it anyway” There really is no choice as we see it but a choice or alignment of energy, one returns you and the other keeps you walking away, distracted. Both knowing you will inevitably end up at the same spot one done with grace and harmony and the other, well it possibly going to hurt.
We can maybe try to fool our eyes – but we can never fool our hearts – as we know the inevitable truth – we belong to a place that called home , which is not physical in any way shape or form but energetical. For us to return to the loving Son of God we are , instead of a spirit being that can not keep its hands of creation further here on earth..
True poetry Danna and in this quality not just something written for the entertainment of others but more a passage written to walk us out of the mess we have created, thank you.
And so, the choice is ours.
Yes very true Ray. We have created an ill rhythm on earth – and we have the power to clean it. As mother nature is showing us already, if she can , we can too.
Agreed Danna this ‘clean’ is done step by step and moment by moment as we have discussed. It could be possible that is what we are here for, not to clean up in the sense of picking things up but more undoing what we have created in order to bring back a harmony that once was.
Very well said Ray, it is all here, right here in this moment. Our choice to re-connection or deny what we got (which is staying in the past or looking at the future only). Instantly when we connect to ourselves, our breath, our eyes(movement) – we get to feel the state we are in (presence).
When we achieve a certain amount of self love we don’t get lonely. I was always needing to be out with people all the time before meeting Serge, I couldn’t stand being home alone in my own company but now I actually cherish the time and love my own company. Who would have thought?
Love that Kev. And life feels more and more naturally full of ease and harmony with less stress as I relinquish my need to control and simply feel the flow of life. I have so much more energy and vitality, Great to have this as my new normal – and it keeps getting better.
Great comments kev and Jenny, I also love my own company and life has become so much more full of ease and harmony with a natural flow that was not there before…I love this simple living which has given a greater purpose to my life as I share more of me and connect deeper with others.
That’s gorgeous kevmchardy and quite a testament to be able to say that. To be able to be alone without a myriad of activities, entertainment, etc and not feel lonely is something to be celebrated as it shows a level of connection to oneself where stimulation from outside sources isn’t needed.
Yes, I also love how my relationship with myself has been completely transformed. I no longer beat myself up as I used to and have a loving and gentle approach to myself. If you knew me 20 years ago you would see how incredible and transformative this change has actually been!
KB your blog is an incredible read from start to end. Where you were and where you are now are poles apart and it shows what is possible when a person is truly met by one who lives a life of absolute love and truth. Is this not inspiration enough for all of us who have been inspired by Serge Benhayon to live in a way that inspires others…this is true change in the world.
Yes Sandra, this is true change… and quite extraordinary to read. Sadly it is extraordinary because it is not what we are used to hearing or seeing. When I reflect on the way most agonise to bring about the smallest of changes in their lives, often to find themselves unable to sustain such efforts, I am deeply moved by K.B.’s story. This sort of change is definitely not the norm, and needs to be known as an example of what is possible.
‘Competition is pointless, and appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun.’ I love this sentence KB because in my opinion it simplifies what our priorities should be. Its not the house or car or amount of money we have etc that give life meaning, its the connection we have with ourselves and each other that brings true joy.
Agreed Debra, bringing me back up the list of priorities as a daily practise allows for all else that may follow on that list to be done in a quality that would otherwise not be there as would have an absence of me in it.
Awesome blog loved reading it
What an inspiring blog KB and a true testament to how we can turn our lives around when we are inspired by the love in another. The meaning of the word love has been distorted in our everyday language and many of us associate it with the romantic love we see on the TV or the possessive love we sometimes have for family. We think love is what another does for us. The teachings of the ancient wisdom as presented by Serge Benhayon has reconnected me with the real meaning of the word and shown me that it can be a way of living that starts with how we treat ourselves.
It is so true Debra that we seem to chase all of the ideas of love that exist outside of ourselves. This ideal never truly fulfills as the quality offered is empty superficial and only momentarily give a us sensation of relief. Yet underneath there remains a restlessness, a true sense that this is not it. True love is that which reflects the quality of the Love that is within us all, the Love we all are and the Love we are all are of, a quality of Oneness that is all-embracing and eternal.
That restlessness comes from the fact that we do know love. No question. And when we try to ignore it, or are pointed in the opposite direction, there is a constant itch because we can feel that bigness within and at some level know we are going in the wrong direction.
Yes I agree Debra – Love has had many concepts attributed to it that don’t actually reflect its true nature. The love that Serge Benhayon presents rings true for me in every way and is deeply inspiring.
Yes. To have access to these teachings has been the greatest blessing of my life without a doubt.
One of the great problems in the world, is that we do not allow ourselves to get honest with the true state of affairs of things. It is not that we should crave for a world where everyone runs around talking about how bad their life is, but if we were to sit back and honestly reflect on things, as KB did here, we would create an opportunity within ourselves and for others to reflect on life a little differently, instead of keeping the perpetual wheel of life spinning that everyone contributes to by numbly living life resigned to the fact that as there is no other way.
Adam, this is so true, ‘we do not allow ourselves to get honest with the true state of affairs of things.’ I used to avoid watching the news, reading the papers, I did not want to know about anything ‘bad’ that was happening in the world, it is only since meeting Serge Benhayon that I have started to allow myself to see what is truly going on and I love that I now say what I feel and have seen changes in my workplace by simply being honest and saying what no-one else wants to say or talk about.
True Adam, only when we each begin to jump off the perpetual spinning wheel, as you have described R Wingrave, will we begin to dismantle it. Serge Benhayon is living testimony that in fact there is another way, a way truly worth living, one that does not have us spinning but potentially walking with our Soul.
I loved reading this blog KB because it is a great example of what I am sure many have and are going through, and that life does not have to continue in the same vein. Thank you for being so honest.
Julie well said, what KB talks about is what so many face and experience yet few have found a way to heal and move through. It will be a blessing for those who’re in a similar situation to read and understand.
KB’s blog is a great example that we do not need to struggle and continue in the same vein. If one man, Serge Benhayon, can inspire hundreds to change the way they are living through the love he expresses, just image what those hundreds could do as they too connect to this same quality and express it out to others. The ripple effect could be enormous!
Completely Rachel, how simple is that !
Absolutely Rachel. The power of reflection is enormous. This highlights to me the responsibility we all hold to be honest and aware of what it is we are reflecting in the world. When we connect to the Love we all are this is then the quality that we naturally reflect in the world.
Agreed Julie, it is easy to get caught up in the illusion of externalising life and think the world is a horrible place, when we can connect to our essence and realise that love and harmony exist everywhere and it is our divine right for all.
“I kept on distracting myself with trying to achieve perfection in myself and my life and anytime I came close, I put a spanner in the works to start all over again.” You really show here how it is so easy to fall into the futility of ideals KB!
That is a great quote Rossana as it shows how we can keep ourselves going in circles in the comfort of having issues and problems. Without love as our foundation life just simply cannot be awesome.
Choosing to reflect love and awesomeness or that life is about issues and struggle… it is clear there’s a joyful, responsible choice to be made here.
Its a great line – and what jumps out at me is that no matter how big a spanner, or how many times we throw it in, we can’t break who we fundamentally, truthfully, gorgeously are. Its simply a question of taking the spanner out and hey presto, we come back to ourselves. That is the work.
A great sharing KB. I really love your blog and your honesty and inspiration. I
can totally agree with Your words on Serge Benhayon and his wonderful honest and loving way of connecting with all he meets. I love these words you share “Serge Benhayon has been a constant reflection o f my worth regardless of how I have lived.”
So true Roslyn and it is such a beautiful quality that Serge Benhayon has, that despite all those crummy choices we constantly berate ourselves for, Serge hails the most precious part of ourselves that we have been attempting to keep hidden and protected and hey presto, we feel completely met and honoured within the most briefest of meetings. Serge Benhayon has so much to teach us in how we relate to and respect one another, because this is not a case of glossing over the dross, but rather empowering people to deal with their issues from their true essence and thus see that our lack of self worth arises from the choices we have made but does not constitute who we truly are.
K.B, I so loved reading your blog, it caused the love I feel for this man to expand in and beyond my body. Gorgeous sharing.
Really gorgeous to feel how much you have come home to you KB and completely turned your life around through the inspiration of Serge Benhayon but also and most importantly through the choice you have made to connect back to the real you. I absolutely loved reading what you’ve shared as it shows change may begin by inspiration, but ultimately it is in our hands to love ourselves, know and see our own worth.
Exactly Jade, that for me was also a standout of KB’s heartfelt sharing, as it is from one inspired choice that inspiration carries forward for another to also feel inspired to choose love also.
Such a beautiful inspiring blog to read and know also.” Serge Benhayon has been a constant reflection of my worth, regardless of how I have lived. The love and respect he has shown me has never, ever faltered over the years I have known him, no matter how much I myself have. Seeing how he is deeply caring and loving with everyone he meets has helped me to trust in love again and begin to trust and love myself.” Serge Benhayon offers us a reflection of who we are , And a real honesty, knowing and deep love felt for all humanity.
So true Tricia, Serge simply reflects to us the full beauty of who we truly are, unwaveringly. What a gift we receive!
I agree Jenny, it is like remembering something we have forgotten eons ago. And he holds for us an unstoppable, unwavering love while we stumblingly remember how to hold this for ourselves. The greatest gift of all.
It is such a gift offered so graciously generously and with absolute commitment that respecting this and truly appreciating the preciousness of what is offered is a responsibility to actively choose and equally commit to.
Serge Benhayon is much more than a person, he is the light that lights up many and then these lights light up many more, so every single person who has been inspired by his light becomes a part of this.
I love that Adele a sea of lights illuminating one by one.
Yes Adele, like a star in the night sky re-igniting other stars that have forgotten they are stars – so that each one shines in its equal light – and only when each one has returned to its own fullness will the constellation reflect fully its light together.
This is a beautiful image, Adele.
And so the world is changed… Beautifully expressed Adele.
and so we can never underestimate the power of our light and the responsibility of our reflection to others.
Transformational to hear KB, and testament to the love of yourself, and also of love or truth too. Your blog shows the great power of choice in making lasting changes that benefit and serve yourself and also others too, brilliant.
It is so worthwhile making the effort to look at what holds us back and reconnect to the essence of how gorgeous we are, no matter what we have done. I remember when I started out on this journey thinking it was quite selfish, but as you say Zofia, the benefit is felt by everyone I know and come into contact with… and that is very confirming.
You are so spot on Simon – we are ALL deeply and profoundly gorgeous (huge smile!).
To live a way that truly embodies love – as Serge Benhayon exemplifies like no other I know – is the polar opposite of selfishness, for it is to live with such a deep responsibility in the knowing that our every move, impacts upon the all. All I can say, is ‘wow’ for the inspiration that Serge Benhayon continually offers, through the completeness and sanctity of his lived way, that is unequivocally for all.
Some of us seek temporal success, some of us seek spiritual success only to find that no matter how “successful” we have become with this term as defined by the present standards in the world, there is still so much which is missing. Our bodies know this and it is simply impossible to live this lie. We can try and that we do, by putting many layers of protection on and remaining in a thick layer of comfort to not feel a lie that we cannot lie about. The way towards the opening of true success, which is love and evolution, is when in honesty we acknowledge we cannot lie about this anymore and taking back our responsibility.
Thank you KB, great blog that touches me deeply, and what you have shared about the dove, which is “I was coming home to me and to what I always knew was true,” reconnects me to the heart of who we are. The other day a flock of doves took of and circled around our house and as they took of their wings clapped and I felt a true joy in the knowing I had returned home.
How gorgeous to live life simply in connection to the all, rather that be overwhelmed by all that life puts in front of us. Serge has simply reflected this other way and it is life changing.
