Meeting Serge Benhayon – Deeply Touched by Energetic Integrity

The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt. At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.

At the end of my first one-day Universal Medicine workshop, back in 2004, I walked up to Serge and burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.

Later in the year I attended my first Sacred Esoteric Healing workshop, and as someone who had had many massages in the past I prided myself on having no reservations on being ‘carefree’ and comfortable with my body being touched.

Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt, and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times. Simple, but something that I’d never felt or observed being taught or practised by any of the massage therapists I had seen before.

However, what was even more revealing was to understand the responsibility of energetic integrity that we have, not only when we place our hands on someone or have a discussion with them, but also in the way we engage in our wider life. What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.

The difference that I felt in the two ways – by both practising and receiving a session in each quality – was profound. It was black versus white, chalk and cheese, yet nothing I had considered before that moment. It was the single most foundational teaching of my life.

What happened next was a miracle.

When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had. The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.

Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on. The process was gradual and is very much continuing to this day. It is a process inspired by the energetic integrity and quality that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects: a consistent Integrity that has only ever deepened in the past 13 years.

This energetic integrity that I experience from Serge is of such a high degree that even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me. It has meant that the changes in my life are a result of the work, commitment and choices that I have made – inspired through the absolute steadfastness Serge has shown me.

There are many words that reflect the ways in which Serge Benhayon has touched my life – as a Healer, Friend, Presenter, Author, Father, and Business Mentor – but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother.

By David

Further Reading:
Energetic Responsibility – How Responsible Are We Willing to Be?
SOUL WISDOM – Divine Magic at Play!
Responsibility in the Workplace

571 thoughts on “Meeting Serge Benhayon – Deeply Touched by Energetic Integrity

  1. The only way to discredit the energetic integrity of a person and everything they bring and represent is by being dismissive, ignorant, callous and/or defamatory and lying. Twisting or taking out of context is an effective method to tamper with facts and truth. This is happening again and again in history wherever someone dislikes what energetic integrity exposes and reveals. They shoot the messenger instead of feeling what they truly offer as a reflection.

  2. We do feel everything even though we might not admit or be consciously aware of the fact, and that is why we feel the difference so starkly when someone lives with the integrity your describe here. It is not just being correct, it is making sure the energy you are in is not imposing on anyone else as well.

  3. David, this sharing is amazing and I have to say that the feeling of coming home was so palpable for me when I first attended Sacred Esoteric Healing Workshop in 2014. And energetic integrity is something we are constantly asked to be with and the cause and effect of harming or healing is a responsibility we all behold and responsible for 24 hours a day.

  4. ‘discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on’ – a sentence to encourage and inspire me as I am offered the freshest of opportunities to move free of all the things that I have chosen that suffocate my true expression and purpose in life.

  5. This is a great testimony to love in activity David. Serge Benhayon has never and will never accept that anyone is less than his equal brother. and that we are more than able to deal with what life presents . . after all we are the experts of our own creations.

  6. When meeting Serge Benhayon, may it be for the first time or any time thereafter, it is like you know him form before, like he is your father, your best friend, in truth I do not have the words to describe it in full but there is a very deep connection in which we are all one and the same.

      1. Indeed Matilda, we have to let go the many held ideas that all people are different, that one is more intelligent than the other as this is not true. We all have the same access to the same wisdom and knowledge, it is only our expression that provides us with the different flavours which are always from the same source.

  7. There is a lot to let go off when we have chosen to walk the path back to the origin of our being. But it is without sorrow or regret as we understand it is all not us, it is just energy we have taken on to lace that inner core of love we all hold from being told that living with this love is not an accepted way of living on this world.

  8. When I first met Serge Benhayon I’d say I was a bit of a mess in many ways. On paper I was ticking boxes but I didn’t have an ease about life or myself at all – I was all about judging my self-worth based on how good I was at things. I was very, very much in my head. But I can totally relate to what you say here, ‘My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home’ because I was crying heaps when I attended my first Universal Medicine course. I had no words except I felt I’d returned home. The love and integrity I felt was huge and in all the many, many years of knowing Serge Benhayon this has never changed.

    My body knows what integrity feels like – and when my body is warning me – an uneasy panic even when superficially all is friendly and well- something I wished I’d realised before I’ve let certain tradespeople lose in my house recently! A great lesson to learn and be aware of and take heed.

