Meeting Serge Benhayon – Deeply Touched by Energetic Integrity

The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt. At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.

At the end of my first one-day Universal Medicine workshop, back in 2004, I walked up to Serge and burst into tears. My body could not hold back expressing the fact I had returned home and that the person standing before me was someone I felt I had known forever.

Later in the year I attended my first Sacred Esoteric Healing workshop, and as someone who had had many massages in the past I prided myself on having no reservations on being ‘carefree’ and comfortable with my body being touched.

Every move Serge made reflected the initial depth of integrity that I felt, and during the presentations he described the importance of absolute respect with clients and the level of detail and care in positioning hands on the body to ensure absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times. Simple, but something that I’d never felt or observed being taught or practised by any of the massage therapists I had seen before.

However, what was even more revealing was to understand the responsibility of energetic integrity that we have, not only when we place our hands on someone or have a discussion with them, but also in the way we engage in our wider life. What Serge presented is that there are two forms of energy, two qualities. One that heals and one that harms. If we are not aware of what quality we are in then we can be caught in a quality that harms, but through changing the quality of our movements we can live a quality that heals.

The difference that I felt in the two ways – by both practising and receiving a session in each quality – was profound. It was black versus white, chalk and cheese, yet nothing I had considered before that moment. It was the single most foundational teaching of my life.

What happened next was a miracle.

When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had. The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.

Over the following years I gradually felt to refine every part of my life, discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on. The process was gradual and is very much continuing to this day. It is a process inspired by the energetic integrity and quality that Serge Benhayon lives and reflects: a consistent Integrity that has only ever deepened in the past 13 years.

This energetic integrity that I experience from Serge is of such a high degree that even when I may seek for him to give an answer or solution to address something for me, he constantly reflects that I am equal to him and can handle whatever is in front of me. It has meant that the changes in my life are a result of the work, commitment and choices that I have made – inspired through the absolute steadfastness Serge has shown me.

There are many words that reflect the ways in which Serge Benhayon has touched my life – as a Healer, Friend, Presenter, Author, Father, and Business Mentor – but the one that I always come back to is the constant holding of me as an Equal Brother.

By David

Further Reading:
Energetic Responsibility – How Responsible Are We Willing to Be?
SOUL WISDOM – Divine Magic at Play!
Responsibility in the Workplace

509 thoughts on “Meeting Serge Benhayon – Deeply Touched by Energetic Integrity

  1. Yes, equality is something that Serge Benhayon teaches, not because he uses so many words but in the way he moves, speaks and lives – I have observed him over many years and I have seen him treat everyone with the same deep respect, honour and love that I feel when I meet him.

    1. I agree Judith, Serge Benhayon is the first person I’ve met in my life that holds everyone as equal and the same – it is a beautiful quality and very inspiring on many levels.

  2. Due to a back problem I had, I have had many various treatments from different therapists over the years and I hated being asked to strip down to my bra and pants so the Osteopath could clearly see and mark my back prior to treatment. I felt very self conscious and uncomfortable but it seemed to be a necessary part of the process, so I braced myself for what for me was an ordeal.
    Going to see a Universal Medicine practitioner was an entirely different experience I didn’t have to take any clothes off and yet they checked my back very carefully with absolute respect and what is more important my long term back problem has cleared up.

  3. It’s amazing how having the reflection of someone who is really living who they truly are can help us to see things that we may have been defining ourselves by but that weren’t really who we are in essence and from that we have the clarity to see that we can let that falseness go and re-connect back with who we truly are.

  4. The absolute beauty and divinity of meeting Serge Benhayon and being with his presence is a real gift from heaven as he is, for us all, lighting the way for humanity to return to the love and integrity we innately are.

  5. The feeling of ‘coming home’ is also what I have felt in the presence of Serge Benhayon. He holds a space of such love, that it is impossible to not feel the same within myself.

  6. There is a definite quality that comes from being connected to our Soul and as a reflection Serge Benhayon is the providing the space for us all to reconnect to our Soul. Then as equal brothers everything that is shared in this energy gets to be felt by all humanity and this is with everything that Serge presents.

  7. Our accumulated hurts, ideals and beliefs about the world we have created anchor us to a status quo that inhibits our potential to grow and evolve. And until we begin to become aware of this fact and start to discard what is not true we will be held back from living to our full potential.

  8. There is an undeniable quality that Serge Benhayon lives, you cannot help but feel it pervading everything that he does, and likewise, you cannot help but be inspired by it as it reveals that in life there is so much more than what I have settled for.

  9. There is such a joy when we are confirmed in our truth, which is what Serge Benhayon constants reflects.

  10. You don´t know Energetic Integrity before you meet it in its fullest. Meeting Serge Benhayon is such a moment. And even then it takes some time or processing to realize the magnitude of what that actually means, probably we will only understand it in full when we live it ourselves.

