The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt. At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.
At the end of my first one-day Universal Medicine workshop, back in 2004, I walked up to Serge and burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.
Later in the year I attended my first Sacred Esoteric Healing workshop, and as someone who had had many massages in the past I prided myself on having no reservations on being ‘carefree’ and comfortable with my body being touched.
Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt, and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times. Simple, but something that I’d never felt or observed being taught or practised by any of the massage therapists I had seen before.
However, what was even more revealing was to understand the responsibility of energetic integrity that we have, not only when we place our hands on someone or have a discussion with them, but also in the way we engage in our wider life. What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.
The difference that I felt in the two ways – by both practising and receiving a session in each quality – was profound. It was black versus white, chalk and cheese, yet nothing I had considered before that moment. It was the single most foundational teaching of my life.
What happened next was a miracle.
When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had. The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.
Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on. The process was gradual and is very much continuing to this day. It is a process inspired by the energetic integrity and quality that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects: a consistent Integrity that has only ever deepened in the past 13 years.
This energetic integrity that I experience from Serge is of such a high degree that even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me. It has meant that the changes in my life are a result of the work, commitment and choices that I have made – inspired through the absolute steadfastness Serge has shown me.
There are many words that reflect the ways in which Serge Benhayon has touched my life – as a Healer, Friend, Presenter, Author, Father, and Business Mentor – but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother.
By David
Further Reading:
Energetic Responsibility – How Responsible Are We Willing to Be?
SOUL WISDOM – Divine Magic at Play!
Responsibility in the Workplace
The Truth about Universal Medicine 
One of the things about the Universal Medicine courses with Serge Benhayon are that the exercises allow participants to feel the truth for themselves, that is why for me the courses are so life changing as what I take away is my own truth.
Our homes are mere reflections of how we are in the body. Dis-order may be the case in both. Order may be the case in both. But not one thing here and another thing there. That is why when the body gets ordered from within, many aspects of our lives get adjusted. It feels only natural. It is a natural process of discarding what does no longer belong and welcoming what we say yes to.
I have also done several massage courses and the one at Universal Medicine is by far the most respectful of client and practitioner. The quality of care is also very high and the code of ethics from the Esoteric Practitioners Association second to none. Serge Benhayon has raised the standard of massage practice. How wonderful if other organisations would follow suit.
“It has meant that the changes in my life are a result of the work, commitment and choices that I have made”. I cannot deny that the choices I used to make got me into trouble and were highly disregarding. These days being a student of Universal Medicine since 2005 my choices are so confirming and I have so much to be thankful for and appreciate constantly.
I remember attending my first Level 1 Sacred Esoteric Healing course. It was amazing to be in a small room packed with tables doing one on one gentle hands on healing sessions with genuinely very loving people. Everyone having their own unique way of application and design. We live with such an assortment of amazing people whether they are choosing it or not. What we can learn from each other when integrity is chosen before anything else is awe inspiring.
“If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.”
This is one of the most profound teachings I have ever come across, that there are two energies that come through us – one to harm and one to heal – and that ultimately it is up to us which one we choose. It is a wise decision to spend more time investigating the qualities of energies at play. Universal Medicine was the first organisation that i have come across that introduces energetic quality and offers you the chance to see what quality you are living your life in. Game changing, life changing if you so choose.
What I appreciate about what you have shared here David is that Serge Benhayon does not ‘need’ to do any of that, he does it because he knows it matters. I have learnt massage in two countries and never did we talk about energetic integrity of how I lived outside the treatment room – except if I smoked that my fingers would smell of that smoke! The level of integrity Serge teaches is for us all to live in our every day lives, not simply when we are practitioners – a real gift for life.
When we live in connection to love we live in connection to a quality, a vibration that represents, honors and respects who we are in equalness. Such is the importance in developing a loving relationship with our bodies and who we are in essence, as it is this connection that develops our awareness to know if we are being moved by the quality of love or not, and to know that this is our responsibility alone.
“If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.” This was something that I was aware of to an extent before I met Serge Benhayon, but it wasn’t until he explained the very distinct differences between those energies that we choose to align to, and the far reaching consequences have on others when we do this that I began to understand the depth of what he was offering us. And to this day it is something that I am still working on.
The longer I have known Serge Benhayon the more I have come to understand the true meaning of integrity; for me he has re-imprinted this word with the truth. It is not just about the way we act towards others but the way we live in every single part of our lives. Everything is energy and everything is connected, so how we live in every moment affects the quality in which we place our hands on another, the way we talk to another and the way we treat another. Yes, in every second of our lives we have a huge responsibility as to the energy we are choosing in our lives.
“Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on. The process was gradual and is very much continuing to this day. It is a process inspired by the energetic integrity and quality that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects: a consistent Integrity that has only ever deepened in the past 13 years”.
Yes, I am alo inspired daily by the wisdom and integrity that Serge Benhayon lives consistently and reflects that this is possible for everyone as their living way.
“I walked up to Serge and burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever” – totally relatable David, such is the effect of remembered true love, truth and wisdom; always there living in our cells that record eternity.
Universal Medicine opened my eyes to a whole new level of what integrity means, and how responsible we actually are with all of our words, thoughts and actions. When you rediscover it you kind of wonder how you hadn’t noticed it before. We know that everything in nature is connected and interdependent, but we somehow think we humans are above or separate from that. I have found that this responsibility can be reclaimed gradually over time, and it actually brings more meaning and depth to life.
When anyone meets Serge Benhayon there is an instant knowing of what is the truth and what is not. This to me is the first choice we make and it is what we then do with that choice that determines our next step.
‘he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me.’
In this way Serge feels exactly like God is with us: in absolute honor of who we are, constantly confirming that and never ever judging.
” but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother. ”
There is nothing more gracing that to be honoured for the truth of who you are.
I remember the first time I met Serge Benhayon, I was deeply touched by his understanding, how he held everyone equally and never judged anyone for what they said, or what they shared, and still to this day 10 years on, I am still blown away by his commitment to humanity, to gentleness and his ability to always seek the truth.
I have also never felt the level of integrity that Serge has when he teaches the various esoteric healing modalities. Prior to finding Universal Medicine I have had experiences with massage, spiritual healing and complementary therapies where there was an obvious lack of integrity to the point of even experiencing sexual harassment within a session. With the Universal Medicine Therapies the level of love, care and integrity is the highest possible and it means a safe and truly healing environment for the client. The Esoteric Practitioners Association also has the highest code of ethics in the world for any practitioner – something else I am immensely appreciative of.
We each have a core, an innate knowing where nothing looks for or validates the many lies that we have unfortunately made our life from. But it does hold and constantly reflect to us the insidiousness of the lies we have accepted. Here in lies our future, one that sees us completely debunking every lie and again allowing the divine love that is our inner essence to be how we again live our life.
Thank you Elizabeth for sharing your experience, it highlights so much about energetic integrity, that we live in a way connected to a source of energy (our soul/God) that does not harm. Just as integrity operates in business where we make sure everything is done in a way to properly and legally take care of staff and clients, energetic integrity takes us to the next level of never harming another through the quality we bring.
Thank you David, I appreciated your reminder about the two sources or qualities of energy we can choose to align to everyday, one that harms or one that heals, its very simple, powerful, and as you have shared – foundational for life.
So gorgeous David thank you for sharing, I too have been deeply touched by Serge, his absolute integrity in his way of living but also the power of his love for humanity that holds us all as equal, this is truly divine love.
Meeting Serge Benhayon – Deeply Touched by Energetic Integrity. I so agree and every presentation or workshop I attend or listen to, I feel this every time.
This is my experience too “This energetic integrity that I experience from Serge is of such a high degree that even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me.” it is so inspiring and empowering.
Agreed Amita, inspiring and empowering and never asking anyone to blindly copy but to discern for each of us what feels right from our bodies.
One thing I have noticed about being held in equality, is the loving reflection that you receive from simply being in that persons presence, this can be amazing or confronting depending on how we are feeling about ourselves and our place in the world, as this is what is reflected back. As they are holding us in equality there is no imposition from that person, which leaves space for ourselves to be reflected back without the other lacing it with how they feel.
This is true inspiration, coming home to oneself. It IS a deeply touching moment when we are met with the love we are. As I have observed over many years of knowing Serge Benhayon he lives very ordinarily, though the quality of energy that he moves with is not yet what we can call ‘normal’ though it is our natural way in truth.
Beautiful sharing David. When we are met in the fullness of who we are it can be disarming which is a glorious moment.
“If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.” This information should be presented far and wide. I am continually inspired by the reflection Serge Benhayon offers us – observing his movements – very healing.
It’s very powerful what’s on offer by working with the presentations by Serge Benhayon, and also the Universal Medicine Therapies. It’s something that definitely unfolds from within and in daily life, it’s not something we can be told to do, but something we take responsibility for by living from our inner-most heart, and responding to what feels true.
Indeed Serge Benhayon is known for his integrity both energetically and physically with everything he does. Before meeting Serge I had done many different courses, massage, reflexology and hands on healing but never ever had I been particularly and so specifically taught to respect the person’s body I was working with. Crazy really as when you think about this should be the first and foremost thing that is taught.
Realising the choices I have been making to delineate myself was actually very constricting and rigid and was a big turning point for me too. Discarding them to allow space for making truer choices is so liberating.
Thank you David for sharing so beautifully the inspiration that Serge Benhayon constantly offers simply by him living the love we all equally are, without compromise. You have highlighted how true inspiration is just that – reflecting a true way of being which offers us the opportunity to explore this truth for ourselves, from our own lived experience. Our bodies will always know what is true for us, we only need to allow them to guide us so that we too are moved by the quality of love.
Beautifully expressed Carola. The energetic quality of our movements lived is our energetic responsibility.
I am not sure I would have called it integrity when I first met Serge Benhayon, although this is very much the quality that I have known in him for 16 years. I remember not being trusting of male practitioners at the time. Yet when I met Serge, I felt completely safe, like he knew me and accepted me as I was, despite feeling like a mess! This was a massive healing in itself and over the years how integrity has taught me that I can live that too.
Serge Benhayon lives energetic integrity in such an absolute way – it is deeply inspiring to watch him live and move consistently in this way.
Energetic Integrity is not so common in our times, yet it is clearly felt when we connect with someone who lives it in their life. We all are naturally designed to be honest. This is one of the reasons why, no matter how we have been living until that moment, when we receive that reflection from another, we just feel at home.
We cannot compartmentalise any area of our lives. How I am with myself I take into every part of my life, it is one in the same. This truth has been revealing to me too in that I have a responsibility to all areas of my life including the foundational relationship with self and not just the parts that suit me and how I am in one area I bring to every part of my life.
I agree Caroline. It is incredible to feel how enriching it is when we embrace responsibility for how we are living, for the degree of love we are living with, and how this then flows out to all areas on our lives including our relationships.
When I first met Serge Benhayon it was a bit of a non-affair – or so it seemed. I was completely at ease with him and I had total trust in him. This seemed like a non-affair as it felt completely normal. And it is. Except Serge Benhayon is not the norm. The level of integrity and love that he lives is something quite extraordinary yet I did not find it extraordinary. He shows us what is possible at I am one hundred percent at ease with that and know that one day it will be our normal.
The feeling of returning home is unique. It is one that comes from deep inside us. What we have to be aware is that love, absolute care, respect, integrity and responsibility are features of that we have returned to; home.
So true David, by his movements the love and integrity is felt to the bone.. With his expression comes an enormous humbleness that allows you to be nothing else than your true self. Now that is astonishing and deeply supportive.
I too have been deeply touched by the love that Serge Benhayon has held me in (and consistently holds everyone with) – it’s like seeing someone who lives with a deep respect and honouring of themself, a knowing of their worth and in holding you as their absolute equal it supports you to connect with a deeper level of valuing who you are and your potential.
It is the absolute integrity of a healer when we can say our lives are where they are because of our own choices. Serge Benhayon gives each person the space, the love and the steadfast holding of our essence as equal. A deep commitment to humanity few have tangibly lived.
It’s great to embrace new levels of awareness and I remember being afraid of change and trying to have everything stay the same in the past. It was like this was my security blanket and I didn’t want anything to change because I got it to a point where everything was going ok or manageable. What I have realised or become aware of is the pain that kept popping into my life at different points or the unrest I felt was from attempting to hold onto things and not just keep growing or allowing my awareness to expand. I still get caught in patterns but knowing how things feel is a sure sign when something is going on. If I feel an unrest or life doesn’t flow I know to ask the question similar to ‘what’s going on’ and at that point there is an asking, a reflection or an investigation into why my awareness has stopped it’s ever growing expansion.
“When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had”. I very much relate to this David. Walking into my home after attending one Universal Medicine workshop, I felt immediately to clean and clear my home and the process of refining continues. More recently, I was inspired to deep clean and clear my home to provide the support needed to best serve myself and others.
Met too Susan, I smiled at the fact your trust had a capital T because that is the value I place on trust as well. It is BIG! We know it in our bodies and goes way beyond clever words and outside appearances. Trust is transparent and happy to be seen and felt in full.
The quality of the way we move had been a new consideration for me, yet I too could feel such a difference in the treatments and practitioners I had met through Universal Medicine. I was a practitioner myself and I wondered if I brought this to my clients because if not then I should pay them all back!! It was an honouring that cannot be turned on and off, it came through their way of living and this is something Serge shares in his courses and talks. It is the essence of the Esoteric Practitioners Code of Ethics and an honour to sign up to.
One of the many, many things I admire in Serge Benhayon is his high level of integrity for himself and man kind. I have noticed how the levels of decency and respect towards each other have plummeted in my life time. We seem to have lost even the basic forms of being courteous towards each other as we push and shove people out of the way to get what we want and we want it now. Serge Benhayon is bringing back into our society a way of being with each other that holds the other person with the highest respect because he holds him self with the same utmost respect. I am finding that when we can cherish ourselves it naturally leads to cherishing other people.
My way as a practitioner changed forevermore after experiencing the way Serge honoured me as a client. The way he put the cover on, the way he offered me the space to be myself. There was an “absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times” and this gave me the space to surrender to the support of the table and build a new relationship with myself through the process. I then realised that I could never go back to being unaware of the impact of my touch on my clients and therefore there was a deepening of how I treated myself so it could be natural rather than forced. That felt like integrity to me – transparent and consistent, not compartmentalising my role and my behaviour.
It was the same with me… From the very first meeting with Serge Benhayon my life was redefined, and my true journey to my inner heart started.
“When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had. The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.” I can so relate to this David, always after attending a Universal Medicine workshop I return home and begin a process of clearing in my house, my car, my daily activities, it’s a refinement that with greater clarity is responding to what I know will best support me and my family to evolve and express with greater energetic freedom.
Energetic integrity in the way that Serge represents it, is our altimate way forward and there is no two ways about it.
Serge Benhayon reflects and presents a depth of love that most of us are not used to receiving or experiencing. We are met for who we are in a way we are most likely not to have been met before. And for some – this is a challenging ouch moment, because in their face is the fact that this love is something they miss so much. So they turn it around and against – and Serge Benhayon is depicted as the bad guy offering something that is too good to be true, but not true…
We’ve seen this take place throughout man’s history – a messenger of God offered to mankind for mankind rebuked and ridiculed. Our behaviour has not changed. But what has also remained a constant is our Love even if we throw it away with fervour – the Love that we are simply is, and it waits ever so patiently for that inevitable moment when each one of us will humbly see what we’ve been avoiding and rejecting. This is what Serge reflects and represents – the unwavering, steadfastness of Love in all its glory. Holding us all for an eternity.
Before meeting Serge Benhayon I also had absolutely no idea what energetic integrity was and like you David from day one, or workshop one, I was taken instantly by the special lived integrity that Serge displayed.
