The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt. At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.
At the end of my first one-day Universal Medicine workshop, back in 2004, I walked up to Serge and burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.
Later in the year I attended my first Sacred Esoteric Healing workshop, and as someone who had had many massages in the past I prided myself on having no reservations on being ‘carefree’ and comfortable with my body being touched.
Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt, and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times. Simple, but something that I’d never felt or observed being taught or practised by any of the massage therapists I had seen before.
However, what was even more revealing was to understand the responsibility of energetic integrity that we have, not only when we place our hands on someone or have a discussion with them, but also in the way we engage in our wider life. What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.
The difference that I felt in the two ways – by both practising and receiving a session in each quality – was profound. It was black versus white, chalk and cheese, yet nothing I had considered before that moment. It was the single most foundational teaching of my life.
What happened next was a miracle.
When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had. The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.
Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on. The process was gradual and is very much continuing to this day. It is a process inspired by the energetic integrity and quality that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects: a consistent Integrity that has only ever deepened in the past 13 years.
This energetic integrity that I experience from Serge is of such a high degree that even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me. It has meant that the changes in my life are a result of the work, commitment and choices that I have made – inspired through the absolute steadfastness Serge has shown me.
There are many words that reflect the ways in which Serge Benhayon has touched my life – as a Healer, Friend, Presenter, Author, Father, and Business Mentor – but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother.
By David
Further Reading:
Energetic Responsibility – How Responsible Are We Willing to Be?
SOUL WISDOM – Divine Magic at Play!
Responsibility in the Workplace
The Truth about Universal Medicine 
History reveals that for every energy there is an equal and opposite energy and thus when we choice to be responsible rather than irresponsibility then the integrity becomes second to none.
So few people really talk about the way we engage people and the community we live in. When we do talk about such matters it is generally agreed that our standards have dropped and there is little respect for each other any more. Serge Benhayon talks of self respect and to respect other people, he talks of integrity which again is something that is lacking in the world today. Since meeting Serge Benhayon these words and many others have had a huge impact on my life and how I treat myself and all others that I meet. I regard this as a positive effect on my life because I have become much more aware of life and the part that we all have to play within it.
There is a lack of integrity in the world, such a breath of fresh air to finally have integrity as Serge Benhayon lives and presents, ‘integrity which again is something that is lacking in the world today.’
I know what you mean David the integrity that anyone can feel when they meet Serge Benhayon is tangible it can be sensed by our bodies. Serge Benhayon encourages everyone to work something out for themselves because when we do it gives us a settlement or confidence that we do know that the answers to life resides within us we just need to call them out.
Our bodies know what truth is, who to trust etc. ‘…but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.’ I too feel this way.
Last year I did not listen to my body when I let in an electrician who brutalised my house. This man was saying all the right things but my body was distressed. I put this down to other factors but realised on reflection it happened in every contact I had. In choosing an electrician for the next job I let my body speak – it felt really settled with one man who did an amazing job and was so supportive. A very expensive but invaluable lesson.
We are continually learning as we go through life, we can listen to our bodies and gain from their wisdom, or keep making the same mistakes over and over.
I don’t have a close relationship with Serge Benhayon and I have probably met him less than 5 times. I don’t see him like a father, nor like a really close friend. But I still choose to attend his presentations, I respect his presentations and find them useful in my day to day, his teachings give answers which have not been brought up before.
viktoriastoykova, Serge Benhayon is a name that has been given to the body in this incarnation. What you are sensing is on a much deeper particle level of your body. Which has nothing to do with how many times you meet Serge Benhayon or consider him as a friend or not. Your relationship is with the energy that he represents and brings through for humanity. The energy that flows through the body called ‘Serge Benhayon’ has been in service in this way for lifetimes.
Serge Benhayon really lives the truth, he doesn’t just talk it, it’s expressed in every facet of life fully from family, business, relationships and beyond. He inspires so many because we all know and have the same truth as it’s from the same source, the inspiration being in the living part of it.
This is unique in the world, and so welcome, ‘Serge Benhayon really lives the truth, he doesn’t just talk it, it’s expressed in every facet of life fully from family, business, relationships and beyond.’
“This energetic integrity that I experience from Serge is of such a high degree that even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me. It has meant that the changes in my life are a result of the work, commitment and choices that I have made – inspired through the absolute steadfastness Serge has shown me.”
This testament totally dis-proves any accusations that Serge Benhayon is a guru, as this is how he relates to everyone, supporting them to be their own master beholden to no one other than themselves and God.