Thank you Merrileepettinato for this comment. I feel that this aspect of my life is gradually changing too. It is so easy to be rocked about by the craziness all around us and by the harmful communication that is channelled and directed at us. With a continued commitment to myself and humanity and the Way of the Livingness as taught by Serge Benahyon I become a commander of true light rather than a victim of a similar yet just as bright other light.
Very true merileepettinato, Serge Benhayon has and is ongoing reflecting this to me. His way of living inspires me to make different choices in my life, in past years and now. I appreciate the support which I have through him and all the workshops and presentations of Universal Medicine.
I concur. Knowing Serge Benhayon has changed my life as well. Over the last few days following a web broadcast I watched presented by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine on The Way of the Livingness I am beginning to truly see and feel how deeply blessed I and many others are in knowing him. Serge Benhayon is a remarkable gentle man where sometimes words cannot fathom what I see in him and all he brings.
Yes Vicky – there are no words that adequately encapsulate all that Serge Benhayon has brought to my life and to many I observe around me. All Serge Benhayon does is speaks from the truth of which he knows and lives from his body. His presence conveys this fully just from being present and living life honestly from what his body calls for. Serge then shares this with others. Inspirational.
It can feel a little beyond comprehension how much this one man brings to humanity which would explain the actions of a disgruntled few.
I love this, KB. It is just amazing the difference that one person can have in our lives. Serge Benhayon has been that person for hundreds of people, myself included.
I agree Naren.. when one person living true to themselves, living love and holding all equally in that love, can be such an enormous inspiration to so many thousands of people, imagine when those thousands have unfolded to live that love equally in themselves – how might more people then shift away from the walls of protection they imprison themselves within, from the misery or despair, of living in seeming powerlessness, and hurt and anger against a crazy world that makes no sense. Because here is something does make sense, on every level, and in every way.
Yes, Annie, it makes sense like nothing else. What we have the privilege of witnessing is the moment the tide begins to turn. It seems like nothing is happening for a while, that things have stopped and nothing has changed. But in fact, it is an irrevocable shift that is occurring, inspired not just by one man, but by our own call out for the way to return to who we are.
Hear, hear to your words here Annie and Naren. In a world so heavily laden with despair, a difference is being made that is beyond measure, and is already evidenced as the model for true and sustainable change – to a way of living in deep, soulful connection, purpose and all that this entails… And yes, it is we who call for this. I would say that we all yearn for it, but it takes a particular quality and choice of our own Will, to say ‘yes’, I no longer wish to live in the shadows…
For it only takes the tiniest spark to ignite the fullness of the flame. Such is the way of true Fire.
Such a spark might be easily missed, and the fire may begin small, but the resulting conflagration of truth is unmistakable.
Beautifully said Liane, what a lovely reminder to take into my day thank you.
Yes Liane and what power this tiniest spark has that it can ignite the burning flame!
“When I met Serge Benhayon for the first time, I was a mess… incredibly insecure and defensive. I was in a constant state of frustration, knowing there was more to me than this protective facade I was living, but unable to unlock and express who I was.” KB when I read this I realised this is what was happening to me, but not so honest to admit it, thinking I wasn’t doing so badly, after all I wasn’t ill or destitute, but 13 years later I can see that there was a dishonesty in that I was not willing to see that my life was a mess too. A beautiful blog and a joy to read
Yes it is amazing the arrogance one can live in to defend the protective walls they are created.
I remember before my first Esoteric Healing Session thinking I was just going to check out this new modality believing I had nothing wrong with me, boy oh boy did I get a surprise as there and then on the treatment table and the love that I was held in there was no denying that I was a long way off where I believed myself to be. Breaking through the arrogance that ‘we are alright’ is first step in healing and can only be made if we are willing to see truth.
Yep. I didn’t ‘think’ I was a mess either, back in 2001 when I first met Serge Benhayon. But by virtue of the love I have now accepted and let into my life, and that I now share with so many, I can well recognise the deep lack of worth in which I (back then) held myself, and the difficulties, complications, and lack of true and deep care in the way I was living that was a natural consequence of this deep lack of worth.
Boy, has this changed, and it continues to change. There is so very much to appreciate in the changes that have occurred in this time, just so very very much…
What a joy to feel the unfolding you share KB, particularly the last paragraph. And the truth that your first impression of Serge Benhayon is the same, while being held in that reflection lives certainly do transform – I know mine has and still is.
Mine too Sandra. Serge Benhayon offers an amazing reflection and holds all equal to him.
We communicate so much, without even speaking, through the quality of our presence that arises from the way that we live. This blog is such beautiful testament to the power of true and consistent love.
Beautiful to read KB thank you for sharing so honestly and openly, so many of us whose lives have changed since coming to know Serge can say the same. ” My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!”
KB, this is a beautiful blog full of infectious appreciation! I really enjoyed reading it – your honesty and openness and the appreciation here are really inspiring. Serge Benhayon is a remarkable man – not because he is special and we are not, but because he is here to remind us all of how special we are and to actually begin living it. The only difference between most of us and Serge is that Serge does not allow one day to pass where he does not appreciate who he is and where he comes from and he lives each moment to the fullest, never once allowing anything to come between what he know is the truth and what the world tries to imply is the truth. And he lives like this because of his love for humanity. To have encountered a man like Serge Benhayon even once in life is a blessing indeed – and those of us who get to have more to do with him…well what can I say…AWEsome I say!
And the beauty is that when we appreciate these qualities in another, it opens up our appreciation of self and also of all those around us. Hence we feel the blessing of everyone. I call it a bit of a domino effect – where one domino affects the next, only we don’t knock each other down, we lift each other up!
“Knowing Serge Benhayon has changed my life”. I’m sure that everyone who has ever met Serge Benhayon can say this!
Very true, Rebecca. Meeting Serge Benhayon gives everyone the opportunity of a lifetime to return to the love they have always known inside.
‘Deep down, I knew that achieving any number of these things wouldn’t fulfill me, but I still clung to the possibility that achieving them would’. It’s interesting how strong a hold we have to something we already know isn’t going to work. I too have spent most of my life knowing that having for example, material things or achievments will not enhance my life, but it’s the fantasy around what those things represent in society that keeps us hooked into thinking we need them.
What we’re all craving is the same thing, and it’s simple and free. Love and connection is really the bottom line, the end game.
WOW KB! Thank you for sharing your story with us. That’s a pretty miraculous turn around you chose there. It’s quite beautiful to read about your openness to being responsible for the choices you made and then choosing differently. What a simple and profoundly supportive tool that we all have access too.
A very inspiring blog KB and what I’d consider a ‘good news story’ to be shared.
Thank you for this blog KB. Sharing your feelings so openly may look like your life was really extreme, but, I am afraid this is actually the normal for many people, which is quite shocking. What Serge Benhayon brings by reflection of having none of this going on and with that an amazing love to share is absolutely gold and I deeply appreciate this immensely.
Lieke, you are spot on – in today’s world this is the norm for most people – most people do live in much depression and angst and unhappiness. It is so important for us to always remember this – and bring much understanding when we interact with people, for many will put up a facade of sorts to in effect hide what is happening behind the scenes. Thank goodness for people like Serge, who simply by their presence remind us so tenderly of what we are missing most in our lives and are fully capable of bringing back in order to live life to the fullest and love ourselves and all those around us.
So true Lieke, my life was not far off K.B’s and to look at from the outside I was normal and doing ok. When I feel how far I’ve come, I can’t believe that what I was living is considered normal when there is so much more on offer. Serge Benhayon offers the most glorious reflection that I’m too deeply appreciative as well.
Beautifully expressed and so true, Lieke. So, so many people have the common feeling that K.B. felt when she writes, “Deep down, I knew that achieving any number of these things wouldn’t fulfil me, but I still clung to the possibility that achieving them would.”
Yes Jonathan, I remember feeling that when I was only 16! Just the devastation that that brings when you know life only just has begun. Meeting Serge Benhayon and studying the courses offered by Universal Medicine have inspired me to live in self-love and with a deeper purpose in life which I was already deeply missing at the age of 16.
“Deep down, I knew that achieving any number of these things wouldn’t fulfil me.” The ongoing search for something that lies outside of ourselves, will never fulfill. We can spend lifetimes searching, yet until we shine the light within, we stay in the same cycle looking for something that can only be found by going deep within.
Serge Benhayon is consistently consistent. Never a harsh word or irritation just compassion and pure patience and true understanding of life, himself and humanity. He is an amazing role model and I often think of him when I lose it (e.g.) get angry or emotional about something. The teachings and presentations on the Ageless Wisdom really support me to look to the bigger picture when I recognise that I am emotional.
Love this shevonsimon ‘Serge Benhayon is consistently consistent’ this is so my experience as well. Serge Benhayon is a true role model for how we can all live when we make life truly about loving ourselves and humanity as a whole.
How refreshing this is K.B – living life in a totally different way than has been the accepted normality for ions of time. Joy instead of competition and jealousy – why wouldn’t anyone want to meet Serge Benhayon and know this is true.
“Competition is pointless, and appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun. My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!”
What a true inspiration you are K.B. I absolutely loved reading your blog, your honesty and humbleness is contagious.
This is such a touching and deeply moving testimonial of both Serge Benhayon and you K.B. Reading your before and after is nothing short of miraculous. There is a huge amount to appreciate here – Serge for being the unwavering, powerful and most loving reflection and role model anyone could ever wish for (it is because of meeting him my life has changed extraordinarily too), and You, for putting in the hard yards and continuing to say yes to the Love that has be shown by Serge to be yours too.
K.B. – I love this blog and the complete turnaround you have made in your life from the true reflection from one humble, family man – Serge Benhayon. In 8 years of knowing Serge Benhayon I can fully agree with you from my own experience – he has remained consistent and totally dedicated to holding all in love equally so. From this we are able to let go of past hurts and bring the most beautiful true healing to ourselves.
When I read this blog, all anxiety leaves my body. It’s remarkable how words of truth have such a healing effect on one’s body.
Thank you for sharing your story KB – the way you expressed how you used to be was so direct and emotionless, like it wasn’t the real you making those choices. Your own healing is a beautiful reflection and inspiration for anyone who reads this or meets you.
This story and life change is one of many miracles that one man has reflected to those willing to look. Serge Benhayon doesn’t have to do anything or tell anyone else what to do, by living who he is everyone gets the blessing of his way, which is all our way too.
And in this way we all can live too – as a point of reflection for those around us. This takes a huge pressure off in the sense that we do not have to fix the world nor try to change people – for it is not about us doing it like that. Our responsibility lies simply in living in way that cares for ourselves and others, and allows the fullness of who we are to come out for all to see and be inspired by. Inspiration is the key here – not telling others what to do nor how to live, as you have so beautifully said Rachel!
You were clearly at a point K.B. that you were ready to come home, to let love in “When I met Serge I felt instantly that he knew who I truly was. I felt he saw my true worth and that all the walls I’d put around myself were paper-thin. I felt I was loved and accepted unconditionally without having to do a thing.” When I read this I realised that we are not always ready to see and accept a love like this – despite it being all we have ever wanted! It took me a while, and I am still discovering the hurts that I invested in in order to keep such loving truth at bay. But through Serge’s reflection I know that I am that love too and equally see and enjoy this in others each day.
A powerful testament KB. Speaking of Serge Benhayon: “Seeing how he is deeply caring and loving with everyone he meets has helped me to trust in love again and begin to trust and love myself.” What an immensely powerful thing true reflection is K.B.
Everything you have shared KB is huge and so worth appreciating as you have, and so is the very humble and wise man that saw you for who you are.