  11. One of the things that I never cease to be amazed and inspired at is how every time I see Serge Benhayon, is that he is continuously looking at and adressing how he lives by making adjustments here and there to ensure that he is consistently bringing true integrity and love to everything he does and every one he meets. Serge is such a deep inspiration to so many as he never ceases to ask us to look at our own lives so that we may live that same quality if we chose.

  12. It is true that in all of the courses held by Serge Benhayon that I have attended there has always been an exact precision brought to the details taught to us for when it comes to placing our hands on another persons’ body, this level of integrity is so refined and exquisite it is a joy to learn and to practise.

  13. I remember very clearly the very first time I met Serge Benhayon, it was about 12 years ago when we passed each other on a stairway, I felt his stillness, presence, love and openness and this touched me deeply as I had previously not felt anything like this with another person. Having experienced these same qualities each and every time I have met Serge since, I have come to know the true meaning of what living with energetic integrity looks and feels like.

  14. I can remember having massages on holidays and having the practitioner talking to the other practitioners and there felt like there was little awareness to what they were doing. Energetic integrity is something that is much needed in the world today, as care, love and true nurturing is something we all crave.

  15. Absolutely amen to that David. Integrity of what energy we choose in our lives is fundamental and is causing the ripple effect and progress in life – in one way or the other. As we become more aware of that we in fact have a choice and that all the choices come with energy : we start to observe that we have let certain energies in our lives own us. Universal Medicine was beside me on this path, and still is, as without this support I would be probably still in the withdrawal and unawareness conscious existence of that we in fact have a choice. Hence the multitude of thanks can not be described in words – but is endlessly huge.

  16. Such a beautifull and heartfelt blog. I completely get what you have said after knowing Serge Benhayon for over 11 years especially this ‘The first time I met Serge Benhayon I was deeply touched by the level of integrity that I felt. At the time I did not know what this was or what this word truly meant, but what I could feel was that my whole body was at ease in his presence.’ I too did not know what this word (integrity) truly meant until after meeting Serge. Before knowing Serge I also completed a body massage course and other healing courses and no one running those courses taught me or reiterated to truly respect the body/person I was working with. It was more like, here is a body and this is what you do! Now, I have learnt so so much from what Serge teaches but also in by observing how he moves and is with people, it is a truly blessing and life teaching/lesson that I would say is vital and what every single person should learn first before anything else.

  17. The energetic integrity Serge Benhayon lives in his life is rock solid, that’s why he has detractors intent on destroying his reputation and business because they cannot bear the reflection of a man who lives integrity in such an absolute way as it exposes their lack of this quality.

  18. When I first met Serge, I felt incredibly safe. I knew I could Trust him the moment I met him. Here is a man with complete integrity with an absolute knowing of what is going on energetically.

    1. Met too Susan, I smiled at the fact your trust had a capital T because that is the value I place on trust as well. It is BIG! We know it in our bodies and goes way beyond clever words and outside appearances. Trust is transparent and happy to be seen and felt in full.

      1. I agree Lucy, Trust has been an important aspect in my life (so it comes with a capital T!) and it is something that I do not take lightly… but the Trust I felt from Serge came from my body… my whole body aligned to what he was saying and it was such a strong feeling, it left no room for my mind to doubt it.

  19. It is true inspiration that brings us to gradually refine every part of our life, “discarding all the things that had once anchored me, that once defined me and that I had prided myself on”. The release from that identification in who we think we are, is a very potent shift.

    1. Indeed rosannabianachini, the clearing of our collective pictures to make way for the expression of our natural essence is gloriously freeing and confirming.

  20. David your words bring a deep resonance with me, I too have made life changing changes by being inspired by the amazing man that Serge Benhayon is. Serge reflects the universe and reminds us of who we truly are – and in truth there can be nothing greater then the realisation of the love we are.

  21. It is the absolute integrity that allows for the reawakening of a trust long left behind – integrity is reliable.

  22. I couldn’t agree more David, never in my life have I experienced being held as an equal to the extent Serge Benhayon does, and often if and when I ask a question, I can feel the answer in me before he answers, which tells me then that he is confirming what I had already sensed.

  23. Before meeting Serge Benhayon I also had absolutely no idea what energetic integrity was and like you David from day one, or workshop one, I was taken instantly by the special lived integrity that Serge displayed.

  24. Serge Benhayon reflects and presents a depth of love that most of us are not used to receiving or experiencing. We are met for who we are in a way we are most likely not to have been met before. And for some – this is a challenging ouch moment, because in their face is the fact that this love is something they miss so much. So they turn it around and against – and Serge Benhayon is depicted as the bad guy offering something that is too good to be true, but not true…
    We’ve seen this take place throughout man’s history – a messenger of God offered to mankind for mankind rebuked and ridiculed. Our behaviour has not changed. But what has also remained a constant is our Love even if we throw it away with fervour – the Love that we are simply is, and it waits ever so patiently for that inevitable moment when each one of us will humbly see what we’ve been avoiding and rejecting. This is what Serge reflects and represents – the unwavering, steadfastness of Love in all its glory. Holding us all for an eternity.