Is it possible jstewart51 that those people who think Serge Benhayon is a guru do not want to feel just how much they are in resistance to the Ageless Wisdom Teachings, because they have been exposed in the lie of living in so called comfort, which actually is an internal agony. It’s like being tortured and yet we accept this as a reward for not accessing the Ageless Wisdom teachings. We have made a bargain with such evil that we are like Rabbits caught in the headlights of a car, we feel we cannot move out of the bargain we have made. Along comes Serge Benhayon and shows how easy it is to live in a way that dispels the spell we have all fallen under. Is it possible there are those that are enraged by the simplicity of it all and in reaction lash out to try and diminish what in fact cannot be diminished by words? because the truth cannot be captured in words.
“My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.” This I recognise, for the returning home sense is very strong, as is the degree of love we are held in by Serge Benhayon.
One year on from when you met Serge Benhayon I met him too and this is exactly what I felt: “My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever”. And every day since, I have deeply appreciated that I made the choice to attend that first workshop, as once I began to make sense of my life through the wonderful presentations by Serge, life in general began to make sense too.
I can only concur with your sharing and your appreciation towards Serge Benhayon and the Esoteric Healing Modalities. They have been a blessing in my life, and I am sure for many others too. The integrity that goes hand in hand with the modalities and the practitioner is undeniable.
Many years I ago when I lived in the UK, I always had this knowing that I would rather be massaged by someone early in the morning, or even wondered what temperament they were in, as this would affect the way I would be left feeling afterwards. With the stress of this, I eventually stopped having massages from people because of this.
Always discern who you are being treated by and when you are left in a discombobulated position, then ponder on what has occurred for you, its a no brainer, body won’t lie.
You reminded me Shushila of a time years ago when I was not in a great space, I went to see a physiotherapist for back pain and I know that the energy they were in and dumping into my body was foul but it took me a while to stop going to see them because my self worth was so rock bottom I went as some sort of punishment towards myself that this was all I deserved. I have attended many workshops of Universal Medicine and because of my previous life experience can say that the level of integrity of everyone attending is of the highest quality, everyone has an opportunity to learn so much about themselves it can be life changing, it certainly has been for me and I know many others.
We are energetic beings and our energy affects those around us, as equally, other people’s energy has an impact on us.
“If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms” – I agree, and we often do not realise that the energy that we are choosing to be in, by not choosing, is actually the one that fights our true essence and we end up accepting it as our normal, default, state of being.
For that equal brother reflects us who we are, all together and what we mean in this world.
I have had that experience where I go home from one of Serge Benhayon’s presentations/workshops and I don’t feel like I fit into the life I had before I went. I feel different and that can be the inspiration to change my life to how I feel now rather than slotting back into my old life and behaviours without questioning it’s quality.
We don´t really know what true integrity is before we meet it lived and presented by a person. We may know it by recognising everything that it is not and the underlying disappointment, pain and giving up that are coming with the absence, but in order to reestablish trust and embracing energetic (true) integrity we need to experience it.
The only way to discredit the energetic integrity of a person and everything they bring and represent is by being dismissive, ignorant, callous and/or defamatory and lying. Twisting or taking out of context is an effective method to tamper with facts and truth. This is happening again and again in history wherever someone dislikes what energetic integrity exposes and reveals. They shoot the messenger instead of feeling what they truly offer as a reflection.
I agree with you Alexander If we sit back and just observe what is currently going on in the world we can easily see how the truth is being tampered with, its being twisted and contorted so I have to wonder if we actually want to know the truth? Or are we content with the lies because then we don’t have to take any responsibility for what is actually occurring in life we can blame it on everyone and anyone rather than ourselves, its always someone else’s fault.
We do feel everything even though we might not admit or be consciously aware of the fact, and that is why we feel the difference so starkly when someone lives with the integrity your describe here. It is not just being correct, it is making sure the energy you are in is not imposing on anyone else as well.
David, this sharing is amazing and I have to say that the feeling of coming home was so palpable for me when I first attended Sacred Esoteric Healing Workshop in 2014. And energetic integrity is something we are constantly asked to be with and the cause and effect of harming or healing is a responsibility we all behold and responsible for 24 hours a day.
‘discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on’ – a sentence to encourage and inspire me as I am offered the freshest of opportunities to move free of all the things that I have chosen that suffocate my true expression and purpose in life.
My experience has been, to change can be as simple as a movement in love in knowing you are love in the first instance.
This is a great testimony to love in activity David. Serge Benhayon has never and will never accept that anyone is less than his equal brother. and that we are more than able to deal with what life presents . . after all we are the experts of our own creations.
When meeting Serge Benhayon, may it be for the first time or any time thereafter, it is like you know him form before, like he is your father, your best friend, in truth I do not have the words to describe it in full but there is a very deep connection in which we are all one and the same.