  9. ‘What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.’ This profound wisdom has changed my life forever, never in all courses and workshops I did before attending courses and workshops at Universal Medicine I got presented the truth about the two qualities of energy we can choose from. To be more and more aware how this plays out in my daily life gives me the choice to change my movements that support me to heal and all others at the same time.

    1. The simplicity of this fact – there are really only two choices – do we move with the quality that heals or the one that harms? And our bodies show us all the time which one we are with.

  10. If you never knew what energetic integrity or energetic responsibility meant, you would only have to watch Serge Benhayon for a small portion of the day to get the full and truthful meaning of these words, as this man lives and moves with these qualities every day consistently – an incredible inspiration.

    1. And the thing is Anna, when we do that, observing Serge Benhayon, we do find that we already knew all about energetic responsibility and energetic integrity but have chosen to forget it in order to live our irresponsible lives.

  11. Energetic integrity may look no different on the outside, but your can certainly feel the difference of someone setting you up on a massage table, placing a blanket over you. But its not just about the treatment room. This is applicable to the whole of life.

  12. I would also have found it hard at the time of first meeting Serge Benhayon to define what was different about him. I also had that feeling of being safe, energetically held and my body at ease. What I most remember was that he spoke to the part of me that had been rejected, stomped on, invalidated, ignored throughout my life by myself and others but I knew was my essence and truth be precious as a child. This is an extraordinary gift these days but is naturally available to a practitioner who lives according to the soul.

  13. Bringing energetic integrity into my life inspired by the example constantly expressed and lived by Serge Benhayon has transformed my life and brings ever-deepening joy.

  14. It is very amazing to surrender to the part we play in everything and very amazing to consider/realise that we are all equal and that therefore we can be inspired by others who are making great choices in their lives rather than jealous or resentful.

  15. In a world where there are many beliefs about energy, it takes a very loving and brave person to stand up and to present that there are only two types of energy – one that harms and one that heals.

  16. It may sound cheesy but Serge Benhayon’s integrity really stands out when you meet him. Having continued to attend talks and have sessions over the last almost 20 years, I can say the respect for his integrity has only grown. However, I don’t feel like this is some super that the rest of us can’t have. It’s a matter of cleaning out the things that make us act from self-interest or from an idea of what’s ‘right’ that allows this integrity to grow for us all.

    1. It may be cheesy however it is completely true that Serge Benhayon’s integrity does stand out because that level of integrity is not the common-run-of-mill, though in truth it should be and is achievable by all – it is just a choice and practice.

  17. One of the things about the Universal Medicine courses with Serge Benhayon are that the exercises allow participants to feel the truth for themselves, that is why for me the courses are so life changing as what I take away is my own truth.

  18. Our homes are mere reflections of how we are in the body. Dis-order may be the case in both. Order may be the case in both. But not one thing here and another thing there. That is why when the body gets ordered from within, many aspects of our lives get adjusted. It feels only natural. It is a natural process of discarding what does no longer belong and welcoming what we say yes to.

  19. I have also done several massage courses and the one at Universal Medicine is by far the most respectful of client and practitioner. The quality of care is also very high and the code of ethics from the Esoteric Practitioners Association second to none. Serge Benhayon has raised the standard of massage practice. How wonderful if other organisations would follow suit.

  20. “It has meant that the changes in my life are a result of the work, commitment and choices that I have made”. I cannot deny that the choices I used to make got me into trouble and were highly disregarding. These days being a student of Universal Medicine since 2005 my choices are so confirming and I have so much to be thankful for and appreciate constantly.

  21. I remember attending my first Level 1 Sacred Esoteric Healing course. It was amazing to be in a small room packed with tables doing one on one gentle hands on healing sessions with genuinely very loving people. Everyone having their own unique way of application and design. We live with such an assortment of amazing people whether they are choosing it or not. What we can learn from each other when integrity is chosen before anything else is awe inspiring.

  22. “If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.”

    This is one of the most profound teachings I have ever come across, that there are two energies that come through us – one to harm and one to heal – and that ultimately it is up to us which one we choose. It is a wise decision to spend more time investigating the qualities of energies at play. Universal Medicine was the first organisation that i have come across that introduces energetic quality and offers you the chance to see what quality you are living your life in. Game changing, life changing if you so choose.