I couldn’t agree more David, never in my life have I experienced being held as an equal to the extent Serge Benhayon does, and often if and when I ask a question, I can feel the answer in me before he answers, which tells me then that he is confirming what I had already sensed.
It is the absolute integrity that allows for the reawakening of a trust long left behind – integrity is reliable.
David your words bring a deep resonance with me, I too have made life changing changes by being inspired by the amazing man that Serge Benhayon is. Serge reflects the universe and reminds us of who we truly are – and in truth there can be nothing greater then the realisation of the love we are.
It is true inspiration that brings us to gradually refine every part of our life, “discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on”. The release from that identification in who we think we are, is a very potent shift.
Indeed rosannabianachini, the clearing of our collective pictures to make way for the expression of our natural essence is gloriously freeing and confirming.
The energetic integrity Serge Benhayon lives in his life is rock solid and is a reflection of a man who lives integrity in such an absolute way.
Such a beautifull and heartfelt blog. I completely get what you have said after knowing Serge Benhayon for over 11 years especially this ‘The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt. At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.’ I too did not know what this word (integrity) truly meant until after meeting Serge. Before knowing Serge I also completed a body massage course and other healing courses and no one running those courses taught me or reiterated to truly respect the body/person I was working with. It was more like, here is a body and this is what you do! Now, I have learnt so so much from what Serge teaches but also in by observing how he moves and is with people, it is a truly blessing and life teaching/lesson that I would say is vital and what every single person should learn first before anything else.
Absolutely amen to that David. Integrity of what energy we choose in our lives is fundamental and is causing the ripple effect and progress in life – in one way or the other. As we become more aware of that we in fact have a choice and that all the choices come with energy : we start to observe that we have let certain energies in our lives own us. Universal Medicine was beside me on this path, and still is, as without this support I would be probably still in the withdrawal and unawareness conscious existence of that we in fact have a choice. Hence the multitude of thanks can not be described in words – but is endlessly huge.
I can remember having massages on holidays and having the practitioner talking to the other practitioners and there felt like there was little awareness to what they were doing. Energetic integrity is something that is much needed in the world today, as care, love and true nurturing is something we all crave.
It is true that in all of the courses held by Serge Benhayon that I have attended there has always been an exact precision brought to the details taught to us for when it comes to placing our hands on another persons’ body, this level of integrity is so refined and exquisite it is a joy to learn and to practise.
One of the things that I never cease to be amazed and inspired at is how every time I see Serge Benhayon, is that he is continuously looking at and adressing how he lives by making adjustments here and there to ensure that he is consistently bringing true integrity and love to everything he does and every one he meets. Serge is such a deep inspiration to so many as he never ceases to ask us to look at our own lives so that we may live that same quality if we chose.
You don´t know Energetic Integrity before you meet it in its fullest. Meeting Serge Benhayon is such a moment. And even then it takes some time or processing to realize the magnitude of what that actually means, probably we will only understand it in full when we live it ourselves.
There is such a joy when we are confirmed in our truth, which is what Serge Benhayon constants reflects.
There is an undeniable quality that Serge Benhayon lives, you cannot help but feel it pervading everything that he does, and likewise, you cannot help but be inspired by it as it reveals that in life there is so much more than what I have settled for.
Our accumulated hurts, ideals and beliefs about the world we have created anchor us to a status quo that inhibits our potential to grow and evolve. And until we begin to become aware of this fact and start to discard what is not true we will be held back from living to our full potential.
There is a definite quality that comes from being connected to our Soul and as a reflection Serge Benhayon is the providing the space for us all to reconnect to our Soul. Then as equal brothers everything that is shared in this energy gets to be felt by all humanity and this is with everything that Serge presents.
The feeling of ‘coming home’ is also what I have felt in the presence of Serge Benhayon. He holds a space of such love, that it is impossible to not feel the same within myself.
I agree Leigh, we are coming home to our true selves, to the love within.
The absolute beauty and divinity of meeting Serge Benhayon and being with his presence is a real gift from heaven as he is, for us all, lighting the way for humanity to return to the love and integrity we innately are.
It’s amazing how having the reflection of someone who is really living who they truly are can help us to see things that we may have been defining ourselves by but that weren’t really who we are in essence and from that we have the clarity to see that we can let that falseness go and re-connect back with who we truly are.
Due to a back problem I had, I have had many various treatments from different therapists over the years and I hated being asked to strip down to my bra and pants so the Osteopath could clearly see and mark my back prior to treatment. I felt very self conscious and uncomfortable but it seemed to be a necessary part of the process, so I braced myself for what for me was an ordeal.
Going to see a Universal Medicine practitioner was an entirely different experience I didn’t have to take any clothes off and yet they checked my back very carefully with absolute respect and what is more important my long term back problem has cleared up.
Thank you Mary for your comment, there is a level of care and respect practiced in Universal Medicine Therapies that I also have not seen or personally experienced elsewhere. As a woman I am always cared for to the highest degree at the Universal Medicine clinic and by all practitioners who practice their therapies.
Yes, equality is something that Serge Benhayon teaches, not because he uses so many words but in the way he moves, speaks and lives – I have observed him over many years and I have seen him treat everyone with the same deep respect, honour and love that I feel when I meet him.
I agree Judith, Serge Benhayon is the first person I’ve met in my life that holds everyone as equal and the same – it is a beautiful quality and very inspiring on many levels.
Serge Benhayon is the epitome of energetic integrity. The way he lives, walks and talks is constantly for all. This is incredibly inspiring – there is absolutely no self in anything he does, and at the same time he completely honours himself.
Energetic integrity is something that we all very much long for to receive. It is so beautiful to feel someone who expresses mainly from the purity of their essence without interference of emotions, lies or alcohol induced behaviours.
Integrity was just another word, and then after meeting Serge Benhayon the true meaning of integrity was shown to all those who are willing to listen and feel the presentations. True energetic integrity is a part of Serge’s Livingness, and would stand up to any scrutiny. When words are lived and not just part of a throw away line then the energetic intent behind any word can be felt, so the more Livingness we live the greater our responsibility to choice energetic integrity.
David you have captured Serge beautifully “Healer, Friend, Presenter, Author, Father, and Business Mentor, Equal brother” I would like to add World Teacher to the list that in truth could go on forever.
What Serge Benhayon has brought to the world will be revered, studied, and looked upon for many many years to come. We have before us a man who like many soulful servants (Muhammad, Jesus, Buddha…) is a man of God in the utmost true meaning of the world. His message is simple – live simply from your inner heart and all will be known to thee.
Serge Benhayon will eventually be known as the greatest world teacher to ever walk amongst us.
The vast majority of people who meet Serge Benhayon can feel the deep level of integrity within him, we may not use that word but there is a natural level of trust that can be felt emanating from Serge.
For some people this can bring up all sorts of hurts that have been buried or deliberately stuffed down deep into their bodies in order for them to cope with life. Being confronted by our hurts can be extremely challenging and we can easily blame Serge Benhayon rather than stepping back looking at what is going on in our own lives. I know that when I first met Serge Benhayon by attending one of his workshops many years ago I felt extremely angry and resentful towards him. But Serge was just reflecting back to me like a mirror how angry and resentful I was with myself and life. For me to be angry and resentful towards him or anyone else for that matter was me not accepting responsibility for the way I had been behaving in life and the shortcomings that led me to lead an unfulfilling life.
We can get very jealous, angry and frustrated when we see someone live the life we want and live it so simply and effortlessly.
Having got to know Serge and this integrity, it develops an amazing level of trust. I know many people who have been touched and inspired by Serge and themselves live lives of the utmost integrity and allow of truly amazing relationships.
When I first met Serge Benhayon I knew there was something different about him but I could not put my finger on it but I knew I had to see him again. What I later realised is that there was nothing about him that was imposing, he allowed me to just be in every sense of the word, and he met me as an equal which is almost unheard of in a world full of ideals and beliefs that are imposed on us from day one. I remember the freedom and joy I felt from hearing the truth that made absolute sense to me and resonated in every cell of my body.
There are many ways and areas that I have chosen (and still choosing) to lay true foundations for in my life from inspiration by the presentations and livingness of Serge Benhayon. But the one you share rings loud and clear as the quality that radiates and that is the foundation that we are all equal sons of God – true brotherhood.
I reckon it is one thing to know what energetic integrity is and altogether something else to see it being lived, breathed and walked in every moment.
One of the meanings of integrity is ‘wholeness’. It is interesting to note David when you met Serge Benhayon you said you felt your whole body was at ease. Perhaps if a person is wholly a person of integrity, we get to feel that same sense of wholeness – it is an offering they bring.
Serge Benhayon’s track record of integrity is beyond reproach. There are so many with a similar story to yours, who will attest to over a decade of support, love and unquestionable integrity.
There has been many many aspects of life about which I have been deeply touched through simply witnessing the way Serge Benhayon lives or hearing him share about the way he relates to life. The remarkable thing is that he never ever acts as if he is special but takes the greatest care to let you know that what we see in him is exactly what is our own essence.
I can feel that although for perhaps lifetimes I have not lived as he has, what is deep within me is fundamentally the same. There is a deep recognition of what I witness together with a deep pain of knowing that I had given up on the possibility of that expression in the world and how I had built my life on a false version of the exquisite quality I see before me. It is true we are all the same but not always living it.
As a direct result of what he reflects I understand far more about love, purpose and responsibility. He is the most inspiring person I have ever met.
Yes, Serge Benhayon’s every movement is a reflection that there is a different way of being here on earth together, that we each have a divine quality within us that can never be lost, no matter what gets in the way of us being able to feel it.
Meeting Serge Benhayon is the most pivitol and deeply inspiring moment of my life too thank you David for this beautiful sharing. The depth of love integrity and understanding offered by Serge Benhayon and lived by him is the most amazing support in the world holding us as who we truly are and nothing less.
“…burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever…” I can totally relate to this, It is a pivotal moment in feeling the consequences of all the choices ever made…
‘I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt. At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.’ Energetic integrity is something we do deeply trust and our bodies instantly respond when we sense this.
“My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.” It is very powerful to experience something such as this, that we have always known but possibly have never been able to truly understand what we have really been feeling. There is no coincidence when we meet someone who feels and seems so familiar, for there is no doubt that we have been connected in some way in another life. Serge Benhayon brings this clarity of understanding with such enormous integrity for us all to know.
“There are many words that reflect the ways in which Serge Benhayon has touched my life – as a Healer, Friend, Presenter, Author, Father, and Business Mentor – but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother.”
Beautifully expressed David, I concur absolutely, it was not until I met Serge Benhayon that I understood true inspiration, for it is a full bodied pull towards something I know is innately within me.
One cannot begin to understand the level of integrity that Serge Benhayon lives by and with. One can only feel it and be inspired.
Understanding that there are two forms of energy is the most vital part of life on earth, it makes everything make sense and it brings purpose back to everyday living with each other.
Being held as an equal brother by Serge Benhayon is so empowering, loving and carrying such absolute integrity; how blessed we are. Thank you David for your beautiful and inspiring expression.
Serge is the truest of friends, never pleasing or holding back to make someone at ease but Always delivering what is needed at exactly the right time. Thank you Serge.
The inspiration and absolute love offered by Serge Benhayon to everyone is so deeply beautiful and knowing inside us all that can be celebrated and allowed to blossom as a way of being if we choose it lovingly.
I too have connected with the absolute love and integrity that Serge Benhayon lives and cried with the knowing that I am from this love too. The beauty of this, that though I hadn’t lived my life, I knew I could return to and am.
In all the courses, workshops and things I have been to in my life I have only every known Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine to present this ‘What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms’. With Serge it is always about presenting the truth, not holding back and having absolute integrity in all that he does which is something I deeply appreciate and teaches me to be the same.
‘Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt, and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times. Simple, but something that I’d never felt or observed being taught or practised by any of the massage therapists I had seen before.’
This demonstrates how incredibly unique the modalities that Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine provide and teach are – never have I seen such attention to detail for integrity and energetic awareness.
I have always loved how ordinary Serge is. He is a true servant, so down to earth to work with people and yet totally majestic. I am so glad to know him.
When I first came to Universal Medicine I also felt as if I had ‘returned home’. We all know the ageless wisdom and Serge Benhayon points us back to ourselves and reminds us of what we already know and then, inspired by him and others who are returning, we begin unfolding back to who we truly are.
David, you said that when you met Serge Benhayon that ‘my whole body was at ease in his presence’. It’s amazing how the body just knows and feels things often well before we are consciously aware of them. I feel the same when I am with Serge. He is so unimposing and gives us space to be ourselves and I do feel freer to express who I am with him because I am not afraid that he might react for he holds us all with love even though he can see our foibles.
“If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.” This is a profound teaching and would do well to go up in every practitioners treatment room. There’s always a deeper quality available within us to reveal.
Equal Brother Serge Benhayon most certainly is… an unwavering reminder that we are equal in the stupendousness we all are.
I have never met another person who lives the level of energetic integrity and responsibility that Serge Benhayon does. He is an extraordinary man living an ordinary life. He is the real deal, we are so blessed to have the world teacher walking amongst us.
Universal Medicine is not simple the title of a health and wellbeing business – this is the medicine that restores harmony to a deeply troubled planet.
I love how you share that with Serge Benhayon “the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother.” Gorgeous David. Serge holds everyone in equalness – that is every one of us.
The love Serge Benhayon represents is a love we all hold inside yet many of us have turned it off and shut it down. Serge walks and moves with God, he connects to the greatness of the universe and brings it for us all to see. Serge Benhayon reminds us of the equal great love we all are.
When equality is shared, we know this is love. When all of us is equally shared, we are being love.
Truth when met inspires the equal truth within us; every cell in the body resonates with the love and integrity that emanates. Serge Benhayon lives energetic integrity and responsibility and reflects to us how this in truth is our nature.
I remember my first meeting with Serge and to look at it, you would have thought nothing much went down. I said hello, he asked my name, our eyes met and we parted. But I still remember it clearly even though it was over 5 years ago and for me that shows the level of presence and love that Serge meets everyone with even with such daily, seemingly non-consequential interactions.
When I first heard Serge speak I knew in my heart I had come home, though a part of me just wanted to get out of there, I knew he was offering truth that I knew in my body.
I too remember meeting Serge for the first time, and the depth of love and integrity that I was offered and felt in that moment was palpable. I came away from that frist workshop feeling so inspired by him and what he was presenting, and knew that my life would be significantly different from that point on.
“Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt, and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times.”
It is almost like a miracle to observe the energetic integrity of Serge in motion. Every moment he is with himself aware and in conscious presence so deeply that if you are open, you feel it deeply in your own body.
My experience of speaking with Serge Benhayon is that he never offers anything that allows you to stay in the disempowerment of not knowing something, but rather inspires you to reclaim all that you do know.
Serge Benhayon walks his talk, he lives what he presents, and he is transparent, and thus his reflection is so powerful and healing because his reflection reminds us all where we come from. My life has transformed no-end since meeting Serge and the Ageless Wisdom he presents.
I really enjoy working with Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine and am constantly inspired by the ever evolving nature of our lives – whether this manifests in the way we choose to eat, in the need to refresh our homes and clear stuff out, in our parenting, our attitude to work – all the time we have the opportunity to develop our relationship with responsibility and deepen our understanding of the part we play in humanity.
What Serge Benhayon presents and represents is beyond anything my mind can fathom. But something else in me very simply realises it for a truth I recognise but have chosen to forget a long time ago.
Vast and simple – I love that Alex, it feels like the universe we have all around us.
If there is one person I absolutely trust with my life, it’s Serge Benhayon.
I agree Gyl, I trust him impeccably I cannot say that about any other human being.
Meeting Serge Benhayon is a whole body experience. There is something very powerful and absolutely un-imposing in him that makes a body to totally surrender. It is only at that time, that you realize the amount of tension you have in your body and you live ‘normally’. If you honour what you feel, this is the beginning of a healing journey that lasts forever.