  25. “When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had. The emptiness within myself that I had been running away from was raw and in the open.” I can so relate to this David, always after attending a Universal Medicine workshop I return home and begin a process of clearing in my house, my car, my daily activities, it’s a refinement that with greater clarity is responding to what I know will best support me and my family to evolve and express with greater energetic freedom.

  26. My way as a practitioner changed forevermore after experiencing the way Serge honoured me as a client. The way he put the cover on, the way he offered me the space to be myself. There was an “absolute honouring of the client’s body at all times” and this gave me the space to surrender to the support of the table and build a new relationship with myself through the process. I then realised that I could never go back to being unaware of the impact of my touch on my clients and therefore there was a deepening of how I treated myself so it could be natural rather than forced. That felt like integrity to me – transparent and consistent, not compartmentalising my role and my behaviour.

  27. One of the many, many things I admire in Serge Benhayon is his high level of integrity for himself and man kind. I have noticed how the levels of decency and respect towards each other have plummeted in my life time. We seem to have lost even the basic forms of being courteous towards each other as we push and shove people out of the way to get what we want and we want it now. Serge Benhayon is bringing back into our society a way of being with each other that holds the other person with the highest respect because he holds him self with the same utmost respect. I am finding that when we can cherish ourselves it naturally leads to cherishing other people.

  28. The quality of the way we move had been a new consideration for me, yet I too could feel such a difference in the treatments and practitioners I had met through Universal Medicine. I was a practitioner myself and I wondered if I brought this to my clients because if not then I should pay them all back!! It was an honouring that cannot be turned on and off, it came through their way of living and this is something Serge shares in his courses and talks. It is the essence of the Esoteric Practitioners Code of Ethics and an honour to sign up to.

  29. “When I went home many things felt out of place, from how my home was set up, to the way I was working, what I was doing and the many relationships I had”. I very much relate to this David. Walking into my home after attending one Universal Medicine workshop, I felt immediately to clean and clear my home and the process of refining continues. More recently, I was inspired to deep clean and clear my home to provide the support needed to best serve myself and others.

  30. It’s great to embrace new levels of awareness and I remember being afraid of change and trying to have everything stay the same in the past. It was like this was my security blanket and I didn’t want anything to change because I got it to a point where everything was going ok or manageable. What I have realised or become aware of is the pain that kept popping into my life at different points or the unrest I felt was from attempting to hold onto things and not just keep growing or allowing my awareness to expand. I still get caught in patterns but knowing how things feel is a sure sign when something is going on. If I feel an unrest or life doesn’t flow I know to ask the question similar to ‘what’s going on’ and at that point there is an asking, a reflection or an investigation into why my awareness has stopped it’s ever growing expansion.

  31. It is the absolute integrity of a healer when we can say our lives are where they are because of our own choices. Serge Benhayon gives each person the space, the love and the steadfast holding of our essence as equal. A deep commitment to humanity few have tangibly lived.

  32. I too have been deeply touched by the love that Serge Benhayon has held me in (and consistently holds everyone with) – it’s like seeing someone who lives with a deep respect and honouring of themself, a knowing of their worth and in holding you as their absolute equal it supports you to connect with a deeper level of valuing who you are and your potential.

  33. So true David, by his movements the love and integrity is felt to the bone.. With his expression comes an enormous humbleness that allows you to be nothing else than your true self. Now that is astonishing and deeply supportive.

  34. The feeling of returning home is unique. It is one that comes from deep inside us. What we have to be aware is that love, absolute care, respect, integrity and responsibility are features of that we have returned to; home.

  35. When I first met Serge Benhayon it was a bit of a non-affair – or so it seemed. I was completely at ease with him and I had total trust in him. This seemed like a non-affair as it felt completely normal. And it is. Except Serge Benhayon is not the norm. The level of integrity and love that he lives is something quite extraordinary yet I did not find it extraordinary. He shows us what is possible at I am one hundred percent at ease with that and know that one day it will be our normal.

  36. We cannot compartmentalise any area of our lives. How I am with myself I take into every part of my life, it is one in the same. This truth has been revealing to me too in that I have a responsibility to all areas of my life including the foundational relationship with self and not just the parts that suit me and how I am in one area I bring to every part of my life.

  37. Energetic Integrity is not so common in our times, yet it is clearly felt when we connect with someone who lives it in their life. We all are naturally designed to be honest. This is one of the reasons why, no matter how we have been living until that moment, when we receive that reflection from another, we just feel at home.

  38. Serge Benhayon lives energetic integrity in such an absolute way – it is deeply inspiring to watch him live and move consistently in this way.

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