“…to trust in love again…” is huge. The extent to which we have given up on love probably is only fully realized in the presence of someone who lives love with every cell of his body and when we then start to open up to love again step by step by step. Why in steps? Because we have taken many steps away from love and with every step of our return to love we revisit the loveless choices once made thus it is an unfoldment of that which we have shut out before?
When I first met Serge Benhayon I saw him and cried. Could not stop crying, Tears were running down my cheeks like I was spilling over. It was like ‘the world I thought I know will never be the same again’ and I was so overwhelmed and touched of re-connecting with what I believed will be lost for ever. And here it was, sitting on a sofa, lived by a ordinary man and offered to re-connect to. Serge was listing, answering my questions and saw me for what I am. He was honest, open and reflective. I felt held in his love without any push or outcome orientation. After the session my life changed by and by because I felt inspired and pulled to live in service again. From healing myself, clearing my body and life from old hurts and beliefs, healing the relationships in my family and circle of friends. I became more committed to life and work, more strong and my expression changed from hard, unsure, protected, separated and arrogant to tender, joyful, powerful, light and connected – so I agree with you KB, “My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!” – And how!
Me too, Sandra. When I first met Serge Benhayon, I could not stop crying because in one session I was given back the one thing I had longed for my whole life – connection to my soul. I had almost given up on it and then there it was with me like an old friend that had never left my side…only I had turned my back on it.
Yeah, he is quite good in that, reflecting where WE turned our back on. Challenging some times….
Love it! Every word is a beautiful jewel of reflection offering that pull you felt from Serge to everyone else.
“I never feel lonely now, which is amazing.”
That is amazing KB, confirming, unearthing the true you right from the first instance, Serge Benhayon has inspired you to discard all the stuff that gets in the way of that – your dedication and commitment to deepen your relationship with self and take responsibility is equally inspirational.
“I no longer feel the world owes me, but that I actually have a quality I can give back to humanity by sharing and expressing…” It is quite a game changer when we realize that it is us who owes the world, simply meaning to bring forth all that we are for all to have the divine reflection of the unique expression of divinity that we contribute to the all just like all the stars shining their bright light to make the night sky a festival of universal glory for us to know that we belong.
And when we have an amazing reflection such as Serge Benhayon, who lives his whole life giving back to everyone he meets, it becomes more and more inspiring to live each day in the same way.
Love this Alex – the innate love and light that we can bring to the world and contribute to for the all, rather than taking for the betterment of the individual.
“we are for all to have the divine reflection of the unique expression of divinity that we contribute to the all just like all the stars shining their bright light to make the night sky a festival of universal glory for us to know that we belong”.
Beautifully written Alex, ‘It is quite a game changer when we realize that it is us who owes the world, simply meaning to bring forth all that we are for all to have the divine reflection of the unique expression of divinity that we contribute to the all just like all the stars shining their bright light to make the night sky’, this is so lovely to know that we are all unique, and all together make up the whole, none of us are less or more than another, we all have something wonderful and inspiring to bring.
Alex that’s a great point to highlight, we go through life waiting for what’s next instead of what can I bring to be of service in this world, to reflect that we are not just flesh and bones but carry a unique essence and the spark of God. It’s the reflection I received from Serge Benhayon when I first met him and life and reconnection to the spark!
I love your analoge with the stars in the sky, Alex, each of us is responsible to sparkle and share all of who we are. Holding back is the love and divine light we are is damaging ourselves and others.
So true Alex, a complete game changer. It’s another of those moments when you discover what you have been fooled to live for so long is in truth the complete opposite to the way you are meant to naturally walk.
…and then at some point we need to realize that we once chose to be fooled and fool each other, a mutual agreement to justify and hermetically seal the bubble we created we now call life. The game changer is in realizing the bubble and admitting that we have created it in the first place.
This can be painful moment indeed, a moment when we feel how we have said yes to it all.
‘I no longer feel the world owes me, but that I actually have a quality I can give back to humanity by sharing and expressing’. Feeling this new quality in myself has greatly supported me in committing to life and that my life has a purpose, and that we all have a purpose in life, which when we start living, all contributes to the greater plan for humanity.
I love your comment Jacqueline, not only have you highlighted a point that I overlooked from this blog, but expanded on it so beautifully too! An antidote for lack of commitment to life by giving back and gracing the world with who I am brings a divine purpose to each moment.
It sure is an antidote Rachel, as I have always had huge lack of commitment issues and a sense of not belonging or finding my place in this world…. always left me standing on the outside looking in. So what a turn around, to ‘gracing the world with who I am brings a divine purpose to each moment’. Beautiful how you express this!
I can relate to what you have shared here jacqmcfadden04. Switching our thinking to feeling we have something to bring to the world turns everything around. That feeling of purpose makes work feel easier and no longer a burden. Knowing we all have a part to contribute is very freeing and unifying.
Yes Debra, ‘we are all in this together’, we all have a part to play on the stage that life is.
KB I love the candid nature of this blog. Your complete honesty is so refreshing. Serge Benhayon provides an awesome reflection for us all, and this is so healing, but ultimately it is us who have to make the choices to change and love ourselves. It sounds like you are doing an amazing job.
To be seen and held by someone with love, care, acceptance and appreciation for who we truly are despite or beyond all the imperfections or flaws we use to hold against ourselves with judgement, shame or guilt seems to be so out of this world – and actually it is as it is the presence of divinity, the very essence we all are made of equally. To meet someone who has made his life about living this divinity in the human form, i.e. living soulfully or living as the son of God instead as the son of men, is the reflection needed to remind and re-awaken us to the innate knowing that we are the same but may not yet have made the choices necessary to make this truth a living reality.
The reflection of one claimed Son of God is enough to bring every single part of humanity back to our one unified truth. Like a chain reaction as more walk fully claimed so the reflections expand until there is not one Soul left behind.
‘I struggled to connect with people and kept myself hidden. I took on jobs that involved lots of time alone’. Oh how I have struggled with connecting to people all my life simply because I had no connection with myself, so how could I trust others when I could not trust myself as I had no sense of self-worth and felt deeply insecure. But I have changed a lot and no longer feel so insecure, but rather I can feel this solidness in me now which is so lovely to feel. I am forever grateful for meeting Serge Benhahyon.
“All the crazy things I berated myself for each day didn’t matter… I was seen and met for the first time ever. I could feel he knew my true worth way more than I ever did.” In an instant Serge Benhayon sees beyond the layers that we spend years identifying and tussling with and meets the steady you, the inner friend that’s been there all along, awakened from this moment forth life will never be the same.
A fabulous sharing K.B. that illustrates so clearly the power of love and tenderness of which Serge Benhayon is the living master.
Thank you KB, this is a great story of a complete life turnaround, from mental illness and eating disorders to beautiful vitality and health, confidence and commitment to life.
Carmel there is no doubt that this is a complete transformation and turnaround of every aspect of life. It shows that with a willingness to heal, and with someone presenting truth that anything is possible. What a great testimony not to some quick win or short lived change but to, as you say, a complete life turnaround.
KB’s blog is a testament to the fact that an eating disorder and depression need not be accepted as lifelong conditions with no end in sight – they are symptoms that something is not well within.
Well put Sandra, all illnesses are symptoms of us being out of our natural rhythm.
I always feel a great unease when there are actions that don’t treat people equally, which is why I know what you say KB about us all being equal is so true. Living this truth is one way we will start to address the ill behaviour that abounds our world.
Its great to feel so uncomfortable around behaviour that no one deserves as it shows naturally we know decency, love and respect.
Re-reading your amazing journey again today KB I can really feel how deep inside ‘you just knew’ there was more to life and even though the search took you to some extreme lengths you actually never gave up. That knowing was deep, as was the unconditional love you felt from your very first meeting with Serge Benhayon – being met for being the amazing woman you truly are. To know that each and everyone of us are met in exactly the same way – isn’t that beyond amazing.
I had an endless box of spanners to sabotage my self also. I had found that hiding in plain sight also worked for me. All of the wasted years hiding from my self and the loving and caring person that was screaming to come out and then I also met Serge Benhayon. The phrase ‘coming home’ is true but doesn’t quite explain in words the true feeling of the realization and the rediscovery of ones true self.
True Steve, it is more than just a feeling of “coming home”, but also a true sense of freedom when you finally realise you can release all the shackles you’ve used to hold yourself back or make yourself less over the years – sure it may take a little time and you may find yourself more than a little attached to some it is so worth the joy of settling into simply being yourself.
You write about holding ourselves back Hannah, and just the other day I was driving home and it hit me just how much potential I have stifled prior to meeting Serge Benhayon, and still am. My life and that of many others has changed beyond recognition, and continues to daily, and like you say the sense of freedom feels awesome in my body when you realise you no longer have to play the game.
Yes Julie, no more playing small or playing games 🙂
“sure it may take a little time and you may find yourself more than a little attached to some it is so worth the joy of settling into simply being yourself”… it sure takes the lid off the pressure cooker Hannah! Not having to confirm or squeeze ourselves into little compartment to suit others, we can finally lay down the hammer and stop bashing ourselves too, such a waste of time and energy that can be used instead to re-connect to what is already inside of us, and that is the tender, delicate angelic essence that we are, and who would want to bash that with a hammer! :-0
So true Sandra, laying down that hammer is such a relief. I still find myself picking it up at times, just testing the weight of it in my hand but it is never long before I catch myself and realise that that way of being with myself is old, and in total contra to that tender delicate essence I now know myself to be.
It was great to read your blog K.B. love has shown you the way home and you have chosen it, your story is inspirational in it’s 360 degree turnaround. Love knows no bounds, another beautiful testament to Serge Benhayon and the power of living love as he consistently does.
“The power of living love” without 1 ounce of emotion – that’s not only powerful, it’s true.
Absolutely Jennifer, true love that beholds you with absolutely no judgement or critique, just enormous understanding and patience in the knowing that we are all of the same divine essence, and that we are all from and made of this same beholding love.
Absolutely Shelley – K.B. made an absolute turn around, and this goes to show how powerful simply supporting and loving someone is, even when they are feeling very lost in life.
I wonder how many thousands of people this man has helped turn their lives around. I was stuck in the illusion of life in a horrible rut without being aware of it, although I certainly knew there must be more to life than what I was living. Along came Serge with literally all the answers, speaking words of wisdom like I had never heard before which certainly turned my life around.
‘I wonder how many thousands of people this man has helped turn their lives around.’ – Me too Kevin. And how many people would call Serge Benhayon a friend or even family? How many people thank God for meeting this man, a man who brings Heaven to earth with every step he takes? I am certainly one of them and feel ever inspired to walk a path of love here too, alongside Serge Benhayon and the rest of my brothers.
The numbers continue to steadily increase, as one by one, we choose to awaken from the slumber of our illusion, made possible only because one has done so in full; standing fully awake, Serge Benhayon is not here for himself but for us all to see that we can choose that too.
He certainly has inspired me too. How amazing is it that by just saying his name or even thinking about him, I can literally feel him, like he is there. He represents Heaven, being a grand example how to Truly live a life on earth. Humble, deeply Loving and Caring, hard working, relentless, super Power. Indeed Rachael, thank God for Serge Benhayon and thank you Serge Benhayon for walking beside us and always be with us – that is, all our Humanity.
Awesome kevmchardy, that you share about Serge Benhayon having all the answers because that is absolutely correct, believe it or not he DOES have all the answers, but he also shares that we have all the answers too, all we have to do is just be ourselves, re-connect to our inner heart and we have access to the true intelligence of the universe…. work in progress 🙂 !!
It’s incredible when you think of how many people’s lives have been altered and shifted for the better by one Man, you can’t help but feel the power of what many walking the same light would do.