The other way to describe those two forms of energy – known as fire and prana – is that the latter is imposing on the body and the being, whilst the former does not impose itself at all, but merely presents itself and allows in turn the being to accept or reject its offering.
This is a great description Adam that makes it clear for me that pretty much everything in life at this moment is of the latter energy. Imposing has been made into an art: adverts, marketing, the manipulating methods used in relationships. And there is the imposing on one another we do on a daily basis with the vibes we emanate with our thoughts, emotions, words and movements which another has to wade through (when we say “the tension in the room was so thick one could almost cut it with a knife” we are referring to this).
Thank God that those like Serge Benhayon clearly show that we can live in a different way. I have not come across anyone expressing so much love, care, dedication and wisdom consistently and so humbly. Fire – “does not impose itself at all, but merely presents itself and allows in turn the being to accept or reject its offering”. This is the way so clearly inspired by Serge Benhayon and thank goodness that hundreds and hundreds of people are inspired to start bringing this understanding into their every day living.
This is a great description of the impact meeting such integrity does to one’s life. I agree with you David, that meeting Serge Benhayon and attending any of the Universal Medicine courses leaves one with an immense marker of integrity and truth that stays well with you.
This is a great sharing David for it shows us the domino effect that happens when we meet someone living at that level of energetic integrity that Serge Benhayon lives at. Serge shows us that we can choose to live this also and have this same affect on others. In fact, once we felt this level of integrity we know instantly that it is our responsibility to be that too as anything less is harming.
A simple but profound dissection of energy: “What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.”
Integrity is indeed a word that takes on a whole new meaning when Serge Benhayon steps into the picture. He is the marker, the deepest marker for the word integrity, and this is a true blessing to have in our current world that has lost and lacks the true meaning of so many words. Integrity is not the only word that Serge Benhayon has resurrected from the miasma of thwarted truths that exist currently, and it is a beautiful thing to have the true meaning of words returned to us in the way someone lives with the deepest levels of integrity. The true meaning of words can only be returned to us by someone who lives them fully with no holding back, and then this becomes the reminder, the inspiration for us all to do like wise and hence for us all to return to a way of living that is actually innate and natural for us.
The refinement of everyday life is a continual process, adding in supportive and caring activities, removing that which no longer fits with the level of love and care I have for myself. Refining is the right word, as it goes down to very fine detail. I love this way of living, it offers me more than I could ever have imagined in living the joyful purposeful life I always wanted to live.
Thank you David – Serge Benhayon has the most integrity of any man I know in history.
A man who lives and breathes for Humanity and not himself. Hence he has his life dedicated to serve people beyond measure and teach a way forward that can be lived by mankind in order go back to where we belong: that is not earth. We are constantly spinning around in the same circle until we get there and finally rise to an expansion that dissolves this human existence. Only then we will be truly free.
I have known Serge Benhayon for about 16 years now. His integrity back then struck me on a practical level; with the genuine care he has for people being very obvious. However the depth of his integrity still constantly amazes me. He is in fact redefining that word for me, as the depth of what integrity means to Serge Benhayon (and therefore what is possible for us all) is way beyond anything I or anyone else I know has experienced.
‘What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. ‘ this in itself is life changing. Understanding that we cannot be in between and that we either contribute to the problems facing humanity or a way out of them as being lived by a growing number of people who are embracing a return to a known way of living from within.
As you so beautiful described in your awesome blog David Serge Benhayon’s integrity is at such a high level that he is able to change the world.
It is a huge blessing to meet someone and realise the love that we feel of them is the equal love that we are, it is very humbling and at the same time deeply appreciative to come to this point, which is a reflection that we are ready to come back to more of the love that we are, and this is an unfoldment that Serge Benhayon has inspired in so many around the world, and in turn, we can then inspire those around us too.
Such powerful reflections of truth remind us that to live with energetic integrity and true responsibility is our natural way. To be inspired to then take this into our own homes and live with this awareness is deeply empowering and truly transforming.
“There are many words that reflect the ways in which Serge Benhayon” lives and presents the energetic truth in words. Words allow true healing and that understanding that words can have so much power over us, aligning us to the truth when we choice to be responsible in how we interpret the energetic truth in words.
This is another area I had not even considered important, let alone reflect on integrity of the relationship I had with it – words – until I met Serge Benhayon. I have been noticing how the meaning I allocate to words creates the window through which I look at life and so impacts the way I approach life. It is huge.
The care and dedication with which Serge Benhayon consistently uses words with their precise meaning and at times lovingly peels back the misconceptions we have built around them has inspired me to reassess my relationship with so many significant words such as love, truth, harmony, responsibility, Soul, spirit, religion and so much more. And my relationship with them is forever deepening as a result.
It is wonderful that a group of people who understand this significance and deeply care have been covering such words on their website pages: http://www.unimedliving.com/unimedpedia.
I agree Golnaz, the site you recommend on unimedliving.com holds the truth in words to the highest integrity and is second to none when it comes to true energetic truth.
And the longer I have gotten to know Serge I have only discovered his integrity to a deeper level.
Before meeting Serge Benhayon my understanding of integrity was not lying, not cheating and not hurting people. Since I have met Serge Benhayon my relationship with pretty much everything in life has deepened and the word integrity is one of them.
The first time I heard him say something like “he would not consider drinking or anything that affects his own energy because he knew when he interacts with anyone afterwards they will cop the harming impact of his choice, I cried. I had not considered care and integrity to such a depth, energetic integrity was not on my radar and I had certainly not come across anyone who considered his integrity and his impact on the world to such heartfelt detail.
I can so relate to this Golnaz, I was also deeply touched by this true level of harmlessness. To be living with the awareness that literally everything in thought, word and action is either in harmony with the love and truth we are or discordant to our nature… huge.
This sentence says it all for me, David – “If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.” It is so important to remember that we are either healing or harming with every word or gesture.
Awareness is key. Unless we are aware of the quality we are in it is likely we are harming ourselves and others. As I become more aware and present with my body I am getting to know the quality I am in and that is either confirming or harming.
‘but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.’ This is such a beautiful sentence, knowing that it is not what we say but how we move through life that makes a difference.
I have never been held in so much love as I am by Serge Benhayon, this for me is a marker of the level of love I need to work on to hold everyone in. It’s incredible, it works miracles, without even a word needing to be said.
I’ve teared up a few times in front of Serge over the years (he must be quite used to students doing this by now!). For me it’s the profound beauty that lies in being 100% met and understood – and accepted for who I am. That’s love beyond compare. No wonder we feel as deeply touched as we do.
What a beautiful sharing David; the absolute energetic integrity and love lived by Serge Benhayon is without a doubt beyond any thing else seen in the world and is an inspiration and reflection for us all. Allowing others to share this way of living is so important for it is what we all know and can live from inside us all.
Thanks for the article David, I love the fact that appreciate what Serge represents but that the biggest change came from your own choices and actions when you returned home. This is true inspiration and empowerment.
Absolutely Joel. True change only comes when we are willing to choose to put into practice and actually live and committ to what we learn from listening to Serge Benhayon.
‘The difference that I felt in the two ways – by both practicing and receiving a session in each quality – was profound.’ This is truly amazing to feeling the heeling in giving a session as well as receiving one.
I totally agree David. When I first met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by his incredible level of integrity and how he was able to see so very clearly ‘The Way It Is’, that made so much sense in face of life’s nonsensical-ness (a new word!)
I know so many who have been deeply touched by Serge Benhayon and in this, I am so inspired by the potential that we all have to do the same.
Great point, Rebecca, and another level of responsibility that is very inspiring.
Yesterday as I was talking to a friend someone bumped into my shoulder as my back was turned. As that someone walked past me, I looked up and he looked around at the same time. It was Serge Benhayon. He looked at me with his beautiful blue eyes and simply smiled in confirmation. The smile in return was already on my face before I knew it. That encounter was so special, because the look in his eyes was pure love, joy, warmth, power and confirmation – it was a fraction of a moment that felt utterly profound in the space it took place in, and will stay with me for a long, long time. I love Serge Benhayon more than words can express.
Interesting how we can go to a workshop by Serge Benhayon and then we come home with such a clarity and ease in knowing where to go from here, knowing what needs to change in the way that we are living. The challenge of course is holding onto that clarity and then putting it into lived action.
The teaching that we can either harm or heal dependent on the quality of energy we choose to live by has been a most sobering realisation. I know now that it is my responsibility to ensure I choose a way of moving that, as you describe, won’t harm, but offers instead a reflection that reminds another of this same quality within themselves.
‘At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.’
I remember meeting Serge Benhayon for the first time and bursting into tears at feeling what I knew was something lived that I hadn’t previously experienced in this lifetime. He lives breathes and moves in a way that represents an integrity from God that I didn’t have the words for, what I felt at the time just shows how little there is of this in the world. World leaders seem to only consider the interests of a certain few and in representing those certain few, disregarding others. Serge Benhayon considers himself and us all equally so no-one is left out and this is how he lives his life and runs his businesses. Everyone can be inspired that this way of living is possible in a world that is based on doing what’s best for the interests of a minority compared to the whole. It is no wonder we still have wars!
Serge reflects true energetic responsibility, through his movements, words and action, no space for any gaps.
I too was absolutely blown away by the level of care and integrity taught in Serge Benhayon’s workshops. The detail to which hand positions are taught in a way that ensures absolute honouring of the person receiving the session. The emphasis on absolute care and personal integrity which goes as far as taking into account the fact that we are energetic beings and our energy affects the other person. No techniques are taught without ensuring this level of understanding and responsibility is reached. Out of all the modalities and schools I studied with, no teaching had come even close to the level of care and integrity inspired by Serge Benhayon.
If I hear, see and feel Serge Benhayon present, it all makes sense and appears to be extremely simple. Yet here we are as a race of being making life very complicated and complain about so many things in life. If we’re honest, we are not having a healthy relationship with life and with ourselves. Serge Benhayon simply presents that this is actually very simple. The only thing it requires is consistency in making energetically true choices.
We all know and feel when the energy in any given situation is not true… which shows us that deep within us we all know what energetic integrity and energetic responsibility is and what it feels like, but because it is no longer ‘normal’ we calibrate to the situation rather than staying with and trusting our own inner wisdom and expressing our truth from there – which naturally comes with energetic integrity and energetic responsibility.
It is so rare these days to meet someone who lives with full energetic integrity and energetic responsibility, that when we do meet them, they stand out from everyone else. This very much exposes how little energetic integrity and energetic responsibility there is in the world today. Thank God for people like Serge Benhayon who are making it the new normal – it is so very needed!
Agreed and so inspiring to walk alongside him and realise that we have these qualities too and that all we have to do is practise awakening them in our lives.
Every single time I am with Serge be it in a group session, workshop, course or a catch up I am deeply touched at how Serge is with me and everyone else. Such a man with enormous Love for all that when you are in the presence of this Love you can only melt and be mesmerised by it because we know it so well inside of us too.
The first time I met Serge I remember feeling like I was really being listened to. I felt the same way around him as I did when I am alone.. completely trusting.
There was nothing I can say Serge did that was different to others, but there is a quality in his body that doesn’t fight the world. This is a man that does not carry any issues. A man who lives united with all that unites. From feeling this deep trust in Serge I naturally responded to him with absolute honesty. It was very empowering to feel myself expressing this way. We should never underestimate the power of listening with an open heart – this was one of the lessons I learned from that day.
I was also very struck by Serge Benhayon’s level of integrity when I first met him. It is the first time I can honestly say that I had been in a room with a good looking man and not had a single self-conscious thought about what he might think of me. It never even entered my head, nor whether he was married, single, interested or not. I just knew he wasn’t, and nor was I in that respect, and yet I felt more seen, understood, valued and treated like royalty than I’d ever experienced in my life. l’ve since come to know that as the impeccable integrity that he holds himself and therefore all others in. He has taught me what true energetic integrity means AND most importantly how it feels. Nobody can pull the wool over my eyes in that respect, thanks to him.
Serge Benhayon has touched many of our lives and always with absolute integrity. It is always our choice to be inspired by what he presents or to run away, nevertheless he continues to not hold back, to present what is there for us to know and feel. As a result many have made huge changes in their lives.
I can also remember the first course I attended which was presented by Serge and can remember feeling how much love and respect he held everyone in and this was transferred to those you put your hands on in healing sessions – it’s truly beautiful to experience on any level.
I love claiming back the truth of the word love and then respect also… the tenderness, understanding, care and reverence with which we hold ourselves and others… very beautiful.
David’s words on his life changes and the way Serge Benhayon touches everyone’s lives brought a question to me. ‘Why is it so unusual to meet such a steadfast man who lives life with deep integrity and in absolute brotherhood?’ This is a true reflection of who we are and how we all can live and yet life on earth is in chaos with illness and disease growing to unmanageable levels. Perhaps we lost our way somewhere back in ages gone by and it is time to return to the love we all can live so evident in Serge’s every movement.
It is so important to have pieces of writing like this, where the fact of the two energies is explained in such simple and relatable terms. Because when true energetic awareness is lived, I find that life starts to become not only a lot simpler but more joyful too.
Great blog David, to bring this further out to the world. Serge Benhayon reflects consistency, integrity and purpose of life to us all by his words and his every movement. He sees potential and positivity in all of us, and is truly inspiring.
What a gorgeous constant reminder Serge Benhayon provides for us by how he lives with consistency, integrity and absolute love and dedication to people, to keep deepening those qualities within ourselves and living them as powerfully in our own lives.
“… he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me.” And so Serge Benhayon consistently and without fail empowers us to reclaim our own authority and discernment, enabling us connect to our rich inner resources from which to live life. Serge masterfully brings to our awareness all our innate strengths, perpetually confirming who we truly are in a world that seeks to tell us who we are not.
The Way of The Livingness is an opportunity to refine every aspect of your life to be on that supports and represents your inner most connection with yourself. That refinement is your way, and not someone else’s way so it is inherently filled with self-love.
To know Serge Benhayon is to know the truth about ourselves, and to learn to live that is an amazing purpose to hold on earth.
By taking care of what’s on the outside, energetic integrity looks after what’s on the inside.
We need our body in order to receive the communication of the Universe. Because we’re in denial of the Grandness that we are, it is simple to justify that making abusing and dismissive choices to our body is ‘normal’. Yet it is not. There’s a whole different way of living which places the importance of our body at number 1 and not the separate mind. Yet, we live life the other way around. Which means change has to come from us, by us making different choices.
David I still cry after 13 years, at some of the presentations by Serge Benhayon, because as I connected so deeply, as the joy in my body is overwhelming.
I can so relate to this Greg. There is no end to the depth of love and universal wisdom that Serge shares at every single presentation.
So true Vicky, when the Universality that we all come from is felt, there is no place for the joy to hide, not that you would want it to anyway.
Yes, I too can relate to your sharing Greg, as the feeling of ‘coming home’ just gets deeper with each presentation from Serge and Universal Medicine.
Home is where the heart is, and there has never been a truer saying so spot on Johanne.
I love this openness and honesty. I am often deeply moved by what Serge Benhayon presents and feel the tears as a deep recognition of the love that is our true foundation.
Agreed Matilda, love when felt brings a true joy and the tears can flow because to be honest we are not living to that level of love.
Steadfastness is such a great way to describe Serge Benhayon. He is unwavering when it comes to living and expressing truth – there is no wriggle room, he is absolute.
Yes Sandra and in this absoluteness there is no hardness, simply a powerful beholding quality that holds you in complete equality and space to be where you are at and to feel where you are at, with no judgement but complete and utter understanding and love.
Our vocabulary is rather limited when it comes to putting words to Serge Benhayon. He is other worldly and so words from this world never quite cut it. If you have met Serge, what an honour that is. If you haven’t, we are still graced by his presence and impact on this world.