  23. What I appreciate about what you have shared here David is that Serge Benhayon does not ‘need’ to do any of that, he does it because he knows it matters. I have learnt massage in two countries and never did we talk about energetic integrity of how I lived outside the treatment room – except if I smoked that my fingers would smell of that smoke! The level of integrity Serge teaches is for us all to live in our every day lives, not simply when we are practitioners – a real gift for life.

  24. When we live in connection to love we live in connection to a quality, a vibration that represents, honors and respects who we are in equalness. Such is the importance in developing a loving relationship with our bodies and who we are in essence, as it is this connection that develops our awareness to know if we are being moved by the quality of love or not, and to know that this is our responsibility alone.

  25. “If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.” This was something that I was aware of to an extent before I met Serge Benhayon, but it wasn’t until he explained the very distinct differences between those energies that we choose to align to, and the far reaching consequences have on others when we do this that I began to understand the depth of what he was offering us. And to this day it is something that I am still working on.

  26. The longer I have known Serge Benhayon the more I have come to understand the true meaning of integrity; for me he has re-imprinted this word with the truth. It is not just about the way we act towards others but the way we live in every single part of our lives. Everything is energy and everything is connected, so how we live in every moment affects the quality in which we place our hands on another, the way we talk to another and the way we treat another. Yes, in every second of our lives we have a huge responsibility as to the energy we are choosing in our lives.

  27. “Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on. The process was gradual and is very much continuing to this day. It is a process inspired by the energetic integrity and quality that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects: a consistent Integrity that has only ever deepened in the past 13 years”.
    Yes, I am alo inspired daily by the wisdom and integrity that Serge Benhayon lives consistently and reflects that this is possible for everyone as their living way.

  28. “I walked up to Serge and burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever” – totally relatable David, such is the effect of remembered true love, truth and wisdom; always there living in our cells that record eternity.

  29. Universal Medicine opened my eyes to a whole new level of what integrity means, and how responsible we actually are with all of our words, thoughts and actions. When you rediscover it you kind of wonder how you hadn’t noticed it before. We know that everything in nature is connected and interdependent, but we somehow think we humans are above or separate from that. I have found that this responsibility can be reclaimed gradually over time, and it actually brings more meaning and depth to life.

  30. When anyone meets Serge Benhayon there is an instant knowing of what is the truth and what is not. This to me is the first choice we make and it is what we then do with that choice that determines our next step.

  31. ‘he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me.’
    In this way Serge feels exactly like God is with us: in absolute honor of who we are, constantly confirming that and never ever judging.

  32. ” but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother. ”
    There is nothing more gracing that to be honoured for the truth of who you are.

  33. I remember the first time I met Serge Benhayon, I was deeply touched by his understanding, how he held everyone equally and never judged anyone for what they said, or what they shared, and still to this day 10 years on, I am still blown away by his commitment to humanity, to gentleness and his ability to always seek the truth.

  34. I have also never felt the level of integrity that Serge has when he teaches the various esoteric healing modalities. Prior to finding Universal Medicine I have had experiences with massage, spiritual healing and complementary therapies where there was an obvious lack of integrity to the point of even experiencing sexual harassment within a session. With the Universal Medicine Therapies the level of love, care and integrity is the highest possible and it means a safe and truly healing environment for the client. The Esoteric Practitioners Association also has the highest code of ethics in the world for any practitioner – something else I am immensely appreciative of.

  35. We each have a core, an innate knowing where nothing looks for or validates the many lies that we have unfortunately made our life from. But it does hold and constantly reflect to us the insidiousness of the lies we have accepted. Here in lies our future, one that sees us completely debunking every lie and again allowing the divine love that is our inner essence to be how we again live our life.

  36. Thank you David, I appreciated your reminder about the two sources or qualities of energy we can choose to align to everyday, one that harms or one that heals, its very simple, powerful, and as you have shared – foundational for life.

  37. So gorgeous David thank you for sharing, I too have been deeply touched by Serge, his absolute integrity in his way of living but also the power of his love for humanity that holds us all as equal, this is truly divine love.

  38. Meeting Serge Benhayon – Deeply Touched by Energetic Integrity. I so agree and every presentation or workshop I attend or listen to, I feel this every time.

  39. This is my experience too “This energetic integrity that I experience from Serge is of such a high degree that even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me.” it is so inspiring and empowering.

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