Dear K.B. thank you for sharing yourself so openly and honestly with us all. It is rare for many to express how they are truly feeling, many are miserable and or unhappy but cover it up and make their lives look like they are okay and or doing well. Yet, your honesty here as with many Universal Medicine students is deeply refreshing, what is sad, is this level of honesty can make you look ‘crazy’ when in truth you are completely sane as you are willing to admit the world is out of order and its impact on you. Thank you again.
This is a beautiful, tender and honest article. A stand out line for me is: ‘I felt he saw my true worth and that all the walls I’d put around myself were paper-thin’, because it reminds me of two things: the futility of all the walls we put up around us – ‘paper-thin’ as in not protective in anyway and concealing our qualities and contribution to life and, second, the way Serge Benhayon meets everyone – with a practical, equal open-heartedness that reminds us of the ground we stand on and the innate ‘amazing’ we all are.
For someone reading this for the first time and having not met Serge Benhayon many might think that this could not be true, how can a man be spoken of in such a way is this for real and yet the facts are the facts, all of the above it true and this man is extraordinary and someone you can’t but admire.
If I had been reading this for the first time I probably would not have believed it either aminutumi, but being a seeker of truth, and after meeting Serge I have absolutely no doubt in my mind, and my body, that this man is pure magic, and I am no longer a seeker of truth because I have found what I was looking for, the truth. And somewhere out there, there had to be the true truth, so thank heavens for the dedication, commitment and consistency of the one man who presents to us all that we come from, and are made from divine love.
Thank K.B. you for sharing your views on how meeting Serge Benhayon has changed your life, as he has done to many by him just being himself in everything he does. Connected to the whole and never living any less, a life dedicated to support humanity in their return to the source they all belong. One of the most important things to me he is always sharing is that “Competition is pointless, and appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun.”
It is such an important point, Nico & and K.B: Competition has never felt right to me, but being in reaction to that is not the answer either! Serge Benhayon shows us through his living way, that there is another way, a true way, to live in true support of All. It is not beyond reach. It is there for us to step into, right now.
“It is not beyond reach. It is there for us to step into, right now”, I know this to be true emmadanchin, we are already it, we are absolute divine love, and I am told that the choice is a simple one, we can re-connect to this love in any moment… then why don’t we? Instead of claiming what is rightfully ours many of us run a million miles from it, so if it wasn’t for Serge Benhayon and his awesome reflection we would just keep running and repeating this same old pattern until we fall down to our knees in exhaustion and ask the all important question “who am I?”
We don’t, because we have purposefully chosen to allow ourselves to be tricked, blinded and numb to what we already in fact know. When we connect deeply within, we can feel that somewhere along the line we made this choice and it is that depth of knowing that strengthens to be our Will to see through the illusion once and for all. It IS easy and simple, especially when we have another walking beside us who is free of the oppressive force that seeks to keep us asleep and rather offers us the choice to awaken in full.
Easy and simple it is indeed Emma, if we choose to awaken in full there is that much support for each of us, an amount of support which is beyond our imagination. It all comes down to the point that we have to make the choice to awaken again and to return to our natural state of being we have walked away from ages ago.
Gorgeous K.B. I’m sure you get this a lot… but what a change! Serge Benhayon is an amazing man- super amazing. His tenderness and openness were my first impressions also. The way he is, is unlike any that I have met so far, yet he is inspiring so many to live this way also. Thanks a billion for sharing this.
Really powerful what you share here KB. There is a war going on in nearly every single person where the battle is us fighting ourselves. It is rare, and a true blessing to be in the reflection of another’s truth and love from the point of view of having ended such a war themselves. This is the true purpose in life and one that Serge Benhayon endless reflects eternally
Serge Benhayon offers us the possibility of breaking free of the illusion that we need to fight ourselves; that we are, in fact, the ones keeping ourselves from the loving intelligence that is not only available to us but in fact who we really are. Having freed himself from these shackles, he shows us that we don’t have to wait for any future time but can in fact, be living the future now; a future of love, brotherhood, harmony and true intelligence in all that we think, say and do.
Amazing Emma isn’t it that the war within us is being waged by ourselves and no one else.
Well said emmadanchin. Serge shows that delay is in truth not acceptable. It is a choice to not live who we truly are and keep the irresponsible games we play running
So well said Joshua! It is rare, but the more we all begin to accept and love ourselves the more opportunities there will be for true reflections in the world.
You are so right Joshua “nearly every single person where the battle is us fighting ourselves”… we hold a tension in our bodies by not living as our true selves hence all the numbing and distractions that we use to not feel it. This is a question I often ask myself, “why when I know in my heart that I am grander than I can ever imagine, would I choose to not be it”… doesn’t make sense does it. So having Serge Benhayon in the world is a true blessing as a reflection of what true love looks and feels like.
So true Joshua, to walk next to another who knows such a stillness in all its absoluteness is an incredible reflection and blessing.
Something that should never be under appreciated or under valued
Great point Josh, it is the war within ourselves that needs to stop for us to foster truly harmonious relationships with others and then we can begin to live in harmony with others. A way of being that we erroneously left long ago.
Yes well said katechorley. It is ironic that we think the greatest harm is caused by the war outside us, but in truth it is the war within that has the greatest calamity.
This is so true Joshua and beautifully expressed. To be held in the divine love of one who has conquered self and lives for all is the most gracious gift that reflects to us that we are this love too and that the war is just a game that keeps us from seeing that.
Well said Carolien. To many, the reflection of such purity is not always liked and even detested to the point where it is not seen as true love at all. How is this so? Because such a reflection exposes how silly and utterly irresponsible many of our constant choices our everyday which are not true or loving
I agree Joshua, we have become very invested in our game and seem determined to make it work while all around us evidence of it not working is so very obvious, yet to admit that what we have invested in, what we believe to be all of us, is not working is a bitter pill to swallow. And so we keep ourselves from seeing we are so much more than that and keep struggling against an inner knowing that tells us that what is reflected to us is in fact truth.
Amazing contribution and you even mention shop lifting – it is easy to forget that it is not necessarily about need or lack but about the forever search for excitement and stimulation.
Gabriele often our forever search for excitement and stimulation comes as a direct result of our needs and our lack.
“I am no less and no more than another, I do not need to do anything to gain favour and I know that we all bring something uniquely golden to the table…” Through Serge Benhayon and seeing how he is with everyone I have come to know this as the truth and how very freeing it is to see each person for their own unique beingness, without any judgment or going into comparison to feel better or less than other. Serge Benhayon is a man with truth and love as his foundation of living and never ever holds back in expressing this. I agree KB, Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life has changed enormously. Thank God for Serge Benhayon, who is a man who always truly does walk his talk.
The way you describe your meeting with Serge Benhayon and the way he has inspired and supported you to reclaim your life is absolutely exquisite K.B. Thank you.
Thank you K.B it’s absolutely beautiful to read this and I can totally relate to your experience of Serge Benhayon.
KB you have presented a very open and frank account of your return and I have had an insite into where I am not trusting and am holding back my expression, which is not supporting me or humanity. Thank you KB
Thank you Merrilee Pettinato. It’s beautiful to feel how we each inspire and support one another – I’d have never considered this possible before so your comment has, in turn inspired me to appreciate every expression in ones day is powerful and to make it an expression of love.
well said Merrily and KB we never know how much we can inspire, and in fact we do not really need to know, it is about leaning to not hold back in our expression and all else will follow from there.
Amazing blog K.B, so honest and beautifully written. I can feel the deep appreciation and love you have for Serge Benhayon. What a turnaround from how you were living to how you are living now, this is truly inspiring. Your experience reminds us that no matter how far we may have given up on life, when we are met with absolute love like your experience with Serge we are reminded of who we are, LOVE. Inspiration and reflects like these are a blessing and Serge Benhayon brings this heavenly reflection to us all.
And this simply goes to show that nothing heals the way true love can.
“My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!” What a great testament to Serge and to you KB for opening up to the possibility that you did not have to continue the way you were living, berating and putting yourself down and putting yourself through struggle and hardship because of your lack of self worth. It is amazing how Serge never ever judges or condones anyone and is the same with everyone, this is something I have never met in another human being and is a rare quality to live by.
K.B. “Knowing Serge Benhayon has Changed my Life” This has been my experience too… because of his amazing reflection and holding everyone as equal I am coming to know my amazingness too. I have come such a long way and appreciate deeply all the miracles of change I have made because of his inspiration. There is no one on the planet I trust more and there is no one person I know who has done so much for so many; quite, quite amazing.
The first workshop I attended Serge Benhayon spoke about us all being Sons of God. It was a simple truth that I could easily accept but which took time to live in daily life. Living the love and divinity we are from is what Serge supports us with endless patience, understanding and love.
I understand this completely KB. It is amazing that Serge Benhayon can see that within us which even we cannot see. Once we connect to our essence and live from this connection and appreciate this, our life cannot be other than beautiful and joyful.
Thank you KB for your sharing and your honesty. With the first look Serge Benhayon gave me he clearly said “I know who you are” and at that point I did not know myself or better said I was denying it. I love how Serge let’s the Universe speak through him, he is the vehicle through which God’s love can be expressed on Earth.
‘My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!’ Same here KB, a very joyful change!
Thanks for sharing your story with the world K.B. What an inspiration it is to know that all we have to do to reawaken is each other, is love and met one and another, we don’t need to fix or heal or judge or tell, just love and meet one another like Serge met you.
Your blog serves to underline the incredible impact that a life lived in and by love in its truest sense and consistently so can provide for another in terms of real inspiration and reflection.
One of the things that Serge Benhayon brought to me was trust. Here was a man who I sensed I could trust. Trust was missing big time in my life when I first came to Universal Medicine: trust in others, myself and life generally. I realised that he remained constant in his behaviour towards all students and in the way and in what he presented. This slowly opened up a space in me that had been shut down for as long as I can remember. I am still working on breaking down the mistrust barriers but much has changed for the better since meeting this man.
Trust or the lack of it is a big issue and I find there is forever more to learn, develop and evolve to – especially when, as in my case, coming from a point of view that the world sucks and is out to get me.
That sticks with me too Helen. The way and who Serge is meant that I felt I could trust him 100%. One of the best gifts.
I very much relate Helen, for I had huge trust issues all my life which affected all my relationships. I have a come a long way, and have consciously choosen to work on my old hurts and issues, which I have done by attending the many courses by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine. As I began to build trust in myself, this has made it easier to trust in others.
Great point Helen, Serge Benhayon is a lighthouse that stands firm and tall no matter the force of the storm,I have never before witnessed the absoluteness of his consistency, integrity and love of people, he is a rock from which nothing can be held back.
The reflections from Serge Benhayon to us all are very real beautiful and allows a realisation and acceptance for both ourselves of all we truly are and that of all others also. The responsibility and commitment he brings to humanity is very inspirational and exceptional in every way and a real life changer for us all back to living the love we all are for ourselves. Your are living proof of this KB and this is beautiful to share and very inspirational of the changes we can make too.
This is so beautiful to read and feel KB thank you for sharing with such honesty the love reflected to you by Serge Benhayon that has had such a real, true inspiration on your life. The changes you have made and come to are very profound, joyful and really supportive and loving as a result.
K.B. thank you for sharing your self so honestly. What a testament to the wisdom and love of one man (and therefore to the possibility within each and every one of us) that love truly is our home…
Home recognizing home in us all, rather than all the detours, false starts, dead ends, road rage, globe trotting, continent hopping and general wastelands that also stand before him.
I’m exhausted reading this list Alexis! The ends we go to, to avoid coming home and accepting we that we have it all. Yesterday I worked with a previously homeless man who has little or no connection or trust of others despite giving up drugs, alcohol and cigarettes (huge in this population). He has high anxiety, exacerbated by his previous drug habit. We talked for a while and I could feel his deep beauty and sensitivity so I expressed this to him. A million dollars could not have been more important to him than hearing that he was not broken, had been hurt and saddened and that his relationship with himself was to be treasured and nurtured as part of healing his anxiety. We are most certainly called home to fully accept and know love within ourselves first.