The more we are willing to live life from an open heart in connection with our soul, the more miracles we experience on a daily basis until it becomes our new normal in order to emanate truth and love for others to feel and be inspired from.
By introducing, or rather re-introducing, the fact that there are two energies we choose from in every moment, we have been given the simple and ageless truth that sets us free.
What is reflected in Serge Benhayon is the absolute knowingness that we are greater than any issues we may think we have. I get the absolute I can deal, with anything life presents to me, that he presents. I have been inspired to allow myself to know what I know that I otherwise wanted to ignore. But not dealing with stuff meant I had to dull my senses to not feel and try to make it up to myself for not being and standing by myself – a real betrayal of who I am and all that I hold dear. So this meant all kinds of foods that didn’t agree with me, watching TV to escape etc.
Inspiration is worth studying to the finite detail.. and opens to door to explore quality, what we so easily feel, yet do not see.
Serge touches the lives of so many in simply being himself and in doing this he has inspired me to live who I truly am for you can never underestimate your impact on others.
This is so true Rebecca. We cannot for one minute think that what we do does not affect another as the impact of everything we do has far reaching consequences and touches many.
It is not often we truly get to meet/know integrity lived and presented by someone; every cell in us recognises it as a quality and presence we can trust. It is one of the basic ingredients to having deep and intimate relationships – with ourselves and others. Integrity is not a talent or incidental attribute, it is a choice and way of living to make that choice a tangible, embodied state of being, thus it is an expression of responsibility and love for people as well.
Integrity is indeed a choice, it is up to each and everyone of us, every single moment, to make that choice – or not.
In having a short conversation with Serge recently in which he asked me a couple of seemingly simple questions, the level of energetic integrity with which he asked them has lead to me re-examining my reasons and intentions for initially one area of my life but then in life in general – truly amazing.
What I learnt from Serge was just how big a difference a role model can make to other people and how much I can be a role model, should I choose to do so.
Serge puts the “In” in Integrity as the integrity he lives and presents is Energetic Integrity which comes from our Inner most and is a 24/7 responsible, loving and all encompassing way of living and life.
So true Nichola, Serge Benhayon puts the “In” in Integrity, the “T” in truth, The E in Esoteric, the “G” in glorious, the “R” in ritual, the “I” in intuition, the “T” in transparency and the “Y” in yes, so it becomes simple to chose to be energetically divine.
Meeting Serge Benhayon and what he presents and represents open up a whole new magnificent multidimensional world. What is available to us all to live is so grand as to be unfathomable. To start to see things as they truly are and to become aware of our own choices and actions can be very confronting and humbling as well as being hugely joyful and expansive.
The depth of love, the openness and the consistency with which Serge Benhayon lives his life with EVERYONE never stops to amaze me.
“The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt.” I can appreciate the depth of this comment, Serge moves with such grace, which is not only instantly visible but very tangible too, a quality that adds weight to his presentations and confirms the integrity of all he presents.
The energetic integrity that I observe and experience from Serge is of such a high degree that it will remain with me forever as a marker and example of the integrity that is clearly possible to live life in.
Serge Benhayon has the highest integrity of anyone I have ever met and his inspiration is boundless as he presents truth from every angle. He has inspired change for thousands and thankfully, I am one in whom he has also inspired to make deep changes in life.
Learning about the two qualities of energy: that of love, God, my Soul and in contrast that which is devoid of those qualities has been huge. Recognising the stark contrast with the impact the two on every aspect of life, as well as how to tell them apart, has literally turned my life round. I am immensely grateful for Serge Benhayon’s presentations about these, because without being able to discern between the two energies it is impossible to live the quality of love and integrity that most of us are interested in living.
So true Golnaz, my life has been turned upside down, by what has been presented by Serge Benhayon, and also what the constellations bring to share the love of God on this earthly plan. Serge has shared the difference, between living in truth and living in a lie, so that energetically it is simple for us to all discern what is true.
I agree David, how Serge he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me. He encourages us to know that anything we get is what is needed for our own journey of life, and we are only ever given what we can handle and what we need in life to heal and learn. He is a constant reflection for us.
Serge Benhayon reflects absolute integrity and truth, he holds everyone equally man, women and child.
There is complete openness and honesty, a great inspiration to all.
Integrity for me means being truthful and transparent, which in this world are qualities which are challenging at times. There are still little pockets, where I like to hide and feel safe instead of feeling vulnerable and open. This is work in process to allow myself to open up more and more. Serge Benhayon is my rolemodel. He is an open book and supports me deeply in my learning to open up in full again.
It is in the refining of our lives, significant change has happened in my life over the years since I first attended a Serge Benhayon event and it will continue to do so moving forward. That refinement is a forever deepening understanding of what life is really all about and how I live has an affect on the all.
“If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms” from this we get a sense of the unknown but everyday ‘warzone’ we are caught in, where ignorance of energetic quality means we are constantly putting out and being harmed by what we are unknowingly saying yes to.
I agree David – and it is the absolute reflection of equalness, love and brotherhood that Serge brings and the absolute integrity that he holds that is the greatest inspiration as we have the opportunity to see a life truly lived and recognise and remember we hold that same truth within.
‘What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms.’ – Our responsibility is to be very aware of the quality of energy we are contributing to the all, knowing it will always be either one.
The more Serge Benhayon shares about both his Wisdom as well as about him being a human being – just like everybody – the more I’m in awe and the more I start to realise that I’m just as powerful as he is. The power we hold in incredible. The difference between him and most of humanity is that he’s not blocking his power and his love but continuously evolving to even more power and love. A reflection full of grace that is showing us all the way!
A very beautiful testimony to what Serge Benhayon reflects – his integrity, steadfastness with truth and love of humanity.
‘However, what was even more revealing was to understand the responsibility of energetic integrity that we have, not only when we place our hands on someone or have a discussion with them, but also in the way we engage in our wider life. What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.’
Beautifully and simply said David. Understanding the true depths of this is the key to bringing the Harmony and Love that humanity can live in and with, and that is currently missing in most of our lives.
Thanks, David. I too remember first meeting Serge Benhayon, and feeling for the first time as long as I could remember the joy of coming home, to a loving truth that was so familiar to me.
‘What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms.’ As with all things that Serge presents this makes total sense. It all makes total sense because it is already known and what is shared is simply a reminder of that which we know. In this way everything presented is done in complete equality. It is not possible to feel lesser as Serge Benhayon holds you in the integrity of that equality.
“When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had. The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.’ There is something incredibly refreshing about being in the rawness of honesty. I have found whilst it may hurt to look at, and to start to confront the momentums of ill loving ways, there is a foundation set with what needs to be worked on, rather than a denial that those issues are there. In this foundation we are giving ourselves something practical to work with.
From the many different aspects of support you have received from Serge, it is no wonder that what you appreciate most is the absolute equality he holds you in.
I used to pride myself on my intelligence and my ability to think but, since I have learned more about the body’s intelligence, I have started to allow more of what I feel in my body to make decisions.
Yes, it is quite humbling to come across somebody smarter than my mind – especially as it is my own body :).
Beautiful David, no matter where we are at, or how we behave, we always have Serge Benhayon’s example to come back to. No matter what crazy things that we do, isn’t never too late to return to truth.
The steadfastness, consistency, commitment, love and caring for all that Serge Benhayon holds is second to none. Yet he holds himself as equal to others, recognizing that we haven’t yet made the same choices in our lives. His understanding and energetic integrity is almost beyond comprehension. But our body feels it. Even if our mind can’t ‘get it’.
What you did in those years after meeting Serge, David, was Fast. Not with food but with life in general, refining what you live and do day in day out – A Beautiful process.
Yesterday I saw Serge again for the first time in about 6 months. As always, his love is astounding and his ability to share it unreservedly with everyone. If it is possible, in 6 short months he has grown in love and integrity, a true inspiration of how to use every moment as a moment to grow and expand.
“… even more revealing was to understand the responsibility of energetic integrity that we have, not only when we place our hands on someone or have a discussion with them, but also in the way we engage in our wider life.” This is something that is never taught in alternative medicine but is vitality important and once I really clocked it, completely transformed how I chose to live my life. This is what makes all the Universal Medicine modalities truly complementary, because not only does it fully respect orthodox medicine, it encompasses the totality of the Practitioner’s life in the knowing that all that is done in private plays an integral part in the quality of treatments in the clinical setting. There are no magic boundaries, when we put our selves out there as a ‘healer’ it applies to every inch of our lives.
My first meeting with Serge Benhayon was one of where my arrogance thought it knew all that he presented and more for the mind is continually try to be better than. Discovering and working with body intelligence, has opened up a whole lot more of me, so I get that we are all equal brothers, then no one is any more than another.
To be truly met, seen and held as a complete equal is something we all deserve to feel. I know for me this is one of the many qualities Serge lives with and the reason why he had touched so many people’s lives. We are seen for who we truly are 1st and then from this place can address everything else that we are not. Before I used to make everything else the issue but now see it as a consequence of me not living the love and truth of who I am.
Integrity was once described to me as ‘what we do when no-one else is watching’ – because if we behave differently when we are in company to when we are alone, then we lack integrity. To me, true integrity comes from within and it is therefore irrelevant whether we are being observed or not. It might be said that we are constantly being observed – if not by another then by ourselves – so maybe there is no ‘escape’ and we are responsible for our actions at all times regardless.
Serge Benhayon has reflected to me who we really are as humanity and the love beauty and magnification of this for us all to see . He inspires the world to remember where we come from and the way home and the love we are not living that is truly possible . His integrity and knowing is an inspiration for all showing us that we have this within us all too.
A testimony to a life touched and inspired by Serge Benhayon and the integrity and equality he lives.
Energetic responsibility is one of the closest things that we have on Earth to the way that we naturally live in other realms but energetic responsibility as it is currently practiced here on Earth is still light years from the level of responsibility that we are used to. Jeez we’ve deviated such a long way from our natural way and now see this greatly diminished way if living as normal. When I say it’s quite pitiful really, there is no judgement in that, it is simply a statement of fact.
We underestimate the power we have, we underestimate how much inspiration we can bring when we start to consider every choice we make effects everyone around us. Serge is one of the few that has recognised and applied the true meaning of energetic responsibility and with this he reflects what actually caring for humanity means- in a living action. If your walk can wake someone up that has been asleep for 40 years, then I want to know more….. if the sparkle in your eye can remind someone they are precious without saying a word……then that means mine can? If your hand shake can give breathe to someone’s strength; then this is true service and surely we have to question what is the quality of energy that is running a human being that seems effortlessly capable of truly charity, who holds all as equal and asks us all to rise to the occasion with his every cell in his body.
Deeply inspiring, agree 100%. Serge Benhayon lives and reflects what is possible for us all.
‘The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.’ – This is beautifully expressed and something I can very much relate to – Serge Benhayon offers a space to truly stop and feel the truth of where we are at.
I’ve trained in bodywork under different teachers over the years, but it wasn’t until I attended bodywork courses presented by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine that integrity, true integrity, of how to be with another’s body, was given thoroughly and with full explanation.
When I have a day that I am very true to myself, I feel very much at ease with myself. I enjoy myself in my own body, work naturally gets done, my conversations have a depth and loving quality, etc. I’m not super consistent yet. Enter Serge Benhayon and he’s living it all day, every day. Of course without perfection but with a purpose that is unknown in this world. A true world teacher.
To be inspired is not the want to be the same as someone else, but to see that we can also be all that we are, and therefore discard everything we are not.
Gorgeous and powerful sharing of the simple yet profound truths reflected through The Livingness of Serge Benhayon. Being met by such a divine quality of integrity, that we are consistently met with through the presentations and the life lived by Serge Benhayon, is not only deeply touching and inspiring, but also deeply confirms our equalness, of the exact same qualities of love that reside within us all, reminding us of who we are in essence and the divine qualities we too are here to live.
When you meet someone like Serge Benhayon who is consistently steady over many years in their way of living a life of energetic integrity and energetic responsibility, and who always treats you as an equal, you know they are someone you can trust – there is never any imposition, only ever inspiration.
What you share in your blog, about “not only when we place our hands on someone or have a discussion with them, but also in the way we engage in our wider life. What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.” This is something that I always come back to…. there is no in between. What we are doing is one or the other and we need to be aware of this all the time to be responsible. There is no excuse of I didn’t know, because we all feel and we all know.
“At the end of my first one-day Universal Medicine workshop, back in 2004, I walked up to Serge and burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.” – Funny how we get this sense of strong familiarity when we meet Serge Benhayon. It is like coming home, like seeing a close friend or dear relative, like being held in so much love…what a blessing and a reminder of who we are and where we truly come from.
Once the words energetic responsibility are understood, accepted and lived by humanity we will be on track to evolve as a race of beings. For deep down we all know that how we live now in our state of anxiousness, exhaustion and increasing disease rates is not true living. Getting upset about a lying politician or a greedy corporate is not the answer to our dilemmas, and nor is switching off from our circumstances. Deeply questioning how we have lived and what should be our next step in terms of the choices we individually and collectively make is where it is at. Change starts with the simplest actions, and ones that fortunately we know having taken them before.
There are many people out there who do live with integrity – I can often override this because of judgements, expectations or pictures I have of them.
‘Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt..’ There is no doubting that because of the the way Serge moves and speaks that he is the real deal, and that he lives the integrity he speaks of. No where have I come across another so in tune with how we impact on another and how we can either support through our living way, or harm.
I smiled when I read “The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt. At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant…” because when I met Serge this was also my experience not just for ‘integrity’ also for so many other qualities such as care, honouring, openness. In fact many years on I am still being inspired to keep going deeper in every single quality I hold dear, because through his reflection I can always see there is more.
Equality is a brotherly quality the always hold you in the absolute knowing of your true essence..love.
We all have the choice to live with energetic integrity. Every move we make, every word we say, every thought we have, everything we set out to do, can be full of integrity if we so choose. There is a moment before we act or speak when we can stop and check the quality of energy we are choosing, and if we are willing we can choose energetic integrity through all of it. We are no different to Serge Benhayon in this respect. He simply chooses it all the time.
It is very inspiring to see Serge Benhayon as the man that he is. Living with full integrity expressing all that needs to be expressed. It is beautiful to be held in his presence as an equal brother that is supporting us to get on with life and choose love and evolution.
That equality is unmistakeable and is not about fulfilling a tick box of equality but rather how every aspect of his life is given equal importance from picking up the dog poo in the garden to writing a book; whilst he lives this way, of course, he treats everyone with equality.
Yes. And how his lived example invites and inspires others to feel true equality and the opportunity in every moment, activity and task.
When we experience this deep level of love being reflected back to us and feel it in our bodies, it is quite amazing how the impact of that is felt in everything around us, and how ‘clearing out’ on all levels becomes a simple thing to do, whether its in our home, our work space or in our relationships.
Discarding that which is ‘not love’ in my learnt way of being (and doing) is an ongoing process, joyfully embraced now, as the pull to return to this truth gets stronger and deeper in every way, in every day. The energetic integrity held by Serge Benhayon constantly inspires me to live this way too.
“It is a process inspired by the energetic integrity and quality that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects: a consistent Integrity that has only ever deepened in the past 13 years”.
In love and and in absolute equalness – an equalness that you then realise (at least I did) you don’t hold yourself in, is what you get in every encounter with Serge Benhayon. And it is this reflection of love and equalness that will scare (for want of a better word) some people away, as they react to the reflection they are seeing – that they have not been loving themselves the way they could. This in turn is reflection of where mankind is today… so far away from the stupendous love it – we – come from and are.
“If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.” How simple and beautiful this is, so in each moment we can choose a different movement that can heal if we choose too.
I didn’t have anything like this experience – to me what Serge Benhayon did just worked and survived very intense scrutiny from me – not just survived but I became aware of a lot of things that I wasn’t aware of before. It was quite unexpected and very beneficial both for me and those around me.