And when we fully accept this we have to start realising that we too are all the qualities we see in Serge.
Indeed Matilda, we have to let go the many held ideas that all people are different, that one is more intelligent than the other as this is not true. We all have the same access to the same wisdom and knowledge, it is only our expression that provides us with the different flavours which are always from the same source.
There is a lot to let go off when we have chosen to walk the path back to the origin of our being. But it is without sorrow or regret as we understand it is all not us, it is just energy we have taken on to lace that inner core of love we all hold from being told that living with this love is not an accepted way of living on this world.
When I first met Serge Benhayon I’d say I was a bit of a mess in many ways. On paper I was ticking boxes but I didn’t have an ease about life or myself at all – I was all about judging my self-worth based on how good I was at things. I was very, very much in my head. But I can totally relate to what you say here, ‘My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home’ because I was crying heaps when I attended my first Universal Medicine course. I had no words except I felt I’d returned home. The love and integrity I felt was huge and in all the many, many years of knowing Serge Benhayon this has never changed.
My body knows what integrity feels like – and when my body is warning me – an uneasy panic even when superficially all is friendly and well- something I wished I’d realised before I’ve let certain tradespeople lose in my house recently! A great lesson to learn and be aware of and take heed.
‘What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.’ This profound wisdom has changed my life forever, never in all courses and workshops I did before attending courses and workshops at Universal Medicine I got presented the truth about the two qualities of energy we can choose from. To be more and more aware how this plays out in my daily life gives me the choice to change my movements that support me to heal and all others at the same time.
The simplicity of this fact – there are really only two choices – do we move with the quality that heals or the one that harms? And our bodies show us all the time which one we are with.
It is always key to be on, to know what energy is running us, ‘there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.’
If you never knew what energetic integrity or energetic responsibility meant, you would only have to watch Serge Benhayon for a small portion of the day to get the full and truthful meaning of these words, as this man lives and moves with these qualities every day consistently – an incredible inspiration.
And the thing is Anna, when we do that, observing Serge Benhayon, we do find that we already knew all about energetic responsibility and energetic integrity but have chosen to forget it in order to live our irresponsible lives.
Definitely Nico, we pretend we don’t know, when really we do not wish to be fully responsible, ‘we already knew all about energetic responsibility and energetic integrity but have chosen to forget it in order to live our irresponsible lives.’
Energetic integrity may look no different on the outside, but your can certainly feel the difference of someone setting you up on a massage table, placing a blanket over you. But its not just about the treatment room. This is applicable to the whole of life.
I would also have found it hard at the time of first meeting Serge Benhayon to define what was different about him. I also had that feeling of being safe, energetically held and my body at ease. What I most remember was that he spoke to the part of me that had been rejected, stomped on, invalidated, ignored throughout my life by myself and others but I knew was my essence and truth be precious as a child. This is an extraordinary gift these days but is naturally available to a practitioner who lives according to the soul.
Yes, to a feeling of being safe, to zero judgement, to being met, on first meeting Serge; there was more, yet it is hard to put it in words.
Bringing energetic integrity into my life inspired by the example constantly expressed and lived by Serge Benhayon has transformed my life and brings ever-deepening joy.
It is very amazing to surrender to the part we play in everything and very amazing to consider/realise that we are all equal and that therefore we can be inspired by others who are making great choices in their lives rather than jealous or resentful.
In a world where there are many beliefs about energy, it takes a very loving and brave person to stand up and to present that there are only two types of energy – one that harms and one that heals.
It may sound cheesy but Serge Benhayon’s integrity really stands out when you meet him. Having continued to attend talks and have sessions over the last almost 20 years, I can say the respect for his integrity has only grown. However, I don’t feel like this is some super that the rest of us can’t have. It’s a matter of cleaning out the things that make us act from self-interest or from an idea of what’s ‘right’ that allows this integrity to grow for us all.
It may be cheesy however it is completely true that Serge Benhayon’s integrity does stand out because that level of integrity is not the common-run-of-mill, though in truth it should be and is achievable by all – it is just a choice and practice.
One of the things about the Universal Medicine courses with Serge Benhayon are that the exercises allow participants to feel the truth for themselves, that is why for me the courses are so life changing as what I take away is my own truth.
There is no imposing anything on any-body, we just get presented what could be of truth for all of us, but we have to always feel it for ourselves and, most important, live it for ourselves.
Our homes are mere reflections of how we are in the body. Dis-order may be the case in both. Order may be the case in both. But not one thing here and another thing there. That is why when the body gets ordered from within, many aspects of our lives get adjusted. It feels only natural. It is a natural process of discarding what does no longer belong and welcoming what we say yes to.