K.B.this is such a beautiful read and I am left, among other things, with appreciating that ‘..we all bring something uniquely golden to the table that no other can.’ Truly beautiful!
Yes, Bernadette, this article is exposing the games we play to avoid the simple responsibility of being ourselves in the world – no holding back, resistance or modification. We all play them and what K.B. has shared just gives us the opportunity to see our own, whether the same or not. Honesty and appreciation are essential ‘tools’ on the way. I have taken to asking myself ‘How honest am I being?’ and remembering that there is something to appreciate in every situation.
I am just realising how little I have appreciated and how debilitating this is. The focus is on looking for things that are not working. Without appreciation I cannot let love in for myself or others.
I love this line too Bernadetteglass; ‘ we all bring something uniquely golden to the table that no other can’.
This is a true love story. Thank you K.B for such an inspiring, honest account of your relationship with yourself, with Serge Benhayon and with love. It has deeply touched me.
I agree Jane, this is a true love story and no need for violins, dramatic eye movements or falling in love, it is pure love Serge Benhayon is reflecting to everyone he meets, an amazing inspiration for any relationship.
So true Annelies. There are no theatrics with this kind of love. Meeting Serge Benhayon for the first time I could feel the purity of his love and with its reflection I felt a sense of coming home to my own love.
“When I met Serge I felt instantly that he knew who I truly was.” This line was very powerful for me. It made me realise I do not do this with others. I often see people, and judge them, for the behaviours they exhibit and I believe that to be who they are. But this does nothing for anyone. To see past that, to who the person truly is, allows that person the space to return to that.
What a beautiful blog and amazing transformation. It never ceases to amaze me what we are capable of. No matter what we get ourselves into there is always a choice to come out of it. It may take someone like Serge Benhayon for us to realise that we have a choice and that we are in fact divine – thank God Serge is here on Earth doing exactly that.
Loved reading about your unfolding from darkness to light and how one man, a shepherd of light, could inspire you in the process.
Another stunning testimony of the impact that Serge Benhayon has in people’s lives. This man is nothing short of extraordinary.
Hear, Hear Shevon, the list goes on and on and on and the world learns what it is to be alive once more.
K.B. I just posted your article on 3 different social media platforms and wrote that this actually should be front page news in every newspaper around the world. The turnaround that you made is incredible. No hosanna, just pure honesty and selflove and selfcare is what I feel from your words. It’s asking me to go deeper with myself and be especially more honest about loneliness. Thank you deeply!
Yes I agree Floris, I have never been drawn to buying newspapers but if this kind of article was published on every page about true life experiences, about real life stories and inspires people, I would definitely buy it. News to me should be about absolute truth and about people but unfortunately I know this is not the case hence I avoid reading or buying current newspaper articles.
Yes Chan, how amazing would it be if newspapers were filled with mostly articles full of inspiration and appreciation of life and people and just a few articles about what’s ‘wrong’ with the world. It’s not to be blind for what is out there, it is actually very important. But, in a much more balanced way.
Thank you for such an honest sharing, KB. “I am no less and no more than another”. This is a biggie for most of us and makes comparison and jealousy meaningless. A work in progress for me but your story has inspired me.
Wow K.B it is wonderful to read how your life has changed, meeting Serge Benhayon completely changed how i feel about myself too. What you have written here is very beautiful and great to remember, ‘I am no less and no more than another’.
How you described the way you used to live is totally exhausting. How many people are living like this, it may not be the same, but swap booze and drugs for coffee and cake, surfing for working or partying hard or any other form of stimulant, it could be football, yoga, doing good or running.
‘I am starting to build a relationship with myself that isn’t wholly self-critical and judgemental. I’ve started to be more tender with how I am with myself and treat myself lovingly.’ Thank you for sharing this, I am working on this too – to let go of judgment and critic as it doesn’t serve anybody. When I’m this way with myself I’m this way with nearly everybody else, I don’t see the natural beauty and love that’s all around me. I can be quick to jump into what’s wrong, is there even such a thing as wrong, instead is there not only learning, of bringing love and understanding?
“I’ve said ‘No’ to abusive relationships” Whoo hoo – I love this!
and yes to relationships filled with love too !
I’m all for that too!
When we develop more self love and self worth it is easy to say ‘No’ to abusive relationships. How beautiful and empowering is that?
“I no longer feel the world owes me, but that I actually have a quality I can give back to humanity by sharing and expressing.” Thank you for writing this, I have held and still hold at times, the world to ransom for not being the love and care I want them to be and crave, totally selfish I know, when all along even though I have known, I have never really stopped or taken responsibility for the fact that it is my responsibility to bring this love and deep care to a world that is so desperate to see there is another way. A way to live and be with one another that holds true care, grace, understanding and integrity.
“When I met Serge I felt instantly that he knew who I truly was. I felt he saw my true worth and that all the walls I’d put around myself were paper-thin. I felt I was loved and accepted unconditionally without having to do a thing.”This brought tears to my eyes as I feel the same every time I see him, even in a picture – you can’t help but feel the absolute pure love, understanding, deep care and grace he lives and holds everyone in. No matter who they are or the choices they make.
I deeply appreciate your for sharing, honesty and bringing all of the love you are as a reflection for us all. Through your sharing I can feel your commitment and through your re-connection to you, we too are blessed. I agree with all you have felt from the first meeting with Serge Benhayon. He is very real, very humble and he is pure love.
I love the simple sum up “Serge Benahyon is real, very humble and pure love. I totally agree.
Wow this is such a beautifull blog in the depth of honesty, but also in the great love and gentleness it is written and true appreciation of another. There is no beating of self up it is this was me and this is how I have changed. The changes are massive. I can really relate with what is shared here as my live was a complete mess as well and I tried everything to ‘get myself on track’ but everything ended up taking me further away from me. It was like swimming upstream against a tide … exhausting! Where you shared the word unlock
‘knowing there was more to me than this protective facade I was living, but unable to unlock and express who I was.’ It made me stop in my tracks (so to speak) Before meeting Serge that is EXACTLY how I felt that on an energetic level I was locked, something within was locked and I didn’t know how to unlock this and ‘free’ myself. Today I feel like a completely different person, to the person I knew that was there but felt trapped. My whole life has changed, my health and well being, my commitment to life, my relationship with myself and others and the work I do is in line with what I have always felt to do, with a purpose and love for others. I love what you have shared here, it is truly beautifull ‘My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!’ I would say as well my first impression of Serge Benhayon hasn’t changed, I too could feel and see the level of equality and love he held for all but over the years the more I have got to know him the more I am blown away by the incredible beautifull and gentle man he is in so many many ways. His dedication to truth, not holding back, sharing and expressing all there is to say along with his constant expansion of Love, the pull to be more and true evolution is inspirational.
This is a truly brave sharing K.B beautifully expressed . We all have a past history and to look back and see how far each has come since connecting to the work of Serge Benhayon and particularly the man himself, and the loving example he lives every day is incredible. To know that we are all love equally is the greatest blessing anyone could have.
“When I met Serge Benhayon for the first time, I was a mess…” Yep, me too.
“When I met Serge I felt instantly that he knew who I truly was. I felt he saw my true worth and that all the walls I’d put around myself were paper-thin. I felt I was loved and accepted unconditionally without having to do a thing.” Yep, me too. It has just taken me awhile to accept this myself, but I have and continue to take this acceptance deeper and deeper.
Yes Robyn and KB, I echo what you have both said. I am now taking responsibility for being absolute in my love and care of self and living that in the world so that the reflection Serge Benhayon has brought to me – I may also bring to others.
Yes, it started with the reminder from Serge Benhayon of who we are in essence and being held in this Love, to now offering this inspiration and Love to others. It is the way of the future. No need to push or mould people, just meet their eyes, see their soul, and present the way of Love.
It’s incredible to read your comment Robyn and so many other people’s comments sharing the amazing experiences and life changing choices so many people have chosen since meeting Serge Benhayon. I too have been deeply, deeply inspired by Serge Benhayon in every aspect of life. He is an inspiration to humanity, his dedication, amazing qualities and love are beyond what words can describe, as it is so expansive, universal and out of this world.
And the formula is simple in its execution – just be yourself from your essence. This is what is so deeply inspiring about Serge Benhayon – he offers, by the way he lives and interacts, the truth – for everyone equally.
Serge Benhayon is a man who inspires. He inspires people to feel their enormous essence, as he does. He inspires us to Love, ourselves and everyone else. There is so much he inspires in people and I love that you have shared your story of inspiration. Thank you K.B.
I get a sense there is a real steadiness with you now KB, It was really enjoyable to read your blog. And the steadiness that come across rubbed off on me a little bit 😛
“My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!” I completely agree with you K.B.
What a stunner of a closing line! Serge Benhayon has been unwavering and constant and so many people who have worked with him have transformed their lives…
It is incredible that so many lives have been touched by just one man. For me, this is true inspiration – the reminder that we are all the same – we are Love through and through.
What an incredible story. For most people coming out of that depression would be unthinkable, and being able to manage it would be all they could hope for. What you have shared about us all being equal cannot be underrated. It creates a whole reality shift when you actually feel that we are all equal. It means that any stories we have about being less, the victim, being better than others etc just isn’t true. Without all this in the way we can be so much more open to love and to other people.
“It means that any stories we have about being less, the victim, being better than others etc just isn’t true. Without all this in the way we can be so much more open to love and to other people.” This is so true Fiona.
Isn’t in interesting how our minds can think we are not enough, and as a result, it is our bodies that cop it – the one thing that we can connect to and be brought back to who we are first and foremost. K.B. thank you for sharing such an honest experience. I can relate to how you used to feel – how the physical appearance and the doing was paramount to how you measured your worth. But as you say, Serge Benhayon has offered so many people a reflection to simply be themselves, that he lives from the inside out and can recognise who we are before what we look like. Sure we have all made bad choices in the past, but to have no judgement of these, to see these as markers for what is not us, can support people to never go back – and as you have, change their lives around.
I can also relate to “how the physical appearance and the doing was paramount to how you measured your worth.” as I also was caught in this. I have largely stopped this way of being but occasionally get caught up in it again, the doing especially. But this then confirms the emptiness I am striving to fill with the doing, rather than when I move with the quality of me, confirming my absolute worth in every moment. Work in progress, but certainly worth it.
A great build Robyn; when we are not connected to our quality, it is easy to feel empty or as if we need to ‘do’ to be enough. Appreciating HOW we are and HOW we do things rather than WHAT we do has been a massive change for me and my body – and I know it has had similar effects on others. It brings back the appreciation and care in how we live rather than just getting on with it. So many of us just get on with it but at the sacrifice of our health and wellbeing.
Well said hvmorden. HOW we go about our day is key to whether we are confirming our essence (quality) or the emptiness that is there when we are disconnected from it. Sometimes it can be tricky to feel this, as I recently experienced, but with true support I have been able to see the truth of the situation. Now I have the opportunity to confirm my amazing quality even more rather than waste time confirming the other.
What an extraordinary turnaround KB and all from being inspired through meeting one amazing man who chooses to live a life of truth and love.
and imagine what happens when all the people Serge has inspired begin to start inspiring others. Look out world ! 🙂
Yes, it’s quite something to consider. And that this responsibility is a joy.
I agree Deborahmckay, this is the kind of article I could read about everyday. It is so inspiring and powerful to read.
It is astounding how one man, namely Serge Benhayon can be the instigator of such great change, and it all came about because he dared to love people unconditionally. This is absolutely the power of love in action.