To meet someone like Serge Benhayon who knows completely who he is and does not waiver and knows energetic truth and is able to present it in a way that makes total sense is life changing. Whether we align to this or not is our choice but I knew from the moment I met him that the solidness that he brought that could not be shaken was something that totally resonated with me and was not something I could turn my back on or ignore.
Well said, Alison and me too. I could not deny that everything I have always known, searched and yearned for is presented in the way Serge lives – I can resist what is on offer – but I cannot deny the truth.
“Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on.” And we begin to feel an incredible freedom and completeness within us that is not reliant on being identified in one way or another, but arises from an inner knowing of who we are. And Serge Benhayon continues to push the frontiers, dismantling belief after belief, as he brings all our Universal truth to bear, empowering us all to see beyond our limited versions of ourselves and reclaim our all-encompassing expression.
The integrity that you talk of before and during each healing session is an integrity that Serge Benhayon brings to all of his life. I have been fortunate enough to watch and be with him in a number of different situations and have observed this absolute steadfastness to exist in every single crook and cranny of his life. It is deeply inspiring.
It’s the most effective form of teaching – hold your student as your absolute equal then just set the example – this is what Serge Benhayon does. Zero imposition, zero dogma, zero judgement, zero competition. Just a living breathing, inspiring example of what we can all be.
Serge Benhayon offers us a quality and holding that allows us to make a choice – what will we let run us? An energy that harms or heals. And then – we have all the tools needed. If we choose to keep on healing and evolving, then we are essentially saying yes to living in a way where we are prepared for whatever comes our way – and it is true David that it isn’t what we do what matters, but the quality of how we are living so that our actions naturally reflect this quality in any situation.
“At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence” – absolutely David, and to feel the space between someone without there being some sort of dynamic, imposition, control, interruption, but total openness, trust, full ear and body listening is what brings the ease… being in the company of Serge is restorative and super healing.
I too have always felt at ease in the presence of Serge Benhayon. He is a very easy man to be around because he sees everyone as an equal Son of God. We can then either accept that within ourselves or not, that is our choice but it is beautiful to have that reflection.
When I went to my first workshop in 2004, probably same one as you anon, it was also the first time I heard about the two types of energy, one that heals and one that harms. I realized that I had been using a harming energy in all of my healing work and decided to stop the work I was doing until I addressed the energy within myself so as to be able to work with people in a truly healing way. It was a great decision, one that changed the course of my life from harm to healing myself and everyone I had contact with, as it was not only on the table that this energy was coming through me but life in general.
This awareness of everything we do being either harming or healing has been a great revelation for me and makes so much sense. The fact that it is in EVERYTHING we do means how we breathe, how we place a cup down on a table, how we walk through a door, even our thoughts. All these even when no-one is around, we send out ripples of harm, or leave a harmful imprint. Conversely, when we do everything tenderly, breathe gently, speak from our inner-heart, close doors silently, walk with grace, and think of everyone with appreciation instead of judgment, then stillness and harmony can prevail.
‘Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life,’ … I very much relate to this, David. I really enjoy this ongoing process of letting go of whatever is no longer needed or no longer supporting me. My house is forever being spring cleaned, which is an absolute joy, never a burden.
What feels so incredibly beautiful in the way that Serge Benhayon holds everyone as an equal brother, is that he knows, as do we all, that everyone is equal, therefore, we all have the same potential to live in this way. He can feel our energetic quality, as can we all, yet there is never any sense of judgment whatsoever for the level of energetic responsibility we are choosing to live with. He meets us in the fullness of who we are, which is what feels so divine. It’s up to us the level of divinity we are choosing to live with.
How very beautiful our world will be when we are all choosing to consistently hold each other as an Equal Brother.
Serge holds you in love in every moment, and that is what made me stop and realise that this guy is the real deal.
There is no better role model that the one who walks his talk and Serge is the pinnacle, in that, everything he presents is not only in his words but also through his everyday livingness whether it be at a workshop or in a casual crossing of paths elsewhere. Always with same energetic integrity, energetic quality and love. And whats-more I love his light-hearted sense of humour.
“This energetic integrity that I experience from Serge is of such a high degree that even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me.” When we have a reflection such as this, when we are not told what to do or even given some ‘good advice’, even if we dont choose to consider what has been said, on some level we know exactly what has been offered. It is up to us then as to what we choose to do with such divine wisdom. And Serge just keeps on tirelessly offering it.
Yes, it is quite disconcerting to be told by an extremely smart person that you are just as smart and then to find out that he was right …
‘Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt, and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times.’ – The level of detail and care that Serge Benhayon teaches in his workshops as well as the way he lives his life reflects his deep honouring, respect and love for people. Whether it is clients, business relationships, family, friends or strangers, Serge always makes it about people first.
Everything in life comes with an energetic imprint, this is the amazing, wonderful and incredibly supportive teachings offered by Serge Benhayon. I truly appreciate my awareness being developed because whatever the imprint we have to live through the energy it casts forth, so what quality is the energy that influences our very next thought and movement? Such is the depth of energetic integrity and responsibility.
Discovering energetic integrity through the lived way of Serge Benhayon and all he presents on is like a light globe moment. Through life I know I had become very desensitized to the quality of this integrity, allowing another to support me in many ways through medical, allied health and complimentary medicine without much discernment, and even accepting at times at what I know inside didn’t feel right. These days I understand what is going on energetically and use discernment when it comes to have support for well-being and everything else for that matter.
“even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me.” That is true integrity, to not impose on someone to tell them what to do, which Serge could easily do as many people ask him questions, but to inspire them to feel again that they have all the answers inside themselves as well.
From all the experiences I have had with other practitioners I had never been treated with so much care, respect and honour than I had with Serge Benhayon in my first session. This instantly made me trust him and from then on the workshops and courses have been incredible to experience and learn from. Key learning that it is our Livingness that is what we touch and treat our clients with first and foremost then the technique.
If there is one person in this world I trust whole heartedly and implicitly it is Serge Benhayon, not for what he says or does but the absolute level of love he lives and holds me in, with not one ounce of judgment what so ever.
Absolutely Gyl, Serge Benhayon’s love is off the ricketier scale!
Thank you David. To be met as an equal by a man that holds, lives, shares and inspires this level of integrity and love is a profound healing in itself. His every movement, work and action is saying this is you.
‘At the end of my first one-day Universal Medicine workshop, back in 2004, I walked up to Serge and burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.’ There can be no denying the truth when our bodies respond to it in such a profound way. When I was in my late 20s/early 30s I met up with a friend who had told me she had ‘re-discovered God’. Well, I was incredibly sceptical and felt quite dismissive of her, but when I went to meet her and she told me the story of what had happened to her – a) there was no denying a tremendous shift had happened for her, and b) without quite realising it I had started to cry. My scepticism didn’t match with the tears and so I stopped and felt my body. I realised I wanted what she had, and realised what I had been missing for so long. Not too long later I met Serge Benhayon and the gateway to raising my awareness to just what I had rejected was well and truly opened…
I had never met someone who had made it their normal to live with so much decency, so much love, so much openness with not an ounce of trying or being awkward with the fact until I met Serge Benhayon, a true inspiration.
It’s worth stopping and really deeply pondering this because it is all too easy to just write/read this stuff without really considering what it means and how huge it truly is. Whilst my life has changed beyond recognition through meeting Serge Benhayon and the zillions of super cool choices that I have made to support a way of living that is massively more harmonious, supportive, joyful, purposeful, responsible and vital….there are still many, many areas where I drop the ball, take my foot off the gas or just plain and simply try to get away with compromise. So to observe the absoluteness of Serge is truly something very, very special.
Absolutely Otto, I have felt as though my life has been uncontrollable at times, and living with constant compromise was all I knew… then when I met Serge Benhayon I would begin to make super loving choices which were awesome to start seeing the difference it makes within ourselves, and even in those times they have their ups and downs, but every time I come to meet Serge Benhayon his consistency and quality is the same, very beholding.
An absolute light house – beaming for the whole of humanity to see the way home.
I agree Harry – in a way it’s something you almost don’t notice in the sense that Serge Benhayon makes it so normal and with such ease that it feel normal to me as well until I stop and think back over the 10 years I have known him and the profound love, respect, equality and integrity I have seen in him always, without fail, and I realise that it can be normal, but for now it is extraordinary in the world as it currently is.
‘It is a process inspired by the energetic integrity and quality that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects: a consistent Integrity that has only ever deepened in the past 13 years.’ The level of integrity Serge lives with has assisted me to accept that it is possible to honour one’s sensitivities without withdrawing from the world.
I understand what you are saying here Abby; we do not give ourselves the understanding that we are very sensitive beings, in fact I remember being told I was too sensitive as a child and to get over myself. Our sensitivity seems to get crushed as children and so we harden and withdraw from life. Serge Benhayon seems to honour peoples sensitivity so that it feels safe to allow one self to be sensitive again and in that sensitivity reconnect to the world. I haven’t come across anyone that is so supportive and positive about life and how to truly live it.
So true David, Serge Benhayon brings something back to us as humanity that we have long lost, which is brotherhood and it is as you describe, a holding each other absolutely equal no matter what.
Meeting Serge for me redefined the words respect, equality, integrity and genuine – i have never met someone who is so deeply and openly genuine in themselves, never have i felt a show, a mask, a wall or a veil between me and who he really is.
So true Rebecca, Serge Benhayon has redefined so many words, with an energetic integrity that brings a realism to life.
I remember so clearly returning home after my first Sacred Esoteric Healing workshop with Serge Benhayon in 2005 and feeling like I didn’t fit in to the life that I had left behind; I actually didn’t know who I was anymore. I emailed Serge a few weeks later and shared with him how discombobulated I felt and in a few sentences he described how I was finally connecting to who I truly was. I could feel the truth of that somewhere deep within but it took some time and an honest look at how I had been living for most of my life before I began to feel the truth of his words in every part of me.
Anyone who has ever met Serge Benhayon has received an equal reflection of the love and infinite wisdom within us all, we need to ponder on why have we resisted evolution for so long and once again claim our authority and power to support others to be who they are.
Yes and to ponder on why we hold back our love and all we truly are so much. It is like only showing others a small part of ourselves and not the whole, denying both ourselves and everyone we meet. Serge Benhayon never holds back from being all who he is.
The difference when I am with me, embodying the true, very loving, caring, powerful man that I am, is completely different from the man that I’ve lived for a long time (and still live at times). Connection is everything. And to be with me requires responsibility on all levels. Energetic responsibility. Making pre-dominant loving choices, choices that support a one-unified-way of living here on earth. Ignoring the fact that we’re energy and we’re connecting to energy all of the time is the foundation under irresponsible choices.
We can’t fully understand Energetic Integrity unless we feel it from someone who lives it. Once we have felt it we have something tangible to aspire to. We recognise it because it is our natural way, we have simply forgotten it as we are not surrounded by it every day.
After reading this sentence David, ‘If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.’ my awareness has increased hugely by simply being more observant of my daily quality and movements. Thank you, this is basic and now appears obvious, but is very crucial to understand.
Thank you, David, for sharing how meeting Serge Benhayon and learning about energetic integrity has given you a true foundation and inspiration in your life.
I have also always been inspired and impressed with the consistent level of integrity that Serge Benhayon lives with and the level of detail and commitment he has to living in this way is unparalleled in any other person I have yet met.
I had studied and practiced complementary therapies for years prior to coming to Universal Medicine. Since I always deeply cared about integrity, sincerity and care of people, I had deliberately sought those I considered the best in such areas to study with and work alongside. Yet I walk into workshops with Serge Benhayon where he talks about the basics of integrity, responsibility and care, and my whole perception of what such areas actually mean has deepened irreversibly and fundamentally.
Serge Benhayon through his personal example and sharing openly the way he lives inspires a level of integrity that was not even on my radar as a possibility. And what is more, as soon as I think I am sussed about what we are talking about, I notice he is actually living a deeper level than that.
Experiencing the level of responsibility and integrity that is embodied by Serge is life changing.
“If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals” – so true David, i know and experience that if i’m getting odd, irrational or critical thoughts for example, and then feel my body, feel how i’m holding myself hard, tight, tense…and that the moment i become aware of this, and move my body, that the thoughts [energy] changes/leaves. Movement is everything because it determines the quality [of energy] in the body.
I feel so fortunate to have felt the integrity of Serge Benhayon, his family and other practitioners, it gave the word intergrity a whole new meaning.
I love my life. Deeply. Twelve years ago, before I met Serge Benhayon, I couldn’t have said that. It may sound like a nothing comment or something throw-away – but when it is truly considered and put into context of what my life was or now could have been, then it is a gigantic thing to be able to say and a power-house of testimony to the everything that Serge Benhayon is, that Universal Medicine is and that we all are since we are all absolutely equal to him.
There is no one in their essence that Serge does not hold as an Equal Brother as we are all one Soul. That is Brotherhood.
If a teacher can present in true equality, then their work is all but done.
Being aware of the quality I am in is a commitment to myself, everyone and everything. It is a responsibility that keeps knocking on my door offering me to be present with myself more and more in my day – it is indeed a work in progress. Thank you David for sharing such a beautiful piece of writing.
I wonder how many other courses that teach any form of body work ensure that the practitioners are aware of their energetic responsibility if they are to be treating people. In times to come this will be accepted as Rule 1, Page 1. Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine are, thank God, leading the way.
I too was so inspired by the level of care and integrity in which Serge Benhayon treats everyone, whether it is in conversation or doing a hands on healing with them that it has completely changed the way that I practice nursing. Everyone deserves to be treated with such love and cherishing.
The quality of movement is crucial and only there we can be harmonious or not, never we can be harmonious in our heads solely without being first harmonious in our movements.
I first met Serge Benhayon in 2010. My experience then was that this is a man who does not judge, who holds people in love and lives the absoluteness of equalness in all he does. This experience has only deepened over the past seven years and continues to do so.
Serge has definitely shown us how its done, and that to hold each other as equal brothers as he himself does.
Serge Benhayon’s integrity touches our core and once felt we know that we have met the real deal, the quality that we have been waiting to re-discover and Serge shares so open heartedly how to re-claim it for ourselves. True Magic in action, real Love in the world.
Beautifully shared David. You remind me the that there is no in between, only a choice to heal or harm … and we are always choosing whether we realise it or not.
Energetic integrity is actually to understand that we live in a society on this planet in the universe and that we are in a constant relationship with this all as we are part of it and do come from it and therefore how we conduct ourselves and everything that we do or act on, has an impact to the all and in that we either bring harm or healing to the grandness we are part off.
David I would venture to suggest that this sharing
‘over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me’, that this ‘anchoring’ that we perceive is actually more akin to a ball and chain than an anchor.
Energetic responsibility is love in action.
Well said, Alexis. So in every moment it is a matter of whether we choose love, or not.
Yep Janet, basically all of life boils down to that very simple fact and matter is responsive to what we choose.
Professional integrity is something I was taught while studying Naturopathy many years ago, but Energetic Integrity takes this to a whole other level. What Universal Medicine teaches and presents on this is second to none when it comes to the actual integrity with which we conduct ourselves in life, no matter our profession.
Reading this blog again this morning, I have been appreciating how blessed we all are to be living at this time with Serge Benhayon in our lives and the array of teachings that are openly accessible to us. Teachings that are all about confirming us for who we truly are, inspiring us to re-connect to and live all that we are. We all know truth, we have all lived together before in absolute harmony, effortlessly, just being our divine selves. Because we have strayed so far from this place, as a society we are now suffering the consequences. However, it’s such a gift to be able to meet a man who from the sparkle in his eyes, instantly reminds us of who we are, a man who is a marker for us of what it means to live with energetic integrity, a man who reminds us of our connection with each other and to the stars and beyond – having felt this in our bodies, even from listening to his voice or reading his books, we are re-awakened to our divinity and our connection to the All.
