There is Another Way To Be

by CB, Belgium

How would it be if you met someone who simply lets you be who you are, who does not need anything from you, does not want you to change, does not push you into something or expects you to be a certain way or do something for them? How would it be to be truly met for the amazing beautiful person that you are? Who does not judge the choices that you have made and does not identify you with your defence mechanisms and behaviours? Someone who simply loves you and shows you you are that love too? 

Wow, wouldn’t that be special? But not very realistic you say? That’s just not the way people are?

But it is: I have those people in my life now and know many that are learning to be that way once again as I am myself. Through being a student of  Universal Medicine and therefore a student of myself and life, I have found that there is another way to be, both for myself as with others.

We all are all that innately but through our experiences and hurts we have left our true selves. But we do not have to stay that way, we have a choice. A choice to return to the loveliness we are and always have been within, in our innermost. That is the esoteric.

123 thoughts on “There is Another Way To Be

  1. It has been the most healing thing to receive to be met for who I truly am. To be honoured for how deeply sensitive and tender I am as a man, and be accepted for what I know and feel.

  2. Through my choice to be a Student of The Way of The Livingness, I too have felt met, loved and accepted for who I am. Through my commitment to the Way, I have been learning to meet myself with the same love and acceptance I have been met with by Serge Benhayon and now others also committed to the Way. Cutting myself some slack in other words!

  3. CB thank you for sharing and for me to find my true self again was also very healing. It is really that simple, what made it complicated is the comfort which I chose instead of being responsible for every choice I have made and will make.

    1. I agree Ester – the world is dense with comfort and offers us every alternative that is completely opposite to the love and wisdom our Soul is offering. That’s where complication arises because we have dampened the ability to feel the truth of life and have settled for everything that is not.

  4. CB, to met in such a way can indeed be life-changing, awakening the inner spark within that may have long lain dormant. What you speak of here is no ‘fanciful’ or ‘fluffy’ thing, but the true, all-encompassing nature of love, that sees you for the all that you are – from the innate exquisiteness of your essence and your true power, to the complications and ‘imperfections’ that may well be lived to this day.
    When all of this is so held, we can be deeply inspired… to let go of that which isn’t true and step into our true light. For it is this that can then so re-inspire another, and nothing less.
    Thank-you for sharing so openly here.

  5. Serge Benhayon offers us a reflection of the all encompassing love that is God’s love; an absolute love that knows and loves us all equally for the love that we are.

  6. What you have shared highlights the sad fact that we have accepted the way we currently exist as a humanity as ‘normal. Yet in-truth we crave for much more because we are so much more, deserve to live so much more and can live the more we are as it has never left actually us. It is only us that chooses to live less than who we are rather than in connection to our essence within.

  7. Yes indeed unconditional love is possible and all we need to do it allow ourselves to be it, it is not that hard, but in a world where all love comes with conditions it can be extremely hard to do and only by being willing to work on our hurts and deal with them so they no longer have the power over us to make us hold back from letting love flow in and out of ourselves, can we do so.

  8. What a great question to ask….

    “How would it be to be truly met for the amazing beautiful person that you are? Who does not judge the choices that you have made and does not identify you with your defence mechanisms and behaviours?”

    This sentence and article have reminded me of the kind of person I am naturally but sometimes lose through my own hurts. I have the inspiration and experience of a team of people that live in a way that always loves me, always pulls me up but never puts me down or writes me off. As you have felt, this is inspirational and it cannot be owned, it’s for everyone equally and it is possible.

  9. Such is the nature of true love with all it’s beautiful upholding qualities, emanating from our inner heart which is held by every human being whether they have connected it or not.

  10. Are we talking about a simple true connection, one that starts with how we are with ourselves, knowing that for every point after that that true connection then walks out everywhere. What better way to live than to live whatever you see is needed first. No talking required as all is communicated before your mouth moves. It may seem idealistic to some and then to others it’s an actuality, it’s the truth. Neither are right or wrong as everything is our choice on how we see things. For me, true connection with how I am feeling at every point is a growth and expansion that walks me differently to the world in every moment, the appreciation of this “growth and expansion” gives me a platform to step to the next part. When I write this, it makes life and what I do so so simple, truly connect and appreciate what you feel from there and repeat.

  11. So true, being surrounded by people who are living from who they truly are is awesome to be around. When things are upsetting, hurtful, this offers us a reflection of the next thing that needs to be healed instead of holding them to ransom for years or centuries – love it and truly freeing.

  12. To me, this blog is describing our relationship with God – He who does not judge and constantly holds us for the purity and divinity we are and never less than that.

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