It makes you wonder what a different world we would live in if we all made a commitment to this unconditional love as our top priority?
And really at the end of the day that is all we ever want – to be loved and to love unconditionally.
Spot on Jennifer.
Well said Elizabeth. It is absolutely the power of love in action. Serge Benhayon sees the true you first and the mess second. Whereas much of see see the mess first and kinda know the truth is in there. He is an incredible inspiration.
Yes Sarah, the power of love in action for sure. The ‘mess’ is tiny compared to the ‘true you’ but we seem to get caught in the mess and complicate it, by the lesser quality of our thoughts, thereby obscuring the truth we are seeking. A crazy conundrum.
‘Because he dared to love people unconditionally’… Serge’s activity in a nutshell and a beautiful invitation for all of us to do the same. I am daring myself to dare!
Agreed Elizabeth, Serge is definitely shows the power of love in action. For many it is difficult to believe we can have such a great man amongst us. He was not born to a famous family and comes with no title so he is ‘easy’ to dismiss. We listen to movie stars and royalty, people who we know live lives that are messy, but we do so because they have titles we “respect”. Serge may not have a title but in the 10 years I have known him I have seen nothing but true love and respect being offered to all. This is a man I will listen to not because of a title or lack of but because he simply makes sense and his teachings have changed the lives of so many, it is impossible to deny his true power and love.
K.B how amazing is it that we are being shown that by living in a way that is truly responsible, committed and loving of ourselves that we have the power to restore trust in others once again. When you share the fact that “When I met Serge I felt instantly that he knew who I truly was.” this is so far from the normal yet something that anyone who has met Serge can testify to. That one meeting we have with someone can inspire change for lifetimes.
Thank you for such an open, revealing and inspiring blog, KB. “Serge Benhayon has been a constant reflection of my worth, regardless of how I have lived. The love and respect he has shown me has never, ever faltered over the years I have known him, no matter how much I myself have.” I completely echo these sentiments.
You have put your finger on one of Serge Benhayon’s most amazing qualities – to see you for who you are and love you for that, no matter how you might be struggling – it is so amazing to never be judged.
And in this we are given the opportunity to see ourselves for who we truly are. We are not all the images, ideals and misconceptions we have about ourselves. We are actually deeply wise, loving beings.
I agree Lee, Serge has seen me for who I am even when I have felt as though I don’t know, and he gently reminds us all that we are innately amazing, should we choose to connect
Yes, and when we realise that we wonder how the hell we ever chose to stray from who we are.
It is the most amazing quality I agree Rebecca, one that reaches right into us and embraces us for who we truly are, regardless of all the struggle and angst we may find ourselves in. This is truly being met and once felt empowers us to see who we are amidst all our anxieties, stress and depression, suddenly shining a light on our road home to ourselves. It is amazing to feel so understood and appreciated, something Serge Benhayon has the ability to do in just two or three sentences that allows us to recognise that all the aspects of ourselves we have regarded as vulnerabilities are in fact our greatest strengths. What a gift from heaven he is!
I totally agree – I know that in my life when I have struggled or feeling like I am going though a bad patch, Serge’s gentle understanding and love, his continuous ability to see me not as my anxiety or struggle but as who I am, when sometimes I lose sight of who that is, is the most amazing thing, and is a gift that I cannot ever not be thankful for.
And what better reflection, giving us the opportunity to realize that the thinking that takes us down not so loving paths is not us thinking, it is thoughts that come in because we have been in judgement of ourselves, thereby making room for more of the same. Realize this and struggle no more.
I agree Janette – no longer are we the angry, sad or hurt ones, Serge shows up we are amazing inside and out but when we don’t chose that, we chose something else – we are not the issue, and so the issue is easier to deal with because its not all tangled up in who you are.
K.B you have certainly brought ‘something golden’ to the table here with your open and honest expression. Serge Benhayon has provided a steady and loving reflection to many. You have accepted this by developing trust and responsibility, turning your life around, offering inspiration and reflection to others.
Thank you K.B for your very candid and open sharing of your life before you met Serge Benhayon and the enormously powerful effect just one person can have on another by meeting them in their essence first and foremost. As you say, the more one observes Serge the more one realises that he equally meets everyone in this way, consistently day, day out, year in year out and so empowers us to re-build our trust in love and in people again. My first impression of Serge is the same as yours and remains constant to this day, a deeply loving man whose conduct and integrity has changed thousands of people’s lives as he connects to us soul and essence first, personality and spirit second.
In the 6 years I have known Serge Benhayon I continue to be astounded by his unwavering and consistent love and care. Astounded because in the world today this is unheard of. But what Serge reflects to me and to countless others is that this love and deep care for oneself and for humanity is the true normal, and that’s what we will all eventually return to.
This is very much true Katerina, it is not our norm to have someone reflect this level of care, wisdom and love, every teacher I have met before has been affected by some level of personal need, or doubt, or personality defect, be it anger, judgement or anxiety, with Serge you can see that it is all about everyone, not what he can get out of it.
This love and care shown by Serge and his family should be the new normal as it lights people up to live their full potential.
Absolutely Katerina this is normal. To treat ourselves with absolute love and tenderness and offer this as a normal reflection to those around us so that they too may have the opportunity to choose this.
The extraordinary (simply because it is statistically unusual) made normal (lived, unwaveringly so) – Serge Benhayon brings the transformative power of love back into our every day lives.
I am in full agreement with you Katerina, Matilda and others – Serge Benhayon is reflecting the true new-normal way of moving and living with grace, love and equal-ness for all. Brotherhood can be restored on earth this way – the way we can all live with new choices.
Yes, he does. Well said Matilda.
It sure is normal, yet not common at the moment. Just because the majority of people do something, ie. act and live in an unloving way should not make it normal. It is so called normal to drink alcohol or eat/drink copious amounts of sugar even though both are detrimental to our health. The same was the case for smoking until we woke and realised the harm it was causing. What Serge Benhayon presents and lives is what the normal of the future looks like, so why wait as we can live it now.
I would say the same Katerina, one thing that stood out for me for many years was how Serge and his team would visit the UK twice a year without fail – this really made a difference to my life and how I saw things, because I had never met any other person who had that level of commitment and consistency.
There is a great imposition from society or life to be a certain way, but it is obvious by the problems that exist in the world that the ideas are just so redundant and making us sick.
Brilliantly said Matthew. What I see in many walks of life is an ignoring of what this sickness is asking us to stop and consider, but instead a greater fervency with attempting to enforce solutions. I see this a lot in educational policy – a government wanting to secure the future success of a nation by enforcing solutions that actually accelerate the outcomes they want to avoid – deterioration in mental health, increased absenteeism and decrease in academic achievement. So, on a personal level, I too must look at why I get sick and live in a way that supports me.
What a fantastic sharing KB, the total turn around in your life is miraculous.
“I am starting to build a relationship with myself that isn’t wholly self-critical and judgemental. I’ve started to be more tender with how I am with myself and treat myself lovingly.”- K.B. I too am learning to do this more and the changes are amazing and well worth it. We innately come from love, so when we allow ourselves to connect to this truth, everything changes from then on, through our loving choices.
I am also developing this skill of catching the negative thoughts, but more importantly developing a body that feels so cared for that it knows these negative thoughts don’t belong. It is amazing the huge difference that happens through stopping the negative thoughts. Without that hardness towards myself the potential to be and feel really tender is naturally there.
It is absolutely ridiculous that our harshest critics are often ourselves. This makes no sense. I am working on having a truly supportive relationship with myself and the beauty of this is that it flows on to all of my other relationships.
What you share is very true Lee and we don’t consider the harm we are doing to ourselves when we are harsh on ourselves. The only way out of this is developing a self-loving relationship with ourselves.
I agree Lee – the negative criticism of ourselves is quite shocking when you stop and become aware of the self flagellation that goes on by thoughts and words. Building a deeper inner relationship with myself has also been amazing – connection and communication with others is very different from this.
A living miracle, you have indeed experienced from meeting Serge Benhayon, like many other people all over the globe, by his reflection of love, true equality and acceptance.
Absolutely lorettarapp. There are many people from around the globe who have benefitted from being met in truth by Serge Benhayon. The amazing thing is the realisation that everything we are looking for already resides within us – sometimes we just need a reminder of that.
Absolutely Doug. It doesn’t end with Serge. We all share an equal responsibility to reflect the same level of love and understanding to all.
This is gorgeous, K.B.. Every change in your life that you’ve shared, such as saying no to abusive relationships, speaking up at work, connecting more with others in supermarket queues and so forth, is something huge to appreciate. Your blog offers some great points that could be very supportive to those who are currently struggling with contraction, lack of self worth issues and anxiety – take life a step at a time, and later you can appreciate how far you’ve walked.
Serge Benhayon carries a consistency in every interaction with everyone, individually or in groups. To feel deeply seen and accepted for who you are and how you are right now is something of a miracle in this day and age and one to be appreciated through and through. Thank you for your beautiful blog KB.
Before I met Serge Benhayon, I can’t think of anyone who was able to see all that I am and not want anything from me. I had developed a usefulness in life, and an ability to know what people needed. This created an invisibility for me, as people only saw what I could do for them (and this was the way I thought I wanted it!). Serge completely accepts you whatever state you are in, as he sees the glorious diamond yet to be cut, before anything else.
“….knowing there was more to me than this protective facade I was living, but unable to unlock and express who I was….” KB – I think we might be dopplegangers! This is exactly my life before I met Serge Benhayon. I knew that what I was living wasn’t IT, I absolutely knew it…but because I wasn’t able to see what was IT, I was left feeling lost and confused and would often disappear down fads, avenues, spiritual paths or whatever in the pursuit of whatever IT was. And then I met Serge. Boom. The chase was over. Of course I didn’t grasp everything that he said and am still learning daily, but what was definite from the very beginning was that this was the real deal.
That is the big problem in the world today. So many people know this isn’t it but the real IT is hard to find. So we end up chasing the good life, being normal, reacting and dropping out of society, looking to the spiritual new age etc. All this to find that these aren’t it either and we just have to look inside to find it. How amazing to have such a steady loving reflection as Serge Benhayon to keep reminding us of the way home to ourselves.
Is the real IT hard to find? I’m not so sure. Is it actually incredibly simple? Perhaps too simple for our arrogance and pride to accept? We have all invested so heavily in whatever we’ve got going on, whoever we are or whatever we are in to….that to let it go and truly see how simple it really is requires us to eat a very huge slice of humble pie. Something that many are not prepared to do. Which is why we make IT so hard to find.
Same here ottobathurst. It’s hard to be looking for something without knowing what it is you are looking for. The searching describes my life for many years. When you hear the truth there is no mistaking it, even if you don’t like how it sounds. When I attended my first workshop presented by Serge Benhayon I knew without a doubt it was the truth.
Same here Debra. Yet for me it was even more abstract. In that I didn’t even really know what truth was. So the feeling I had was more of a door opening to the way home. On top of which I had never met a man who I trusted so purely and definitely from the very off; because of the absolute care, love and commitment that he was expressing with.
And if they don’t expose themselves, their bodies will do it for them. Serge’s level of well-being when considered alongside his astonishing work-load defies all temporal reasoning.
“I no longer feel the world owes me, but that I actually have a quality I can give back to humanity by sharing and expressing” And that you have. This is a stunning blog. To have the extremity of the ‘before’ laid next to the transformed ‘after’, is the most powerful of testimonials.
K.B. one of the many things that stood out to me whilst reading your incredible blog was the sheer power of someone reflecting the truth of who we are. This really is something for me to consider deeply as I am a person that often reflects back to people what they are not, thus cementing it deeper. To leave people be is something for me to truly work on now.