Beautiful David – we are very careful about who we let put their hands on us, when and how, but we don’t consider that we all have equal power with the way we lead our life. In actual energetic fact, as Serge Benhayon reminds us, the words we use, the tone of voice, the way we walk, work or sit down, each and every ‘little’ thing affects everything. Effectively we touch everybody with the quality that we bring.
‘but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother.’ the beauty in this can be felt.
‘my whole body was at ease in his presence.’ …. this is how it feels when someone is completely open and transparent, with nothing at all to hide. Serge lives his truth with every cell in his body, in every moment of every day, it’s all there for everyone to feel and connect with, which feels absolutely amazing when you meet him. As you have shared, you feel like you’ve known him for a very long time when you first meet him, there is a connection there that is timeless.
In the presence of Serge Benhayon and being met as an equal we are able to feel the immense love that is capable of being lived in the human body. The word ‘inspirational’ doesn’t even touch the sides of what this man represents in his body and way of living – but it’s a good start.
Every presentation, workshop and course I have attended presented by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine is of the highest level of energetic quality and energetic integrity. There is nowhere else I have experienced this so consistently.
‘…he (Serge Benhayon) constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me.’
This is huge. For me it is to stay connected even when sometimes my initial response is to cower at what is being presented. Cowering from life, or its gun-ho opposite, doesn’t hold true or have integrity. Both discount the magnitude of power we are and ignore the call to responsibility.
There is a much deeper level of integrity we can live and Serge Benhayon reflects this in absolutely every movement, every breath and all his stillness and then holds us in the knowing that we too, are all this and more. This is the most exquisite reminder and confirmation that when we choose to live this way we are indeed ‘Home’.
“When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had. The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.” When we are presented with love and the reflection this offers, we become more aware of things in our life that are not so loving and start to make different choices. I have noticed that quite often after a healing course, I am more aware of things that are not only out of place in my home and in my life and it is a great opportunity for clearing out anything that no longer works for me.
Being held in the way that Serge holds me and everybody (everyBODY) is magic beyond words. Yet as he repeats over and over again, natural available to all. The more I am getting to know the true me, the more I am astonished by the choices this man has made for himself as well for us all to having a living reflection of the love and truth that is possible to live here on earth. Thank you for the appreciation of Serge Benhayon’s energetic integrity.
The care, dedication, commitment and love that Serge Benhayon lives with consistently is very much felt by anyone who meets him. This amazingness even very much known is lived in the most humblest of ways for he shows everyone how we can live incredibly amazing lives but in the most ordinary and everyday of ways. He shows us that the quality in how he lives can be lived by everyone and we can choose to live that now, if we so choose and that is the only difference.
It is quality first and foremost, and from there everything else is given.
The level of integrity that Serge consistenly walks his talk with is indeed extraordinary and a total inspiration. This is a quality that fosters true trust.
My experience of workshops or any talk or session with Serge Benhayon – is that it provides such purpose and such truth that it reflect back to me all the parts in our lives where there is not truth. It is absolutely profound.
To be held as equal and to learn to hold all others as equal is the most truly remarkable and inspiring gift being lived and taught by Serge, he never never ceases to amaze me in his ability to show humanity what we are capable of.
“Even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me”. This is something I love about Serge Benhayon. Even though we try to give our power away to him, he will not allow it. His answers and way of treating people always remind us that we are equal and have the ability to know everything he does. We just need to live and move in a way that allows it.
“my whole body was at ease in his presence” How often can we say this in life? So often encounters come with agendas or needs, it is a real education to experience a meeting with absolutely none of this, and quite the contrary; the space given for me to bring all of me without being asked to energetically shift or shape into anything, was my first lesson in trusting again.
Integrity can be felt and carries a value in itself. When we feel integrity you realise there is a richness in life available to us all that no money can buy.
Serge Benhayon is the ultiamte reflection of how it is possible to live with the highest level of energetic integrity and true love that I have ever experienced. What a blessing for all those that have met and know him, that we may all know that we can too live this equally if we so choose.
I agree with you David it is the beholding energy Serge holds us all in as equals no matter what which is truly special. This way we are empowered to come to the answers ourselves and return back to the magnificence we all are rather than getting caught and stuck in our ill past choices.
The immense wisdom that Serge Benhayon brings to every situation is humbling to say the least and I have found it not so easy to accept the total equalness with Serge as I find I hold Serge in awe more than an ‘equal brother’. Even when every aspect of what Serge presents I can feel as being true somehow in the present of such grandeur even within the greatest humbleness that exudes from his every being, I am a work in progress when it comes to being in equalness with Serge. So why am I judging myself to be anything less than anyone especially when it is Serge who has consistently shared we are all equal and he is nothing special? Could it be the deep sadness I can still feel from the separation from the light that is of God and as equal Son’s of God I feel the rejection of my own light and this has been too great a thing to feel so it manifests as sadness. This has been worthwhile for me to deeply pondering on, so I am now open to heal to another level so thank you David.
‘.. and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times.’ When I first heard Serge Benhayon present this I was deeply inspired, I thought imagine if we treat our own body and everyone we know with the same level of care, respect, detail and honouring, what would this look like and how would we feel? So, I started to pay more attention to how I treat my body and how I treat people around me, bringing more awareness to being gentle, loving and more caring, and this reminds me that we are all naturally loving but have forgotten how to live this way. Thanks to Serge Benhayon, more and more people are choosing to live this gentle and loving way. Wow, it is amazing and a blessing to experience the difference and see the changes around me.
The fact of there being two energies and that we are either harming or healing and never both, was a surprise to me, but it made sense and, as I refine my lifestyle, I am learning to sense once again these energies and to know where I am aligned.
Observing integrity in another person can inspire us, I have been inspired in observing Serge Benhayon and how he walks through life. I also have reflected on how I live and the choices I make through being open to this inspiration. I am constantly inspired by lots people and we can be more open to seeing the strengths others know and live.
Your words allow us to feel the power of words expressed with simplicity, integrity and love David. The word that has summed up Serge Benhayon for me has always been ‘integrity’ as he allows us to feel the love and openness that come when nothing is held back – he treats everyone with the same grace and equalness.
I love your appreciation of what Serge Benhayon brings for us all David. He holds us in love without any judgement and he discerns our potential and who we are rather than focus on what we are not.
For me Serge Benhayon is the ultimate holder of truth, an inspiration in not holding back what is there to be said. Something I have shied away from in seeking comfort and hiding…but in so doing realising the ramifications of what ‘not speaking up ‘ can bring.
Rachel, I have done exactly the same. Every time I see Serge Benhayon present and express truth I am always deeply inspired and he reminds me that we are all holders of truth. We are all able to express truth anywhere, anytime but choosing to not express it is our greatest harm.
I totally agree, Rachel, and what I have also learnt from Serge Benhayon is the importance of living your truth so it becomes a part of your day to day livingness. When Serge shares his truth the energy is deeply felt first before the words are even heard, we immediately connect with what he is saying, even if later we choose to dismiss it – this is a result of the consistent energetic integrity that he chooses to live with. If we share what we know to be true, but we are not choosing to live it for ourselves, it will not be felt and connected with.
It is very touching to feel your love and appreciation of Serge Benhayon, something many hundreds of people can easily relate to. It is life changing to meet someone who truly loves and cares about you and the whole of humanity, with absolute equality and the deepest level of integrity.
“Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt, and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times.” This was a central point for me too on first meeting Serge Benhayon, this visual, tangible quality of movement that backed up everything he was presenting, which was also taking client care and respect to a whole new level. In over 15 years of working in the field of alternative medicine, I had never heard or seen anyone take such absolute care of the person lying on the treatment couch. It was a defining moment that instigated a massive change in lifestyle, attitude, responsibility and direction, which as you say David, is being continually refined. What an immense blessing it is to study with Serge Benhayon, truly evolutionary.
‘However, what was even more revealing was to understand the responsibility of energetic integrity that we have, not only when we place our hands on someone or have a discussion with them, but also in the way we engage in our wider life’ knowing this and knowing that we have a choice with the quality of each and every thought we have, completely changes our perceived understanding of integrity. Living this way, with awareness of every movement and quality of thought is an absolute joy.
A feeling of ‘returning home’ is a common statement made by many people, including myself, who first attend a Universal Medicine presentation, or workshop, or who have a session with Serge Benhayon. His presence supports you to reconnect with your essence, who you innately are and your universality.
The integrity of the Esoteric practitioners taught by Serge Benhayon is amazing. Like you David I have had many experiences with body work because of a back injury by a whole gambit of different modalities, none have held me in the way that the Esoteric practitioners do. From the moment you enter the treatment room it’s warm and inviting and I’m not asked to fully undress which has always brought up more nervous tension in my body. The rhythm and delicateness of the massage allows my body to relax so much I often fall asleep this allows the nervous tension to leave the body if only for a short while and I come away feeling so relaxed and tension free.
I totally agree David I too was completely blown away by the way Serge moved, talked and presents and as you say the deepest respect he offers everyone. I also have been observing, learning and claiming myself as an equal brother by the choices I make for the last 13 years since I have known Serge. This just gets deeper and deeper day by day and I have come to understand that this will never reach an end point, as we live with an enormous Universe that is continually evolving.
Understanding energetic integrity brings a whole new, deeper, expansive and inclusive meaning to integrity than is usually accepted.
David, you mention ‘the absolute honouring of a client’s body’. Currently in our society there is hardly a trace of honouring, be that of ourselves or another. In fact what currently exists in abundance is the absolute reckless disregard that we have for one another, we simply don’t give a stuff. This blatant disregard is actually abundant in so much of our society that to list where it is would diminish the effect of the description because blatant disregard is actually one of the current under pinning foundations of our society. And when a society is built on such rotten footings it serves as a foul breeding ground for all manner of other distasteful and indeed disgusting behaviours.
When we meet someone who has deep integrity they stand out. With Serge Benhayon this goes further because he takes integrity to a new level when he speaks about energetic integrity and energetic responsibility, that is that everything that we say, do and think comes with an energy that will harm or heal and that the choice is in our hands as to which energy we choose. We are not victims of energy; we choose which energy we want to align to. This brings with it great responsibility but also great freedom to be and live in a way that is loving towards all and Serge himself and the way he lives is a great example of this.
To meet someone that connects with you as an equal and with love is rare. Over time we feel for ourselves our own equal-ness to one another and with God. With energetic integrity we too inspire others.
Meeting Serge Benhayon, I felt the agelessness of a man, a person, and how normal that was to see and feel by his eyes alone… to me this person [Serge] delivering the presentation on The Heart Chakra 1 in London was living ancientness in activity, the past into present, a timelessness I’d unknowingly spent my entire life in search of until the point of meeting, aged 32, back in 2004. It was home and remains years later today…
It is remarkable to listen to Serge Benhayon present, he reframes life and delivers such common sense on how we live, and then how we could be living and the gap between those two worlds, the wellbeing that is on offer. Perhaps we limit ourselves too much, in fact no perhaps, it is undoubted that we do and that is within our grasp to live a level of intelligence and understanding of life that I know I for one block from my vision.
When we connect to the love that lives inside and make that as the basis of our lives then we become aware of the fact that there is an energetic responsibility we have to adhere to and were able to neglect by living in disconnection from our natural way of being that is in connection with our inner heart or our Soul instead.
Serge Benhayon entrusts that all of us are equal in stature, amazingness, power, love, truth, stillness etc. I have had much resistance in accepting this power, clouded by how much I have been hurt, dismissed, shut down and ignored by people, especially those close to me.
As Serge presents and has clearly shown, unbeknownst to me so to speak, all is energy and has been configured in a way for us to not know this and therefore we have a body that holds these past choices and configurations of energy, limiting us to expand again quickly – we ultimately hold the key and responsibility to live what we keep understanding. All is energy and the energy we now choose will be what life we have – in our power or not.
The other good side to this is knowing we choose an energy to be hurt, dismissed etc, but after choosing the energy that gave us these hurts etc, we choose the energy and then the energy imposed on us what it wanted. This knowing has helped in my healing, to be aware how important it is to choose the energy we align to and want in our bodies. So the focus is not what our hurts are but what energy are we choosing.
Thank you David, I could feel the love this was written in and I felt very moved by your words. I also have observed that everything Serge does to the detail is with energetic integrity, it’s very inspiring, everything is done with absolute care and love. I could also relate to your list of ways in which Serge has touched your life, as a Business Mentor, Presenter, Friend, Author etc, and I agree he holds all as an equal brother.
Thank you David for your sharing. I can’t think of anyone I would trust more than Serge Benhayon in this world today. Right from the first meeting I too felt his Energetic Integrity and the truth of his words, then his livingness of the same.
‘as someone who has had many massages in the past I prided myself on having no reservations on being ‘carefree’ and comfortable with my body being touched’ – I have always been the absolute opposite. I’ve never wanted or liked having a massage and put it down to my body being very sensitive to touch, but it was deeper than that, I felt the massage to be intrusive and there was a lack of trust on my part. This all changed for me when I learnt about energetic integrity through Universal Medicine and then it all made sense. I absolutely love receiving all of the Esoteric modalities as taught by Universal Medicine, it is not hard for me to ‘let go’ in the session as I can feel the energetic integrity of the practitioner before they even lay their hands on me.
I understand this feeling of coming home, and the deep sense of ease I feel from connecting to what is being presented by Universal Medicine. The most profound element is that what is presented is that home is within…
I agree Joel – and I find it interesting and very telling that so many of us recognise this feeling of coming home.
‘My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever’ – feeling the depth of love and open-ness that you experienced in and expressed through your body, makes me question again, the ridiculousness of the games we have learnt to play to suppress the amazing wisdom felt in our body – the absolute truth that is there for us, the knowing that we hold deep inside which is waiting to be awakened.
There are many things that I love about what you have expressed here but I feel the one that really stands out for me is how beautifull it is to feel such an openness, vulnerability, tenderness, delicateness and sensitivity coming from a man. It is truly exquisite and none of these qualities is a weakness (as have been stereotyped in the world). Instead, it allows the reader to re-connect to all the exact same qualities we have within us. Thank you
There is something about Serge Benhayon that the first time I met him I knew there was something about him that you could totally trust. Just meeting him and being met by him- my life transformed after that as I felt a level of care I had never felt and then everything in my life adjusted to be able to let this in more and to have this level of care for me.
We live in a world where it seems to me that many of us not only completely ignore our energetic responsibility but we seem absolutely hell bent on ensuring that our level of energetic responsibility is as low as possible. We’re like energetic hooligans, energetically running roughshod over each other and not giving a damn, and our world is a sad reflection of this fact. It’s a slow process to get back to the energetic responsibility that we come from but we will eventually all get there.
The level of integrity that is taught in the workshops at Universal Medicine is a level that I have not come across in any other workshops and courses thus far. The integrity at Universal Medicine is not just a tick box approach that looks at the outside, it is an approach that can only come from the choices one makes in the everyday that then add up all the things we do in the open as well as behind the scenes, as well as the way we go about the things that we do – in other words, the quality of our movements. This is so powerful when one really understands this, for it opens up our lives to exploring and embracing a true way of living, that is actually available for us all, just waiting to be tapped into.
The first time that I met Serge Benhayon I felt my whole chest opening up and feeling a warmth that I hadn’t feel for a long time. I loved listening to this man and being in his presence. This is 7 years ago and the appreciation for the choices he’s reflecting is growing every day. By accepting my own grandness I see how much I’ve shied away from this and how appreciative I am that this man has come to earth to support us all to come back to who we truly are. Thank you David for your humble and appreciative blog!
David, this is a beautiful sharing of a deeply felt connection that you have with truth and integrity for yourself and us all as inspired by Serge Benhayon and his True way of Living.
