An Introduction to Real Love

by Zofia Sharman, London, UK

Upon seeing and first listening to Universal Medicine in 2006 deliver a presentation about the heart through their Heart Chakra 1 workshop, I have at that time unknowingly been introduced to real love.

Always interested to learn about people, the world around us, the universe and its laws etc, I had over the years attended many one day workshops/presentations/healing courses and none of them presented the topic of love as the base-point for everything happening today like Universal Medicine did (and does); and that love’s absence creates imbalance and inequality such as excess, greed, great wealth alongside poverty, famine and war. But what Serge Benhayon presents is a real meaning or true definition of ‘love’ or, real love – which has been forgotten and substituted for an ideal type of love based on emotion that becomes the love we know (which applied to me). I approached love as an ideal, as if I had to ‘go out, do, look for and find, get, or earn it’. This, my definition of love, was formed from childhood like most through family and friends, education and society shaping it into adulthood. So it is easy to see that when the definition of love is up for question or consideration as Universal Medicine presents, that some feel especially challenged (as I was) by discovering that the type of love regarded/treasured/accepted by us has been in fact something that is not of real love, but rather is a love that is run or based upon an emotional need, drive or drama.

My own version of love was like this, a bartering system: spending time always giving, always doing for others in the hope of what might be received in return. The whole process would cause a depletion of my energy creating stress and a way of living that was always in reaction or expectation which was unhealthy and unbalanced. Such disharmony makes no sense to a body that naturally is meant to run in rhythm or balance, and so it makes sense that this unbalanced way can neither be of real love, nor that the way is truly a loving way to be or operate with self or others.

What I have now learnt and what attendees receive with Universal Medicine is – a chance to learn the art of the love of self, Self-Love.  Everyone who attends the courses (including surgeons, doctors, lawyers, dentists, corporate bankers, business people, builders, cleaners, housewives, college students and the unemployed), are all independently and in their own time learning to love which includes looking at choices in regards consumption of one’s intake of food, drink, sleep, activities that either work or do not work for the body – such as alcohol, drugs, coffee or anything really that makes the body go out of and away from its natural harmonious rhythm. Through being responsible and having an awareness of what is going into the body leading to a behaviour, attitude or way of being that also directly impacts upon another, raises the importance of taking personal responsibility to manage oneself and this in relation to all others. This spherical way of living (and working) is central to the teachings of Universal Medicine.

As the courses have progressed and over the past six years, what is absolutely clear is that Serge Benhayon is someone who has a deep love for humanity – because he has that same deep love for himself which he lives every day and is full of joy, and moreover that all the courses, materials, audios and workshops inspire a way to live that is natural, simple and balanced.

Today I live and continue to work as I did before Universal Medicine – in the fast-paced world of Sales and Recruitment, but this time my approach to work and life has considerably changed following the choice to love truly, and no longer do I have severe debilitating neck pain, feel stressed, anxious, pressured (and irritated) towards ticking ‘life’s boxes’ personally and professionally, but instead I enjoy waking up feeling well rested, clear headed, going to work every day feeling balanced and nourished and have great and meaningful relationships with people. And in having such regard of myself in how I make choices, I have a (continuing) great relationship with myself and also with others – and that is amazing to feel and experience and so to treasure.

119 thoughts on “An Introduction to Real Love

  1. It should be of interest of scientists to explore this, that there is a fuel the body is optimized for and that is love and stillness and without this the body will have to work harder to function. This is something I’m slowly learning myself, to let out the love that is within me and not trying to fight it.

  2. Through the presentations and support of Universal Medicine and the living inspiration of Serge Benhayon I have discovered for myself the meaning of true love and that it is who I am within, and who we all are within. Also, I have realised just how empowering it is to develop a loving and honouring relationship with my body and how this is what guides me to move and live in connection to love more and more, for myself and with all others. With this life and relationships shared are now lived enriched with greater love, inspiration and purpose to be more love, with greater awareness of what is of love and what is not, what is true and what is not, all of which is felt and reflected though the body.

    1. Discovering who we are within is the greatest gift of all, building a connection to our innermost is a path we all seek on one level or another. In a world where we are constantly bombarded with nudges to not be ourselves it is so inspiring to live in the presence of people like Serge Benhayon and The Way of The Livingness student body who are consciously making choices to change their disharmonious ways of life.

  3. Reflecting on true love and having a clear experience of it (as you did in that workshop) is something very needed to discern and discard what is not. Thanks for your testimonial Zofia. It inspires and invites me to do the same in my life.

  4. We tend to be very clear what have we been educated on. Unfortunately, it’s not easy to see the whole package we have been educated about. It is not easy since this is what we tend to see all over. It is only when we get a reflection from a different angle and your body says yes, that you start realizing what you carry and have the chance to start changing it.

  5. It is ironic that love is innately within us all, yet we can spend our whole life looking for it on the outside! Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine are supporting humanity to truly re-connect to the innate love that lies within and to live a full and purposeful life from here.

    1. Yes agreed Vicky. I am eternally thankful to Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine for awakening me to the loveless momentum I was caught in, supporting me to put a stop to this momentum of seeking outside of myself for love, and sabotaging all that I always am within. As through the The Way of The Livingness I now know what it is to live with love, to be moved by the love I am within, in honor of the love we all are. A far more harmonious momentum to be in that brings greater enrichment and presence of love to life, all round.

  6. Of all the many many gifts that Universal Medicine are offering the world, the understanding of the truth of love is a huge one. We are virtually all living with a lie in place of the truth when it comes to love and this needs to be exposed so that we can give real love a go.

  7. ‘I approached love as an ideal, as if I had to ‘go out, do, look for and find, get, or earn it’.’ Zofia I too had the same misguided understanding about love, it was not until I met Serge Benhayon that I learned that I was love and all I had to do was reconnect to it. There was no looking outside for it, because deep down I already had it, everyday I learn to connect to it more deeply.

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