K.B. by sharing so incredibly honestly, you allow others to relate to your life pre Serge Benhayon and inspire people to have faith that true transformation is possible.
I agree, that is why these blogs are so important. It is not always easy but it is actually much simpler than the complication we have called normal!
Stunning, stunning, stunning!
“Serge Benhayon has been a constant reflection of my worth, regardless of how I have lived. The love and respect he has shown me has never, ever faltered over the years I have known him, no matter how much I myself have. Seeing how he is deeply caring and loving with everyone he meets has helped me to trust in love again and begin to trust and love myself.” Yes KB – I can echo this. Serge Benhayon is an amazing wise and loving man who sees the essence in everyone, regardless of how we have been treating ourselves.
‘I felt I was loved and accepted unconditionally without having to do a thing.’ This gift that Serge offers to everyone he meets allows us to choose to come back to ourselves however far we have strayed from our true selves and however many wrong turns we take on the way there is no judgement which melts the harsh self critical thoughts that so many constantly berate themselves with which are so damaging and reflected in the self sabotage that had certainly littered my life prior to meeting Serge Benhayon. Thank you KB for sharing your turnaround and how you are now giving back to humanity rather than being isolated in your own personal bubble of misery.
It is inspiring story KB because it reflects to those who feel in the same way about life how you used to, to show them that there is another way to live. I can feel the desperation you describe when you say how you were attempting to fill yourself by achievements because I can remember getting caught up in that pattern too. Meeting Serge Benhayon and other students who like you have made many changes opens a door of acceptance for us all to realise we are all equal when we stop our old behaviours and return to who we truly are.
Thank you, KB, a beautiful appreciation of Serge Benhayon and how he has supported you to love yourself again, simply by seeing the glory of your essence and nothing less.
Amazing KB. Life really was B.S until it was A.S. ( Before Serge and After Serge 🙂 ) I know this because I also watched my life change after having met Serge.
We are all equal, amazingly lovable, wise beings and Serge Benhayon was the first person I ever met to embody this on every level.
I really enjoyed reading this article KB, and can relate to so much of it. One thing really struck a chord with me was when you wrote that you weren’t lonely anymore – I hadn’t notice before but I also haven’t felt lonely for years now either and this has only come about since attending the presentations by Serge Benhayon. Thanks KB.
Great blog KB, thank you for sharing your experience. I agree totally with what you express in the next sentence and feel many people would concur. “My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!”
I can second that Rosemary. When I first went to see Serge Benhayon as a practitioner, I didn’t trust men and would not have gone to see him based on that alone, if he hadn’t been recommended so highly. I felt I could trust him right from the start and in 16 years I have never had reason to doubt this. Serge Benhayon is the real deal. He restores trust in ourselves and each other.
I had never felt so seen, deeply loved and respected as I did when first meeting Serge Benhayon. Like yourself Fiona I had issues with men but Serge’s absolute integrity created a space where I could trust and love again. I have known Serge for 8 years now and he has always shown huge amounts of love and understanding, deep respect and the utmost integrity in all his interactions with myself and anyone else he interacts with. Yes, Fiona I agree he is the real deal.
Thank you for your honesty KB. Serge Benhayon has had a profound effect on many of our lives. It is amazing how much I have changed in relation to not being anxious, withdrawn and given up, not needing to take copious amounts of alcohol or drugs to get through the day/night, not thinking what is the point in being here, etc.. Serge has shown me the love that I am, as he has done with countless others and this is priceless. Serge has also shown me a way that I can also live it and he has done this by example not purely words. Before Serge I was alive but I was not truly living.
I could relate to a lot of what you have shared here KB. Going to my first Heart Chakra level 1 (now called the Livingness workshops) I pretty much ignored him. It has taken a few years to come out of the judgement I have held myself in for the choices I have made but regardless of this Serge has constantly seen the light in me and never held back expressing or sharing this with myself and with everyone her meets. To have such a reflection in life is bringing tears to my eyes. No matter what has been chosen before we are still loved by our essence and this Serge Benhayon brings by how he lives to show that it is possible to re-choose at any moment to go home.
Reading this today KB brought me back to a moment of stillness and to reflect again in appreciation the journey thus far travelled since meeting Serge Benhayon and all the students/Practitioners that have supported and inspired me along the way. Your sharing is one of complete inspiration and honesty as I could relate to so much of what you so openly express. Thank you.
It is a beautiful reminder of appreciation for how much love Serge has lived daily for 16 years now since he woke up to his divinity and now waking up others is as simple as living that and it being felt, from there it is up to the other person to do with it what they may, but as KB describes Serge just keeps presenting the same love day in day out and that is the most inspiring thing ever.
So true Vanessa, it would be so easy to walk away and go into the hurt of not being appreciated etc, but he never has, even when he has been attacked. His reflection of love has stayed steady and, in fact, increased. It has inspired many to not give up and develop that level of love and dedication in themselves.
Love your last line that your first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but your life certainly has. This says all, truth, love and consistency and there is no need for variations, ups and downs it is a consistent joy that can be there 24/7 if we live in connection to ourselves. The simple reflection of this by Serge Benhayon has changed many people’s lives to be today the same consistent reflection of love to the world.
Many have lived this life before meeting Serge Benhayon, my own life has transformed incredible so, as well as many thousands of others. This world is indeed blessed by the presence of Serge Benhyon and his family for it has to be said, I was blessed the day I met Serge Benhayon.
I find it is a miracle how easy it is to be loved by Serge Benhayon. At times I find it difficult to accept when someone loves me dearly. To let the love in asks of me to surrender and sometimes I cannot let go of my protection. Serge Benhayon has something in his love’s consistency that makes me trust and surrender with ease to a level that is not common for my body. I cherish this and in the months I don’t meet Serge personally, I practice the new found level of surrender on my own.
I loved what you shared Felix and I can relate to this. Funny that when you get the opportunity to surrender completely to love and to who you truly are there can be something in you that says no. Like you I’m learning here, thanks for your post.
Felix and Matts your comments have made me pause and appreciate the beauty of surrendering to love, to myself. Even just appreciating a small amount of surrender opens the doors to feeling what surrender is.That ‘small’ amount becomes an all rather like focusing in on a star with a telescope until the the star takes up the whole lens. In this way we get to learn what surrender is and accept it so it becomes our new normal.
Thank you KB for a very open and honest sharing of how your life has and continues to change. It is quite extraordinary how much your life has changed by a simple meeting with Serge Benhayon and yet I am not surprised being as I too have experience just the same. This man is without question full of so much love for humanity you just simply can not NOT feel this in his presences.
This is a great blog, showing the change the support of Serge Benhayon can make, which is unending, and is that what reminds us of where we truly come from.
Thank you, KB. Your sharing has touched me so deeply that the tears are flowing as I am sensing that I might never understand in full the true depth of what Serge Benhayon is to humanity, and also in deep, deep appreciation of ever meeting this man.
Great article KB, it was a great reminder for me how much of a mess my life was before I met SB.
Ditto Kevin. The 180 degree changes that I have made can sometimes be taken for granted. But then I read a blog like this and am double-re-inspired. Universal Medicine is changing the world.
Count me in with that. It is so easy when life is better to forget where you were, how given up and on a trajectory to becoming one of the WHO health statistics for chronic illness. I am pleased to say that I am an active participant in my physical and mental health now and have deep appreciation for Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine Therapies for the enormous role they have played in supporting me and so many others I know.
Love this. A big NO to being a WHO statistic!
“My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!” My first impression of Serge Benhayon was that he could see right through me and I had nowhere to hide so I had to be totally honest with myself. My appreciation and respect of all that he is and shares with us all continues to deepen and I feel the inspiration and responsibility to share his living loving way.
I look back on my life before Serge and shake my head in disbelief of how incredibly different I am and it is. He lovingly embraced me for who I was without judgment on our first meeting and continues to do so to this day, as he does with all. The beauty of not being judged and loved regardless is that you are given the space to feel the love, realise the choices you are making that are not supporting you and be inspired to make changes for you that bring more love into your life in all areas… and the result is remarkable. My gratitude is eternal.
Thank you KB, I can also say that ‘my first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!’ Immensely so. Similar to you living a withdrawn life avoiding people by any means, feeling terrified and awkward by any human interaction all the awhile keeping a confident facade on the outside. The ease and true confidence I now feel and have in my body is enormous, living a life loving the interaction with people and seeing everyday more and appreciate the beauty in every one.
‘My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!’ This is a most beautiful compliment, it shows the consistency of love Serge Benhayon brings to every moment of his life. Something that is desperately needed that changes the world.
Thank you for a very honest blog, KB, I can relate to much you have shared, especially “I was in a constant state of frustration, knowing there was more to me than this protective facade I was living, but unable to unlock and express who I was.” Through much of my life I was so dissatisfied with myself, had very little self-esteem, was so bored by my life, but did not know why. I see now that I had no purpose, did not know who I was, when I took part in things, I just felt a fraud, felt so helpless. I shut myself down and buried myself in books and in physical activity in the large garden. My life too, has changed so dramatically since I met Serge Benhayon and attended Universal Medicine workshops etc.
Thank you KB so beautiful to read the changes you have made and continue to do so – and what you have shared I can so relate to.
I now know how distractive I have been to my body and shut down to hide away from the world, using alcohol and drugs
Takes life to a whole new level of appreciation once the truth is presented, that none of those substances need to be in our day to day life.
I love and value the quality that I choose to live everyday of my life.
A beautiful sharing K.B. My first meeting with Serge Benhayon and a Universal Medicine event was two years ago, it was just like coming home to a long-lost gorgeous family. He made everything make sense…and how does he know so much stuff. He made me realise how much I know too, this has changed my life completely, the way I feel about myself and everyone around me, my relationships, attitudes, work, play….everything! Thank you for your sharing, thank you Serge for being who you truly are for being here at this time.
We are love, it is what we are made of. All it takes is one person to truly reflect to us the love that is inside us for us to make the changes to start living this love. Serge Benhayon is one person who consistently reflects this love to each and every person equally.
When we are truly met by someone, we feel the glory or who we are. Serge Benhayon has been the first person that hundreds of people I know have felt truly ‘met’ by and this has been a marker for them (including myself) to know that they too can meet people in this same way. Serge Benhayon is a true inspiration and the love that he reflects is life changing for many.
I love that you have shared your first impression and how you have turned your life around. This is so worth celebrating and is something that has happened to hundreds of people since they have met Serge Benhayon. I so appreciate that I have him in my life as my life is so so different before and after and now I wouldn’t want it any other way.
Thank you K.B for sharing your experience of first meeting Serge Benhayon, what I loved in your expression was the profoundness of your turn-around from a life of harm to a life of love and how this was inspired by being seen, known and cherished for who you truly are. I was taken aback by the responsibility that we all now hold for humanity, as Serge has reflected to us who we are, we too now know this and it is our duty to reflect this depth of love and holding to all others whom we know, see and meet. What a full and purposeful life it is to take what we have been so blessed with and share it unconditionally (in fact, with true understanding and compassion for others) with the world around us.
Serge Benhayon’s living example of unwavering love and truth lets me feel my potential and inspires me to take the little steps to let me be me.
It is incredible what one person’s reflection can do.
The power of reflection is great indeed.
This is an absolutely inspiring account of the total change that can occur when we connect to our true inner essence and begin to redevelop a relationship with ourselves based on who we naturally and innately are. Serge Benhayon is an amazing reflection of these qualities, and for me too, was the first person I was ever truly met by and who saw me for who I truly am…
This is beautiful, ‘my first impression of Serge Benhayon hasn’t changed but my life certainly has’. I feel the same, the years have gone by but Serge has been consistent in his reflection to everyone I know of their amazing value in this life.