Hear hear – well said David. I’m sure that all of us who have met or know Serge Benhayon will have their own stories – as of course, I do. I attended a course a few summers ago with the attitude of ‘you better be good’. Well there was no good and there was no competition, but there was a warmth and what you describe as returning home.
Beautiful David, thank you for expressing with so much clarity and light.
One of the most beautiful things about Serge Benhayon is the equality he holds all in, no matter what we may be in, in any given moment. His understanding stretches beyond anyone I have ever known and leaves a feeling of being held in the utmost integrity and love. His inspiration is limitless in the knowing that what he reflects is our truth also should we choose to live it.
‘It has meant that the changes in my life are a result of the work, commitment and choices that I have made – inspired through the absolute steadfastness Serge has shown me.’ This beautifully sums up what Serge offers to everyone, not giving answers but always there supporting everyone to make positive changes that enhance their own and everyone else’s lives by the consistent reflection of the absoluteness of his energetic integrity.
The equalness that you write of, of how Serge Benhayon does not treat anyone as more or less is so beautiful. For me, it has aloud me to see the grandness that I am, as I have often been able to appreciate it in others, but never had enough self worth to see that I am that too. And now what I am discovering is the more that I develop it in myself, I see it even more in others….. no space for comparison here, just appreciation of each other.
This is a very purposeful path to pursue. For in our appreciation of others there must be (and scientifically there is, if it it is true appreciation) and appreciation of ourselves. I am learning more and more to observe where I am in life and really drink in the self appreciation of the choices that I have made to get me there. It is all too tempting to focus on that which we might not have got right. Self-appreciation is a vital and daily medicine.
Yes it sure is a daily medicine. I was just standing in front of the mirror admiring myself and my body and feeling great that it looks so healthy due to all the choices I have been making. This is not being up myself… this is pure self adoration and appreciation.
Divine Rosie. And so powerful to bust the illusion/stigma around the ‘up-myslef’ of self-appreciation. If we don’t love ourselves and deeply appreciate ourselves and express that love openly and freely, we are capping ourselves from the magnitude and divinity that we all are. If anyone has a problem with that….it’s just jealousy at the choices that they may not have made.
I have never met anyone else who walks their talk with such energetic integrity and responsibility as Serge Benhayon… consistently, day in-day out, for years now – he is an unwavering inspiration.
‘the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother.’ – Beautiful and very true David, I have the exact same exprerience with Serge Benhayon – he makes us know we are all equal.
‘At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.’ And this really is the marker when we are with another of what is words and what is actually lived – consistently.
Reading your words has brought a deeper level of appreciation for this man as what you have written is true for me too in almost every way. The level of love and integrity and true care for another that is lived by Serge Benhayon is boundless. And utterly inspiring.
‘It was like coming home’, is a comment that I have heard from many students who have attended Universal Medicine presentations and from meeting Serge Benhayon. I add my name to this long list as I too felt the same. I could feel the truth of what was being presented in my bones, it was a homecoming for sure. Returning to something I have long since disconnected to.
Choosing to be aware at all times of what quality we are in, and by extension, our movements- So simple, but when we commit to it, can truly start to change our lives.
Beautiful testimony to Serge Benhayon and yourself David. Serge has inspired me also to live life with more integrity, awareness and understanding and I will always feel blessed that I know him.
“Deeply touched” is such a great phrase for my experience with Serge Benhayon again and again over the past 11 years I have known him. So much so that I have at times been in floods of tears through appreciation and joy for what I have witnessed in front of me. My understanding of love, truth, integrity, honouring, care, responsibility…. pretty much every single quality that is dear to my heart has been completely and profoundly expanded as a direct result of this deeply loving and humble man who constantly reflects to me that I too am so much more.
All that Serge Benhayon reflects and lives, is a marker for how we all can live – in brotherhood
It is a marker indeed amd one that is very accessible for us all. Something I love about Serge is how everyday is made simple, practical and relatable to everyday life. We then/now have the choice what to do with it.
I never met somebody whom I trusted more than Serge Benhayon and this is because he lives energetic integrity 24/7.
As someone that has studied and taught remedial therapies in the past, I was also impressed with the level of care and respect, presented as the minimum at the Universal Medicine workshop, men and women are honoured equally as practitioners and clients.
My reasons for committing to the The Way of The Livingness have never been based on what Serge presents or teachers. Serge holds humanity in a impossibly high care and his absolute commitment to being a true living example of everything he shares is what you end up trusting. Now that is energetic integrity in action!
Integrity is a quality the world needs much more of; it is a quality worth appreciating.
Equality can most certainly be felt and Serge Benhayon holds this in truckloads.
A meeting within energetic Integrity, is a great way to describe Serge Benhayon, it is like meeting a friend who never stops being a friend, like the stars or the moon, they never waiver in their consistency and shine and neither does Serge.
When I first came to the work and began attending workshops with Serge, there was a sort of relief in my body. This was not a blissed out kind of relief I’d had before with massages and other spiritual practices, it was the relief of my body coming back to truth. The relief of being able to begin the process of discarding all that is not true as now I had the marker of what truth was and felt like in my body. I had someone in front of me reflecting it to me and extending their hand to support me to live all the they do. No imposition or trying to convince me, just a loving offer that was there for me to take up.
The steadiness and energetic integrity of Serge Benhayon in treating every single person he meets as an equal is the ultimate inspiration.
I love your words on Serge Benhayon, it is a beautiful testimonial about what he brings and lives, holding all of humanity as his equal brothers.
I totally agree – Serge Benhayon’s integrity is absolute, unshakeable and rock solid. And as such, he has inspired many, many people to change their lives, a change that has always come from the inside out for everyone of these people and is never an expectation, wish or hope. Serge lives and breathes true equality and knows, as you write, that whatever is put in front of us, we can handle.
Deeply beautiful David and conveys how we can all be with each other if we so choose. Deeply loving, caring and all the same, with the only difference being our choices.
“Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on.” I can relate to what you have written there were so many things i would fight for and defend to hold my position and not feel empty. Serge’s presentations have taught me how to deal with the emptiness and all the things that did anchor me are no needed so much as I evolve and grow which is not a thing to dread but something to embrace.
When someone treats you as an equal you feel more able to express knowing there is no judgment and you tend to be more in charge of your life because no-one is telling you what to do or expecting anything from you and so you don’t go into rebellion or use energy trying to live up to expectations.
Beautifully expressed David, I cannot but agree with you on every word – I was also blown away by the integrity with which the modalities are taught by Serge, although as I had no experience of other modalities before to me this felt normal, until I visited a spa and had a treatment and got to feel how although it was not technically intrusive, the energy and integrity I felt in my sessions or at the courses was world apart and I really got to appreciate what it is that gets taught and reflected by Serge.
The truth of integrity has so much more to it that I once appreciated. There is such fullness in real integrity – a living breathing way of life that means whatever we do, say or think, we are responsible for absolutely. Serge walks his talk – there is no ‘do as I say, not as I do’ – he reflects by example, the truth of integrity. It is also a word that continues to deepen in my experience allowing us to forever grow into our essential beingness – joyfully so.
I am accepting and loving that not listening to the next step, the next refinement feels so at odds with who I am and the beautiful expression of love that can come forth through me. It can be as simple as letting go of things like books that I know I will not use or clothes that don’t support me (even if I’ve never actually worn them!).
And though I’ve not listened or taken these steps at times, the choice to take on unloving energy to fight them (and myself) and the impact of this, is incentive enough to admit avoiding these steps back to love is so, so pointless and full of self-inflicted suffering.
The simplicity of healing or harming is such a great template for every movement we make. It is clear in the way I talk, how obvious that fact is, am I talking in a way that is caring and appreciative of another person(s) or am I belittling them, degrading, trying to get one over on them or make myself look bigger, cleverer, better. Life is always better I have found when I take myself out of the equation and ask what I can do for others, paradoxically that makes my life so much sweeter, go figure.
Meeting Serge Benhayon for the first time I felt I was coming home to me after a very long absence. It was one of those life changing moments yet also felt completely natural and just as life should be.
David when you said “What happened next was a miracle,” I could feel and appreciate how indeed this WAS a miracle: to go home and realise that many things felt out of place, from how your home was set up, to the way you were working, and how your relationships were, is massive; in that the openness to change at that point offers so much to support your evolution. Truly amazing effects of being presented with truth and integrity.
Most of us live our lives from an emptiness, and it eats away at us in the background, that’s why we have invented so many distractions, be it sports, food, drinks, drugs, the list is endless, so that we can for a short space of time forget the nagging tension in our bodies. Then you walk past Serge Benhayon and he is full to brimming with all that he is and it is quite delicious to feel; this can become a stop moment when we reach an understanding that he is living in a way that brings a fullness to everything he does. I know this to be true because I walked past Serge some few years ago now and felt how complete he was, there was no nervous tension in his body and I thought to myself how can that be? And I want some of that!
What I am steadily re-learning is that it is all in the quality of everything we do, to bring everything we are to everything we do and when we are able to do this consistently then there is no emptiness in the body it is full to brimming over with all that we are. This then proves to me something Serge Benhayon has always presented; we are all the same and he is no different from us just choosing to live a different way.
One of the most touching and inspiring aspects of how Serge Benhayon is and lives is how he holds every single person in absolute equalness despite their choices and ways of living. Judgement is sure a barrier to be feeling loved and understood by another.
How very simple and how very profound. It’s amazing how one man can inspire so many by living energetic integrity. It just shows that our body knows this and it is very natural. We recognise it.
Serge Benhayon is a living example of the amazing and very special lived as normal and showing us all that we are all that he is too and more.
“Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on.”
It is quite extraordinary that how many things, habits, beliefs we discover are completely unnecessary and superfluous once we accept and connect to ourselves, our essence, and God.
The knowing from within one’s whole body when meeting Serge Benhayon and being presented with living truth is absolutely everything known from every cell in our body as I and so many others have found and shared. The energetic integrity felt is so pure and true and beyond all out there in the world and is calling us all to step up to this in life and our evolution. It is simply our choice to choose this also or to play along or reject what is on offer but it is always there for us when we are ready.
Tricia it’s true, it is with our bodies that we register truth. The call Home is communicated from body to body. All of the various ways that espouse to being the truth can be easily discerned with our bodies, as being not true, although we must be on guard for the panic imposter that poses as the truth but does not come from truth. I have been hoodwinked many times by the false light but now, as a result of the teachings that Serge Benhayon has brought through, I am able to discern the difference.
David, I can so relate to what you say about coming home from a course and feeling just how much is out of place and feels like it needs change. I realised that reading this made me feel a little uncomfortable as I can feel how much I brush over ordering my home. A great reminder that everything matters and looking at one area without looking at all others is fruitless.
I too was deeply touched by the depth of integrity that Serge Benhayon was with everyone, the first time I met him and especially also seeing and experiencing how he presents on the Sacred Esoteric Healing courses. I had never met anyone who presented about energetic integrity with the clarity and lived the way that he did and still does to this day.
When I first met Serge Benhayon I had so little self-worth that even though he held me in absolute equality, I did not feel equal to him and looked up to him, seeing myself as less. Thanks to his steadfast consistent love and the integrity with which he lives his life, I have been inspired to make changes for myself, and now can say with true joy, that I love Serge deeply as my equal Brother. This is so amazing.
Me too David, Serge Benhayon has always no matter what I have done or said held me in equalness, and never judged. The judgement has always come from myself because of not wanting to take full responsibility for the choices I have made.
Before meeting Serge Benhayon I don’t suppose I knew what true integrity was, I saw a few people that maybe spoke a good talk but until Serge I was never that convinced by anyone or any ethos.
I completely agree – my old definition of integrity quickly became outdated.
It stood really strong with me too when Serge Benhayon presented that integrity is not just about the moment we are giving the session but that it is also about how we live every moment of our life.
A beautiful sharing David – thankyou. “If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.” I so agree but had never considered this before attending Universal Medicine presentations. Despite twenty years of spiritual courses and books I had not witnessed one presenter ever mention this, let alone live this. Serge Benhayon is the real deal.
When I attended my first presentation with Serge Benhayon I felt immediately he was different and a true teacher. Above all, he connected with and spoke to each one of us at a multi-dimensional level, we felt his quality and his love. I didn’t fully understand it all at the time, simply felt the truth of what was presented and knew my search was over.
Thank you for the reminder that all we do heals or harms, it is that simple. And yes I have never been held by anyone in such absolute deep care and love, with no one ounce of judgement as I am by Serge Benhayon, and to me that is a very very special and very precious thing. It lets me be myself and know that I am way more than okay being myself.
‘Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on.’ An ever evolving and deepening process felt by myself and many others. Let go of all else and allow love to be our defining quality.
Meeting Serge Benhayon and suddenly having a very unique and very distinct feeling of returning Home to then realize that what I used to call home was not really it. This was exactly my own experience. I love the transparency of this blog.
“It was black versus white, chalk and cheese, yet nothing I had considered before that moment. It was the single most foundational teaching of my life.” One that no one should miss out on, the one most fundamental piece of education that defines the quality of our lives forever more thereafter. Thank you David for confirming the utterly life changing effect that Serge Benhayon has had and continues to have on so many of us, a man of deep and sincere integrity who has taken respect and responsibility to a new level, inspiring so many to step up to the mark and claim their equality alongside their Equal Brother.
I, as others here have presented how, in meeting Serge Benhayon has transformed our lives, from the inspiration of how he lives in every moment and what making new choices can do for anyone! We become like a Christmas tree the second week of January when all of the needles began to fall off! We start to shed all that is no longer required in our lives, internally and externally. Life becomes amazing!
Serge provides the absolute reflection of integrity and truth, and of unwavering love for all in service untiringly and unceasingly… no greater role model have I ever met.
Annie, the words ‘untiringly and unceasingly’ jumped out at me as I read your comment. It is this quality that is such a constant inspiration to so many.
I too can remember that special moment where I first met Serge Benhayon where everything in him was expressing that I am equal to him and that I am capable to handle all that comes to me in life from that what lives within. This I had never experienced before in this life and was a great healing for me and still is. It feels that as over the many years I live here on earth I have lost this connection with that living way Serge was presenting to me but a way of life I do know I have lived once before and gives that steadiness and fulfilment I was looking for for many years of my life.
I agree DN Serge holds us all as equal brothers unlike anyone I have ever met.
How fascinating David that you registered that your whole body felt at ease when you were with Serge Benhayon. It goes to show just how uneasy we routinely feel with other people. We are all on a state of alert, looking to parry and block incoming blows. What a dreadful way for the Divine body of God to end up in, especially knowing that we got here through our own free will.
Energetic integrity is something that we all know at our core, as energetic integrity IS THE CORE OF US ALL, hence why people like Serge Benhayon and David act as living reminders to us all.
David your sharing is both simple and profound and through it I was able to feel the deep energetic integrity that not only Serge Benhayon lives with, but you do too. Sublime.
Knowing Serge Benhayon is like this for me too David – the equalness in the meeting, in which he holds all, is something that over some 16 years now, I have never, ever had cause to question. There is nought in him that asks, let alone that would ever allow, me to give away one iota of my own authority and power to him, and yet when with him (even in connecting with him by way of intention…) all I can feel is a greatness that calls me, and knows me, to be the same.
Thank-you for sharing this David – it is written so very openly… Am deeply touched by your response on first meeting Serge Benhayon – the surrender to the truth you know, the love you know within so allowed and embraced… What a profound moment of connection, with the man, with yourself, and with the All of which we are inextricably and ever a part.
What an ultimate gift for anyone, an equal reflection of something they are but may not be living fully. It goes against what is the norm of the world, the fit in, don’t rock the boat, speak when spoken to etc etc. The more aware we are of the energetic integrity we come from the more we can deliver this same to everything. The whole ethos if you like of Universal Medicine is not to give or tell you something but bring a consistent awareness to everything we actually already know. You can look back into history and there is a whole lineage of this same teaching or living way. Today we call it The Way of The Livingness and it’s history repeated.
What a super post, and appreciation of Serge Benhayon David, the steadfastness of Serge as you share, and as I have found also myself is undeniably felt and undeniably inspiring too… it is the fire that re-ignites to alight all other lights .. in the love we all are, and are from.
It surely says something remarkable about us as humanity, that we have very little written or to say about quality of energy. We know ‘everything is energy’ yet we treat it all the same. There are a million varieties of sweets in the shops and yet it seems we have barely looked underneath the ‘energetic hood’. It seems to me this is either because there is nothing there, or we are running scared of the true responsibility we carry in life. My money, like yours I think David is on the latter. So for energetic integrity, Serge Benhayon leads the world and shows us all the way forward.
I can relate to so much of what is written in this blog. The absolute game changer for me after meeting Serge Benhayon was that there are two energies in life in which to choose from and this relates to living everyday life and not just as a so called practitioner of a modality. One energy is when we work with our soul and will bring healing to ourselves and others. The other is when we work for the astral plane and this is harming to ourselves and others.
I can honestly say I have never met anyone with more natural energetic integrity than Serge Benhayon.
Sure Roslyn, I agree but I can also feel that we equally are able to live this same level of integrity as it is just a matter of choice to what energy we connect to as has been presented by Serge for many years.
Reading your account of meeting Serge Benhayon is as if i am reading my own experience too. I can totally relate to everything you have shared, thank you.
Me, too.
‘he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me’ – it feels incredibly beautiful and so empowering when another meets us as an equal, meeting us in the potential of everything that we already are, even if we are not yet living that level in our lives. In that moment, and beyond, we can feel that anything is possible, that we are an equal part of the divinity that makes our magnificent Universe.
That being ‘equal’ – specially with someone I feel inspired by has been very difficult for me. So much easier to look them up, not necessarily putting them up on a pedestal, but still regarding them as better/superior than a little me. And in most parts of society, that kind of fits like a jigsaw – some want to make themselves less and smaller, and others want to make themselves mightier and superior. But not so with Serge Benhayon. There is no little hook that I can hang my lack of self-worth on in order to be confirmed in that ‘not enough’. Yes, the way he is is definitely something to be inspired by, but what that is telling me is not that he is better than me, but simply that what I am feeling and seeing is just a result of choices made over life times – the choices I didn’t bother to make with commitment, not to the level he has – and these choices are still available to me.
Energetic Integrity – ‘At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.’ What a gorgeous reflection of the knowing we hold in our bodies, a knowing that remembers a way that we have all lived together before, with love, grace, harmony and underpinning everything, energetic integrity.
Sometimes it is only through meeting another who reflects the absolute truth of who we are, that we begin to see and fully appreciate the depth of this beauty in us. We are designed this way for good reason…
Serge shows those he meets constantly that they are an absolute equal, and he does this in a very honouring way, he’s one of the first people to show me what it is to truly care for myself, never by telling me what to do, but by meeting me in absolute equality with a knowing that I have it all in me. That’s such an amazing gift to have in my life and one I cherish more as time goes on as I learn to live and cherish me more and more daily.
Meeting Serge Benhayon… I don’t even know where to begin to explain just how much everything in my life has changes since that moment. From the way I perceive the world, to the way I perceive myself. I have no other word but just pure magic!
Your blog is incredible. It feels like this amazingly solid yet light filled platform that energetically allows the reader to feel the difference in the changes you have made and this beautifull foundation that you now have. It says this is where I am and it is pretty AMAZING come and join me as you are the same. I am definitely with you or joining you here. And yes the level of integrity and love that Serge Benhayon continually and consistently lives and holds is truly inspiring and I know just how many people’s lives have been touched and changed for the better by knowing and observing him.
Serge Benhayon understands and lives energetic integrity to the highest level I have met in anyone. It can be exposing, revelatory, and incredibly inspiring and I have learnt more about myself from just observing and listening to his presentations in the last 14 years than I have at any other time in my life
A very touching testimony to the inspiration Serge Benhayon offers… it is true what you say David about Serge’s movements, I have always found them compelling and somehow deeply quelling of a tension in me. Understanding that the quality of our movement impacts everyone around us is a responsibility most live unaware of and therefore undiscerning of in it’s finer details. Serge lives energetic integrity and responsibility and so by his movements (and therefore reflection), we can learn it also.
I had a little chuckle when I read your comment Jenny, where you said Serge Benhayon’s movements quelled a tension in you. I can relate to this nowadays, but when I first met him, and for many years, because I saw myself as being lesser to him even though he has always held me in absolute equality I felt so uncomfortable in a one to one conversation with him! The tension for me would increase because every movement he made in this equality would highlight the movements I was making in a lack of self-worth and lesserness. Every movement he made was calling me to step into equality so if I resisted and held on to my issues of thinking I was less, I would inevitably feel tension.
Ha yes I can relate too Lucy, sometimes being around him can be uncomfortable, not because he is directing anything my way but because I can feel my own contraction in the face of what he is holding for himself and therefore everyone else.
“through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals” I recall when I became aware of moving gently, initially through The Gentle Breath Meditation that Serge taught, and discovering that I could apply this choice to be gentle to my day. This was the beginning of understanding that healing can be part of life and not just something we need when we are ill.
This was absolutely beautiful to read David. Serge Benhayon is the epitome of energetic integrity. When I went to see my first universal Medicine practitioner I felt the same thing. Up until that moment I had never felt such a high level of energetic integrity and the level Serge goes to is out of this universe. The reflection that Serge and students of Universal Medicine offer deserves infinite appreciation.
Love it David! As a massage therapist myself, I was also blown away when Serge Benhayon presented on the quality that we are in as therapists and thought to myself, how and why have I been massaging for close to 15 years and not be taught this before.
The level of respect, honouring and integrity with which Serge interacts with a client is a benchmark for every practitioner to aspire to.
I knew about responsibility on a superficial level but the first time I heard of energetic responsibility and integrity was at Universal Medicine courses and presentations. I fully understood when Serge Benhayon presented on energetic responsibility and integrity because he moves and lives every aspect of his teachings. Not only did I hear the truth expressed but I felt it with every particle in my body. Serge is incredible in every way, he consistently holds everyone as equals and reflects love to us all. Every movement he makes is a reflection of love, energetic responsibility and integrity.
What Serge presents on energetic integrity is the way to bring the world back to a harmony previously lived, in the time of the pyramids.
Through Serge Benhayon I have come to know what holding myself really means – not contracting, shutting down, not holding back, not burying but deeply allowing all that is not true to release and to accept and live what is truly within me that is love in fullness, what it is to be fragile and tender and the truth that I am to celebrate the endless beauty I am.
Serge Benhayon offers a vibration that when felt becomes a marker for what we know as truth and love. Once felt, all that is not of this vibration starts to appear assaulting to our very being. The re-awakening begins when we start to say ‘yes’ to living this vibration in our everyday.
The integrity I felt from Curtis Benhayon, Serge’s son when I had my first massage was like nothing I had experienced before, I felt deeply held and at no time awkward or self conscious. It was not long after that that I attended a massage course and experienced the detail with which Serge teaches the preparation of the client. The care and attention to detail was second to none.
I love this and it bring tears to my eyes. Serge has had this impact on countless people and his love for humanity is something I’m not sure we are yet capable of understanding the depths of. Heaven sent does not even begin to describe what we have walking with us.
At the start it frustrated me that no one would give me the answers to my problems or issues and tell me what to do, I relied so heavily on the world outside of me that I had no idea how to trust my world within. Now, I am deeply grateful that when life throws something at me to deal with I am supported to feel what is true for me as I have learnt to trust what I know within more and as I do life has become a whole lot simpler
‘Respect’ is the word that leapt off the page for me today, Serge Benhayon treats everyone with absolute respect and encourages us to do the same, we learn to respect ourselves and our bodies and also to respect others and their choices.
We should all aim to live a level of integrity and respect that stops comparison, judgement, self doubt and criticism in its tracks.
Brilliant Susie W. And thank you for I had forgotten how debilitating criticism can be.
I know that I, and many others who met Serge Benhayon for the first time also had the feeling that “I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.” Not only that, this person, Serge, was forever holding himself in the utmost integrity in every single thing that he did, and still does. I have never felt uncomfortable around Serge as I often felt around other presenters and I have always felt a deep and unwavering trust from day one.
Knowing that there are two energies running life… one that harms and one that heals… brings a simplicity to life that is profound – it is simply up to us which one we choose, and what we do after that is taken care of.
Never before meeting Serge Benhayon did I ever question or consider the quality in which I speak, touch or in any way interact with another or consider that such movements had an impact or imprint in the world. I have come to understand that my every move does indeed heal or harm and I feel that refining this will be a life long process, but a joy-full one as movement that is healing feels divine to express.
That’s incredible that after only one encounter, you basically turned your life around. Serge can sound a bit god like in a way when described like this, but from my experience it’s not like that at all. It’s the fact that we are simply not used to someone reflecting back to us what true energetic integrity is that we (if we’re open to it) can be so taken aback by it. So he stands out because of that, but he doesn’t have that Guru energy, the kind that makes you think you need to follow in his shadow and look to him for the answers to life, despite the fact that we may at times wish he or someone else could be that person, just so we can avoid the responsibility of discerning and reading life for ourselves. To say Serge is our absolute equal is the absolute truth.
‘I remember my first meeting with Serge and burst into tears as I felt the love of returning back home.’ The integrity he lives has supported me back to trusting myself and people again from not even being able to make eye contact with people. His living that we are all equal has supported me back to living this myself and not putting people more important than myself – or less.
I would 100% agree with you on this testimonial of Serge Benhayon, a very similar experience to my own.
From The very first workshop I attended with Serge Benhayon everything about him has always always been about energetic integrity. It was the re-learning, at this workshop, that there is always 1 of two energies that fuel us in every single movement we make – one that harms or one that heals. It was because of this I then understood life and all my searching for answers stopped, but my learning has not and never will. Thank you, David.
Discovering energetic integrity has been a forever expanding gift. A gift of understanding and exploration, of the qualities I am and to share this with the world. These days I have a much deeper – yet constantly expanding understanding of the cause and effect of movements and actions whether from me or others. Understanding energetic responsibility is the most amazing ‘natural law’ that fully empowers us as the divine beings we are, equal to All as Serge Benhayon presents. We are second to none as we can all equally read and discern energetic integrity.
The book “The Way of Initiation” by Serge Benhayon is absolutely awesome and has a whole section on Energetic Integrity and another one on Energetic Quality as well as Energetic Awareness and lots more. Well worth reading for a deeper understanding of what is presented here.
It’s a long time since I’ve read “The Way of Initiation” and I’ve so much has changed for me since then, thank you Nicola I will go back and have a look.
To be faced by the real thing (as Serge is) can be very confronting. Very confronting because such level of love, truth and integrity expose all that is not of that. But also very liberating, joyful, evolutionary and super awesome because as you say the fundamental message Serge shares from every part of his being is that you too are this, we are ALL this. Therefore being connected to Serge is always a call to be more of who we all truly are. Of course not everyone wants that yet and therefore whilst some respond to the call to evolve, others respond the other way – such is free will.
I too used to think I had a huge amount of integrity until I met Serge Benhayon who takes it to a whole other level. The energetic integrity, love and responsibility that Serge lives is 24/7 and considers all and everything equally. These may sound like just words, but the living of it is totally transforming and humbling.
Serge Benhayon has this remarkable ability to live the more that we are but are yet to live ourselves and in this way he provides a steady reflection and a constant pull for us all to come home to the great love and truth we each in essence are. This is why he is so loved and yet also so despised, for how we feel about Serge is a reflection about how we feel about evolution – returning to the love that we are. Some of us are ready and some of us want a bit more time in the pit of all we have created that is not of truth but is providing a whole host of comforts and vices that promise to alleviate the tension that arises by not living the ‘more’ now.
That is so true, there has never been a time Serge has told me he has the answers and I don’t. The point is he lives in a way that his body can feel more than mine can and that is where the answers come from. I can make choices in every moment to equally have this connection with my body for myself and others, it is simply a choice to live with a finer level of integrity. Thank you for the reminder and for bringing us to appreciate the level of integrity we can each bring into the way we live our lives.
Many people have this sense about Serge Benhayon that we have known him forever, there is such a quality about him, to me he is the rock that holds everyone steady.
Love this sharing of Serge Benhayon holding you as an equal. He does this with everyone he meets and that is a gift. And yes – the simple message of us choosing to either harm or heal is something g we can be aware of in each movement.
Once we start learning about true integrity there is no turning back, just a constant work in progress from now on. Serge is the ultimate teacher as he lives and breaths integrity.
The quality of integrity and responsibility felt on any of the courses with Universal Medicine completely surpasses any previous professional course I have ever attended as a physiotherapist. The respect for the client is second to none, because of the energetic understanding how a treatment is either harmful or healing.
I can relate to every word you write here from your first meeting Serge Benhayon through to the present day. There is no doubt `I will be continuing attending presentations, courses and workshops that Serge offers, whenever possible. A man who has inspired me to keep working at the pain and hurts that used to bind and contract me, to knowing the ‘Equal Brothers’ that we ALL are.
“There are many words that reflect the ways in which Serge Benhayon has touched my life – as a Healer, Friend, Presenter, Author, Father, and Business Mentor – but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother”.
I used to think Serge always thought the better of me, in the sense that I never felt judged, and always offered another chance, but over time I have grown to recognise this way of being with me is him holding me in, and holding me as, the same light he knows himself to be.
I had never met anyone with the level of integrity Serge lives in every area of life and it has, by inspiration, supported me to see and feel my own life and choices more clearly.
Like you DN after meeting Serge and attending workshops I could feel that there were many things I held onto which did not serve me or anyone.
Once I felt these things for what they were (not support but crutches & hiding places)
it was easy to let them go.
Here are just a few of the many things I had used but now do not need nor want in my way of life:
sugar
staying up late doing ‘fun’ projects
sleeping in
lots of movies
being flirtatious
playing myself down
working out of desperation
working when sick-even giving massage sessions when sick
trying to help people when I did not look after myself
Yes the integrity taught at Universal Medicine workshops and courses is amazing. It goes further than placing your hand on a appropriate place respecting other people’s bodies, it is about how we live every moment of our lives and that this affects everybody else we live with. From our thoughts to our actions everything matters. Which is a very beautiful way to live once embraced.
Lieke, it really is ‘a beautiful way to live once embraced’ as it takes all blame and puts the onus on us for taking responsibility for all our own choices.
There was one word that leapt off the page to me as I read through this blog. It is how I feel about Serge Benhayon, because it is how he relates to me – and everyone else I have seen him engage with over the past 6 years. And the word not only leaps off the page but it is the very last word on the page too…’brother’. The perfect encapsulation of this man who offers us all so much. Serge lives, breathes and walks brotherhood in everything he does – and we can choose this way too.
I feel the same too Richard, every time I see Serge Benhayon I am beautifully reminded of true brotherhood. I know that we can all choose to live this way because I have seen brotherhood being lived consistently by Serge Benhayon and his family.
Unlike the large number of presenters I have met over many years, Serge Benhayon has never let me give my power away to him. My questions are never met with a mythical, ‘well that’s for you to find out’ type of reply smacking of ‘just in case you try to sue me.’
..and guess what, supported by the Love in which I feel held, I increasingly realise that actually do know the answer myself.
The fact that we can live in a way that either heals or harms is extraordinary and highlights the importance of responsibility, which is very connected with integrity. Every movement we make in every part of life contributes to the whole and those around us. Great for also sharing how ultimately Serge Benhayon never instructs people on what to do but empowers people to feel they can do all he does.
I relate to your experiences with Serge Benhayon; that man lives integrity in its every way shape and form.