This is exactly how it has been for me too. The unconditional love that Serge Benhayon holds everyone in is his ‘always’ way of being with people and it’s wonderful to experience.
I so agree with you Lucy, that is the amazing aspect of Serge, his consistency in how he is with everyone, it never falters, everyone is treated equally with the same level of attention and love. And he treats everyone as equal to himself, is never, ever arrogant, grand-standing, but always a very humble man. Over the over 9 years I have known him, the only change I have seen and felt is in the huge increase in the love that Serge reflects to all of humanity.
Your article reminds me of my first impression, I had with Serge Benhayon and this was meeting a man full of grace who is living a magical life and is emmanating this magic , due to how he is living. I got reminded to the wonders we have in our lifes by meeting him. Serge Benhayon has changed my life in a way where I again can see and feel the magic and wonders happening daily and get an understanding how to treat my body in order that it can become magical.
I have found the same Lucy, Serge Benhayons consistency has been quite remarkable over the years. He has been a solid unwavering reflection of love. Given the abuse he has been subjected to in the media and online it is all the more remarkable he has not wavered. He has allowed to me regain my trust in humanity and empowered me to take far more responsibility in my life. Before Serge I used to think what is the point of all this.
I completely agree James, his unwavering reflection in the face of such abuse has been inspirational. I have learnt that people can and will say what they want, but if you work on building a connection with yourself and love then nothing can wobble that.
We can think at times that we may have been bullied or picked on but nothing really comes near what Serge Benhayon has faced and to continue on unfaltering shows even more so that he is indeed the real deal.
What Serge Benhayon has reflected to the world when subjected to such immense bullying is that true love is absolute and impenetrable. Never has he ever disrespected or not expressed love towards another including those who target him with relentless fervour intent on bringing him down.
In a world where great separation through fighting and terrorism, mass movement of people this reflection is sourly needed. It’s a reflection I can be inspired by in my life, to love people and say no to abuse, to recognise bigotry and bring understanding instead.
Well said Karin, ‘true love is absolute and impenetrable’. I used to think keeping myself away from things and backing off was protection but it was far from it. Love is the only protection we could ever need and the best thing is it doesn’t even feel like we are protecting ourselves or putting up a guard as we are simply being love. It is so simple really, far too simple for the mind to fully grasp.
So true Lucy the consistency of his reflection is constantly inspiring.
That is beautiful Marika
My first impression was very unremarkable. It was interesting but I wasn’t completely sure whether to go again but I did so anyway. The second session was great and over time I noticed the difference in quality compared to other practitioners but it was a slow burn. Mind you, it is still going and stronger than ever.
This is great to hear Christoph and a very honest account of how you have committed to you being you. I have noticed a huge change in you in the time I have known you for, I now see a lightness, a playfulness and a shine from you.
I agree aminatumi. I too have observed an enormous change in Christoph, from a man who was somewhat guarded, into a man who is open, loving, tender and gentle with a lightness and playfulness that is a joy to be around. Thankyou Christoph for sharing all of you with the world.
I can relate to what you say Christoph. When you first meet Serge Benhayon on the surface he is totally ordinary, but on closer inspection there is something about the way he carries himself, the way he talks, the way he moves, the way you feel held and unjudged, the way you feel accepted and the way he looks at you that is above the norm. My appreciation for what he offers is a bottomless well as the more I get to know him the more I get an inkling of the enormity of what he brings.
I like your ‘slow burn’ comment Christoph, we just become more and more tender each and every day.
Thank you KB, I connected to every word and can relate to how my life followed a similar line of being totally lost and submersed in misery of my own making. The love Serge Benhayon has shared with me also has changed my life, which is an absolute miracle!
Oh yes Gregbarnes, I am that living miracle too. I have changed so much since meeting Serge Benhayon, I was totally lost and given up with life, to now living life with purpose and commitment, knowing much more of who I am and what I bring.
I think many of us can echo these words Greg! Whilst I wasn’t living in total misery and had a really good sense of my great qualities when I met Serge Benhayon there was still a lot of muck to let go of and a lot of denial to dig out! The level of Love Serge Benhayon has modelled that is possible, was and continues to be, a bit of an eye opener and totally exposes where I am at, which still happens all the time – but it is done in such love and such a gently supporting way that the impulse isn’t to go into shame but to go “OK – yes I do that” and I am inspired to love myself yet more and to open up yet more!
Absolutley Mary. What gregbarnes888has said here is true for me too and so many others that I know who have met Serge Benhayon: “The love Serge Benhayon has shared with me also has changed my life, which is an absolute miracle!” And as KB writes in the blog, my impression of Serge equally has not changed in the 10 years that I have known him. This is a man who is a living testimony of what he presents, and I have never known anyone that walks his talk in the way that Serge does. I bless the day that I met this man.
Before meeting Serge Benhayon I had no concept that I was a being of love. This is something that develops and deepens daily. Serge reflected (and continues to reflect) back to me the love that I am and this too has changed my life in multiple and many ways.
Yes Nikki Mckee I don’t know anyone who has presented we are indeed beings of love. All the presenters I ever met or saw I could feel were in it for themselves – the recognition, the fame, the money. And that’s was what they reflected in their presentations – always about how to achieve something, how to bring something you wanted into your life that would fulfill you whether it was material wealth, relationships, bliss, enlightenment. It was never you were already everything you ever yearned for.
Serge Benhayon reflects we are love, always have been, always will be and just how possible it is to live this all day everyday- without perfection. I am learning that it is a beautiful responsibility to accept who we truly are and live it.
A beautiful description Karin.
Absolutely Nikki, Serge Benhayon brings the truth about love and dispels any illusion about emotionally attached love!
I love how what you have shared, K.B, exposes how deeply entrenched we can be in our own stuff, how lost and dis-connected and the extraordinary power of being met, with love, being seen for the true love that we all come from. We may have chosen to turn our back on our selves, on life, to live in complete disregard, but when we are met, so completely, for who we are, there is an instant knowingness that at last we are being seen for who we truly are. There is an intense pull for us to then live that love. This is the support and inspiration that we can all offer each other, what a gift.
K.B. thank you ever so dearly for you and for opening up and sharing you with us all for what here has been expressed I am sure many could relate to even have experienced in the things we do and accept when trying to be what we think the world wants us to be or in our futile efforts to be loved and accepted from outside – which is an endless never fulfilling exhausting exercise — nor will it ever be. Meeting Serge Benhayon from day one and ever since has been coming home with him constantly a genuine, warm, absolutely loving and deeply caring reminder and reflection of who we naturally and trully are when we allow ourselves and others to be – coming from our natural and inner true quality or essence. The love we try to look for outside is futile as it is already within – Home.
There is an old saying “Home is where the Heart is or lies” however could it be said that “Home is where the inner-Heart lies” adding from the Teachings of Jesus “the Kingdom of Heaven is within” and that it is.
‘My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!’ – you are not alone here K.B. It was gorgeous to read how you have found your true self leaving behind all the patterns that are not you and don’t support you. A beautiful and heartfelt confirmation of the power of love and what a gift it is to meet people in absolute connection and acceptance. Something that every single person has the ability to do ….. if we so choose.
I love your reference to ‘I didn’t like working alongside managers because I had issues with authority’. In my own experience if I have issues with authority I ask myself ‘who am I giving my power away to?’ After all if I do not use my own authority of the true me then I have no authority! Hence the reaction to authority that I have.
Brilliantly said Susan. If I am ever having a bit of a wobble around someone more senior than me in the hierarchy of work then I know I’ve disconnected from the truth we are all equal and what we each contribute is equally as valuable. Staying with my authority – and not instantly choosing to feel anxious that I’d be called up for a mistake when around a boss – has been an eye opener. It’s wonderful to let go of these insecurities that have got caught up in my system and let them go because they are no longer relevant.
It is inspiring to ready your story of discovery of your true self in ‘appreciation of oneself and others is key if we are to come together to make living joyful, meaningful and fun’. Thank you for writing this as it will resonate with many people who feel lost and depressed and don’t know why.
Very true Susan. Connection and community are fundamental to wellbeing and I have found them to be implicit for good mental health.
Susan Wilson you have just presented why society is experiencing so much depression, drug use etc. If we don’t have appreciation for ourselves and others we the don’t have connection which is what we miss the most and are desperately searching for.
Wow K.B. what an awesome turn-around and how inspiring that you have chosen a new way after meeting Serge Benhayon and feeling your true worth. The is huge. Everything you have said about your new way of life makes so much sense!
True love is timeless, ageless and shines brighter than the stars. It’s this we see and feel when we meet Serge. We all have this capability to shine. We actually make a huge impression in every moment, with everyone we meet. What’s beautiful is that when we consider and appreciate Serge Benhayon’s power, we start to also value this quality in ourselves. Thank you KB.
‘Competition is pointless’ and ‘we all have this capability to shine’ – which leaves us with the inspiring and responsible foundation to live today openhearted and in line with our equal value.
Beautiful words Joseph Barker. I agree with you about Serge Benhayon’s power. He reflects and brings an enormous amount of power while he is on stage presenting. On stage or off stage the power is cutting you back to your essence. When this man speaks its an instant change to your life. Can you imagine being in God’s presence and the power of grace being held ever so delicately but as an equal to our father creator. All-knowing the same as God but joyful to just be – you and God. I am honoured to live and have known Serge Benhayon as equal brother and father to me this life. He is the greatest reflection in my life.
Beautifully said, Joseph. Appreciation and self love allow for us to embody love. And that’s awesome.
A beautiful, loving man, reflecting honesty and love. Holding everyone equal in conversation.
KB I love what you’ve shared and your honesty with where you were and where you’ve come to with the changes you’ve made. I can recognise so much of what you share, how meeting someone like Serge Benhayon who is absolutely loving can change your life and how no matter where you are and how you’ve been he’s always that same love consistently. He’s changed so many people’s lives and those who’ve changed now show those in their own lives that love is possible.
There is so much love in life, any moment we choose to align with love, it is there waiting to show us that we are love. How are we led to the point of alignment? For most of us it is through all our movements in life up to a point when devastation is absolute, and our bodies halt us to change these movements back to what is natural. Serge Benhayon’s light has reached many during this point of desperation, and from there many others around the world and in our lives are also shining their light to reflect to each other how we have deepened our own love, which confirms the fact that there is truly so much love in life.
Adele I so agree that there is so much love in life and that Serge Benhayon’s light has reached so many for them too to shine their light in the world. I have been hugely inspired by all those who’ve been inspired by him and it’s wonderful to pause and appreciate we are not ever alone with aligning to love again. What’s wonderful is feeling how in my everyday I too can remind others of their light and really appreciate this as a reality and not down play my part as being arrogant or big headed. Because the more we do this the more we realise our power and responsibility.
Absolutely Adele, I agree, our movements are what returns us to our power. The power of true love, which has always been in our inner-most and is there if we simply choose love. So simple but true our reconnecting by choice to love is confirmed by our “all our movements.”
Wow KB, incredible. ‘My first impression of Serge Benhayon has never changed, but my life certainly has!’ There are no words for the profoundness of the changes in your life – not minor, but true and lasting. How often do we meet someone that inspires a change in the quality of our life, and not a change merely in circumstance??
I agree Kylie every moment that inspires us to deepen the quality of our lives, is a moment to cherish.
Very true Kylie, change occurs at a deep level that is worth of this article and the 1000’s of blog pages dedicated to this man’s service.
So true Kylie, because these changes are lived and embodied by another who walks beside us, we can be equally inspired and empowered to make these changes for ourselves.
K.B a deeply honest and inspiring sharing! How far you have come and the reflection Serge Benhayon offers each person is something to appreciate deeply!